Who Has More Patience, Val or Jess? Trying to Stay Busy While Zoe is at the Groomer

[@lindahorner6295]

The bolts that hold the toilet seat down sometimes need to be tightened. That can be done by hand. You just have to reach underneath and tighten them.

[@debbiehill4248]

Sooooo funny, when it's something for you, umm no I don't think they have it ! When it was a cabinet for Jessica's cards, oh they probably have some... 😂😂

[@Shaping_Serenity]

😂

[@kristabell9095]

I dont have a child or any family that has autism but I just find your channel so informative and I just love how much u love her and how much u care for her I love watching yall and helps me to teach my child what it is and that people like Jess are no different than she is thank u

[@ronpurdom4430]

Hello Jessica, you having a nice day. I like lowe's big store. You have a blessed weekend.. Ron P.

[@nancyschaeffer569]

Best video, just you and Jess talking . You have so much patience. Jess is very intelligent and a good girl . Val are a great mom and so beautiful.

[@samstoneberger9636]

I need Jessica to shop with me. If she could challenge me on whether I need things I might do better! Voice of reason.

[@justasmalltowngirl9430]

She is always so polite,... She says sorry about that...I just love her!

[@101abenefield]

I love how she still calls you mommy!! 😍😍🤗🤗

[@user-pg8uf7hr3z]

Me too.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Me tooo!!!

[@esteeb42]

My son is 37 he calls me Mommy and my 35 year daughter calls me momma...very endearing. They're both married and have beautiful families but...it is special.💞

[@Shaping_Serenity]

@@esteeb42 💗

[@debbiehill4248]

Bless you 😃

[@KeepingItHopeful]

I love how Jessica checks it all out in the store.

[@minniemouse773]

I sure enjoy ur time filming for us; I wish the videos could be longer but I know u have ur hands full.. thank you for sharing your family with us 😊💗

[@lisamiller4943]

Tolet? I love it!

[@janedoe-ex5wo]

I looove your channel and videos. Thank you for letting us into your worlds❤

[@kateflack9968]

You both make me smile so Thankyou for your videos 😃

[@carolinmichigan]

Jess is spot on smart as a whip. God bless her. My son has Aspergers and he just (age 36) moved into a small group type independent living house and is flourishing. I wish your family well.

[@janmyersknight6110]

Bless y'all. ❤️❤️😁😁

[@AuthenticallyCheryl]

Val, you have more patience, hands down!

[@lisamiller4943]

Wish I lived closer. I’d build you a custom shelve with drawers.

[@karencolley-smidt864]

My son has worked for Lowes for several years now.

[@nancyalmonte6334]

“Look what I found... I found some candy” 🥰🥰

[@territ3271]

You may be able to find that lightbulb on Amazon, they also make a lightbulb adapters now because there are so many different changes in the way the bases are made. I was just looking and that might be something you can look into. Thank you for sharing your videos.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

I ended up finding an adapter at Ace Hardware but it didn’t work. The bulb didn’t come on.

[@territ3271]

@@Shaping_Serenity it’s always something isn’t it. They don’t make things like they used to. We are aged to perfection unfortunately not everything else makes it unscathed ha ha ha ha.

[@jodo9296]

I found some candy. Lol. My favorite part of shopping also Jess.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

😄

[@amberrobbins1416]

Hahah she’s so amused lol toilet seats 😆

[@esthers9140]

I think your patience is equal...I hate shopping too Jessica😄

[@Shaping_Serenity]

😄

[@user-pg8uf7hr3z]

Valerie. I'm a Lets go look at ?????? Shopper too. Lol. Bless you both.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

😄 I can make those types of trips last forever whether I need to or not.

[@user-pg8uf7hr3z]

Me too!!!!😂

[@janefrick7154]

Just a suggestion from my past mistake. My husband has a lamp very small lamp that was his grandfathers every few years we have to buy a light for it. And then the day came when we went to go get one and they no longer sell them anywhere. I would buy a couple extra and throw them in my cupboard.💕

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thanks!

[@brettandkelseyray1049]

I think you have more patience until Jess gets impatient then you get even more impatient💚

[@Shaping_Serenity]

😄

[@PossumWrangler]

ABBA is disco music and AMAZING Jess....they are some good ones!

[@Shaping_Serenity]

I suggested to Jess that it may be disco! 💃 🕺

[@Shari-NevadaPuP]

I think this day Jess had more patience LOL Trying to stay busy for 5 more hours is a challenge and for me would be torture to shop for that long. Not a fan of shopping. I had to look up the Caroline's Cart?? I do not believe they have those out here on the West Coast :-/ or at least I have never seen one. What an awesome invention :-)

[@Shaping_Serenity]

😄

[@lisamiller4943]

I need Jess to shop with me and tell me “You don’t need it!”

[@kadymurphy5532]

I love your videos ❣️

[@GhostPepperMeg]

I’m a new sub. How old is Jess? Only seen a few vids but love how you’re getting her into the world at every opportunity, and work on independence!

