barry’s stages of grief over oliver for 10+ mins

[@olivarryforce]

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[@christina113704]

I have a love/hate with Barry's reaction. I hate that he's forced to be in so much pain over Oliver and blames himself, but I love that he's one of the few that truly loved him for who and what he was. 🥺

[@christina113704]

@@Bloodyheroesandlegends True, but both of them were ticked off initially, whereas Barry (as always) was frustrated he couldn't stop it and refused to let things lie. I think that's the reason Oliver never told him beforehand. As he said, he "didn't want to burden him with the choice he made"

[@christina113704]

@@Bloodyheroesandlegends he probably also didn't want him pulling another time travel to save him 😔

[@truisbossk6398]

Christina113704 that was pretty Pretty fucking cringe 😬😬

[@TravisVane]

Well Sara did lost all her family before the reboot. So she has experienced death, she lost Oliver but got her father back. Its Oliver's last gift to her, same for Thea getting back their mother.

[@TravisVane]

@@Bloodyheroesandlegends Tommy died just after accepting Oliver's secret, so he felt taken too soon from the show. While if the E1 Laurel returned what would happen with E2 Laurel, her world is gone and she didn't have a great upbringing in that world.

[@pamkowaski1608]

Oliver and Barry were close from the start. Oliver helped him when he became the Flash. They will always have a special bond.

[@olivarryforce]

Always.

[@bigboybabtgu1328]

Barry knew him Oliver was the Green Arrow before he was the Flash

[@joby-wankenobinolan3428]

@@bigboybabtgu1328 it's like they were destined to be super hero buddies

[@LucLightWolf121]

They are brothers. For all eternity. That is their bond.

[@ytsn_THE_OG]

They were exactly like brothers. Diggle may have been the big brother, but Barry was Oliver's little brother. They grew super attached to each other. Especially Barry, who metaphorically clinged to his big brother's leg.

[@spndusk2362]

This is so sad and it breaks my heart knowing that Barry is canonically the ONLY ONE affected by Oliver's death since it happened 😭😭

[@EmeryB152]

Ikr

[@spndusk2362]

@@EmeryB152 he literally blames himself and every time he thinks of Oliver it brings back all the pain.

[@EmeryB152]

@@spndusk2362 ik i

[@christina113704]

He even outright states that he keeps thinking that he could've done something

[@spndusk2362]

@@christina113704 This why COIE annoys me more now because they tried to make it seem like Sara and the others would be as affected by Oliver's death as Barry. Not even Diggle was as affected. COIE wasted Olivarry so much for pointless cameos and plot points. But I digress props to the Flash writers for not dropping Oliver's death like I expected, Barry wouldn't get over his best friend sacrificing himself to save him just like that. And when you think about it this death is different from his parents cause they were murdered while Oliver gave his life for him. The emotional weight of that is so heavy. The fact that they've kept this arc going tells me it's a hint for the future. Stephen said he wanted to come back as Oliver when Flash was ready to end.

[@_sunhera_7209]

I'm really happy Barry's the one to be aside of oliver in his last moments.

[@olivarryforce]

Both of his final moments, holding him as he dies, because Oliver died for him, as he should be♥️

[@Phillysavage]

This age well

[@dancerkris95]

Yup, I liked that it was Barry and Sarah were with him in his final moments it was fitting for them both to be there. I did feel bad for Dig, though, cause he didn't get to say goodbye to Oliver. He finally got his goodbye with him in the final season of Flash.

[@spice5759]

I swear Barry and Kara Reaction to not knowing he was dead they looked so heartbroken :(

[@danversqueenvideos3453]

He clearly cares for Oliver and loved him so much😭 his grief stages are so sporadic because he’s more than likely continuously circling as he deals w his grief and his trauma. And it’s so ironic because I think Oliver went through at least two of the stages himself when he thought that he was gonna lose Barry- with bargaining and anger. And then seeing Barry going through them ALL in fervor is so heartbreaking. You clearly understand them so well and like I’ve said before, you portray that understanding so beautifully. You nailed his emotions on the damn head. I miss them so much. I loved this:(

[@VetroMatt]

I cried so much seeing Barry dealing with Oliver's death, especially in 7x4 when Barry called him his brother and 8x13 when Deathstorm showed that Barry hasn't fully dealt with Oliver's death and still blames himself for it

[@olivarryforce]

I really hope we see more about Barry’s grief when Oliver returns to him.

