Since this video is blowing up I feel the need to address something. I wrote this song for every person out there that has felt insecure, unloved, or unhappy in their own skin - it is in no way meant to glamorize, encourage, or promote eating disorders, body hatred, or body shaming in any form. The lyrics are a criticism on modern beauty standards and the harmful effects beauty standards can have on people - I wrote this song from a female's perspective as I myself have dealt with insecurities and done unhealthy things in my past to live up to the American beauty standard - but this song is meant for everyone. You are worthy of love, you are beautiful just the way you are, and beauty is a social construct - please don't harm your health or well being to live up to these invented expectations, it is not worth risking your life over. You are already a Prom Queen, you are already enough. (also for people upset that this is blowing up on tic-tok I want as many people to hear this message as possible, this message is so important - especially for younger people growing up in the social media generation which has made this issue even more prominent)
@abbeyh5 жыл бұрын
Beach Bunny thank you!! you are so amazing
@DrDrub5 жыл бұрын
Such a good message. Thumbs up!
@laura-jl1ek5 жыл бұрын
Wow you are such a kindhearted person UwU
@iamthegreg54565 жыл бұрын
AHHHHHHHHHHHH
@g1a1095 жыл бұрын
@addyp.9585 жыл бұрын
When the guy in the beginning started randomly doing pushups, *my sims felt that*
@adelynnbarney98855 жыл бұрын
Dj .mp3 I love your profile pic.
@hachikokisses5 жыл бұрын
Adelynn Barney I love your profile pic
@chonkchonkdechonkchonk79225 жыл бұрын
# StillNotBitten I love your profile pic
@Flower-gb8co5 жыл бұрын
ChonkChonk DeChonkChonk i love your profile pic
@hantelopeart45945 жыл бұрын
Aticole Nakayama I love your profile pic
@wussyslayer35814 жыл бұрын
that dude in the beginning just casually pushed the other dude and the dude just continued to dance like nothing happened.. we love an unbothered king
@THEROTTENIMMORTAL3 жыл бұрын
YEAH FINALLY SOMEONE NOTICED
@chemicalstarr3 жыл бұрын
His name is Matt
@pilsnerspaymybilsners9663 жыл бұрын
Thats a call out to the movie hot rod. There is a scene where the gang is dancing to weird music outside a convenience store next to their van which looks really similar.
@whytho-19903 жыл бұрын
@@pilsnerspaymybilsners966 TYSM FOR UNDERSTANDING, IVE BEEN LOOKING THROUGH COMMENTS FOR FIVE MINUTES TO SEE IF ANYONE UNDERSTOOD THE REFERENCE AND WAS CULTURED, GOOD JOB OFFICIALLY LOVE YOU
@carpetcarpet13 жыл бұрын
🌟H O T R O D R E F E R E N C E 🌟
@ryu18634 ай бұрын
Even 5 years later this song is amazing
@HERZXАй бұрын
A magical moment that will never be forgotten
@SansaKoiralaАй бұрын
YA IKR
@Kasimerit18 күн бұрын
Idk
@Person-Was-Here17 күн бұрын
NEVER FORGOTTEN
@WildanFebri-vn2et17 күн бұрын
lagu old stumble guys😭😭😭
@littlemisslouis18565 жыл бұрын
When that guy was doing jumping jacks in the beginning and got slammed into that van, *I felt that*
@ew49125 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't it hurt since he might've pushed him really hard
@iz2695 жыл бұрын
It's a hot rod reference right?
@trinityharris65155 жыл бұрын
when he started doing push-ups i died lmao that’s me at the gym💀
@sophiarimorin82205 жыл бұрын
I went back just to see if that actually happened XD
@josieruiz75675 жыл бұрын
That's from hot rod
@Z13-i5n5 жыл бұрын
This is the darkest, yet most enthusiastic song I've ever listened to.
@shiftymist96095 жыл бұрын
ummmmmmmm, yes.
@bmar4004 жыл бұрын
Why is it dark tho? The self harm bit?
@imogenpinelli8504 жыл бұрын
Um Dark? What. Best not to give you anything worse then, flower.
@TheMusicalSound4 жыл бұрын
Like hard times
@rhiannonmacintyre38814 жыл бұрын
Listen to bullet by Hollywood undead that's as dark as it gets but the tune sounds like it's from spongebob
@aname47004 жыл бұрын
Lyrics: Shut up, count your calories I never looked good in mom jeans Wish I, was like you, blue-eyed blondie, perfect body Maybe I should try harder You should lower your expectations I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for Prom Queen If I get more pretty, do you think he will like me? Dissect my insecurities I'm a defect, surgical project It's getting hard to breath There's plastic wrap in my cheeks Maybe I should try harder You should lower your beauty standards I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for Prom Queen If I'm pretty, will you like me? They say beauty, makes boys happy I've been starving myself Carving skin until my bones are showing Teach me how to be okay I don't want to downplay my emotions They say beauty is pain You'll only be happy If you look a certain way I wanna be okay I wanna be okay
@Hannah-pg2gb4 жыл бұрын
-Liv- Øøf but ur right tho
@deepbhlue79734 жыл бұрын
-Liv- bruh just let them live
@silverluvr1024 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤❤
@akad09174 жыл бұрын
so thaks!
@lilhungry3524 жыл бұрын
or turn on cc
@gutznblxssxms13 күн бұрын
im a 14 year old, i weigh 225 pounds and all my life my body has been my hugest insecurity. no matter how many diets i do or how little i eat or how hard i work out it wont go away and i can never be pretty like all of the other girls and i hate myself for it this song is a big comfort for me, thank you beachbunny
@aleyna164710 күн бұрын
Hastalığın mı var
@S0ccerpl4yer9 күн бұрын
I can relate to you as a boy and it’s one of my biggest insecurities too. I’ve always felt alone until I found this song and I can relate to it and you! ❤️
@Bonelabplayer20247 күн бұрын
@@S0ccerpl4yeryeah I’m same I never take my shirt off
@Madiiherpitbullscrz5 күн бұрын
I’m 12 and I’m 125
@WretchedWesКүн бұрын
Gotta lock in 💪🏿
@dayangizzahathirah8413 жыл бұрын
Lyrics: Shut up, count your calories I never looked good in mom jeans Wish I was like you Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body Maybe I should try harder You should lower your expectations I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for prom queen If I get more pretty Do you think he will like me? Disect my insecurities I'm a defect, surgical project It's getting hard to breathe There's plastic wrap in my cheeks Maybe I should try harder You should lower your beauty standards I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for prom queen If I'm pretty, will you like me? They say "Beauty makes boys happy" I've been starving myself Carving skin until my bones are showing Teach me how to be okay I don't wanna downplay my emotions They say "Beauty is pain You'll only be happy if you look a certain way" I wanna be okay I wanna be okay
@Mylovelypov3 жыл бұрын
Thxx!
@littlemoshusband3 жыл бұрын
I was looking for this thanks!💜
@clxxdy_boba54493 жыл бұрын
Thx
@erniesantos25653 жыл бұрын
Tysmm!!
@user-mh5gy7ch4y3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much!
