Avoid These People in Thailand

[@theoldmaninthailand]

Whoa! Have watched you from day 1. What you’ve done for folks there is awesome. I’m 65, in shape, feel young,, love life. Have been to the Kingdom a number of times. Have friends, “expats” same age retired there that are far from what you describe. They appreciate , love and respect where they’re at. Never take it for granted. Please don’t catagorize us older guys. Still a bunch of us good guys…

[@kippsguitar6539]

yes, his remarks are more toxic than the people he is criticizing, I met loads of great retirees

[@beverlyweber4122]

I am old too, but I think he is speaking to whom we have all seen on these forums. Cranky pants old farts. Might be a few young ones as well who get their rocks off trolling folks for fun.

[@cahillgreg]

It's mostly jaded whinging poms - some are great people but their is a large number of lost souls bemoaning existence and they are something to just scrap off your shoes should you run into them

[@Scenescout55532]

There will be more and more good guys going to places like Thailand to try to escape the fall of the West. However the odds of a cohesion interesting or dynamic enough to have ever made a difference in the West or taken hold in the mainstream there (and let's be honest, that's all that would finally satisfy us) is vanishingly small. There's a part of ourselves that we have to forget or ignore to make the good guy gatherings more than a suicide watch. The best we can do, really, is to go it alone with Nietzsche and see what happens.

[@ed209d2]

He didn't "categorize" the older guys! But exactly who he described are the worst offenders! Also being unfit & out of shape has a lot to do with it! The Brits seem to be the worst lot for some reason??

[@stanleyhaley4151]

First came to Thailand with US Army in 1970 and stayed five years, married a local and had two children. Fast forward to 2021, finishing up a 7 month visit in NE Thailand in a quiet village with chickens and ox as neighbors. Had two beautiful and loving Thai women, one for 30 years, another for 11 years. Lord took both of them before their time. Last 14 years have been making yearly visits for months at a time. At 72 years old, Thailand is still for me; Family, Friends, Food, and Fun!!! I stay away from distractors!!!! Love watching your videos. Keep it up!!!

[@stanleyhaley4151]

@Paul Simmonds both kids and the 7 grandkids reside in the USA and is the reason I rotate back and forth between home and Thailand. The best f both worlds.

[@randallbrowning7530]

Hi Forrest. Thank you for your insight and sharing your travels! I think the explanation for toxic expats is pretty simple. People take their misery with them wherever they go. Thailand is no exception. I lived as an expat in Mexico for 20 years and I found the same type of people, those that wouldn't learn the language or culture, and complained a lot. The worst is that many people move to a place because they like the idea of it, rustic, exotic, or whatever, and then immediately try to change everything to be more like the places that they are getting away from! I think this is just an endemic characteristic of human nature. I would like to add that I am 66, can't afford to retire in the US, and will be moving to Thailand in a few years, so I fit the profile (superficially) of the people you are talking about. I will also add that I am married to a wonderful woman from Thailand, and have never been happier. My wife is a treasure and I swear that they so not make humans better than her. She is from a village in the north east near Laos and has traditional Buddhist values, which I treasure. I am saying all of this because it is not quite accurate to paint us all with the same brush. But I also appreciate your advice! Thank you. Keep up the great insight and good things that you do.

[@khunyindee]

I am a youthful 76 year old and agree that there are a boatload of toxic expats here in LoS. What I don’t agree with is classifying the by age, ethnicity, or nationality. I guess Forest made those distinctions because the people he happended to encounter fit into those particular boxes. However, I have run into these kind of folks who represent all age groups and nationalities. There are just as many young a_ _ho_ _s as there are older ones.

[@tvtriviachampion]

I noticed the same thing when I moved to Thailand to retire. I love Thailand and was shocked to hear people complaining. At first I tried to engage in conversation and show them that they should appreciate how good it is here but eventually I learned it’s better to avoid these miserable toxic people. Your theory is probably correct. Also, some people just love to complain. Thanks for highlighting that their behavior is ridiculous.

