Baby Girl clothing haul (my DILEMMA as a BOY MOM)

[@susanhays5691]

Little girls can wear animals on their clothing. Girl clothing doesn't have to be fussy and frilly. Some boy clothes are fine for girls. Classic styles are always appropriate. Wearing leggings and tights under little dresses is a must! You will be an awesome girl mom! ❤

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thank you! Great advice

[@dawnlight348]

I had twin girls and I actually loved the girl blue jeans. I didn't put dresses on them except on a holiday. And they wore sweat pants and Hoodies. Now a days I have been seeing a lot of Grey's and denim blue on girls.

[@mary-annemarnham912]

You have raised a gorgeous little boy who is not only rough and tumble but kind and gentle. I see no reason you won’t do the same with this little girl. Who knows? Maybe she’ll even “tear up the kitchen!”- and if she does it won’t matter what clothes she’s wearing. Love Xander’s take on little boys !!!

[@dawnshipley1243]

Your choices are OK. You do you, Boo. She will let you know her style as she grows.

[@pattersonfamily9068]

I am just like you! Tomboy with two brothers for my childhood. Had a boy first, and when I found I was going to have a girl I freaked out a little bit. I don’t like cutesy things, have more of a classic taste and a love for toned down colors and cozy textures. I wondered how I would ever be a Mom of a girl, and the thought would overwhelm me. BUT, she has taught me every step of the way. She is 5 now, and unicorns, rainbows, and glitter have become a love of mine because what I really love is seeing her little face light up when she sees the things that she finds beautiful. We love our children, and that makes room for our tastes to remain the same, but for our appreciation to broaden. Praying continually for you, and I am just SOOO excited to see all the color and joy this little girl is going to bring to your home. ❤️

[@aprilmapp3140]

I LOVE THE FLOWERS AND HEAD BANDS, YOUR GET THERE IT IS NICE SEEING YOUR SISTER IN LAW WITH YOU. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

[@oklahomafreedom5536]

Gosh, Zander is so intelligent. You guys are great parents. Much love to you and the new baby girl soon. Your going to be fine. Blessings 🙏💞

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thank you!

[@sarahr7279]

All children need and want love and we all can see that Xander is full of love. I don't think you have anything to worry about. I think when you look in her eyes for the first time you will know that you will learn together and everything will be just fine. God has put you right where you are meant to be ♥️♥️♥️

[@donnazavitz1095]

Having had two girls... at first you dress them in your style...wait until they decide themselves! I had one that loved pink and purple and the other loved orange! Two totally different personalities. Congratulations! You will be a great girl mumma! My first baby was a boy so I think the girls wore his stuff as well. In the long run it won't matter what you put on them. 😊

[@wychefamily3454]

You crack me up. The girl clothes you picked are so cute! I love the bright colors too.

[@63Littlemouse]

You hit the nail on the head when you said keep a balance ! I love all the clothes that you chose, pretty & practical (though I am a boy Mum !!) Don't over think things, a baby only needs love & care, not fancy/fashion clothes :) x

[@lorenviolasommers4184]

It’s okay to have times of rambling! 💕 and it’s totally normal to go through some of the emotions you are dealing with!! And your taste of girls clothes are beautiful! 💕 YOU GOT THIS!!

[@bakeneggsdesertgarden5068]

I have 2 girls and a boy. When they were little , I liked neutral colors that were darker to help with stains. I mean, let's get real, babies eat, poop, sleep. I really liked the sleeper gowns too, for late night changes.

[@sondramiller9104]

I am like you. I struggle with the little girl clothes. I don’t have children but I have an unofficial adopted daughter. She just had a baby boy December 30. He is so easy to buy for. I am thankful we have a boy. I loved this shopping excursion with you. I think once you meet your daughter buying clothing for her will be easier. Praying for you sweet girl! You are looking radiant. Much love to you and your precious family!!

[@terryhanna777]

Loved this video! You were so cute when you were shopping and talking about what you like and don't like! If you ask me, there's nothing cuter than a little girl in overalls. I can see her now, following Xander around. What a blessed little girl she will be with him for her big brother and you and Nolan for her parents!! Relax and enjoy! This is such a special time of life!!

