不能隔絕的愛-姚煒、趙式芝的心聲@創世電視專訪專輯

創世電視專訪專輯《不能隔絕的愛-姚煒、趙式芝的心聲》
香港基督教電視台創世電視特別邀請姚煒、趙式芝在事件後首度在電視鏡頭前進行專訪，親身講述16年來母女關係由敵對、冷漠到愛與寬恕，上帝如何幫助姚煒反思己過，即使立場不同，仍然關愛並與女兒同行。
1月13日，姚煒與女兒趙式芝共同出席添馬公園舉行的《愛家共融祈禱音樂會》，她倆真情相擁，修補了多年來破裂的關係，大眾為之動容；之後她倆分別隨即接受「創世電視」專訪，趙式芝首次接受電視專訪剖白心聲；而姚煒特意提供剖白信及剖白錄音(刊於以下網站)，道出她如何靠著信仰勝過內心掙扎的心路歷程，以過來人身份呼籲家長須特別注重子女成長階段之身心發展。
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[@estherwan4204]

每個做父母都希望兒女生活開心，有時父母的婚姻有遺憾，又會影響兒女。任何情況發生，必須放下面子，放下怒火，好好接受，才不會失去女兒。很難，但也要面對！

[@soonbeeyeo7931]

姚纬对记者采访的话，👍👍👍感谢主给的智慧🙏

[@TheSunshinegirl0801]

Take it easy 😀 順其自然🌹平常心🌹交托给上帝🌹💯👍🏻💪🏻🤝🏻Excellent 🤝🏻💪🏻👍🏻💯🌹

[@TheSunshinegirl0801]

God Bless All 🙌🤝🏻💪🏻👍🏻💯🌹 Excellent 💯👍🏻🌹💪🏻🤝🏻

[@kyylee0824]

姚煒沒錯，女兒是成人要為自己所做的事負責。

[@pccch1757]

姚瑋很坦白，也懂得回思，果是一位好母亲。

[@ters9526]

存心交托比上帝，適當時機 神 一定會出手幫助🙏

[@user-tq6jb8yc3j]

養兒一百歲，長憂九十九，如果沒真正做過母親的，很難明白為人父母的錐心之痛，正如姚媁的自責悔咎痛心，幸好她懂的懺悔和禱告，我相信在神的帶領下，必有更好的安排，願神祝福你和女女！

[@sgtam88]

一夫一妻，家庭和諧，夫妻共同教育好子女是家庭基礎。基礎做好，社會才好。

[@zarinacasi1]

說得很好！偉大的母親！🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💕

[@TheSunshinegirl0801]

Of course 🤝🏻💪🏻👍🏻💯🌹Excellent 🌹💯👍🏻💪🏻🤝🏻

[@TheSunshinegirl0801]

God Bless All 🙌 👍🏻💯🌹Excellent. 🌹💯👍🏻💪🏻🤝🏻

[@johnwong5399]

感謝菩薩，𧶽他身心愉快😀

[@susannacychan]

神愛世人，什至道成肉身成為耶穌基督，為所有世人的罪，死在當代最殘忍和羞恥的酷刑上，被鞭笞99鞭然後釘在十架上。解明來聽吓: 1)神愛每一個人，無論你的罪是什麼或有多大; 2) 但神是绝對不和罪相交，或容許祂所爱的每一個人和罪一同生活; 因為祂是個perfect 的慈父，知道罪的後果一定是身心靈的痛苦和永遠找不到真正爱的源頭，所以祂 "必不以有罪為無罪"; 也 "不願一人沈淪，乃願人人得救"。 3) ''救恩'''是神白白给"一切''世人，是祂在殘酷的十字架上，流盡血給買贖回來的。 4) 一切人，同性戀與否都有罪。聖經很清楚說同性戀是罪。 5) 所以同性戀者如同一切罪人，绝對可以返教會，認識神，和與主內肢體一同相交、成長、彼些關懷。 ***6) 然而，如果同性戀者不願意認罪和悔改，神白白的救恩擺在他們眼前也拿不到。神尊重人的自由意志去選擇，包括因自己的決擇而死後滅亡，放棄永生。 ***7) 魔鬼和假師傅(假牧者) 最大的問題就是只傳神的爱，但不告訴你什麼是罪和邪惡，使你將來和他們陪葬!!!😰 *** 記住啊!魔鬼撒旦也十分清楚神的真正存在和愛"所有"世人，也装作光明的天便; 但從造天地以來，決意是非顛倒，導人罪中作樂，敵擋真理! 你叫真正重生悔改的母親，怎會不為愛女擔心呢？ 家庭背景，父母犯罪一定有後果，連累子女。然而神给每個人足夠的能力和恩典，冥冥知道什麼是罪。十架的宝血大過一切一切成長陰影，所以姚煒和所有"重生得救"的罪人一樣，绝不希望自己子女中了撒旦謊言，與罪妥協，在罪中尋求暫時的安慰，而走向滅亡都不自知!💗

