Bedroom Design Mistakes (and how to fix them!)

Where the magic may or may not happen... So many ways to get it wrong, but also so many ways to get it right... today, we're talking about the most important room in the house, the bedroom! From lighting to headboards, we're coving every inch to get you the most relaxing and cozy space possible.
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[@einahsirro1488]

I make my bed perfectly every morning too, because it makes people think I'm a serial killer, so no one ever asks me to baby-sit their kids.

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Hahaha! Love this 🤣

[@ChrisstinaMorgan]

Windows in bedroom reminded my argument with my husband when I was almost screaming: there 4 huge window in this bedroom, and they exist to be open sometimes, not left shuttered, locked and completely covered with block out blinds all the time. I'm not even going to mention the view:)

[@Coromi1]

A German test magazine reviewed mattrasses and favored a medium or rather low priced one. They also recommend a rigid slatted frame underneath - the cheap solution. I use that mattress, it is fine. Don't let ads and influencers scare you into believing that a bed must be expensive for healthy, comfy sleep.

[@carolefreeman2544]

I have always made my bed first thing after I get up since I was a child. I can’t imagine not doing it 😮

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Yes! Thank you, I’m so glad I’m not the only one 🥰

[@jacklynnmjackson2383]

You do let it air out first, right?

[@carolefreeman2544]

@@jacklynnmjackson2383 I do and I spray it with free breeze first

[@judithrobinson8344]

I let mine air first

[@elainstill1671]

I haven't always but as an adult make my bed before I leave the house for work or errands. Never thought it was a cereal killer vibe... 😳😂

[@beautyizeasy]

I’m never going to see my parents’ upholstered bed frame the same again after watching this video

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Haha! Oh no! I let you into the world of knowing things we didn’t need to know 🤣

[@hecz250]

A 60-30-10 video would be much appreciated pls and thank you

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Adding to my list 🥰

[@lorrainebonilla8052]

I LOVE your sense of humor and your tip to.😅

[@rubiscastro1953]

You keep saying you’re going to get rid of the faux plant. Might I suggest a giveaway for those of us who have cats that will literally eat any living plant we bring into our home?

[@mrphoenixgrey]

My furniture came in to replace the backdrop next week! Haha

[@kymandrew1850]

There's nothing I haven't called my cat when it comes to houseplants 😅

[@jamiekallio9301]

Train your cat better

[@LoveandMisses]

​@@jamiekallio9301Train a cat lmao

[@timhazeltine3256]

​@@LoveandMissesPrecisely.

[@sarbeyinwonderland]

It doesn't make you sound like a serial killer, just maybe like someone without a dust mite allergy. 😅 When mine got worse, I got rid of everything but my pillow and duvet which I throw back in the morning to air out the bed. I really miss a perfectly made bed, but I feel so much better when I go to bed now 😁 Loved the video 👍🏻

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Thanks so much for watching 🥰

[@lindakleiner5734]

I’m glad you mentioned fans so many designers give advice to remove them and I’ve never understood that. Love you leaving the bloopers (or not 😂) your humour could be said as off but I enjoy it and makes you more seem like a friend over chatting. You give so much info other don’t. ❤

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Awe thank you! I try to be as genuine as possible. I have a very dry sense of humour and sometimes can be funny 😆

[@lindakleiner5734]

Oh and I loved you suit coat. Really suited you.

[@The_Smith]

Great video DD, I'm looking forward to your colour video! I'll need to do some thinking on layered lighting . . . my actual bedroom is in an attic space tucked under the slope of the roof, quite small and cosy and yes, I'm also one of those freaks who has to make his bed every morning, just something about getting into a nicely made bed at the end of a day feels so lux to me compared to crawling into a tangled pit of sheets and blankets . . .

