11 Reasons WHY a Twin Flame Runner will not initiate contact, even when they are missing you.

[@rejoice_in_motion]

I am loving this series! You are one of the very few people who guides truly in this journey and I can relate so much to your journey since me & my TF are in similar situations which you mentioned, with similar obstacles. Listening to you always makes me feel good & somewhere validates my own observations and intuition as well. Thank you for the work you do. Truly guided by divine & your twin flame to do this work.

[@emmyelixir7208]

Agreed!! She is an incredible guide for soul twins. So grateful to have found Pradnyaa ✨

[@leonieharry2941]

sorry, that's a blue-eyed take on a toxic person! When a so-called Twinflame says she doesn't message us because she doesn't want to disturb us, doesn't want to upset our happiness and doesn't want to tear us out of a situation, then that's nothing more than an excuse that some naive and loving people just all too well would like to believe. What I find bad is that you help toxic people with your channel and your alleged explanations, that really loving people stay by their side and these toxic people can continue to abuse them. You are doing so much harm to people. And if you believe in karma then you know what will come back to you. To all other readers here: don't you believe it, it's just about the psychological phenomenon of dependency that a toxic person creates in us, and the lovesickness associated with it. Unfortunately, this person cannot be changed and the relationship cannot be improved either. Better you look at H.D.Tudor, who as a self-confessed psychopath and narcissist describes exactly how these manipulations are used by his kind. For us coaches, none of this is a new topic. It always ends in a terrible form of mental, psychological abuse and its traumatic consequences. It makes you ill.

[@moranankri]

@@mjey1 Those channels are popularity oriented and money oriented and not real path spirituality tend

[@SunshiningAparajita]

Madam kya aap mere comments ko pad rhe ho ? Please clarify who is masculine and who is feminine part. Please ma'am. I'll wait for your response

[@moonflower9850]

I think when twins are in a runner and chaser phase it has a lot to do with energy. My twin texted me out of the blue a week ago. And as soon as he came in he left again. But he left me wth a extreme amount of TF energy exchange. It was so powerful, It literally brought me to my knees in tears. It is very seductive and brings alot of thoughts and fantasies. My heart felt extremely tugged on Being pulled threw my chest. This TF energy is what brings twins together but it also heals. It is kundalini energy that gets activated. And every time your twin comes in for a energy exchange it ties your kundalini’s tighter together. More and more. Until the final ties and Union. Before he messaged I was letting go and moving on. But this energy was a heavy reminder of my mission and my TF journey. And it brought me back on track. Of corse I got mad and upset that he seemed to ghost once again and left so quick. But It is part of the learning and understanding we must have before Union. We must be balanced. I felt the chaser energy once again fill me up. But this time I didn’t chance. Those feeling I got are something I need to work on. But the truth is wether my twin is with me or not I am just so happy that he is here. I know we’re he is and that he is okay. And that is enough. I am not alone on this journey because he is on it with me. But most importantly God first beyond all. Not tarot, not readings, not videos but so important we turn to God. We pray regularly as if he was are best friend and there listening because he is. And if it is in Gods plan that he decides when and how we come to Union, then we will. God wants us to turn to him. A lot of people on this journey miss this important part. God can make miracles happen. So trust and belive and hand everything over to God. That is my advice for anyone struggling on this journey. Sending love ❤️

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Well said! 😊 thank you for sharing.

[@Thescarab86]

He sounds like a narcissist, darling. Escape while you can and find someone who loves you 💕

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

@@Thescarab86 many think that way but it us too different. Also it is not about finding someone romantically who is available. That's not about it. Narcissism is different from this.

[@Thescarab86]

@@AwakenwithPradnyaa I agree with what you're saying. I also understand it's about awakening and learning lessons and healing wounds. I also understand that it can be platonic. What I'm saying is, be careful because many are using this term to excuse toxic behaviour. Love and light ❤️

[@QueenLeeMi79]

Mine did the same thing to me a couple of weeks ago. We had been in no contact for months then he reached out and we spoke for a minute then he asked me if we could Start over but go slow. He said he would call me the next day then I didn't hear from him and i went off you hear me off. He then reached out and said something I don't like now its crickets but he had been watching my stories. I'm questioning everything including his love now we were a couple and engaged now my guess is we are nothing.

[@SoulWaveStudios]

Im a male DF, and the spiritually awakened twin. Pretty much every single point Pradnyaa mentions, is SPOT ON compared to my own “running” experience - which is a state of mind that fluctuates, such an amazingly precise way of explaining it! I knew about twin flames before meeting my female DM, thru two spiritually enhancing catalyst experiences, first discovering astrology and twin flames, then actually doing the inner healing work, meditating, growing awareness, transcending karma and toxic patterns, and clearing/opening my heart chakra after traumatic relationship experiences, yet I STILL, as a biological male was overwhelmed with this intensity at the mind-level, then started running when being confronted with this powerful soul connection in the physical. In our case, we work together in a super toxic karmically heavy environment, and I am super intuitive yet guarded of the energies that come at me. Her, as the matrix DM, is way more easy going, down-to-earth yet in her heart and flow’ey which her biology supports. Anyhow, another point I wanted to mention is, using astrology can help a lot to recognize what triggers the running state of mind. One thing that astrology cannot do though, is conclusively confirm to you who is your twin flame, no matter what technique you use. Saturnian, plutonian energies, doesn’t matter how much things point to karmic or soulmate type of connection. Also keep in mind that the tropical system points a lot at the biological realities/3d conditioning, and the sidereal at the energetic/cosmic situation which often resonate the most with our truest nature. The soul knows the true answers about twin dynamics, which resonates with the basic principle of spirituality, and rising up from our collective spiritual amnesia. DF is ignited by the DM then DF gradually rises up to ignite the DM. The dynamic can seem opposite, since DM’s role is ruling the subconscious/lower chakras, and the DF ruling the upper chakras/consciousness. They are both asleep in the area that the other rules, and therefore need the flame ignition from each other to position themselves properly in their most harmonious roles and ideally come into physical union (DM) as a result of the inner union (DF).

