Be The Queen Of Your Life! - How To GET UP & Become A Confident BADASS

Be The Queen Of Your Life! - How To GET UP & Become A Confident BADASS | Sonja Stribling

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@LisaBilyeu 6 ай бұрын

WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

@tellavisiontav3033 5 ай бұрын

I love this. I'm 73 young. 15 years old I was raped by my father. My mother didn't believe me. I was never ashamed I was 15 years old. I told what happened. I was a virgin. My mother took me to the doctor he confirmed I was raped. I called the police and my mother would not press charges. Detective Banks I would be sent to a g irls home. My mother sent me live with her friend in a other city. I cried 10 years. Because I was forced to leave my family through no fault of my own. I am successful today and I share my stories with women on my tv show and when I speak to inspire women. This is the beginning of my life. I have endured so much in my life. Dropped out of high school because I got pregnant. Then married had 3 more children. Started a school. Divorced. Got 2 degrees. Bought my home Bankruptcy and so much more. I am an author, looking for love at 73 and sharing my stories because our experiences are not for us but for others. Thank you for sharing your stories. God bless you Queens.

@tonicsmith44 4 ай бұрын

Your testimony ❤❤❤🙏🏾 I can relate to your life story.

@tellavisiontav3033 4 ай бұрын

@@tonicsmith44 sadly there are so many who can. but the blessing is we are a testimony of success to others, and they need to see and hear those of us who survived are now thriving victoriously. our experiences are for others. God allows us to go through grow through our traumas because the battle is not ours it belongs to God. that's why I am grateful. When we tell our story we help so many. Continue Rising. God Got you/us.

@burnerdeanowens2462 4 ай бұрын

I can relate but it was a cuz I had a child by the rape and 61 am still healing it’s like am so stuck

@tellavisiontav3033 4 ай бұрын

@@burnerdeanowens2462 I understand, healing is a process. It took me sometime too but what helped me and continues to help me is the fact that God has me. My experience has helped many women. You are blessed because you made it a lot did not. You are young. You are here for a reason. Focus on that. Remember Yolanda Adams song "the battle is not yours, it's the Lords also listen to Hezakiah Walker's God Favors Me. Please listen to the lyrics of those songs. You got a gift. What happened to you, God knew our experiences will help others. Look at Oprah, Maya Anjelou and Pastor Joyce Meyers, all were sexually abused and look how they have helped so many women by telling their stories. YOU GOT THIS!!!

@carolgonzales4262 4 ай бұрын

@@tellavisiontav3033 Yes our stories should be told. Thank you for sharing yours. If it can happen to us, it can happen to anyone.

@Kashmir-lt4cx 6 ай бұрын

52:44 "the more you hide the shame is the more it takes over you and becomes toxic!

@carolgonzales4262 5 ай бұрын

50 yrs with a narc ... 6 yrs free but the shame is still there...I can't believe I let anyone treat me like a slave.

@VelmaGilbert-k6m 4 ай бұрын

@@carolgonzales4262I feel THAT ! 3o years here , taking me till 2YEARS Later to get over(mostly)the anxiety and file . Wish me luck , it’s going to be a little rocky.❤

@carolgonzales4262 4 ай бұрын

@user-sm5nw8iz7i Yes! You can do it! The cruelty is real....and it will take time to heal. Stay away!

@angelajohnsonh2010 4 ай бұрын

Hello this is blessing for me . This help me complete my decision. I'm 60 years old and been married for 39 years. Controlling mental abuse and I'm trying to get out here. Please pray for me

@gkay5141 2 ай бұрын

🙏🏾❤️

@lorrainedevlin6409 5 ай бұрын

When you had a hard life you become resilient ,not all people do,but the brave do.

@angelalynn596 6 ай бұрын

OMG. When I first saw her I thought to myself, “She is so beautiful!!”

