Postpartum depression: Mom stories

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[@ninaaasky8403]

Talk about suffering in silence… this video hit me so hard. It is extremely heart breaking to have a bundle of joy and you can’t enjoy them. To see that I’m not alone is a breath of fresh air!!! My baby is coming up on 2 months and every day gets harder and harder!!

[@jeanillewilliams2102]

Hi Nina, it gets better I promise I’m going through the same thing and my baby is 2 months. It’s sooo hard but we got this

[@yourgirljust8333]

Ladies you got this!! I have 3..my oldest being 11 my youngest 8 months now. It IS hard..I called out of work twice this week now bc I cant get my head together. Wish we could just all come together and help each other.

[@sofiaramos8666]

you got this!! take it day by day. you’re not alone!

[@dohakarim6516]

@@jeanillewilliams2102 did you take some medicine?

[@medusachristo4998]

Bundle of joy? 😂🤣 Bundle of stress, depression, & anxiety

[@ELV547]

I could only hope that there is no more shame around postpartum depression. I'm glad these women were able to share their stories and help other women who are suffering in silence.

[@magicallyme96]

I wholeheartedly agree I hope to one day get help and share my story

[@notwerkinginthishouse8634]

@@magicallyme96 wish the best for u

[@shivii3850]

My mother tells how she used to get fed up of me crying all the time when I was few months old. It's a little weird to digest but when children grow up, they are able to understand. Mum says biggest help to her was when my grandmother picked me up and played with me everytime. Grandparents are never tired of their grandchildren.

[@elyse443]

That’s exactly how it feels. It’s terrible but it’s most tormenting when the “help” you get doesn’t help. Torment.

[@edenzeriunwase]

I understand and thanks for sharing dears... This women at least had their families close to them:mothers friends sisters..... telling them what’s going on and helping them ... many many of us don’t have this , more so during Covid times... thanks baby center for doing this...

[@puritypurico7992]

Physical am all alone. My mum has kept talking to me by phone it has made all the difference. What am going through it hurts so deep

[@idus]

Our pastors wife just past today due to ppd. They have 5 kids and I don’t think there is an answer I can understand however to the people that do, keep going and “find your people”. When jr. is 14 going to high school, it will all be worth it.

[@thedreamer6359]

This can happen to anyone, people need to be very very careful when they think and say certain things.

[@saddlebagssally4692]

Thank you for being open and honest. I felt so alone. Just knowing that other moms have felt this way has got me through some very rough days.

[@effyfae]

I've had depression my whole life. I got ppd after I gave birth to my son and gave him up for adoption but it was completely different not having a baby. Me and my husband want to do it again a decade later and I'm so worried about this happening again but these stories are so beautiful and so sad and I can't imagine the feeling but it's all of what could be as a mother. Hopefully my story can end up as positive and it would all be worth it.

[@reddoll1223]

Going thru post partum during my pregnancy ... I Cannot hide the fact 😪

[@soundsforkidz]

Hello dear here is a blog that talks about postpartum depression and toxic positivity. I really want to know more about your experience, your opnion matters a lot. Please take one moment to read, comment and share: stinajaycreative.blogspot.com/ . Thank you

[@EndIgnorance]

crying as I'm watching this. 2 years without any help. twins

[@kimbiagordon9347]

Iam a new mom of 9 month old twins and I believe Iam suffering for ppd it’s the first time I’m saying this , I feel so sad and defeated . Both babies cry and scream and I do everything I can and they still scream feel like I’m failing most days . I had pneumonia and high blood pressure and the babies were in the Nicu for almost a month and when I brought them home I was so overwhelmed but I kept telling myself to just push through just keep going never sitting down to process everything I was in such denial I didn’t want people to know what I was going through I felt ashamed to even reach out not thinking anyone would hear me . But today Iam reaching out i want to get the help I need I want to be better not only got myself but for my kids they deserve it

[@lesegod8051]

This sounds so tough! I can’t imagine how difficult it must be with twins🥺. I really hope you can find support from family and loved ones because it sounds like you’re super overwhelmed. I also suffered from the shame of reaching out and felt like people wouldn’t get me. I hope you have someone in your corner who makes you feel safe enough to ask for help😊

[@deirdre4life35]

Oh, that sounds so difficult I am so sorry you are having such a hard time, mama! Firstly, you are INCREDIBLE for growing not just one, but two babies in your body! That takes a lot and it takes a very long time to recover fully. Please be gentle and kind to yourself, be forgiving and reach out to anyone you can for help. You deserve to have a shower, a nap, some quiet time to yourself, etc. at least once a day. I am saying a prayer for you right now.