[@atmahari-marianne-life-coa8536]

You are a true gem in the sea of superficial twin flame coaches or wannabee twin flame coaches. You know what you are talking about and render it with passion and compassion.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

😄 thank you dear for your warm feedback. It means a lot!

[@LizandChris1]

This is almost exactly my situation with TF. It's eerie actually. As the chaser I will continue to work on myself and be patient. Thank you for your inaught 🙏❤️🇨🇦

[@irishfrenchgirl1]

This is such a great explanation. It’s been almost a year awakening to this and we have had separation many times. Regardless, I feel so blessed to have him in my life. I feel him all the time and am fully understanding why we both behave the way we do. There is no anger. No blame. He needs to work things out and we BOTH. Need to heal. This connection is a gift.

[@jo-wk2yp]

Oh my GOD , finally somebody answered ALL the questions that have been bothering my mind for so so many years. EVERYTHING, EVERY DETAILS AND INFORMATION YOU MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO , i believe are true especially coming from a true twinflame..Yes , i tried searching in the internet and youtube channels answers but nothing compares to this. I am happy to find your channel for the first time. THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH !!!!

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Thank you so very much Jo. Welcome to my channel!! ❤️

[@bindu6351]

Thank you Pradnya for sharing this video. Empathy is what is needed here. In my journey, i have understood that if he wouldn't have been my TF, he would have cut off all contacts and moved on. The best part is whenever we accidentally meet, he tries his level best to behave like a normal person. He is always living in the fear that i will ask him questions regarding our connection. I used to be so tempted to ask however now i can see the pain in his eyes and skip that part. The understanding that acceptance of the connection will come in divine timing has supported me. I have developed patience, nowadays my heart cries out in my writings. So the truth is he is always on my mind, heart but I am no longer frantic. The lessons learnt in the journey are to stay grounded, everytime i need not react, silence is beautiful, loneliness is a gift for my writings, the only person who will always stay with me is me, i don't need him to keep me happy. It took a good 5 years for this. However i have gifted myself a New Me. I will not deny there are days when I start feeling very emotional but then my pen and pain pour it in a poem 😀❤️

[@xixi9166]

Beautiful message, well put together! I felt it as I reminisce on my own journey as well. God speed to you!

[@saggie5261]

I can definitely relate to what you have said. We met once, and he started the communication. It’s been 5 mths and we haven’t seen each other again, we’ve been working on it, but things prevent it from happening. Obviously not the right time. I know he feels it too or as you said, why would he still be here? He’s said no less than 4 times he doesn’t want a relationship, he could easily have left, we are at a distance. But he hasn’t, something is going on and I think I have worked it out finally: TF, so many signs.

[@bindu6351]

@@saggie5261 And it will be hard for you to believe as is it for me to believe. .. in the morning, i was so low that I wished I could erase all the memories of my tf journey and start fresh & here you are replying me to remind what I had written a year ago. Empathy needed!! So how many times can it be a coincidence 😅

[@saggie5261]

@@bindu6351 wow, i'm glad i could help you be reminded of this from a year ago. Sorry things havent progressed for you yet. I hope you can live your life to the fullest, knowing when it is meant to be, it will be. Wishing you all the best :)

[@islandgirl182]

I have been on this TF journey for 9 years which is a cycle in numerology. It has been the hardest yet the most rewarding. I have understood that it is OK not to be with your TF. Not something I would have accepted or wanted to hear as a beginner on this journey but today I do and with a peaceful being. I have been able to pay off my karmic debts but he may not do so in this lifetime. I want to help people understand that - I see so many people get angry. I got disappointed waiting on him to do his part, hoping he would see things the same way I did. He would go away and come back wiser but I could still see some cracks. Now I remind myself that I began this journey with 1 thing in my heart, mind and soul - finding my life partner. Whoever he is, wherever he is - stranger or not.....I am open. Blessings❣

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

So true!! Well said!! However trust the process. Don't be disappointed. We feel that because somewhere we get attached to a specific expected outcome!! This journey can unfold in many unexpected ways. There is a much bigger play going on than we can understand.

[@ramyakrishnan2213]

Thanks for yet another insightful video! Although there are other TF healers on YT, your way of explaining very very pragmatic and relatable things, is what keeps me glued to your channel. You are not telling us "how to unite", but "how to maximise the learnings and minimise the sufferings". I loved that part! ❤❤❤

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Thank you Ramya for your feedback! And that's spot on! Unless we come in our balance union is far off! Only focusing on mere union is like expecting to get a gold medal without appearing for the exam!! 😄 way to union goes "through" your lessons.

[@ramyakrishnan2213]

@@AwakenwithPradnyaa 😁😁😝yes that's the truth! There's no shortcut. Nor can we pretend in this journey, just like we do to other humans. The Higher Beings know who we are, deep inside! More power to all the genuine seekers out there! ❤❤❤

[@noeliaarkansas9222]

It's been 4yrs for me and I only dated him 6 months while he separated from his partner! We live in the same town but I have never seen this man b4 in my whole life of living here ! When i met him he told me that he used to see me everywhere and he always wished he had someone like me because how i carried myself with my partner. But he always used to say that I could never be with someone like him because we were oppsites ! He was a biker and I was more of a light! Omg but we got along so good. But our downfall was that i respected my Worth and my home Way too much over Him and his partying and staying out till late hours in the morning! And that was the one thing that broke us because he couldn't abide by respecting my home or me! And im WORTHY AND GOD'S DAUGHTER and deserve respect 🙏! But for 4yrs this man has not left my mind,my heart and the weird thing is as small as our town is I have not one time seen him in 4yrs! I have tried dating other men but i can't because he stays on my mind and its not fair to the other man. So the past 2yrs i stay too myself and concentrate on my spiritual journey

