Back To School

[@kated5317]

You’re not crazy Terra. Female friendships are very important. My best friend and I have known each other since 4th grade and I don’t know what I would do without her. There is power in sisterhood.

[@MiniMama]

100% agree!

[@carolineault6360]

There will be a solution

[@makiarobinson8903]

A true advocate for your kids......Amazing Mom.

[@cathycollins9011]

You’re such a good mom. Socialization is just as important as academics. You fixed it!

[@ravenuribes9460]

Totally agree!

[@iwendylea]

You are a fierce momma and the greatest advocate for your children. Keep following your instincts and loving those sweet babies.

[@MiniMama]

Thank you so much!!❤

[@SouthernMess]

Omg you broke my mama heart. Penny definitely needs to be around other girls her age. Best friends, birthday parties and sleep overs. That baby deserves it. We love Penny, she is such a fierce young lady

[@joycemyrick7053]

❤omgoodness😭 I'm in tears happy for penny going to go to school with her brother but most of all she will be with girls her age... so NO your not crazy for crying or wanting that for her. Your a great a mom. God bless you all.❤🙏🏼

[@suziegeraldi9152]

You are not crazy ! You are being the best mom ever advocating for your child.

[@amylynn9034]

Tara I have watched you for years (ALL the Little Women LA!) Honestly, I wasn't too sure when you became pregnant the first time. Probably because that show was my only exposure to you and I didn't see the rest of who you are. You are one of the best moms I've seen. The love you have for your children is incredible. Your ability to see each of them with their own unique strengths and struggles is so commendable! I love watching the fierce mom you have become! Well done!

[@kathy9771]

I agree with you 100%. I am so glad she will be with little girls that she can relate to, this is awesome!

[@susanwarren398]

You are not crazy. You clearly love your children. Such a normal reaction

[@slwalker7]

You’re not wrong for feeling that way. I agree about friendships girls develop in elementary. I have friends to date from kindergarten. Keep advocating for your kids!

[@loisxander6321]

Penny looks adorable in that dress.

[@dellaharper2581]

My heart goes out to you. Your a good mama. Will Pray for you. It’s hard to believe out of that many kids one girl.

[@gene5148]

The last thing we need is for Penny coming home acting like a boy😊

[@KimberlyPulliam-gk2ds]

Terra,I just found your channel you are a wonderful mother to your children, they are so lucky to have a mother that loves them as much as you do.I will pray for you and your family. May God bless you and your family!

[@melissalove2463]

Penny wanting a HUG was EVERYTHING ! 💞 hug😊

[@rosearzuaga2571]

You're not crazy mama!! You just want what's the best for the kids. I hope it all works out 🙏

[@capricornk9033]

You're definitely not crazy. My son's first grade teacher told me that getting out in front of his ADHD/social issues then (in 1st grade) was so important because second and third grades were all about the social interactions, making friends, learning conflict resolution, standing up for themselves, etc; all the interpersonal stuff (and she was right - it was when he made the friends he had all thru grammar and middle school). A 17 to 1 ratio is bonkers (and equally so if you flipped the genders). I'm surprised they themselves didn't see a concern with that - my son's first grade teacher would have! Good for you for addressing it.

[@demijour1234]

@capricornk9033 I personally don't think that the school or teacher didn't care. I think if there are no girl students going to that school who are in special needs classes, then how does the school control that? I am sure they would have wished it was a equal ratio or almost at least.

[@capricornk9033]

@@demijour1234 I didn't say they didn't care, but they didn't do anything about it. It's a real issue and given that they either couldn't or wouldn't do anything about it, Penny is going to a different school.

[@demijour1234]

@@capricornk9033 Oh, I know. I wasn't saying that you said the teacher didn't care. I just said that, concerning this situation. I wasn't saying it to be against you at all. Honestly, that was not my way at all. Just trying to understand this issue overall. I rewatched it and I don't think Terra said the school wouldn't do anything about it. She said she just talked to Joe. I am wondering, how does a school fix this situation? I agree that Penny should have that opportunity with other girls in the classroom. If there are no girls her age going to that school who are in special needs classes. How does a school fix that problem? And, Terra wasn't blaming the school for the boy-girl ratio.