[@suleimadali]

you're such a delight! i love your quirks and unexpected jokes

[@Cynthia_108]

I can't imagine why anyone would make fun of you, Phoenix but if they do just ignore them! Your design advice is hands down the best out there. Making the bed every morning is not just a neat freak thing, it helps set a positive tone for the day. Where do you find all those photos of amazing rooms? You are a joy to watch, keep making corny jokes please!😅

[@mrphoenixgrey]

You are so kind, thank you for watching and so happy you enjoyed 🥰

[@patrickryan6317]

Almost fell off my seat - I agree with EVERYTHING !! Beautiful smile

[@willmulligan2216]

Loved this ♥️♥️…I’m ex-military and I have to make my bed 1st thing…or my day just isn’t right..and love walking into my bedroom in resort readiness…Yes, I’m in hotel mgmt..I lost everything during Covid and live in a shoebox…wish I knew you to help with this 400 sqft studio 😪

[@mrphoenixgrey]

I’m so glad I’m not the only one with this mentality 🥰 I’m sorry to hear that. I live in a shoebox in the sky myself, designing everyone’s dream homes - except for mine. Yet! 🥰

[@willmulligan2216]

@@mrphoenixgrey your talent will give you a gorgeous Connecticut estate with a Penthouse in the city..just watch 😘

[@TheSushmaHomeSellingTeam]

Bedroom can be so really challenging to design but having this kind of recommendations and advises, it can be so exciting to do. 🥰🥰

[@jamesscherrer1642]

I have to admit that the idea of you being dominant in your space interests me. Your smile and the little giggle you display so frequently really make you someone I enjoy paying attention to. You're somewhat of a "real" person! Very, very enjoyable while at the same time sharing VERY relevant information. Over time, I have found that you exude a wide array of knowledge and are quite talented. (Not to mention absolutely gorge-OUS!!) I hope that doesn't offend anyone but GET REAL! He's a stunner, seems incredibly kind and always lighthearted. How CAN wan we ask for more?? Seriously. Thank you for your wonderful, spot-on advice. Gotta run and make my bed. (KIDDING!... its already made!!)

[@femkevanwageningen6068]

He made me count my bedroom lights. It's 6 with a broken 7th. Only 1 from above and that is a really warm one. If I need bright white light for something I have a magnet desk ligt for that. Almost everything is warm and local

[@Jimenezgyna]

I want a minimalist bedroom definitely working towards that goal. Thanks for the wonderful tips.

[@mrphoenixgrey]

You’re most welcome, so happy to help

[@HR-re6mr]

this vid was hilarious. Love the education too!

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Thank you 😊 there were too many jokes there not to include lol

[@kitty_s23456]

Having a painting or open shelves above the bed is bad feng shui. Aside from the energy/ chi part, I'm paranoid that the painting or stuff on the shelves will fall on me if there's an earthquake. (I live in an earthquake prone area.)

[@justinepi1104]

I'm afraid that some spiders, or bugs will hide under the picture frames and will fall on my head in the night 🙈😂

[@lidarandolph8322]

I can’t sleep without my Dyson fan! ❤

[@mrphoenixgrey]

I’m glad I’m not the only one 🤍

[@jcs3330]

I agree. I make my bed daily, only because it makes it more inviting for me to return to at the end of the evening. (I also have all my bedroom wall cavities filled with Stearns & Foster Mattresses to 'dampen and absorb'....I'm SUPER LOUD!).

[@briangallentine3810]

???

[@briangallentine3810]

You're a SCREAMER?

[@dolorescordell129]

This guys has such sensible advice!

[@davidbarnes1113]

I have a jr one bedroom with a very small 12x12 room. I can only put the bed under the larger of my two windows. I didn’t want it directly under the window, but honestly it only works there. I just had to have drapery panels, but couldn’t raise them all the way to the ceiling because there’s a soffit above the window (hate it) . Yes, my room is as you say dark and moody. My dominate color is deep chocolate brown, but I contrast it with grays and white. I did make sure the headboard did not exceed the window sill.

[@Lisa-jm3nk]

Great advice. Love your videos and I am supremely here for your saucy commentary.

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Gotta have some fun with it 🥰

[@melvaperunko42]

I'm thinking of going with dark teal and blush for my bedroom redo. It would be appreciated if you would make a video addressing color combos. You rock and I'm so happy that you aren't pushing grey, grey gray. I've even had trouble buying a house because every flipper seems to believe that's the only color that sells. Grey rant over. Sorry

[@walterfoyt5985]

I’m also one of those weirdos that makes his bed everyday and am not a serial killer either. 🤣I loved your video but there are a few things I would add. With respect to art, it should be something that is very sensual and relaxing. Not something the disturbs your sleep. Also there are certain thing that don’t belong in a bedroom. The first one is a TV. I know a lot of people are going to disagree but a bedroom is for two purposes, one of the is sleeping and the other is not watching TV. I would also add workout equipment and a work area, they both can disrupt sleep. I live in a condo in the city on the 15th floor, which has great views but the windows don’t open so I like your idea of getting an air purifier. I just need to find one that is not overly bulky and distorted the aesthetics of the room

[@mrphoenixgrey]

I couldn’t agree with you more! I am very much against the TV in the bedroom. It throws off the entire dynamic

[@pitchy3178]

I always make my bed every morning as well.😊.

