BE YOURSELF - Motivational Speech (Crazy Rich Asians) ||

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• Crazy Rich Asians (2018)
#shorts #mindset #motivation #success

[@jc1tipy935]

The BEST line ever, " It's not my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not". Ohhh the burnnnn!!😂

[@judihart9658]

☝️that's how truth is.🤔😁⚡.go girl!👍😎

[@loridiamond3765]

A one-two punch straight to groin😮😮

[@estheroladunjoye5138]

Yeah for real 😧 bruh

[@monicawartman949]

Wow, wow.... best line ever

[@AnastasiaIsabella]

One of the best lines ever

[@gregoryk.tanaka4285]

She is the hidden star of this movie, a true gem!

[@JJWOODS891]

FACTS❤

[@honor9lite1337]

Truth.

[@killhooch]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@carameldoll96]

Lol, isn't her name Gemma Chan?

[@gregoryk.tanaka4285]

@@carameldoll96 Yes!

[@shyyou93]

When I saw this in the cinema and she said that final line, the whole audience roared!

[@honor9lite1337]

Yeay😊

[@myrtleshawnsabido5627]

Films are so convinient these days and cinema experiencee has become rare for me...miss this😢

[@YouMartha]

Yes, same experience. Everyone in the cinema roared and had to wait for like 2 minutes for everyone to quiet down. It was epic, this scene. ❤

[@rrsee-zk3zu]

SAME EXPERIENCE HERE

[@nettygrace2873]

It’s not my job to make you feel like a man

[@moviemaniac5139]

"Where you gonna go?" "I have 14 apartment buildings that I own, so probably one of those." Well, that backfired. 😂

[@themercy138]

I honestly didn't believe he asked that question. Her family literally owns Singapore!!!!! Total tool, that one

[@jdchy6181]

im baffled he even asked in the first place lmaooo the wife really reminded him who ‘wore the pants’ in the rs 🤭

[@drl5002]

​@@jdchy6181"pants are overrated"

[@hexiiyq]

@@jdchy6181EXACTLY

[@cottagegymfun]

This is a modern relationship problem. When material possessions become center stage in relationships.

[@thefairychild]

"It's not my fault that I cheated and was insecure you had so much more money than me."

[@az21bob666]

Funny part it not like she earn the money.

[@Arichxc]

@@az21bob666you assume, to think, that there’s no standard to earn the money even if coming from wealth. Especially given her character. She didn’t just have an endless bank account she could draw from. Furthermore, she chose him in spite of his mediocrity. He chose himself, and that is what’s actually funny.

[@az21bob666]

she did not earn her money she was born very rich and was given to her, and he not medicity he was a self made millionaire,

[@Arichxc]

@@az21bob666 he’s not self-made. He took advantage of her family’s money too if we’re going to use your logic.

[@IMBLESSED-oe6dl]

​@az21bob666 Well, her ancestors built generational wealth, so their kids don't have financial struggles. Also to maintain what she has takes certain capabilities. Don't be jealous.

[@audreycampbell9483]

Never make yourself less than for your man. It's not worth it. Speaking from experience.

[@keldealmeida5768]

Don't do that for a man, a woman, or for anyone else. I made this mistake to the sake of two friendships of two female friends of mine, who felt inferior towards me and were always complaining that they didn't have the degrees or the intelligence that I have. I've limited myself interacting with shallow and uneducated people to please them. My life just went downhill after that.

[@mrbeeslawncare4207]

@@keldealmeida5768I’m proud of you for getting out of that mess. You don’t need their negativity in your life.

[@nabeelasvision7410]

Same. Worrying about triggering someone else's inferiority complex and not being yourself is EXHAUSTING for your own self esteem and mental health. They will always try to put the blame on you and play the victim while putting you down.

[@abdula16]

😂 that’s sounds like an excuse for simply not being a woman…

[@aprilgibson817]

So a woman is inherently less than? Your comment makes no sense​@@abdula16

[@norfaeizasamani9604]

Her voice is so elegant to hear

[@brendakaira5482]

Ouch!😮 She is savage.." I can't make you something you are not!"..and I love it!!