[@CocoTiu]

感謝絩媁真情與我們分享她和她女兒的經歷。神愛世人 不管我們有什麼錯

[@mrmrabcabc123]

姚煒，主已寬恕你的過去，不要再斥責自己了。面對別人過去和現在的思想行為，不要再歸咎自己，這些與你沒有關係。

[@oing9630]

我比較認同姚瑋後來的回應，其實基督徒也只是一個普通人，但是卻因著有依靠神在困難當中不放棄，讓神來改變自己，生命不斷成長得到神的醫治和恢復，將來這樣的經歷可以幫助很多有此類問題的人，成為很多人的祝福，其實是很好的見證，愿神繼續幫助和帶領姚瑋，並且使用她。

[@KennyKChan]

Thank you for sharing this. Stand up for what is right but extending God's love is also important. So sad today's environment, making wrong seems right, so sad. May God has mercy.

[@lisaleung6056]

姚緯好幸福能聽到主的聲音，我的信德不足夠不但聽不到主的聲音而且我覺得和主的距離越來越遠

[@alantang590]

没有任何事情能使上帝与人的爱隔绝

[@kongchan437]

don't give up on God because God does not give up on you. I have to remind myself that all the time. Following Jesus is the most difficult job, for me. Knowing God is still giving me mercy is the only hope I am holding on to.

[@lamlam5704]

後生女鬧著玩的 而且又有錢 比較自我任性 趙式芝外貌像爸爸 看起來很乖 希望遇到專一男令她幸福。5好再同那些女浪費時間了。

[@alicelau5467]

愛！是沒有分別和分男女！你家養的狗！難道你不愛它嗎？ 不應該分種類！ 這才是真愛！

[@clarasuccess]

God is amazing, He is the most mercy God. I testify he loves every one of us very much that he sacrifice his only son Jesus Christ to save us.

[@lainorchang9235]

吾係憎恨，一直只會想.是不昰自己做錯了甚麽呢？很心碎，吾知自己點.去面對和接受。😪

[@lolo-ls2io]

唔知係咪做父母特別鍚生得似自己嘅仔女，好多年前趙世曾攬住仲係細蚊女嘅趙式芝上電視節目果陣嘅開心又父愛爆棚，而家見到佢仲越大越似，80%似

[@portlandkam1268]

理解姚緯小姐這個問題，每個家長都希望子女和異性正常交往。但是否因為在對小朋友教育方法偏差而導致子女選擇同性去發展，則未敢肯定

[@susandschang4613]

性取向难道不是天生的吗？

[@sing1118ify]

在人不能，在神什么都能，god bless you

[@chingsir1223]

經常聽到這句說話：「上帝同我講嘢」。實際上又是否如是？

[@williamho1000]

this tme is trying and by god 's grace it almost can touch deep into people's heart,Glory to the Lord..

[@raymondwoo2648]

Even though 姚媁小姐 is incorrect because we should accept & respect people’s sexual orientation, not to change them. Christ loves & accepts everyone. I salute her love for her daughter, Gigi, & her effort to be closer to Gigi. I feel sad that Gigi & Sean divorced recently. I wish them all the best as the future unfolds. Love & support is what everyone needs, not judgment or put down.

[@coffeebutch]

thank you for sharing, this is really wonderful confession.

[@williamho1000]

you are God's little children and have overcome them,some responses were of the world,therefore speak they of the world,and the world hear them,the beautiful is that God never created once thing the same,but he wanted all things the same as him,it's amazing..

[@Sunrise2912]

Her sufferings comes from non-acceptance. But, with love, nothing matters.