[@albenac4182]

Hi Terra….I TOTALLY agree with you that Penny needed to have girls in her class. You are so blessed to have this situation changed. We always want what is best for our kids 💕

[@denisedavis6596]

Oh Terra!! I wish I could just give you a hug!! You’re not crazy! I love the hugs and giggles at the end. You most definitely did the right thing! You’re an INCREDIBLE mama!!! 💛

[@susanmahr6068]

I knew you'll be able to resolve the issue. Yes, Penny needs to be able to relate to girls. She'll have so much fun.

[@patrick7mary]

Whew! Excellent Terra, so happy you moved Penny into same school as Grayson as she does need to have girls in her classroom too! Hooray! You already knew that:) God bless you! You are such a great Mom because you trust your instincts:) 🥰🥰🥰🥳🥳🥳

[@barbaralewislw187]

U are not crazy those relationships are just as important

[@sarabarker2219]

Mommy, you are an awesome mommy person, FOR SURE, AND a BEAUTIFUL LADY . AND DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU DIFFERENT. WE LOVE YOU SWEET MOMMY.

[@leephilips3669]

Oh my Penny just melted my heart asking for a hug.. just so beautiful ❤️ and I agree 💯 Penny needs to be around other girls.. keep fighting for her.

[@11mywaychrissie]

Terra. My heart goes out to you. You're far from crazy. Praying for you and your family. 🙏🌷🙏

[@Pywacket4.0]

You are an awesome mom. Keep fighting for your kids. Hugs👍🥰

[@naturelovinjenn7223]

You're not crazy. You are such an amazing mama. Keep praying. God will lead you to the right place. ❤️❤️

[@jessiespence2361]

You are NOT crazy!! If it is possible they could have put more girls in the class, they are even doing a disservice to those boys. There has to be another option for your sweet girl. Praying for a solution that is perfect for Penny!!! 🥰

[@Cookiecat-l5g]

Penny needs that experience of bonding with girls. You continue to advocate for Penny!!!

[@taresarichardson9739]

You’re an amazing mother. Love you & your beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️

[@ElenaKato25or6to4]

Terra , you are a great mom. I love how involved you are with your kids. ❤

[@hoosierladyus48]

Tara, you are one amazing Mother. You spend so much quality time with your children and it shows. God blessed you with three wonderful, beautiful children. You are not crazy one iota. My heart was breaking for you, seeing you cry. Everything will work out fine Tara, just remember to pray.

[@amandah7105]

I think penny is so adorable.

[@jackiefialkowski2892]

I know are finding a solution Miss Terra , you always do!!! Keep meditating , you incredibly intelligent, Loving Mom!!!❤❤❤

[@loisxander6321]

Both my son and daughter in law teach learning support, and care so much about their students. It is very important to have teachers who show kindness and work with each child in striving to do their best.

[@bargainbudgeter3689]

You are such an incredible mother!!!! You advocate for your children profoundly. We are their voice and you made Penny's voice heard. She deserves to be around other little girls to flourish. 💜

[@CharleneCash1973]

Oh you wonderful human being! You're a wonderful mother and I can relate to the heartbreak when things in life negatively affect your child!! You do what you KNOW IN YOUR ❤ is best for Penny!!

[@MsIvytude]

You are a phenomenal mom!! You want nothing, but the best for your children. Penny deserves to be in a classroom with other girls. Thank you for sharing your vlogs. 😊❤️

[@f.l3450]

Prayers for a safe and happy school year. You're doing great mama ❤️...

[@MT-qq6id]

So excited for Penny!

[@Beth71249]

You are a great momma bear! You have a lot to deal with and always deal with it so well. Wishing you all the best ❤️ also show us your haul from goodwill 😁

[@food4thesoul683]

I’m gonna pray for God to give you direction penny needs female friends it’s important for her to have peers her age your not crazy girl your a warrior and a fierce mama bear it will all work out by faith I still watch little woman la episodes 1-8 I love it so much I wish it would have never got cancelled you were all very inspiring

[@lisapack6165]

You are a great advocate for your kids!

[@TechnicolorZebra]

Self contained classroom balancing can be SO hard, the demographics can vary so wildly year by year. Some years caseloads are balanced, but others are overwhelmingly tipped one way or another. With Penny getting older, could a possible solution be for her to push in the gen ed classroom for certain subjects (PE, art, recess, etc). That way she’s getting at least part of her day with other girls her age at school. Is she still in Girl Scouts? Thats a great way to get in some girl time do. If you’re not already connected, I’d highly advise you to reach out to your local regional center about social recreation activities. Thats a fantastic way to meet other little girls her age who have similar developmental needs, and grow her little circle. School is an important part of our social life as children, but it doesnt have to be the be all end all!

