Bedroom Design Mistakes You NEED to Stop Making and How to Fix Them!

[@nanamuskuri6630]

Chapters for advanced watchers: 1. Too many mirrors 2. Not dressing the bottom of the bed 2:44 3. Wrong Rug Orientation 05:49 4. Rug too small 07:09 5. Wrong Chandelier height (including formula for perfect chandelier size! awesome) 08:28 6. Wrong Chandelier placement 10:13 7. Inadequate lighting 11:19 8. Family Photos 13:06 9. Not Nested Art 14:07 Great tips, thank you so much!

[@juicebox86]

The rug advice and the circumference of the chandelier were helpful tips. One note about lighting: candle light or 'warm light' is actually what the human eye/body would benefit from in the bedroom. White/blue-focused light is detrimental to end-of-day biochemistry. It disrupts production of melatonin and increases cortisol which poses an issue for sleep.

[@Kiki-py5nk]

I counted, I have 9 mirrors in my bedroom😬I need to fix it😵‍💫

[@emeraldxo23]

Thank you Kiva. I have been binge watching your and Nick Lewis’ channel to get new inspiration and ideas.

[@KivaBrent]

Aw thank you!! I love Nick Lewis too :)

[@sooziguru]

Yes! Me too! Love the practicality and longevity of timeless and elegant design they both provide.

[@lollyann7630]

Haha you picked well, these two are my favorites and my go to places for interior design inspiration, advice and know how, the fact that they are both clever, witty and likeable helps alot too❤❤❤❤

[@Geronimo2Fly]

Kiva and Nick are amazing! Garrett LeChic is fantastic as well. I watch every one their videos.

[@lollyann7630]

@@Geronimo2Fly OMG of course, how could I ever forget him, so fabulous!!! We have good taste girlfriend ❤️

[@elizabethsahu7822]

Hahhah your mirror comment is so spot on! The person who owned our house before us put a floor to ceiling mirror across an entire wall in the bedroom. To get rid of it we have to destroy the wall. It is so awful lol. Also my cat likes to stand on me in the middle of the night to admire herself

[@KivaBrent]

Omg!! That’s so crazy 😂😂

[@elizabethsahu7822]

@@KivaBrent it really is! The mirror even points at the top to stay in line with the point in the ceiling line!!!!!

[@andreabenson2491]

Usually when people talk fast I have trouble understanding them - you talk fast yet I can understand you!! Great tips👍👏😊

[@KivaBrent]

Awesome! Thank you!! 💕

[@kenya1067]

Thank you for this. My dresser has a large mirror and I want a floor mirror but didn't want too many. I didn't think of removing the mirror. That's a great idea!

[@Apru.]

Right! It’s so funny because I put the mirror on the dresser. I know it can be removed but I NEVER thought to do this!

[@joyfulleme]

I love this! I am also anti family photos because why would I want to look at my dad or great grandparents in any intimate space in my home…no just no lol.

[@KivaBrent]

Totally fair! 😂😂

[@CoachKarin]

I don’t have one mirror in my bedroom area only dressing area. And I do agree, they zap energy from the space I prefer items that make me feel relaxed and serve a purpose.

[@tiffanyb6420]

They didn’t like reading by candlelight, so they invented electricity. 🤣🤣🤣 Jokes aside, excellent tips, Kiva! Agree with you on family pics in the bedroom. I find that framed family photos on the wall also seem a bit funereal and should be reserved for our deceased loved ones. Photos of the living seem better placed on tables, consoles, and other flat tops. I know most won’t agree with this; it’s just a quirk of mine.

[@KimHoang13]

Design it in a day?! I freaken love this idea! Help me get out of my limbo 😅 thank you, Kiva!

[@KivaBrent]

Yay!! I hope you absolutely love the course :)

[@nailguncrouch1017]

I'm with the no mirror in the bedroom crowd. The last thing I need to do is scare myself if I get up in the middle of the night.

[@KivaBrent]

I totally get that!

[@Thefitalchemist]

Yaye. I cant wait to join your course. I love your personality. I know this course will be fun and educational.