[@alexandragisellechavez3564]

Bravo!!🎉🎉

[@vAbAfilM]

She is not savage, but truthful. And the truth can be harsh.

[@Esty-gk4ju]

TRUTH

[@dag23_subbers]

It sounded nice but would be overly dramatic in real world. He shouldn't have married her also means she shouldn't have married him. It goes both ways. If she found someone to cheat with, she would have. She didn't have options to marry to begin with so she married him. He got options to sleep with, he went ahead and was liking it. What's wrong with that..I do think marriages don't work as expected. It is a faulty design..

[@dag23_subbers]

Two people shouldn't marry if they don't have similar lifestyles and habits. We stick to habits. They are hard to form and very hard to leave. People with similar habits only can survive together. If we think alike or similar it gets lot easier. Cheating is more due to sexual needs and less due to other needs. One can't fulfill else's sexual needs no matter what. It is something that will make people cheat till the end of the time..if two cheaters can't have sex I am sure their extra marital won't last longer than it is supposed to be..AIDs was a disease people feared and found ways around it. But seriously two people that are engaged in extra marital won't really stick together if it has no physical aspects to it. It is as simple as that and easier to break if one stopped enjoying that physical element for some reason with other woman or man.

[@belight5646]

She is so elegant and eloquent. ❤

[@honor9lite1337]

Agreed

[@isagoldfield7393]

So true💥💥💥

[@ioidt]

she made her writers proud!

[@koelray8810]

The best line for me was "I have 14 apartment buildings that I own....." it's not that I support bragging, boasting or flexing about your generational wealth. Astrid was clearly the kindest, most elegant and soft spoken cousin and she was supportive. I wish to be strong like her, yet kind and gentle and maybe own a couple of houses too by making my own money 😅.

[@tinawang367]

Isn’t her name Astrid?

[@Spaceystace]

Good luck to you! I hope all of your dreams come true!

[@koelray8810]

@@Spaceystace Hey, thank you dear. Hope you achieve all you want in life and more. Best wishes ❤️

[@sunddundee352]

I love that the FL and the ML both said that they wanted to be like Astrid when they grew up. LOL

[@peaceandlove2008]

Aamiin

[@ennzee5393]

Powerful statement "it's not my job to make you feel like a Man. I can't make you something you are not!"

[@beautyistifanus8794]

When a woman is done 😊 nothing can change her mind , women are like mirror beautiful but dangerous when broken

[@sandyweir6375]

I agree. Well said! I always say, when a woman is done. DONE! It’s an accumulation of hurt and disappointment. That is the driving force. We stop talking, we walk out and leave everything.

[@Isthisjoebiden]

You're a poet😂 thats the truth.

[@isagoldfield7393]

@@sandyweir6375💪💪

[@nachtschatten8710]

Poetry indeed.😊

[@thesilenceisdeafening]

Love the analogy🙂

[@IfAllElseFails_Ctrl_Alt_Del]

Her final words dismantled all of the lies & excuses he concocted in his head, to justify himself. Burn of the century, YES QUEEN 👸🏻🙌🏼👏🏻👏🏻😂

[@khaleesireyna731]

She was also such a sweetheart throughout. Plenty of the other women in the movie could be catty and mean, but she was kind and generous. Glad she got this moment in the end. She deserves someone who loves her!

[@dag23_subbers]

Probably deserved that love before marrying this boy kid.

[@pamelaandrews7269]

This scene is legendary ❤. When a good woman is taken for granted and pushed to the extreme, you bring out the beast in her and she takes total control of not just herself but everything else.❤

[@tinahuttner7280]

So agree, make sure to have plans so he doesn’t get the upper hand.

[@simpleliving4205]

Facts

[@dag23_subbers]

They bring out the beast in good women for a reason- it helps lot of other women that don't mind not being good and get the men, the pants, and every thing else too. I don't trust women. They can make it all about themselves. Keep crying not knowing where their limits end. Sure because they don't have personal parameters of success. They are copying men and what has been done before. They will never be satisfied.

