Before & After Facial Feminization Surgery in Korea | Pt. 2

[@ElenaBateman]

If you would like to support my sister, every little helps: www.gofundme.com/f/leah-is-raising-money-for-bottom-surgery (thank u so much) Part 1: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qH_KYmqDi6mmfM0

[@Aranoura]

Heyy, I've still got some (important to me) questions, can I ask them somewhere?

[@ellegaitor2887]

Lol I am obsessed with Leah’s hair the colour the curls the thickness it’s just beautiful. X really enjoyed these q and a’s and getting to know her better x

[@ElenaBateman]

Honestly I was so mad when she straightened it!! Her curls make me so jealous 😭😭❤️

[@ellegaitor2887]

@@ElenaBateman I have naturally straight thin hair can only dream of having curls like hers lol I would be mad she straightened it too lol x

[@AdrianKatrin]

I didn't know that voice training was a thing until recently and it's quite exciting. I'm genderfluid and sometimes I'll be male or masculine passing until I speak and it's a pain. I don't think I'll ever have gender surgeries personally, but that's a cool thing to exist and this series was super interesting, thank you for sharing, and kisses to *your* mother x

[@samuelaries6344]

Yea voice training works a miracle. I did it before I started T and the dedication and hard work paid of and I was as described by my friend (who didn't know I was trans) I sounded not male or female with my voice 😎 with left people to draw on my clothes and look to determine my gender was great. Just keep at it

[@AB-ws4kt]

I looked up voice training and I’m starting it now! I’m 25 and I’m just finding out “who I am” after a lifetime of trauma. I’m definitely gender fluid and realising now, it is such a big deal to me and so I’m excited to get my voice a lower pitch :)

[@sosilos]

It's quite used technique and its not only for transition. One of my friends (m) had bad accident, broke his neck spine and it damaged his vocal chords. He spoked like chipmunk. Not exaggerating. He sounded like chipmunk! But with voice training after few years he managed to get his "old voice" back. It's long process with hard work but it's always amazing to hear results.

[@jrthiker9908]

I have voice teacher friends that are also SLP trained (speech/language pathology) and there is a lot of exciting work being done to help people transitioning in both directions. Everything said in the video is correct, for male to female transitions usually the adult male voice will not change significantly with hormones so SLP work can really help. Much of it is making the client aware of male/female speech patterns, uptick/downtick at the end of sentences, male/female timbre/range, etc. Vocal and speech exercises are given to help imprint and establish the voice in the newer tessitura or pitch range so they can speak healthily without long term vocal damage. I encourage anyone transitioning in either direction to seek out a speech therapist or voice teacher with SLP training (they should indicate SLP accreditation.) The time spent is incredibly effective and also emotionally supportive in the journey. And for those in transition, if you are having issues with your voice, see a laryngologist, not and ENT. They are ENT's with many more hours of specialization in the larynx and vocal cords, so they can treat specific medical conditions and recommend a great SLP therapist.

[@dickiewongtk]

If you are gender-fluid, why is it pain to have a female voice?

[@niknoks6387]

I’m lesbian both my wife and I have have trans friends. One of my m to f trans friends keeps getting kicked off Facebook when men find out she’s trans, Facebook kick her off. It’s no her fault. Also we usually to go Manchester every July to Sparkle weekend, it’s like a trans pride, we love it, but then we love Manchester and pride there too. People should be more accepting of each other no matter what we present as, we are all humans! Leah I think your voice is good. I also love that your journey has brought you and Elena closer together.

[@Aranoura]

Facebook sucks, she's better off without it

[@katesanders2219]

I am so confused, why would Facebook kick her off? Are the men reporting her in some way? I'm so sorry that she's had to go through that!

[@niknoks6387]

@@katesanders2219 yes men are reporting her, she can’t present as female full time as her dad is in his 90’s and she is worried about him finding out. I personally think it’s people we know, men nonetheless. Very sad!

[@haleycrooks1178]

I have had a few friends who are trans, from F to M. So getting to experience the other side of it (M to F) was amazing. I am so glad the amount of support in this comment section. Hopefully we are on the edge of changing the stereotypes about transgender individuals!

[@marthahawkinson-michau9611]

I think it’s completely beautiful the amount of support you have given your sister through her transition. It’s got to be good for her to have such a strong ally that loves her and stands by her while she becomes the person she was meant to be.