[@nedraford5461]

I am on your side with family photos. I only put mines in my office...I have them no where else

[@cvonsutphen]

*Dressing the Bed* . I like the look of a tailored bed skirt, however, being single and having a dog, they seem to get messed upped and grungy quickly. I use a coordinating fitted sheet to cover my box spring. For the end of the bed, in warmer months, a table runner can look lovely for a bit more pizazz. I also prefer to use a twin size quilt layered a the foot of the bed instead of a throw.

[@whiteserpent6753]

They also sell stretchy bands that are designed to cover the box spring (without having to go all the way under the mattress). I bought one because the mattress is unpleasantly heavy. I also have ended up with bed skirts grungy and covered with dog hair.

[@shylo-jean]

Such great design ideas to make our bedroom so comfortable, beautiful and a sanctuary that entices sleep and relaxation ❤

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you Shylo!! 💕

[@christyosburn5432]

Thank you so very much regarding how high to hang art above the bed. I’ve been trying to figure it out.

[@shawnjan180]

Kiva - I love you!!! You make me laugh while I learn from you. THE BEST!!!

[@KivaBrent]

Omg thank you!! You’re the best! 💕

[@yvonnedozier5468]

You’re a hustler that’s a good thing ❤️

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you! 💕

[@tm6408]

Kiva's rug wisdom: parallel to the couch, perpendicular to the bed!

[@williambender6711]

I use runners as I have totes under the bed. The totes just fit straight under as is. Way to maximize storage.

[@spersaud9957]

So so appreciate this valuable video. Now know more about choosing the right chandelier and placement.

[@KivaBrent]

Yay! So happy that you found this valuable :)

[@tellinapowe5752]

I can listen to u talk all day! Ure hella funny & informative ❤❤❤

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you!! 💕💕

[@MsAngelness1]

I have a more eclectic home so I do have multiple mirrors in my room BUT they aren’t all huge. I have just the floor length and on my gallery wall above my dresser I have 2 small ones for their shapes

[@vlong7112]

"They didn't like that so they invented electricity." 😂😂😂 OMG, here for the tips as much as the commentary 🙌🏽

[@Pattyjohnson476]

😂😂 Add a quilt, add a throw, let's live on the edge 😂 You know, I've never thought about it...but you're right. I don't need that mirror above my dresser. I have a huge mirror in my bathroom. It's gone baby. Great video! Thanks

[@KivaBrent]

Yay! Thanks for watching!! :)

[@ettiw1233]

Right from the beginning: eye-opening 😳 thanks a lot for yet another helpful video 🎉

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you so much!! 😂💕

[@foxyqold]

Thanks Kiva

[@shanalegrant6931]

What a fantastic video. I am SO guilty of photos in the bedroom👀😂. Removing them right now!

[@RitaVernoy]

Thank you for the tips!

[@deborahreliford8575]

Thank you KB

[@barbaramccauley7604]

You are so funny! Thank you for making me laugh! Also great content. Love your design style!

[@KivaBrent]

Aw thank you so much!!

[@RetiredArmyCW4-F]

Love your channel, just found you and I am so happy I did!!! I have so many DIY projects going on in my home I should start a you tube!! I appreciate all of your different ideas, the bedroom makeover short was what drew me in...loved it!

[@nopressurenodiamonds5566]

Additional tip for the "nesting" not only should you nest your art you should nest your tv above the console. My design pet peeve is seeing a tv hanging way too high:)

[@unposhnails3366]

I wasn’t aware of this mirror trend.

[@carollaurence1953]

I love your videos. Where is your tree from? I am tired of the olive tree look. Thank you.

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you so much!! It’s a faux dogwood tree from Arhaus!

[@Stellaperez658]

This video is terrific, one of your best! I've learned so much! Thank you!!! HGTV take note of Kiva!!

[@KivaBrent]

Aw thank you so much, Stella!! I really appreciate that :)

[@deehoward2351]

Good ideas: proves that a person can always use more useful tips or refresh what we may know. Thanks

[@KivaBrent]

Thank you!