[@jonvicmamon2529]

Protection not the upper hand but still keeping your dignity and honor. Which is losed in this generation it's all about revenge. And cycle continue.

[@aliciad8553]

The movie theater I was in stood up and started cheering when Astrid hit him with "I can't make you something you're not."

[@keabanks2619]

I been waiting on Crazy Rich Asian 2 for years. This first one was 🔥

[@aznmochibunny]

There's going to be the sequel movie as well as a series soon. Forget whether they said the series would be on HBO or Hulu.

[@TsukiTsuki16]

Is that the title?

[@misslillie2940]

I can’t make you something that you’re not!! Wow! That said it all

[@mamabear9058]

"I can't make you something you're not"😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏👏AMAZING LINE!!!!

[@vincencohan3626]

14 apartment buildings not just apartments but the whole building

[@linexp274]

Bam! She told him! 🤣 this was a great movie! Crazy rich Asians!

[@hexiiyq]

I loved this movie!!

[@praszHUANG]

The last words is so powerful...I just realize... It's NOT my job to make you feel like a man... I can't make something you are NOT! Man with only his penis, doesn't work with the marriage, bro!

[@daebak_hana]

🎯🎯🎯

[@charliehendrix168]

Wish I'd said things like that to my ex. "It's not my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not." Ouch. YES❤!! I'm going to hold onto that one.

[@ResinAlchemist2024]

Regardless of gender never dumb yourself down for anyone. If they are insecure because of your strengths because of their own weak egos, or insecurities and refuse to embrace and value yours. RUN!!!!

[@MariMay_o]

I had exactly the same conversation with my ex. He told me that I stole his financial luck and killed a man inside him…just because I became pretty successful and he didn’t manage to catch up

[@suvashree100]

Waah... Next level gaslighting

[@mysterygurl847]

Such insecure prick😂

[@frappalina]

😂

[@cecew.1303]

I hope you said something like this to him as you walked out the door. Someone who truly loves you is always happy you're successful because they are there with you as well when you were struggling. Your win is their win & vice versa ❤

[@HJ-lq9qq]

​@@cecew.1303this is so true

[@hexiiyq]

She’s the sweetest person ever. I know looks aren’t everything but she even has an amazing personality. Insecurity is real.

[@najmarazgalla9699]

She was a powerful image of what marriage means for integrate women in conservative societies. Even a woman of means gets treated like trash doing everything right eventually.

[@Meemaw96]

that burn was delivered so gently

[@in.meraki]

This was the best line. I have watched this movie multiple times, just for her. ❤

[@njmelmi4708]

The name 🙏

[@pandaclub7921]

Best line in the whole movie. Applies to so much and beyond.

[@mrbeeslawncare4207]

“I can’t make you something you’re not.” That applies to everyone; we’re what we make ourselves. It’s not someone else’s job to make us who or what we want to be. We have to do that work ourselves.

[@MsBrooklyn63]

I love this! I love this. She walked into her power and her strength. Finally. She tried to make herself small for him and she saw it got her nowhere. I love this scene.

[@TaleiAK]

Let's be honest, her British accent made it sound kinder than it was meant to be and makes it so that anyone on the receiving end would not want to respond.

[@MissNulis]

I think the opposite. CMIIW, her accent is a posh accent. So it should indirectly amplify how big the gap of their level is.

[@neishafelix2317]

This made my day. I can't stop listening and forwarding. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@pboni0]

To me this is the best part of the whole movie❤️‍🔥

[@YSapphireGroup]

She’s so beautiful! And so right…

[@daebak_hana]

Gemma chan is so beautiful 😍

[@jeffescanto]

Loved her since humans

[@anthonylobo529]

Rightly said, a lot of times in order to express Love one gives in more than necessary and that is where the fissure appears and the chasm develops It's not your fault being from an affluent lineage, but on the contrary the lesser mortal also needs to rise up to the occasion and be more giving and equal in sentiments, which is completely one sided as it seems in this Short Video Love is giving not just receiving ♥️♥️♥️♥️💯

[@angelaenochdiaz9247]

Her read was on point can we get part 2 of Crazy rich Asians

[@hexiiyq]

Astrid was so underrated 😫

[@anggrainilatifah]

This girl is my inspiration. Gentle, wit, loyal, independent.