[@randomusername704]

I understand what you're saying. The more earthy neutral colors and earthy textures feel higher quality than the primary or vivid colored things and shiny textures

[@melissatamer9193]

Completely understand what you're saying. I love the "classic" look much more than the "trendy" look. I love the headbands, most definitely. I think they complete any outfit.

[@judydenham2110]

I had a girl (many moons ago - lol) and as I watched you hold up clothes and say "boy" I thought, I would so put that on a little girl. Girls are great in greens, dark blues - even browns. One of my favourite dresses for my daughter when she was about 3, was brown with little tiny flowers on it. Everyone commented on it. So don't overthink whether you think it should be for a boy or girl - just put on this sweet little baby anything that makes you happy. Just buy little socks with frills and that's enough. Nothing wrong with overalls and t-shirts on a little girl. Very happy for you - so just enjoy.

[@tkat8871]

I dressed my poor bald daughter in her brothers hand me downs and it actually made sense b/c when she played she got (like ALL children do) messy. I would suggest, in new born, onesies, leggings, sun dresses with matching pants and sleepers…. They really don’t need a lot other than for diaper blow outs and dribbles/drools. I don’t make outfits either so I often bought “outfits” at Walmart.

[@jojoply]

Little smocked dresses. Bloomers. And all the hair bows. My grand daughter had that little red dress you bought.

[@helensilk-polese7394]

I didn’t like fussy clothing for my girls either. Now I’m a grandmother to a 9 year old and a 6 year old. If I buy for the 9 year old, I go to the boys’ section usually and find things she loves to wear. If I’m shopping for the 6 year old, it’s the pinkest and frilliest things she loves. You are both wonderful parents and your daughter will most importantly be wrapped in love!!

[@kathleeneggert9342]

For me, especially with an infant, I find that the material the clothes are made of are so important. Cotton is breathable and comfy, and since an infant can't say "it's itchy," or "that belt is too tight," I steer away from tulle and adult accessories, including headbands. When she is a bit older, she will tell you what she likes (and you may be surprised).

[@mz8194]

I haven't seen your vlogs for a while. What a wonderful news. I whish you all the happiness in the world. Havin one of each is so nice!!

[@sherrybrooks3555]

As a mom of 3 grown daughters and a self proclaimed tomboy you we be fine. I grew up in Lancaster county in Pa. I never liked sports like you but trucks were my thing when I was little. I did find sewing / crafts as a teen but still loved my trucks and John deer’s . I even drove school bus and eventually got my CDL and drove a box truck. God knows what he’s doing you will be a great “girl” mom. I’m now enjoying my year old granddaughter who is ruff and tumble most of the time . My daughter would like her to be a little frilly with head bands ….. but Calliope says no way. 😍

[@BonnieJoan]

Once my daughter got old enough to talk she made it clear that she didn’t like the frills or lace or ribbons. I adjusted and let her be herself. We are so different but also the same. We’ve remained close for 30 years. Your connection with your lovely daughter will be a beautiful thing.

[@Kathleensailorgirl]

Love your choices especially the red dress and all the onesie. You will be fine you are already a great Mom ,be calm 🥰👍💕💕💕

[@andrealashea6783]

I think the little neutral colored smocked dresses are beautiful .

[@debbiemorgan6701]

You will be a wonderful Mommy. I loved whatever looked good on my daughter. I was so disappointed when she didn't look good in some of the clothes that I had loved. It all works out. My daughter liked frilly things but also loved playing in dirt and rough housing with her brother. We made sure that both of our kiddos could cook, clean, mow, garden, change tires and change their oil. She could do all of it in pants or a dress.

[@lauravancas986]

As a Mom of two boys then two girls, I understand the mind switch that you go through. I always bought what was affordable, comfortable and practical with each child. My girls were not tomboys but they didn't like real lacey, frilly (itchy) clothes. As adults, my daughters still want to be comfortable and modestly dressed. You've got this!

[@judiewoodward9756]

All of your rambling made perfect sense.Good luck.

