It's a Girl! - New Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan

Khutbah given on May 8th 2015 by Nouman Ali Khan about the bushra, the good news, of having a baby girl.
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[@halaihsan439]

my dad used to wake up late at night and come check over us. He usually used to find me studying; he opens the door softly and say: you're still awake my darling? then take a blanket and put it on my shoulders and a carpet or anything warm and put it under my feet to ensure I'm feeling warm then he prints a kiss on my cheek and leave with a unforgettable gentle beaming smile. that was one of my dad's many loving acts of tenderness and nobleness. he passed away 6 years ago but his kindness is engraved in my heart and shall never leave my memory. may Allah grant him the highest ranks of paradise for he was a GREAT father. ( thought I had to share to tell people that great muslim fathers do exist :) peace)

[@wizzie2751]

Wow, such a great dad! :D

[@halaihsan439]

wizzie indeed he was ^^

[@Sfm_fitness]

Subhanallah Ameen

[@halaihsan439]

***** Allahoma ameeen.. thank you sister

[@yasminahmed2272]

Hala Ihsan indeed he was great dad but make du'aa for him ,try to pay charity for him if you can even if it's so simple especially in Ramadan , go visit his grave monthly or yearly even weekly if you can . it'll benefit him .may Allah mercy on him . I really love my dad i couldn't believe how I 'd forget him if died before me.

[@farzanaislam3005]

I have 3 beautiful daughters and they have an amazing father who loves them beyond belive alhumdulilah.

[@aemalahmad9580]

Lucky girls 👧 and great father alhamdulela.

[@omarelattar]

Alhamdulilah I have three sisters and I swear I will treat them better than before. May Allah bless me with three daughters when I get married inshallah! :))

[@rumenaaktar3216]

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[@alphafish4756]

+Omar Elattar InshaAllah! May Allah grant you jannah, ameen.

[@sanashaik.]

Aameen

[@haniyabatool9914]

SubhanAllah

[@neha11423]

Yah Allah dont make me one of those people who live only for themselves and not for Allah 😭😭😭

[@HajarHarchi]

We are 3 sisters and 1 bother but my father always treated us like princesses. Since I'm the oldest he treats me even better and count on me for everything in his life. May Allah bless him.

[@superxomar4489]

HOW DOES HE TREAT THE BROTHER TELL ME!!!

[@rajamehrankhan5218]

Nauman Ali Khan ...... I am controlling myself from committing sins as much as I can .... Your talks are really persuasive .... May Allah bless you more ....

[@rupalirroopkotha4581]

Alhamdulillah ,Allah has blessed me with the best father.We are 3 sisters and i am the youngest one, my mom says that to when i wasn't born my father used to pray to Allah to give another daughter,and he never ever make any difference between us my brother................ :)

[@kulsumkhansla4101]

Rupali Khatun subhannalllah, my father has 4 daughters and he was so happy when my youngest sibling turned out 2 be a girl.

[@kosssalah4030]

Rupali Khatun Did you know that the Quraysh killed girls?

[@kulsumkhansla4101]

koss salah to be more precise they buried girls alive

[@ibniloveitmushtaq6925]

@@kosssalah4030 that was before ISLAM when arabs killed girls

[@ibniloveitmushtaq6925]

@@kulsumkhansla4101 that was before ISLAM when people killed their daughters... Of course ALLAH through his beautiful DEEN which is our ISLAM put an end to this and dignified women...

[@bintamin6379]

Alhamdulillah I have 5 sisters with myself included we are 6 but SubhanallAh I can say my father has never shown any difference between us and my brothers ❤️ he’s the best dad ever.... jazakallAhu khairan

[@fizu92]

This khutba was amazing mashaAllah! It so needs to be translated in urdu to make some elders understand!

[@cassiesmum]

Daughters are a blessing. Where's the heartfelt love for a tiny baby? Your own flesh and blood? How can anyone feel depressed that they have had a daughter...all children matter.

[@risvangonzales]

+cassiesmum that's what Islam came to abolish, lady. Thank God that it's no longer like the old times.

[@sweettalk3368]

I love my girls more than anything in the world. Im so glad to have them in my life i just make dua that they grow up to be naik.

[@ameeranali3771]

Beautiful!!!! Islam is just beautiful! :)

[@Rinajustdoingherhobbies]

This actually brought a tear to my eye :'(

[@IdealMuslimahSite]

this helped me a lot as recently i had a baby girl

[@edanuryanikoglu1861]

I love that khutbah, elhamdülillah i have a very nice father, he never choose my brother over me. I wish every girl could have a great father who loves,protects and trusts her. Im praying for all my Muslim sisters and brothers goodness.

[@khalilrahmatullah]

May Allah bless all with e man and we all be thankful to Allah for granting us children no matter it's girls or boys.

