Sairbeen: What is behind Pakistan's obsession with fair skin? - BBC URDU

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پاکستان میں، انڈیا میں، گورا ہونے کے ابسیشن کی آخر وجہ کیا ہے؟ وقت کے ساتھ، اوئیرنس کے ساتھ، اور مختلف کیمپینز کے باوجود یہ جنون کم ہونے کی جگہ مزید گہرا کیوں ہوتا جا رہا ہے۔۔ اور اگر یہ پریانکا چوپڑا اور آمنا الیاس جیسی خواتین کو بھی متاثر کر رہا ہے تو ایک عام لڑکی کی سٹرگل کیا ہوتی ہوگی۔
میزبان: عالیہ نازکی
ایڈیٹر: خدیجہ عارف
رپورٹر: فرحت جاوید
فِلمِنگ: زبیر صلاحالدین، واجد علی شاہ
پروڈکشن ٹیم: خالد کرامت، غضنفر حیدر، عمر آفریدی
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@abdullahnbhavansaiyad5225
@abdullahnbhavansaiyad5225 Жыл бұрын
What a lovely religion and what a great personality Muhammad S.A.W. Neither black nor white, only human and love Subahanallah
@hudabaig2504
@hudabaig2504 Жыл бұрын
Hazrat Bilal e habshi humare sirr k Taj 🌟🌟🌟
@Saman-yg8dr
@Saman-yg8dr Жыл бұрын
But not followed in Pakistani society...here they don't even respect black foreign delegates
@shahidarazak1134
@shahidarazak1134 Жыл бұрын
During 1980 PTV drama we have dark skin actresses, and girls were chosen according to their talent but now for the last 25 years, you will see each and every actress or host or news anchor they all are fair skin.
@Ddosgiver
@Ddosgiver Жыл бұрын
आपने सही कहा , ये मेने इंडिया मे भी अनुभव किया है ।।
@SylvesrerSam
@SylvesrerSam Жыл бұрын
Bs Tv dramas are ran by Muhajirs and ugly Lahoris
@Billdean25
@Billdean25 Жыл бұрын
​@SUNIL GUPTE ptv is all Muhajirs
@Thefloristgang4pf
@Thefloristgang4pf Жыл бұрын
@SUNIL GUPTE You are exposing your own ‘nafrat’ for Pakistanis. Generalisations are never fair. How many Pakistanis do you actually know? Can I assume that everyone from your country are as judgmental as you are?
@muhammadzain4302
@muhammadzain4302 Жыл бұрын
Good topic i think this kind of shows is necessary for our culture and country keep spreading positivity🖤
@munfaridandaz
@munfaridandaz Жыл бұрын
اِنَّ اَكْـرَمَكُمْ عِنْدَ اللّـٰهِ اَتْقَاكُمْ ۚ اِنَّ اللّـٰهَ عَلِيْـمٌ خَبِيْـرٌ بے شک زیادہ عزت والا تم میں سے اللہ کے نزدیک وہ ہے جو تم میں سے زیادہ پرہیزگار ہے، بے شک اللہ سب کچھ جاننے والا خبردار ہے۔ -سورہ الحجرات Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.
@Suntreecity
@Suntreecity Жыл бұрын
Actual beauty is in fresh skin, not skin colour, and that comes from strong parents, especially the mother, and after childhood, nice healthy food, active confidence, and an educated lifestyle.
@HK-nh7lt
@HK-nh7lt Жыл бұрын
Ms. Alia you explained it very well.