[@ashleymarie6682]

Im literally crying because all of this is exactly precisely what happened with us. He was so careful to make sure i was happy but seemed to punish himself in putting in distance. He never ever once did anything mean or jealous or selfish. I realize now we treated each other as if we were each other. Like asking “Why would you want to hurt yourself?” If your twin flame is you… thats how you treat you. I could never figure out what was neither could he. We said its more than a friendship but like we are siblings, like we are home to each other. Like we love each other automatically and unconditionally, beyond unconditionally, You can’t even put a name on it. You just know you’re drawn to each other every day in some way even when you aren’t thinking about them. We were always on the same team as far as protecting each other’s family and family relationships. It made it painful for both of us even during the separation to keep trying to tell yourself “its for the best”. He told me he wanted my life to be like “walking on clouds” when i asked why he was ignoring me. Tried so hard to talk my husband up and all his good qualities. To help me remember and enjoy my life and my family. He always supported and encouraged it. But if i pulled away he reacted immediately. Never ever jealous, he would just open up, and become vulnerable. Even then he wouldn’t ask me for anything, for time for anything. He seemed to say that just having me in his life in some way was good enough. Its all exactly true all of it. The peace this video brings is incredible. To just know; and just relax. And allow and just be.

[@a_glow6644]

Oh my days.. you literally just said everything that I’m going through myself All of it. You articulated it perfectly for me. Thank you so much

[@PaulinaWoz]

This perfectly confirms that I was a TF 'runner' in the past but roles have switched... Unbelievable Edit: just a comment - don't get too attached to all these labels (including TF). Just accept what is and focus on your journey :)

[@joannec2266]

I think only recently, I found my twin flame and am still in the process of validating. I didn't know or consider him as a twin flame, but I just had intense connection with him that I didn't understand. We are literally like Yin and Yang, culturally very different (he's the other side of the world), thinking is very different, but sharing so many unexplainable similarities too. We are going through the runner-chase phase right now. I know I am intuitive and seeking to understand the spiritual side of me, a seer saw my past lives and it seemed that I was very spiritual in many lives. but I wondered why I never had any obvious spiritual gifts this life. Then after meeting him, honeymoon phase ended and into that separation phase, it was like being struck by lightning, that spiritual awakening was so extremely painful, but at the end of it I was reborn. I understood things that I could never understand back then. All these while I never considered him as twin flame but slowly I have been guided to videos/course to learn and understand. He is definitely a Matrix Twin this life but something tells me he's spiritually more matured than me. He had to go through a lot of hardship in early years, and it was those hardship that made him who he is today. The awakening is so powerful, I never thought I would have such a spiritual breakthrough (even though nothing spiritual is happening to him at all even now). I have been getting signs to let him grow at his own time too and not to rush in too much and mess up the divine timing. I finally learnt to understand that the Universe has a plan for us.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

so so true and relatable, thank you for sharing.

[@katarinadelogu7010]

Yessss is soooo brutal painful, sadness heartbroken soulpain 💔💔💔💔😪😪😪😪😪😪😔😔😒

[@abuseinterrupted]

Oh, WOW. I almost passed on this video except the comments changed my mind, and I am so glad I watched. Thank you so much.

[@FreeDom-fv8wy]

You are a leader by far in this realm. Thank you for your insights!

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Oh thats so flattering! 😃 thank you.

[@emmyelixir7208]

I agree!! I also find comfort in Pradnya’s divinely guided messages because I’m married to my soulmate and have children. It makes the soul connection a bit tricky!! I feel torn some days over this intense connection

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Thank you Emmy for your love and support!!

[@lvr956]

You are!! I just started my journey and I ve been through so many channels and you are the best!!

[@FreeDom-fv8wy]

@@lvr956 luv Twin Flames Lee and Sherry too. They show you their whole journey and it's amazing

[@lynnewogan5591]

Best explanation I’ve ever heard on this thank you true in every way only one seems left out is their fear of rejection

[@truditrulove]

this was the best video i’ve seen on this topic, AND it gave me peace & helped me to accept this separation phase, again. my twin & i had just got back in union a few days ago, after 4 LONG months apart. we made passionate love & less than an hour later, his xwife contacted him, the mother of his small children & i said i’ll support him in having integrity, bcus he thought he was going to be with both of us, although she no longer wants to be polygynous. i said no we can’t, but that patience is key. she may open back up.

[@kellychellin]

Thank you for this. Very practical honest information. It’s appreciated and I agree with everything you shared. I’m the chaser and I let go almost 2 years ago. I’m finally at peace with it without him in my life. I will always love him. Blessings to you 💜

[@thehighoka7803]

mine finally has.....i nearly jumped through the roof.

[@Healingpath1988]

Sorry for your loss - you are still connected 🙏🌷

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Absolutely, in fact more strongly! 😊

[@liveitup_GJ]

I’m bursting into tears while listening to this. I’m going through this situation of him not wanting to initiate and I know deeply in my heart that he’s the special one. Although he’s cold and not talking anymore, when we met we were sharing sooo many things about our lives. I’m so sad that when I think that we’ve finally found each other we can’t be together.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

🥰 there is a reason for everything. Don't lose your heart. Go with the flow and trust the divine! ❤️

[@liveitup_GJ]

@@AwakenwithPradnyaa thanks for your videos! Now I feel understood ❤️I did zero contact for 2 moths and I couldn’t stop thinking about him the whole time. I couldn’t help and I got the urge to contact him because I want him in my life even if the contact reduces to simple one line messages.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Watch my latest video - "Chaser's dilemma - to contact or not to contact". :-)

[@MariaPerez-wv9gy]

Can so relate I have not seen mine over a year but I can still feel his presence-dreams-signs-I fight them all the time. He did tell me he lost all focus it was all abt me 5 yrs the bond was crazy and I cannot find anyone close to what we had. Everything she said is so true. Sadly there’s nothing I can do just cherish the memories and the moments we had that keeps me smiling knowing I found something everyone dreams of

[@liveitup_GJ]

@@MariaPerez-wv9gy I now decided to have faith and believe that one day we’ll meet again under all the right circumstances and will never separate again! After all we all deserve to be with who we really love! Be strong!