[@soundsforkidz]

Hello dear here is a blog that talks about postpartum depression and toxic positivity. I really want to know more about your experience, your opnion matters a lot. Please take one moment to read, comment and share: stinajaycreative.blogspot.com/ . Thank you

[@kaylatv7504]

I have a 2 year old I’m currently pregnant and the motivation to do anything is gone. I’m depressed sleeping in more I feel horrible. I'm not tired, yet I'm oversleeping and unhappy.

[@dr.sonaldwivedi3419]

Can we connect?

[@faithiseverything777]

How are you Hun currently?

[@devynthomas1971]

I wish I had a support system.. every time I bring up that I’m sad or don’t have motivation to my mom, she just shames me, & puts me down..

[@parisryan2012]

I’m so sorry to hear this could you join a group or start a hobbie where you could hopefully meet new people 💕

[@shantemouton5463]

My mother does the exact same. I feel so alone.

[@devynthomas1971]

@@shantemouton5463 yeah I just don’t talk about it with her..

[@sosmybeautea]

Same and even argues with me n says blame my partner.. So unsupportive

[@faithiseverything777]

Peanut boo 💜💜💜

[@suleimaalvarenga6322]

Currently 3 weeks postpartum n I dont feel like my self. All i want to do is cry even thou i have my husbands help i feel lonely. Im scared to be alone! I love my baby but i just feel so alone!!

[@hellothere3210]

Hi! I'm so sorry to hear that you were struggling during the first three weeks of postpartum... How did the rest of the postpartum go? How are you now? I'm a new mama... And am 9 weeks and 2 days postpartum. I don't know if you believe in God, but if you do, please keep me in your prayers. I really need them more than anything else. I love my son but sometimes it's so hard to embrace and enjoy him and the journey 🥺

[@christinewilkinson6059]

​@@hellothere3210how are you doing now? I'm a new mom and have bad ppd

[@notwerkinginthishouse8634]

Moms deserve better

[@Salvatore786]

Thankyou for this. Just. Thankyou. ❤😥

[@1369SNI]

Thank you for this!

[@citychicken9949]

I developed PPD and PPA after my first. At the time I knew of post partum mood disorders, but I didn't realize how common it was or what the symptoms really were. Although I wasn't at a "high risk" to develop it I still could develop it... which I did and I didn't realize that I did. I'm very outspoken about my experience now because I don't want other mothers to suffer in silence believing the lies their depression and anxiety is telling them. After speaking out for the first time I found out that other mothers around me had experienced what I did and I felt almost angry that women feel the need to keep that part of motherhood hidden when it could be so helpful to those who are stuck in that dark place. If you've experienced post partum mood disorders, please speak up and don't be ashamed because you just might be that line of hope to help someone else out of their own dark pit.

[@19blondie93]

Not sure who will see this. If you are feeling overwhelmed, angry, sad, etc., it is normal, and can be helped. I won't say fixed. Please call on your family and friends and especially your doctor. OB's are in the know about PPD and psychosis and will start you off on the path to healing. They will also refer you to an expert in proper diagnosis. I remember having my daughter in 1990 and after a lot of sleep deprivation and her crying, I felt like tossing her in the yard or against the wall. Thank GOD my mother was there. I told her I was done. She told me, "The baby is fed, is clean and is safe. Leave her in her crib and walk out." I did. I went in the living room and watched tv and "decompressed." I realized I had to take myself out of the moment and gather. Back then, there was no such thing and treatment. It was baby blues and you need to get over it. It is imperative the you have or develop your own village of friends, family and physician to help with pregnancy and after pregnancy.