@HappyCat1111 5 ай бұрын

This woman is beautiful, powerful and inspiring! Absolute royalty! I needed this today. I’m sitting in my lowest low, starting over at 50 from scratch like my life has been a long suffering waste. I’m so grateful for this incredible person!

@thefreequency 4 ай бұрын

I have such a admiration for older women who start over, keep reinventing themselves. It's something to be said about becoming more of who you are with age. I want you to know you're an inspiration. Your life has been filled with small miracles that have led you to this level of resilience and power. Ask not what next but who next? I'm rooting for you 🫶🏾

@winnienyevu8404 3 ай бұрын

@happycat you got this..keep going it's not gonna be easy but keep going

@carmenlux1775 5 ай бұрын

I always lived by: "share your story, you never know when you are going to unlock someone else's prison." I have noticed that some people are very uncomfortable when others are vulnerable around them. And that is the sticky part, to be compassionate of others while being true to yourself.

@tellavisiontav3033 4 күн бұрын

so true

@msmia8016 6 ай бұрын

Im currently on my healing journey and loving all the amazing things i'm discovering about me.

@happycutebox 6 ай бұрын

I really needed to hear this. It’s so true that we as women are programmed to care for everyone but ourselves. It’s time for a change and I choose to treat myself better.

@carolinemyers5994 5 ай бұрын

Amen

@ccc-eu8ln 6 ай бұрын

I love that word that relationship shouldn't be something fulfilling you but a compliment on what already you're.That is very true.

@ladonnamorrison3616 5 ай бұрын

This is such a powerful "chat" between two truly inspirational women. It really didn't feel like an interview to me - more like two likeminded souls coming together, sharing of themselves with the rest of us, so that we can learn and grow from our past in ways that can take us from the battlefield to the boardroom. I have learned, cried, laughed and felt the most inspired in 2024. I will definitely keep this one on repeat. You hit sooo many truths that speak to my own journey and I am sure countless others. Kudos to you both.💞

@Kashmir-lt4cx 6 ай бұрын

42:47 when you speak out the truth, your body knows, and lets it go! ❤😊

@monicabass3145 6 ай бұрын

I’m a survivor. Divorced after 22years. #FDI #toxicbond Dr Sonja mentored. Coaching catapults pain to power. Happy for a new life.🎉❤

@jameskelly9243 6 ай бұрын

You mean the prince lived happily ever after. Unless your stole his wealth

@shaniecegullison 6 ай бұрын

She looks absolutely amazing for 53!!!!!!!!

@shaniecegullison 6 ай бұрын

Yes same I agree

@jameskelly9243 6 ай бұрын

Haha still old,no value

@shaniecegullison 6 ай бұрын

@@jameskelly9243 your a old geaser lmfaoooooo

@joanwinga9123 6 ай бұрын

@@jameskelly9243 take your dimentia meds honey...

@vchgs2872 6 ай бұрын

@@jameskelly9243Self-hate much? Respect yourself.

@missdragonflies81 6 ай бұрын

Thank you Ms. Sonja Stribling and Lisa Bilyeu for this amazing, authentic interview. Feels like two good friends chatting it up. So much gem from Ms. Sonja. I loved the question "Am I hurt or injured? can I, or will I get back up?". Powerful stuff. and Lisa you reminding us to Pivot & things do not happen TO me, it happens FOR me.

@velvetgardenia 6 ай бұрын

I'm only 5 minutes in, and this Queen is lifting me UP!! AND she is a 🇺🇸 VETERAN! Thank you, ladies, for helping inspire and strengthen us. 🪷

@dialmstyle 6 ай бұрын

Dr. Sonja! I met her virtually through Periscope about 9 years ago and here she is! Beautiful, inspirational. You both make for an amazing episode!

@busiwaliuma3658 5 ай бұрын

Sonya, your story is soooo inspiring. I'm in tears. I will start over. Its possible.Thank you

@speakingpositivelywithlorie 6 ай бұрын

May we all receive and accept the healing we need so can step outside of our comfort zone, be our authentic self and tell our story! There are people assigned to You waiting to hear your story. 🙏🏾💚

@lovewins699 6 ай бұрын

This interview was right on time. I havent seen Dr. Sonja in a while now, but I had to stop and admire how beautiful she is! I love this WHOLE look on her!

