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[@kathrynelenaa]

Ayla you’re an Angel for being able to put up with kian while being a new mom

[@jessicaholey7129]

Ayla we know you're independent and can handle everything yourself. That doesn't mean that your partner shouldn't be at the very least, doing his half of parenting. Especially so close to post birth, he should be taking a lot more load than you. In Asian culture, women completely rest for minimum of a 30 days (45 for c-section). Girl you just gave birth to a LIFE. I really hope Kian respects and values this enough to be a proactive partner and father

[@stellabasic4281]

Yeahh, he's acting as an ashole..

[@thedouglaspodcast]

@@jessicaholey7129omggggg I knew I was always attracted to Asian culture for a reason 😭 I’m gettin me an Asian man!!! Lolol (no really tho.. 😅 I love so many things about the culture and had no idea about that but I love it sm 🤣🤣🤣)

[@learningtomother5311]

Ayla, I hope you are getting the nurture, support, and care you need. Moms are often overlooked. The entire first year, moms need extra love.

[@emilybenck3780]

What you want the father of your kid to be like, is a matter of opinion. Y’all see a childish, immature, man-child (which I’m not denying), but i also see how unbelievably hard he makes Ayla laugh & how happy she is in between her annoyance. The longer they have this baby around, the more Ayla will stand up for what she and the baby need (if that’s even a thing, we literally don’t know anything.) so have faith in Ayla, have faith in Kian, and wish them the best instead of seemingly praying on their downfall.

[@kianalikesbooks]

exactly emily

[@kianalikesbooks]

so well said

[@jadedlex8269]

That’s not the point, she can love him endlessly but the fact is that she needs help and a break and she has said herself she doesn’t get a break and can barley even go to the doctors for herself without kian making a big deal that he has to watch HIS son, it’s not a matter of if she wants to be with him or loves him, it’s a matter of she needs to be able to take care of her mental health.

[@kianalikesbooks]

@@jadedlex8269 bro they already addressed this and she said she exaggerated and misworded it.. the people that grew up watching them understand and what their humor is.. it’s the random people that didn’t know them at all that just found them that are taking what she said and running with it in the worst way. they have both talked about how the worst thing you can say to parents is that they aren’t good parents.. and y’all are basing him off of one misworded video.. kian has done so much for this kid constantly .. they both love him.. and ayla has said that he is an amazing father. people just need to quit assuming the worst when they do not know what goes on behind the scenes.. especially the people that only seen that tik tok and jumped on the bandwagon.. i have grown up watching kian and fell in love with ayla the minute they started dating.. i have watched for years.. and watch the streams .. where they talk about a lot more and show a lot more than just these yt vids or tik toks .. they’re sense of humor is poking at each other.. it’s always been that.. but bc people seen one tik tok they’re like omg kian this kian that.. if ayla has shown any indication.. it’s that she is strong and cares for her kid so deeply.. if they were not getting the treatment they deserve, trust me when i say she would leave. she’s strong like that.

[@carlosisactiv]

one hundred percent agree. someone as seemingly genuine as ayla, would know in her heart if kian is doing enough. I’ve watched kian forever and know how silly he can be. but i also see how much she smiles because of it. They are an adorable couple and family and only wish the best for them. people are so rude.

[@adaaleide]

im not saying the internet shouldnt be getting kian rn now but...... what did anyone expect. this has been his personality since he ever came on this site..

[@super-ew5mq]

i hope ayla is getting the support she needs🖤moms need so much help love support PP that they sometimes don’t get so hopefully kian is present and supportive of everything

[@jessicaholey7129]

I said this a few videos back as well but Ayla deserves way more support and help. She was driving while pregnant, she cooks all the time, she used to build furniture herself, she takes care of the baby and probably the dogs herself too. She's the woman and man in this relationship. She's super independent and women like these deserves men who are providers and protectors, not princesses. Even when chat was telling Kian to drive in one of his streams, he initially agreed because of chat was being relentless about it but Ayla ended up driving in the end anyways. I love Kian and I only know Ayla cause of KnJ but man, as a partner, I would feel so unthought of and uncared for.

