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[@Ayaayaayag]

Ok little shay Carl!! 👏🏾👏🏾 your dad used to motivate me like this. 🫶🏾🙌🏾

[@drpepperlvr420]

nahhhh Avia is so Colette coded, she embodies the perfect mentor energy and teaches without judgement 🩷

[@zarismith2484]

@@drpepperlvr420yes literally shes Colette and emmi is shay the

[@Das_Vert]

I sure wish shay would post more frequently. At least we get one of the butlers! Avia coo.

[@qballkkcj]

I was gonna say collete. Lol

[@JessBrain]

I was thinking the same thing ❤

[@antoninagalanina]

I’ve realized a simple thing recently. Every time we call someone “cringe”, that one person is probably just enjoying life and being their own authentic self. That’s it.

[@wendyjenae]

Such wise and deep advice from a young woman who has lived through a lot of extreme highs and some painful lows many of us couldn't fathom. Your mental and spiritual clarity and discipline is respected and you sharing it with us is appreciated.

[@sophiejane838]

Ever since you said “we’re living on a rock” in a few videos back I have kept that mindset and slowly I’m finding myself not caring! Thank you Avia!

[@TeamRangel15]

You know why we are all here Avia? It's because you bring us happiness and joy and positivity. We are surrounding ourselves with you and other Avia supporters ❤

[@gracearnold251]

You are truly are my comfort person. Our positivity and outlook is so similar so just knowing you exist gives me so much comfort. When I do something similar to you me and my friends joke saying I’m doing an “avia”. This is coming from someone who’s 23 and watched your family as I grew up. Your family saved me and taught me happiness was a choice and you are still doing this now. You’re an angel and you deserve all the happiness, love & success❤

[@Bonnema_Bunch]

Even Taylor swift has haters😂❤❤🎉

[@loveykms05]

Sounds like she's moving away from Mormon religion...been there and done that. Religious people are the most judgemental! Love you Avia...be free! That's how I felt growing up Mormon and senior year, don't care what anyone thinks completely changed me! My circle is so small and they love me for me!

[@mackenzieheffel8043]

she talks about still being apart of the church a lot. i think she just follows god in her own way and doesn’t worry about what others think of her who are apart of the religion, and we love that for her!!!

[@Fairyfundip]

It’s like when i’m not on social media on much i’m so much more happier and confident and loving myself and then when i get sucked back into social media i’m comparing myself like no other! So i definitely agree on that one🧚

[@Aprriill123]

I love the “because we live on a rock” 😂😂😂😂❤️❤️

[@lonkey22]

Ngl. I never thought I’d be this motivated from someone I’ve grown up watching grow up!. I’m damn near 30 and I’ve watched your family since the beginning. So glad you picked up the reigns on vlogging and this motivated the heck out of me. Keep being you!

[@mihiarohamakua6962]

i dont have any words to express how this made me feel, Avia u are so motivational and inspirational it makes me want to sob. ilysm

[@stephenwebster8956]

You're bang on with your comments Avia and it's good to see such wisdom in somebody of such tender years as yourself. Concentrate on making yourself feel happy and good, then if you have the time and inclination you can share the love and joy with others. Life is but a fleeting blimp of time so make the most of the time you have, anything can happen to anyone at any time so live, love and enjoy!.

[@luvloonette]

please post more videos like these! im in ms and lack self confidence but this genuinely made me feel sm better!! 💕

[@kpoplover2757]

Avía make a podcast I can literally hear you all day you motivate and lift my self-steam so much I watch you grow up into such a wise smart young lady ❤

[@Jennifoofoo]

I love this Avia :) and for the people questioning, I think this is more tied to self confidence vs completely disregarding what others think. If we truly lived without any care of what others thought we’d be in a lot worse places. However boosting self confidence and self esteem make us less sensitive to the judgements of others around us. ❤

[@kglrtheroche]

I love your passion. Here are couple other things to think about: 1. Should we really cut toxic people out and surround ourselves with like-minded people? Maybe to a certain extent. Healthy boundaries are good for us but it’s extremely important for development/growth to have loving respectful relationships with people who aren’t like-minded. 2. Can you really trust yourself? Should we really follow our heart? The heart is deceitful among all things and desperately wicked. Often times our strongest desires are not our deepest desires. 3. Should we really not care what people think? Wouldn’t that be a bit selfish and egotistical to consider your wants/desires superior to others, especially if those whom are more wise or experienced? I recommend a book called “Rethink yourself” by Trevin Wax. I love your videos and I truly did loved hearing all this from you. I’m just respectfully challenging you a little bit.

[@sienna1708]

It feels like collette is talking to 10 yr old me ❤️ love that as I’ve grown I still hear these motivational talks as your parents have passed that trait onto you

[@anabellel5701]

Oh, Avia, I'm SO VERY HAPPY that you had such a powerful and IMPORTANT epiphany at such a young age! Mind you, by realizing this, you're leaps and bounds ahead of everyone that has ever bad-mouthed you and you should be so proud of yourself--your parents are definitely proud, too! Of course, they're amazing role models, so it's no coincidence that you are as brilliant and sharp-minded as you are. You're doing a great deal of good by sharing these experiences with other young people your age because most people who treat people poorly by gossiping or putting them down never grow out of this behavior until something life-changing happens to them to make them change their bad habits. My goodness, you are going places!!! You have absolutely NOTHING to worry about with such a strong head on your shoulders! You're going to rule the world, AVIA!!! I wish you the best of luck!!!