[@suzykauffman1831]

All you need are onesies and sleepers. Those gowns with the elastic bands around the bottom are wonderful. Even as she grows...leggings and tops. Keep it simple!

[@kimwalder3817]

Oh my goodness!!! Zander is so Cute!!! Smart to use the phrase "soon going to be." He cracked me up when he said 'I'm so spoiled!" He just knows he's a lucky kid to have a LeapFrog pad. What a sweetheart. Don't stress over the shopping and have fun with it.

[@billiebluesheepie2907]

It doesn’t matter what your baby wears, it’s your baby! As long as they’re warm in winter and cool in summer, you’ll be doing great. As I only had girls, I would say don’t have them wear dresses when they’re learning to crawl, apart from that anything goes. (...my little darlings wore dark clothes when they were out exploring or eating chocolate, and light coloured clothes when they were eating ice cream too!!!) Billie from Lancaster, England :-)

[@abundantlove2194]

I so agree, often infant/toddler girl clothes can look tacky, cheap and just a bit over the top for MY personal taste. To each their own.🙂 Congrats!! 💜

[@SewCraftyNana]

Lol you’re funny! Put whatever you want on her - she’s your baby! When she’s old enough she will decide what she likes. My granddaughter is one TOUGH dirt bike kid but she’s also in dance - tutu and all. You do your thing and don’t worry about what others like or don’t like.

[@Mindy56743]

I really agree with the girl styles now. I have kept many of my girls outfits my youngest daughter is 21 years old and I still have a tub full of her clothes. I personally love the simple ageless clothes. The colors that have been the historical colors for girls for years. Light pinks and yellows and white.

[@ashleytkl3036]

This is so wonderful. Xander and a sister. How God blesses. I'm excited for all of you NJfamily! Janine. Turn anxious to excitement. You're a great mom. I know you'll have a special adventure and exploring journey with your daughter. God bless you girl!

[@mruggier0]

Newborns only need a few cotton onesies long and short sleeve, a few receiving blankets with a soft cotton cap to keep warm and wind and insects out of ears. Dresses that are stiff aren’t needed initially . Some receiving style sleepers with elastic on bottom come in handy. A few cotton burp clothes or cotton diapers for spit up and your good to go . I also suggest socks to use on both feet and hands to prevent face scratches . As she grows her clothing will become more important. Just enjoy the journey!! Btw I had two boys before a girl snd I felt girls were easier . And yes you can put cute baby animal prints on girls just stick a coordinating headband and all is good!! Can’t wait for her arrival! I say we need to do an online baby shower!!

[@stuckinmopro8533]

Little ones clothing has gotten so much better from when my children were born (35 years ago)! Our son was born first and when I went into a store I would find one or two racks out by the loading dock for boys and racks as far as the eye could see for little girls! I’m so glad things have changed!

[@tammyelder9199]

I had a boy first too, and mixed in a lot of his hand me downs into my daughter's wardrobe. A pink onesie with denim bottoms, blue overalls with a hair bow. Boys clothes do seem to be more sturdy.

[@LucyGirl2023]

I had 2 boys and then a girl. I understand how you feel. It all comes together though I loved fixing her hair and choosing cute outfits in no time.

[@betsyvanweerdhuizen5316]

You’ll be fine! Don’t fret or overthink it. My daughter-in -law was adamant that her baby girl was not going to be all pink and frills. I laughed my head off. Guess what, my granddaughter is 3 now and her favorite color is pink and she loves dress up and frills. She can also be rough and tumble and play outside in the mud for hours. Like you said, it’s a balance. It’s not one or the other. It will all fall into place.

[@sandyhodge664]

You will get the hang of it. I know when I was pregnant. I struggled with the same thing. Then when the baby is born it comes naturally. Just like you fell in love with boy clothes. You will fall in love with girl clothes. Each child has there own style and you will find your own style for your baby girl. I can wait to meet her. May God bless y’all on this beautiful Journey. Love you guys!!❤️❤️

[@terrihartlep8094]

Don't stress it will all fall in to place once she gets here. When you see her & get to know her personality etc will seem as though she has always been a part of your lives & you will know what styles of clothing suits her. My parents said the only time I put up a fuss about anything was I never liked a car seat & with clothing did not like lace. I never wanted anything itchy or scratchy. To this day I still don't. We are all different but that's good. Your going to do just fine & just relax & enjoy this next chapter & journey of life. You will be an amazing girl mom just as you are a boy mom.

