Difficult Family - Nouman Ali Khan - Khutbah at Dar Alnoor

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@user-vh2ui2it3i
@user-vh2ui2it3i 2 жыл бұрын
There needs to be more frequent lectures & conversations about this topic. People are living a life of hell, not knowing how to manage family relationships. May Allah reward Br Khan.
@muhammedjahangir8358
@muhammedjahangir8358 2 жыл бұрын
Maa Shaa Allah!
@sara_qr6nl
@sara_qr6nl 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@shaniaparveen2108
@shaniaparveen2108 2 жыл бұрын
So true
@zebamansoori9351
@zebamansoori9351 2 жыл бұрын
Qqqq
@zebamansoori9351
@zebamansoori9351 2 жыл бұрын
@@muhammedjahangir8358 qqqqqqqqqqqqqq
@hafsaabbas2115
@hafsaabbas2115 Жыл бұрын
Family trauma and problems are the hardest test ever. May Allah give us strength to pass this test.
@manergatones
@manergatones 9 ай бұрын
💯
@zainabaliyumatazu7012
@zainabaliyumatazu7012 8 ай бұрын
Ameen
@zainabaliyumatazu7012
@zainabaliyumatazu7012 8 ай бұрын
Ameen
@zainabaliyumatazu7012
@zainabaliyumatazu7012 8 ай бұрын
Ameen
@YasminF89
@YasminF89 7 ай бұрын
Ameen
@honeybee3579
@honeybee3579 2 жыл бұрын
I personally find problems inside the family the toughest of all. Because of you want to please Allah SWT you should never let go and abandon the family or cut ties. Especially if they are your parents. It's a great test and may Allah give us the strength to pass it.
@saiyed11
@saiyed11 2 жыл бұрын
I made a mistake I left my so called Muslim family And now I have got the true meaning of Islam. Now it's the time to go back and teach them
@AnwarMasihUddin
@AnwarMasihUddin 2 жыл бұрын
*Our family big or small* But it's stand and performance like a Pakistan Cricket team, some time doing best of best and occupied number one position won the 1992 World Cup. Some time invole in match fixing or just a blame business, losing the matches with very weak teams, even the stars players scores not even double Figure even the world-champion team all out just like phone number. But all these mixture of good and bad performance it is called Pakistan National Cricket Team, class is permanent but form is temporary. Here Class is our family and form is our disputes. Bottom line, nothing granted in our material life, the permanent life have to come hereafter. All the best in 2023 more happier than 2022.
@ummulhudaa856
@ummulhudaa856 Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@taz8003
@taz8003 Жыл бұрын
ameen
@honeybee3579
@honeybee3579 Жыл бұрын
@dawah_sister_1 sister as someone who has been in a toxic abusive family since I was born and now I'm almost 25 I say Allah does not burden a soul more than it can bear, it's all a test, and nothing lasts forever....how many oppressors walked this earth and now they are beneath it as if they never existed.... So patience is key sometimes this is the harsh reality... Patience is not impossible knowing the clock is ticking and days are passing and time does not have mercy on anyone... So... I hope this helps because I wish I heard this when I was younger
@fatimahalhaddad1302
@fatimahalhaddad1302 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes i would wish to have a normal family but then i realise that im not normal too, so how can i have a normal family.. so i just get on with my life. Another thing is that, ive stopped putting any expectations on my family members and do things for the sake of Allah, that has saved me from a lot of pain.
@user-kl1on3nw7y
@user-kl1on3nw7y 2 жыл бұрын
Masha'Allah
@happyface1407
@happyface1407 2 жыл бұрын
I have been doing this for several years it helps alot...but sometimes i get really frustrated..😒
@serenewander9790
@serenewander9790 2 жыл бұрын
Mashallah. May Allah reward you with best ❤
@PalestineWillBeFree437
@PalestineWillBeFree437 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you're okay sis:)
@razninrahman9734
@razninrahman9734 2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@tariqsami1223
@tariqsami1223 2 жыл бұрын
Takeaways from the video: 1. Do not associate Batil with your family members who have caused conflicts, because their views, ideas, and character can change 2. Maintain hope in Allah, that the problems in your families can be solved 3. Try to look at the bigger picture to all conflicts in your families, and contemplate on solutions to the problems within the family 4. Be grateful to Allah for not only the existence of your family, but the relationships that you have with your families, regardless if they are bad or good. 5. Remember your purpose in life
@asimaqureshi9766
@asimaqureshi9766 2 жыл бұрын
Nice summary Ty
@BKall
@BKall Жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful for Allah for sending Ustad Nouman into this life. He’s opening access to understanding the Quran DEEPLY in second language, not arabic, for millions. May Allah grant him Jannah. Ameen.