[@dabigdikdangler]

On all these design channels one topic I've never seen addressed before is sound dampening, kudos to you!

[@billegbert6262]

❤your vids! Always very helpful and saucy!

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Awe thank you so much! I like to have fun with it.

[@myrahouse2368]

He always makes me smile… as well as being interesting.

[@gunniepark]

Hey loved the video!! Would love to see chapters to make the video a little easier to navigate. Awesome tips I definitely will be using these in my own bedroom! 🔥🔥

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Thanks for the feedback! I’ll have my team put this together moving forward 🥰

[@RobbieTullos]

Omg stop with the whole lie that you cannot use your overhead light in your bedroom or your living room. We do this all day long in a dining room. A kitchen a foyer. And let me tell you if I'm going to purchase a Sean Levin light fixture you can damn well make sure that I will be turning that light on for eternity so you can see my light fixture. So people yes use your overhead lighting. It gives you a greater circumference. If you're in the living room, use the overhead lighting if you're working on a project. If you're doing puzzles, the overhead lighting is there for a reason.

[@evianeyousef]

Hello, and thank you for today’s video, but explain for me why it is a divided question when it comes to having faux plants for some interior designers, while for me it’s fine having it if it looks well made and quite real, like orchids, I own 2 of them. And trust me they look more real than the real Stuff 😊

[@syruscloud7277]

thats more of an authenticity thing.plants are living organisms and replacing them with plastic gives some people the ick. same goes for things like fake books on shelves or eating off of plastic plates. removing the very essence and purpose of something just for astethic can come across as shallow and tacky. of course you can do it for some nice pictures but designers will probably roll their eyes. having said that. i also cant always keep my plants alive and honestly don´t have the patience to look after them. a good alternative are dried flowers imo.

[@kitty_s23456]

A designer who practices feng shui said that plants shouldn't be in the bedroom, because they have too much active energy (they're alive) and the bedroom should be restful. If you opt for fake plants or flowers, she recommended those made of silk.

[@brendapollock49]

Wow! You look sharp today!😊

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Thank you so much 🤍

[@ThekimG313]

How did you know that I needed this video? I’m so glad I made the right choices for my bedroom design! Thanks 😊. You were so on point with the scale advice and mattress advice! Yes. My Chanel bag is STILL a bit more expensive but I did buy a great mattress too 🤣🤣. Loved that!

[@mrphoenixgrey]

It’s hard to beat a Chanel. But if you have both, even better 🙏🏼

[@g.e.2900]

Just found your channel and subscribed. I love your advice, especially on bedding. I use bamboo sheets and love them. Thanks for a great video. ❤

[@cynthiacrumlish4683]

Yes on the 60 30 10 tutorial!

[@mrphoenixgrey]

It’s posted! Hope it helps 🤍

[@debrahill2272]

I had to make my bed daily when I was a child soon as my feet hit the floor..As an adult I only do it when changing the bedding weekly or when guests are coming over..Therefore I request a 24 hours notice before visiting to have time to make my bed......😃😀😲

[@sdophoto1405]

Great video. Would love to know more about the 60-30-10. I am starting to redo my primary bedroom in our condo. I have had a darker colour for a long time but I am wanting to create a different look. Trim is decorators white and I am doing the walls in Coventry Grey (sorry I know it is grey). Fabric headboard panels in black. Black nightstands. No dresser as all clothes are going to be in the re done closets. An accent chair. White duvet. I am looking at wall scones and some other type of accent lighting. I have always wanted a bedroom in these tones which to me is relaxing and quiet.