[@mktay2067]

I totally had boy colour everything for my girl. Loved Baby has really great outfits! Very neutral and earthy tones.

[@rondahicks24]

Oh my goodness. Poor mama, you'll figure it all out. I haven't smiled this much in a long time. Good Luck and God Bless.

[@margrietneels6031]

Oh Jeannine! I love, love, love the dresses and onesies you chose! Totally my style and color choices as well! I've had 4 daughters and 2 sons, and have the same clothing styles as you do. I don't like all the frills and tulle skirts, but love cute summery flower dresses and onesies. Don't be too worried about how you will do with your little girl, once you have her it will all fall into place and you will be the best mom to both Xander and your little girl. And who knows, you probably will start loving to buy all the girlie clothes better than boy stuff🙂

[@fionaverma]

I have a very simple minimalist wardrobe myself and if I had children their wardrobe would emulate mine. I would probably do little mini capsule wardrobes for them. A simple wardrobe of neutral plain colours with a few colourful items that can go with everything I.e maybe all neutral stockings that can match with any dresses. I’m all about practicality, comfort (I only buy natural fibres now cause I just know I won’t wear clothes with synthetic materials, they’ll sit in the wardrobe unworn and natural fibres seem to last a lot longer too) and keep a paired down wardrobe so I don’t get overwhelmed. I love capsule wardrobes and project 333 and would definitely do a modified version of that.

[@noelhorseman1109]

The way that you talk about motherhood is truly beautiful, both of your littles are so blessed. 💕

[@marie-louiseweerheim4224]

The clothes you got are so cute! I have two girls. Something I found was that there are a lot of different pink colours that don't always match... So it helps to make matching sets. For example a dress and a legging. I got a lot of baby clothes from family, didn' t buy that much. I am more minimal with my second because with two children I do laundry more often so clothes will be back in the drawer quickly. They don't need a huge amount of clothes.

[@lauracowan7615]

Awww…don’t stress it. I think with your beliefs and style you like simple, classic patterns and shapes. And that’s great. There is a push to make little girls look like big girls and you are right- raising girls to have a healthy balance is important. You are a girl and you like all those things- and there is nothing wrong with you. You’ve got this! Keep her in all white as a newborn if you have to until you see her personality and get comfortable…enjoy the journey.

[@deborahryan2654]

Just enjoy this dear time in your life… your little girl will look wonderful in anything you put her in!

[@lseabury8203]

Boys are THE best! So much fun, rugged, tumble and up for anything for the day. Your Daughter can wear your sons baby clothes just add a white or yellow hat or booties. Girls dont need to be frilly, animals prints are cute on both. Your baby can be dressed as you want.

[@jojocatattack]

I have been an Aunt and Great-Aunt to a huge circle of family and friends. Babies and sleepers and onesies and denim are my go to. Kohls is a good resource for sales. I have purchased so many pairs of girl tights over the years. My floofy dress shopping was limited to Christmas and/or Easter and even then, I did not go overboard with the tulle. Purchase some heavy linen and run up a few simple overalls dresses. They look fine wrinkled and you can add length as they grow. I used to sew cotton sun suits and would make them reversible so the Moms could get double duty out of them.

[@bettyfuller3678]

When she arrives you will forget the anxiety you were just having. Lol! Love will take over. You're adorable. God bless!

[@robinlee3018]

My kids are teens now, but I had more fun dressing my daughter than my son. I’m glad that I had my babies back when there were plenty of traditional options available. These days I see baby girls in cheetah prints, neutral tones and even black outfits, none of which would be anything that I’d choose for my baby girl. As you say, there’s nothing wrong with other options, it’s just a matter of personal taste. Soon enough our kids form their own preferences, so dress her in what pleases you while you can!

[@almalockett7162]

Just enjoy, you are so blessed, and are a blessing.