@RK-qk7ow
@RK-qk7ow Жыл бұрын
Ameen ya Rabb
@zainabaliyumatazu7012
@zainabaliyumatazu7012 8 ай бұрын
Ameen
@shabskho
@shabskho 5 ай бұрын
This why setting boundaries with families is a must !!!! I won’t cut ties but limit my communication with them .
@jasminasinanbegovic6225
@jasminasinanbegovic6225 Жыл бұрын
Even if you are born in difficult family, don't give up. One day, even if it's 20 years from now, you will see sense in everything and be happy to be alive. You have a power to direct your destiny no matter how insignificant or small that power looks to you now 😊. Keep on moving however it looks for you
@haneefhawk
@haneefhawk 2 жыл бұрын
Forget and forgive is the way forward, but it's easier said than done. May Allah guide our heart to repent and forgive and make our hearts soft towards our family and their relations.
@asimaqureshi9766
@asimaqureshi9766 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen summa Ameen
@AnwarMasihUddin
@AnwarMasihUddin 2 жыл бұрын
*Our family big or small* But it's stand and performance like a Pakistan Cricket team, some time doing best of best and occupied number one position won the 1992 World Cup. Some time invole in match fixing or just a blame business, losing the matches with very weak teams, even the stars players scores not even double Figure even the world-champion team all out just like phone number. But all these mixture of good and bad performance it is called Pakistan National Cricket Team, class is permanent but form is temporary. Here Class is our family and form is our disputes. Bottom line, nothing granted in our material life, the permanent life have to come hereafter. All the best in 2023 more happier than 2022.
@kingh8163
@kingh8163 11 ай бұрын
What about when it’s just keeps on repeating? The same scenario or the past recreating itself? I distanced myself and got close again and that’s when the familiar started to occur again
@haneefhawk
@haneefhawk 11 ай бұрын
@kingh8163 at best, we could express how we feel so that it makes them aware of how we feel or try avoiding situations like that but maintain a hi / hello / bye relation to keepup the relationship tie 👔 😊
@meriamhaq123
@meriamhaq123 9 ай бұрын
But some family members won't stop until they break you
@user-zi7zc2mv6y
@user-zi7zc2mv6y 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this, I've been dealing with this issue all my life and got no one to talk to, may Allah give us strength to find the hikmah and guide us along the way. May Allah bless you.
@kausamsalam8543
@kausamsalam8543 2 жыл бұрын
May we never give up on our families, communities, and ourselves. Ameen. Thank you for this lecture. May Allah bless your wisdom and families. Ameen /Amazing lecture.
@rosnehassan7962
@rosnehassan7962 2 жыл бұрын
Turn challenge into ni'mah.Allah has brought us together in a family for a reason.Allah wants us to stick together Being grateful & iman
@karimasiddiq
@karimasiddiq 2 жыл бұрын
I listened to this at such a hard time and moment in my life. I will keep listening until it’s engraved in my head! Because I never saw it this way!! 😢😣😞 May Allah Swt bless you brother for this lecture.
@AnwarMasihUddin
@AnwarMasihUddin 2 жыл бұрын
Our family big or small, but it's stand and performance like a Pakistan Cricket team, some time doing best of best and occupied number one position won the 1992 World Cup. Some time invole in match fixing or just a blame business, losing the matches with very weak teams, even the stars players scores not even double digits even the world-champion team all out just like phone number. But all these mixture of good and bad performance it is called Pakistan National Cricket Team, class is permanent but form is temporary. Here Class is our family and form is our dispute. Bottom line, nothing granted in our material life, the permanent life hereafter. All the best in 2023 more happier than 2022.