@Kashmir-lt4cx 6 ай бұрын

59:15 awww I'm sooo sorry you went through that! 😭He's inadequate, insecure, and ugly! You are beautiful!❤😊

@aprilstardavisjewelry 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much I was literally feeling sorry for myself and guilt and shame over some health issues and randomly put this on and it’s lifted the negative feeling I’ve been struggling with ❤

@lorrainedevlin6409 5 ай бұрын

Thats what a brave,strong woman does. Good for her. Some women would shame men with their bravery.

@MissLatashaPope-sf6ts 6 ай бұрын

You ladies are changing the world💕💕

@laneishabrown661 4 ай бұрын

AS i am listening to this story, me and Sonya have a lot of things in common married divorced military brain injury. I am a confident BADASS

@sherranballoons7455 5 ай бұрын

Thank you!!!! I don’t know where this show came from, but I’m crying. 😢

@joyce-wj8db 5 ай бұрын

It's like she's reading what's inside of me. Exactly the way I feel.

@carmenalmodovar151 5 ай бұрын

Wow, I can relate to her story... being alone fighting against the battles of life. Not having anyone to support you but you still have to get going with your life. Inspired to write my book.

@mindshiftmami 6 ай бұрын

this was a FANTASTIC episode. Thank you both so much Dr. Sonja, Lisa, and the editing team!

@LisaBilyeu 6 ай бұрын

Ahhhh thanks for the shout out to the team! I couldn’t do it without them and they are so passionate about this mission too! I’m gonna send them this message! Appreciate you!

@mindshiftmami 6 ай бұрын

@@LisaBilyeu I love that you respond to your own youtube comments Lisa! Let me then add an appreciation for the immense impact you are making on the world by showing what it looks like to follow your joy and passions. Thank you for displaying beautiful vulnerability about your gut health in this episode too! Have a wonderful day :)

@lexlow2780 6 ай бұрын

My soon to be ex husband made me feel like the ugliest person as well. That hit home! Geeze…

@JCX-9 6 ай бұрын

I went through the same, it just shows their inadequacy so they have to make you feel as inadequate as they feel. Anybody who feels good about themselves will never try to bring you down.

@jameskelly9243 6 ай бұрын

That's cause your gender thinks emotionally not logically. So you blame others for your failings

@lindayeboahboateng4793 6 ай бұрын

Absolutely. My husband made me feel that too but at a point I realized that it's not me who is the problem, he is rather projecting his negativity and instability to me. So I started focusing on myself and my mental health and took a step away from him. Yet to process my divorce though, but I love the peace I am enjoying now

@aidaniang1154 6 ай бұрын

Great conversation! thank you so much Lisa for inviting Dr Sonia to join you on your truth sofa. I have known of Dr Sonia a few weeks ago and she is a remarkable lady. Every episode you share with the world is God's gift to us all! May it continue for a very long time.

@LisaBilyeu 6 ай бұрын

Thanks so so much for the support! 🥰

@Kayforrest15 Ай бұрын

"We treat emotions as facts"😮 that is literal gold🎉 so true

@cathyjennings5580 5 ай бұрын

Constructive THINKING ABILITIES, STOIC , LOGICAL FACTS , SENSIBILITIES, REASONING THINKING QUESTION SELF about your troubles. I wish for HEROS TO Work for this person to lighten my load for about a year or so. Need GOOD HEARTED HEROS & HEROINS !!! SUPPORT this person.

@leilagomulka5690 6 ай бұрын

Yea. Give them something to talk about. An inspiration

@amayaraymond4486 6 ай бұрын

This woman is beautiful 😍

@rklund13 6 ай бұрын

After abuse and trauma some people lose their high level of success. Usually because we are surrounded by still or were with someone who made and makes us believe we will never amount to anything and do or have encouraged suicide.