[@martekindustries69]

I'm 51 I get my breast augmentation in 3 days what you said in the last video is so true. Getting things done when you're younger if possible helps your mental health so much. Thanks for your support of the trans community and your sister. Cheers!

[@cassidybrewer]

Good luck with your surgery!

[@xoxo62477]

Wait. I've been putting off breast reduction because of the scars. Maybe things have changed since I looked into it like...20 years ago! Thank you for mentioning the lack of scarring!

[@LuckeeLaura]

Breast reduction scars are sadly still quite a bit bigger than augmentation scars. If you’re uncomfortable and a reduction would make you happier, I would go for it anyways!

[@codename495]

Scarring is different for each person, and if you go to a consult that is something you can discuss. Some people scar badly, others scar very little and while there are measures you can take to help minimize scarring any and all surgical procedures will have scarring.

[@cassidybrewer]

Breast reduction is typically a keyhole scar, whereas augmentation can usually be done underbust or in another less-invasive way. Breast reduction can also be covered by insurance if you have back pain and you can prove that’s why.

[@May-xt9pv]

The amount of scarring will depend on how much of a reduction you have. I had a lot removed and have scarring, but I don’t mind the scarring. I’m so glad to have smaller breasts.

[@MooMeggle]

The anchor shape scaring fades incredible amounts. When you’re ready for it you realise that the scars don’t matter to you as much. The pain relief, the size change, the improved shape and the new lease on life you get make all of those worries disappear. Promise! A good surgeon will do the anchor scar because you get the most natural shape, keyhole reductions aren’t the best option because they simply remove fat/tissue whereas a full reduction has more scars but the breasts are lifted and shaped to look the most natural. :)

[@angeldelvax7219]

A good friend of mine is trans, and I got to follow her transition. It really is beautiful to see how somebody really becomes herself (or himself) for the first time in their life.

[@avocados1707]

hi hi jus say themselves or themself

[@giuliadesai]

Leah's curly hair is amazing, but she looks so cute with it straightened as well :) also I'm enchanted by how elegant and delicate she is when she talks and moves

[@bigfil1981]

So so happy that she is getting closer to being who she really is. 💖🌈💖

[@kaiwolff442]

Came straight here after Part 1, I'm just so happy for Leah! I'm so glad you have a good support system, every trans person deserves that kind of love and respect. ❤️

[@maidesenagokkaya1370]

your sister is so brave and we are so lucky to be a part of her journey! she looks so so beautiful!!! sending all my best to both of you lots of love

[@oscararias6052]

Voluntary mandatory appreciation comment... We are really glad you are happy with your process 💕

[@tobyskinner94]

Sending all my best for Leah for the next steps of any surgery that she goes thru.

[@msbeaverhausen7226]

I am not gay/trans etc and I am a VERY conservative woman. I have to say that I love your bond to one another and I wish the best of life to both of you. You exemplify what it means to be family and the meaning of love. Blessings to you all.

[@vanessacarter6342]

This is the attitude that everyone should have. 🥰

[@MelanieMoxon]

Voice coaching is amazing its something I have been doing. Leah's voice sounds amazing, but we are our own worst critics. I used the LTC for my hormones (thankfully now the NHS has picked that baton up...not without a substantial wait), the staff there are lovely.

[@emmafeickert8855]

Her hair is soooo pretty! ^-^ I'm so happy for her!

[@thrillington2008]

Part one was clever and heartwarming. It's also a growing experience for me and my girlfriend (she's trans) and we're in a loving relationship now.

[@AdrianKatrin]

This part was instantly more chaotic than the part 1 vid

[@melancholytrees]

Love this series. I've been watching my best friend go through this transition since 2017 when she first came out to me as trans. I definitely had a similar first reaction to your mom - fully supportive but definitely afraid of the heaviness of what being a trans woman implies in our society. I've also been able to see the great impacts that surgery has had on her well-being and I honestly just feel so honored to be present for it. As an American, it's definitely interesting to hear about your perspective with the NHS and Korean systems. In general, I just love the amount of love radiating from this, from you and your sister to the general comment section. It's so good to see.

[@Fairly-odd-kel]

That scream when she said she wasn't single 😂😘

[@SnazzyOne25]

I love this whole series. I know a trans girl who has also blossomed into herself in the most extraordinary way. She was a very depressed youth at my church, struggling with her identity at the time. Once she came out as trans and started her transition, the change was immediate and breathtaking. I’m so happy for Leah to have the opportunity for the procedures she’s had and I hope she is able to raise enough to do the tracheal shave soon. I also love how supportive you are, El. It’s obvious just how much you love Leah and are 1000% in on supporting her however is needed. So many people aren’t as lucky. Keep up the awesome example for the rest of us!