@mariaclaudettecaluban5286
@mariaclaudettecaluban5286 2 жыл бұрын
It also depends how you define severing ties. You can keep a healthy distance but still keep them in your dua, or send help when needed. Being concerned about their welfare (even when you are not physically present) is not severing ties i believe. 🙏✨
@AnwarMasihUddin
@AnwarMasihUddin 2 жыл бұрын
*Our family big or small* But it's stand and performance like a Pakistan Cricket team, some time doing best of best and occupied number one position won the 1992 World Cup. Some time invole in match fixing or just a blame business, losing the matches with very weak teams, even the stars players scores not even double Figure even the world-champion team all out just like phone number. But all these mixture of good and bad performance it is called Pakistan National Cricket Team, class is permanent but form is temporary. Here Class is our family and form is our disputes. Bottom line, nothing granted in our material life, the permanent life have to come hereafter. All the best in 2023 more happier than 2022.
@muzamilqayoom6211
@muzamilqayoom6211 Жыл бұрын
I wish your believe is true....
@mohammedfazaluddin4417
@mohammedfazaluddin4417 2 жыл бұрын
The word of Allah! SO SO POWERFUL!
@aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557
@aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557 2 жыл бұрын
سلام عليكم.. سبحان الله العظيم.. Sometimes we are Tested by Allah.. In ways we don't understand..
@me-st7xf
@me-st7xf Жыл бұрын
Living with a narcissist is beyond explanation to top it all co-parenting with narcissist is literally living hell every day. But hikkmallah, we know less, Allah plans. Trust Allah🤲
@shahida_khan
@shahida_khan 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful perspective mashaAllah. A big knock back for the modern family-eroding trope of "narcissistic" parents/family/spouses etc
@sadiafortune4064
@sadiafortune4064 2 жыл бұрын
Ustadt Nouman Ali Khan conveys the DAWAH so profoundly and proffesionally knowledgeable ALHAMDULLILAH AMEEN May ALLAH SAW PROTECT you ALWAYS AMEEN
@sheelaanwar3061
@sheelaanwar3061 2 жыл бұрын
Aameen Yaa Rabb 🤲
@omarhenderson8433
@omarhenderson8433 2 жыл бұрын
This is definitely one of the best khutbahs in a long time. On the other hand there were some assumptions made that need to be made plain. One assumption is that to exercise or experience Allah's favor or blessing it's important to acknowledge or be aware of the stories we make up about other people. Other people say and do what they do and we have an opinion or a judgment about it and then we impose that opinion or judgment on them and use that opinion and judgment to determine our behavior towards them. If we're not clear on that and we fall into or rather we are not accepting or exercising Allah's blessing.
@intanbaipendatun6886
@intanbaipendatun6886 2 жыл бұрын
I finally heard what I need to hear. Alhamdulillah.
@rosnehassan7962
@rosnehassan7962 2 жыл бұрын
Allah puts us in difficulty for us to find a way of seeking Allah.
@lembahsir
@lembahsir 2 жыл бұрын
True indeed sister
@ImranKhan-tp3kh
@ImranKhan-tp3kh 6 ай бұрын
That shouldn't be used or said to justify their toxic / oppressive actions
@Malik4_ever
@Malik4_ever 2 жыл бұрын
I think his is the most diffucult Thing to muslim family speciallly in the pakistan To Fix family issue The pain, the humiliation,the stress The trauma,the drama, the unjustified and evil culture that Burden us more than anything else The useless talk The hatered and then jelosy It all so diffucult and sometime you Just have to know the limit and what is possibile I Mean in other hutbah Nak Said that its ok to have space and to get distance from abusive People even if They are They parent and relative But regardless ... Just Fix what you can At you Best,With Wisdom And if cant Just distance Even if its Just silence.
@Crescent-313
@Crescent-313 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah relive you from whatever difficulty you are in,you are speaking from experience,I can sense that.
@somebodyy32
@somebodyy32 2 жыл бұрын
Not only in pakistani but also in Indian families
@Malik4_ever
@Malik4_ever 2 жыл бұрын
@@Crescent-313 ameen,May Allah forgive us and Make Easy ours affairs and give us stability in the Heart. Jaza k'Allah hu khair
@Malik4_ever
@Malik4_ever 2 жыл бұрын
@@somebodyy32 yeah i Guess in the South Asia in general
@mahamtahir1043
@mahamtahir1043 2 жыл бұрын
You summarized the pakistani desi families so well
@uzmakhan-me2qk
@uzmakhan-me2qk 2 жыл бұрын
Im so blessed alhumdulilla i needed to hear this. Perfect timing.