[@naimahq8739]

“Stop talking.” Pause for effect LOL 🙌🏽

[@juanitanakano3221]

I admire her for her decision, speaks eloquently, elegant and with.dignity. So many lines so loudly spoken and all coming from hidden hurts and pain. Bravo ❤

[@stephorozco8911]

I can totally understand feeling insecure in your financial earnings and generational differences, but that still isn't an excuse to cheat.. Regardless if you're man or woman, that is indeed cowardly behavior and a severe lack of trust in your partner.

[@darkavenger5020]

BEST LINE EVER!!! WELL SAID

[@Panda283-j2d]

You girl, great actor!!! She played her role with phenomenal 👏 passion and skill!!! Great movie!!!!❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Shiki7616]

She was such a kind person. It’s 100% his fault that things didn't work out.

[@Victoria-_]

Astrid’s been my favorite of the book and Movie!!

[@angelajenkins593]

I was literally in her shoes and it is not your job to make a man he has be one in himself. Also i didnt own several apartments 😂. I did own my home which i worked hard for me and my son so he would inherit someday. Keep your head high the light at the end is something to aim for and worth it. ❤

[@annied0306]

Best speech delivery, well written and well said. Well done girl. Proud 👏 ❤

[@IfAllElseFails_Ctrl_Alt_Del]

⚠️Leave it to a cheater to blame the one they cheated on, for cheating😑. HE disrespected her, to latch out at his inherently wealthy wife. The RESENTMENT he held for her, made him see her positive traits as a shortcoming & something negative. He needed something to justify his betrayal, & the resentment he had for his wife & mother of his child. He didn't want to accept that her lack of inquiries & poking around in his business. Was simply her wanting to wholeheartedly TRUST HIM & giving him her unconditional support. Instead, he saw it as "she doesn't love me enough to care if I'm cheating or not, because she's always too complacent about things that don't add up. Her image as a calm & collected wealthy women, is more important to her than her husband sleeping with another women. So she DESERVES to be brought down a peg or two. Her nonchalant behavior drive me to cheating , it's her fault too"🙄😑🤦🏻‍♀️.

[@bustershin]

in the book he is not cheating. the girlbis his cousin.

[@TL-fx3yi]

The best lines ever!

[@thequeenmidas]

Man felt unworthy and it got in the way of his happiness 😢

[@SB-ep2gh]

She is amazing, and that final burn is epic.

[@gryla5290]

Last line was so cold hell froze over

[@jocelynviloria21]

Absolutely 💯 be ourselves , be genuine and real... We cannot make something someone who is not them...we cannot fake things to make them who they are behind doors...

[@shruthiraj5821]

I want to own 14 apartment buildings if not more.

[@iamreborn3463]

Comes with a lot of mental and emotional strife I’m sure. Imagine all the tenant complaints

[@harita_mahadevan5502]

complaints and maintenance are normally handled by third party companies in such situations

[@harita_mahadevan5502]

was so scrolling for this comment.. 😅

[@inabel.24]

Yazz gurl!! It’s not anyone’s job to make us or make them a better person. It’s our responsibilty and it’s their responsibilty.❤❤

[@MsVang-xm5et]

My favorite part of the whole movie. 🤗👍

[@syedasadaf8865]

Name of the movie??

[@MsVang-xm5et]

​@@syedasadaf8865, really?!?! 🤣🤣🤣 U are silly

[@sumanthkumar8254]

​@@syedasadaf8865 crazy rich Asians

[@MusicLover-yh4bf]

​@@syedasadaf8865 Name 👉 Crazy Rich Asians

[@alittlebitofsugar]

@@syedasadaf8865Crazy Rich Asians

[@tawanabrown8908]

That line hit hard!!!!❤❤

[@kimoni6]

Love her ❤️ 💕.

[@majcaan-xo2tv]

Spoken like a true star…

[@talkintacos8151]

THAT’S right!