[@cinthyagunawan496]

Thank you for your detail explanations.. thanks for sharing..❤

[@crazycoraful]

I am a runner and all of these points are completely true..🤷🏼‍♀️😬

[@tokyod-man5182]

If they can't take the intensity get out of my kitchen. I would rather have a great soulmate than a weak Twin Flame!

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

:-) move on!!

[@NatalieNicole99]

Totally agree

[@hellosavannah16]

@@tokyod-man5182 same

[@seema678]

You said they deeply love....and the clock shows 11:11 ❤️❤️

[@nishapramod401]

Pradnya, really thankful for the clarity you convey through your videos. All the points are perfectly correct since I myself feel switching between runner-chaser mode unconsciously with a few minutes duration. Resonates 100%.

[@a_glow6644]

Perfectly explained. Perfectly. I cried so hard listening to this because… just everything… every single thing resonated. Thank you so much. You are a godsend. Thank you. It’s what I’ve known deep down but I just needed some confirmation. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

You are so welcome. Am glad it helped you in some way!♥️

[@CrystalDiaz613]

Thank you, so so much. I felt everything you've said, in my heart and in my soul. It is so good to hear it from someone else. It helps to validate what I feel and made me think about things my TF has said. When I heard you say the things that he's said, it felt good. It felt good to hear you say it, too. Clarity definitely provides peace. I absolutely need peace during this beautiful yet maddening, journey. Thank you💛

[@NehaRica1122]

Pradnyaa, every word you say is resonating 100% with my journey. I feel as if this is me talking about my twin 😊

[@michaelbrown9891]

Excellent explanation. Helps me pieced together so much I already know. Good to hear it in such an understandable and detailed way. 💕😇

[@benzogray8120]

im so sorry to hear about your loss. i havnt even been with my twin in a relationship and i couldn't imagine her passing. i send my love im soooo sorry

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

thank you for reaching out to me, Benzo. I am fine now and he is always with me, in everything I do in this TF mission. So it is not really a loss. Just transition from physical to the spirit. I have shared my journey after he passing in one special episode on this channel - if you want to watch - here it is - Empower Hour: Special Ep5: Pradnyaa: Love transcends life & death. Even the death is the beginning! kzbin.info/www/bejne/m4bEioOlatasnLs

[@shwetasinghnm]

Also my twin is himself a spiritual teacher. The irony is that he is still deeply embedded in the matrix since he has a reputation/ public image to maintain and a purpose to work for. He is known as an extremely good person with a squeaky clean image which he is dedicated to maintaining. Isnt that matrix too?! But so strange. He is totally aware of our connection but I think he is more dedicated to his bigger purpose of being a sanyasi and guru. This has to be the biggest irony of my life. The sexual pull I have felt from the beginning is insane and have been feeling it every day for the last year since our first meeting. Dreams, visions, just 24/7 energies surrounding me. Absolutely insane, the trickiest thing I have ever gone through. But I know of the divine love which has been acknowledged from both sides.

[@itachixtsuki]

What she says are True! I am the DM runner but I am female 🤣🤣🤣 I also post told him my husband is a great man because I am pushing him away. I am a stubborn runner. I want to stop running from him but I don't know how. I can feel his energy is calming. I don't know how to comeback to him even if I want too.

[@chachi0509]

You explained this TF runner TF chaser dynamic, it gives me a better understanding. Thank you

[@dakota9275]

That was amazing. Nothing new for me, but SOOOOO spot on it’s insane

[@AzumaRikimaru]

My twin flame and I always seem to almost reach union, but then they run away/push me away. We are in separated again and she immediately went into a new relationship then I started to see these patterns. Especially steps 4,5 and 6. I started to feel these intense sexual energy even though they live across the world. I think they want me to reach out but I’ve been told by modern relationship experts to not reach out. They need to reach out. I think they don’t like listening to their heart and use logical mind always to protect herself. She is scared of having a deep and meaningful connection but is ok with casual relationships/ be in relationship where emotions aren’t as deep. I want to focus on myself and become healthier. I will allow my heart to remain open for her but also allow myself to move forward.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Modern relationships experts are operating from their ego. Listen to your own heart. There are no rules here. If you are in your spiritual path, you only need to go within for true guidance. When you "decide" not to reach out, that's ego in the picture. And when you do it because someone else is telling you not to, it's worse. Whatever is your decision, it needs to come from YOUR heart.

[@AzumaRikimaru]

Thank you for the reply. I do see how my I make decisions based from ego, I suppose I am only mirroring my twin flame’s fear based actions. I read your story and I’m beginning to think I am not as strong as you…I have become obsessive and my heart is telling that the hot and cold games are never going to end… I try not to expect worst, I try not to expect anything….but I must expect some level of teamwork, especially if we are intertwined like DNA? I wish for harmony…Direct and open communication only has shown to be too heavy and emotional exhausting for both of us. I have lost many loved ones during my childhood and college years. Which has put me into anxious behavior that tomorrow is never promised. That I must act now today without hesitation. However you are right that I must give them space to miss me. I was at one time ok with simply being the one to always chase and remain at a comfortable distance for her. But life goes by fast and I went back into wanting validation. I see so many synchronicities too. I feel like I’m constantly being pushed and pulled. I could not imagine being in this dynamic for 12 years as yourself have. I have known her for 7 years but really only begun to understand the twin flame journey for the last 2 years. Sorry for the long reply I think I needed to vent 😅