@MariamMohamed-mr
@MariamMohamed-mr 5 ай бұрын
@mariaclaudettecaluban5286
@mariaclaudettecaluban5286 2 жыл бұрын
Salaam alaikum! I believe that the 'difficult' people ALLAH AWJ put in our lives are part of our growth and we become part of theirs. We all are ways to get closer to ALLAH because of the charity we give each other. We are also given opportunities to develop 'beautiful patience' when we interact especially when we disagree over many things. ..that sort of things. And ALLAH AWJ knows best. 🙏🙏🙏✨ Wassalam
@rafiakhanum9422
@rafiakhanum9422 2 жыл бұрын
Mas shaa Allah, Allah has bless you with wisdom, I pray that you may test the sweetness of it ameen
@khairiyahabd-muttalib2140
@khairiyahabd-muttalib2140 2 жыл бұрын
Jazakumullahu Khoiran Kathiran Ustaz...I am a 67 yr old wife and mum of 4. Allahu Akbar. I needed this so much...Alhamdullillah for this lecture...I shall share this with fmly and friends.
@fi_alqamar2523
@fi_alqamar2523 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah protect you and bless you Ustadh. Thank you so much
@fizashaikh4240
@fizashaikh4240 2 жыл бұрын
Alhumdulillah, Jazakumullahu Khair brother. Those Ayats are like magical. Which has changed the way l think. Subhanallah
@abdulhayisoqjanov7601
@abdulhayisoqjanov7601 2 жыл бұрын
Thoroughly apprciated from Bukhari borned city , uzbekistan . May Alloh bless you Nouman Ali Khan and grant with jannatil Firdavis 🤲
@rokaiyamumu449
@rokaiyamumu449 14 күн бұрын
My faith came back on Allah during my Marriage when i am realizing every single day that we had been just "muslim by born" but couldnt become one and when hurtful conversations are happening, i am realizing how Allah exists and i believe in it.
@syedasim952
@syedasim952 8 ай бұрын
My sister is going through a tough time and is in sever depression, please pray for her.
@sammy6996
@sammy6996 4 ай бұрын
How is she?
@Ummati40
@Ummati40 2 жыл бұрын
Jazakillah khair for giving these kind of khutbas. They really benefit our inner believes. May Allah reward you immensely for bringing up real issues and their solutions.
@MoulayAbdsamadBelghiti
@MoulayAbdsamadBelghiti 2 жыл бұрын
This was truthful and painful in the same time… thank you Bayyinah 👍
@yumnanoormahomed4110
@yumnanoormahomed4110 Жыл бұрын
Masha Allah Sir Nouman Ali Khan. You really place things into perspective. Subhana Allah
@hudakazi93
@hudakazi93 2 жыл бұрын
The best part of bayyinah videos is that, there is no kind of halal or haram music in the beginning or the end of the video.
@sadiyahansari8612
@sadiyahansari8612 2 жыл бұрын
Every family has a problem, difficulties between its people... I got the notification and I was literally stressed then... And it felt so good so relaxing so surprising too... That Allah doesn't want me to go into sin... He doesn't want me to be despair... Subhanallah... There are always signs for us to come closer to him... As we do that...we are doing for ourselves... If we do good it will give us good... If we do bad... The bad will come to us... Allah loves us that's why He always make us to make it... And He will continuosly do that until we the end if we also co-operate... And ask for sabr... Subhanallah 🌸✨
@farhodghaniev7646
@farhodghaniev7646 2 жыл бұрын
Assalamu aleykum
@dayanahrodeodrive
@dayanahrodeodrive 2 жыл бұрын
my take away: don't put a "batil sticker" to anyone coz human beings can change,grow and evolve 💫
@serenewander9790
@serenewander9790 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@asimaqureshi9766
@asimaqureshi9766 2 жыл бұрын
Cute
@lembahsir
@lembahsir 2 жыл бұрын
True indeed
@DWUDAD
@DWUDAD 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful khutba as always جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرًا ❤️
@tasneemrasooljilani7791
@tasneemrasooljilani7791 2 жыл бұрын
Nauman you are doing great Alhamdolillah.Your knowledge is an immense treasure. Subhan Allah
@mins-st5uf
@mins-st5uf Жыл бұрын
I grew up with a very abusive father both physically and mentally. My father traumatized my whole life. My father hit would beat on my mother and us (me and my siblings). Every memory I have of my father are just memories I don’t wish upon any child. I stopped talking to my father. I tried to forgive him but I know if I let him back into my life the abuse will continue. Everyone I know tells me I’m a bad muslim for this and I should let him abuse me and my family. I know that Islam would never be okay with men like my father and that’s all I need.