@some__kid5 жыл бұрын
"shut up, count your calories! I'll never look good in mom jeans." That line has been in my head for a while
@aaliyahcrosby37045 жыл бұрын
Its been in mine since tik tok came out
@philipkilleen105 жыл бұрын
I wish I was like you blue eyed blody perfect body
@mariamontes37915 жыл бұрын
some kid same
@ashmax32285 жыл бұрын
Then try mom's or dad's jeans maybe u will stop thinking forever lol
@grace-xw9ps5 жыл бұрын
why was that me in urban outfitters yesterday:/
@alanadezao42134 жыл бұрын
“I’ve been starving myself, carving my skin until my bones are showing” hit real hard
@delicatedreamer3 жыл бұрын
please talk to someone and get help! i believe in you. you’re beautiful
@inky_tea41863 жыл бұрын
That one hit a bit to close to home for me too
@xoxokittymeow3 жыл бұрын
same
@sxukablajt62993 жыл бұрын
No cos i look like a whale still 😃🔫
@olmanfrey3 жыл бұрын
fr
@Ru-eo7rq2 ай бұрын
Dear person whoever reads this, Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society builds up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy life. But in fact, that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way...I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such a beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this then please never forget to breathe and smile. Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs. Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug-like it's your last one. I love you and send you hugs. You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you. YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN. I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC. You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice. You’re beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is. Please don’t starve yourself. Please eat, I know it’s hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN. I WISH I COULD HUG YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO. It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go. I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you through my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.?? I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it with such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such a mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning, and so on... You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course, you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self-care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :) Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out. Did anyone ask you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up. I am sorry you feel misunderstood. But anyone who gets to be with you doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they are :). Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?! - The stranger that cares about you more than anything. I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay. This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with love, you deserve it. And in case no one told you today, again, I am so proud of you. I hope you will remember my words :) Until tomorrow, my friend :)
@yaarayogev70132 ай бұрын
Wow, I'm reading your text with tears, maybe I'm a person who has a hard time with his weight or something like that, but you introduced so many important things into my head, made me live again, understand the meaning of life, you're a good person, I'm in you Whoever you are, and I'm proud to be your first liker, I hope more people know and recognize your big heart, because if not, they'll lose you a lot, I'm so proud to read this and see what good people there are in the world, so my friend, I wish you to continue doing Well, I have to say something. I'm Jewish, but I don't care if you're Arab or Christian. I'm proud that there are good people like you in the world, and I wish you to receive many good things in your life, and always remember everything positively!
@yaarayogev70132 ай бұрын
Maybe I'm not a person with weight loss**
@mp3bry3 жыл бұрын
“i’ve been starving myself, carving skin until my bones are showing.” hurts even more when you can relate to the lyrics.
@Ashley-yy9jm3 жыл бұрын
really does makes me wanna cry
@mp3bry3 жыл бұрын
@@Ashley-yy9jm fr
@oliviaparkins58953 жыл бұрын
Fr these lyrics are exposing me
@mariayoutu23033 жыл бұрын
Melhorass
@zuzanna49133 жыл бұрын
Fr
@jennifersarut70064 жыл бұрын
Me: Listens to song ready to cry about my ED The ad before the video : “WENDYS SPICY CHICKEN SANDWICH”
@avashattuckmusic4 жыл бұрын
UNDERRATED COMMENT LMAOOO
@_____dreamsdocometrue_____46663 жыл бұрын
🤣😂
@magnoliacatherine87893 жыл бұрын
My add was about how to get perfect abs, I’d rather have a Wendy’s chicken sandwich
@vrmpouzw39693 жыл бұрын
LMAOO
@nobody-ll7pk3 жыл бұрын
Try the 4 for 4 at Wendy's its delicious lmao
@Alexajuu33 жыл бұрын
I just cry when I see myself in the mirror I say why I'm not as beautiful as them ..
@zarzival92333 жыл бұрын
Im not that type person who invalidates someone's feeling with toxic positivity. If you feel like that, just cry, it's fine to cry. Crying doesn't make you weak, it's just you've been strong for too long. :)
@adjoolie3 жыл бұрын
You’re beautiful
@justmidguy76343 жыл бұрын
even me
@veel67813 жыл бұрын
u look great bro
@Its.usalma2 жыл бұрын
Ur beautiful 😍 sis
@suha03 ай бұрын
لو كنت جميلة هل كان حبني؟ 💔
@manda52944 жыл бұрын
this song: about EDs and has a deep meaning to it girls ok tiktok: what i eat in a day!! 😻
@ilovemusicssooomuch2834 жыл бұрын
Basic straight girls*
@Raya.e4 жыл бұрын
@@axellenjomo3099 they didnt say there was anything wrong with being straight-
@Yuhhhhh60074 жыл бұрын
@@axellenjomo3099 Nothings wrong with being straight I am straight but they're saying itd mainly the girls who have similar personalities happen to be straight and they're the ones doing this
StrawberryFlamingo sorry didn’t realise we were being heterophobic. Proud of the straight community and everything they’ve overcome.
@akkophobic4 жыл бұрын
i think i might have an eating disorder, but i don’t want to self diagnose. it’s hard, following tough beauty standards. asian beauty standards are so hard to achieve.
@idkidk-lh5ip4 жыл бұрын
Not falling under generic or unrealistic beauty standards doesn't make you any less valuable as a person, hope things get better for you ❤
@akkophobic4 жыл бұрын
melina rivera garcia thank you so much !! this is very meaningful.
@randomasshole84004 жыл бұрын
Yo, go see a professional and get help.you deserve to eat
@expensivegirl87004 жыл бұрын
As a person with bulumia and anorexia i beg please eat the way you want be happy and live yourself and don't get yourself into this shitty thing that we call eating disorder I hate my eating disorder i wish i had a healthy relashionship with food and myself but it's way too hard
@alohaali82063 жыл бұрын
Honey, you’re perfect the way you are. Don’t try to fit in to Asian beauty standards. You don’t need to be thin, you don’t need to be curvy. Be what you want. Not what the beauty standards want you to be. I was the same way in 2015-2016 I had a ED. I’m now 19 and recovered from it. Remember; YOURE PERFECT THE WAY YOU ARE!!! 🥺🥰
@coolkid-ud1vl5 жыл бұрын
Sorry just need to put this time stamp here for my own use 0:48
@days25795 жыл бұрын
The begging of this song was stuck in my head for so long
@downbad73245 жыл бұрын
pug unicorn thx I need it to
@mossymoss20045 жыл бұрын
Thx for timestamp
@Jorddaddy5 жыл бұрын
Lmao same
@user-cf1yu5ms6x5 жыл бұрын
ty i needed that too シ
@Julia-bn6twАй бұрын
Me identifiquei com tudo
@ErickMaia-p5cАй бұрын
Clbc depressiva
@blondmade4 жыл бұрын
as a girl who struggles with depression and hating my body and thinking im not good enough im so happy that people are bringing this to the light so people like me dont have too hide our feelings
@_.a.amina_.4564 жыл бұрын
i hate my appearance but my mom thinks i’m doing it for attention
@jinerodney6614 жыл бұрын
_.a.amina _. My mom would think the same so I pretend to be confident
@dakota79394 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry you feel this way. You are good enough. Nobody is born ugly and I mean that. Feeling insecure in your own body is a horrible thing and depression is so so nasty. I truly wish the best for you to get better and I believe you will! Making this comment was a start. ♥️ Wishing you happiness in future.
@JesusHernandez-bk8km4 жыл бұрын
80 melody and Dakota completely unrelated but I just couldn't help myself what is your profile pic from
@oliviagrace69144 жыл бұрын
Hey babe! I’m here for you and I love you. You are more than a body. You are a person. There are so many places to go and to see. You are valid. I love you. Don’t give up on me yet please? God bless 💕
@brucite10055 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a song from the 2000s, either way its a really nice song.
@lexitaffy_yas96474 жыл бұрын
Brucite ONG this why I like it
@lexitaffy_yas96474 жыл бұрын
I expected it to be an old song
@72-04 жыл бұрын
Brucite yeah
@atoothbrush95104 жыл бұрын
The queen has spoken
@aj70584 жыл бұрын
The flip phone tho
@kent75663 жыл бұрын
i was overweight before quarantine, then got so insecure and depressed about my body i started dieting. Now im loosing weight, but the problem is, i cant stop, im losing and losing pounds everyday, now underweight and skinny as bones. idk what happened but body dysmorphia is a thing. please love yourselves the way you are 🙂
@izianyny3 жыл бұрын
you should love yourself too!! i believe in you, you can stop dieting and starving yourself
@kent75663 жыл бұрын
@@izianyny omg angel, ilysm 💖 wishing you all the best things in this world ❤️💯
@izianyny3 жыл бұрын
@@kent7566 you too!! (。•̀ᴗ-)✧
@frida3283 жыл бұрын
p
@tici18243 жыл бұрын
realmente no es fácil
@miriamoklooool4 ай бұрын
Actualmente tengo 14 años, nunca casi nunca me dejan salir ni hacer actividades con amigos, cuando pregunto solo obtengo una respuesta grocera y sin sentido, siempre quise tener muchos amigos, y vivir mi adolescencia y ser atractiva pero solo me queda aceptarlo y llorar con esta obra de arte
@frenchhat3r2 ай бұрын
Yo tengo 14, me he tanto matado de hambre hasta pesar 40 kilos hasta darme atracones sin parar, sinceramente incluso si se que el estar obsesionado con adelgazar no es bueno pero no me importaria morir por ello, se que no es bueno pero no puedo ni quiero deshacerme de ello
@newmariobrothers46174 жыл бұрын
me: *cried to this song alot* Addison: 😜🖐👈💪👉🙌👉👐👇👏wOah ✊👇💪👈👏cLap 😹😤 bOdy rOlL
@user-pd9iv2gm1e4 жыл бұрын
new mario brothers 😂😂😂😂 DEAD
@kylienotkyle4 жыл бұрын
SHHUHSJIDKJSIJSIJW IM DYING
@slovasky1574 жыл бұрын
LMAO IKR???