[@thomasalison6188]

That's a big complaint I hear often, & see it on the Thai forums, toxic foreigners, & trolls. Choose your friends wisely when in Thailand! Thanks for the tip on the coffee shop!

[@30AndAWakeUp]

I've been KZbin travel vlogging all over the world for 3 years now. Only time the hate comes out is when I hang out in Thailand. I don't get it but whatever. Great take!

[@pookahhead2635]

U bonehead elite visa puppet! TU🤑

[@DavyPJ]

I love the way you make your videos...down to earth, relaxed.....transparent. Easy to watch...Thanks Forrest!😀

[@giarcnella66]

Maybe this also sheds some light on this phenomenon. I’ve found there are two kinds of expats living in Thailand: 1) Those who move to Thailand and become integrated (as much as possible) into the country, the people, and have a motivation and enthusiasm to ‘experience’ Thailand. And 2) Those who move to Thailand, and segregate themselves amongst other expats and exist within a bubble, not venturing out or exhibiting any curiosity about their adopted home. The latter by definition means their world is going to be SMALL and limited.

[@vincentx845]

you found "2 types" good on you for your expertise...

[@stanleyhaley4151]

What I really believe happened for the last 20 years is that Thai Immigration and government started to close loop holes for those on retirement visas, demanding proof of income and savings to qualify to remain in Thailand. This, in addition to require health insurance while here increased the expense of staying permanently here in Thailand. Yes, your retirement money can go further here in Thailand but you also need to adjust your life style and live within your means.

[@CrazySquirrelProductions]

Glad you made this video. I've been trolled by a guy from the UK on a fb group in Thailand who's toxic. Thailand or Korea is my next move. One day I will tell you about my experience living in France. Stay safe.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Great video my friend and yes there is a lot of hate and jealousy here, far too much. I spend most of the spare time I can in the village up country with my family and it like stepping into a time warp. Keep up the good work mate....

[@Surgicalsensei]

Avoid all negativity online in general.

[@kippsguitar6539]

wasnt he extremely negative with his nasty criticism?

[@TheOrphicLyre]

Great content. I'm coming to have a look at Thailand and Bangkok with a potential view to stay longer later on. The tips this channel provides are gold.

[@andrewrayappan9641]

Appreciate your videos very much.

[@gabe2045]

Great video, enjoyed it!

[@arentol99]

Agree 100%. I've been an American expat here in the Philippines for the last 16+ years. A LOT of expats here fit the profile you outlined to a tee: older, jaded, and a veritable pit of melancholy designed to sap the life & light out of all they touch. Your advice is spot-on... avoid them at all costs. These are the proverbial know-it-alls and vehemently look down on the local culture. Whether it's Thailand or the Philippines, they're all the same.

[@eiooops]

Another good video👍

[@tammiebryant9389]

Forrest, thanks for the information as it is very informative. It is good to learn all the little things that are common when moving to a new country. I will be watching your other videos and taking notes. This will help me to make a more informed decision about moving there. Have a great week.

[@ikakau]

Good video, what you say is very true and even though I am of that age range I rarely gather with ex-pats. i am mixed Asian/Polynesian so I’m usually not as easy to identify as an ex-pat until I say something. There is enough negativity in the world that I don’t need to feed into or be fed by that, life is too short. Thai people, food and culture are amazing and I am enjoying life here and hopefully there are like minded ex-pats out there. I enjoy your videos, keep up the good work.

[@Brian_Homer]

I'm a 60 retire person and I couldn't agree with you more. On my first trip to Thailand, I met a retired American expat that was just like that. I don't think it was more than 10 minutes after I met him and he started talking crap about another local American expat, who happened to be a KZbinr. I think most of those guys are just like you said, the only reason they're in Thailand is financial. They're not in Thailand because they want to be in Thailand. I can assure you, this 60 year old expat will not be one of them. Great video. HOOAH!

[@Brian_Homer]

@Andrew Somethin' I can assure you, there are angry expats from lots of western countries.

[@fgh6526]

Your videos are so useful and interesting! Good work bro.