@razakshahid9277
@razakshahid9277 Жыл бұрын
پسند آیا❤
@naabspecialwithfatima23
@naabspecialwithfatima23 Жыл бұрын
یہ لوگوں کی تنگ دلی اور تنگ نظری ہے۔کہ صرف گورے کو خوبصورت اور کالے کو بد صورت سمجھتے ہیں۔۔۔۔جبکہ خدا کا بنایا ہوا ہر رنگ خوبصورت ہے۔۔۔خدا کے نزدیک عزت کا معیار نہ ہی گوری رنگت والے ہیں اور نہ ہی کالی رنگت والے۔۔۔بلکہ تقوی ہے ۔۔
@naseemahmed7941
@naseemahmed7941 10 ай бұрын
These Dolls R From European Countries
@naseemahmed7941
@naseemahmed7941 10 ай бұрын
These Dolls R Smart Slim Cute Brightening Skins With Pink Lips N Pink Nipples
@swarajlaturkar3103
@swarajlaturkar3103 7 ай бұрын
But everyone is happy being fair only
@yasirmpr
@yasirmpr Жыл бұрын
Allhumdillah for everything ❤
@Lifewithchahhussain
@Lifewithchahhussain Жыл бұрын
Meri ammi kehti hen k colour white ho ya black pr dil pyara hona chahye
@uae6740
@uae6740 Жыл бұрын
@NHassan-om6ys
@NHassan-om6ys Жыл бұрын
Ami jee ka bohat khayal rakho. Bohat achi baat kahi unhone.❤
@amjadhussainabro9770
@amjadhussainabro9770 Жыл бұрын
Koi Dil nai dekhta yaar, gore rang par Marte hn sub
@MuhammadAsif-zo3nu
@MuhammadAsif-zo3nu Жыл бұрын
بھائی بات تو ٹھیک کہی آپ کی والدہ نے مگر معذرت کے ساتھ سوسائٹی میں کالے رنگ کو لے کر لوگوں میں کچھ اور ھی باتیں یا مائنڈ سیٹ ھے ۔ وہ رویہ عام نظر اتا ھے سیاہ رنگ کے ساتھ جیسے کہ رشتوں کی تلاش کے دوران وغیرہ وغیرہ
@ka1573
@ka1573 Жыл бұрын
Bohat achi baat ki apki walida ne Allah unhen sehat wali lambi zindagi ata fermain aameen
@Badshah-un2mp
@Badshah-un2mp Жыл бұрын
عید مبارک ۔۔۔او شانو عید مبارک
@mustansarhussain6650
@mustansarhussain6650 Жыл бұрын
Great effort
@shehryarkhan3505
@shehryarkhan3505 Жыл бұрын
Pakistanis are very unique people, home to multiple ethnicities based on region. We come in different colours. We have mixture of Persian, Afghan, Indo-Aryan, Sindhis blood flowing in our veins. We all have similarities with each other, accept each other, we are one family. Proud Pakistani.
@rabiaahmed7659
@rabiaahmed7659 Жыл бұрын
No Persians but we are white Dardic people are all blonds
@phylicia595
@phylicia595 Жыл бұрын
Most Pakistanis are white Everybody in this video were Muhajirs and Lahoris
@phylicia595
@phylicia595 Жыл бұрын
@@PQRCBR poojeet Rajputs came from Huns
@phylicia595
@phylicia595 Жыл бұрын
@@PQRCBR lol do you know queen diana use to bang Hasnat Khan. FYI Pakistan was made in 1947 way after Elizabeth
@shehryarkhan3505
@shehryarkhan3505 Жыл бұрын
@@PQRCBRyou are right they nothing to be ashamed off. What you mentioned are castes within the Punjab province/state. These so-called castes have further polarised the society, hatred. I was referring to different ethnicity.
@induchopra3014
@induchopra3014 Ай бұрын
Fairness is not beauty. Your personality, your thinking makes you beautiful
@Nazpunja
@Nazpunja Жыл бұрын
Aikh example, mai Eid ka TV program dekri ti aur host nay bola "aaj ka guest Tall, fair and handsome hai"....😂 English mai toh phrase "tall, dark and handsome" hota hai. We are obsessed with being fair so much that we even change English phrases/sayings to fit into our beauty standards.
@RyanArora-ce9fe
@RyanArora-ce9fe Жыл бұрын
Fair more attractive jo realty usku mano zian Malik hirtik rosan or bhi bhut se Hain
@muhammadsarfraz6372
@muhammadsarfraz6372 Жыл бұрын
Excellent topic
@gemgimi5959
@gemgimi5959 Жыл бұрын
We need more people who spread awareness.
@AkhtarHussainAkhtarHussa-hr8og
@AkhtarHussainAkhtarHussa-hr8og Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ nice program
@abdulrashidparacha5899
@abdulrashidparacha5899 Жыл бұрын
Excellent 👍
@BadhonEbrahim
@BadhonEbrahim Жыл бұрын
1:38 the irony is she wore a white toned foundation trying to look fairer while giving elaborate bookish 'lecture'
@hayahafeez
@hayahafeez Жыл бұрын
Very knowledgeable program.💐Respect from Pakistan Quetta.
@silenthill1035
@silenthill1035 Жыл бұрын
My heart: Goray rang ka zamana kabhi hoga na purana gori darr tujhe kis ka hai? Tera to rang gora hai. Also my heart: Saawli salooni si mehbooba, teri chooriyan sharang ker gaein. Jaanay kesi aas lagai? Hai Hai kerein sab larkay. Both are beautiful in their own way. Dress modestly regardless, stay humble, and be thankful to Allah for whatever skin color you got even if you have pigmentation diseases such as Vitiligo.