[@paulah5342]

Good for you Mom - caring about and understanding your kids ❤

[@balindabarks7425]

Aw im so glad youre looking out for your children's best interest! Friendship is so important in life

[@dduntz1587]

Your kids are so so cute. Love watching your family . Barbara looks very happy.

[@cynthialerma6978]

Keep them coming, I look forward to watching you and your family.❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Spirits2000]

100% do what you need to do.YOUR 100% right 🥰 CRYING IS SO NEEDED FOR HUMANS NEVER FEEL SORRY FOR IT NEVER ♥️

[@TheJeanae]

You are a wonderful Mom! It will work out for Penny, don't worry, praying for you! ❤

[@Quyllur1]

You are not crazy. You’re a smart and determined mama. Penny is so blessed to have you. You are awesome for doing something about it. She does need to be around girls. It’s healthy. Prayers that it all works out! You got this! ❤

[@heatheralmaraz416]

The same thing happened to my 10 year old girl last year. I cried and I would go have lunch with her. I spoke with the principal and they fixed it. For those few days though it was heart breaking. To see a already shy/anxious child now become even more shy was 😢

[@jacquelinehill6560]

You’re right! You need to advocate for her. I hope you get what she needs. In our local school the special needs students are integrated in the regular classroom for some classes, they have extra helpers. Ask for normal classroom with a personal helper if you think she will be better with that.

[@chrissygunning628]

Love Penny's reaction at the end ..

[@nancymeza4851]

Big Hugs out to you..Your an Awesome mama...Im.happy thatyou were able to get her to other school..😊

[@juliecrooks3495]

CLEARLY you are not crazy!! Penny needs to be around her fellow female peers!!!!! Good for you Tara ! Take care

[@TinaMota40]

You’re such an awesome mom!

[@angieignagni8639]

Ahhh I wish I could give you a hug .. as moms we want the best for our children ..I hope penny gets to experience that best friend!! 🙏🙏🙏

[@rillagarzes701]

Your right sweetie I'm with you all the way!!! Your not crazy your a momma watching out for her baby girl I'm praying for you love❤

[@traciemaye1011]

Definitely not crazy. I hope the school district can help you find a solution. Penny should not go through these early years without a girlfriend to share them with. Good luck!! Stay fierce ❤️💪

[@garlandfraley734]

Have a great first day. Precious kids

[@reynemattie2097]

Ur definitely right Tara! These years r when we develop our social skills. Covid and politics took away two of the years, let’s not let them or any one else take anymore away. We need to advocate for our children cuz no one else will.

[@teijaflink2226]

One of (if not the most important thing) for us humans is socialition with other people, it's sad when not everyone understands how important it's for children specially and how it could affect rest of their life.

[@nellyhernandez7852]

Terra eres una madre genial adoras a tus hijos los ayudas a progresar eres muy dedicada y feliz con ellos eres valiente sigue adelante

[@sandyconner7319]

You are an amazing mom !!

[@MyTiels]

Yup I’m with you, I learn to do hair and want to wear cute things because of my girlfriends. Love your little family and what a great and caring and patient mom your are :)

[@michelletorres7106]

Omg I was crying right along with you! I felt so much better at the end. I’ve been following you since before you were a momma. ❤

[@keyshahatchett5605]

U not crazy …she needs to be around other girls her age u doing the right thing …u r such a good mom ❤

[@sewingnut]

You are a wonderful advocate for your kids.

[@kathyquartel773]

I agree with you, I pray you can do something about this situation for Penny's sake. I finished watching and SO HAPPY FOR PENNY!!!! Yay Momma for getting her changed to another school. God IS good!!!!

[@splchicago4636]

You’re such a good Mom!!❤

[@annsaldivar550]

I agree with you about Penny. Keep fighting for her! Praying for her.

[@Carebear2778]

Oh honey I would feel the same way. I think I would try to find a different situation as well ❤️ Hang in there. Much love

[@blo1314]

Mine is the only girl in her class also. She has no desire to make friends with peers at this point so im okay with it. However, the transition and the struggles she's having this year have caused me tears. We can get ourselves down a hole wondering and being sad about the things we fear they wont be able to experience. You are her advocate, do what feels right to you! ❤

[@dianaasencio5397]

I agree with you. You are a loving mom. I would react the same way!