[@jeffthompson549]

I was always told family pics in the living room is a no no

[@lilianamartinezmarti]

Hello Kiva. I'm from Chile and I had a rough time understanding your speaking so fast 😂 but now I'm on board. Is your course suitable for foreign viewers? Thanks so much for your content and personality!!

[@KivaBrent]

Totally!! I think it’s suitable for foreign viewers. There is however one section where I tell you where to shop and those stores might differ in Chile! Thank you so much for watching :)

[@javanisolomon8374]

Love that taupe looking bed in the picture. So you know where that bed is from? Love to watch you, the videos are informative.

[@traceygartrell3419]

Thank you for your inspiration

[@nopressurenodiamonds5566]

Im cracking up how you followed up photo of your mom with "negative energy" Lmao but on a serious note, I appreciate all of your true design tips. I get so annoyed when I see videos of people explaining to hang your curtains high, and the tape hack to hang pics etc... I am like Ok, we already know thaaatttttt, what else.... 😂😂

[@newluhu]

Excellent video, my dear kiva, "AS ALWAYS", tyvm.👏🏻👍🏻

[@gailwilliams5278]

I’m confused by your art-hanging rules. Today it’s Nested/ 2-4 inches above furniture, last week it was eye-level/57 inches above the floor, and last month it was size should be 2/3 of the available wall width etc. These can be very different locations/dimensions!

[@lisadawson2652]

Chandelier in the bedroom just added that to my to do list ✅ thank u as always for all of the amazing ideas ❤

[@carolereames13]

Thank you for sharing this information. I will definitely change some things in my bedroom. ❤❤❤

[@KivaBrent]

Thanks so much for watching! 💕

[@gloriamarrow5500]

Thank you! This was so helpful.

[@KivaBrent]

Glad it was helpful!! 💕

[@TheSushmaHomeSellingTeam]

Sometimes, hope comes from a simple suggestions then it will be manifested when applied. Thank you for these tips, KB. 😉✨

[@memphis2375]

Loved this video! Thanks so much for all of these great ideas!😊

[@KivaBrent]

Thanks for watching!! So happy you enjoyed it! 💕

[@iamllux]

Unpopular opinion: I firmly believe in RUNNERS by the side of the bed. Can be used in conjunction with a rug oriented the wrong way because it's too small. Runners are easier to buy, easier to clean and easier to move, but can look great and keep your feet warm when you get out of bed.

[@sandystevenson5912]

I just had to laugh when you said something about waking up in the middle of the night and seeing yourself in the mirror and thinking someone had broken in! I’m a USMC Veteran who sleeps with her gun by her bed, that would be a VERY BAD thing, and imagine trying to explain the damage to my landlord! 😂

[@Firas.952]

I hate hotel beds too , I think to take my own bed sheets etc and even own pillow 😅

[@davidbarnes1113]

I have one gold round mirror in my bedroom over my dresser. I think that’s enough. I use it to get ready in the morning.

[@hesherette]

I'm definitely making bedroom mistakes lol, currently working on getting my dining/ living room redone. Just tackled the entryway + dining room, yay! I have a matching furniture set in the bedroom haha ew, it's so dark + bulky!! but $300 for a gently used calking bedframe w headboard, mirrored dresser + 2 nightstands wasn't bad at the time 5 years ago! time to upgrade soon though, i will be using your tips Kiva!

[@nopressurenodiamonds5566]

You can always break the set up to save money. Try repurposing the dresser in the living room or entryway etc... unless your just over it all Lol

[@hesherette]

@@nopressurenodiamonds5566 im moving in a completely different style direction but thank you for the good idea! i live in a dark place that lacks lighting so i'm moving away from dark, bulky furniture in favor of lighter footprint/ colored mid century modern pieces on legs to let more light move around. most of my current stuff is dark, bulky + transitional-ish styles bc i didnt know or care about my home's style until the last few years lol :) i have been saving money by collecting awesome pieces slowly by thrifting + checking out marketplace/ offerup though!