[@difencrosby]

I’m surprised those type of trolling expats would harass you. They tend to leave me alone when they figure out I’m half Asian.

[@eduardochavacano]

yes, when Europeans learn I’m not American, I’m the life of the party.

[@josephkelly1594]

Excellent video and very accurate.

[@DaveTalksBusiness]

I am moving to Thailand in 12 days to start my business. So excited! I'm gonna vlog the whole adventure. Thanks for the warning about the grumpy old men!

[@ytnoni01]

Forrest Lee you are funny but informative. I love it.

[@Myfilipinaqueenandpersianlion]

I love your straight talk!

[@NiallThailand]

I think it’s a mixture of boredom and also resentment. They come to Thailand and after the novelty of it is over, they discover that there isn’t a lot to do when you are living on a budget. The resentment particularly toward digital nomads and backpackers is because they think that they have been robbed. They think, I worked hard to afford to retire in Thailand, there was no WhatsApp, or digital marketing, email may have been around 30 years ago but was not widely used. So the concept of working remotely wasn’t an option for them. They resent that people can enjoy the advantages of living in Thailand, while also earning a western salary.

[@kippsguitar6539]

boredom is absolutely true but there is no need to categorize people in the way he did, he comes across as very bitter

[@Kinai89]

I like a series of your video, thank you

[@robwhite3037]

Thank-you for your heads-up Forrest!!

[@uncledaybkk]

I've been to Thailand twice and I couldn't agree with you more. I have met plenty of them! As a matter of fact...there are even some younger ones from time to time. Great video.

[@Abraham_Tsfaye]

They are from UK, Australia, NZ, Australia, US these are toxic toxic people stay away from them.

[@gu411230]

Well said... your candour is refreshing.

[@Traveler-PKK]

Go Live up in Chaingmai FEB to APR during the burning season so you can share your experience with your subscribers.

[@kesayo]

Yeah I agree with that theory. The people who go to a country because they are attracted to the culture, the food and the people tend to have a better outlook and want to become part of that society. The people who go to a country for the cheap sex and cost of living are going to complain when it's not exactly like their own country except everything is cheaper.

[@kippsguitar6539]

yes but a minority as in every place

[@alexryan9869]

I’ve known a lot of people like that and I don’t like them, I like a quiet peaceful existence. I’ve met both men and women that are that way. That’s why I’m looking at moving. I’m not moving because my retirement is to low, I’ve got a good retirement. I’m tired of the negative people in the U.S. . There’s a lot of good retired older men I’m sure but the bad gives everyone a bad reputation. Your absolutely right that we should be avoiding toxic people.

[@LibertyLover5103]

Great Video & advice . My age fits the group you were talking about but I love the weather, I love the Food, I love the Thai people. Have yet to meet a Thai I detest. Only a few Lazy blokes both Thai & Westerners. that go out of their way to be lazy are my only pet peeves. I think I'd be most happy living in a fishing village working on the water daily.

[@davej2390]

I agree with you and Chris, and thanks for sharing.

[@gregguercio7404]

I hear you Forrest! My wife and I just landed on our first day out of Bangkok quarantine. First day here is Seka -could easily had me complaining from our lifestyle in Southern California. But I knew what I was walking into since I have had a few visits here already. I embrace the slowed down version of life, and I do not need 300 channels on TV to make me happy. The lack of stress levels here is striking. Just roll with it and smile.

[@genokemp2433]

Well said Greg 👍

[@trailrunningexperience496]

20 year expat here - Japan/Thailand/Vietnam/HK and Malaysia. Agree with you completely … learned fast to avoid those who just want to bag others. I get tight with locals asap to make sure I have real support if something goes wrong. And love helping new arrivals with vibes to thrive too. Lots of this ‘sissy boy’ type still in nimman.

[@channawijenayake4648]

I was born in Sri Lanka but American citizen and lives in California for 40 some years. My wife and I are thinking of buying a Condo in Thailand for vacation and retire someday. So, I have been watching your videos. Thank you for the honesty. You are correct about some of the expats living in south Asia. It's the same in Sri Lanka too. What I have noticed was most of the time they are from UK. My thought was maybe because England used to occupy that part of the world too. So, when they go retire maybe some (not all) feel they still own that place?