[@anne4225]

You guys see a five second clip and want to act like you guys see them 24/7 keep comments to yourself. She didn’t post for your opinion at all, she edited the video and knows what she added in there cause she found it humorous

[@herbestt]

⁠@@jessicaholey7129kian is really supportive. i’ve been watching him since he was a teenager. he’s a naturally goofy person, and it’s not going to suddenly disappear because he’s a father. he IS a supportive father and he loves ayla. he does his part too and he’s present. it’s his first time being a father and no one is perfect but he’s present and he tries. do not undermine his ability as a father just because you’ve seen her do things. being a mom doesn’t mean not cooking or doing anything. kian can provide he has the love for ayla and coast, he has money, and he’s present. no one gives him any credit and acts as though he does absolutely nothing when he does. independent woman doesn’t stop being independent because a man is brought into the picture. he steps up and tries his best and he should not be discredited as a father. he’s a good dad

[@zariella]

ayla putting on the christmas movie in the background for us is so mom i love it

[@kalanirodriguez1083]

He’s use to hearing your heartbeat ❤ any noise that mimics from being in the womb will soothe him❤

[@Justjaycee88]

You need a little white noise machine that plays the heart beat sounds the babies are so use to being in the womb and hearing the heartbeat it’s comforting for them being on the chest! I have a 9 month old he was the same!

[@crazynews3425]

Kian i live him but i do feel bad for Ayla she literally has to do most stuff

[@angelaolen1299]

9:58 ayla recording kian complaining while setting up the christmas tree was soooo mom and dad vibes LOL

[@herbestt]

i’ve been watching kian since he was young and was a teenager in o2l. people are quick to talk negatively over one thing. he has matured a lot as a person and he’s naturally goofy, but this doesn’t mean he’s not a good dad or being supportive. i have kian on snapchat and he’s a present loving father. no one is perfect their first time being a parent and it’s ridiculous to see so many people hating on a man who’s genuinely trying. he loves ayla and ayla loves him. you guys are not perfect either so to judge their family so quick over something small, is not cool. he’s a good dad, just because he’s not perfect doesn’t devalue him as a father.

[@indiagant7878]

Congrats on taking Coast out the first time by yourself!! That is such a huge milestone that I think is so overlooked! I took my girly out around his age and I was so nervous. My other mom friends had to encourage me it was ok before I could and I was so proud of myself after! Congrats momma🥰

[@taaylorp]

i think ayla having a baby has made her inner self come out like y’all been funny but y’all r just even more funny now 😭

[@Jaztene]

Ayla please don't settle for less. You're an amazing person.

[@heidi5482]

Settle how?

[@jv1i3]

ayla supports isreal and shes made OF content with her big baby bump, deff not amazing person

[@ermelinda2223]

@@heidi5482it’s a saying like “ don’t settle any less to what you deserve “ She deserves better is what that means.

[@tatianajenesis]

lol y’all are wild

[@kaylaivyy]

you guys acting like yall know them😬

[@michellelucero6654]

Oh my God I don't know how Ayla can deal with Kian singing oh Christmas tree I would have peed in my pants and then when she says every dog out and Kian says every dog has its day I spit my soda out. He's freaking hilarious 😂😂

[@MileyAndMandyFAN2]

The decor looks so good!! Love how the snow and lights really pulled it all together

[@TRAJW]

9 months in, 9 months on and 9 months around. It's perfectly natural for you baby to want to feel your warmth and heart beat after only knowing that for almost a year 💜

[@candacezianna4413]

People on KZbin are so much more nice than the people on tiktok😭. I love it here.

[@silentmozart]

missed your vlogs! Hope the new parenting life is more than everything you guys expected ❤ even the tired times lol

[@katetomlinson1638]

Ayla you saint. You got a man that LOVES TO ANNOY YOU and a by product lol, im in the sameeee boat mama and i love every second because he makes me laugh like nobody else ever has

[@kelseymorine-reid5863]

A by product?

[@Rosebudd68]

Ayla I just wanna say I admire you, being a new mom is HARD no one truly understands until they’ve had kids( I have two sons). Especially being in the light on social media, you’re going to be exhausted and have tears and be overwhelmed BUT you’re also going to be happy, smile more, laugh more and feel the love that you’ve never felt being a boy mom because that love is STRONG. I discovered you through the boys but I stayed as an adult in watching this journey cause I lived it and your soul is infectious with positivity. It’s hard going out as a new parent but you learn as you go and you got his Ayla, bless you mama ❤ and tbh we all navigate parenthood in different ways so just do whatever in YOUR heart makes you happy!

[@priscillas4722]

Lol when the tree just plopped on top of Kian🎄😌😂. Coast just gets cuter every video! 🥰 Merry Christmas! ♥️

[@Yomomma-ju2ym]

Y’all are absolutely doing a great job as brand new parents! If no one has told u, I’m super proud of y’all both. I have 3 grown kids that I raised by myself and it’s a very hard, but rewarding job 😊 Don’t ever let the trolls on here make y’all think that you’re not good parents! Much love from Tennessee!