@maleahw094 жыл бұрын
RHNDGNSTJFBDBEGNSFBSF
@ivanhernandez29524 жыл бұрын
NEKOSAIKOU the manny will not be televised
@levirosenlieb77985 жыл бұрын
I love her voice. Really fits the music and just sounds awesome
@fruitbasket29115 жыл бұрын
Levi Rosenlieb yeah! It sounds so natural!
@shreksreallover40295 жыл бұрын
totally agree
@Stoopyi2 жыл бұрын
a g r e e d
@hellomate26722 жыл бұрын
Jesus loves y’all! God bless y’all!
@filosofandro91982 жыл бұрын
Concuerdo totalmente, TikTok es un medio de divulgación de música genial, no creo que se trate de “arruinar” canciones, sino en parte de mostrarlas a través de trends o videos ingeniosos.
@stella-qo4cy3 жыл бұрын
one of the worst feelings is knowing that you’ll have to spend the rest of your life in a body you hate so much.
@jinisntabedyoucansleepon80663 жыл бұрын
i think that maybe with time we'll learn to accept our bodies just the way they are, and that thought is what keeps me going every day
@alainadacosta12223 жыл бұрын
With time you will learn to love yourself as you grow into who you are
@kdiorsvisualdi4ry3 жыл бұрын
hii eventually.. hopefully you’ll learn to love your body every single part of it and to know that it’s nothing wrong with you. I want you to know your perfect the way you are, that might not be what think but I’m not saying this just to be nice. But I find something truly beautiful in everyone.
@cordax633 жыл бұрын
cough cough dysphoria cough cough
@lifoxe3 жыл бұрын
Ur body's just trying to do its job and ur being so harsh to it for no reason :((
@User-d7g1v4 ай бұрын
Oh I loved the look, the music makes you cry...🥺✨🙃
@triciafradrick37314 жыл бұрын
I literally don't even have an ed but I'm crying at this song
@harleymcreynolds53564 жыл бұрын
Tricia Fradrick must be nice
@luisacorreia064 жыл бұрын
I have an Ed and I’m not
@harleymcreynolds53564 жыл бұрын
Ana Lulas well listen to what the lyrics say.
@luisacorreia064 жыл бұрын
Harley McReynolds I listened...just used to those thoughts
@harleymcreynolds53564 жыл бұрын
Ana Lulas awww I’m so sorry I hope to not get used to them you look so beautiful 💓
@fourteenants5 жыл бұрын
For some reason this song gives me major nostalgia vibes even though this is the first time I’ve heard it wtf
@dea41285 жыл бұрын
I WAS GOING TO SAY THE SAME THING
@imogenalexis5 жыл бұрын
SlimJimGuy omg yes
@bleu.morpho5 жыл бұрын
SlimJimGuy definitely
@lilym20065 жыл бұрын
Yessss!
@Jack_Jack78905 жыл бұрын
It just has that early 2000s vibe, when times were simpler
@gracereddan82254 жыл бұрын
this song makes me sad because my mom is constantly talking about my looks, for example "you've put on weight", "maybe cover that up", "don't wear that, you look fat in it" and most recently i cut my hair and she said "you look like a boy". but what she doesn't know is that I'm struggling and i don't know how to deal with it. yeah, I'm over the average weight by 20 pounds, yeah my nose is wide, yeah my eyes are small. but I'm a human too and i don't know how to deal with constantly being put down by the person you're meant to trust the most
@spacetreeclubhouse5434 жыл бұрын
Hey everything is going to be okay, this song was made for people like us to teach us that our insecurities make us beautiful, and that we shouldn't try to conform to society's unrealistic beauty standards, you'll always be beautiful no matter what anyone tells you.
@jasmineuwu98504 жыл бұрын
Youre perfect as you are, and if someone denies it they are toxic and bad people in general, i feel bad that you need to get thru that, and don’t forget STAY STRONG!
@sophie32214 жыл бұрын
for the girls and gays you’re beautiful just the way you are. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Wear what you feel comfortable in, because you’ll look perfect no matter what. You’re amazing. Stay strong! ily 🥺
@Angel_Shyyy4 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry for you 💜💜
@oliviagrace69144 жыл бұрын
Hey! You are more than your body! I love you and I care about you and I don’t even know you! You’ll get through this I promise. God bless 💕
@Aubrey5634 ай бұрын
I really like the first scene, how, for me at least, it shows social anxiety really well. How like, she is in this bright red sweater and everything else is dim, it always feels like people are staring at you, judging you.
@ZekEmillyАй бұрын
Yep i have social anxiety too
@user-gq1vr2ul1p5 жыл бұрын
Me, a 16 y/o boy: „I WAS NEVER CUT OUT FOR PROM QUEEN“
@karah28945 жыл бұрын
I adore you. XD
@user-gq1vr2ul1p5 жыл бұрын
《Karah》 hahaha thx
@heidibrown66685 жыл бұрын
im not even a dude and thats a mood
@sunnyday88735 жыл бұрын
At least Im not alone
@iwantcoffeenottea32575 жыл бұрын
mqrcvs even though we've only met, it feels like you've flown me to the moon a million times. Will you marry me?
@pt67474 жыл бұрын
Immediately when I heard her voice and the lyrics my heart started pounding rapidly and tears started streaming down my face, I can really relate to this song... My whole life I've been called "fat", "ugly", etc. Most of the time it was from my own family and friends, I've always been so insecure about how I look especially on my weight.
@luiza72513 жыл бұрын
Same here
@carlaramos33883 жыл бұрын
I experienced that too when I was younger and it ruined my self estime going into middle and high school. I was miserable as hell, the first time I wore a dress I was 17. A skirt, 18. I'd hide behing these ugly oversized clothes, I'd refuse to go to the beach with my family because I knew my dad would call me "fat". And I was so jealous of my pretty friends. I thought I was unlovable and ugly. So I didn't live. And I know you hear it everywhere but it's true, you gotta stop caring about what others think. Even if it's your family, friends, the guy/girl you like, a stranger in the street, their opinions don't matter. People are attracted to confident people, once you start feeling good about yourself people won't have to courage to say anything to you anymore. :) It's okay to be "fat"," Ugly" As long as you're happy in your own skin. It's better to be "unconventional and ethereal" than "pretty and boring".
@literallyzara3 жыл бұрын
My family is exactly the same, your not alone ❤️
@peptoyo5 жыл бұрын
This is like new old music, but amazing nonetheless... that late 80's early 90's cult classic movie soundtrack feel, that just makes you happy.
@youjustgotvectored39895 жыл бұрын
peptobismal lmao yeah it just makes you sooooo happy Look at the lyrics
@bratgorian5 жыл бұрын
Yeah I’m just sooo happy listening to this 🤣
@alungmeigangmei5 жыл бұрын
I'm the 1000th like😊💕
@peptoyo5 жыл бұрын
@@alungmeigangmei Whoa... I didn't even realize it had gotten that high... sheesh, definitely my most liked comment ever.
@Wolfest4rr5 жыл бұрын
Ikr!! I got that old time vibes wich made me so happy!!
@WithLoveMumuАй бұрын
“Teach me how to be okay “ felt it in my bones
@uncertainlearner12892 жыл бұрын
I know this song is likely aimed towards girls but as a guy who has low self-esteem and has body and facial image issues I can fully relate to this. Like I wish I was as attractive as those dreamy, handsome, and fit men you see in media (animated, fictional, or real) which leads to me constantly feeling inferior around guys who are more attractive than me and it makes me feel queasy and even teary-eyed if I think about it too much.