[@kimjones9553]

You can always put your daughter in boys sweaters and jeans and cute headbands. The oatmeal colored sweater at Target would look darling on a baby girl!

[@conniealman3237]

My 5 children were born in the 1980's. August for girls and Feb. for boys. I kept my in the Pajamas when they were little, unless we went some where. My kids loved sesame , so I would get those. Target had granimials, those were cute each piece had a animal tag that would match another animal as a set. The girls being born end of Aug. it would be getting cold. Lots of blankies. I knit and crochet so I made lots of stuff also. Best of luck, your a great Mom! 😀

[@marysmyczynski3425]

You will be a Rockstar of a girl Mom!! All the cute tomboy girl clothes they have for 2022, you will be GREAT! I have faith my friend!!

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thanks Mary! 😀

[@mumineveryway6269]

I have 5 girls (youngest is 3 mths) and 1 son. I love earthy colours. I enjoy my baby being in simple dresses and cardigans once winter is over. I find shopping for girls is fun!

[@carlannashetler8102]

I still love all the florals and pastel colors. I see you picked quite a few onesies with leggings for a newborn. I found they looked very cute, but the elastic of the pants was right at her belly button and with the clip and it healing…I hated having it tight around there and preferred the rompers and all in one pieces. The ones with the two way zippers are my favorite! As my girl got older I really liked all the leggings. I’m with you, skirts and dresses are a hassle with a baby. I hope to get the privilege to shop for a boy sometime and see how that goes.

[@rosiemckenzie885]

Hi Janine,It’s Rosie from Scotia,your update blew me away as a Mennonite Mom! Am a singular batchelorette lady with no kids and a believer.Have pursued my goals/dreams am happy..Love your choices,they are so feminine and cool,also love your individuality,and your outlook for a daughter.Happy in her own skin,Independant,strong ,boss lady,and she has a great role model.You are FAB,and strong woman,never question your choices.Love how you are doing your own thing,you are a Lady of Force,I admire you for being different ,at the same time standing by your beliefs X🌹🌹🌹😮😮😮🤩🤩🤩🥰🥰

[@JenniferJane78]

One of my favourite thing about little girls is sewing, I find more of the sewing patterns I like than styles off of the rack. With sewing you can give yourself a wider seam, so the dresses can grow with the child. You can also put in gathers in the skirt (from bottom to top), for when she crawls. Homemade clothes seem to stand up better for climbing trees and playing ball with the boys too.

[@sylviamoses4759]

Wonderful!! Be yourself. It comes naturally.

[@emlevy5792]

I am a girl mom, but the frill stuff just gets in the way. Every kiddo is different. Also, I had a tough relationship with my mom and that gave me anxiety too about having a girl -- but it's been wonderful, the joy of my life.

[@pattihurley2552]

Totally caught Zanders sad good-bye in the store😟 He is the cutest!

[@mellie9779]

The things you picked out are cute!! I have found putting outfits together a little overwhelming at times too but I try to keep it simple. Neutral leggings and the top can be colorful 😊

[@maryjowilliamson1276]

After being raised with five brothers and no sisters, I was shocked and elated when I had two daughters! I chose to be practical and buy sleepers and onesies with blue jeans! My mil bought all the froufrou dresses my girls would ever need! Mind you, my girls always looked like girls and grew up feminine but could mow a lawn with the best of boys! Lol

[@lmmartin959]

I loved all your selections! Very cute!!

[@cherylemaybury9967]

Girls look great in little denim pants with a nice floral t shirt. It’s okay to put them in overalls too. My daughters were both Tom boys and just lived in jeans. They always wore cute t shirts until their teens and then they went through a black stage, wearing all black. My youngest is 41 now and turned out very girly when she hit adult hood. The other is 44 and still dresses in black pants and shirts.

[@emilys.8932]

You’re going to be a wonderful girl mom!! Once she arrives everything will fall into place!

[@megmcginnis239]

My boys and girl are grown. I was athletic growing up, but also enjoyed playing with my dolls. So when I got my girl after 2 wonderful boys, I was thrilled. What I remember struggling most with was the girl fashions were "grown up trendy" styles and not "little girl" looking. Thrift stores were my best bet and I sewed some of her clothes too. You'll be a great mom for her as you are Xander.