@zubairkhan-cq1wx
@zubairkhan-cq1wx Жыл бұрын
Vegetables and fruits are changing 360 degree your skin
@NAMILARAHEEM
@NAMILARAHEEM Жыл бұрын
best topice
@jamesakash874
@jamesakash874 Жыл бұрын
Beauty is in diversity
@VHentertainment999
@VHentertainment999 Жыл бұрын
Host.. Speaking ❤❤❤❤
@zadcourt
@zadcourt 5 ай бұрын
My favourite actress you shown here i like her black skin attractive beautiful colour
@ShahZaib-fj8fc
@ShahZaib-fj8fc Жыл бұрын
Most educated program.
@thira135
@thira135 Жыл бұрын
Skin should be healthy and clear Not black or white It should be fresh ❤ Colour is god gifted. So anyone has some issues with colour he/she should go to ALLAH and ask Him. Simple. Problem solved
@ranjoor1593
@ranjoor1593 Жыл бұрын
Thank you judge sahiba... Lagta hai rotiyan bhi jaldi bana leti hungi. Problem solved jhat pat.
@thira135
@thira135 Жыл бұрын
@@ranjoor1593 yes true 💗
@ranjoor1593
@ranjoor1593 Жыл бұрын
@@thira135 Hi
@aamirarman2624
@aamirarman2624 Жыл бұрын
جس جس نے ہمارے نبی رحمت کا آخری خطبہ پڑھا اور سمجھا ہے اس کو کالے گورے امیر غریب ذات پات کی فکر نہیں ہوتی۔ اور ان کی ترجیح انسان کا تقویٰ ہوتا ہے نہ کہ یہ رنگ نسل یا پھر دھن دولت۔ ہمارا میڈیا ہمیں آگاہی دینے کی بجائے مزید گمراہی کا شکار کرتا ہے۔
@maroofazam7334
@maroofazam7334 Жыл бұрын
Subhan Allah subhan Allah beshak beshak
@syedtariqshah5903
@syedtariqshah5903 Жыл бұрын
Everyone is equally beautiful. The matter is to care the beauty with which you are naturally gifted. Go for natural sources for keeping your skin healthy. Have sound sleep. Have a walk. Keep your thoughts positive free from hate, jealousy, and comparison with others are beauty tips. Use dark green leaves, eat fruits and have plenty of water. Aviod ultraviolet rays of sun as possible. Use cosmetics free from Mercury according to your skin type recommended by dermatologists. This is how you can keep your skin more healthy.
@asadshariff
@asadshariff Жыл бұрын
So we’ll stated.
@syedtariqshah5903
@syedtariqshah5903 Жыл бұрын
@@asadshariff Thanks stay blessed
@srmithu
@srmithu Жыл бұрын
A very important issue to address especially in Pakistan
@sadiaafzal1186
@sadiaafzal1186 Жыл бұрын
Most demanding topic.. Thank u BBC❤
@ranjoor1593
@ranjoor1593 Жыл бұрын
Pic wese apne bhi kafi bright ki hui hai.😜
@sadiaafzal1186
@sadiaafzal1186 Жыл бұрын
Technical Error😄
@farhanhayat5816
@farhanhayat5816 Жыл бұрын
EVERY1 IS BEAUTIFUL HAPPY EID TO ALL...
@tasleemahmad4081
@tasleemahmad4081 Жыл бұрын
Informative Programs
@humaamjad1570
@humaamjad1570 Жыл бұрын
Good discussion.
@ijazkhan0011
@ijazkhan0011 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@rabianaz4545
@rabianaz4545 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video content 👏
@Abdullah_khan77
@Abdullah_khan77 Жыл бұрын
Its better what Allah Wants for us ❤ Alhamdulillah
@usmanjaved216
@usmanjaved216 Жыл бұрын
Maria wasti herself is obsessed with fair skin.
@beautyobserver2022
@beautyobserver2022 Жыл бұрын
Medium skin fair tone is good not too fair or too dark. Pakistani mostly skin tone is perfect not too dark. Too dark are less in pakistan . 80 percent skin tone are actually medium white and tan skin tone they both are beautiful skin tone.
@azeemulhasan3498
@azeemulhasan3498 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right. The majority of the South Asian population is suffering from social discrimination because of their race, religion, or skin colour. It may be because civil society has failed to educate people.
@MuhammadAsif-zo3nu
@MuhammadAsif-zo3nu Жыл бұрын
👌👌👏👍
@phylicia595
@phylicia595 Жыл бұрын
Most Pakistanis are white You Muhajirs aren't
@SylvesrerSam
@SylvesrerSam Жыл бұрын
Pakistanis are white
@Billdean25
@Billdean25 Жыл бұрын
Black smelly
@dearrationals
@dearrationals Жыл бұрын
"And one of His signs is the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the diversity of your languages and colours. Surely in this are signs for those of ˹sound˺ knowledge." - 30:22 All skin colours are equally beautiful. I wonder if these Pakistanis who love gora rang so much wanna be colonised by goras again? Do they want to serve goras? Do they want to bootlick goras?