@hs6585
@hs6585 Жыл бұрын
Subhanallah, Allah is not unaware but all seeing in what happens, May Allah protect you and have mercy upon you!
@theempireofLuxury
@theempireofLuxury Жыл бұрын
That's the most painful thing. I person or child can experience I wish you to heal from this trauma.but I just want to say one thing. Because i need it to. When someone does something wrong.. why do we distance from Allah . He is most loving we should distance our self emotionally from people not from Allah.
@Mike-es2yg
@Mike-es2yg 7 ай бұрын
No, you do NOT need to let yourself be physically abused! Do what you can but your father needs to do better if he wants a relationship! I'm sorry you had a bad childhood, I hope you find peace and happiness in your life.
@ilham-cs9wu
@ilham-cs9wu 2 жыл бұрын
I always listen to your khutbah mashallah my allah bless you
@zair999ify
@zair999ify 2 жыл бұрын
I ask Allah to reward you with the best reward and increase you in knowledge, understanding and faith.
@irfanm8677
@irfanm8677 2 жыл бұрын
Aameen
@Koondhar2020
@Koondhar2020 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless u brother u changed my narrative completely coz of which i was going through pain since years
@عبدالله-ع4ض6خ
@عبدالله-ع4ض6خ 2 жыл бұрын
Masha'allah Masha'Allah My God protect you Very nice talk Thank you Jazak Allah khier
@nayeemahassan3977
@nayeemahassan3977 10 ай бұрын
No words just golden words may Allah bless u happiness Aameen
@tubazafar8733
@tubazafar8733 Жыл бұрын
And then there are people like you sir, blessing by Allah. May Allah give hidayat to all of us.
@zainababba9398
@zainababba9398 2 жыл бұрын
Jazakumullah khairan ustadh NAK, love from Nigeria, west Africa...
@mulhudasaja4994
@mulhudasaja4994 2 жыл бұрын
I hope my sins be forgiven by going through all of this test. I think this trial is a blessing for me as it was an option for me to be able to be forgiven. Allah know best. There are times when I feel the "reality" is so harsh, I tend to run from reality by believing in "fiction (baatil)" such as movie/cartoon etc (it's just an act/lies). I think I was lacking patience to face reality and to forgive. May Allah help me. The hope to be forgiven is what makes me feel stronger to move on. Based on my experience, communicating with pious person heal the heart very fast. I hope Allah forgive me for any mistake I wrote on this comment. May Allah forgive us, and heal our heart which is scarred by our sins.
@yararoushdy7741
@yararoushdy7741 2 жыл бұрын
it is literally an awesome khutba جزاك الله خيرا
@aminajamal593
@aminajamal593 2 жыл бұрын
Aameen to all duas May ALLAH SWT guide all of us and all our families and all teh generations to come till Do J Aameen
@shahinqureshi6147
@shahinqureshi6147 Жыл бұрын
Wallahi very deep understanding Allah bless and guide us all,in sha Allah my kids who watched this video will now understand why my nature is the way it is, it's not me but by the mercy of Allah
@yiquanawalkb4run26
@yiquanawalkb4run26 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here for us right on cue, May Allah increase you in knowledge & reward you, thank you
@bakimaroshi3199
@bakimaroshi3199 Жыл бұрын
Mashallah Mashallah God bles you Brother Amin ALLAH love from Kosova Albania 🇽🇰🇦🇱
@yakamoz7093
@yakamoz7093 2 жыл бұрын
Please share with Turkish subtitles. I would very much like to listen and understand these beautiful conversations...
@SS-eriously
@SS-eriously 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing lecture on a much needed topic. May Allah bless you all.
@KEY44449
@KEY44449 6 ай бұрын
Fantastic way to change our view of human beings. All of us have done good and bad. May Allah Forgive our bad and Increase our good Ameen
@hussnainhaider7327
@hussnainhaider7327 Жыл бұрын
We need more on this.... NAK is now becoming a brand.... MASHAALLAH jazak ALLAH, and love you sir........