[@omg9261]

Love your channel. Every time I open a new video I check the amount of subscribers "Has he already get his million?" and every time it I find it weird that "not yet". Such a weird feeling. Every time I see your new video I think that your video should be viral and the very next one is going to be a viral one. (Sorry for my broken English. I'm not a native, but I guess you got what I mean)

[@mrphoenixgrey]

My goodness you are so kind! Thank you 🥰🤍🥰 I’ve hit 1M across all my platforms, but not KZbin yet, slowly working on it. We only got it started half way through this year, so I can’t wait to see where it takes me and what comes next :)

[@DahHar117]

Yes, color is SO HARD for me. Please do more. And, how do I choose a paint color?

[@mrswang5574]

SOS. We need bedroom colors. Comfy cozy > bright and eclectic. Video, please!

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Adding to my list 🤍

[@tslilbearshoppe9870]

yes do the color video pleeeeeeeeeez. Also what to do when the bedroom is huge how to arrange the furniture. There's room enough for a sitting area. Thanks

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Just filmed it this week so stay tuned 🥰

[@user-zs8mm4rv9f]

the most useful and funny interior design channel! thank you from Paris

[@mrphoenixgrey]

You are so kind! Merci 🤍🤍🤍

[@williamsauve6058]

Funny Funny Funny. Bet Video EVER. Love from Ottawa

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Had to throw in the jokes for this one. Too many opportunities 🥰🤣🤣🤣

[@mariagomes9882]

Should I add an area rug in the bedroom? Ty

[@williamsauve6058]

BEST BEST BEST

[@decoratingwithjoshaywoods7580]

This has to be my favorite video of yours so far!!!! Love bedroom design and the dirty sex jokes 😏!!! This video is full of great advice that's tride and true to create to ultimate bedroom experience whether it's getting some rest or getting your cheeks clapped 👏!!! Design Daddy this video is chef's kiss 💋 boo!!!

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Awe thank you so so much! There were too many set ups not to have jokes in this one 🤣

[@nataliachacon9916]

Great videos, DD! Want to ask you how the landscape mural fits into 60/30/10 rules? Thank you!

[@olgavernor280]

Agree with every word

[@rebelliousraven]

Yes re the 60/30/10 rule video

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Adding to my list 💪🏼

[@FlameMirage]

spotlight over the bed wink wink HAHAHA. I would die if I had that in my eye when I wake and it's on. eww xD

[@mrphoenixgrey]

😉

[@amandanelson8347]

So I got a bedroom that is a failed DIY project from before the house was bought. It is a skinny thing so skinny infact that any size bed will take up the whole rooms widith. So I have a small bed in the corner. So as to not take up all the walking space. Any advice?

[@mcmickey3344]

What about leather headboards or leather beds?

[@pebelleeb5422]

love your videos and design education

[@mrphoenixgrey]

That means so much! Thank you

[@tamaramartin4015]

Wheww -- who knew there was so much to think about with bedrooms. i might have missed it, but did you happen to say anything about the proper height of a nightstand? i'm pretty sure mine isn't quite right, but it is what it is. i'm also never quite sure about the proper height for the lamp, which is going to stay living on the nightstand. Great comprehensive info, as always, DD 🙂

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Thank you for watching! The height of the nightstand is typically relative to the height of the bed/bedframe/mattress. I recommend having the nightstand at least the height of the top of the mattress :)

[@tamaramartin4015]

Thank you,@@mrphoenixgrey 🙂

[@natasha8302]

I will say windows in the south are to be used for natural light and emergency exits 😂. I would suggest both an air purifier and ceiling fan for those in the south lol.

[@Cynthia_108]

Yes, you said sensory delight. 👍👍

[@mrphoenixgrey]

🤍🤍

[@phillipstephens4522]

I am 73 and need very bright lighting in order to see. I love reading, movies and music. I also am taking art classes and I need bright lighting to be able to draw and paint. I may go to bed at midnight or later. I disagree 100% with everything dingbat boy says.

[@johnnyspastrys8227]

Omg stop I can’t concentrate with all the bedroom jokes 😂😅

[@mrphoenixgrey]

😉

[@kennixox262]

Eating in the bedroom is gross, eating food or eating ass is just a big NO!

[@myrahouse2368]

Your funny x ☺️

[@shree2710]

Learned a lot!! Thanks for the video!! I have a question, i live a floor above a shopping mall and there are huge ac outdoor units on the floor under me(of that mall), and you could literally hear the sound in bedroom even when the doors and windows are closed. Any advice on how to muffle it? It literally gives me headaches. The sound is not very loud but very irritating.

