I asked queer folks in O Bar about dating in Manila | Ted Talks | Theodore Boborol

I went to O Bar, one of the top Manila gay bars, for the first time, and interviewed some people about queer dating in Manila. You will be surprised by their answers.
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[@jpherreramdrn]

It's really difficult to find someone to make relationship with. And it's true that there's no perfect person but the key is always the 3 C's - Communicate, Compromise and Commit.

[@jonathanbalagtas848]

Now a days, indeed it is very difficult to have a romantic relationships between 2 men. Unlike in the 80's, 90's and early 2k. ...Its because of someone's attitude, prespective, and mind-set. And the absence of "challenge" and absence of commitment.

[@20knighty]

i like the 2nd Kuya’s advice, halatang yung mga nasabi nya base on his experienced in 10 years grabe, sana all tlga😅mahirap nman tlga maghanap kse yung iba ikama lang ang hanap🤦🏻‍♂️

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

True

[@JohnDoe-fk6uu]

hui this is fun! No one does this in the Philippines. I love the rawness of answers and the different perspectives about gay dating. Please make more videos like this pls!!

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Awww thank you. I'm really hoping to get to film another video like this.

[@randyfernando4442]

@@JohnDoe-fk6uu ryt??? I love that I get to see the club scene in the Philippines! 😍👏🌈🥂

[@boomgrey2036]

2nd guy grabe wisdom. pwedeng honorary support person/ mentor sa next sparks camp

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Haha true

[@cutebalddiver]

20 years with my 1st but we divorced in 2017 ( we’re still friends though) and now 8 years with my 2nd with an age difference of 29 years! He’s a doctor and future caregiver 🤭

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

@@cutebalddiver Wow sa 29 years!

[@randyfernando4442]

spontaneous at mabangooo!!!!! 🤣 infairness cute naman si kuya ! 🥰

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Haha thanks for watching!

[@randyfernando4442]

@@TheodoreBoborol79 yes! I love this survey eme direk! 😍👏

[@SomewellGadiane]

9:42 di ko nagets yung IG. Huhu. Interesting guy. 🥰

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Sorry wala akong noise cancellation mic

[@RRzlopez6700]

Its the opposite Baron! here in the province mas wild. Recycled ang ka hook ups kasi community is smaller. I preferred sa big city, matino naman ung iba

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

That's an interesting perspective!

[@loujoa]

Sana may list ng mga IG accounts, sa description 😅

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Haha! Sensya na! That night ko lang din sila nameet. Next time! Pag makagawa ulit ako ng ganitong content.

[@Dpageantbuff]

The 2nd guy Yun pastry chef gave some really good advice!

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

I agree!

[@baduy1036]

Matalino si Kuya sa mga Questions.. may sense.

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Salamat!

[@retailryph]

Love this! 🧡🧡🧡

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Thank you!

[@akosinubitah]

relate sa 2nd guy sa planetromeo,,, only, i didnt find my one true love yet. anyway, life

[@reynaldobumatayjr.3678]

nice video. nice content. real and raw.

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Thanks for appreciating!

[@jasper1178]

Ako single direk! tagal na. hahaha

[@nursedada]

ka miss mag O… ❤❤❤

[@basamotkaynard1940]

Mga 30's ang fre fresh nila

[@akosinubitah]

Medyo malakas background noise sa loob ng club. Hehe

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Wala akong magandang mic :(

[@dylan_3114]

In all fairness karamihan ang babata tingnan nung mga nasa 30s na nainterview, ano pong secret? 😮

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

@@dylan_3114 Pag may chance ako, yun ang next kong tatanungin. 40s na kasi ako. Hehe

[@shamc8325]

Mahirap sa Pilipinas kasi everyone has very high standards. Kahit mga panget. Kaya yung talagang guapo either taken na with another guapo or nakaangkla na sa mayaman. Yung iba naman kahit meron interesado puros yung kapintasan ang nakikita. Hindi ganyan sa ibang bansa. Sa ibang bansa pag nagkakoneksyon ka with someone khit mas guapo o mas chaka ka sa kanya..usually it’s given a chance. Masyado marami nagmamaganda sa Manila. Kahit saan ka oumunta na gay spot ganyan. Mga di naman kagandahan pero ang gusto model

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Awww keep the faith

[@PEWPlays]

swerte nalang tlga, hindi ko na kailangan magBar hopping at dating apps para makilala yung soulmate ko.

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

You’re lucky indeed

[@jajagaela5219]

Ano po ig ni 3rd guy?

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Di ko po alam, sorry

[@reynaldobumatayjr.3678]

wait... director ka sir di ba?

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Yes po

[@tancready9180]

in demand or demanding hahaah

[@ninicast7570]

hirap nga kasi mostly walang sense kausap iba puro landian habol at ons lang

[@macman2132]

"Their is no such thing as a monogamous relationship" Me: ahhhh, malantod 🤣

[@crush9lfe]

Red flag 🚩🚩🚩… sounds like he has a lot of unresolved traumas. Run Sis!!

[@SebastianAlex_LifeAdventures]

Anong name ng 3rd guy he looks like korean ..ano Ig nya haha

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Sinabi niya! Pa-lipread na lang sorry. Lowtech kasi mic ko.

[@scottiandiaz1268]

Hi Kim, gusto mo ba makapunta sa amerika?? hahaahhahh

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Hahaha harot po

[@boyetarizala2992]

15:15 😘

[@GQ-ul1rl]

Natatangahan Lang ako Sa question na: "Sa guapo mong Yan bakit Ka single" Such a backward thinking.

[@TheodoreBoborol79]

Sorry po. It was meant to be taken lightly para ma relax siya pero sorry if it appeared tanga.

[@kristofferabellon2734]

Not necessarily. let's admit that dating starts with physical attraction. So, if someone attractive is single, the next question would be, why. What underlying issues are there, since obviously it's not a superficial reason. Unlike kc sa atin na d kapogian or walang abs, alam na natin na konti lng choices natin at onti lng magkakainteres satin. 😊

[@GQ-ul1rl]

@@kristofferabellon2734 and you never ask why someone is single. "Why" is something people should be careful to use specially when you're not a trained psychologist. There are other polite questions such as, "when was you last relationship? or "Are you in the dating scene?"