[@tracyball5041]

If you love bows and headbands then you’ve got to check out the baby turbins… beautiful and stay on a baby’s head easier than bows and headbands ❤️

[@brittanyyoder1319]

I have a boy and am expecting a girl in a few weeks. I’ve found I much prefer shopping for boys than girls too!!😊 It seems like boy clothes are easier to put outfits together and altogether simpler.

[@aliciaa5894]

I love muted colors, florals, and neutrals for my daughter. I didn’t put dresses on her until after she started walking because I didn’t find them practical before then! Love all of your choices ❤️

[@ItchyMilk]

Everything you picked out is super cute!!!! Also I learned to not buy a bunch of newborn stuff. I always bought 0-3 months.

[@reginaprayers.9028]

you are so beautiful . 😩 i can’t wait to see your new baby omg . i know she’s gonna be very beautiful omg . & you dress very beautiful . you already have a beautiful son . i know god’s gonna make a beautiful way for you . she’s gonna be blessing .

[@Trekkifulshay]

Once they're old enough hey will have their own choices. My babies were all fall and winter babies so my under 6 month babies were almost entirely in sleepers. I like dresses because they're cool in the summer and then in the fall you can add leggings to get some more use out of them then reverse i winter to spring - a winter dress can be worn in spring with carpis. My daughters wore brother hand me downs.

[@feliciawipf4319]

I like using onesies and pants up until they walk. Maybe mix in like 2 soft dresses a week with leggings. I also loved having a couple neutral colored cardigans. Target has cute ones!

[@gigibanks68]

You can put those little sage green and navy animals on a little girl. Just put her a cute matching headband or bow on to match. 😊

[@theMennoniteMom]

Good point!! 👍 thanks!

[@gilliandelledonne4713]

Don't second guess yourself. I was not a child who liked ruffles or anything scratchy and my Mom figured that out quickly. I loved pink, so she dressed me simply and in pink, or another soft colour. I was content. Nobody else can tell you how to dress your child, you've got this and all you need to do is realize it. One last thing, boy mom or girl mom, you're a fabulous Mom!

[@MercNov2011]

Your little girl may like tulle and frills! I also think it is lovely to dress babies in white and pastels as they have the rest of their lives to wear dark and bright colours and prints

[@theMennoniteMom]

Yes she may! And I'll have to learn to like it then too! 😀

[@IHearAWaltz]

Headbands are a great way to to make plain/ more neutral boy clothes look adorable on a little girl!! You should go through some of Xander’s baby clothes and see if there’s anything that he could hand down to his sister that you could add a headband to for little sister!

[@theMennoniteMom]

Great tip!! Thank you!

[@dianedeck]

I never got to have kids so I just thought it was all cute no matter what. Also I always thought let them wear whatever because they grow out of them so fast anyway . Everything you picked was very cute.

[@loric1909]

Absolutely agree with your perception on quality. I'm tired of girl clothes and even women clothes with all the extras, and so much more layering. If you notice, which I think you already have by the sounds of it, is the very expensive good quality clothing usually has very minimal print if at all. It is simple and subtle, classic in a way. And you certainly don't need to buy pink. There are some beautiful neutral colors, earth tones, jewel tones, more natural out there..somewhere. If I happen to find some I'll send them your way :)

[@annahershberger4035]

I'm not a mom but always feel like I'd be a better boy mom ! I'm excited for you to be a girl mom

[@marshabriley3983]

Love Love Love your ramblings! You made me smile. I'm so looking forward to see you as a Girl Mommy. You're gonna rock the pink world 💗

[@stepone6159]

My kind of mom. I was not into playing with dolls and such as a kid. Boring. Would rather be outside doing stuff. I loved buying clothes for my son. Could always find such classy things. You made some super choices for your little girl when she gets here. And remember, momma, your Maker/creator and hers has already put into her what and how He desires for her to be and do. You'll love her to pices just like you do Xander. And God will more than likely teach you many things through her.