[@Person-oe7li]

Ayla i have to give you props, the shelf’s look amazing

[@meganwalton4349]

Yall are so chronically online it’s scary. No one has ever even spent a second with Kian or Ayla, you have zero clue how their dynamic works or what happens behind the scenes. I am positive that if Ayla had an issue with anything Kian does, she would set him straight. They are first time parents, they are still learning, still trying to figure out how to go from being single adults to being responsible for another literal human life. Give the poor people some grace. They obviously both love that baby and he is immensely cared for and looked after by BOTH of them. Yall need to go touch some grass and quit worrying about these people that you don’t even know

[@vintagejunktofunk4616]

Omg she’s totally gonna leave this dude… I’m sorry but I can’t with the way he acts..

[@ambiixox]

Coast is in good hands! Ayla has all the practice with Kian 😂

[@Jenspamzz]

I love seeing you and kian being parents I missed your vlogs ❤😊

[@Kristamariexx]

Ik the internet is grilling y’all right now but I love you two so much. Great parents and great people. Happy to see a new video 💛💛

[@Person-oe7li]

The internet is ?! Omg can’t believe none of it has been on any of my socials wtf why?

[@melaniesmith284]

Why are the getting grilled right now? What’s going on?

[@lunarghostt]

@@Person-oe7liit’s because ayla posted a tiktok (she now deleted) about how her and kian basically ask each other like “if they can take a shower” yk ask each other if they can do things while one or the other watches the baby, and such. so she asked kian if she can go to her appointment while he watches the baby for 3 hrs, and she said that he agreed on the count of him being able to go to the gym later on, and having the next day, ALL to himself with basically him not watching the baby at all the next day just so she can go to her appointment, coming to an “agreement” that’s what started it edit: i’m not agreeing nor agreeing, i just know that’s what started the discussion and why ppl are talking abt them on the internet, i just know ayla’s a zionist who posted abt supporting israel, 🫤

[@PepperAnnT]

@@lunarghosttI could understand him getting grilled because she shouldn’t have to ask him if he should keep the baby for a few hours, it’s also his responsibility to help her. I like Ayla, not so much Kian. He’s very childish but there’s a chance for growth. I believe he will get better with the years.

[@hotheadvash]

he deserves to get hate

[@Itzezyyyy]

Ayla making food for Kian while kian goes “you don’t love me” 😂

[@elindsp]

And then making that "I look better than you" comment. I didn't realize his immature character would actually affect his actual life to this degree... Especially in such an important phase of his life as baby-rearing. He needs to dial back on the immaturity and step up and say I'll do this,/ill take over/ you should relax, you seem overwhelmed, etc. I hope he realizes how amazing of a mom Ayla is

[@yarelisserrano5806]

Watching this reminds me of me a year ago. My son just turned 12 months and it’s crazy how time flew by! The first 6 months are hard, physically and mentally. Make sure you are taking care of yourself 🫶🏼

[@analosatiaiti6760]

You really don’t deserve all this chaos in a season that is meant to be full of joy. You know what’s best for you and your beautiful family! Love you guys xoxo

[@dlyddrk]

10:46 the way not only ayla looked at kian as if he was crazy but also moomer ? LOL😂

[@laceyhowland3351]

Hims so precious🥺 I love this.. ya are a cute little family.. so sweet watching you and Kian both grow over the years🫶🏼

[@mushroommeg8905]

Why couldn’t Kian just watch him so you could have a night to yourself

[@VeeDrago]

Lol cause moms are way more important to the baby in the first year or two.. just a fact. Dads can only do so much during that time, especially if she breastfeeds regularly

[@I-kd3cz]

​@@VeeDrago not all moms breastfeed

[@VeeDrago]

@@I-kd3cz I said "especially", meaning even if they don't

[@I-kd3cz]

@@VeeDrago that's why both parents need to be involved equally so they can limit the baby's parental preference

[@kkaitlynnn]

This video was so aesthetic, thanks for the update! Also them watching the Hunger Games Nezzas place was so slay 😍

[@bebe2amour]

MY CAT FREAOUT OVER KIANS NOISES!! Not even the dogs hahahaha

[@virlinehonore9767]

12:23-12:43 the tree looks beautiful! i love the decorations, lights and fake snow 👏🏾👏🏾

[@Itszahia]

Ayla you’re doing amazing!!! 🤍

[@Bellagrl]

I missed your vlogs so muuuuuch. This vlog was very entertaining.