@pelumiraheen4936 6 ай бұрын

This woman is inspirational I'm looking forward to this thanks for this 🙏🏾

@katnez 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your service❤ unfortunately too many people are training, princesses and ballerina that they don’t even know the gender of no one appreciates the freedom and the people that put themselves on the line for it. America is such a great country and it’s being literally destroyed by our own people.

@nicoleml4491 5 ай бұрын

I love that phrase, in addition to your happiness that we create

@cayennesinivassinel6977 5 ай бұрын

She is definitely me...I train warriors....I Am a warrior....I Am Enough. Know ThySelf....Know Self Love first. Have a partnership first... Push people to love themselves first... 😊People who lack Self Love and those who forget that we "Reap what we sow" have to settle. It's a learning experience and as you mature, you learn that you you dont have to be stuck in it. Connection is ok.....but Connect with yourself first... I would rather be in a partnership than to be married. I love myself enough to Know I Am Enough. I won't waste my precious journey trying to live on man-made ideals of thinking I have to put up with anyone who is Not maturing spiritually. Listening to Inner Guidance is the key to Inner peace, love, joy & extreme happiness 😊....I definitely Give what I want to Receive. .....and that is very fulfilling. Life is simple. We make it too hard. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊

@akinyimbeche596 Ай бұрын

Wow! This is so so empowering. I don’t like where I am financially. I run a business and I’ve just been thinking this ain’t working anymore. I’ve been thinking of quitting. I’ve just made a decision this is not my option anymore. I’ll stay on the course until the mission is accomplished! I love what I do and I’ll go under, over, to the sides until my mission is accomplished. I’m focused on my success 🎉 I’ll have it no other way

@lorrainedevlin6409 5 ай бұрын

I think god blessed women who had a tough time in life with eternal beauty.

@veronicacamarillo400 5 ай бұрын

God bless you!

@_serreina 6 ай бұрын

I own all the seasons of Murder She Wrote on dvd it is absolutely my comfort show hahaha

@LisaBilyeu 6 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@josievaccaro 6 ай бұрын

Inspirational ❤ Sometimes I slip back into victim mode and Sonja is a genuine thriver. So, I would like to learn more in depth of switching into thriver mode and being in Sonja's words powerful and mainatining that.

@abuorayieta 6 ай бұрын

I was in Afghanistan, Kandahar working alongside military as a contractor and i remember that siren telling us there is an incoming rocket attack or being locked up at a DFAC because there was a ground attack. Scary stuff & it stays with you. She is a warrior..

@jameskelly9243 6 ай бұрын

Warriors are combat soldiers she was just a solider depended on men to keep her safe

@cwytchsparks 2 ай бұрын

@@jameskelly9243How do you know? Were you there?

@elly-smileyndume6806 5 ай бұрын

1 minutes into watching and I decided to I’m watching till the end.

@paulettebruce-williams1849 5 ай бұрын

😊

@paulettebruce-williams1849 5 ай бұрын

😊

@abundanthealthservices 4 ай бұрын

I'm soo grateful for the conversations Lisa brings to us, this guest, verbalized all the things I had bottled up, I want to be powerful and thrive, I needed this message today! DECIDED❤️‍🔥

@tq325 2 ай бұрын

I didn't know who Dr. Stribling was until today, but I'm glad I came across this video. There were so many important points to remember and reflect upon from her discussion here. I love her mindset!

@jacquelinetaylor4559 4 ай бұрын

This was for Me ❤❤❤So powerful 😊 I needed this word

@legendmoloi154 6 ай бұрын

I’m loving this conversation. Came at perfect time for me right now. Thank you

@carmenlux1775 5 ай бұрын

Time does not go fast; it is just that dreams come around very slowly.