@humerakhan1885
@humerakhan1885 Жыл бұрын
Good topic
@bhimberone
@bhimberone Жыл бұрын
Excellent topic by BBC after a long time
@rabyaahmed2817
@rabyaahmed2817 Жыл бұрын
White skinned people wanting a tan....and Asians want their skins...white😂😂....what's wrong with the mindsets 😅Me I'm mixed race so I have a beautiful tan😂....Alhamdulilah and would never want fairer skin!! You are beautiful as Allah made you
@ShaadiOrgPk
@ShaadiOrgPk Жыл бұрын
Ask us this question? We are running a marriage bureau since long time and from both the boys and girls we listen this question. Both want fair color. Some do not even satisfy on fair. They want white as milk. This had made matchmaking a very tough job. Still our marriage bureau work hard to guide people about it. Hopefully we will share this video link with others to help them understand our point of view.
@kabiramwani4900
@kabiramwani4900 Жыл бұрын
😟😟😟
@perfect6494
@perfect6494 Жыл бұрын
How much do you charge for this
@sk.krehman4712
@sk.krehman4712 Жыл бұрын
@@perfect6494 are you searching for boy or girl?
@ziauddin7948
@ziauddin7948 Жыл бұрын
b coz white skin is extremely attractive to every human on this earth #
@quratulainzeeshan8010
@quratulainzeeshan8010 Жыл бұрын
Yes ye mam fareeha tu meray school teacher thein. I remembered her. Viqar un nisa school
@tasleemahmad4081
@tasleemahmad4081 Жыл бұрын
Sairbeen Programs are very awesome❤❤❤
@mohammedrehman4578
@mohammedrehman4578 Жыл бұрын
We have lot of song about white skin "( gooree rangat). Like "" nakhra gooree da, gooree rang pay itna guman na kar, and many Punjabi songs about gooree rangat. Fair skin are superior most we watched in movies and dramas. It will take some time to get rid of complex. Respect from Connecticut USA 🇺🇸.
@marvjamali343
@marvjamali343 Жыл бұрын
Some of my students in class 6 apply bleach cream two to three times a week
@juniorworld6142
@juniorworld6142 Жыл бұрын
Eid mubarak 😀😀😀
@SidrahArshad-w4j
@SidrahArshad-w4j 10 ай бұрын
Wheat colour sb sy zeada acha hy,wasay agr ap apni grooming kerain or style adopt kerain tb b apki looks change o jati ain or aik achi personality nazar ati hy no matter either you have a dark complexion or fair complexion.hum ny dark complexion wali kai larkian dekhi ain jo bohat attractive oti ain,bus wo apni dressing achi rakhti ain
@aish192
@aish192 Жыл бұрын
Thoughtful point...it's appreciated that you guys have raised this point...but we won't be able to overcome this issue... standard of beauty is complexion
@mustansarhussain6650
@mustansarhussain6650 Жыл бұрын
Good
@bilalkhan7881
@bilalkhan7881 10 ай бұрын
😍
@aasif1100vlog
@aasif1100vlog Жыл бұрын
best info
@mustansarhussain6650
@mustansarhussain6650 Жыл бұрын
nice
@khanbelgium7602
@khanbelgium7602 Жыл бұрын
Maria you are very charming 😍
@FizaKhan-om9ve
@FizaKhan-om9ve Жыл бұрын
Alia ap ke Awaz or phr us pr style sa bolna mujha boht pasand h
@Sana_fatima101
@Sana_fatima101 Жыл бұрын
Good topic..I also observe in my surroundings that people judge others based on skin colour. And consider dark color less beautiful.
@phylicia595
@phylicia595 Жыл бұрын
Its worldwide
@MuhammadAsif-zo3nu
@MuhammadAsif-zo3nu Жыл бұрын
میری قسمت میری طرح کالی کیوں ھے جیسی کمرشلز کا بھی بہت بڑا ہاتھ ھے احساس کمتری پیدا کرنے میں دوسری بھی بہت سی وجوہات ھیں جیسے بہو گوری چٹی ھو وغیرہ وغیرہ جس نے گورے پن کو ہر قیمت پر حاصل کرنا ۔۔۔۔۔۔
@fareedgee4485
@fareedgee4485 Жыл бұрын
رنگ گورے ھونے کی بیماری لڑکوں میں بڑھ رھی ہے مگر معزرت کے ساتھ لڑکیاں جالی گورے لڑکوں کی طرف توجہ کم سی ھوتی۔
@SylvesrerSam
@SylvesrerSam Жыл бұрын
Most Pakistanis are fair and many are blonds and redheads
@ranjoor1593
@ranjoor1593 Жыл бұрын
@@SylvesrerSam tawnu kitun labbay nay
@HusnainAli-rx6un
@HusnainAli-rx6un Жыл бұрын
This complexion exists in Boys too. We belong to south Punjab and we are dark and the moment we visit North Pakistan we find ourselves ugly and finds Pashtoon and Gilgti people attractive but deep down there is a kind of inferiority given to us by society.