[@noufelouafi8313]

Omg my story is exactly the same as yours really even though I don't believe in this twin flame thing but I guess I'm starting to change my mind, because from all the girls I knew she's the only 1 I think of sometimes I think of her for day's non stop but I never texted her or anything but I'm sure she feels the same I don't know way but my gut feeling tells me that anyway its conspiracy only I'm trying to forget her and move on I know it's so difficult because sometimes I feel obsessed with her maybe we are twinflams who knows

[@jyotsnasharma3015]

Same situation .. advised by a tarot reader expert who asked me not contact me first .. so bow i am going to work on myself .. and it is really difficult for my to allow someone else in my life .. i tired but it dint work out .. even after having 2-3 times conversation i could not continue .. i think in this journey only one person has to suffer .. it's ok surrender to divine, he will make justice in some way .. go with the flow .. and work on yourself ..

[@jyotsnasharma3015]

​@@AwakenwithPradnyaaya sometimes heart says yes we should go ahead and talk to them but when we think we have already did our best and now it's their turn to prove if they really want this relationship or not so let them decide .. it's not ego sometimes but aal about mutual respect .. without it no relation will be work out .. no matter how hard you try .. so if you already you have done your best so let them take a step forward and let divine do the rest .. else they won't understand the value of this precious bond .. and this runner chaser dynamic will be continue .. so it's all about self respect ..

[@MystqStar]

Okay, the divine definitely guided me towards this at the right time, because this is the question that has been plaguing me for a while now. My TF ran from the connection in November and does not reach out, but responds when I do, though not as he used to before. I read some of the comments and I can relate with them thoroughly. I keep asking myself if I'm losing my mind, running after an imaginary connection, and does my twin even feel anything for me, even though I can strongly sense his energies all around me. I was questioning this to myself as to why he won't reach out even though he misses me and this video just came up at the perfect time!!!

[@Janik2370]

Wow, this is amazing thanks for this , it’s been 3 yrs and still cannot get the feelings out, it gets deep and deeper, it’s painful to think they are in another place without you, miss her so much, thanks again

[@Mariam-jo1xd]

Exactly you explained my situation...very clear explanation... thankyou

[@AwakenToLove444]

Omg! This is absolutely so on track what’s happening with us… yes!!!! It helped me tremendously! Thank you❤❤❤

[@caroldavis9289]

This was most helpful to understand the silence.

[@irationroyality6579]

Thanks Sis. Some worthwhile info

[@deepreets]

100% correct, I'm a runner...all what you said is 100% correct 😔😔😔

[@dmrd222]

Thank you for sharing your personal journey with your "twin flame". It was so helpful to me. I am very sorry for your loss. My TF has been happily married for decades. For the past 4+ years since I have encountered him, I have initiated contact *every* time and I started to wonder why he never initiated. Of course, that made me feel bad too, as you well understand. I email him only every few months because I don't want him to think that I have inappropriate intentions being that he's married. This video has been so helpful in explaining the reasons why he might not want to initiate contact. I suspect that "guilt" is a primary factor where he is concerned, which I already knew, but it was still helpful to hear you confirm. But I still wish I knew *anything* about his feelings for me or whether he feels an extra-ordinary connection with me. We have not discussed *any* kind of connection between us (we're just friends) and it has been very difficult to go all these years without knowing anything at all. I would be content just to know if he does feel a special connection. I suppose if he didn't feel something, he could have easily ignored my emails instead of responding.

[@e.o9470]

i honestly never understood the concept but I’m still learning about it.

[@abro99]

So beautiful, so grateful & humbled for you sharing this true, genuine authentic life story. So thankful for sharing this real life story. It’s so relatable & helpful to hear & process my own situation.

[@shwetasinghnm]

My twin situation is so strange. I am in no contact for 3 months now and he does not initiate contact. However, when we had met the last time he had given me a long big hug, held me for long, seemed like he wanted to kiss me. I did not because I did not want my heart broken again by his flip-flopping and withdrawing. I distanced myself because he is a saint/celibate. However each day is torture. I am determined to focus on myself, grow spiritually, grow strong mentally, work and hobbies. I am also determined to just keep peace in a failed marriage. But the dreams, the 24/7 haunting of him is just so hard. Surrendering to God each and every moment.

[@hannahaldeguer]

this is so sad 😢

[@Giselle332]

This makes so much sense. Thank you so much for explaining all these reasons. It has really made me see things more clearly. God bless. 🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@pinkrose3285]

Thank you so much. This was so helpful! And I feel the same way as you said you used to feel. Does he even care does he think about me? I always wonder. He says he does and I feel in my heart he does but it’s hard to see it. makes a lot of sense hearing you say it, I notice him mentioning these sorts of things, feeling overwhelmed by our connection, thinking he can’t give me what I deserve, choosing his family out of loyalty ect, me asking him questions that he doesn’t have an answer to and then he runs away, very accurate reasons I must say. we’ve had a few heartfelt conversations, but he’s still afraid enough to run away after a short while. I’m learning how to just accept things the way they are so that it is easier on me. :)

[@navneetgrover4495]

Thank you so much from the core of my heart! 💞

[@nanumanu13]

Totally matches my experience with my DM. Thank you, your explanation helps me make more sense of it. ❤️

[@teejay8258]

Very interesting, and most resonates. However, it's important to say that not every TF connection involves a third party.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Yes that's true. Many are single or not involved in any committed relationship but i feel every pair chooses their lessons in different settings. Dome challenges may be there which are nit relared to relationship status but something else. I met my twin when we both were single. But we were too much in ego, running and earthly drama. Our real journey had not started then. May twins who are single but yet in seaparation are in the initial phase i feel in some way

[@teejay8258]

@@AwakenwithPradnyaa exactly! We've both really been in our ego. Limited beliefs and a fear of rejection kept us stuck. Things are much easier now we're healing!