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Jess is 33.

[@GhostPepperMeg]

@@Shaping_Serenity I loved this vid!!! I find these types of vids so interesting, and, a helpful teaching tool to show my children so they are educated when they are in public how to engage appropriately without staring, etc.

[@tyreesetjjoyner1995]

Good video. Continue on your road on getting that Silver Play Button

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you!

[@debrajohnson4919]

Sweet Jess.

[@mamapenny7744]

Well you're trying Jess! Just kinda ready for Zoe to come home..

[@mamat2u983]

"I didn't know they had toilets in a box" HAHAHA!! She is adorable. :-)

[@Shaping_Serenity]

😂😂😂

[@karaberny5808]

I’m curious about Caroline’a chair. I’ve never seen one in my area. Are they in select states/locations? Who supplies them - the retailer or the community? Do they have to be requested by the user or are they just out and I’ve never noticed? What a great tool to make shopping trips easier for you girls.😄

[@Jessbecause22]

The company requested them if a customer sees the need for one. I work at Kroger and we had several customers request a Caroline’s cart. Just talk to the store manager to see if they can get one.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

They are supplied by the store. Next time you go to a local store, look around for one. If you don’t see one, ask to speak with the store manager and request they get one. Around here, I have found them at Target, Lowe’s, and some grocery stores. They are so nice!

[@webbuzzer1]

Try amazon for your bulb. I get anything l need on Amazon. Google what lamp it is, will tell you what bulb it is. 👍🏻😃

[@PossumWrangler]

PS EBay is also a great resource for old bulbs❤️

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you!

[@debbiekiser7178]

ABBA is good music that's what kind of music it is

[@lisamiller4943]

Get a Honda! They start soooooo easy every time! Electric starts don’t last!

[@autisticrebornmommy]

I agree I’m ready for warmer weather to and it’s disappointing u have to go some ware for the special blob at least u got the other stuff u needed ur both so sweet and nice I love eating ur videos all the time Jessica’s hair tie is so cool with the autism puzzle pieces on it and does Jess like playing with water beads to

[@Shaping_Serenity]

She doesn’t love the texture.

[@nicolekelaher1979]

I love ❤️ you miss Jessica I’m a good one ☝️ xxx

[@tammymurphy7280]

You could go to a place that sales just light fixtures. You may have to go on Amazon. So how was the day. She was upset a little. At least that’s what I thought. How was Zoe when you guys got her. My little baby doesn’t like going to the groomers. It just breaks my heart every time I leave her. So after three hours I start calling them.

[@vikkibyington3066]

.....and the “patience trophy” goes to Val! 😂 The “why, what, when and where trophy” goes to Jess! 😂 still anxious to hear about Zoe’s day! I would like to have a lot of $ and spend the day on Lowe’s. Love it! Hugs to tou both.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

😄❤️

[@brettandkelseyray1049]

You are super woman!! ❤️

[@Julesorjulz]

I know it doesn't matter to the slightest because y'all are beyond amazing. But I always wonder who the heck is actually disliking these videos?! A very sad person 😓🥵

[@Shaping_Serenity]

😄 Yes, a sad person, and no, it doesn’t matter. I usually don’t notice. My thought is that someone who dislikes doesn’t understand the point.

[@Julesorjulz]

@@Shaping_Serenity that is a good point. They're just crispy tater haters 🤣

[@Shaping_Serenity]

@@Julesorjulz 😄

[@misssuzierevis9179]

Amazon Val...and order 3 bulbs or 4!!!

[@DarleneESmith]

Get Jessica Abba their music is great. Also Enya.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

She’s got the Abba CD!

[@carriedadamo]

Is there a number on that light bold ? That might help u

[@Shaping_Serenity]

There is not, other than volts/watts

[@carriedadamo]

Ohhhh ok. ;-( thats stinks. Hope u find it

[@sherryhart519]

Order it from amazon

[@deebarton8303]

@Autistic Interpretation Val if you look at the Light Bulb there should be a number on it and if you put the number on here we goodones will see if we can find it on Amazon etc for you?? Just a suggestion!! I think both of you Val and Jess had a lovely afternoon espicially after you were feeling cold 💗

[@Shaping_Serenity]

I will look again, but last time I tried I couldn’t find one.

[@kerikaykay07]

Val has the most patients of any mom I’ve ever seen you get hit with the same questions day in and day out and trying to keep abreast of what time it is and when lunches and breakfast and the whole gamut

[@Shaping_Serenity]

☺️❤️

[@Wheelstar72]

ABBA is disco music

[@sharonpodorski4687]

Riding backwards would make me sick. Plus she can't see as well. They need to redo carts

[@debnollette7882]

I believe they make them that way to make it easy to safely lift or assist special need kids into the cart. Also it is calming for some to have face to face contact. Younger kids are used to riding backwards in shopping carts. These were designed by experts with all kinds of special needs individuals in mind.

[@tjprice212]

We are at -11🥶

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Brrr!!