@robeenkhan326
@robeenkhan326 Жыл бұрын
You're just having a colonial hangover, you think being white is beautiful but most white people want to be brown as they think it's more attractive to have a tanned complexion
@phylicia595
@phylicia595 Жыл бұрын
Pashtuns are brown Gilgit are white Muhajirs and Lahoris are black
@ikramulhaq7431
@ikramulhaq7431 Жыл бұрын
@@phylicia595 gilgiti have dozens above ethnic groups and they all not whites they're brown tanned and light browns same pashtuns have 300 above tribes their skin color brown tanned and light browns and majority is tanned and light browns . if you check pakistani cricketer you will see full white pashtun shaheen shah afridi yasir shah zaman khan wasim junior than light brown tanned ihsanullah yunas khan junaid khan than brown muhammad rizwan fakhar zaman .and if you check punjabi player's they're brown to dark browns like wahab riaz muhammad amir babar azam kamran Akmal . Pakistan is diverse country same every ethnic groups in pakistan diverse too. If you check out kalashi they have also light brown to brown skin same if you visit gilgit there so many diversity .they have dark mangolian features tanned iranic features like hunza born MMA fighter girl anita karim have similar south indians features and pashtun born cyclist samar khan have totally caucasian iranic turkic mixed features . compared to southern pakistan eastern pakistan the northern pakistani and western pakistani have lighter skins. Even in balochistan you will find lots of blondes especially north balochistan too. and there so many light skin in lahori and muhajir too but ratio is less compared to northern and western pakistani .Pakistan is beautiful diverse country and every color is unique.
@legendaryhound5261
@legendaryhound5261 Жыл бұрын
​@@phylicia595 some pashtuns are white too😊
@manahilmunir2858
@manahilmunir2858 Жыл бұрын
​@@phylicia595 alhamdullilah
@parikshithj8636
@parikshithj8636 Жыл бұрын
Not only in pakistan, also in india too.
@azharabbas1734
@azharabbas1734 Жыл бұрын
Colour of skin means everything .. a human is all about the colour of skin
@syedtariqshah5903
@syedtariqshah5903 Жыл бұрын
Tanasub e khubsurati hey
@dearrationals
@dearrationals Жыл бұрын
"And one of His signs is the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the diversity of your languages and colours. Surely in this are signs for those of ˹sound˺ knowledge." 30:22 How can these Pakistanis call themselves "Muslim" while being racist and colorist? God never said light skin is superior or more beautiful. All skin colours are equally beautiful. If you don't believe this, then who do you serve? Your colonisers? Agar gora rang itna pasand hai to goron ko kaho hum pe phir hakumat karlain.
@MohammedaliBgga
@MohammedaliBgga 2 ай бұрын
السلام علیکم میری پہلی میری اخری محبت میری پہلی محبت میری اخری محبت ائی لو یو سپنا سپنا عالیہ ناس کی سپنا
@multaninsider
@multaninsider Жыл бұрын
"Wow, this video is absolutely stunning! The visuals are breathtaking and the content is engaging from start to finish. I couldn't take my eyes off the screen! Great job on creating such an amazing video, it's truly a work of art. Keep up the fantastic work and I can't wait to see more from you!
@mereyaar7349
@mereyaar7349 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@professorlone3173
@professorlone3173 Жыл бұрын
A. Beautiful one who character and manners are beautiful not her external appearances
@bilalkhan7881
@bilalkhan7881 10 ай бұрын
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@widowsdiary260
@widowsdiary260 Жыл бұрын
Campaigns jitni bhi start Kar den goray rang Ka janoon start hi media n Kia h , wahan pr hamesha aik gori khoobsoorat larki hi dekhaye jaati h aur ussi ko saaray previlidges miltay hn ehmiat milti h.
@fahmidaabid2614
@fahmidaabid2614 Жыл бұрын
Same problem was in India too but now they have accepted their colour and came out of this frustration I think
@Nazriz5234
@Nazriz5234 Жыл бұрын
Yeh aik better Sach hy society ka.har koi is sy mutasir hy.😢
@NiazAliJatoi-ok1cf
@NiazAliJatoi-ok1cf 9 ай бұрын
I love Aliya nazki, she doesn't use make up yet she is beautiful N J the lover 💔.