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

@@mjey1 Yeh I get what you say!! There are different people who have chosen different paths. And there is a difference between those who choose to stay alone. Irrespective of their twin flame being in their life or not. There are some who want to have companion, explore life and more people even after meeting their twin. There is nothing right or wrong here. Everyone is exploring according to their inner feeling. And that's completely okay. What is not okay according to me is - making it a RULE (which is based on this loyalty based - ie. Insecurity based - template) that you "should not" be doing this and do only.that. that's not a part of a twin flame path for sure. That is coming from people's relationship conditioning.

[@priscillaayd2007]

With mine now and wow! The magnetic connection of our love is something i have never experienced before. We are in the runner and chaser face of our journey. Is the most powerful connection I have ever had.

[@porshaslittleones9597]

This is 💯my runner!! We have discussed all 11. 🙏🏾😩🥺💙

[@callemdavies8992]

Hi Pradnyaa - I'm so sincerely sorry to hear of your loss. Your posts on quora have always, always been incredibly caring and compassionate but - much more so : of actual great use and benefit to me during painful and confused times on my own twin flame journey (I have only just realised you have a KZbin channel). Your experience and wisdom - on a subject that so often keeps getting polluted by nonsense online - is a beacon of truth, love and light. You are loved and we are blessed to have you with us on our journies.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Thank you so much for your love, encouragement and support Callem. It means a lot. 😇🙏 Do check my special episode if you feel like watching it. Special Episode - on Prasad completing his one year of transitioning into spirit. how Pradnya coped with this physical loss, how and what she learned and realized in this last one year of pain, grief, the soul path and her work for the collective and how this true union has been guiding her on her soul path. kzbin.info/www/bejne/m4bEioOlatasnLs

[@callemdavies8992]

@@AwakenwithPradnyaa I will do, thankyou - in fact it was seeing that episode posted on quora that led me here.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

@@callemdavies8992 🙃 oh I see!! I thought you heard about it in this video!!!

[@MrBrady31]

A runner from possibly many life times😞😞 I miss her 07/18/2016😢

[@shanns135]

I think I just realized a long term relationship was a twin flame. And I find this intriguing because I am sure I am the runner because out of the blue after 30 years I am curious of his well being. And seeing for the first time he has been hanging out in the background all of this time. And as I listen more this is the most spot on explanation of what I have been feeling recently after feeling nothing for years. It is so crazy spot on.

[@ratikakhurana4383]

He did he did I'm so thrilled 😍

[@A_Menon]

I have read and greatly benefited from your posts on the Twin Flame Journey on Quora. One of those posts led me here. So sorry to hear your Twin Flame passed away. Cannot imagine the pain you deal with every day. If separation while they are still alive is so painful, how heart breaking must it be to know you won't meet them, touch them, see them smile ever again. I guess you have to realise that you will always be together. I am hoping for. 3D union with my TF in this 3D World. Looking forward to learning a lot from you through these videos so that I get closer to him.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Thank you dear!! 🥰 I am absolutely fine though. We are very much in communication and I don't feel any separation. 😊 Yes I had my painful processing period but that is over now! I have also made a special episode on the first year of my journey after he passed and how he started communicating. You can watch it here. kzbin.info/www/bejne/m4bEioOlatasnLs Keep up your good work on your journey! 🙃💞

[@djgeol3892]

Thx for the video , now i'm in surrender mode , try to balancing my energy by not get trigger again by DM .

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Keep it up

[@arpitaot]

Thank you so much Pradnyaa for this video. A friend told me about this connection few days back. My twin flame is single and for me until recently, he was just my boyfriend. Now I have realised he is my twin flame and this runner chaser situation between us. I always feel a strong pull towards him and never got answers to questions like why he never initiates contact. It was wonderful to get those answers from this video. It helped me understand this relationship better. Heartfelt Thanks 🙏🙏🙏

[@ramadudhankar9384]

Thank You Pradnyaa for the video. Understanding his perspective, I really feel the love between me and him. I have started to respect his journey too. And i feel my heart full of love for him. Thank You soooooo much for explaining his point of view.

[@SC.ARTIST]

First of all - thank you for the superb work on this topic ! I think that you're an amazing woman and I really appreciate all that I read here about this so incredible and mysterious twin flame journey! 🙏🏼

[@artesanatojordanapalmas]

Thanks. Many things made sense for me.

[@keri_av6463]

This was very interesting. I think I’ve been drawn to watch this, as my twin’s lack of communication with me over the last few years, has been a source of a trigger for me. Like the whole one sidedness of the conversation is a lot For men I’ve often felt feelings that they hate me and don’t care, on/off. I actually get a massive push to reach out to them and my stubborn arse is always like, why should I always be the one to reach out? So this has been an interesting view point and I appreciate it a lot

[@erela9335]

I once had those difficult questions for him and I told him I wouldn't ask them, and he agreed that was a good idea to not ask them... Love these insights!

[@erela9335]

Also the fact that they don't want to start anything in case it ends...

[@karenanders3008]

Are you with your twin flame now, because you look so in love and glowing and everything about your you tube channel looks great!

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Yes I am!! Thank you!! :-) In a completely different way than anyone could imagine. :-) He passed away last April - but has been communicating with me all the time. We both were awakened and in harmony when he was here. and he guides me now from the spirit. I have shared my journey of last year after he passed away and how he started to communicate with me in my segment called Empower Hour in a special episode - you can watch it here - kzbin.info/www/bejne/m4bEioOlatasnLs

[@delgue2099]

Thank you for this message. It helps me understand my situation. I feel it is us exactly at this moment. It helps to hear from someone else who understands how both are feeling. Message well taken. Very interested in you next message.