[@ArtificialAnt]

One thing that annoys me is that everyone seemed to get over his death quickly ik its a Main topic of a lot of things but I feel there should be more emotion showed especially in the flash yk just saying

[@olivarryforce]

I agree. It’s frustrating because Oliver’s the reason for the other shows, essentially the Arrowverse, and it was quickly brushed past after Crisis. I know they had to finish off their seasons but with an event like Crisis and a tragedy like the first ever hero dying, it should’ve had a longer aftermath, especially on The Flash.

[@v.maneee]

i agree. in most tv shows someone dies and they act like everything is normal like 1 or 2 episodes later. i feel like they should depict more of the grieving process in these shows.

[@Nonononono12-y3x]

@@olivarryforce i mean flash did have an episode for the solo purpose of like barry just fussing over olivers death and dying gift to him

[@hafeezasif7932]

I mean barry had a whole episode devoted to that but the others did not know him that well even kara was kind of more of a coworker then a friend

[@ytsn_THE_OG]

I think we would have seen more from Mia, had they involved her more. I actually liked her, like Nyssa and Sara.

[@nrobb7872]

This had to be hard on both Grant and Stephen because they were as close as Barry and Oliver. Olivers death was the end of Arrow so some of this is probably tapping into actual feelings.

[@ravenjeninafaustinaaureamo880]

I can't even watch this. It's been almost a year after I finished watching Arrow, and I, myself, is still grieving.

[@sersastark]

Barry lost his big brother. Plain and simple.

[@pinkgiraffe378]

Barry's scene with Sara is one of my favourites, while the legends were essentially ignoring her grief, barry was there for her and was very wise and they connected over that since they both loved oliver.

[@TARDISTIMEROTOR]

Barry has lost a lot of people but he is still heartbroken🥺

[@minhthy5322]

This is so well written like the writer even thought about the 5 stages of grief and applied then to Barry which is just so great but honestly sad too… Thank you for pointing it out i wouldn’t have noticed otherwise

[@mukuro8033]

Imagine seeing your best man die twice...

[@alexmaurice4274]

Fav part of Oliver dying was seeing Lucifer become part of the arrow verse. That and how much Barry cares after Oliver obvs loved Barry like diggle and saw him as a brother yet more of a little brother I think. Even though we got to see those things damn I wish Oliver coulda lived and just ended the show happily it sucks my favorite character in anything died but I’m glad he died for those he loved in a way.

[@paige6742]

the pure fucking pain in the first clip. i was not ready. even tho i shouldve been:( anyway, the music was gorgeous, no surprise there, you always choose the BEST music to go with your videos. i absolutely loved the concept of this vid, it was so creative and fun(yetpainful) to watch. ALSO i loved your little text blurbs, they always made me smile, and gave me an intense workout of trying to pause at the right moments to actually read and enjoy them. and ive NEVER noticed that barry touched ollies chair in the hall of justice, so fukin soft its not funny. and i honestly forgot majority of coie so watching barry be literally obsessed with ollie instead of giving a fuck about the world. HUSBAND RIGHTS. the ending was actually perfect though, really simple and honestly the best way you couldve ended it. and meredith’s pretty voice narrating obviously was a plus

[@assassinxgaming1184]

Even tho Oliver wasn’t a real person it felt like he was whenever I see his face it just makes me sad of how he lived his life and how he saved everyone

[@laloeljoker7881]

I think it weights more on Barry since he was Oliver's first discipline he feels its his responsibility to carry everyone on

[@ireh_12]

That chair will always belong to Oliver. For his friends, he will always be there with them. 💚💚💚💚💚💚

[@flowerguy4764]