@beepboop28422 жыл бұрын
as a trans guy i heavily relate to this
@snowyy.000q2 жыл бұрын
I am sure that soon everything will be enjoyed and everything will be fine with you. ♡
@noctuabird2 жыл бұрын
Frick toxic masculinity
@tttttt-pk5jq2 жыл бұрын
you are amazing though! it's your body and it's beautiful. unless it's harming your health,you don't need to change at all. I can promise you you're attractive in so many peoples eyes
@noverts86642 жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much :) -random trans person on the internet
@TARSIERpeddle4 жыл бұрын
Just a message, You're enough. You're beautiful. Your weight doesn't matter. Your height doesn't matter Body hair is normal. Stretch marks are normal. Your face is beautiful. You have a perfect head shape. Your thighs and arms aren't big. You look amazing. Body fat/rolls are cute. You're beautiful whatever your skin colour is. Your religion/race won't define who you are. Your sexuality is beautiful. Birthmarks are cute! Dont let a condition hold u down for what you love. Hey, The size of your arm/foreheads etc doesn't matter. You, are enough. Don't hurt yourself for the standards of others. Don't waste your time to feel pretty for one person. So many think your beautiful. You are a king/queen No matter what you look like. Keep your head up cause your Journey to a better life will start soon. You are absolutely a gift from God and you are one of a kind. So don't look down and doubt yourself. You are amazing, so please don't cry over a boy at 3 AM while there are other people who can treat you better. Just wait for the right time. Edit: Im so happy im able to comfort alot of people❤ I was bullied at some point of my life and like everyone im very insecure, and i have my own health problems. But i know alot of people have it harder than me so im grateful that im still able to do daily activities. i Love hearing that alot of you are feeling better. I wish you all the best in life.Please never give up. You can tell me your problems. Ill try my best to support all of you. I just want everyone to know youre very worth being here and you're enough. Dont try harder for others❤ Edit 2: Wow these replies make me cry omfg
@jonathanflores92164 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@ryeleeshorette9054 жыл бұрын
you have made my day so much better. i was listening to this song balling my eyes out about how i'll never be pretty enough, but then i see this. you may never see this, but thank you. just by this you changed my perspective so so much. i just really needed a push, and you are the person who has finally given that to me. thank you.
@clementinecaraway66704 жыл бұрын
❤
@TARSIERpeddle4 жыл бұрын
@@ryeleeshorette905 im so happy i did 🥺❤ i hope you get a better view for yourself. Youre so beautiful girl❤ You dont have a need to feel that way. Im very grateful that I made you feel like that, i hope you love yourself more. I really hope the best for you gorgeous❤❤
@mmm-jx1wl4 жыл бұрын
thank you
@MargaritaMazascrisantoАй бұрын
ME IDENTIFICO CON ESO...
@whatsaname92664 жыл бұрын
I hate all of straight TikTok for making “what I eat in a day” videos with this sound
@Cadence07274 жыл бұрын
Their excuse was that it’s ok to want eat a lot like wtf that doesn’t make it ok it just makes others feel worse about themselves
@whatsaname92664 жыл бұрын
Cadence Mueller eughhhhh the audacity
@whyyouwantingtoknowmynameh41014 жыл бұрын
one of the most popular ones is literally a girl eating a whole bunch of junk food, like its a song about EATING DISORDERS.
@whatsaname92664 жыл бұрын
Billie eyelash nah it’s not just dances it’s...a lot of things
@owletsnowy4 жыл бұрын
@@rnd1942 straight tiktok also has thirst trops and the weird and uncomfy povs
@sam394.3 жыл бұрын
i like this song but ppl always tell me that it’s only for people with ed’s but it’s also for insecurities, etc. this song makes me feel better about myself.
@joshuapatron26393 жыл бұрын
those people who gatekeeps music won't stop me from listening to this song.
@z.64803 жыл бұрын
Don't listen to gatekeepers, music is for everyone
@davidwhitaker22113 жыл бұрын
Same and this song really goes both ways
@sauceyfridge86292 жыл бұрын
As a person with 2 Ed ‘s, you and your insecurities are completely valid. I whole heartedly agree with you as well
@bell-luvs-youruiz98122 жыл бұрын
D
@samscenefordummies87064 жыл бұрын
"Blue eyed blondie perfect body" kind of gets to me on a personal level. I'm going to be 14 soon but when I was younger I remember saying that I wish I was white, blonde, and had blue eyes because girls like that were pretty to me. In reality I'm a brown skinned, brown eyed, black haired girl but growing up i never knew that i really hated my body. I'm okay with my colored skin and shit brown eyes (lol) now, but i never realized i kind of hated myself growing up. This could potentially tie in with my bullying, since I've been bullied from 2nd grade to currently because of my appearance (though it was never about color, only about me being ugly and looking like a man, my arms were hairy and I had a thin mustache). I've come to terms with my ugliness but it doesnt mean I'm okay with it. "Count your calories" and being thin doesnt mean you're pretty. Even 'ugly' blonde fair skinned blue eyed girls are still pretty because of their unique look, I told myself, but I've come to terms that every color on women is beautiful, and I've even learned to love them because I now identify as a proud bisexual :)
@fatdoink14 жыл бұрын
idk if you see this, but brown eyes are the prettiest eye color ive ever seen. im so glad youve come to like them now
@manglemwha4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to you on a whole other level. Hell, I still want green eyes instead of brown but I’m happier.
@lou76544 жыл бұрын
i understand you. i have brown eyes too but i would normally not have anything against them, but my cousin has also brown eyes. she's eight years older than i am and she's perfect. she's not skinny because of her bodytype, but she does sports and is pretty and everybody in my family tells me, that i'll never be as pretty as she is. yes, i have normal sized breasts and she wears h cups, yes, she has a lot of friends and i don't have any, but it's just unfair. the thing is, i'm alternative and you can see that i'm half romanian and i kinda look like a guy so it's understandable but i don't know if i'll get over this.
@peaks7814 жыл бұрын
idk whether i’m a guy or a girl. gender dysphoria
@samscenefordummies87064 жыл бұрын
@@fatdoink1 Some brown eyes are pretty but not when they're like mine and are so dark they look black lol. It's like staring into the depths of my soul :")
@NavelNovelNova22 күн бұрын
I‘m from the future and I‘m going to tell you this is a MASSIVE hit everyone on youtube will be using it
@ImCaydenTbh22 күн бұрын
I’ll be waiting:)
@NavelNovelNova22 күн бұрын
@@ImCaydenTbh Girl everyone on KZbin is doing it right now
@ImCaydenTbh22 күн бұрын
@@NavelNovelNova lmao
@truealiban5 жыл бұрын
This song is finally getting the attention it deserves
@g1bb3rs5 жыл бұрын
Thank tik tok 😭
@lacy015 жыл бұрын
Fakieheelflips from tiktok 🤦♀️
@besraai-yingwiles14505 жыл бұрын
Its cuz of all the edits on insta and the vids from tik tok but im from insta
@selliesaurs5 жыл бұрын
AGREED !!!!!
@jonathanmendez3105 жыл бұрын
Im sure shes happy with tik tok x-x
@kaylynhtun94953 жыл бұрын
everytime i see a picture of myself i die inside
@lavinaalag3 жыл бұрын
girl same
@emilys.91953 жыл бұрын
you are beautiful and worth is in no way measured by physical appearance.
@sxukablajt62993 жыл бұрын
Same :///
@ka4tb0nes923 жыл бұрын
omg i really felt that:c
@loictag47943 жыл бұрын
Same
@-d3lus10nz-84 жыл бұрын
When I was little my dad always said “fat little girl” and when I got older I started to feel ugly and insecure about my own body Now my mom joined in with my dad of body shaming me 😍
@chumby1973 жыл бұрын
im so sorry. what an absolute fuckhead
@tinksofyee74713 жыл бұрын
your perfect the way you are
@flavoredsidewalk3 жыл бұрын
When I was in the 1st grade I got called fat by some bitch who was also In my grade and tries to act like my friend now(he said "what do you do? Eat donuts every day?" Followed by laughing) His friend who also acts like my friend now also said my eyes are far apart Guess what insecurities I have now?
@esgib13853 жыл бұрын
Drop that dad immediately
@ImLexiRomero3 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear about that. I really hope stuff gets better for you.