[@rob.mckahan]

I truly wish and hope this video comes across to people who need it. So many people in this world now a days need to not only hear all this but really implement a lot of these things

[@maidahairabedian5435]

Girllll I’m 35 and I needed to hear this!! Thank you 🙏🏼

[@holliejones8081]

Avia girl i literally love you, you've made me more motivated than ever and really have changed my whole mindset on life with your videos, ughhh i just want to hug you

[@bFishstix]

I so needed to hear this!!! Thank you Avia!! You are inspirational just like your father and mother. Keep being you!! ❤

[@taliajustine]

you are wise beyond your years, you will find your people! all good things come with time

[@madssmithh]

I cannot thank you enough for this Avia. I've been going through a really difficult time deciding what to do from September and have been thinking too much on how others will judge me on it but this has changed my view so much!! I am going to restart University and be a teacher, because I WANT TOO AND NO ONE CAN JUDGE ME FOR THAT, even if I am a year behind everyone else. I've watched you since you were little on Shaytards and followed you onto your own channel and you are such a beautiful girl inside and out. I love you girl, so much 💕

[@TaliaInFilm]

This video made me feel so much more comfortable with myself. PLEASE make more of these Avia!! You're amazing!

[@fruityyaries]

avia, i love ur inclusivity in ur videos ♡ (mentioning 'they' and 'whatever u are'; means a lot)

[@U2bSurfN2]

“Comparison is the thief of joy” that’s awesome! This vlog was great!

[@remyxiong4584]

I really care about you avia and your videos make everyone proud

[@rebornbabylover1000]

Aviaa!! You´re such an angel, I really love your videos and the beautiful vibe you always leave me, pls never stop making these you make me so happyy!!

[@Jooaneee]

Just want I needed! Thank you, Avia. ❤️ You’re beautiful, inside and out! I’m certain that you have a bright future ahead you, don’t ever lose your glow ✨

[@maggiereed7864]

Been struggling hard with this lately and kept thinking back to Shay’s quote, “happiness is a choice” and I think you were the perfect person to give me this pep talk 🤍🙌🏻 your dads speeches got me through the most difficult time in my life in high school 🤍 thank you for this reminder!

[@maggiemackenzie6505]

I really needed this today thank you! You are honestly a gem and even though you are a lot younger than me I look up to you!

[@ryann8195]

Avia, I just want you to know that this truthfully helped me. I am currently in a situation that I don't even know how to get myself out of. They have been my friends since what feels like the beginning of time but I don't know how to back away appropriately. Thank you for sharing this, and thank you for TELLING me this. I feel that you always post when I need you the most through difficult times. I appreciate you always. I used to compare myself to you a lot. Now I am going to say I look up to you and live MY life because I didn't understand that before now. So thank you for once again TELLING me this.

[@RandomSkitts]

You have learned a lot for being so young. That's amazing.

[@brookehendrix6792]

It’s hard for me to do things alone. I feel like I need people around me. After high school I lost all my friends and I don’t know how to be my own friend and love myself. I keep trying to find new friends instead of letting them come into my life and just taking time for myself:(

[@fullhouseyep]

avia!! you're amazing and i love how inspirational you are. Your videos always come at just the right time, going through some things now with some friends/relationships, this couldn't be better timing

[@ambootique]

Holy moly Avia! I wish at my age now (not telling cause it makes me old 😂) that I had your mindset. I definitely didn’t have it at 18. You miss ma’am, are wise, and you have such an awesome, positive personality! Please always hold on to your truths! Literally this was like listening to your mom or your dad and I absolutely love it! KEEP BEING YOU!

[@colleenreimer]

Yesss girl! I hope you always remember these things!

[@melrose3429]

Avia, i literally have no words you are so inspiring ugh thank you i love your rants! ❤

[@eileenfobert6685]

Please make more of these! I love you Avia!!

[@RonnieFarrellofficial]

Avia is a Queen and her videos are always amazing

[@real.anameria1927]

Needed this, thank you

[@_tommydrew_]

so grateful for you and your wisdom avia

[@tyauni4027]

You uploaded this video at the most perfect time. Thank you for sharing what you've learned Avia! ❤

[@karenrenteria1578]

I admire you soo much. You are soo young and wise. ✨

[@carringtonblakely]

I love you so much Avia! Thank you for being you! I ABSOLUTELY love your videos and you inspire me so much🫶🏻

[@Darkice23]

I would love to see more inspirational videos like this its wonderful and very helpful ❤you are such a beautiful person.