@qaisaranaureen6640
@qaisaranaureen6640 Жыл бұрын
Today's burning topic,the strogest bond between people is the bond of thought ,respect,humanity and talent not the colour Whether white or black all are creators of Allah the almighty So thoughts should be changed now
@shizasadiq3679
@shizasadiq3679 Жыл бұрын
Creation, not creators
@nayabjaved8034
@nayabjaved8034 Жыл бұрын
I got rejection because of my colour ...
@zainulabideen2642
@zainulabideen2642 Жыл бұрын
@mahamkhan7365
@mahamkhan7365 Жыл бұрын
In my relatives I have witness many men who demanded a very fair lady. They didn't not accept the ordinary girl inspite of good habits and dignity. All men be like we want a wife who is too fair. Not too much fair but not dark this makes me feel that I'm not too much pretty and everyone rejects me because all men want beautiful lady. There is no value of character, dignity and humbleness etc.
@aishasultan03
@aishasultan03 Жыл бұрын
Indeed sister😭 I also think the same. I'm wheatish. I'm good in studies plus I'm intelligent (not praising myself here)but people like my friend because she is too fair even she don't know who is the president of Pakistan..... No general knowledge and having a low IQ level.... I don't hate her I love her I'm not jealous, but it is true my intelligence, my grades, my good characteristics, my humanity all don't have any value because I'm not fair.
@mahamkhan7365
@mahamkhan7365 Жыл бұрын
@@aishasultan03 that's what I always thinks. People always humiliates you even they are getting benefits from you. You mentioned about the studies. I helped my friends even I shared my assignments which is not allowed and I have to change things. They are so selfish that they even not share the notes and guess what they ridicule me due to not being pretty and slim etc. They always talk about the standards of beauty. What to say about relatives, they praise my cousin due to her beauty and styles. My aunt came to me in the wedding and there are so many people on the table. She said you should be fair, work on it otherwise no will marry you. It's quite embarrassing for me there are too many people and I cried alot when I reached home. The same cousin which I mentioned earlier has no ethics, dignity and humbleness. She is very arrogant used to insult everyone but my aunt compare me to her that every girl should be pretty like that. Although I made the things for my relatives, work for them and meet everyone. Show humbleness and always helped them but beauty is above everything for people. I really felt what you felt in university my own friends became the cause of inferiority complex . One suggestion, do not repeat my mistake if your friend is like mine one try to stay away from her. She gives you nothing. I compromised 4 years and try to be good with them in spite of my insult. They never changed and they even don't talk to me after the completion of graduation. They immediately forget me and even not invited me on their weddings. In their company I didn't enjoy anything they are slim even underweight. So they said you will be fatty by eating this. I never go to the canteen. I used to spent my break in mosque or library or sitting idle in the garden. I wandered nowadays it's better to be alone at that time instead accompany them. At least I enjoyed the good food or some other things. So don't repeat my mistakes if she makes you inferior stay away from her. Focused on your studies and enjoy spare time.
@mahamkhan7365
@mahamkhan7365 Жыл бұрын
@@aishasultan03 in my case the situation is worst. I'm intelligent but my brothers are engineers and I did my b. s Hons in English. I got higher cgpa than my brothers but still they considered them intelligent. Because of that typical thought that doctors and engineers are intelligent 😞
@mahamkhan7365
@mahamkhan7365 Жыл бұрын
@@aishasultan03 how to console you when I'm sick of my life
@aishasultan03
@aishasultan03 Жыл бұрын
@@mahamkhan7365 it's okay sister, we are on the same path. I was befriended with many people they used me alot in studies matter. My aunty also said aisha tmhe bhi chaiye kay baki girls ki trh style maara kro larko ko stylish girls pasnd hain. Seriously? I'm not a show piece. I'm not in this world to impress boys. My story is same as yours. These people are pathetic, they think skin tone is everything. Yeah my friend(the one I was talking about in above comment) usne bhi meri madad li hai. Wo hamesha fail hojati thi. Magar fair color hai tou everyone likes her. And my intelligence, my debating skills, my IQ level all things are useless. I have pcos, I got acne in teen years, now I'm 20. Everyone in school and college ridiculed me badly. The girls who we're too white and used to spend thousands on themselves are beautiful even in the eyes of teachers. I'm sick of this society.
@amjadhussainabro9770
@amjadhussainabro9770 Жыл бұрын
Na gora na kala, Sirf paisa hona chahaye bas, paisa kamao paisa 😂
@onaisarehmani2884
@onaisarehmani2884 Жыл бұрын
So true
@mahamkhan7365
@mahamkhan7365 Жыл бұрын
Girls ka karayay
@ranjoor1593
@ranjoor1593 Жыл бұрын
Paise walay bhi husn key samnay dhair hu jatay hain.