[@JuanGarcia-d7g]

I’m a male DF, my twin and I had a 2 year relationship first 5 months of love when we recognized the strong connection. At that time I didn’t know about deep spirituality but for this unconditional love that I felt I started following that path after those 5 months. Then the relationship began to have ups and downs triggering many things at both sides, it was a rollercoaster of emotions intensity, caos, love, support, battling alcohol addiction of DM, betrayal, runner and chaser , and many things that during 2 years we didn’t separate but 2 months ago she finally ran away and I became the chaser having few encounters and then cero contact. The last thing she said to me was I love you but the inexplicable fear I have that you are gonna to leave me someday for my behavior I can’t stay any longer. So the illusion of separation started and then I began feeling weird stuff like she was with me all the time specially at night, well in my head all the time as well, and I could feel her emotions and sometimes even what she was thinking of me. I now understand the TF journey. I am doing my inner work that sometimes you don’t even know how to start and also trying to be present because my higher self and God’s guidance will support me to align and ascend to a higher state of consciousness and in divine time I will wait for the harmonious union with my TF

[@jacquirathner2806]

Thank you! - this was helpful

[@fantasyeve87]

This is so spot on it's not even funny. It's annoying at first but I believe this is where being able to connect with my flame's higherself is really really important. His higherself has helped me navigate the energies so much and decipher things that I need to work on on my end. It's a reminder that it's a spiritual journey above all else. Thank you for helping explain this. I find that twins interchange between runner and chaser, I know I've been both. It's not easy, but I can see the benefits of the journey and that's what is worth taking out of it. I'm starting to enjoy it even though I'm not in physical contact at this time :)

[@Kundalini_Goddess]

All of these reasons are when both twins are in fear consciousness.. when you go within all these reasons disappear and you are One with your TF and in union and this aligns in physical reality.

[@doviewilliams8623]

Recently, I learned of the term "twin flame", and it gave me such relief. I have been chasing him for 25 years. I told him of the concept of being "twin flames", which I'm not sure he's fully excepted it; however, he agrees that something more is there. Our physical connections are very intense, but they are few and far in between. We have always considered ourselves as "being together ", although he has always had other women and relationships. When I met him, he was in a relationship with an older woman, whom is is still with-today. Learning of the "twin flame" phenomenon has made me accept the fact that I don't have to be in a (earthly) relationship with him. I wonder if, now that we are both aware of the "twin flame" phenomenon, what will become of our connection or desire for one another? I often felt like I was cheating on him, if I tried to be with someone else. Even he often calls or contacts me if other men show any kind of interest in me to let me know how much he loves me and that he will always be "my man" no matter who I'm with. This further pushed me away from other potential partners and left me very confused. It seems as though my "twin flame " may be selfish and jealous, because as long as I am alone, he's okay. This has left me feeling lonely. Rarely does he initiate contact (communication) unless he feels threatened that he will lose me to another man or that my longingness for him is so much it is really close to depression. We live over 500 miles from each so our ability to physically together is difficult, although the desire is very much there. Now, the I understand the "twin flame " phenomenon, I feel a little more "at peace" and that the "Chaser" is less willing to chase- if that makes sense. Thank you for all of your videos and sharing your experiences so candidly. Your videos have helped me begin understanding my own experiences and journey, greatly. Many blessings to you.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Hey Dovie! Thank you for sharing and do understand what you say completely. Few comments - It is okay if they don't understand/accept the "label" twin flames. It is okay if they don't know the label, no need to discuss that. Even when you don't follow the label, you both are perfectly guided by the divine. Whatever is your connection - it will be and is there because it is the connection. Both knowing about the label - won't make (or rather should not make) much difference. Why I say that -- because when we start putting a label on a certain experience, consciously or subconsciously we start buying into a "belief system" around that label. And that is a gray area. Explore your experience as purely as you can! You do not need to carry the burden of being a twin flame and staying "loyal" to your twin. It is not about the template of loyalty. That is the 3d template. Think about it. Go deeper. You need not hold your life because you feel he will not feel comfortable.

[@loveandcherishdebbie]

Thank you. Can you please make a video on how painful it is not to be able to share with family and friends. I find this very challenging.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

coming soon

[@syedasultana333]

So true.. each n every word's absolutly correct👍🏻 thanku soo much👍🏻

[@angelinasamson6996]

I can understand that he thinks he’s going to disturb me , at the beginning I did tell him that I’ve got to look after my mum ❤

[@rameshjavan]

Yes!!! Thank you

[@saggie5261]

Really really helpful, thank you 🙏

[@rossanaborja2760]

Thank you very much💕Amen for all the informations😇Godbless me and my twinflame🙏💝🙏

[@lokeshmahajan3781]

Happy birthday to your twin. 🌼💮🧿🎉🤍

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Thank you!!

[@lokeshmahajan3781]

@@AwakenwithPradnyaa i hope you are fine today. Your welcome. 👽

[@Thescarab86]

You have just helped my brain relax. Thank you ☺️💖

[@elgrecco8888]

How do twins ever reach union with all of these obstacles in the way?

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

By working on their ego, releasing karma, releasing dense conditioning .. The things which impact the process is - ego and free will.

[@kstefi]

You shouldn't DO anything 'cause the main point is you are the same soul. Soul is only conciousness without any thoughts, perceptions, feelings etc. Healing, charma and ego-things come from the mind (astral body). But you have to do SOUL-STUFF in order to attract your twin to you! You have to detach from the mind (also from any kind of emotions and love!) and align with your soul then you'll reach unity. That's in reality 'unity conciousness' that has nothing to do with being together with an other person.

[@AmruthaAp123]

We are in a long distance relationship. My TF contacted me while I was watching this video. He initiated the conversation this time. He was actually drunk and he was expressing how much he was missing me and also told me that he would find ways to spend more time with me and get to know me more. I was not at all expecting him to express any of these things to me at this time, after seeing how emotionally closed he was. Hoping things go well.