[@preciousgibson2249]

I love this sweet little family!! I’ve watch Kian grow up on KZbin! I’m 32 not that much older than him and JC, and I’m excited about this new chapter for them. Kian is now a dad and JC is getting married. I remember Ayla from the Logan Paul days to. She is one of the best things that happened to Kian. Keep up the good work!! We are thankful for the little updates!! Love on that sweet baby for us!! ❤❤ ignore the hate, because for every negative comment, there is 5 positive ones. Y’all are doing a great job!!

[@priscillabevel]

I love both you and Kian. I know being a new parent is hard and I hope you guys are able to find a nice balance of everything🫶🏻

[@jaceywolfe6175]

i’ve missed your vlogs sooo much, i love how you and Kian are together. i hope Coast is doing well and so are you as a new mama

[@heyitsnaks]

You guys are the funniest! Love seeing these video updates and little baby Coast!

[@AsmrNicDreams]

Congratulations, I pray for your heath and the wellbeing of your new family!

[@DJ887]

Thank you for the vlog!! Very funny and fun. Hope you guys are having a good holiday season!!

[@Itzezyyyy]

Also love how you guys have the office Christmas episodes on in the bg🥰

[@michellebrown5084]

I love all the Christmas decorations and the tree looks amazing!!😊🎄🎅🎁

[@ellalee3532]

Chelsey holding Coast looked so natural

[@shaestevens2545]

I love love love loveeeeeee you guys!!! But. Does Kian help a lot when he cries?

[@sunvavachi]

Lovely to see you guys..enjoy the new year. Rest up well. 💜

[@Kimberly-br]

I just had to put my dog down and watching this helped me stop crying for a couple minutes. Thank you!

[@ermelinda2223]

You’re so strong for even picking up the phone and watching. I’d be a mess in my room or in the shower ... :( really so sorry. My cat is getting sick.. old it age now .. I’m scared it’s coming soon. I hope you can cope with yourself rn and try to do things to help you relax and heal.

[@alyssaproulx7750]

you two putting up the tree was FUUUUNNNNYY 😂😭 love you 3!

[@lindseyjohnson8578]

My great grandmother always had one of those magnetic skating rink trinkets and I always loved it, so cute

[@Alxxisk]

I wish yall good health and happiness ❤ happy holidays!

[@sarahhaban361]

KIAN HELP HER!! Jesus christ are you a child omg she's doing everything and doing it so gracefully. Respectfully but also in the most disrespectful way possible step tf up

[@chenda0514]

You know how ugly your comment sounds?? You are watching a 13 Minute video and you are telling Kian to step up? Like if you know their life? See them every all day 24 hours? What gives you the right to tell a new parent that you dont know to “step tf up”

[@awesomeadamfrom2099]

Awesome vlog Ayla and merry Christmas

[@michellebrown5084]

I love Kian's Christmas tree song!!😀😂Lol! He had me laughing soo hard!!😀😂

[@tuggy3589]

Mom, life congratulations on your new baby

[@kendallsworld525]

ahhh i’ve missed ur videos!! merry christmas eve:)🫶

[@Itzezyyyy]

Beautiful tree and decor 😍 I have the Ferris wheel as well 🥰

[@baymoo]

i hope new fans know this or viewers whatever you wanna call yourself i've watched kian for many years on and off youtube he a KIDDING and JOKING around i feel he'd never be that person/father to his only kid. i don't personally know him or met him irl but yall need to calm down if it was a huge issue it would've been addressed. kian is a joking person by nature. im sure he is doing his part off camera. ❤

[@summerchubak9700]

Lmao 9:08 he’s not wrong 😂 this part killed me

[@sydneymclaughlin7554]

i don’t understand why people are judging there relationship off of one video. they are happy together and doing what works for them there is no need to be leaving comments putting kian down in anyway. she has no problem with it so you guys shouldn’t either. it’s sad to see people judging a happy couple because they don’t do what you guys think is ok and not ok. I love you Ayla, Kian, and Coast you guys are doing such a good job ♥️

[@ermelinda2223]

How do you know she has no problem with it?? You don’t know that. Don’t be so sensitive and be realistic

[@elindsp]

If she made a point to speak out against these comments, then I'd shut my mouth. But right now it's pretty easy to read between the lines-- she just carried a baby for 9 months and went through labor, and seems to be the "main" parent doing most of the baby chores in addition to baby care. Kian gets his chunks of free time and gets to enjoy napping with the baby and downtime. Granted, I'm trying so hard not to make assumptions but I can't help but notice her doing all the little/crucial/tedious tasks herself and meanwhile Kian whines about having to put up a tree. She tries to talk to Kian and he always just babbles like a child in response. It's his charm, but he needs to be able to turn it off sometimes. I just feel for Ayla a lot and I'm really rooting for her because I worry she feels alone and overwhelmed. I'll gladly delete my thoughts if she expresses a desire for us to stfu. But baby rearing really requires the hubby's full and undivided devotion to the same degree that's expected of the mother.