[@Nialee-wp3oi]

I love that scene. She is beautiful, gracious, and strong. She did her best. Finally, ahe breaks free.❤

[@vidiaparamaatmaseeker2130]

Truly my favourite character of this movie.

[@SA-xt1gd]

This is a real life lesson. Especially about to be 30 soon. People need to understand the behind the scenes of relationships. I’m glad this movie portrayed this!

[@mariecash2971]

I LOOOOOOOVED this movie!!!

[@georgiamarierx9682]

Her speech sums up the males we dealing with now.

[@MISSYGful]

Based on this clip alone, I'm going to watch this!

[@princessleai]

I had to save this video because that was POWERFUL.

[@LivxLaughxLove]

I need a little more fire in that burn: "It's not MY job to make you FEEL like a man. It's YOUR job to BE one..."

[@fanman71]

Gemma Chan knocked it out of the park in this role.

[@lin.mar.4]

I really love this scene..

[@kimcydlingh1944]

Sometimes we cover ourselves to make someone else feel better about themselves.

[@jdchy6181]

did the cheating made him DUMB too asking his rich af ex-wife ‘where shes gonna go’ bruhh im so glad she hit him with that 14 apartment buildings line lmaooo 😭👏🏼

[@juliashireen6195]

😂😂😂😂

[@chloeeng6811]

Yeah

[@stryfe0]

It was written like that for a “you go girl” moment

[@leaaaaah78890]

I needed this....

[@vatsanaannie123]

She’s my favorite character in this movie !! ❤️🥰

[@mrbenwong86]

Astrid's story deserve a spinoff.

[@sarahl8625]

I love this scene. She was amazing. Everything she said was TRUE

[@rosylvra8093]

This my favorite line from the movie !!

[@serendipity4035]

Loved her character

[@shruthishanmugasundaram1505]

Love her lines❤

[@dardarmissesv]

I love this scene

[@Veda98480]

She was the perfect fit for Astrid - beautiful, graceful, assertive ❤

[@missy_naneylove3457]

Boom. My fav character in this movie ❤❤

[@dignoragonzalez9652]

That was the best dialogue in the entire film!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@abhiyaraman20]

The burn!!!

[@sheilarico2359]

Hi guys! Always watching. ❤️😍

[@PKT585]

The film name is Crazy Rich Asians

[@ArtsEtArtisanats]

❤❤

[@mayani777]

🙏🏾🙏🏾💖

[@miyakiluke9750]

This scene never really happened in the book but it was so satisfying

[@GabyHernandez-rv3vo]

😮😮😮🎉😢 TRUTH SHE TOLD HIM

[@pedrotangwal5589]

"Ican't make u something ur not" love it

[@lisalamb4163]

I want to be "Astrid" when I grow up.

[@JerrilynCapitano]

One of my faves. She's awesome

[@elizabthbaxter3495]

In the book he did NOT cheat on her. I HATE thst they changed that.

[@weekendrad405]

Spill the tea lizzy what did he DO ????

[@914gwen]

​@@weekendrad405 He faked an affair so Astrid can divorce him. He never cheated.

[@weekendrad405]

@@914gwen bruh did he do it to trigger a reaction cs of his inferiority complex or he just wanted to divorce cs he didn't love her anymore ??

[@jamescarmody6467]

She’s stunning 😊

[@akankshachauhan1585]

Really didn't understand his logic. Why would you cheat on your wife to feel more important or secure with your masculinity?

[@DanielaDiPasquale-o8e]

So powerful. Love her!

[@SophiaGo-y3x]

Nice accent, "British?"

[@acmedina8363]

It’s Jamaican

[@gregoryk.tanaka4285]

Isn’t it Singaporean?

[@hagnier14]

@@gregoryk.tanaka4285 most crazy rich asian went to british schools, no wonder they have a british accent even though they're singaporean

[@justiceselekwa]

But she's British,

[@aprilrosebulaclac7137]

My favorite in the whole movie. Not the heartbreak but her comeback. She remember her worth and the games changes❤