@meneri515 5 ай бұрын

I wish I heard this 2 years ago, grief made me feel as if I lost myself

@TheHrandolph Ай бұрын

Indeed be the Queen of your own Life!! with or without money wisdom and sense of purpose holds much more power . I have known many with much money but lack in wisdom and purpose and that is actually dangerous. some people are so broke that all they have is money.

@DianaCobb-v4o 5 ай бұрын

Thank you beautiful Queen for your confidence in sharing your story to help mend the brokeness in so many of us and to help us get back up and thrive.

@pholbrook2277 2 ай бұрын

She is me! I understand this and I’m still struggling. I’m tired and keep saying I can’t live like this! I’ve been watching this channel all week and I’m read feeling understood and that it’s not just me.

@tellavisiontav3033 3 ай бұрын

Good afternoon sisters. I just wanted to let you know that when we go through challenges, heartbreaks, disappointments, God is preparing us for our purpose. As we go through it we grow through it. Don't stop, God got you. I know. At 73 I am still planning and thinking big because as Yolanda Adams sings, the battle is not yours its Lords'. Wherever you are be thankful and grateful. Listen to Hezekiah Walkers song, God Favors Me. You cannot be a testimony if you are not tested. How badly do you want it. Love you

@carolynegitee4155 9 күн бұрын

This is a beautiful msg very very encouraging I'm 31 tomorrow still trying to figure out life as a single mom with a not so good relationship with my mother

@joannemaier2797 6 ай бұрын

This is so inspiring, thats what i needed for my day ... Im at my own battle and dont even know how fight all of my own. Just watching this video gives me strength to get through again one day after a day... Thank you @LisaBilyeu and Sonja ... God bless you

@Anonymas-di6zc 6 ай бұрын

Loved that interview with Sonya 💕 I'm 53 struggeled all my life, guess my super power is indurance and keep trying even when nothing realy worked, but I know my self and I don't belive I would be capable to do what I do without wemen like you I can look up too, didn't happen often befor I knew this Amazing moovement, gives me hope for me and for humanity, at least those who staves for change and don't know how will jump on all those informations I needed and still need. Your my support and I never felt as supported as NOW Even if you don't know me, you describe me and love poeple like me and for me that's huge There's magic, real healing juste by lissening and put intoo action. Love Wonderwomen, didn't grew up with her, but since a saw the film I changed my posture more and more because I love her posture 🤣 I 💖 how she keeps her arms a litel behind and I do that too and I found out that's a very good one 👍🙌 I had a strong wake up when I read a book with amazons and feminin initiations. And I decided that my life was my initiation, put truly I was in a deep fog, frozzen, didn't found a way out of chronic pain, lost the plaisur to walk and went so numb that I coulden't feel it most of the time and with cptsd, unknown, I had chronic fatigue syndrôme and felt threatened all the time, my mind was blocked on " you can't proove me that nothing terrible can happens, in some seconds ahead... I knew it had no scence but it didn't change my fear, I was a basquette case, still ame a, but I'm a lost case for them and all I get from them is hard medication, at least it protects me against the strong stress, I was loosing my hear, and those big fears. But even with that medication I feel again and I love it. Some times it's strong and anger feels so good and fear fades away. I know how to deal with anger and I'm so releaft too feel it again and how I want to bite. I come back 🙏🏼😘

@melliecrann-gaoth4789 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for hour post. I hear you. 53 is still young enough for your life to get good- well done you- you are a warrior. Compassion and strength to you. Pace yourself, it’s very small steady steps with big heavy health stuff.

@ps6572 5 ай бұрын

This woman is amazing. The more I listen to her I can’t stop crying, feel admiration , pride and hope.. thank you. Lisa , I checked out Sonja’s website , there seems to be nothing on there apart from her book.. what is the best way to ask about any programs or coaching ?

@iamdeborahltillman 3 ай бұрын

Loved this interview. Dr. Sonja is shaking up the planet!