[@whitehare5347]

Thank you so much for these videos. I didn’t know very much about transgender struggles and found this educational, emotional and amazing. Leah you are a very brave young woman and totally beautiful. I wish you all the happiness in the world and know that you will be just fine with such an amazing sister by your side.

[@avocados1707]

13:48 the speed n assurance with which she said "im happy, yeah" makes me wanna cry 🥺

[@docjc1842]

I wish every person had this kind of family support. Just one family member like this for all of us would change the world. Both of you are BEAUTIFUL! WISHING YOU THE very best!

[@Theeny]

I'm so glad you made this series, it was so informative. I'd heard stories of 'surgery tourism' and it always sounded so sketchy and dangerous, but you've really shed a light on it in a way that I'm sure has helped so many people. This kind of surgery isn't just life-changing, it's often life-saving, and I'm sure this series will give many people the hope they need to keep going.

[@Jum6071]

I never knew you had another channel, glad part 1 got me here😆❤️. Your sister is beautiful and i wished her the best in her journey❤️‼️

[@aristarna1321]

Can I just say... while this is not necessarily your target, it is great to be able to show my 5year old trans girl that it is possible to become a "real girl" and fight back on harmful/negative messaging we receive from some family members. Me watching this allowed her the opportunity to ask about and learn that surgery is an option to become a real girl and is super affirming and helpful even at such a young age. Thank you Leah for being brave enough to share your story and inspire (because you will) others with your bravery.

[@thedanishhoneybee3996]

One of my best friends have a hard time putting weight on as well and it’s something she’s trying to be kinder to herself about as well

[@jordihull]

Voice training can seem so daunting but you will eventually get to the place you want to be! I think your pitch and projection sound good I think the only thing is your resonance might still be a little dark. Z from trans voice lessons explains it really well if you haven't seen her videos. I found for myself that basically whenever im awake I try and keep my larynx raised for longer and longer and I feel like the muscles over the last couple of years have strengthened to the point that I don't have to consciously keep it raised anymore. Ive also gained control over being able to suck in my apple slightly while its raised which helped my resonance be brighter. I think that was the biggest breakthrough with my voice was being able to comfortably shrink my vocal tract while speaking. keep working at it, you'll get there

[@juderalph6958]

Leah you sound and look fantastic!! And your so brave letting us see your journey. Elena you are so supportive and its so nice to see the bond you now have with your sister 💕

[@ashtaylor4107]

So happy that Nana decided to cover the cost of surgery and that it went so well. Lea you look great, but more than that, you look so much happier. I can see a light in your eyes and smile that wasn’t there before. There’s so much more good to come. 💜

[@OnTheGrind42086]

My child is trans female to male. And channels like yours are so important & Inspirational. I know one day I can help my child transition as well. And knowing all these resources is priceless. Much love 💚and peace ✌🏽🧚🏾‍♂️ thank you sm. I only hope my KZbin channel can change my childs life. xoxo

[@bellana11]

My child is f to m, too. He has not started his transition yet (in terms of hormones), but I am transitioning to using the correct pronouns and his chosen name. Which is harder than I thought it would be, when it was other people. When his father texted me using the male name for the first time, I cried.

[@stefp5771]

Leah you are so brave sharing your story!!! You're such an inspiration to everyone, sending lots of love and hugs to you and your amazing family xxx

[@Crazyttv]

I don't really see the difference with the nose but those eyes are beautiful and I'm glad it's going well so far

[@ElenaBateman]

I think it’s because it’s still quite swollen, but there’s a big difference in terms of the shape!! It’s a lot more visible from the side, but they completely removed a bump 💜

[@lauragantz6876]

Leah is just so cute! I wish you all the best on your journey sweetie! Also thank you for sharing a part of yourself with us. 🌻

[@barborapetlakova]

I think you sound amazing, Leah! I wouldn’t know you were trans if I heard you speak. Also, had no idea trans people work with voice coaches like that. I mean duh, but it never occured to me as a cys female. I love how open and informational these videos are. 😊

[@scottn322]

It seems like this journey has really brought the two of you together, and made you grow much closer, and that is absolutely fantastic.