[@peterthermocline]

You are spot on about those Toxic Expats, Naysayers.

[@eduardochavacano]

this very common line “Phuket was better in the 1970s” or “Pattaya was so much better 30 years ago” and that is the start of a 45 minute monologue where the young traveler who made the mistake of greeting them in some lobby will be drained of all its life force, optimism, and faith in humanity.

[@peterthermocline]

@@eduardochavacano spot on👌🍺🍺

[@gilbertfierro98]

Lol, that cannabis shop is great content 😁

[@Traveler-PKK]

Krabi is cool! - Head down to it and do the island tours. You can see the same islands (about 10) if you stayed in Phuket but it cheaper to stay in Krabi (Ao Nang Beach). Also, you can get to Railay Beach by hiking over the mountain or taking a long tail boat. You should go while the tourist are not around - once in a life time experience because of no tourist. It sucks when all the tourist pack into this area. So, I hope you get a change to check it out. You can fly from BKK to Krabi then take a mini van to Krabi - Ao Nang Beach. Ao Nang Beach is only 15 minutes south of Krabi City. A lot of places to stay and a lot cheaper then staying in Phuket to do island hoping. Enjoy!

[@jeremysky7708]

Love Krabi my new spot. So chill, beautiful and cheap.

[@briansan2]

Excellent bro,,,,,You hit many things on the head about many unhappy falangs living here ...I am from Hawaii...have lived in Thailand 21 years...I do avoid meeting falangs as I am 100 % happy with my more mellow Thai friends...Aloha...Brian

[@Angus_Stewart]

Nice advice Bro - I'll visit O's next time I'm in the city 🙏

[@SomeRandomIndvl]

My experience is that miserable people bring their misery with them. People move far to change their environment or circumstances. What some don't realize is that they are bring themselves with them. Wonderful people will be wonderful wherever they go.

[@MithilanchalMadhubani]

Thank you for the video

[@Leeadam73]

There's lots in Canada too. The amount of toxic/negative feedback we got when looking to emigrate.

[@jonathanmortimer2279]

I’m jaded and old at 46 and planning to head off to Thailand at 60. I am currently working at my second mortgage and then my third completed by 60. I plan to still be one of those toxic individuals with 3 lots of rent coming in each month for a retirement pension and having lots of fun for it. And when I can’t manage it anymore sell up and get dividends on the lump sum. Can’t wait to be a 60 plus individual in Thailand and completely toxic. At least it will avoid staring at the TV at the X factor and strictly come dancing throughout the winter months in the U.K. I think you provide a ridiculously simplistic analogy.

[@davewave36]

Toxic Person: !!**^^$^#@$$ Wise Person: I decline your gift of negativity

[@eric7639]

Hit the nail on the head man! American. I’ve been coming here for years. Retired at 40. Been living here 6 months or so now? I totally avoid the crowd you are referring too! Another set you left out is the toxic youtubers. Watching them trash each other is kinda funny. I didn’t work hard 20 years to retire young to surround myself with any of that! So many better things to do in Thailand than to sit at some hole in the wall and shit talk everyone and everything. I think a lot of it comes from not making enough money as you said. Things are cheaper here yes, but I think a lot of people embellish that. Maybe they feel duped? Idk or care. Keep up the good work man. 🙏🏼

[@bj-th7ul]

I've enjoyed watching several of your presentations. I think I'd enjoy a Thailand vacation… the heat and humidity (& foreignness - to me) would be challenging, but the food, culture and value even in a hot and humid paradise is tempting. That's what draws me to watching KZbin presentations about SE Asia. After thinking more about this presentation… you should hang on to this one as a reminder of living on the edge in your younger years... I see a lot of unintentional perfection in this one... with its well intended heads up & good nature. Yep, good presentation value here in much of the content… & the helmet and burning season comments also scored well, thank you. Thanks for sharing, stay safe, enjoy

[@midnightsunturbo]

New subscriber here from American Minority video. How much Thai do you speak or understand?