@Jazmin-v6g3 ай бұрын
Mi canción mas personal
@jxy935 жыл бұрын
I'm a 45 year old man and I was so moved by this song that I couldn't listen to it all the way through the first few times I heard it. It was too much for me. Well done! Easily the song of the year!
@platsew9124 жыл бұрын
wtf what r u doing here
@sakaarmathur2254 жыл бұрын
@Hailey Sioson why? A guy can't watch this song?
@quiquiquinn4 жыл бұрын
t a e o h ` / / He’s enjoying music
@imverytired97974 жыл бұрын
@@platsew912 let the man enjoy music,let people have fun with it you dont gotta be a prick lmao
@memeenthusiast14274 жыл бұрын
@@platsew912 What's your problem? He can be here if wants.
@helenaharding-ireland60004 жыл бұрын
I sang this at my school talent show in a crop top and skinny Jean's. I'm a size 12.... I got some weird looks. but I won.💅🏻
@hollyannc11143 жыл бұрын
Okay I don’t know why this doesn’t have more likes or any comments because it’s amazing and I now stan . ✨a b s o l u t l e y i c o n i c✨
@lilianamaisel14263 жыл бұрын
OKKKK QUEENNNN
@emi21223 жыл бұрын
OK WE SEE YOU
@alyssandrasofiarcenas36653 жыл бұрын
you go gurlie
@elswiftiexd3 жыл бұрын
no you didnt..
@Hannah-eg7vl4 жыл бұрын
The only thing i dont like about this song is that it ends
@zeldaharp45384 жыл бұрын
I thought this said do instead of don't and I was like WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY?
@Hannah-eg7vl4 жыл бұрын
@@zeldaharp4538 ahaha noo i love it
@yumxechxn4 жыл бұрын
Same ;-;
@user158814 жыл бұрын
Same
@lilypadyt81264 жыл бұрын
PeppaTheOG why do you care? ;-;
@iix972 ай бұрын
هواي اشخاص يقولولي انتِ حلوة ومن هذا الكلام بس ولا مرة حسيت هيج دائما اشوفني قبيحة واتمنى اتخلص من هذا الشعور، اكره نفسي🫨، هذا الكلام الي بالمستقبل في حال اذا تغيرت نظرتي لنفسي
@idiotrat68094 жыл бұрын
Most people: *crying to this song at 1am* Skinny tiktok girls making dances to this song: 🤪😚😝
@cammy2204 жыл бұрын
cough cough Addison rae
@fantasybee57944 жыл бұрын
idiot rat bruh what’s worse is that some of them post what I eat in a day-
@idiotrat68094 жыл бұрын
Fantasy Bee THAT GETS ON MY *NERVES*
@cammy2204 жыл бұрын
idiot rat yes! Me too
@Robin-lp6lx4 жыл бұрын
lmao addison advertising overpriced jeans like
@julia_biss2 жыл бұрын
The first time I listened to this I cried because the lyrics made me realize I have an eating disorder. To anyone who’s also struggling with this, you’ve got this. You are beautiful and strong and we’ll get through this together
@tatargus2 жыл бұрын
you´re beatiful bro, but dont need anyone telll you, it´s like a born thing, literally, everybody are cute from real. Cheers and have fun!
@camaiyaanderson18282 жыл бұрын
same....
@eivorss2 жыл бұрын
I hate myself :D
@serenrichards9794 Жыл бұрын
I'm under 14 years old and super insecure about my body.this song represents my brain when I look in a mirror.
@laurakae1007 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear you're battling that demon 🥺 I don't have to know you to know you have the strength to rise against. I wish all the very best for you and applaud your self-awareness. Keep fighting! 🩷🧡
@anabriceno5995 жыл бұрын
2:03 that starving gives me chills every time. it’s so perfect
@gabrielmartino94145 жыл бұрын
FunkyChunkyChicken sounded kinda flat to me idk
@patriciatamez98635 жыл бұрын
FunkyChunkyChicken I Know Right It’s MY FAVORITE Part
@sunny64835 ай бұрын
yes
@luvmooivy2 ай бұрын
i don't know why but this song's givin me goosebumps...
@isabellakim59404 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't the whole world be happy if everyone didn't have beauty standards or stereotypes in the first place
@melmxanie3 жыл бұрын
I know..
@Av1t3o3 жыл бұрын
yes
@zk-dm8iv3 жыл бұрын
If everyone Covered their bodies that could happen like the hijab some women were where u can't even see the body shape cuz it's not possible that people will see someone very beautiful and not want to be like them or not compare themselves to the person
@micahjanee3 жыл бұрын
ikr
@Yamisgood3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@carab31903 жыл бұрын
Let’s not gatekeep feeling insecure :) everyone can feel insecure even if they don’t have an ED
@bagelfish89163 жыл бұрын
Are you saying that to the girl who wrote the song?
@lvely41263 жыл бұрын
@@bagelfish8916 I'm pretty they're saying it to people who think being insecure is only for people with ed and/or mental health issues
@carab31903 жыл бұрын
@@bagelfish8916 no just to the people in the comments who try to gatekeep being insecure
@diablominero3 жыл бұрын
Also I think it's possible to technically qualify for an OSFED diagnosis just by being pigheaded enough about a safe diet, with no insecurities involved. In fact, I think I've done this, though I had no reason to go to a doctor and confirm. I want to buy myself the crucial handful of years it might take to be alive when human life extension tech becomes available. But no, apparently thinking too much about food is more dangerous than death is. Apparently we should roll over and let glycation take us at 75, when we could have had an eternity of shining future if we'd lasted naturally until 80. I know, I know, it's more important to help all the sick people than to recognize all the healthy people. It still makes me mad, though. I'm less suicidal than the average mentally healthy person, as evidenced by me taking difficult and uncommon measures to prolong my life. I'm happy and healthy and minding my own business. And these morons have the nerve to publish diagnostic criteria saying I'm wrong and sick. The Lion, the Witch, and the Audacity of This Bitch!
@DrkStrSkt3 жыл бұрын
Yooo this artist is a real one, I appreciated your comment as well after perusing these comments but did not expect to see the content creator themselves sliding you her persy email and showing appreciation directly. And she uses cool ass words like endeavor. New fan for sure, I'm glad I checked this out.
@darth-loser2 жыл бұрын
I was a teen in the 90s. This song feels like that. Gives me the warm fuzzies.
@yuenmienyu2 жыл бұрын
the pop-punk and indie rock/pop vibes. shiiii i love that kind of music
@annabagwell79652 жыл бұрын
so breeders
@zaikadelhiwaloka57132 жыл бұрын
IKR
@lynndavis92072 жыл бұрын
Yessss!!
@Kirakiwi212 жыл бұрын
@@annabagwell7965 ?
@sheldonsaidali54214 ай бұрын
i dont wanna believe this was 5 years ago 😭😭😭
@keikdi2 жыл бұрын
this hits hard when your friends does better at supporting you than your family does
@vaewens2 жыл бұрын
Fr.. 😃
@meyakookhiyara7393 Жыл бұрын
Lol y'all get support-?
@thepointispurple Жыл бұрын
Didn't have to call me out like that 😭
@raydiioactive Жыл бұрын
hits even harder when people in comment sections help you better than your friends
@francescapucciano9205 Жыл бұрын
Your family are people you've chose by your feelings, match, bonded with. It's not by blood and fate. It's like to be parent, everyone could cum inside woman or open legs, but nurturing,take care of it's an other story
@Ashleyrae115 жыл бұрын
Those dudes in the beginning tho, *ME AND THE BOYS*
@yomama55585 жыл бұрын
Lol I just imagine me walking and then seeing that
@evabba5 жыл бұрын
It's a reference to the film hot rod
@pee48515 жыл бұрын
666 - 667
@maratagon5 жыл бұрын
JUST BLONDE BOYS DOIN WHAT BLONDE BOYS DO
@6canadian6winter65 жыл бұрын
Just guys being dudes man
@ohyikes71045 жыл бұрын
As someone who constantly feels gross in their own skin, this means a lot, thank you ;w;
@certifiedsploink5 жыл бұрын
here comes dat boi SHID WADDUP
@rottendoll6065 жыл бұрын
Wanna trade?
