Be Selfish…

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@BellazziEnt 2 ай бұрын

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@FeseMbile 2 ай бұрын

i am a testament to stress will make you sick. I literally got diagnosed with an Autoimmune disease 4 years ago at 19 lol. And it was definitely out of stress! So glad I'm now out of that environment which was sadly my home..

@loralita5837 2 ай бұрын

No one is out here feeling sorry for the lonely girl… they’re using them them for superiority boosts 🙄

@Skeivah 2 ай бұрын

Best advice of the week: “mind your damn business” 👏 Thank you, I needed this.

@BellazziEnt 2 ай бұрын

It will save you a lot of problems 😂

@fifidefreitas1045 2 ай бұрын

This was not a video. This was a whole MASTERCLASS that was executed to absolute perfection 👌🏾 👏🏾 Thank you for this, This was like a soothing balm for my wounded soul. Right ontime 🥰🥂🎊

@BellazziEnt 2 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! 🤗

@locjake7230 2 ай бұрын

Oh most definitely, I had to break away from friends who’d gas me but then also diss me.. didn’t help they were Instagram obbession, heck we couldn’t even go to the same place twice on holidays… Long story short, nothing I do myself more, going to the gym keeping my things in check, saying no to things I don’t want to do. I feel great. ❤️

@PoSHEmediaglobal 2 ай бұрын

Put yourself first !!! Career & men I have lived to regret putting men before myself

@BeautiDon 2 ай бұрын

Same!

@haitiqueen0119 2 ай бұрын

Its hard when youre one whose naturally kind hearted- to be selfish is not an easy thing however life lessons taught me to keep balanced. Today im very kind however there are times i must be firm so that others are not overstepping boundaries.

@nancynjock3918 2 ай бұрын

I feel safe coming to your channel, I knew it wasn't a coincidence. I've been through alot this year just because I'm not only blessed with beauty on the outside but on the inside too. I really had to stop being a people pleaser for real. Thanks God and God bless you cause this is some real knowledge.

@BellazziEnt 2 ай бұрын

You got this! 🤜🏽❤️

@LUX_OF_JAH 2 ай бұрын

Bellazzi’s TED talk would be amazing

@hg77777 2 ай бұрын

You’re saving so many girls lives thank you so much for spreading your knowledge! Best channel out there 🎉

@BellazziEnt 2 ай бұрын

Yay thank you 😊

@Straykilla 2 ай бұрын

Everytime I watch your videos I have a mental glow up girl your saving past people pleasers lives here 😌🫰🏻🎀🩷!!

@BellazziEnt 2 ай бұрын

Yay 😀💖💖💅🏽

@Sheisme120 2 ай бұрын

28:05 Oh my goodness, I used to be the same way! Where I would notice people who seemed anxious or alone with little to no friends, and would try to help them. But I learned the hard way that a lot of those seemingly victimized people are actually vulnerable narcissists in disguise. They are pretty much impossible to spot until you know exactly the signs to look for. But I’m very quick to sense that in people now that I’ve had 2 previous housemates like that, each being at a different time. I am now very leery of women who are the victim in every story, self deprecating all the time, too obsessed with me upon first meeting me, or the embarrassingly insecure, timid/mousy type, ect. Huge red flags!🚩 I would rather deal with an honest enemy than a person like this. They put on an act (often for months) of being the sweetest person you’ve ever met, and then suddenly switch up on you out of nowhere after you’ve gotten close to them and told them your secrets. They’ll also often fake apologies or changed behavior, while meanwhile going behind your back and making up horrible things about you to other people close to you. And the scary part is that they seem so nice on the surface, people often believe them!

@alecktrey9172 2 ай бұрын

Thank u i needed something to listen to while driving to work

@BellazziEnt 2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome 😊

@victoryudogu2225 2 ай бұрын

same ❤️, currently at the gym and always need something to listen to while on the stair master. saw the video was uploaded 1 min ago and clicked asap

@lovelygoddess2285 Ай бұрын

Church doesn't teach these facts of life but now having work related and narcissistic persons come into your life to disrupt, some people choose themselves to protect their energy, while still being authentic and seeking the proper connections with set boundaries and high standards.

@user-pc5rf2xn1l Ай бұрын

I really like myself for being "beautiful" but i also want to be kind. I hate being unkind. I know I'm privileged being beautiful. Id prefer to make other people feel good about themselves.

@krissyaguilar1814 24 күн бұрын

Recovering people pleaser here ufff it’s been a tough healing journey but I’m finally choosing myself 😮‍💨😮‍💨

@Datb2 2 ай бұрын

I’m in burnout from this. 😢glued to my bed for over a year now 😩

@adrienneroxanne9833 2 ай бұрын

😢

@BellazziEnt 2 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry babe. This is just a phase. I’ve been through it too. Do the healing and educate yourself so you will be ready to take on the world

@Datb2 2 ай бұрын

@@BellazziEnti know it’s possible and you been such an amazing help with your videos

@smith6777 2 ай бұрын

Read some books too.

@krissyaguilar1814 24 күн бұрын

Uuuuuf me too recovering people pleaser here but I’m slowly getting back on my feet

@DesertSunset7 2 ай бұрын

I’m so grateful for you and your wisdom ✨ Btw, I ordered the Glow Getter Guide and I’m loving it!

@BellazziEnt 2 ай бұрын

Oh yay!! I’m glad you are enjoying it 💖💖

@Kyutdoll 2 ай бұрын

Amazing video! Thank you for this. I am actually following your tips and learning so much from your videos. I took notes from your video called You Don't Respect Yourself, and re-reading them time to time. It helped me have the courage to speak up and be honest with some of the people in my life, set boundaries and isolate myself, and walk away in undesirable situations. When I started respecting myself more, i realized i had put myself in codependent friendships/relationships where I had no boundaries and was always nice, didnt say no because I thought thats what a "ride or die friend" is, but your videos are really opening my eyes.

@BellazziEnt 2 ай бұрын

Yesss! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@Datb2 2 ай бұрын

Same girlie !!! Proud of you

@Kyutdoll 2 ай бұрын

@ thank you!! Proud of you too girl 🥳💗

@user-pc5rf2xn1l Ай бұрын

But you are right self care is NOT selfish.

@sonder2874 2 ай бұрын

I’m okay-ish at setting boundaries with individual people but I can’t help but feel so bad for being selfish at a larger scale. Like why should I just to have anything above the poverty line when millions of people are dying with less. I don’t have any money so I can’t even help anyone, but to get anything I have to play by this system. It sucks so bad 💔