[@apoloestrada2908]

Good video, Mr. Forrest, seems like you've been in Thailand forever & appreciate for the advice so are you still on STV? My original plan is to arrive on February 2022 & I push it till May 2022 so hopefully we don't have to wear mask & socially distancing.

[@babimarketth5290]

in Bangkok riding without a helmet is regularly checked by police...when order a grab they have to have an extra helmet as by company policy...motorbike taxis in orange jackets usually not have an extra helmet with them, but they are available at their station..

[@michaelviglianco6121]

As am American who typically spends 5 months a year in Thailand I agree 100%. I try to avoid expats as much as possible outside a very few good friends...even though I sort of am one.

[@eduardochavacano]

If you guys think the old white expat is toxic, wait till you encounter retired Asians from North America. Expats from Scandinavia are always nice regardless of age and the Italians should be allowed to rant all they. They sound nice with their accent.

[@frankeastwood722]

Met a lot of good xpats down here. The toxic ones are easily avoided. Like you said, they’re mostly broke. Always looking for the world’s cheapest chang. Norwegians are mostly on good pensions and can easily live a good life down here.

[@kippsguitar6539]

bad people everywhere, thats the world, by criticizing them we are just as bad

[@frankeastwood722]

So, we should just shut up?

[@restlesssoles19]

I think that you are generalizing just a bit, although I have encountered trolls as you described; Some older and some younger. Some old guys think that they know it all, and troll expat pages attacking anyone who doesn't display "local knowledge". Yet I have also encountered some younger expats who do the same thing, calling names and acting as if they know it all as well. They are just a joke to me, and I feel sorry for them as they will bring misfortune on themselves eventually. I am a positive thinker, and there isn't room for negativity, no matter the source...

[@kippsguitar6539]

you are right, his attitude is just plain ageist and nasty, dont people already know they should avoid idiots?

[@timtpr7104]

Great advice. Be very careful of information one divulges to other foreigners even if you think it's harmless. Jealously and pettiness abounds.

[@lutherjones503]

I do think you are correct that there seems to be this group of older bitter expats. I do take issue with what you said about expats moving to Thailand who retire and live in savings or pension due to that they can’t retire comfortably in their native country. I am planning to be an expat next year in Bangkok and frankly it’s too dang expensive in America. (That in itself does not make one bitter it’s just reality ) . I appreciate your videos as they help me prepare for my move to Bangkok. Toxic expats in Bangkok(spoiler alert most seem to be digital no mads ) I have discovered are of all ages They should leave in my opinion go where they can be happy. I love that you have videos interviewing expats that like Thailand. These videos of yours have been most helpful. They help me think of things that I may have not thought of and I thank you for that

[@Abraham_Tsfaye]

They are from UK, Australia, NZ, Australia, US these are toxic toxic people stay away from them.

[@toknnomad1424]

These cafes are making me want to get there faster...

[@PaulA-kr1nl]

I take people as they are - one at a time. I think it colors one's perspective to paint certain group of people in the same broad brush. I hope you'll find many older guys and gals who will provide you rich and interesting perspective. Good luck and enjoy Thailand.

[@spellerlittlewing]

Do they still have cyber cafe there Here in NYC their all gone

[@tysoncodes]

He tried to pull him over because you were not wearing a helmet. Please understand, it's illegal.

[@ubiquitousdiabolus]

Sounds like you had a recent experience with at least one of these people.

[@danbenson2085]

Hi, I'm a 68 year old American and I have only been to Pattaya 1 time and hoping to go back in Nov. 2022. I love the Thai weather and the culture. I respect the people and they have been so kind to me. I know how U feel about some of us old people but please don't judge us all from a few assholes. They are everywhere!!! I like your videos and I subscribed. Your doing well, take care, hope to meet U someday if U go to Pattaya!!

[@JayDKBGames]

BRO you got LIT quick its clear as day thats some Potent ish

[@Lamexicanaentailandia]

What is the name of the cannabis place?

