Be Real... Would You Prefer Good SEX Or Good LOOKS!?

[@grobinson8873]

My mom once told me "you will grow to love him" and I never did. So, if there is not an attraction, to me there is nothing and I would not care how good you are in bed. Attraction is everything to me.

[@elizabethquiver10]

This is an important conversation, Christians need to talk about s3x more. I especially appreciated the acknowledgment that women are not guaranteed pleasure during s3x and hearing the importance to Yvette of having good s3x.

[@johandjerf9054]

Why would you censor the word sex??

[@angelajudge3049]

There’s more to attractiveness than looks. If the personality and intelligence is there, I’d choose the good sex. I’m an educated woman of a certain age. Looks fade and how long would it take for me to teach someone how to please me.

[@juliblued]

I pick good sex over good looks easy. Looks end for everyone.

[@brokerightfoot]

I'm a mother of a 39 year old. I know for sure at my 59 Year is that Sex is Much Better Than A Good Looking Man. 🎉😂❤

[@LadySayso]

For me, it's going to be the good sex. What is considered beauty is, in my opinion, highly overrated. And beauty intels so much more than just looks. It's also about a person's heart, mind, and soul. If you don't have a beautiful mind, a beautiful heart, and a beautiful soul, you're not a beautiful person.

[@turquoisebrowntq]

He’s gotta have good looks for me because if not, the moment I get mad, I’m calling him all types of ugly in my head 😂😅 I know this from experience (I never said it to him). The sex was good but I couldn’t get over his looks. You can teach someone how to please you. You can dress a person in nice clothes, but you cannot rearrange their face. 😂

[@diamondglaze725]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@realestatecoachestv]

Did you see michelle obama when she was a lawyer? Look definitely change,Even Oprah had a glow up.A man who knows when to go slow when it's needed, thrust and grind at the appropriate time and lick, suck, fondle and gently smack without any instructions is top tier. You can teach everyone doesn't have a teachable spirit

[@cchico41]

then you’ll be struggling because the looks will fade no matter who you choose

[@Ox9707]

My thoughts: good sex can be taught. I can definitely express what makes sex good for me. So if i had to choose, I'd take the looks because I'm physically attracted to them, our personalities mesh, and in time she will be good at sex for me, so i get it all. (Nobody said the sex would be perpetually bad. That wouldn't even be realistic)

[@realestatecoachestv]

Looks can be bought,Look at the Kardashians. You can't teach good sex to a woman who's not coachable

[@celvil1848]

Yvette asked the right question it was actually perfect! ❤❤❤❤ Would you rather really good sex or the person being really good looking? I think most people would choose amazing sex over looks ! !! This is written from a Christian women who is 38 !

[@Cuishi10]

*sigh* I don't even care anymore.

[@creativecheftamara]

You guys are awesome!!

[@ItsaSisterhoodThang]

I’m HERE FOR IT YVETTE AND BELEAF! 🤎🙌🏾🙌🏾🤎

[@donnie-9913]

I feel like the attraction has to be there or it’s a wrap. The sexual aspect could be improved, but what do I know.

[@rbdoby]

I completely agree!!

[@emilyevans3629]

If the sex or even the kissing is bad I can't be attracted, I can be attracted and get sexy vibes based on personality alone tho. Hotness is also a state of mind. We all age and change

[@rosemary1704]

When are you going to do the family show again? I miss the kids😢

[@Nothingatall1984]

Be open, their kids are getting older

[@MightyxFro]

prolly only been like not that many years.@@Nothingatall1984

[@hannahbenn3933]

he said he is allowing the kids to give their own consent on being filmed. i don’t think they want to be a part of it

[@juliblued]

I think I remember him saying that the kids don't really want to be filmed at this point.

[@StormKoriHQ]

Check the recent live streams they just did hours of content

[@Kelz_X]

Looks? 🤔 What *Mother Nature* gives, *Father Time* snatches Bumping Bellies? 🤔 In MY experience (low body count😉) it’s been UNfulfilling for me. I’d rather buy a COSTCO pack of AA-batteries 🤣 At this age, I value _COMPANIONSHIP_

[@Cornbreadmuffin86]

Let's elevate our conversations ❤ I miss seeing how beautiful the family has grown. Please bring that back?

[@VinaTaurus88]

I agree about the content in terms of the topic. We have these same conversations repeatedly across the black community. It's a little juvenile/tiring in my opinion. The children don't want to be filmed anymore and it's great they are respecting their choices ❤

[@VashtiPerry]

They kids don’t want to be on camera. So…. Boundaries.

[@AtypicalIC]

Good sex… considering that some of the worst sex would lead to no sex… and no sex with a good looking spouse is cruel torture

[@AtypicalIC]

… or your good looking spouse having sex with other people than you

[@adaaa11]

I’m not sure there can really be good sex without good looks lol you have to be attracted to them physically and also have the chemistry. Maybe I don’t understand the question?

[@thebrightside7015]

Dude you guys have a talk show that's what up

[@JesusismyKingNL]

Jesus loves everyone on here, seek him and you will find him.🙏

[@kandyedwards1376]

Very interesting question, a guy trying to give me the world but not attracted to him at all

[@zazilicious]

Good looks doesn’t necessarily mean good sex but bad looks always means bad sex because how can you have good sex with someone whom you are not attracted to?

[@yanuscloset3360]

Honestly I just care about how you treat me and yourself...bad sex is not a deal breaker...you can teach your partner what you like and don't like and make it work

[@afrolofi]

Good $3x

[@Ms.Cris421]

An account that I follow did a survey/poll of what men liked in a woman. A woman's career and education all came last. THRY DO NOT CARE. 😂😂

[@tanyaparker-callsign.kk7ic238]

I’m five years celibate…my vote in marriage sex…I figure he may protect me with his not do great looks…lol. Cute podcast and way to highlight you guys and give the children a break… Love it and let’s enjoy our 2024❤🎉

[@Bigbomboclat1]

Hey guyssss

[@Ox9707]

I don't get why people think men are intimidated by women with high degrees or PhD's or lofty jobs. None of that interests me and, beyond that, i don't really see any of those things making her a better wife or mother.

[@TreasureChest0806]

Bc SOME men are…from experience

[@annak706]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@realestatecoachestv]

Beauty Fades.... Laziness in bed on a woman's part is a tragedy! We don't talk about low sex drive in women as they grow enough.

[@meljesticlife9622]

I gotta be attracted soon as he make me mad and I’m not attracted I’m gonna be done. 😅

[@maryannanderson5964]

Happy New Year,🤳

[@MorKing86]

I'm uncomfortable 🥴

[@sarahpearl9462]

What was the name of the lube you guys recommended again?

[@RobertaStonequist]

hmay podcast episode on the wrong channel? 🫣🤔

[@ItsaSisterhoodThang]

I like this conversation. 🤎 I’m feeling what Yvette is saying too. As far as GOOD sex and not being physically attracted to someone.

[@VashtiPerry]

Good sex and great hygiene 🪥 🧼 😂😂 weight is not a problem until health issues pop up. Lastly I’ll say my attraction requirements have changed from majority physical to certain characteristics like cleanliness, self confidence, safety, etc.