[@yvettesegovia4370]

Texas has the best education system and there is fairness in special education

[@mariagonzalezgarza7444]

Precious family ❤God bless all ❤️🙏🏽

[@erinross617]

Sending you lots of prayers and I believe that you should look into a different school for sure. You got this.

[@tyreesetjjoyner1995]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤your kids going to school.

[@Teetuc]

You're not crazy and you have all right to be upset and emotional about it. As a special needs teacher here in the UK I see it all the time. I now have a class of 8 students with only 1girl and I was like no other girl, but it was explained it is the age, the abilities, the cohort etc... my class is 4th, 5th and 6th. Keep fighting/advocating for your children, that's what I love about you.

[@julieannemichelle]

When my daughter was little she always had boys as friends at school. The girls that she had as friends were not necessarily the kind of friend that I wanted for her. But I can understand how you must feel. I was thinking that possibly getting Penny involved in Brownies or Girl Scouts might help or an after school fun activity like sewing. When my daughter was her age I got her into sewing lessons after school and she loved them. As an adult she still loves to sew and she’s very good at it. Good luck to you.

[@lindaallen8800]

I think Penny is already in Brownies- wasn’t she selling cookies last year or this past Spring?

[@trishbrown2297]

OMG...Penny Penny Penny ... she is so stinkin' adorable.

[@janette2438]

Extracurriculars. We homeschool, live in a rural area, we meet kids and socialize through extracurriculars.

[@MT-qq6id]

I want to see what you got from Goodwill. 😊

[@happyplacehomesteaddannac9120]

Get ‘em Momma…. I love you GIANT heart!!! You are fierce and I love it!

[@anitahosepian9610]

You are not crazy Terra. You're called a good mom for even thinking of girl friendship .

[@melissab2473]

You're not crazy at all. I would feel the same way for my daughter and i would probably cry about it too! 😆❤🫂

[@marie-linechislett9151]

No you are definitely not crazy. I was there a long time ago with one of my children. Lots of tears. So happy that Penny will be able to make friends 🤗

[@reginasterlingboone6229]

Aww sweetie, I feel your pain..no u get her out of there. You are right to feel exactly the way u feel. I know your determination..you will fix this immediately..I love u !! Let us know as soon as u yank that baby out of that mess !!

[@sweetcakesmarie6566]

Hello beautiful gorgeous family with those smart children 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 and Mom and Dad 💕💫⭐💞💞▶️👍💯👍💯🥰💕😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😇👍💯💖♥️💗🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲💫⭐💞 and may God continue to be with you your whole beautiful gorgeous family 💝💞 and congratulation with the children back in school 🎒❤️

[@tachanntaylor7803]

Nope you are not crazy. You are Terra Jole you got this. Move her!!

[@kiercolon792]

I am a teacher…& agree with you that she needs to be in a class with girls…Socialization is key component in a child’s education…You have a beautiful voice!🙏🏾

[@bonniemeyer1301]

I agree with you 100% about Penny. It is extremely important for her socialization for her to be around girls as well as boys. I had an issue with my son in first grade and knew he needed to be in another class. However, I followed the advice of the principal and let him stay in his assigned class. There was no irreparable harm, however, I wish I had followed my gut and did what I felt was right.

[@dorothyglidewell3847]

Such a wonderful momma

[@joanneengel4029]

Totally agree with you about the boy situation 💯 your not crazy. God Bless you and your Famliy🕊

[@gettogether5667]

Your feelings are valid. I hope your day gets better

[@cuea96]

I remember those days and I can’t believe it’s over. My son just graduated college and my daughter is in her junior year of college and the years went by so fast. Please please hold the moments close to your heart and Breathe. My son and daughter were both 504 and they thrived so just remember you need to fight and pray pray and pray. When your children are in 504 we always have to fight so please be strong. I was in the Texas and then Oklahoma. My children are still friends with their childhood friends. But when they moved they did make new friends and stayed strong and made friends that they are still friends do with. Our children will surprise us.

[@pumpkinpie823]

Oh my goodness, how hard this must be for you all, I am praying for you, I am praying that you will stay strong and God will direct you. Girl friendships are so important at this age. Blessings

[@lucylopez2468]

Te apoyo Terra ...that’s not fair

[@karengargi4074]

Glad Penny going to be in a class with other girls so happy for you she deffo needs friendships with other girls ❤

[@chrissygunning628]

Awesome!!