@emi-ne1kv5 жыл бұрын
•steph c• why
@alea30855 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you are a beautyfull person from both, inside and outside💕 Have a great day! 🌻
@ViSCERA-ANIMATION5 жыл бұрын
Yea I can relate sadly
@Akuramus1cx3 ай бұрын
cant believe i saw this live ffs..
@sad_tree6753 жыл бұрын
The “I’ve never looked good in mom jeans” hits really close to home because i used to were them all the time until my brother’s gf said “those jeans aren’t really meant for your.... body type hahaha” (I’m kind of chubby) so now I don’t wear them as much :/
@izianyny3 жыл бұрын
chubby is cute!! 🥺 don't listen to them bb, wear whatever you want 🎀
@blkbarbie26713 жыл бұрын
Your brother shouldn’t let her talk to you like that. Seriously it’s one comment but it’s still not okay and he needs to be aware of the ideas she is planting in his sister’s head, maybe you shouldn’t meet often.
@tartaglia.3 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me in Y3… there were these booty shorts that everyone else was wearing. I was always awkward and terrible at making and keeping friends, always insecure that I would say something to offend them, to lose them…I suppose I was pretty annoying, always asking “are you still my friend” many times in the course of one day. I am still terrified of that, I wake up sobbing from nightmares that they all shun me… I was also quite ugly, I was chubby with stick-out teeth, thunder thighs from my swimming, hair in an unkempt ponytail, a double chin and purple glasses. I also loved reading about geology,which meant that I was constantly talking about rocks. Given this, it’s not surprising that the “cool” girls in my grade hated me. Once I was wearing a pair of those shorts, and someone from the aforementioned clique walked over to where I was sitting, nose buried in a book and she said: “You really shouldn’t wear those shorts, they’re not for you…”. Everyone nodded along, even the girl who I thought was my friend, who interjected with a sheepish “Yeah Ivy, you shouldn’t wear those.”
@orangejuice33303 жыл бұрын
@@tartaglia. I’m sorry that happened to you. Some people really just don’t think and sometimes it’s just that they are insecure themselves and want to find other people to make feel insecure as well. You are beautiful and I can say this even without seeing you because God made you a certain way just so that only you have your characteristics. And that is what is so beautiful! At this point, the world has created an ideal body type that is impossible to achieve and so if people tell you things about you that are considered “ugly” in society, just know that they have nothing better to do then make fun of your beautiful hard working organs and limbs. I wish you happiness and well being and God bless. ❤️
@okiedokie28403 жыл бұрын
Let her see this reply section :)
@hayberdasher86255 жыл бұрын
I'm a guy who's almost 50 years old, and this video made me bite my fist with emotion. You nailed it kids.
@roman58194 жыл бұрын
Wholesome
@quiquiquinn4 жыл бұрын
Ayyyy it’s you. I seen you in another one of her videos. :))))
@myreque9994 жыл бұрын
Bless your boomer heart
@whateverlolawants4 жыл бұрын
@@myreque999 Gen X
@immstarry71754 жыл бұрын
Yas boomer!!
@spencerp62434 жыл бұрын
"Beauty is pain" "You'll be happier if you're prettier" Which one is it, society? I would like to clarify this comment was a joke based on those fakedeep quotes you see everywhere, sorry to everybody who took it seriously-
@justyouraverageblacksheep21974 жыл бұрын
I like the comment but it says “ beauty is vein”
@seancadieu54004 жыл бұрын
Beauty is vain*
@spencerp62434 жыл бұрын
@@justyouraverageblacksheep2197 I wasn't quoting the song 👀
@justyouraverageblacksheep21974 жыл бұрын
Never mind if you weren’t quoting the song
@robin37464 жыл бұрын
*S* *O* *C* *I* *E* *T* *Y*
@overlockhot3l003 ай бұрын
de repente me vi en el espejo y comenzó a sonar esta canción
@whatkindofmilkareyou5 жыл бұрын
LYRICS: Shut up, count your calories I never looked good in mom jeans Wish I was like you Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body Maybe I should try harder You should lower your expectations I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for prom queen If I get more pretty Do you think he will like me? Disect my insecurities I'm a defect, surgical project It's getting hard to breathe There's plastic wrap in my cheeks Maybe I should try harder You should lower your beauty standards I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for prom queen If I'm pretty, will you like me? They say "Beauty makes boys happy" I've been starving myself Carving skin until my bones are showing Teach me how to be okay I don't wanna downplay my emotions They say "Beauty is pain You'll only be happy if you look a certain way" I wanna be okay I wanna be okay
@worldofsetsumii40205 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@whatkindofmilkareyou5 жыл бұрын
• Worldofsetsumii • no problem bro❤️
@joeey14185 жыл бұрын
Thank you ^^
@whatkindofmilkareyou5 жыл бұрын
Joeey yw😌
@megocon64545 жыл бұрын
if you dont know that ur bad
@99.5am4 жыл бұрын
Every thing about me is dark. Dark skin, dark eyes, dark hair, etc. This song does resonate with me in particular, due to the beauty standards of society constantly pressuring me to be a certain way. Hell, I even bought blue eye contacts at one point in time. For anyone in a similar situation, just know that you are beautiful and strong inside and out.😊
@fruity36934 жыл бұрын
Same
@ay23064 жыл бұрын
I can kind of relate. As a light skin black girl I knew Light skin people got treated better so I wanted to be lighter. I knew guys liked light skin girls better and that made me want to be even lighter. I would avoid the sun at all costs and watch subliminals to try and make my eyes lighter(mine are brown). I would straighten my hair everyday because I used to hate my 4c hair. All because I wanted to fit in to the "beauty standards". As I'm writing this now I feel ashamed that I ever thought this.
@hiddenahzeeyyy3 жыл бұрын
"our bodies dont define us, they're just temporary" -melanie martinez
@almaroseee3 жыл бұрын
shes so wise (人*´∀`)。*゚+
@s0371-w7j3 жыл бұрын
She was in my pfp like an hour ago but I changed it, anyways I love her
@s0371-w7j3 жыл бұрын
@@almaroseee she is uncomfortable with the name queen, she likes being called daddy as a joke please edit or delete your comment
@almaroseee3 жыл бұрын
@@s0371-w7j im so sorry i didnt know ;-; i edited the comment so its more adapted for her but thanks for telling me
@s0371-w7j3 жыл бұрын
@@almaroseee np
@Carmenmel-h8k2 ай бұрын
I know this song is about trying to love yourself in your own skin but i just wished i could be more pretty
@kermit592 ай бұрын
Why?
@picklenuggetsen8305 жыл бұрын
Nobody: Nobody at all: Me: I GO TO THAT LAUNDRY PLACE
@piercetvenjoyer20035 жыл бұрын
DUDE THATS SO COOL
@amxrelette5 жыл бұрын
THATS ACTUALLY AWESOME
@katherina68435 жыл бұрын
HeartLavender sally face omg
@susigarcia32065 жыл бұрын
EYY ME TOO 🖐🏼
@StellaKouevi-uu3se5 жыл бұрын
Woah that’s cool
@kokom03 жыл бұрын
When i was younger 6-5 i was very picky and was underweight. Everyone called me stick, tree, ramen noodle, twig, and joked about how i looked anorexic and how i needed to eat more. They judged my hair and how i looked and everything i did. Now im at normal weight but i still feel fat and ugly and now i dont know what to do.
@deadroach57353 жыл бұрын
I’m really sorry, I’m going through that shit too. Please take care of yourself, your looks do not define you as a whole you’re okay just the way you are :( ❤️
@rachelaranjo10833 жыл бұрын
it’ll get better for you I promise you, You’re beautiful and you are loved. Take care of yourself cutie
@hopkinsvonrabbitarius82333 жыл бұрын
Isn’t it funny how when ur overweight you get bullied,judged and other shit and then when ur underweight you get the same shit I don’t think this is ok I think the world is fucked up nobody should treat anyone like that I am so sorry about everything ur going threw there are days when I look in the mirror and feel fat but my friends all call me skinny I’m not sure what to do cus I’m not happy with my body but n am scared people think I starve myself love ur self thts all that matters
@meowzkiii3 жыл бұрын
i'm really sorry your going through this, as someone who went through a very similar experience and to this day still struggles with a lot of issues regarding my weight and body, i understand especially the part about not knowing what to do. i hope things get better and if you ever need to talk my insta is nobutyesyetno your beautiful and gorgeous and don't let anyone tell you otherwise :) ❤
@karolinatulik39123 жыл бұрын
If you need to talk I can listen 😢🐇 instagram: karolina.tulik
@poppylannon53264 жыл бұрын
We need to raise awareness of the fact that boys struggle with this too. I see men online with huge muscles, abs and jawlines, and I look at myself and I think that's not me. I weigh the healthy amount but I don't look it. I need to gain muscle but no matter how hard I try or how sick I feel it never changes.