[@yeetse396]

第一步係理解或者接受 絕對唔係嘗試去改變

[@xuezhenliang542]

神是你内心的天使

[@randwanda8045]

感人的見証！多謝分享！ 不太明白，既然女兒有上教會，應該知道聖經寫得好清楚神厭惡同性戀，為什麼還明知故犯？

[@briannelee8808]

好想擁抱妳💕

[@emilywingate2179]

如果是真正相愛去結婚又為何需要向外面無關的人去公開得到認同呢？更何況答應自己的媽媽和’岳母‘ 又要去反口（ 完全沒有誠信同背叛自己就愛的家人

[@chenhuiyi1061]

好真实啊

[@kamkamng303]

唔使講咁多啦！大把人遭遇比你更甚，世间不如意事常有之，又要馬兒好，又要馬兒不吃草，難咯！做人好多時有得有失，輸打赢要，边有咁着数。伩基督嘅！咪多的祈祷赎罪，心安理得。

[@saufunyeung9834]

耶穌愛罪人，但罪人也要悔改啊！不要再犯。

[@yingai1962]

太難了，何時才能回頭，做媽咪的真是太困惑😖

[@keanos0224]

神接受任何人信祂，她女兒信神應該明白神的心意，她確實在犯的律法，同性戀會導致落地獄的後果。 其實趙式芝應該悔改同性戀的罪，因悔改的人才是信耶穌的人。 希望教會唔再宣傳同性戀 同性婚姻， 世俗接受，但教會應該杜絕。 確實我們同樣係罪人，所以同性戀者都應該認識神， 更重要係因罪，不如濫用神嘅慈愛。

[@chengsh6117]

弓7女人 7 。。

[@chengsh6117]

4 5九...l67.

[@lekkki1]

This I will tell you; both her Mom and Dad adore her, absolutely love, love, love her. Her mother apparently went into a nervous breakdown (not sure that is the right term or even appropriate) when she found out about the marriage to Sean. She has come a long way since then. Sadly; Chinese culture really frowns on gays, despite the (sometimes paltry ) efforts of the CCP to legalize or decriminalize it. Gigi's Dad's reaction has been nothing short of hilarious. That's a whole different story. Gigi has been a shining star throughout all of this, she is truly an amazing and deeply intelligent, loving woman. I'm glad she has her Sean.

[@kamkamng303]

遲乜嘢鸦！個女都咁大，有错了而後悔，都係佢地两個去解决囉！旁人就算知道都係咁话啫！人生数十寒暑 難免会有想不到之恩怨与好坏事宜產生的。

[@fanofmarthastewart1276]

Gigi Choa's mother is correct. Everything in this world has cause and effect. Gigi grew up with a single mother, and an absentee playboy father... This really affects a girl's attitude toward men and marriage. How can a girl trust that any man can love her when her father abandoned her mother and was rarely there for his own daughter??? Not every lesbian was born to be a lesbian. May be there are some lesbians who were born into lesbianism, but in Gigi's case, one can't deny that she didn't grow up in an healthy environment where she should trust any man, let alone finding romantic love and marriage with one. In her case, the environmental factor may have influenced her sexual orientation....But God bless 姚煒, and she is able to reflect and accept her daughter with love. Whether or not people agree that Gigi's sexual orientation was her choice due to her perception and the attitude that she acquired while growing up, or she was born with it, 姚煒's message on parenting is a very wise one. This is a very inspiring and heart-felt message!!!

[@susannacychan]

Amen

[@user-eb8nz6wz9k]

💪👍🎬

[@revaholic]

Nice story and an interesting story depicting generational differences, but there are some uncomfortable elements such as the whole implication that the parent somehow failed the child by not being loving and caring enough, and that this had caused them to be gay.

[@humg1934]

其實簡單講睇到個女性格 就係佢自己嘅性格佢係唔了解自己性格正所謂嘅身教佢自己唔知自己係咁嘅性格要重新適應了解自己 等於重生了解個女等於瞭解自己

[@user-ej2by6og6u]

人也是動物，上帝真把你們公平出生？大家都有手，有腳？眼睛⋯⋯都正常，只是人們對性太敏感了吧

[@user-iz3dg9zg2v]

永远的金大班

[@wendywhole1088]

基督徒也有情绪，但是有个信仰多个福气就是可以交托！发泄之后也许多一个后悔！不过随遇而安也是神喜悦的！

[@kamkamng303]

当你生话上一切都如意，順风順水的話，会伩耶稣嗎？

[@ly81126]

KAM KA M Ng

[@chanlue2242]

當日同母親反面都要結婚，最後都係離婚

[@tsz8tsz72]

很感動‘但是中閒有段是冇沒聲音，請代跟進🙏🏼😘

[@linluichau2691]

Ok

[@user-pw3et1gq1k]

社會好公平㗎， 仔女嘅關鍵時刻係家庭教育， 家庭影響好心軟， 接觸的社會每個人一層次有唔同， 佢認為嗰方面呢係比較好傾呢嗰方面， 佢唔會信男方呀! 爸爸影響力咁大， 所以我偏向於女性， 覺得大家舒服有安全感! 呢啲唔係反叛 心理影響。 多啲了解， 深入了解

[@richardfung5037]

還債

[@cheukyinlam7743]

傳道講耶穌

[@worksmart196]

The music is disturbed.