[@MrThinker01]

It's always a pleasure to listen to this kind hearted and honest man. May the Almighty increase his tawfeeqat. Ameen.

[@sylphtajamul2743]

We r two sisters...and i have alhamdullilah the most loving and caring father

[@meheem]

The greatest blessing of my life has been my family. My mom, my sister and my dad. The way my dad loves me and my sister, there is no comparison. May Allah bless my dad with long, blessed life and grant him the Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

[@roku9770]

You are a great teacher, and an effective tool for our creator. Thank you for having a heart for truth, and for your love of Allah being alive, not just in words, but out of your heart.

[@areefakhan8032]

This is so beautiful, made me almost cry.

[@zizmrbean]

alx i am blessed with my first baby girl.. please pray for her

[@maryambegum9770]

Girls are blessings Alhamdulillah I'm blessed with beautiful princess x

[@gujjiiii]

His words are like pearls .. may allah preserve him and give him jannah Inshallah

[@lm3469]

Such a beautiful way of explainig the importance of looking after daughters Mashallah

[@aasiahchaudhary]

May ALLAH gives hidayat to all the men n women of our society to follow the sunnat of Prophet Muhammad (may peace be upon him)!!!!! Ameen

[@suveeraamin5100]

YA ALLAH (SWT), LET MY OWN BIOLOGICAL FATHER MR. I.M. ATTAIN JANNAH AL-FIRDOUS FOR HAVING THE BLESSING OF 3 DAUGHTERS AND LOVING US ALL AS THE #1 BEST FATHER EVER, AMEEN!!!

[@sadiasanjanariya2593]

THANK YOUUU!!! I really needed this! please give us more like this!

[@simplifyism]

Thanks brother Nouman!

[@ES-fr3yz]

Elhamdulillah . I love my daughter as much as I love my son.

[@amiraelhawat322]

MashuALLAH Tabbarak ALLAH FIK Happy Ramadan to everyone . Aminn

[@hadizabagudu]

Even though we dont bury daughters anymore, sadly, some people still practice infanticide abortions in favour of sons. Also, in some asian communities, honor killings are very common for the slightest of reasons. All crimes against the female gender.

[@khizerkhan6984]

.a

[@nailanoor1639]

Heart rending🥺🥺

[@DatteboyfromJrk]

*waiting patiently until he changes to english*

[@bayyinah]

Younes Kakaa Subhanallah.

[@DatteboyfromJrk]

I have a hard time understanding Arabic but I'm trying my best!

[@divyachoudhary9632]

Me to waiting :|

[@2manyusernamestaken548]

Younes Kakaa 2:20

[@ladybalqiis7777]

lol

[@bushra02khan]

We are 4 sisters and no brother. I'm the third child of my parents. When, I was born my grandma was so upset that she didn't even come to see me in the hospital because she was expecting a son. But the way my father has taken care of me and my sisters is incredible, we can never pay back to him for that❤️

[@amnaanees9755]

Balanced and beautiful. Advice for everyone of us. Jazakallah

[@tikauknow]

I wish I have Mr.Nak as my parent.. my parent make me sad.. I love Mr.Nak, may health always be with you..

[@jihanjannah21]

This's so beautiful, jazakallah kheir bro NAK

[@monabmm]

Jazak Allahu Khairan ustaz.

[@saeharbokhari1424]

And I'm sitting here wishing to have a beautiful pious girl

[@TheReetchou]

Saehar Bokhari ameen

[@broly6708]

me too but for marriage😂😂

[@sanayaseen5134]

may allah grant you that which he knows is best for you, causing you happiness in both worlds.

[@saeharbokhari1424]

@@sanayaseen5134 aameeen! Bdw I was pregnant when I wrote this! I had a boy tho

[@LPSForeverUs]

Amazing lecture. I'm only twelve and Nouman is one of the only people I can listen to and understand and ENJOY. I have two sisters and I want a brother yet I can't imagine my life with out either of my siblings now. There's a difference between both genders because he can do certain things and she can do certain things. My dad is amazing to us plays with us and loves us he is overprotective yet he loves us soo much he cries and gets really angry when he hears someone does not appreciate girls or children in general.

[@mariaahsan8481]

im impressed of such comment at 12 only

[@VashtiWood]

The great irony, here, is that the gender-determining chromosome only ever comes from the father! Yet somehow the mother is blamed for not producing a son!?

[@MamadouTraore-om8hh]

Vashti Wood The word _Alaqa_ has a scope of meaning. It also means - among other things - a blood sucking leech and something which clings. And I don't think there's any disagreements about the fact that at a certain stage embryos resemble blood sucking leeches.