[@ermelinda2223]

@@elindspyou said it perfectly and I so agree with you because that’s how I view this!

[@sydneymclaughlin7554]

@@elindsp in the video you can hear him say how she doesn’t want him to help decorate because she wants to do it and they openly say in the video how she wants to do it her way and they both laugh when he says it. i think people are looking too much into it and her tik tok jsut proved my point.

[@Olivia-jp4cx]

i agree. it's very upsetting seeing people act like they know everything. I wish the best for Kian and Ayla

[@corpsegirl]

Mom of two 🥺

[@sirafef]

He likes hearing y’all’s heartbeats❤❤❤

[@Mehh07]

There’s little heartbeat bears you can get coast that might help or at build-a-bear I think they still have those rhythmic hearts they can insert into a bear

[@aliyah4931]

Yay hope your doing well pretty girl ❤

[@kierraadele]

Awe you two are so cute!!! Love your lil family!!!❤❤hope you have a happy holiday!!!🥰the decorations look so cute!!👏

[@ducky_508]

My ex and I had this dynamic. I am goofy and weird in my own right but he was next level haha- it was a blissful balance between annoyed and laughing so much it hurt.

[@Bellagrl]

Also your decorating skills are AMAZING ❤

[@BriseydaChavez-d3h]

You guys are literally so funny and cute and amazing parents I love you guys

[@bethanyh7790]

When Kian got attacked by the bottom of the Christmas tree 😂😂😂😂 and I put up 30 foot trees and design them with me and two other woman and don’t have that many problems 😂😂😂

[@cassieblight]

Perfectly normal the first few months Your doing amazing ❤

[@taytay83001]

Lmao when Kian was putting the first part of the tree into the base and all of the branches fell on him I died

[@sarah8592-t1b]

Kian is so funny 😂 Love your navigating-adulthood vlogs! Happy holidays x

[@kaylanash1404]

Kian is the most unserious person 😂😂😂

[@maggielitz3697]

The tree opening on Kian😂😭

[@c.rvel.3863]

Kian is such a manchild sorry you have to put up with him but you’re doing great! Such a good mom

[@madisonparmely2155]

OMG! Not Kian dodging AFTER he disses Ayla for the way she looks 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Kian: “Better than you” Ayla: “WHAT THA” *Kian dodges* Kian: “what I can’t diss you but you can diss me?”😂😂😂😂😂 I love them so much

[@amydefe]

why do i feel like kian lowkey hates being in a relationship

[@yasmina0919]

I need to know where you got that snowman skating so cuteeee

[@summerg3747]

I’m sorry but the dogs barking at Kian for making all that noise….I can’t stop watching it. 😂

[@nadiastoloff]

past has such a wonderful family to grow up in.

[@paytonpetter]

the hunger games in the background is hilarious I love it

[@niomiblanc]

hey guys merry Christmas you guys happy holidays

[@sarahhaban361]

Ayla is my new favorite influencer

[@ariannacuesta8057]

Kian with the cat headband I loveee

[@abbeycollins4314]

I cannot stop laughing at the fact that all the girls are having a cute wholesome thanksgiving dinner when the background has the hunger games most gruesome scenes in the background lol

[@TiniMini92]

This video was so CUTE 💜

[@Juna_Clifton]

Merry Christmas! 🎄 ❤

[@elisaarellano155]

Kian sounds like the grinch lol

[@linseymotal1713]

Y’all need to get a life. You see 10 minutes of their lives together and are trying to bury a man. I don’t understand why yall act like Ayla wouldn’t set him straight if she had a problem. It’s obvious she’s a strong woman. Kian and Ayla, yall are such a wonderful little family and I hope you guys have a wonderful holiday season 🩵

[@brooklyn1282]

Always love watching your videos❤️

[@Junebug2908]

I'd give them 9 months max

[@isabellagarcia4437]

girl this was not a great vlog to post at this time 😣

[@ermelinda2223]

Wait why?

[@chelsiirvine8970]

Surely the grandparents can look after little coast give us knj dang it

[@kamiyanicole]

hope u r doing okay ayla!! came to ur yt just to check in 🫶🏾

[@Itzezyyyy]

Lol kian singing paramore in the bg

[@luvvana03]

I love Ayla and Kian❤