[@soundsforkidz]

Hello dear here is a blog that talks about postpartum depression and toxic positivity. I really want to hear more from you, your opnion matters a lot. Please take one moment to read comment and share: stinajaycreative.blogspot.com/

[@ashleypage9244]

After being extremely excited after finding out unexpectedly by doctor's at emergency room hospital July 7 -31-22 to first ultrasound kicking September 9/12/22 to October 10-10-22 heartbroken 💔 😭 🕊️ no heart beat stopped moving

[@samottientertainment281]

So sorry my dear ❤❤

[@_jay.mill_]

I have been going through this about five months now try every thing to get it a way but its hard😔

[@mercykeptme]

Me too. It hurts so much

[@_jay.mill_]

Hun god will help us through it💖😍

[@julieallbright5002]

Thank you. I had a horrible birth experience in the hospital, with no doctor even though they were expecting to put my baby in NICU. I had like 20 people in my delivery room, some were other residents waiting for their wife's birth. While in NICU one of the head neonatal aprn told me " I just don't think you care about your baby", all because I wanted to only breastfeed, and she profiled us as active addicts (we had been sober for many years). Anyways I got kicked out, while going through depression, anxiety, severe swollen legs and feet, and we demanded to discharge early. we saw his pedestrian about 5 hours after discharge and he said our baby was perfect and there is no need to feed him formula. There is so much more to this story and the trauma we went through, including my husband. I didn't know I was going through PPD and started on a path of destruction. Anyways, I'm still going through trauma and wish I knew how to report our experience so no other parents go through this, especially in a hospital, especially in NICU. There were many wonderful nurses and one that came to hug me in the waiting room after being kicked out by the rude APRN, and to this day I want to let this young nurse know how important her loving words and actions were in that moment of absolute loss of any hope. There are wonderful everyday people who by just being kind actually save some lives without knowing the importance of their kindness in a moment of someone else's life. Thank you for sharing your stories. They matter.

[@soundsforkidz]

Hello dear here is a blog that talks about postpartum depression and toxic positivity. I really want to know more about your experience, your opnion matters a lot. Please take one moment to read, comment and share: stinajaycreative.blogspot.com/ . Thank you

[@rutherfordmarquita]

I’m on year two Jan 17 and I still struggle

[@rebchagas]

Thank u thank u thank u... Thank u

[@soundsforkidz]

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[@juliekonrad3150]

Hello beautiful women and mommas. My kids are teenagers now, but I was officially diagnosed with PPD after my third child was born, only to realize I also had it after the other two and had no idea! The suffering and feelings of loneliness and confusion terrified me. I've been on a mission to support women and new moms ever since. I am now creating a program to help women navigate real self-care and lifestyle changes that truly support their needs and will continue to serve them through life.. I would love to interview those who might be open to a few questions about their experience.Your responses will be completely confidential .Please let me know if I can reach out to you for help. TIA.

[@rebeccakalyani2486]

Hi Julie, I’m writing a book and one of my characters has PPD. I’m wondering if maybe I could talk with you about it? It’s not something I have ever dealt with as I don’t have children. But I want to be authentic in my writing. Thanks so much. Rebecca

[@angela-6451]

You are amazing.

[@soundsforkidz]

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[@still_meigb19]

Almost 11 months PP and all of this just came out of nowhere

[@soundsforkidz]

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[@WalkingthePathlondon]

Men need to man up when their women are struggling ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@Shae-uz1jr]

I️ made my appointment today I’m no longer afraid of saying it. thanks 😊 my son is 7 mths and I’m a first time mom and had an extremely difficult labor (heart complications due to pregnancy ) I️ was in the hospital for 3 weeks after birth and just now realizing this could be something to look into I️ thought I’d just get over it or it’s was mommy jitters but now I️ know I’m not alone thx

[@xkxshx]

how are u doing now? my son is 3 months and im so lost and depressed

[@Shae-uz1jr]

@@xkxshx I️ was put on a small dose of Lexapro and honestly my anxiety has cleared and I️ feel like My self day by day … it will get better mommy we just have to admit that it’s not a weakness nor does it make you a bad mommy to care about yourself my little one made 9mths yesterday and I️ wish you the best in this journey please if you need to reach for help and your not alone .. dry your tears and hold your head up and I’ll be in meditation for your healing … many blessings to you and the baby