[@jd15469]

Your hair looks good bro

[@robertkolleck1508]

I am 68 and okay with myself and have been coming to Asia military and civilian for 48 years. When I meet a person that dislikes the locals I say go back home, if they reply they can't afford it, I will say when in home country crawl beneath a rock and have someone bring you bread and water every few days.

[@remote3652]

I met an old guy in Bali from the UK who asked me if I was a scammer. Later I found out this guy didn't have money to drink, so the bar would have him do I owe you's lol. You will see people like this in Bali as well.

[@kennor5227]

I've been a retired expat for 7 years. Most retirees are decent people, but there is a percentage that are miserable to be around. I don't think it's necessarily about money, maybe for some. I think generally they were unhappy in their past lives and brought all that baggage with them.

[@sonic070]

u are totally right

[@Bigpicturefinance]

Youre funny dude. Super blunt haha. So how did you end up om Thailand? I'm thinking of moving

[@vincentx845]

Why is it ok to make a blanket statement about the ages? Substitute "black" for old and see how that sounds. I'm in that age group and nothing like you describe. Been 3 times and always respect the culture. These people are few but you want to lump them in your little box. Ageism is racism.

[@Boddav]

Not just in Thailand. This mentality can be found right in your own back yard.Bitterness is universal and uncurable.

[@krittametphothong7002]

Was that a coffee or tea (cha dum yen)? Looks like it was a cha dum yen to me. Greeting from Nakhon Ratchasima!

[@michaelportwood2450]

I have a fifty eight year old white man. Can't wait to go to thailand and meet the people. Level set in just fine. And I don't deal with negative toxic people at all. I believe in love and unity. I want to enjoy my last days. N peace is much as I can. And meet new friends

[@Jarptchow85]

Yes avoid ALL negative people. Doesn't matter where you are and where u from.

[@jeangabin7340]

The bike driver saved you from paying a fine for not wearing a helmet.

[@JohnLadda]

So true...first year I moved here I was on different forums to get more info about everything in my new country thailand. Quickly deleted everything just because of the reasons you mentioned. Just toxic people. 🙏

[@AbroadInThailand]

Haha this is spot on! These jaded old retired expats always get on my nerves. Hope to meet up for a coffee when I'm back in Bangkok!

[@kippsguitar6539]

i hope you dont get disrespected when you become one

[@GeeCeeWU]

@@kippsguitar6539 Good comment, I hate it when people categorise you because of your age, status or any other reason.

[@antzw]

I was under the impression dope is now legal?

[@jasonwebb3444]

Very giod vid hope people watch as your spot on i live in buriram in a village no xpacks very close and thai people and always happy you speak the truth 100% i find this myself

[@soidogcowboy3282]

Tried to pull him over to give you a ticket for no helmet. Please wear one. :)

[@KhunErik]

The video is called Avoid these people in Thailand...... Avoiding bib should be your first priority :-)

[@theruggedtravelers]

You are definitely right, there is a certain type. I see it in Costa Rica as well as in Thailand. Miserable no matter where they are. Every country has its issues, but Thailand has a certain chill vibe about it, much like Costa Rica. All those in the comments saying Forrest's comments are just as toxic are just picking fights. Go on any expat group in Thailand and you will see the toxic, angry behaviour. I would say the majority of people are happy and love Thailand, but the vocal angry minority is what he is talking about.

[@ballerboy2381]

Its the same everywhere bro. In the states we have people who migrate here who have no respect for American culture, some even look down upon us and feel as though we're beneath them due to either their religious beliefs or just their conservative customs. I worked with a man who hated everything about America and looked at as nothing more then heathens and sinners

[@kenric1460]

Good vid. Lots of toxic expats in Hong Kong too. Not just older ones. They range in age from young to old

[@tommylee8865]

Thanks for your educational content 🙏 enjoyed watching your channel 👍 how it feels to be freelance KZbin producer and do you working beside this.?

[@peterparello8319]

Hello are there any lawyers you can point me to for residency ?

[@Neednoy2]

The police was trying to stop you because you didn't wear a helmet, dude.