[@Geronimo2Fly]

I agree no mirrors in the bedroom, as long as you have room somewhere else like the bathroom for a nice mirror. I have to disagree on the family photos though. I love being surrounded by pictures of my family; however, I think my guests would be more interested in seeing beautiful artwork rather than pictures of my family. I can't imagine putting family photos in the dining room. With these photos in the bedroom, unlike some other commenters here, I don't feel "watched" at all or get any bad vibes. I'm surrounded by beautiful memories of times with my family. I love it.

[@ldmurray9165]

yeah i need to lower my art pieces that are directly above my custom living room sofa. thanks!

[@adelaidagonzalez7379]

Great tips. I would love to have a chandelier in the center of my bedroom but can not survive without a ceiling fan . Is there a solution to that?

[@stellaf9055]

I don’t agree with the picture thing. I have and always had pictures of my kids in my bedroom. But I just have one mirror facing the windows.

[@clairevinet3557]

🙏🏼Thank you !!!💕

[@Nancy-vi4cr]

I agree with you about not having family photos in the bedroom. I also feel that photos or art that looks like it has eyes shouldn’t be in the bedroom. Bad Vibes!

[@KivaBrent]

Haha yes! I totally agree with this :)

[@nopressurenodiamonds5566]

Yes, its creepy when your trying to "get it on" and you look up and see your kids smiling back Lol

[@bumblebee_ms]

KIVA! Have you ever thought about doing stand-up comedy? (me answering): Well, you should, I can't stop laughing with you!!!

[@KivaBrent]

Omg thank you! 😂😂😂

[@bumblebee_ms]

@@KivaBrent

[@kristinab8326]

One time I stayed at my ex-boyfriend’s brother and sister-in-law’s house while my boyfriend was house sitting/cat sitting and they had a giant framed photo in their bedroom of topless sister-in-law posing in a field displaying her large Angel wing back tattoo and I was very uncomfortable. I agree with the “no family photos in the bedroom” rule! 😂

[@KivaBrent]

Omg 😂😂😂

[@Loud2013]

First comment! 🥳😎💖🌟💯

[@KivaBrent]

Hi!!! 💕💕

[@alexpress5375]

Family photos in the bedroom are negative energy! 😂💀😂

[@bricksloth6920]

No mirrors in our bedroom at all LOL. One issue I do have is the art over our bed. It's eight 8x10 patent reproductions, and they need more presence. But great news I'm being promoted and as soon as I get a paycheck at my new pay rate I'm ordering mattes and 11x14 frames for them. At least the rug is the right size. (It will still look very spartan by your standards, it's still a dude aesthetic but it will be more elevated with the upgrade frames.)

[@lizhoward9754]

Don’t know why people call you “anti” family photo. I have heard the no family photos from a bunch of designers. The first thing any professional home stager who is staging your home to sell will do is remove family photos.

[@hannamartin9968]

Hey, what if you want to use the items you already have? I have so many items I've purchased and now feeling overwhelmed because I'm unsure how to put it all together. Your thoughts? Does your course address this?

[@pamela3722]

When we moved, the mirror that came with our dresser didn’t come. I told my husband I didn’t want it. So I have a small round mirror in my bedroom. Mine is on the wall next to the window. I have an antique cedar chest at the end of my bed. And right now it’s full of my clothes. But I do have a Casaluna blanket at the end of my bed. I should take the course. But I want to change stuff around in my bedroom. I have to measure my furniture first. Then maybe I can put curtains on my bedroom window. I’m not putting a rug in my bedroom. My dogs would just pee on it. Plus, we have carpet. And I know my husband isn’t going to go for a rug over carpet. He won’t get it. I would love a chandelier or any other light. We have boob lights. I’m not moving my bed. But I want to move the dresser and chest of drawers. And the desk thing, I have my makeup on. I have it in my head. But I’m not sure any of it will fit. I read in bed on my e reader. And it doesn’t bother my husband.