@noormemo9153
@noormemo9153 Жыл бұрын
Thankfully, I have watched this. I hope Allah guides us all to see the wisdom behind all fights 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@ammarmunir5444
@ammarmunir5444 6 ай бұрын
Ya allah make is easy for everyone who is struggling with not nice parents
@ayaamariem6758
@ayaamariem6758 8 ай бұрын
Im tired not gonna lie exhausted, no energy to fight anymore
@safronproxyscript7006
@safronproxyscript7006 7 ай бұрын
stop fighting 😢 because you will end up by exhausting yourself and nothing will change. stop fighting and just pray to Allah for making things easy for you. sometimes it is wise to back off than trying to prove your self on the right side.
@tanjeerg
@tanjeerg 7 ай бұрын
No energy to fight anymore? Then the exhaustion is a blessing from Allah..... No one marries anyone to fight
@ImranKhan-tp3kh
@ImranKhan-tp3kh 6 ай бұрын
I feel the same at the age of 33
@MovieReviewssince90
@MovieReviewssince90 6 ай бұрын
Me too.I am done explaining myself
@ilahadal1
@ilahadal1 2 жыл бұрын
Very important topic to every human being. Knowledge is the key and been open minded is the key to salvation. جزاك الله خير الجزاء شيخنا الفاضل
@halimaali4306
@halimaali4306 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sir, I really needed it to hear this. May Allah bless you for all you do.🦚
@sahiraabrar
@sahiraabrar Жыл бұрын
I find this topic a really interesting one and always have always learned a lot from Nouman Ali. I get what you are saying in this speech and it is very good advice; however it doesn't take into account the fact that no matter how many meetings you have with some family members to address issues of concern to establish peace, the outcome isn't going to be a desired one and actually nothing is going to be resolved. Even if you sit down and have a conversation with some people, always being respectful, people that are narcissistic are going to avoid accountability and responsibility for any hurt or pain that they have caused. In my experience, it is best to acknowledge that these people are the way that they are and Allah knows best; but for your own peace and mental health, just pray for these people but keep your distance. This way, you can't keep getting manipulated and gaslighted by these people and you're protecting yourself from ongoing abuse.
@falaknaaz5123
@falaknaaz5123 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah azzawazal bless you enormously 🥺
@kaliltoure05
@kaliltoure05 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen Sheikh, waouh great understanding from this
@zhalranhi
@zhalranhi 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😭 MasyaAllah my dua has been answered ✨
@borakaracan6108
@borakaracan6108 2 ай бұрын
Alhamdulilah thank you Nouman Ali , you have helped me since I was a teenager
@aishakhan1021
@aishakhan1021 2 жыл бұрын
Oh finally a lecture on real worldly problem! And I so wish I can break that wall, but a wall against a strong narassist mother is pretty hard one 😥😥 Io actually figured her out at age 41, how am I suppose to change now after grieving that I never had a normal mother. And brother never forget your family might be a lot different than my mine:)
@ak-th5xt
@ak-th5xt 2 жыл бұрын
I know it's easy for someone to say "try your best, and let Allah take care of the rest" but yeah, that is the only way. Even Noah (a s) tried for hundreds of years.
@treetop711
@treetop711 2 жыл бұрын
same here! i was crying in prayer today saying all the things said in the video 'why did I get a mother like that' after finally learning that she is a narcissist. However much I try to not see her with batil she constantly reaffirms to me through her actions that she is an unyielding narcissist. I will try to implement the things said in this video though it will be tough. I do believe once I get enough space from my mother it will help heal things and perhaps improve my perspective of her and improve our relationship. I think in these cases keeping a good amount of distance from such people is key.
@rayyanahmad04
@rayyanahmad04 2 жыл бұрын
I've come to realize that a narcissist being a person with multiple masks, it corresponds to the description of Munafiqun in the quran, and so in that aspect I started reading quran to seek guidance on how to deal with Munafiqun, and there is plenty in the quran. Surat Al Anfal, Yusuf, Al-Imran and even Al-Tawba have so much advice for that regard. May Allah guide us and help us.