This was just so pure and heartfelt omg thank you for making it :'( 💞

[@katiiagomes16]

i love this even tho it’s so painful 😭 as usual you did an amazing job creating another masterpiece the grey’s voiceovers were genius, and your little texts on screen i love those also i absolutely love the filter, i love how it shows how much ollies sacrifice affected barry i just wish we gotten more of barry dealing with ollies de*th on the flash eps but yeah stupid writers.. i love this but the next one better be a happy one to make up for all this pain 🥺

[@seiya.power.awesome.inspire]

Barry's pretty much lost everyone, but none have made him as broken as Oliver. And what I find heartwrenching is that he told Magician (I forget his name) about losing someone he loved, because he sympathized with him over that loss.💕 Will never not love this TV show.❤️ #LongLiveFlash!

[@olivarryforce]

Completely agree. Oliver's loss is just beneath his parents & daughter, maybe even the same. He was family to Barry. I wish we could've seen him grieve Ollie onscreen more. Hopefully there's mentions and maybe even a reunion in the final season.

[@seiya.power.awesome.inspire]

@@olivarryforce That would be good for our fair hero, wouldn't it?❤️💛

[@minhthy5322]

Grant Gustin is such good actor like the way he’s portraying all these emotions

[@shiraholloway3968]

barry has lost so much 🙁 moving on have been hard for him

[@shunkazami90]

Rewatching this breaks my heart :( this is so sad even to this day

[@olivarryforce]

Have you seen The Flash 8.03? Breaks my heart even more. I miss them😭

[@karimgroves7792]

The problem with the Crisis storyline is that it completely undermined the very foundation of Arrow as being the most grounded of all three shows. Flash and Supergirl adventures are often cosmic, Arrow's were far more grounded in reality. It is also immediately evident that the cast of Arrow is exhausted and more than ready to move on with the exception of William and Mia who were done a tremendous disservice in not being able to really recapture the audience leading to the scrapping of a planned spinoff for them.

[@pinkgiraffe378]

I am glad we got to see barry grieve, despite how heartbreaking it is to watch. Bc it really does show how close him and oliver were and how important he was to him. 😭

[@aimeeedits17]

In season 8 of the Flash it's a five part episode or something like that. Barry ends up teaming with other heros, including Mia. I hope we see scenes of Barry and Mia bonding and talking about Oliver and how he was a good person. I feel like the writers made everyone forget about him so it would be really good to see Barry and Mia talking about him.

[@olivarryforce]

Yes please!! Barry promised to watch over her

[@rhondabarclay9144]

Oliver I hope he come back to us he,s death was very sad I literally cry

[@evilme1752]

that was such a beautiful edit, my only complain was, it made me cry more times than i want to admit, or even wanted to, dang you haha

[@olivarryforce]

tysm:))

[@ytsn_THE_OG]

I love how Diggle accepts his role, as the new Big brother. Wasn't sure if he would, but wasn't surprised when he did.

[@ytsn_THE_OG]

That's his big brother... And Oliver looked at him like his little brother. His true mentor. Not many people loved Oliver, like Barry. I love how Sara recognizes that. Different kind of love, but still pretty much just as close. Even though Barry got closer at the end.

[@stellarman7018]

I cried when Oliver Queen died

[@thunderbreaker4051]

0:18 gives me Endgame vibes when Tony died.

[@nancyhatfield1430]

Amazing I truly love this video!!!!

[@harshithaakumar962]

I just finished rewatching arrow but it always hurts the same. Amazing video. ❤

[@pinkgiraffe378]

This is such a creative and well put together edit, and is making me emotional. 😢

[@maley2552]

I wish Kara grieved more on Supergirl, she, Oli & Barry where the Trinity of these shows.

[@rhondabarclay9144]

I loved the green arrow but when I saw this I did cry oh my god I hope green arrow comes back 🙁

[@ytsn_THE_OG]

It is perfect, that Barry put the empty Arrow seat, in between himself and Sara. That's where he would have been, with his two right hands in the league. He seemed to have been given the chair of the leader as well. Which he was.

[@MarielikestoCrochet]

I LOVED their chemistry 🥰

[@rayyanshaikh5591]

"Stages of grief" lol no, the writers made him completely forget about Oliver 2 episodes after he died.