@ПылевойКлещ4 жыл бұрын
ok but you don't NEED to have huge muscles! just be yourself🥺❤️
@No-sn7og4 жыл бұрын
Gives u a 🍪 cos ily n BOYS SUFFER FROM EDS N MENTAL HEALTH TOO💕💕
@Kimberly-vt6dt4 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad, girls body shame boys because they think they are too skinny and fail to realize guys deal with emotions as well. You are amazing, and if you ever need someone to talk to know I’m here. You’re amazing just the way you are! 💕
@ariesbish90934 жыл бұрын
if it makes you feel better i’m scared of buff guys
@lenl80044 жыл бұрын
I hate how people think only girls have Ed's bc guys do as well
@May._221953 ай бұрын
Yo y las q nos sentimos identificadas con la cancion: 😭
@ZoeProGamer3 ай бұрын
Si soy 😭
@hisxuii54644 жыл бұрын
It's scary how songs like these is slowly being relatable to me.
@anna-ee7kz4 жыл бұрын
Please don’t hesitate to reach out and get help, eating disorders are really serious
@alicegiacometti72694 жыл бұрын
GET HELP NOW. Believe me, i can’t even enjoy my life anymore just because of my body: i don’t go out, i can’t go to the beach, i can’t have any relationship with a boy. Please, right now isn’t too late, go to a doctor.
@hisxuii54644 жыл бұрын
@@alicegiacometti7269 I will and thank you very much for the concern♡
@bri11054 жыл бұрын
same
@lovelylondon95774 жыл бұрын
@@bri1105 yeah me too
@olmanfrey4 жыл бұрын
lyrics: sad beat: happy eyes: crying hotel: trivago
@kiwii41714 жыл бұрын
Addison Rae: wOah, cLaP, bOdy RolL 😜✌🏾
@ladygrace75854 жыл бұрын
NEGATIVITY BEGONE
@safeplace2724 жыл бұрын
KKKKKKK
@reesedavis48774 жыл бұрын
키위Zach EXACTLY 😹
@Audrey-ow1vi4 жыл бұрын
Suga : best boy
@fuckingconfused69084 жыл бұрын
I came here to say, *Girl in red could do a bomb cover of this.* Jesus stop liking this, its clogging up my youtube feed--.
@flyingpig724 жыл бұрын
yasss i was thinking exact the same thing
@jaybird47844 жыл бұрын
Yesssss pls
@ME-dk3ip4 жыл бұрын
are you by any chance gay? I really couldn't tell
@lux19754 жыл бұрын
change ur pfp, that’s the terf version of the lesbian flag
@Άπόλλωνχρυσολύρης4 жыл бұрын
This flag does not include transwomen You should use the pink and orange one, not the pink and red
@sogochii4 жыл бұрын
im 11 and i know that I'm not supposed to have social media, but I do anyway. I see all these girls with flat tummies, and a perfect waist. And I want to be like them. I'm so fat, I have belly rolls. I would cry myself to sleep because of my weight and how big my hands were and my facial structure. I was so jealous of what other people looked like. I wanted a change. So, I started to work out I did it every day. I slowed down on my eating habits. Bc I wanted to be like them so badly. Thank goodness it wasn't that serious. I just realized that this isn't me. And I shouldn't try to change myself at a young age. I am perfect the way I am. I shouldn't try to change myself. I'm still insecure about a little things like my big hands but I'm working on loving myself completely. I'm in middle school and I've dealt with bullying since elementary school. I just wanted to tell you all that you're beautiful the way you are. Don't try to change yourself, your body is perfect. You are awesome, you have a meaning to this world. I love you God loves you. You are not alone in this battle, there are so many people struggling with you. You'll get through this, I promise you. ❤️ I love you so much, please remember that. ❤️
@Melissa-qf5yr4 жыл бұрын
Omg this made me cry 🥺✌🏼❤️
@yourlittlevenicebtch42584 жыл бұрын
lillie I hope you’re ok, stay strong
@celesticatedS0S4 жыл бұрын
This is a reason why i feel like social media shouldn’t be given to younger kids because it messes with your standards and makes you feel bad because of the beauty standards
@sogochii4 жыл бұрын
@@celesticatedS0S Yeah, i agree. I deleted Instagram and I just have KZbin and tiktok where I watch funny videos now.
@apriicotte_69334 жыл бұрын
Everyone is wonderful in their own way :)
@unapologeticallyu7193 жыл бұрын
When did I decide I was ugly? Was it when I first learnt the word pretty Or when someone called me petty What is when I was seven When I believed in hell and heaven Was it when I was nine And what was the first sign Was it when I was thirteen When I saw models on magazines Did this happen suddenly That I stopped feeling hungry Where did I decide I was ugly? Was it one evening in front of mirror Or in school where I was considered inferior Was it when I was always made tree in school play Or did the realization dawn on me little by little each passing day Was it when I dressed up and went to a party Or when a returned and cried as friends called me dorky Was it when I first saw how I looked in pictures Or when relatives assured me 'honey you'll be fine with a few fixtures' Why did I decide I was ugly? Is it because we live in a world with mirrors Or is it because we are judgemental creatures I wish I never thought I was ugly I wouldn't have felt this melancholy I wouldn't have wasted my time wondering all this It's true they say ignorance is a bliss
@crowcussion3 жыл бұрын
👏
@snitchzerboo3 жыл бұрын
i wish i was at least a bit good looking I can't even take picture without feeling ugly
@spiegl87493 жыл бұрын
this is beautiful
@LyntzbartzkyPerez3 жыл бұрын
D-did you write this? Because if you wrote this off the top of your head you have some INSANE talent
@user-eo3tb1lc7p3 жыл бұрын
this is beautiful
@lunaperez17473 ай бұрын
This song inspires me💗 thank you Beach Bunny for making me feel better of my insecurities ✋🩵
@izzybobizzyy5 жыл бұрын
0:00 real footage of me and the bois dancing at the club
@eggboiledd5 жыл бұрын
Facts.
@vjl2224 жыл бұрын
You like jazz?
@zziaoe69404 жыл бұрын
Jade_bug UwU ya like jazz?
@nanumaya29402 жыл бұрын
Lyrics Shut up, count your calories I never looked good in mom jeans Wish I was like you Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body Maybe I should try harder You should lower your expectations I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for prom queen If I get more pretty Do you think he will like me? Dissect my insecurities I'm a defect, surgical project It's getting hard to breathe There's plastic wrap in my cheeks Maybe I should try harder You should lower your beauty standards I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for prom queen If I'm pretty, will you like me? They say, "Beauty makes boys happy" I've been starving myself Carving skin until my bones are showing Teach me how to be okay I don't wanna downplay my emotions They say, "Beauty is pain You'll only be happy if you look a certain way" I wanna be okay I wanna be okay
@jennyperocillo26032 жыл бұрын
thank you for the lyrigs:)
@meimei86872 жыл бұрын
@@jennyperocillo2603 yeah
@gamerbiasa97772 жыл бұрын
GG
@blak37032 жыл бұрын
"Beauty is vain"
@salvadorbanariav44582 жыл бұрын
Ty i red the liricsnhehe
@lumifinlow-bates47595 жыл бұрын
LYRICS Shut up, count your calories I never looked good in mom jeans Wish I was like you Blue-eyed blondie, perfect body Maybe I should try harder You should lower your expectations I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for prom queen If I get more pretty Do you think he will like me? Disect my insecurities I'm a defect, surgical project It's getting hard to breathe There's plastic wrap in my cheeks Maybe I should try harder You should lower your beauty standards I'm no quick-curl barbie I was never cut out for prom queen If I'm pretty, will you like me? They say "Beauty makes boys happy" I've been starving myself Carving skin until my bones are showing Teach me how to be okay I don't wanna downplay my emotions They say "Beauty is vain You'll only be happy if you look a certain way" I wanna be okay I wanna be okay
@szkri5 жыл бұрын
*pain
@TR-eh1uz5 жыл бұрын
@@szkri no it's vain
@szkri5 жыл бұрын
@@TR-eh1uz search it on genius and see it for yourself then
@royce86235 жыл бұрын
@@szkri sorry, how does 'beauty is vain' not make sense?
