How to deal with your man and his 'ex' life

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[@adelinewurzer4533]

and my husband does have an ex wife and children but I wouldn't even be with him in the first place if he had a "special connection" with his ex wife just because they had children together. she was extremely abusive to him and he doesn't feel any sort of "connection" to her, and I think it's strange that some women would be okay with that shit.

[@janebaker4912]

Never going to be with a single dad ever again. Never. Ever. Ever. When I first met him two years again he worked with his ex's mum, had his ex's dog, his ex's debt. He changed all that but he still did everything his ex wanted. I was number three below his daughter and his ex. If I had any needs I was put in my place. He'd use the dad card to control me. I feel your video is too harsh on us women. The all holy God of the father does no wrong? We can ask for anything? We can't have needs? I'm never going to be a unpaid nanny and maid and third again.he rings me crying and drops over sometimes many times a day. I'm weak- that's why I stayed, but I don't want to do it.

[@lorrainesmith4279]

Good for you girl.

[@adelinewurzer4533]

I think this video was a lil harsh as well. I'm married to a man who's been married before and has children with that ex. of course I understand him caring for his children and loving them, I would never ask for him to stop caring for his children. but that being said, he doesn't still have a "family" with them and his ex wife, he has children and they are coparenting until the kids are grown. there's no "special connection" that this woman speaks of and to say that he has a life and a family with his ex wife and children is strange to me because in my situation, this isn't true.

[@angardose9197]

Im havin a hard time dealing with the same issues these days. Thank you for the advice. 🥺

[@bosedeadeyemo5508]

Me too

[@ayakowilliams4571]

And me!

[@isabeltaylor1]

A woman who is an expert on men and all their stereotypes. Wow! 🙄

[@tylermatoff9504]

I hate my ex. I talk to her as little as possible ... I watched this happen to my recent ex love ... I did every thing I could to avoid all of this... but my ex baby mama is great at using all of the doubts and fears you listed that women have in this situation .. and I have found that no matter how much I love any woman I meet ... I will never be able to make her happy ... it kills me that I have made the decisions I have made and I have lost my chance to have a real love ... it's hard to accept being stuck in a world of hate and being alone ... but it seems that even trying to date would be cruel on my part to who ever I tried to love and who would have to settle for a life with me ... at least I know it needs to be this way ... ladies i wish you all the love and happiness going forward .. best wishes

[@BeckyWalshcom]

If you are as open and articulate as you are in this post I know the right woman is going to jump all over you for any scrap of you she can have! I think women think they want to be 'Number 1' in a man's life. And yet love a man who is serving his purpose in the world. If he has a child, that purpose has to include all his children. The world has enough screwed up grown ups!

[@adelinewurzer4533]

I'm sure you will make a woman very very happy one day, please don't let your abusive ex manipulate you life this :(

[@butterflybabysmith7180]

I have this 2 deal with my man still carry a torch for his ex

[@Lindathemightywitch]

Break up! Spare yourself from the torture!

[@hypnotherapistgurudebraann6013]

Actually avoid the word "feel" this triggers an automatic defense in men .

[@Kindlycallmecarebear]

Love your thumbnail. Very clever.

[@adelinewurzer4533]

wait I think I might be the man in my relationship then. because my husband thinks of love the way you described women do, and I think of love the way men do.

[@BeckyWalshcom]

That happens. Still makes a good match.

[@Lindathemightywitch]

Please stop generalizing and say that someone would love someone less

[@JMF1992]

Good video, rare.

[@BeckyWalshcom]

Thank you x

[@Phoenix-bm6sr]

This was bad to watch