[@Dmsh60]

This video came at the time i needed it thank you avia❤

[@giseleguzman_]

Honestly thanks Avia I honestly needed to hear this for than ever I’m starting a new job soon and I’ve been over thinking it lately but it’s my life I’m choosing what I wanna do finally

[@noorseelawi6307]

I love these kind of videos especially from you avia keep on going💕💕

[@valeryjeanette7558]

I absolutely loved this video! I stumbled upon your channel probably a week ago and absolutely adore your videos! I truly appreciate your energy, and advice that you share. I genuinely think thank if you started a podcast it would do so so well! Sending you lots of love 🫶

[@Adriftraindrop_]

I love these type of videos from u Avia ❤

[@barrettproductions925]

This popped up just at the right time, thank you ❤

[@juliadolimpio8458]

i love you and videos like this so please continue making them if u enjoy it!❤️

[@betsydiaz6301]

avia girl THANK YOU for this video literally from the deepest part of my soul

[@heatherparrish1751]

how are you not a motivational speaker? you speak so well and mature.

[@VyMaree]

Love this. so inspiring. Thank you girl!! ❤️

[@Jennylove.]

Avia, you are so genuine and such a wonderful and insightful, inspiring young woman! Keep being a wonderful human! ❤️💯

[@Thepetals81]

I am saving this video for when I need some pep talk/affirmations... Thank you Avia ❤

[@antoniorossiz]

I'm excited to see what you do with that new approach.

[@user-wl1bq6ho9p]

You're so inspirational ❤️

[@katgirl1921]

such good advice i had to get rid of my ex best friend because she was always rude putting down people or just jealous of others all the time i could not deal with it anymore. i spend more time with family and iam so happy and i journal about all the good times we have together and put pictures of them in my journal and love looking back on all the fun we have had together

[@ellieg3709]

Avia, you are so right... l hope you have a long and happy life.

[@loris.1508]

From a very likeminded 22 year old who is working on rewiring her brain in a similar way: YES, LET'S FINALLY JUST BE OURSELVES! ❤ (Still trying to master my fear of the unknown but we can do it. I know we can!)

[@annaj4142]

Aves…. We need a podcast hahahaha. Your videos are ALWAYS so motivating and help me personally so much with everything going on in my life. Thank you for the aesthetics, the advice, the girl talk, all of it. I appreciate every second of your videos.

[@anishainprogress]

Just all of this 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@lindseylovesrootbeer]

really needed an avia pep talk

[@tagbon]

Fantastic advice

[@NominePatris]

I hope all your followers are listening to you, really listening

[@Antoniaxoxo222]

I truly enjoyed and needed this video thank you ava

[@bethanyrose8112]

please make a podcast! I would listen to every episode 💛💛

[@AbiKumaus-lp6or]

this is exactly what I needed to hear

[@emilycgardiner]

Wisdommmm my girl! Such a liberating concept

[@MattPalka]

I just finished Brené Brown's book on emotions and meaningful connection called Atlas of the Heart and these lessons you mentioned definitely resonate! I highly recommend her book and other podcasts and content for thinkin on this stuff.

[@tyreesetjjoyner1995]

Good video. Much love and respect to you, Avia. Dreams do come true

[@hayathashi7986]

Thank you avia I needed to hear this I really don’t care what other people think and say and sometimes I do but theses day I been enjoying life and doing what I want to do without people’s opinions 😂thank you for always reminded me that people are focused on their own lives why the hell would they focus on me they don’t know me 😅 I always live by this ‘’ why should you care what others say/think about you when you don’t even know them that sounds ridiculous 😅 especially on social media and on tiktok and instagram just ignore and block them you know yourself better then other people do , so just enjoy life don’t beat yourself too hard about the past it happen move on to better and good things 👍🏾

[@dadams512]

Good one Avia. Thanks for sharing what's on your mind. It's a very important message.

[@BillyAdkins2024]

Great advice from an awesome young lady!

[@lilyrosemary7344]

Comfort youtuber☹️Thank you for being so motivating

[@latifaabdullah1_]

Avia you are amazing! This is what I can say after seeing your opinion on the subject

[@brittanycabral8829]

Omg please start a podcast! Even if it’s just you in your car!

[@brandondowlen1836]

Love this content and this video, Avia! ❤️ I don't care what other people, either.

[@GabeVeasey]

Well said Avia, well said.

[@naiacasaus4322]

really have been looking up to you and your videos! i’ve been wanting to start youtube but idk what’s stopping me , anyways love your vids 🩷

[@ulvertlester8399]

Your a wise soul young lady

[@joelogarrio5167]

very inspiring and uplifting 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@miguel031795]

You’re perfect ❤❤

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Hi Avia happy Monday afternoon and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

[@lizabines_]

thank you avia.

[@Jackert86]

You👏🏻are👏🏻amazing 👏🏻🙏🏻❤️

[@leesa3579]

You go girl ❤

[@sophiecostabile4313]

We need a podcast Avia pleaseeee

[@sarahyugovich]

words of wisdom

[@verdiana.Catherine_24]

love this Avia and honestly you should start a podcast.

[@chadrs157]

you ROCK avia!!🍎🤘✌

[@phynx2006]

Love you Avia 😍👍

[@sambillingsley2377]

Yes please I would love some more videos thanks

[@ortee-gb8zd]

I love your KZbin videos.

[@michellefairy5073]

you should do more like this

[@katykatykatykaty]

Queen Avia