[@angelinasamson6996]

I’ve never actually asked him 🤷‍♀️❤️ I prefer to spend each moment with him and not stick expectations on the connection

[@hannahaldeguer]

How do you deal with the separation? when you miss talking to him? sometimes I think it would have been better if o have not met him 😢

[@cecilianoblia76]

❤️ Thank you for you, guiding and sharing these valuable insights! ❤️

[@mianegret5986]

It's a very interesting video when you're married focus on your family and move on

[@Rosesraspberries72]

And when your not happy in that marriage? Then what? Stay in that marriage no matter what? That’s totally ignoring the souls call and living a false life to please others.

[@quantumcontactwithmckennajames]

Saw this at exactly the right time. Thank you.💖

[@PJ_222]

I am the one not contacting well actually neither of us are but for me is because I don't want to complicate his life. I want for his happiness but will always be here if he needs me! If it's truly meant it will happen in it's destinated time.

[@MsPentek13]

Thank you for this video. What I feel is that many times we attract our Divine counterpart into our lives later in life - when we have already cleared childhood wounds and are getting close to our higher self. Which results in meeting when you have already built your own lives. Have families, children, responsibilities and obligations towards others. And while women are willing to put that aside and believe that love conquers all difficulties, men are not so in touch with their emotions and tend to make rational decisions. Their whole life they have been conditioned to put their feelings aside because feelings cannot be trusted and they make you vulnerable. So, why would they do otherwise? To men, public image, responsibility and loyalty towards family is above all. So, what can we do? Not much. I mean me and my TF were so wildly in love, we both awakened and were completely ONE and aligned with the universe. I literally felt his energies, his feelings and thoughts all the time. I even felt his orgasms😂. We were both skaking in each other’s presence and couldn’t utter a single word. The attraction was so strong, one look into his eyes made me lose myself completely. All I ever felt for him was love and respect. And still, we couldn’t bring our connection into the 3D. Even more, it was the most intensive, most beautiful, most intimate period when he ran from me the most. His emotions made him extremely vulnerable, and the more he felt he was losing control, the more he ran. Now that intensity is gone. I hardly ever feel the Kundalini energy. Not all twin flame connections end in union. For some of us, there are more obsticles than for others. We must accept that , somehow carry on and continue to better ourselves every day and bring love and light into people’s lives❤.

[@Lou-xn1pg]

Wow u are the first person who’s explained it exactly how it is! So simply ! This was so so real for me ty so much so grateful I’ve found u 💕

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

🥰 Those explanations came from my Twin flame!!

[@IFeelPositiveLife]

Even if someone is not in TF journey we also consider these points in any relationship and it will be helpful to save relationships and will stop breaking families and there will be pure divine love in the universe. Breakups will be less.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

The point is- twin flames' teach you to come OUT of these fears. The whole purpose of TF is not about saving or breaking a relationship. It is about seeing yourself and your fears and acting upon them.

[@prachibisht4865]

Just when I was about to give up on this journey i stumbled upon your post on quora n then this vid. This vid is answer of my question..the question which was asking me to leave this tf idea. Thank you, you are quite insightful 🙏 I need to catch up on a lot. Subscribed.

[@brooke4627]

This has got to be one of the most consise and accurate videos on this subject. Thankyou Pradnya. You are certainly talking from experience here. I have literally committed mental and emotional harikari over my twin flame runner, so I really appreciate an analysis such as this which delves into the how's and whys of the subject. I can absolutely vouch for the fact that there is NOTHING on earth like a twin flame. So I totally respect your ability to communicate and help us with what is really the greatest challenge of our lives. The other aspect is the aftermath of the event. For me loosing my twin flame felt like loosing a battle. I literally needed all the wisdom and development I have gained in this incarnation in order to overcome the twin flame loss. Most of my friends were no use, spiritual new age people were no use, I literally had to set myself free and say no to my twin flame within my own mind - and it felt as if I was murdering them within my own heart. So I am deeply grateful to you for this video which casts a very positive light on a deeply traumatic subject. Wishing you well on your journey and path to Nirvana. Shalom!

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

I understand what you mean with every word! I am glad my video has helped you. Thank you for sharing your understanding here. 💞

[@hattyflame3889]

Thank you so much x 🙏that was so helpful...love 💞and light ✨💗🌄🙏

[@irinamishra1668]

Really helped to understand.. Thanks

[@saritasharma5806]

Thanks a lot 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️...so wonderfully explained as I was also losing hope n it was becoming the question abt my self respect but now I can understand..my divine masculine never stops me nor block me n always welcome with open arms my msgs even wait for my msgs but never msg himself ☺️☺️.. thanks a lot 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻.. God bless U 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

[@poulomimukherjee1111]

Runner is not cruel what ever u said is absolutely correct...yes this journey is full of paitence and time taking...when divine has given this journey and the pain only divine can cure it...dm df r just mere players...just surrender... nothing much is left in our hand only to grow towards progress.

[@moumitachakraborty12]

This video really helps me a lot. We are same gender TF. I am the spiritual one and my TF is matrix. We are in separation and no contact situation is going on since February. This question always comes to my mind. I asked about this question to divine and today I got the answer through your video. Thank you ma'am for this guidance. She blocked me since February. Since that time she never initiate contact and everything which you have said is exactly doing.

[@seema678]

Well explained Pradnya 💗💗

[@EusoumeuSol]

It's a great video, but many points don't apply to my journey because neither of us aren't married. However, all the same happens related to what their family and friends think, because of age gap, cultural differences. When the runners are on denial, they're mad at us and they vent out about us to other people around them and then everyone tells them to forget us, that we're not a good match and after they're ashamed of assuming what they feel, and also assuming a relationship with us.