[@tiffanygaydos8997]

I am just like you I also prefer my bed be made every day. And a tidy home I keep.

[@mrphoenixgrey]

So glad I’m not the only one! :)

[@t.a.yeah.]

Please explain the 60-30-10 rule! I would like to know how to integrate the floor here? Is it part of this or not? What about wood in general? Thank you for your work. ♡

[@mrphoenixgrey]

You’re so welcome! Thanks for watching, and yes the rule applies to flooring too! Adding to my list to film

[@t.a.yeah.]

@@mrphoenixgrey Thank you, I'm looking forward to it. :)

[@chrismults1500]

I would love to see a video on this colour guidance. Love all your advice ❤

[@lorrainebonilla8052]

Hahahaha 😅😂😂 love your humor 😅

[@susannee.colella6109]

Yes please show more 60 - 30 colors

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Putting a video together for this 🤍

[@christinaduarte8518]

What’s your take and advise on the bed placement headboard right in front of the windows I’m not sure I like this idea but I might not have a choice

[@kitty_s23456]

Hi. If you believe or practice feng shui, having the head of the bed below a window is a no-no. However, if you don't have a choice, the solution is to have a solid headboard and to close the drapes or blinds.

[@tslilbearshoppe9870]

Making the bed sets the day off on the right foot. You've already accomplished something, and you didn't even leave the house yet!...Screw the haters ... remember takes one to know one :D

[@user-pb3sb3un7n]

Ok, there is someone I suspect to be a serial killer and he does not make his bed nicely. It's actually done stupidly. He uses a gel mattress pad as the bottom sheet, and has only one misshapen pillow on a queen size bed. It's thrown on one side. The sheet isn't pulled up equally across the surface breadth of the bed. So you're off the hook.

[@tamaramartin4015]

So, just thinking here -- i think we need a name for your fans. Maybe something like the Daddios? What do y'all think 😊

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Hahahaha! That’s too funny 😂 I never thought about this, but adding this to the roster

[@bricksloth6920]

Only serial killers make their beds now? (Quickly checks to make sure bedroom door is closed) Our bedroom is the most minimalist space in the house, but I admit I usually make the bed 🤔

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Hahaha! I guess it depends on how “made” it’s done, and how many fixing and accessories you put on and take off each night.

[@kennixox262]

Rubber sheets.

[@MaryAxelrod-md9ur]

I just wanted to say I enjoy your show. Thanks to all involved. One question I have is who writes your jokes? Come on , people, you can do better.

[@mrphoenixgrey]

I write most of them myself, my humor is very dry 🤣

[@gracegamboa1819]

❤❤❤

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Thanks for watching 🥰

[@TheBeardedBullFather]

Not much Daddy about you baby. Do you need some tips from Daddy Bull.

[@mrphoenixgrey]

Sir, this is KZbin - not Grindr

[@willmulligan2216]

Had a feeling that you’d be DOM 😉

[@mrphoenixgrey]

🤫

[@willmulligan2216]

@@mrphoenixgrey I won’t tell a soul handsome except Jeff Lewis…he never talks…Isn’t he very Z Gallerie?

[@sdfrenchman5880]

Why do you still have those two hideous pieces behind you? Much better to have a simple light and color behind you instead. Those two pieces looks forced in there! Who put it in there? It’s also destructing when you show sample photos behind you.

[@painterlyrabbit]

Thats overly dramatic. If you actually cared for his videos, you would know hes changing out the backdrop when he gets the chance. Relax.

[@mrphoenixgrey]

The furniture I ordered for here just came in to get rid of the plant, it’s been the bane of my existence

[@sdfrenchman5880]

@@painterlyrabbitwell I cared that’s why I pointed it out 🙄🤷🏽‍♂️ I’m a fan of daddies videos 🎉🍆

[@sdfrenchman5880]

⁠​⁠@@mrphoenixgreyat least a real plant? How hard is it to get one with a car and bring it out right away? I mean if you have time for COCKtails🍸 😅after work, having a better plant behind shouldn’t be challenging 😰 to get? 😊

[@LoveandMisses]

Fyi most of us are not thinking about sex 24/7 cringe

[@melindahajdin]

Trying to enjoy this channel but grossed out by all the double entendres and sex jokes. It's so stupid and unprofessional.