@princessak21
@princessak21 2 жыл бұрын
Allahu Akbar I thought I was the only Muslim that gd a covert narcissist mother. It’s the hardest thing ever dealing with that bullying etc, I found out at 33, 2 years and I’ve been grieving since I went into a nervous breakdown all alone when I came to the sudden realisation that I had a mum that was not normal but for the past 3 decades allah has been protecting me. You are not alone my dear I went thought the worse experience with her and guess what I forgive her but I will never be able to forgive and being Muslim it’s all about the mother, but tell me how that fits in when the lady will never ever change.
@princessak21
@princessak21 2 жыл бұрын
@@treetop711 yes it’s the only way that’s what I done I went no to limited contact she messed up my whole life ya Allah to the pains I had to go through. I was made homeless half my life for no reason. Anyways it’s hard as it is to heal but you need to heal and it can take years, it’s been 2 years since I found out about what she has done to me all my life and I’m still healing I don’t know how many more years I need to heal may Allah help and help anyone else that has had to suffer with a narc mother it’s the worst thing ever!!!
@naheedmahmood2839
@naheedmahmood2839 2 жыл бұрын
SubhanAllah! Brilliant explanation; May Allah Reward u infinitely and May He Help us to understand and behave as He wants us to, Ameen
@khadijafatima9240
@khadijafatima9240 10 ай бұрын
May Allah make us among His pious believers, and may He accept all our right duas. May Allah protect us from every evils of people, May Allah make a way out of our difficulties with khair o afiyat & shower his mercy upon us 🤲
@rabiyasultana506
@rabiyasultana506 9 ай бұрын
Subhanallah.....such an eye-opener....need to listen multiple times to get it engrained....Jazakallah khair Brother
@hamza-vk7jt
@hamza-vk7jt 2 жыл бұрын
Salam Nouman BarakaAllah ou fik I'm exactly in this situation I don’t know how to deal with my family I will try to make a step and see how it goes
@fatoumatatraore7284
@fatoumatatraore7284 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@svlogs4481
@svlogs4481 2 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulila Alhamdulila. Thank you!
@tashheertungekar565
@tashheertungekar565 Жыл бұрын
I m 49 years old in my life till now I have found peace only with my parents n I can say alhamdulillah they are ablessing allah has given me I have not found any thing peaceful in this world prayer n parents
@SuperUmmara
@SuperUmmara 2 жыл бұрын
الحمدلله رب العا لمين ما شاء الله والله الكبر ♥️
@sarahadnan9868
@sarahadnan9868 6 ай бұрын
When you are grateful to Allah you find positivity in everything
@dnz8818
@dnz8818 2 жыл бұрын
Jij hebt dit zooo mooi uitgelegd dank je..belgium
@irfaanahmad9169
@irfaanahmad9169 5 ай бұрын
Having father is blessing but having islamic father is more blessings😢
@odette-hi6rt
@odette-hi6rt Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah, his khutbah gives me goosebumps because there is one friend who was disliked by most of my friends. and they like to judge her and that she will never change... do who are we can decide the future? :"(
@LDR812
@LDR812 2 жыл бұрын
Jazaka’Allah. This changed my life.🙏🏽
@musawer-xf7zy
@musawer-xf7zy 7 ай бұрын
May Allah bring family members closer and solve the problems between.
@oumarsakho9769
@oumarsakho9769 2 жыл бұрын
Lâ Hawla wa lâ Quwwata illâ billâhi'l aliyul Aziim. Assalaamualaykum (peace be upon you). Alhamdulillâhi Rabbil âlamiin. Allâhumma Salli alâ Seyyidinâ Mawlâna Muhammadin wa Sallim. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. May ALLÂH SWT Reward you. May ALLÂH SWT Make it easy for all and Guide, Protect, Bless, Help us and Grant all of us Jannah. Ameen Ameen Ameen Ameen Ameen Ameen…
@F.N_NOORZAI_
@F.N_NOORZAI_ Жыл бұрын
I don't have these blessings, and I pray to Allah to bless me with these neamts/blessings in this tough period of my life while I am feeling so lonely and I am tired of living alone far from my family and in a open environment that sins are really easy to do. May Allah protect me and all other Muslims.
