If there is one thing I hate is for parents to scratch in their adult children's things. I notice in all the Turkish series that the parents at all times interfere in their children's lives. It is frustrating to watch. Adult children must be left to find their own way and choose their own partners. If you call it tradition then respectfully I would say drop the tradition because "IT MAKES YOUR CHILDREN UNHAPPY" Do you parents honestly think that it is good to make your kids unhappy. What I noticed because of your behavior your "CHILDREN LIE ALOT and HIDE THINGS FROM YOU" for which YOU ARE TO BLAME, period. A question for these kind of parents, "DID YOU NOT MAKE MISTAKES IN YOUR LIFE???? " You always talk about honor "WERE YOU HONOURABLE IN YOUR LIFE???" so don't make your children pay for your BS and shitty life. Like my comment or not, I really don't care I am also a parent with two grown men who are successful because they were allowed to make their own choices and learn from their mistakes. I was their to guide and support them, not rule their lives for which they are extremely appreciative.