@amjadhussainabro9770
@amjadhussainabro9770 Жыл бұрын
@@ranjoor1593 paisa ho to har cheez mil jati hai jeeez husan wale bhe, husan walon ko bhe paise wale chaheye
@ranjoor1593
@ranjoor1593 Жыл бұрын
@@amjadhussainabro9770 gee han ladki bethi expensive car mai hugi laiken uski nazer bahir bike pay bethay hansome pay hugi. Aur idhar udhr mun maray gi
@najeebirfani
@najeebirfani Жыл бұрын
Yes absolutely cast system is important, people who migrated from India have darker skin tone and pure Pakistani people have fair skin so mostly indian people in Pakistan try to look like Pakistani people.
@hr5581
@hr5581 Жыл бұрын
Also sindhis & seraikis
@najeebirfani
@najeebirfani Жыл бұрын
@@hr5581 actually skin tone is based by natural mythology, since the propet nouha had 4 sons Yafis, SAAM ,haam,so presently in All over the world 🌍 people have 4 natural skin tone, black in Africa, SAAM in Europe, white skin tone haam in Asia 🌏 China, Japan, Korean,far east Asia, and central Asia, indeed Pakistan is situated in the middle of central Asia and South Asia that's why they have fare skin tone but India is nearest touching to far east Asia,so their skin tone is darker,its a natural scene no one else can get artificial skin but in present era mostly darker skin tone people feel inferior from Pakistani people,its complex only,my friends from Baluchistan,KPK, Punjab have beautiful fare skin tone but Indian migrated people call us gora, means white.
@asadshariff
@asadshariff Жыл бұрын
What a racist over generalization.
@EngineerKaleem
@EngineerKaleem Жыл бұрын
An other hand Overseas Pakistani know very well that if someone have little bit dark color like Indians he can get benefits for higher ranks jobs like engineer doctors and managers because of their color specially in European and Gulf countries Actually Arabic and European interviewers like to Indians not Pakistanis so if someone have dark color just they conceder him as Indian and give him favors and if someone have little bit fair color they can realize that candidate belongs from Pakistan or Afghanistan so they kick 🦵 out them because of nationality and if someone have dark color so they conceder him also Indian and make their interviews Mostly Pakistani peoples also hides their nationality and try to look Indian and don’t write nationality on the cv just mention country of leaving or present location.
@najeebirfani
@najeebirfani Жыл бұрын
@SUNIL GUPTE in short words you have openly disclose your hate to the Muslims, remember we all Muslim are one united nation, rather than sectarianism,we have school if thought you never understand,we are thankful to our father of the nation Quid e Azam Muhammad Ali Jinnah r a who gave us a Peace loving ❤️ beautiful Pakistan where we live without any fear Even all minority of religion are happy and peaceful, that's why hazrat Quid e Azam Muhammad Ali Jinnah r a said....there is no power on the earth 🌎 which can undo Pakistan...,.. we daily watch atrocities, cruelties genocide, killings of Muslims in Kashmir and in India as well
@naseemahmed7941
@naseemahmed7941 Жыл бұрын
I Need Treatment
@SleeplessInSeattle-24
@SleeplessInSeattle-24 10 ай бұрын
There is a saying "black don't crack". Darker skin color doesn't age as fast as white. Lighter skin is more sensitive to sun and people with lighter skin color get wrinkles and freckles faster
@adrenalline8250
@adrenalline8250 Жыл бұрын
fair skin is veyr much appreciated across the globe. In western countries there is some appreciation of darker color. Gora tans and we try to lighten our skin tone. However in Asia white color is highly desirable not only in the subcontinent but also in other countries such as China and the other neighboring countries.
@rabiaahmed7659
@rabiaahmed7659 Жыл бұрын
Garbage In America, white is still on top Nobody tans to look like Poojeets
@dearrationals
@dearrationals Жыл бұрын
Which is not a good thing. All skin colours are equally beautiful. No one is better based on their skin colour. If South Asians love gora rang so much then ask those white supremacist barbarians to colonise desi countries again. Treating others different based on their skin colour is racism and colorism. Hollywood and whytes still have too much influence in the world. Many whytes still see themselves as superior. Do you see them as superior? Do you want them to colonise you? Do you want to serve them?
@ranjoor1593
@ranjoor1593 Жыл бұрын
Gora tan themselves becuase of face and body freckles.
@acetinpowers
@acetinpowers Жыл бұрын
It is not since colonizer eras. Please stop blaming British for our prevalent societal problems that predate even the Brits. It is actually due to the caste system that had existed for ages. The only thing Brits did was amplify this caste mindset. That's it. We already had this issue beforehand. We can see a similar issue in the far east. The reason why fair skins are desirable is because dark skins were for lower caste, the laborers basically, and unclean, unsanitary, "dirty" people. Even though this is in a very garbage way of thinking, it is the truth.