@spark9888
@spark9888 4 ай бұрын
Don’t worry brother I dealt with the same exact thing a year ago… i really was struggling even though i had friends and stuff … but really, i know what you feel about everything around you the temptations and what not
@whitelegends8475
@whitelegends8475 2 жыл бұрын
Going trough hardship later gives a better life
@haticeergun7618
@haticeergun7618 2 жыл бұрын
The only way to be continually grateful to Alllah SWT is to acknowledge and give thanks for each and every grants that we are given and for each and every lack we are deprived of. Alllah SWT knows best what we need and what we don't need الله علم
@masaratakhtar7383
@masaratakhtar7383 Жыл бұрын
I really need this khutbah at this time jazak Allah NAK.....
@dagzok
@dagzok Жыл бұрын
Very enlightening lecture. I learned a lot from it. Bottom line is to understand where they coming from rather than putting a label on them.
@DoctorNAhmed
@DoctorNAhmed 4 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot, feeling the same pain that u r discussing among family relationships,u r wonderful person,may Allah give us hidayat through u,Dr khan,,,want a lot of lectures on this topic in Urdu too
@Aaf109
@Aaf109 Жыл бұрын
Subhan Allah brother beautiful bayan may Allah grant understand of ALLAHS BOOK N LAWS TO every human being alive on this earth Aameen..specially all the men husbands on earth AAMEEN
@SylviaOgola
@SylviaOgola Жыл бұрын
He really gave me some things to think about in this lecture. This was very helpful. Jazakallah kheyr.
@yrysa
@yrysa 2 жыл бұрын
Listening to hutba of ustath, I thought Allah teaches us the psychological aspects of our life
@frozen_jellybean
@frozen_jellybean 2 жыл бұрын
Wish I could attend Bayyinah Institute with you, Ustadh.
@naheedmahmood2839
@naheedmahmood2839 2 жыл бұрын
U can attend the Dream Program online
@zaidan296
@zaidan296 2 жыл бұрын
They don't conduct onsite studies now.
@indahmalang6612
@indahmalang6612 2 жыл бұрын
Me too insyaa ALLAH
@aimanfatima5698
@aimanfatima5698 2 жыл бұрын
Dream program is still going on
@ayeshayasir3329
@ayeshayasir3329 2 жыл бұрын
@@aimanfatima5698 how can I access ? Any link to it?
@alimo2000
@alimo2000 2 жыл бұрын
Jazakallah khair brother Ali
@polaris.spacex.event24
@polaris.spacex.event24 2 жыл бұрын
11:20 15:00 16:25 18:44 auch 19:26 22:05 23:30
@maymunasavant1687
@maymunasavant1687 2 жыл бұрын
Mashaallah. Excellent khutbah. Shukran
@Shook1917
@Shook1917 2 жыл бұрын
A Father who was a strong sociopath narcissist and then raised a selfish dumb son who married a dangerous, meek acting narcissistic. They isolated my children and Myself marked us as dirty people. My children have been cut off from famlly. In the end it’s better bc they could of poisoned my kids against me. Meanwhile btw this toxic family acting they are as perfect as possible Muslims. So although I am broken inside I feel blessed I saved my kids and we are blessed with following Islam and my kids get a chance to experience peace. Allhamduallah
@fadelbadiane9019
@fadelbadiane9019 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to read that. We are human and cannot endure everything. Allah does NOT like Injustice.
@Minamaya00
@Minamaya00 10 ай бұрын
I've cut my sister off because she has hurt me in lots of ways. It's clear to my family and friends that she's done me wrong. I haven't done anything to cause her mistreatment of me, nor have I sought revenge. I stopped talking to her, and I no longer consider her family. I have forgiven her in the eyes of Allah, but I will never forget the deep hurt she's caused me.
@Mike-es2yg
@Mike-es2yg 7 ай бұрын
Cute cat! Do you think you can talk to your sister, tell her how you feel, and try to restore your relationship!
@wolfgang7812
@wolfgang7812 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes even a car doesn't do what you want it to do it breaks down. An apple can go off etc so it is best to practice gratitude towards everything Allah azzwajal gives us and; this isn't easy we can be tested with smallest of things.
@jahidanwar860
@jahidanwar860 8 ай бұрын
Aap Sabse Guzarish Hai Ki Mere Abba Amma K liye Magfirat Ki Dua Kare
@ullabrittsalomonsson1105
@ullabrittsalomonsson1105 2 жыл бұрын
Assalamualeikum so beautiful lesson love you all for the sake of Allah
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