[@zeeshanfeza9949]

+Vashti Wood Sex of Baby Chromosomes Females have XX chromosomes, that is, they can only give one X chromosome. But since males have XY chromosomes then men can either give the X or the Y chromosome. This means that it is actually the males who determine the sex of the baby (by giving either the X or the Y chromosome). [Quran 53:45-46] And He (Allah) creates pairs, male and female, from semen emitted. The Quran says that it is the semen that determines whether the baby is male or female. But since semen only comes from males then this means that it is the males who determine the sex of the baby. How could an illiterate man who lived 1400 years ago have known that it is the males who determine the sex of the baby?

[@shujriz2286]

to be more truly specific,gender determining chromosome comes from will of allah...

[@96muslimgirl]

riyaz baig yes, but through the man. But yes, no woman nor man chooses the gender. Allah does

[@worfoz]

There are facts and there is islam. Facts can be known, islam must be believed. There is no agreement that an embryo does not resemble a leech or blood clutch. But muhammedans are not able to admit any mistake in their islam at all. That's why some 1,4 billion people BELIEVE it's true while 5.8 billion people know it's not. And most living organisms do not come in pair. Only the more evolved multi-cellular animals do, and some plants. The quran is wrong again but muhammedans can not admit this. They worship muhammed and fear him.

[@husainahmmed9025]

JazaKallah khair . Awesome lecture

[@farheensayyedsadique3445]

Subhan Allah ....sir you're doing a excelent job may Allah grant you jannah ...ameen

[@sweettalk3368]

My father was great, but i have 3 daughters and they father is very unkind to them ,he speaks harsly to them( always) they scared of being left alone with him they beg to come with me, but if he wants he can be nice but its very rare. I have told him how blessed he is to have them, but...... 🤷‍♀️

[@haniyabatool9914]

I am so sad to hear this ,may Allah changes his mind thinking

[@HDY0903]

Looks like you found the wrong partner to be honest. Should have done your homework before you married him sister

[@cheimasebboua4361]

Hamdouli'Allah Allah has blessed me with the best father ever

[@elitemangudai1016]

Brother Nouman, thank you very much for this khutbah. May Allah be pleased with your efforts. I'm so grateful that my perception of Islam has been refined by sincere brothers and sisters. May Allah increase all of us.

[@sitinabilahothman3522]

Another great khutbah. Alhamdulillah. Thank you brother Nouman.

[@JordanGraham]

Alhamdulilah you share so much knowledge. JazakAllah khair.

[@afiqsinclair]

i love it , true, it is a problem until today may Allah guide us all

[@heenakhan-sr1hi]

I have four daughters and no son and can't even have now.and living in a country like India where it is very difficult to have them.pls make dua for us to Allah that he make our life's better in future also.

[@rahilagulnaaz9208]

heena khan kk i ll pray

[@aichaalloushe1]

Wallah well said. بارك الله فيك

[@Mommy2.2]

I am one of the three sisters and my father and brother are the best they can be towards us. May Allah pak give them good health and long blessed life. and give them Jannah in the Hereafter. Ameen.

[@DAWAH530]

Masha Allah.... Wonderful message

[@sadatgattoo4177]

may allah bless u brother nouman

[@sabamanzoor7151]

I just love your lectures 🙌🙌

[@seemabakhtar7262]

SUBHAN ALLAH..very strong khutbah

[@loliveiro]

As selam aleykum, thank you so much for addressing this matter. May Allah swt grant you jannah. One love for our ummah & humanity.

[@kausharpathan2851]

Jazaq Allahukum khairan Shaikh💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

[@haniyabatool9914]

MashaAllah people like you are in this world

[@moinchoudhury3627]

Al hamdulilah amazing lecture

[@sadiatariq3155]

Beautiful lecture mashAllah :')

[@zaheedarahim]

Mashallah brother nouman Ali khan

[@sumaiyasultana6759]

Please can you remake this video with bengali translation because a lot of fathers in Bangladesh dont like it when a daughter is born and forces them to marry in his own choice. So I can show it to lot of people in Bangladesh.

[@ishy236]

Sumaiya Sultana this is so true

[@Starzig123]

Very true, infact he needs to go to Bangladesh. Do a kudbah but with a bengali translator. Also females who have suffered will affect them when they get older as they will pass it along to their daughters.

[@TheGirlNemo]

As always... Masha Allah bro Nouman

[@imranzakaria6380]

I’m going to be a father soon and I have just opposite thought. I really want a baby girl. For some reason my preference is a daughter. If its a boy its Allah’s will.

[@selmiwissal8696]

ربي يبارك فيك و يجازيك عنا كل خير ويحفظ لك بناتك

[@silverlight5981]

Parents are so worried about the family name than their own or kids happiness when Allah Himself says which is more important.