@tonicsmith44 4 ай бұрын

I love this! Thank you Lisa❤

@creatorlemon7963 5 ай бұрын

"addicted to fear"really resonating with me. Thanks ladies ❤

@Kashmir-lt4cx 6 ай бұрын

50:21 awww sorry to hear that Lisa and cause you said stomach issues, you're obviously talking about soiling Not peeing! 😭😭 i am sooo glad you overcame it! 😊❤

@sandram6913 6 ай бұрын

This is true blessing to hear. I want to read each of yours books and do the work. Thank you so much!!

@markesabowers1567 5 ай бұрын

My second time listening! Am owning being radicallyhonest about many things I had suppressed in the name of being strong.. am committed to becoming a whole woman holistically unapologetically nolonger considering what others opinions or dream killers.. this resonates enough is enough.. ❤

@lindawade1203 6 ай бұрын

Put One Foot In Front Of The Other And Keep It MOVING

@charmainebwowa4455 6 ай бұрын

💯❤

@demetrybarnette3798 6 ай бұрын

My God, I needed this. Thank you, Lisa. ❤

@blossomingshells4664 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Lisa for telling us your Superpower 🎉

@queenveepositivepalace7704 6 ай бұрын

This video has Inspired me so much, I love everything about Sonia and you Lisa. This video is a keeper I will definitely always come back and watch it❤

@supernovameditationproject 6 ай бұрын

Thanks ladies.

@Stravavitalita 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for such inspiring talks that have the power to help people see the bright even if one thinks it is the end of the tunnel.

@leilagomulka5690 6 ай бұрын

God bless you both. ♥️♥️♥️

@SheilaMackey-v8t 5 ай бұрын

God bless you both🙏🏻😁❤️

@Anonymas-di6zc 6 ай бұрын

Juste thank you 💖💖 I cry because it's ouer story and you go under my skin. You stay noble and my be I projecte, but what I saw on your face was pain, juste at the begining... Lisa went so gentel ❤ 🙏 Thank you I need to see women like you, you get me, I get emotional and I feel the healing because I feel again. I'm not that much numb any more, anger, Sadness, Joy, Happiness and less fear.... Never did wake up that much, thank you 💕 it's time, I'm 53....

@harmonyintime1019 6 ай бұрын

This episode makes my spiritual baby's leap...LOL at Whirlpool. No more Hotdog Jacuzzi water...Lisa, you are a real one. This is my second favorite episode...My favorite episode is DFW...Kudos to seeing how you and your husband are so yin and yang ☯️ since the beginning.

@leilagomulka5690 6 ай бұрын

Wow. An inspiration

@melliecrann-gaoth4789 6 ай бұрын

I am so glad I have come upon this interview.

@RS-ov2st 6 ай бұрын

I think age , health, lack of skills , money, support of family and or , friends , or the far lack of, and trauma experience, plays a large part in how women are able to get back up . The younger you are , obviously, the more resilient you are.

@TheHrandolph Ай бұрын

Dr Sonja so inspiring! thanks for sharing . 🌺 wonderful podcast 😻

@shaniecegullison 6 ай бұрын

This was a great conversation

@WEAREALLONELIZ 6 ай бұрын

Great inspiring authentic interview, thank you Ladies 🧘🏻‍♀️💯❤️

@PatriciaCDaway 6 ай бұрын

❤❤❤TRULY INSPIRED BY THIS CONVERSATION DR SONJA & LISA! I needed to hear this message today! Thank you for sharing! Bless you 🙏 ♥️

@lesaadejola8136 5 ай бұрын

This was phenomenal and so encouraging, outright uplifting and has inspired me to keep moving forward with my goals despite all of the negative changes that have been occurring recently. I didn’t hear her mention her faith but surely God (I know my savior Christ Jesus) gets all the glory.

@cathyjennings5580 5 ай бұрын

Low level depression symptoms getting in way to get up & START OVER . TIMEBLINDNESS Disability Behaviors symptoms. Whom to TURN TO TO GET RESCUED by a COUPLE HEROS . COMMIT TO THRIVING ???