[@dacmedia6838]

Absolutely, they saw a foreigner without a helmet and saw 500 baht. Sweet move by your grab driver to save you the fine. I have done u-turns on a one-way street on a police roadblock for no helmet and no motorcycle license. They won’t chase you if you get away. That was sweet!

[@Neednoy2]

@@dacmedia6838 Too many fish in the sea. Why sweat?

[@robertnagel7363]

They may have burned all their bridges at home and wanted to escape the circus they created there.

[@patdwyer8262]

Robert, I think you're correct! I've seen this in people who are just caustic, they revel in getting folks upset. (I had a brother in law who was a police officer, and the job changed how he viewed everyone, his viewpoint was very, very negative. He enjoyed being "caustic". I did not enjoy his company, and was blessed when he separated from the family). Stay away from those who revel in misery. Some people just end up in that lot. I just know that life is too short to spend any time with these folks. Better to find happy, pleasant folks. My dad used to say, show me the people you associate with, and I can tell you who you are!

[@pietromora2297]

Forrest you seem like a decent person smart enough, obviously intelligent and well Educated. I just would like to know why so much angst about the older generation that reside in Thailand. Please understand there is many reasons people live and enjoy Thailand. Just live and let live, like you said stay positive and enjoy yourself. Just an opinion. Maybe right . But if you do keep at this subject it does get a little boring seeya mate.

[@jeffw661]

Great topic. I’ve spent all year in Thailand, and have come across a few of these guys, it’s funny that the majority seem to be hiding behind a computer. I was trolled by one whilst documenting my ASQ process earlier this year. He seemed intent on making me feel crap, and had a few nice words to say about my girlfriend also. My theory has always been that they are 1. Bitter, because they perhaps have a portfolio of failings, a number of divorces behind them, the clock is ticking, and are now with a woman who only wants the dollar! Or 2. They are territorial, they live in Thailand, they’re part of the furniture now and they don’t want no tourists coming in and stealing the limelight. Either way, I agree to stay away from them, but I think it’s a tricky one when you’re asking for Thailand advice online.

[@eduardochavacano]

The younger once can even be more territorial, especial the ones that are not good enough for porn. As a general rule avoid all average looking white guys, especially the Brits. Avoid all Americans, except for the ones that look good enough for a Calvin Klein ad. Seriously, avoid Insecure people, who want to prove something. Dont analyze too much, unless you are cultural anthropologist with a career in academia or the national geographics.

[@sureshsidhu8266]

You could very well be right. Your perspective on this matter may also possibly be magnified because you are Asian with a Western perspective and it could be probably that when you went to their land, you adjusted and you cannot possibly understand why people bicker. If they don't like it, there are many airports in Thailand. I feel the same. Because coming to our region and marginalising us, is not right. I know what it feels like to be marginalised. It hurts.

[@edpics1091]

Yanhee Hospital has a Cannabis Medical Department

[@HamNoytheDutchGuy]

Thanks for the headsup Forrest 👊

[@CatsAndGoodCoffee]

"Avoid the toxic-scumbags expats" (then he gets in a shop to buy weed stuff to get stoned at home). Very coherent and inspiring.

[@htth8633]

don't forget about his Elon Musk -type of investments lol.... He comes across as superior and narcissistic, but I think it's just a facade.

[@JimSchumannKBMLF]

Yes, you got that all right! Forums have much toxic content, if you read the forums use discretion!

[@patrickwmulligan2639]

good stuff!!!

[@sanjuanjimbo]

On point!

[@Rivergooch]

I have been visiting Thailand since 2005 and after my first couple visits I decided to research retiring in Thailand. Food, people and weather is great. What you said about Toxic people, very true. I walk by beer bars and the like and that is all you see. It is what is going on in the United States, all the toxic people are speaking and acting out. Trump gave them permission to act and he's a lousy example to follow. I consider Pattaya a bit low level when it comes to the kind of tourist that comes to Thailand. I have only been there 3 times and I can leave it. I like you prefer the low keyed Hua Hin. Keep it up, be blunt and straightforward