[@viaPlanetNu]

Okay hold on cause now I'm LOST . My bed is in the corner of my room so would I position a rug where it's mostly sticking out the side and bottom or just the foot of the bed ? If that makes any sense lol . Could I maybe dm a picture on IG ? Because I am confusion 😅

[@legallyblonde88158]

How long is the design course going to be available for?

[@mariar2576]

OMG totally would love chandelier in the bedroom but in spring, summer and most of fall, we really need a ceiling fan OH and it has a bright light Lol lol How sexy is that Hahahahahaha 😂

[@JuanNgtse]

to many mistake in the bedroom,..... i got scared.

[@whirledpeas5717]

I couldn't disagree more about needing dressing at bottom of the bed. To me its a matter of taste and not a design element like nesting art is.

[@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley]

You want to know my biggest issue with my bedroom? Charging cables 😂 I'm still in the beginning phase of not even just decorating but furnishing my apartment, so I've been using a plastic tote as my bedside table, lol. But I use earbuds a lot, especially in bed. While I have USB chargers on either side of my couch, I've slapped a power extension brick on my bedside "table" to plug my fan, phone charger, and USB charger for my earbuds. So! Anyone else who also uses such tech have any ideas on how to make it look nicer than just lazily putting the extension brick in full view? I know I'll need longer cords, for one. Hm, maybe some cable management holders as well? And a wireless charging dock for my phone (it's Android and I wonder if it would charge it through my phoke case).

[@amyholland6924]

I put a small hole on the back of my bedside tables and thread the cord of a charging block through it to the wall socket. The block with the usb ports can’t fit through the hole so it stays put in the table drawer with all my cords and stuff.

[@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley]

@@amyholland6924 I like the idea of putting a small hole in the back, like with a TV stand. Hopefully the tables I have picked out already come with one so I don't have to cut it myself, lol. But that's a great idea, just getting it off the table top entirely, thank you!

[@janet3895]

No Picture of your mom in bedroom don’t want negative energy hahaha

[@harrypottah8889]

666th like lol 🤘🏾 nice contentttttt

[@ciceliaacevedo72]

I hate that 4 me 2!!!🤢

[@1_viewer]

What is sexier than a chandelier? A………mirror. 😅 you asked!!

[@KatieB33]

I hate hotels that use quilts. Just because you change the cover doesn’t mean I’m not lying under other people’s sweat. Especially when I sweat in them 🤢

[@Kiterpuss]

I think you mean a duvet. A quilt doesn't have a changeable cover - the definition of quilting is the stitching the connects the quilt top, the batting, and the quilt bottom. A duvet is like a comforter or thick blanket that a cover goes over.

[@KatieB33]

@@Kiterpuss I’m an Aussie and we call the stitched ones a comforter. But different states also have different names for the same thing. Another state calls the stitched ones an eiderdown. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@arsonmouse2511]

The perks of being incredibly shirt: i could place the chandelier 5'0 and I wouldn't hit myself

[@christinahaftmann4065]

Never place a chandelier over a bed because, according to the ancient art of Feng shui, the heavy metal ENERGY can cause damage to whatever body part is being exposed. Don't scoff - there are thousands of case studies that back this up. All designers should study Feng Shui because it provides a good foundation in flow and harmony.

[@AllisonMoon-SheWandersFeral]

4:10 NOOOO they put that at the END OF the bed 👟 for the assholes WHO LAY ON BEDS IN HOTELS WITH SHOES ON 🥾

[@katharinamarschall5662]

I have a huge mirror in a corner, I don’t dress my bed nicely, I don’t even have a rug in my bedroom. Should I feel sorry?

[@nailguncrouch1017]

If you like your room, keep it that way.

[@kristywhited8857]

Not picking on you specifically, but I'm noticing there are WAY too many "mistakes" videos out there. If a designer has suggestions on how to do things and wants to show us how to make our homes lovely, I'm all ears. But telling me I'm doing it all wrong is a bit of a turnoff. Consider a more positive approach. And yes, I'll be posting this same comment in many other places.

[@CurveTheRain]

Its disgusting but it looks good 😂

[@priboecker]

Breeeeath.