[@bushramalik2129]

I love this so much ❤❤ touched my heart 💖💖💖💖

[@L.Mahmood.A]

جزاک الله خیراً

[@Eessanaeem]

Where would we be if it weren't for Islam! Such guidance. Such love for us!

[@saimarehman7275]

Amazing Lecture. May ALLAH reward you brother. I really wish it was in urdu, so that I can make people of village listen and understand what it is like to have a daughter. I have seen people who will actually come to share sorrow because one has had a daughter and not a son. May ALLAH give hidayah to all of us.

[@mp9811]

Ma sha Allah !

[@samarthamar1978]

A well ballenced qutbha motivation for parents and energy for doughters

[@gos9535]

بارك الله فيكم

[@najatalmerdi2050]

جزاك الله خير 😃

[@haniyabatool9914]

I am so happy to listen to your words

[@farhatshakir6190]

Mashallah, beautiful

[@ZedElite]

Verses from Surah An-Nahl [16:57].

[@Ukhti_Zee]

MashaAllah ❤

[@gousiabanu460]

Assalamvslaykom sir nouman ali khan very beautifully explained thanku so much💞

[@nooralynmaulana298]

Barakallahu fi kum ....thank you so much NAK this is beautiful lecture ,,,and first of all I would like to thanks to Allahutaala ...to having a 3 sisters and 3 brothers.,,,balance Alhamdulillah :) ,,,we are 7child ,,,I'm sure this is AllahutaAlah planed ...that 6 their stay together with parent and I'm alone ,, :( ,,,I live here in the Middle East ....shukran jazilan.....RAMADAN KAREEM TO ALL MUSLIM BROTHERS AND SISTERS ,,,,KULLU SANA WA ANTUMB KHEER

[@nailanoor1639]

Alhamdulillah I am very happy to see that there is someone who is trying to take us our rights back which were given by Allah to us . My parents always wished to have sons and they still often regret us for being daughters

[@MostafaMansoori]

Nice eloquent lecture.

[@gousiabanu460]

Alhamdhulillah we are 5 sisters

[@farhataquil7053]

Very satisfying ...hope people understand this

[@parvinayasmin8602]

Mashaa Allah a beautiful kutba brother Nouman Ali Khan on daughters, Alhamdulillah I have 3 daughters, and was wanting a boy since my first child but was all girls i was feeling disappointed at times, On beginning of 2014 i made intension to do my hajj with my husband surprisingly I got pregnant but wanted to do my hajj knowing i will be heavily pregnant around 8 months during hajj period, Alhamdulillah we both performed our hajj Allah SWT the most high the most merciful has made it so easy and possible for me can't thank Allah enough. On my return Alhamdulillah safe and sound back to England couple of weeks later i went to labour and gave birth to my beautifu healthy son which I admired on each of my pregnancy, Alhamdulillah I feel my family is completed now but i do feel guilty and ask Allah SWT to forgive this servant of his for having a desire strongly for a son over the daughters. Alhamdulillah I now feel blessed that I got my 3 daughters they can be for both of us the path way to Jannah In shaa Allah.

[@Starzig123]

Also think about the reaction if ur daughters found out about u favouring that time.

[@haniyabatool9914]

That's so sad that u used to think like that

[@haniyabatool9914]

But may Allah forgive you

[@fuufuuali5342]

الحمد لله الذي انعمنى بوالدى انه نعم الاب لم يضربنى يوما ولم يعاتبنى دائما يوصينا بالخير والتقوى عنده 15 بنات ولم نر منه الا الخير

[@muh_in]

SubhanAllah . .

[@mushfikamariam1959]

Ameen!!

[@mawas6801]

Ok So i understand why this video hasn’t hit millions yet

[@user-ps6pb9cz5b]

Beauitful ❤️

[@muhammadusama451]

You are a gem

[@shaikhparas9012]

Sir plz give such lectures in urdu as well. Bc there r lot of people in asia who needs to listen to this so badly. Plz it's requested to tell these topics in urdu ad well. Jazakallah for your all efforts. You're the person who made me meet my Allah. Though I was Muslim already I would offer namaz n recite Quran but I didn't know my ALLAH, you introduce my religion n Allah to me. Jazakallah. Lots of prayers for You ustad. I feel proud to call you my teacher.

[@samarmaq9868]

Subhanallah I never knew this alhumdullah now I know

[@Ayeshasiddiqui23]

Congrats for 1 million subscribers

[@muhammadsaad4764]

SubhanAlllah:)

[@HanaM249x]

Alhamdulillah. I love this...JazakAllah.

[@MNISohel]

Ma'sha Allah

[@DawahBroAustria]

Every single Pakistani father needs to watch this!

[@abdallahbashir1546]

Masha Allah

[@fatyba4035]

It’s crazy I want all daughters. I think if we treated our kids the same and gave them equal education maybe the women would be able to take care of there parent