@szkri5 жыл бұрын
@@royce8623 sis I didn't say it doesn't make sense, I said it's not right and look it up on genius
@AmeliaYTRblxАй бұрын
0:47 is where the audio starts
@MikeastilllovesalannieАй бұрын
Ty
@randomdoggo948920 күн бұрын
Ty
@Yourlocalbannana17 күн бұрын
Me
@ZainD-Broks116 күн бұрын
Ty
@tthecatts13 күн бұрын
you scums just listen toofficial audio
@pokidoki68295 жыл бұрын
sadly, i can relate. thanks to this song, i feel less lonely!
@titiangelina42635 жыл бұрын
poki doki I’m here for you so are many others you’re so strong you can do this!
@mypenisisunbelievablysmall88865 жыл бұрын
Doubt it
@harrybishop21504 жыл бұрын
The 8,577 dislikes are from everyone that looks good in mom jeans.
@doghaver43434 жыл бұрын
IM WHEEZING LMAO
@josephmoyano4 жыл бұрын
XD
@gorillazfan_forlife14274 жыл бұрын
Lol your lucky u got a heart
@flowerzaldc40694 жыл бұрын
And who are blue eye blondies
@melanierubio36634 жыл бұрын
@@flowerzaldc4069 With perfect bodies.
@brad99594 жыл бұрын
it’s okay girls, AND GUYS the right person will love you no matter what x
@tinyalternate3 жыл бұрын
Needed this
@flavoredsidewalk3 жыл бұрын
Thank you😌
@KRA-yt5pg3 жыл бұрын
What if I never meet her though?
@deceasedmoth25503 жыл бұрын
@@KRA-yt5pg you will
@az-qp3gm3 жыл бұрын
I think we shouldn't expect to find love if we don't learn to love ourselves first ( in my opinion)
@MiguelCortez-bg1ek20 күн бұрын
1:42 I'm not a Barbie
@Kittenlovers-love6 күн бұрын
❤
@wabi-sabi56215 жыл бұрын
So, many people say that Tiktok ruins good songs but Tiktok has actually helped me find so many good songs actually.
@emllyjade5 жыл бұрын
Ephemeral Faodail same!!
@briannacimoch48905 жыл бұрын
same!!
@angieidk37075 жыл бұрын
facts
@Kirill-rc5ng5 жыл бұрын
Same
@sleeperawake5 жыл бұрын
Faisal Mehmood فيصل عيب وش ذا الكلام
@tonys.51146 ай бұрын
“Maybe I should try harder, you should lower your expectations.” That hits home so hard 😭
@risunturu5 ай бұрын
😭😭
@Alexx_O_X4 ай бұрын
Yea
@fandeFede-l4y3 ай бұрын
1:06
@Huntdogg-k3x2 ай бұрын
I feel you I’m 12 years old boy and I get bullied at school because I’m 165 pounds
@Suffering_is_2nd_nature_2_me24 күн бұрын
Your weights not bad
@quinncorbin52615 жыл бұрын
You ever just deep dive into the internet and find bomb ass music that you 100% vibe with?!? Me too
@krispy37905 жыл бұрын
Wow a song with half a mil views you really dove deep!
@80sfather495 жыл бұрын
Your so deep right now :0000
@cindyyrcontreras5 жыл бұрын
For realll
@littlenightmare42025 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but not this song
@ballfart42055 жыл бұрын
this has 500k views it isnt obscure by any standards lmao
@silviaarriaza549017 күн бұрын
I love this song
@MagikRabbitt5 жыл бұрын
BAAAH I FREAKING LOVE YOU you are a blue eyed blondie perfect everything you rock girl
@beachbunnymusic5 жыл бұрын
bunnyholly I love you too 💕
@kawiiakitten61055 жыл бұрын
@@beachbunnymusic I just found your music its amazing!!❤❤❤❤❤☺
@user-nd9oz1ph6m3 жыл бұрын
This song has a really powerful message, I wish that they didn’t have to apologize for it :(
@killme47633 жыл бұрын
Wait wdym? Did people try to cancel them or something??
@emuuya27453 жыл бұрын
@@killme4763 i think so,That’s what some other people in the comments said
@mocaranislife3 жыл бұрын
@@emuuya2745 what why tho?
@sauceyfridge86292 жыл бұрын
@@mocaranislife they were saying it’s because they are “promoting Ed’s”
@shrekstoenails95972 жыл бұрын
yeah
@CharlieBoyyy6965 жыл бұрын
I’m going to say it... You aren’t a real fan if you get mad about an underrated artist getting more exposure. Also, liking underrated artist isn’t a personality trait
@monique37665 жыл бұрын
Finally, someone with some freaking sense
@ren12455 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@themadtitanthanos5 жыл бұрын
Wow that's very true
@chrism48865 жыл бұрын
I’m happy for them but did it have to be TikTok?
@mm-jw2xz5 жыл бұрын
i completely agree, but in the defense of people who get mad or whatever,, it can be scary when your idols get popular. i don’t know why,, maybe it’s because of the fear of them becoming industry plants or them not appreciating their fans like they used to. i’m not a fan of this band, but i’ve liked people in the past who gained popularity and i was happy for them,, just scared tho
@rubylovelet18032 ай бұрын
My ex husband always had something to say about my looks, I wasn’t skinny enough, then I was too skinny and needed to eat more. One day I realized as he was comparing me to his friends wife that he was right I needed to lose the extra weight. And so I left him and instantly lost 300lbs.
@AicaiBui2 ай бұрын
Bro is the extra weight 💀
@ValG-io3xt2 ай бұрын
Good for you!!! That’s so impressive.
@shadeeino1234 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe straight tiktok made this song into a dance Edit: 👁- thanks for the likes??
@tracyreznik70944 жыл бұрын
Shadee Ino *cough* addison rae *cough*
@xxcherrypandasxx77354 жыл бұрын
*COUGH* ADDISON
@soIeils4 жыл бұрын
*COUGH* AND THROWING IT BACK TO *COugH* A SONG ABOUT EDS
@avarie67714 жыл бұрын
I HAVENT BEEN ON TIKTOK IN A MONTH THEY DID NOT JHGFFRRFGHUOKPL
@shadeeino1234 жыл бұрын
Avarie Mendenall they did
@toastysalads1995 жыл бұрын
"Teach me how to be okay" That hit differently ngl
@cocktailflicklepooOfficial4 жыл бұрын
These are the lyrics to the song!!!!!!! "Shut up count your calories!" "I never looked good in mom jeans." "Wish I was be like you." "Blue eyed blondie perfect body." "Maybe I should try harder." "You should lower your expectations." "I'm no quick curl barbie." "I was never cut out for prom queen." "If i'm (If i'm) pretty do you think he will like me?" "Disect my insecurities." "I'm a defect surgical progect." "It's getting hard to breath." "This plastic wrap in my cheeks." "Maybe I should try harder." "You should lower your beauty standards." "I'm no quick curl barbie." "I was never cut out for prom queen." "If i'm pretty will you like me?" "They say beauty makes boys happy." "I've been starving myself!" "Carving skin til my bones are showing." "Teach me how to be ok." "I don't wanna die blame my emotions." "They say beauty is pain!" "You'll only be happy if you look a certain way." *Guitar Sounds* "I wanna be ok!!" *Guitar sounds* "I wanna be ok!!" *Lot"s of big brain guitar sounds*
@ellarosebumss36184 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@clonecommander26004 жыл бұрын
*guitar sounds* Haha
@pookie61794 жыл бұрын
I was having a hard time finding out what those noises were thanks for telling me that they were guitar sounds 🤓
@tattyrosfer50594 жыл бұрын
I find comments of lyrics so i could sing it in my head :𝔻
@lostar7814 жыл бұрын
I’m almost all of those things listed yet I still feel ugly 😃