[@olivarryforce]

This video is just a compilation of all the grief scenes we did get, but I agree with you. The writers handled it poorly. It should’ve been dove into more, even Grant said Oliver dying was his biggest change after Crisis & that Oliver was his best friend. I hope there’s more mentions in the future

[@rayyanshaikh5591]

@@olivarryforce true. Its sad that the writers forgot about Oliver's sacrifice and barrys connection with him.

[@olivarryforce]

Yeah, the showrunner said that 6.10 was to honor Oliver and show Barry’s grief, but Grant was barely in that episode because he was still working on the crossover, so it was only a few scenes of that. Even if Grant wasn’t working on the crossover, it still shouldn’t be one episode to show that grief. Barry always brings up his parents, and while that’s valid, the actors of his parents show up all the time. Barry lost Oliver. They should’ve done a better job with that. Barry said losing him was his trauma, yet we barely saw it, unfortunately. He probably won’t mention him again until (if) Stephen shows up in their final episode.

[@ryte4502]

@@olivarryforce sorry for being a bit late on this but when he had acceptance it might’ve been a while after he died. Considering it so easily gets to 1 month per like 2 episodes it might’ve been a while that he was dead when he finally accepted it

[@jackwilkes5459]

I needed to see this thanks.

[@cedent.6909]

i still aint watch the ep where ollie died. i cant its too much dawg

[@azeddinedouioui241]

you're loss, it was amazing

[@cedent.6909]

@@azeddinedouioui241 that was 3 months ago

[@playeratpost]

Thanks Man for making this video!🤍

[@alexmaurice4274]

I’m still a bit confused. What part of the bargain let Barry and Kara live? When he first died correct? But in the episode he was holding off the enemy giving more people time to get off of that earth . And also he died at the end saving everyone not just Barry and Kara so what part was the deal? Or was it more of a date thing like...”if you save them here(the crossover the year b4).then your fate will be to die next year.”?

[@olivarryforce]

Barry and Kara were meant to die in Elseworlds, Oliver’s deal was to save them and in exchange he helps prepare for Crisis and die in their place/for them

[@alexmaurice4274]

@@olivarryforce thank you

[@frost.x_edits]

I love this video so much!

[@LibertyBridgeProductions]

That mask storyline actually looks really good for Barry I wish I saw it. What episode is it I bet it’s one of the highlights of the later seasons.

[@olivarryforce]

6.10

[@Andovers848]

Everyone talk about how thor and wanda deal with grief... i wish people would see how THEM deal with it as well

[@pinkgiraffe378]

Grant gustin is a hell of an actor.

[@hankholyfield]

i could'nt say a word throughout the video😭😭

[@ytsn_THE_OG]

When they let the arrow, at the memorial, the Justice League memorial, I thought it was weird that Kara was the one to light it. I know they got close, as friends, but I feel like it should have been an arrow fired by Diggle, which would have been proper, or at least lightning from Barry.. ya know, his freaking big and little brother.

[@_sunhera_7209]

here again watching it. one last hurrah of Green Arrow and Flash on the way in Flash's final season

[@olivarryforce]

Cant wait🥰

[@jamespeacock8776]

I’m just saying this because someone out there is thinking it “ it Barry really cared about Oliver he would get rid of his speed so he could age normally so that one day he could se him again”

[@olivarryforce]

Has the show addressed Barry’s aging tho ?

[@kissmrule]

good video

[@iroguejoker1938]

Ever since Oliver Died The Flash has been going downhill every now and then Oliver would show up on the Flash and smack barry across the face if he was doing something stupid or didnt make sense

[@kadenherzog9727]

I was expecting the picture of grant in front of the grave for the acceptance

[@olivarryforce]

well dang💀

[@ytsn_THE_OG]

Mia should have been on The Flash more. She's like his adopted niece.. He's like Barry's little brother, and Mia means a lot more to him than they show in the future. They bonded quickly, and then nothing after that. I'm glad Diggle was there, but Mia should have been as well. You know, the freaking Green arrow, that now Barry, Thea and Diggle have to look after.. can't really count on her mom for that...