[@soundsforkidz]

Hello dear here is a blog that talks about postpartum depression and toxic positivity. I really want to know more about your experience, your opnion matters a lot. Please take one moment to read, comment and share: stinajaycreative.blogspot.com/ . Thank you

[@mehulsharma4884]

Men seriously need to step up in thier partners struggle

[@AnnaliseCisar]

This is the one 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ruthiehamilton316]

1,000% agree

[@ruthiehamilton316]

They need therapy to help them understand

[@azmiyaaroufe6483]

Agreed.

[@joannadp3488]

💙

[@mokuus23]

Do any of you who take medication for PPD breastfeed??? Please share!

[@soundsforkidz]

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[@New-bw4kz]

Our own mind can be our worst enemy

[@soundsforkidz]

Hello dear here is a blog that talks about postpartum depression and toxic positivity. I really want to hear more from you, your opnion matters a lot. Please take one moment to read comment and share: stinajaycreative.blogspot.com/

[@lindagreene4385]

WHY do you need to tell her that you didn’t want to hold her? You can tell her that you suffered serious post-parturition depression, especially since the susceptibility might be genetic. You can look up information about it together. Only if, and after, you see that not wanting to hold the child is common should you tell her about your own issue. Then it would be about the disease, not somehow about her.

[@user-vi5dc8xb9u]

I think you are not supposed to be raising a baby alone or just 2 people. We are so out of touch with a sense of community or safety now. A whole community should be helping raise a child

[@soundsforkidz]

Hello dear here is a blog that talks about postpartum depression and toxic positivity. I really want to hear more from you, your opnion matters a lot. Please take one moment to read comment and share: stinajaycreative.blogspot.com/

[@samijipa3386]

Any contact number doc's?

[@hollycross9479]

This was a 12 minute video and more than half way through no talk of depression. Get to the point.

[@soundsforkidz]

Hello dear here is a blog that talks about postpartum depression and toxic positivity. I really want to hear more from you, your opnion matters a lot. Please take one moment to read comment and share: stinajaycreative.blogspot.com/

[@raudonasaule]

Didn't loved it

[@thomasaguilar3132]

Let’s get a grip! Being a mom used to be the hardest job in the world, not no more? I’m a Cristian man and I just want to say y’all are so unappreciated of your blessing y’all should not have been blessed with a baby in the first place.

[@Sooper35]

why are religious people like this?

[@sarah-le9hj]

don’t speak on womens issues

[@thomasaguilar3132]

Because we care about those poor babies, not the sorry mothers.

[@LisaLee123]

I’m a Christian mom who suffered with this and the amount of ignorance and arrogance you’re spewing right now is not Christ like at all. Kindly stay in your lane. You will never ever know what it’s like. Stop while you’re ahead and stop embarrassing yourself.

[@thomasaguilar3132]

Why aren’t my comments highlighted and only the Karen’s? Wait are y’all still fighting for equality?

[@thomasaguilar3132]

When was it okay to neglect your child for two months, ain’t that some shiii 2020 brought the choice to choose to not carry your baby or the choice in general? It’s so messed up when you see low income families doing everything to make it and yet you see these “disturbed well off” families that “could” do it and parent but they have the “right”. Like I honestly “wholeheartedly”😭☝🏽feel that some of you “moms” should do some time in your local jails for neglect your innocent, Poor babies that didn’t ask to be in this earth yet y’all make it worse by the start. Great job 👏🏽

[@sarah-le9hj]

stay in your place

[@thomasaguilar3132]

Right where not on this planet together, I mean I could spare two minutes to read what your opinion is.🤗

[@Sooper35]

please enlighten us of when you overcame postpartum depression. You seem to be very versed in the topic.

[@AE-km1gz]

Who said anyone was neglecting their child? 🧐

[@TallMama321]

It’s not about what you have or where you come from..it’s mental. & until we can overcome the fears or get our mental space in a positive place…we will always feel like we are crashing.