[@KatTheTruth]

I just love Xander. “I’m so spoiled!” Lol! He’s a dear! There are some great neutral looking baby girl clothes out there. You don’t have to get frilly stuff. 🥰 If you poke around online you might find some things you like. I am like you and am not necessarily into all the poufy stuff. I like all the things you chose for baby girl.

[@raethibodeau9604]

I feel your pain. I had 3 boys before I had our daughter. I was very excited to have a little girl, but I had no clue about little girl things. Luckily my older sister had 2 daughters so I got a lot of hand-me-downs. My big problem was doing her hair. She's in her 20's now and still laughs at her baby/toddler pictures because she always has the same hairstyle. It was the "Pebbles" look from the Flintstones. One of my favorite pictures of her is in a dirt pile on our farm playing with her brothers tractors and trucks. Your little girl is going to be who she is and you are going to be an amazing girl mom. Don't stress and enjoy the journey.

[@sherryruddell3588]

How fun to buy girl clothes! My two kids (now 40 and 42), had mostly yellow or green clothes before birth, because we didn't know the gender. I can tell you like lots of flowered things. Don't worry....you are going to have so much fun. I think babies look so cuddly in onesies. But don't get too many, because they grow so quickly.

[@deanneboonstra3818]

You do what make you happy .Love everything you pick out.I hope you are feeling well God bless .

[@evondiamond3676]

Don’t sweat the small stuff. Zander will be helpful with clothes. My son would tell me his sister did not like “those clothes.” Girls don’t have to be all lace and frills especially the first few months. You’re fine! Tell Zander he is going to be the best big brother! ♥️💗

[@nataliesarvis4691]

for our little ones we always did either onesies with stretchy pants or sleepers with zippers. Girl or boy. They really didn't have a lot of OUTFIT type clothes until like 18 months or so.

[@brendawolfe2927]

I'm really happy Zander got his baby sister♥️you will do just fine with a little girl 🎈l think you are a great mom to Zander all the patience in the world praying for your family 🙏

[@carolynmcewen5104]

Jeanine. I am so excited for your family to welcome this precious little being. I’m thinking it will be much easier for you to shop for her once she has arrived. You will be able to see her and what you think will look so cute on her. When we haven’t met them yet it’s so hard to imagine what they will look like. You and Nolan are such good parents. Xander and baby girl are very lucky to have you as parents. Much love and God Bless you. Carolyn from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦

[@charlieewing228]

All the “boy” stuff you looked at I would have TOTALLY bought for my little girl :) My philosophy is that I want most of her stuff to work for the next baby if it happens to be a boy! Babies don’t care what they wear, it’s practical, and I don’t like pink or frills, so it works all around! You’re going to be awesome!

[@shaunabruch6282]

Hi! I have a handful of outfits for my daughter, that you picked out. I don't care for tool, either. I really struggled with all the pink, because I am such a purple girl, but I worked through it... some.

[@brendafiedler5113]

You are doing great. I can relate as being a boy mom and grandmother. When we did have a granddaughter I still struggle with outfits for her. I am thankful she is a very modest teenager (somewhat a tomboy) who doesn't like flowery outfits. So much easier to dress and coordinate boy clothing. And yes little girl clothing today is not what I grew up with 60 plus years. 😉 Not as stylish, modest, it's like they are outfits for older girl styles and not for baby girls. Classic outfits. So I am rambling. Just enjoy yourself through this season in life. May God bless you and yours, as well as guide you.

[@meganwilliams3742]

Jeannine, I have two older brothers, and I am the baby girl. My parents used to dress me in dresses when I was a little girl. As I got older, I gravitated to boy styles, such as neutral colors or boy/unisex T-shirts. I ended up being a Tomboy and liking boy stuff like video games. Now, I can dress up and be pretty, but I also like to dress down in jeans and a T-shirt. I accredit my likes and styles to the fact that I hung out with my older brothers a lot as a child. Your little girl could be a girly girl, or she could be a Tomboy. Either or is perfectly fine. Don’t stress over it too much. She will be fearfully and wonderfully made the way God intended her to be. She will also be loved by everyone around her. That is already evident now.

[@karenc3788]

You did a great job picking, she is going to so cute in her outfits. You were shopping right near me... You are going to be a great girl mom.