[@idk42187]

That was real emotion cuz grant was sad that Stephen was done as arrow

[@TOMMY_ferry]

I didn't see those parts on Netflix when do those come on Netflix???

[@olivarryforce]

I know Flash, Arrow, Supergirl, & Legends is on Netflix. Don’t think Batwoman is.

[@spacegremlin9972]

His costume is pristine, not a tear of spot or blood on it, yet his face is all torn up, and that really bothers me

[@simonpearson3496]

2:51 Backfired on bro

[@thamsanqafuyane5993]

I mean he’s still the spectre technically

[@kevinorellana8454]

I like the idea of the video but it’s really annoying to put text if you’re not gonna let the viewers actually read it. Like what’s the point?

[@olivarryforce]

it’s common in editing; you’re supposed to pause to actually read the text that’s mainly part of the joke. sorry

[@JT-gc9yx]

If Oliver dies & just becomes a specter then why don’t we keep seeing him? & if he is somewhere & felicity gets to go there in the end why can’t anyone visit anytime?

[@linnscott2902]

😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@linnscott2902]

Thank you for the love

[@LifeTheExperience]

#truebromance

[@stellarman7018]

I always ship olivarry 🏳️‍🌈

[@spazzout1k350]

Bro they’re straight 💀

[@gamingwithirisgamingwithir6537]

@@spazzout1k350 you can still ship people

[@gamingwithirisgamingwithir6537]

@LandoKapAlot how

[@gamingwithirisgamingwithir6537]

@LandoKapAlot No It not cause u can have your opinion and he perfectly fine to ship people like people ship Sara and ava and there not gay

[@missschronicle]

I don't hate Barry anymore

[@The_W-tcher]

do you think we are all speedsters or something those texts were too damn fast damn it.

[@PersassyJackson130]

I would like to add one more: Revenge.

[@bhavna581]

i wasn't crying it was you....

[@Sanaa_K_Mohamed]

Barry if you really want Oliver back, you need experts on the matter, so go to Earth whatever, find Sam, Dean and Castiel and convince them to help you, that's the only way you can bring someone back from the dead.

[@PrincessKagayaki]

I had a dream about this! that actually the only other universe after crisis that is left is the supernatural universe and it's actually because of god powers. Barry travel there because he heard about Sam and Dean resurrecting each other but then he is tricked by a powerless Chuck to getting his god powers back in exchange for a spell that can be used to tether Olivers life force to him so as long as he is alive so is Oliver. He thinks he saved the universe but then they have to go back and help Sam and Dean v Chuck

[@calebsoria1901]

6:11 take your own advice wear a mask

[@taylorballard1096]

Hay my name is Taylor love your KZbin video s ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@fandomeditsbykatie]

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@vahvah7863]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😞😞😞

[@J_2peezy]

Is this Gona tie back to deathroom I’m the current season?

[@olivarryforce]

I wish. But Stephen is busy filming Heels, so I doubt it sadly.

[@CharlesHundley-w6g]

Two of the worst superhero deaths. Ironman and Green Arrow. JUST WRITE THEM OUT OF THE SERIES. DONT KILL EM OFF. JUST SEEMS LAZY FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THE WRITTERS WANT TO SEE PEOPLE CRY.

[@tkgamer6459]

Did they bury Olivers body

[@tkgamer6459]

I also Wonder if he will ever return

[@michaw9984]

Yest sub

[@ЛилиАнгелова-й7ф]

Name film?

[@olivarryforce]

'arrow' 'the flash'

[@sparklesnsmiles6354]

1:40

[@lisamoran4511]

I love Barry and Oliver i hated when they green arrow

[@adammayes3393]

By god it’s polka dot man

[@user_3460]

Wait- Why did Oliver die?

[@Phillysavage]

He sacrifice himself

[@chrishunter6042]

5:19 what ep was that

[@soundoftheforest3443]

W a it Oliver died

[@lesleycubby9809]

Yeah

[@Deenjourney123]

episode?

[@olivarryforce]

multiple ones. which scene are you asking for specifically?

[@Tylonzone]

Do Kara

[@rudrakulkarni3440]

Kara never grieved