[@user-hc5yx5pg3k]

聽到姚瑋似是而非，明著說愛，暗地打壓同志的言論，真是令人不寒而慄。這種洗腦方式是高明的也是卑怯的。難怪中國大陸不讓基督教蔓延。

[@kamkamng303]

好煽情，感动！

[@laiharzee2156]

臨

[@jasonjesus5134]

臨水照華 大陸地區永遠只有他們政府、沒有人民心聲。你反對政府時就會悄悄消失無蹤。

[@abcde9526]

臨水照華 ：你在颠倒是非，真正基督徒都不是同性恋者，姚炜是对的，她可以爱她女儿，也同时不能接受她女儿的行为。

[@suphangko5812]

基督教反對同性戀的行為，但不是反對同性戀者、前者是＂事情＂，後者是＂個人＂

[@prettytse7762]

MUCH BETTER THAN ALL HER ACTING////JESUE HEAD////

[@user-sj9cr5lr4o]

每个人的信仰不能抹煞，难度某些信仰沒有嗎？

[@babygirlvk]

女儿倔强像妈妈

[@johnwong5399]

我拜神的，若知道系同性戀，我會拍掌哈哈哈笑，點香燭拜祖先，希望身體健康，心想事成，萬事如意！

[@liyubobo9441]

寬恕包容 世界上很多不同意見不同方向的人 上帝會否接受他們呢 聖母會否包容他們呢 耶穌被釘十字架 為世人受苦受難 聖經上給我們很多 教誨道理 我覺得應該學會寬恕包容 畢竟現在是 新世紀新年代 感恩每一天 活著要精彩

[@eaglestrike598]

這种母親生出的是什么 ?

[@harukamiho]

The mom sounded like a drama queen.

[@cwong8780]

She, from start is not high on EQ,

[@iuh75]

Hmmm.. So they are still hoping that god will guide them back to what is considered conventional and right. While its comforting to know that the parents have decided to find a way to get along with their kids, it will take another few generations to finally enable everyone to understand what it really is.

[@edtam2454]

重係咁話個女有病，希望神比啲指引佢。

[@MsAnteos]

any ideas what are they talkin about? translation would be nice.

[@kimsachan]

宗教好的時候都很好的，因為自己沒有方向怎樣去走條路，宗教屬於心理輔導 形，但是耶穌都教不到你個女兒，所以我都不認為宗教可以帶領人類行去正確的道路😂。

[@johnwong5399]

式芝中文修養吾錯。

[@sunilkumarmera7871]

जिनि चाओ जी आई लव यू

[@kptang9603]

The Mum is so dramatic

[@yuenlucia5454]

Auntie 一見到自己個女既行為，並不是自己所能控制，就以撞牆作威脅。真係做足 emotional blackmail ，以所謂愛來威脅，但實際上係 control freak. 另外，我覺得 Auntie 有D 自私。個女搵到真心想同佢結婚既人，不祝福不等止，卻只想著保護個人面子。

[@hongkonghongkong5765]

Generation gap!! It seems to me that both are not mindful to other, however, the old later is able to do a thorough introspection but the young seems not.

[@jackfavvv]

The mother all of a sudden started using some really complex Cantonese that I can't understand. It was around 2:00 - 5:00 Can someone give me the gist of it?

[@kongchan437]

She said she heard the news reporting the marriage between her daughter and Sean, and she was shaken to her core, and she asked her daughter why they broke their promise to her , not to broadcast the news to the media...