@jabbarafridi6458
@jabbarafridi6458 Жыл бұрын
Why you didn't include any psychologist in the show ?
@imrannazir6931
@imrannazir6931 Жыл бұрын
Its mostly what the mother in laws demand for their 'deserving' sons when looking for daughter in laws. Some of them also mock girls with a dark completion. The ideal for them is a fair skinned doctor from a wealthy family. There is a Karachi born GP in Birmingham who seemed to have collected fair skinned doctor brides for her doctor sons to work in the same practice. I heard her myself making dismissive comments about darker skinned girls. Makes me sick.
@Zacoota
@Zacoota Жыл бұрын
Lol, what is this GP surgery called
@SylvesrerSam
@SylvesrerSam Жыл бұрын
Karachi and Lahore are black Mirpuris and Gilgit are white and Pathans are light brown Go to Alum rock and all the Mirpuris look like Swoop Ghazi who looks pale Those black Karachi and lahore australoids are smelly curries in the UK
@Billdean25
@Billdean25 Жыл бұрын
​@@Zacoota most Mirpuris in alum rock Birmingham are pale white like Swoop Ghazi types These Karachi poojeet doctors are black
@dearrationals
@dearrationals Жыл бұрын
​​​@@SylvesrerSam So you lick whyte people's boots? Ask them to colonise you again. Serve those whytes you love so much. You with your so-called "Muslim" name. "And one of His signs is the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the diversity of your languages and colours. Surely in this are signs for those of ˹sound˺ knowledge." 30:22. I'm assuming you're not a Muslim. Just a racist and colorist freak.
@mahamkhan7365
@mahamkhan7365 Жыл бұрын
No I have seen men who wants extraordinary beautiful wife
@ShubhamKumar-vd9xy
@ShubhamKumar-vd9xy Жыл бұрын
Mtlb kul milakar baat ye hai ki goraa rang bohot important hai ek respectful life jeene ke liye 😊😊chahe wo india ho yaa pakistan
@SajjadAli-rb5sd
@SajjadAli-rb5sd Жыл бұрын
Yes in Pakistan white color is important because I m a black person so every bady call u as a black man N so N so when I was child then I was complex but not now in Pakistan offcoures it is problem in India N Pakistan
@mahamkhan7365
@mahamkhan7365 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I felt it but as a man I think it's a less problem than a girl. Anyways be strong God bless you
@sweet1367
@sweet1367 Жыл бұрын
بی بی سی والوں کو ہم گزارش کرتے ہیں فیس بک کا ایک پیج بناؤ جس طرح پشتو والوں نے بنایا ہے آپ لوگوں کا شکریہ
@mrrinku7927
@mrrinku7927 Жыл бұрын
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@laeequenadvi4746
@laeequenadvi4746 Жыл бұрын
He( Almighty Allah) is the Originator of the skies ( seven skies) and the earth! When He decreeth a thing , He saith unto it only : Be! and it is. ( Qur'an, 2 : 117 )
@adeelpakistan8656
@adeelpakistan8656 Жыл бұрын
I LOVE my black clothes black skin
@adrenalline8250
@adrenalline8250 Жыл бұрын
if you look at south american they also love fair skin. Countries such as Argentina, but the fact of the matter is the personality and traits you carry. Pakistan man maain is liay white rang chahti hain takah un ka rishta acha ho.
@ArBK7
@ArBK7 Жыл бұрын
Britishers left this for all colonised areas.
@phylicia595
@phylicia595 Жыл бұрын
Pakistanis are Pashtuns so not colonzied
@overwatch91
@overwatch91 Жыл бұрын
کالا رنگ تو چل سکتا ہے پر کالے کرتوت نہیں۔
@zadcourt
@zadcourt 5 ай бұрын
Gora rang ka zamana kabhi ho ga na porana gori dar tujha kiss 💋 ka ha tara to rang gora ha ❤
@MrStylus007
@MrStylus007 Жыл бұрын
چلیں پاکستانیوں کے رنگ پھر فیئر ہیں اور ان کو اپنا رنگ سورج کی تپش سے بچانا سمجھ بھی آتا ہے۔ لیکن انڈین ایکٹرز کے بارے میں کیا خیال ہے؟؟ یکطرفہ رپورٹنگ کو میں پسند نہیں کرتا ہوں خاص طور پہ جب گوروں کے کالے نوکر اس کو رہورٹ کررہے ہوں!
@mrrinku7927
@mrrinku7927 Жыл бұрын
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