[@jannylo1612]

点解聽聽卟冇聲🙏🙏

[@ansonwong3344]

最搞笑系 16年前又系甘 16年後又系甘 喱句睇到我笑左 甘正正代表阿媽一直都冇進步過

[@jli105]

Anson Wong iikI'm

[@parwezalam7457]

Fon

[@waterwater5495]

Why反對呢⋯⋯

[@user-of8xm2re7p]

聖經只說男男不可相交沒說女女不可相交，即妳們沒有問題！

[@aoshima0127]

Auntie呀......神愛世人.....其實古今中外唔少人都係同志......如果強迫Gigi變直都無ga

[@yantaing8751]

媽媽信得清楚，知道神是聖潔的，同性戀是罪的一種，但如果不悔改但又説自己是基督徒的話，那你信的不是耶稣基督，是你自己想像出来的神，即是自己是神！

[@lightningblues3416]

yan

[@wai.hingchan7195]

yantai ng 法理菜人，巴力後人！

[@chungchow1308]

yantai ng 个

[@prego998]

OMG - The mom is dramatic!! LOL!!! Was she an actress? what's up with the fobby Cantonese accent.

[@angelinechan123]

+Yankees4Ever You are right. Her mum was a famous actress before. She was born in Shanghai so her Cantonese is not same as those born in Hong Kong. I do not think she is dramatic. She just tells us directly what was her feeling and thought. I guess you are still very young so you think she is dramatic.

[@LEORedSun]

I think sexuality is not a choice but born that way. How do you correct someone born that way? You just can't 趙式芝 is selfish. what she did was I do what I want in your face. Okay, fine, you don't like man but did she realize her action affect people around her especially her mother?

[@jackleung7254]

有部分冇聲

[@6mommom]

要禁埋出軌丶二奶丶婚外情

[@alicelee2215]

6mommom ff

[@sgtam88]

因該是首要

[@abcde9526]

27男人也是如此、棄了女人順性的用處、慾火攻心、彼此貪戀、男和男行可羞恥的事、就在自己身上受這妄為當得的報應。--圣经罗马书1章27节。

[@tommyliu2030]

一

[@meowengtan7287]

如

[@worksmart196]

她倆也不是甚麼樣的基督徒，做了上帝不喜悅的事。

[@wai.hingchan7195]

姚煒您介绍個靚仔比她！金成武靚仔比她吧？男人好，给她，梁朝偉，總知介绍靓仔给她！做媽媽負出，介绍親仔比她！现在登報纸，揾老公，一定要靓仔。幫幫她男人！

[@stonpio1]

而家大部份靚仔都有男朋友啦，包括金城武，佢都有個日籍男朋友，所以靚仔信唔過，搵個醜男穩陣啲

[@johnwong5399]

乜都祈禱，祈禱…

[@abcde9526]

因此　神任憑他們放縱可羞恥的情慾．他們的女人、把順性的用處、變為逆性的用處．---圣经罗马书1章26节。

[@corcorgi]

Mum seems to be a bit nutty if she is angry because her daughter is lesbian. This is new century, not medieval.

[@oenrob98000]

Yiu Wai is contradicting herself. She said God has helped her to accept her daughter but she also talked about how parents should watch over their kids from a young age so they won't be led "astray". She's implying that homosexuality can be cured if only one seeks help. That's ridiculous.

[@kongchan437]

There is no contradiction. Children are God's gift for us. Bible teaches parents to be responsible to their children, love them, guide them to love God - which means stay away from doing things Bible tells us not to do. But human is not perfect, so Christians are also not perfect. I am often not perfect myself, so who am I to judge even my own children, but that does not mean I should not guide them out of my love to stay onto God's path.

[@oenrob98000]

@@kongchan437 Amen. Praise the Lord 🙏🏻

[@acumenc.8629]

Still wanna change someone's sexuality. Show some respect please.

[@user-yb7nk4lo2i]

朱鵲橋老師在他的八字命理書中有述及,說同性戀在八字裡己有顕示,亦即是妳生她出來的八字(年,月,日,時)決定一切,亦即是妳決定她是同性戀,怨只有怨自己！放開懷抱吧！

[@kamkamng303]

而家老啫！稔住搅唔到的也嘢出嚟，心头又高，重想揾個大阔佬照住？自以为自已無以上之，成日想攀上流。無奈昭华不再。

[@user-tw2rs3pf1w]

到最后咪离婚…无咩好讲的

[@user-tn3ii8ny3o]

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[@hellosun8965]

最好唔好有任何宗教信仰，咁就唔會有任何枷鎖。姚煒係咪有幻覺，神點樣同佢講嘢呀? 真係好好笑!

[@judyngai6364]

wow the mom sounds so ridiculous, honestly I feel really bad for her daughter and sean

[@user-np2pm3zi9w]

耶稣 怎么样你能 在教会呢教会没有 同性恋 不要乱搞

[@johnwong5399]

祈禱有鬼用，有改變到嗎？真係老土！