[@elder7293]

Throughly enjoyed watching these, came straight to here to watch part 2. Leah thanks for sharing your story and experience and Ellbat your kindness and acceptance of everyone shines through, & your support for your sister is amazing x

[@marigoldtea-kl7ev]

in pt 1 I commented how much I love Lea's voice, and I am once again here to reiterate how pretty it is

[@jrose3886]

Elena you are so inspirational to me with the content you create. And thank you Leah for sharing your story! So important for more people to be able to learn about your journey. All the love and support!

[@scrumps101]

I am a cis gendered straight female, married with three children in their teens. I admire your courage in transitioning and being so open in sharing your path to womanhood. I can’t imagine all that you’ve gone through in your life but without question it’s been a difficult yet beautiful journey. I know there is a lot of hate towards the trans community but as a cis gendered woman I welcome you with open arms. I feel like people like you, who are born with the body parts you don’t resonate with, are here on this earth for very important reasons. We learn a lot about life, love, ourselves, our own grief and struggles and even medical advancements through watching you transition into the person you are meant to be. I wish you all the best and truly believe your future is going to be incredibly successful and fulfilling. Much love ❤️

[@kiyokoshimizu5122]

Leahs hair is so beautiful!!! I'm really happy for her to finally have the body she is ^^

[@sdb512]

Haven't watched the video yet, but I hope everything went okay❤ sending much love from Holland

[@maledalies]

Leah's voice is actually soooo sweet and calming

[@merlyncharlesnieto]

It’s so wonderful to see her personality shine through❤️ so glad she gets to be herself now

[@Amy19959]

Thank you for this! Its lovely to see and hear from leah on this topic ♡♡

[@ellalasagna2857]

Your relationship is so sweet, it's so nice to see the playfulness and love between you two 🥺❤️

[@jen7916]

I am so happy for you Leah 🥰 and I said it on the surgery video, but I have to say it again...I absolutely LOVE your hair! The color and curls are gorgeous!! Sending so much love, from Michigan USA💜💜💜💜

[@efeyzee]

The hormones question reminded me that I forgot to take my HRT today lol

[@fastingmywaytojenn3915]

This was very informative for me. I’m working to be more informed. Love you!

[@yuckysmuck]

I love love love how educated you are on this subject- it's amazing that Leah has such a supportive and truly caring sister :)

[@Marianne-F]

Seeing the banter between you and the relationhip you have is just beautiful to watch. It makes me smile so much! Thank you both for being so open and for answering these questions so honestly and well. Leah you are so beautiful inside and out ♥ wishing you happiness, and love and everything good in life moving fowards ♥

[@ildemmiyim]

It is so nice of you to share this journey. I hope you both the best in life!

[@craftylittlerthings]

I think you are both looking great! Lea your hair looks great straight. The jaw line was the most amazing change. The best of luck with the next step in your 're make xx

[@craftylittlerthings]

Sorry Leah, I slept it wrong!

[@theresalayton9286]

I absolutely love seeing the bonding relationship you have as sisters 😊♥️♥️♥️ it's too bad no one can donate fat for the procedures because I have tons I could give her LOL hahaha, 😁😁😁 also too I just thought I would suggest if she's trying to put weight on (my daughter when recovering from an eating disorder desperately needed to put weight on fast) try the meal replacement drinks but specifically the ones with extra calories, I'm sure you have something similar available in your country I'm from Canada. This is probably already suggested to her but just in case I thought I'd mention it, helped my daughter quite a lot 😊😘♥️🇨🇦

[@cutekitten4395]

I said this on the previous Q&A too but I'm so happy for Leah, she looks so much happier and genuinely gorgeous!

[@dark_baphomet]

Yay another update, hope she’s doing well

[@Oh.its.multiple]

Aww Leah, you are SO extremely gorgeous!! I'm smiling this whole video just because of how much more happy you are, you're glowing so much. You're a beautiful woman and I'm lowkey sad that you're not single because 14/10 would date you.

[@hadeer9427]

So happy for her ❤️ So much love for you ladies for sharing with us 😍

[@Eowyn126]

This is a random comment, but I love Leah’s smile, she looks pretty all the time but especially when she smiles

[@nicolettazenobini4632]

I'm seriously in love with this series 😍 Keep up with the good work girls! Hugs and lots of love from Italy ♥️

[@dorothykopaskey9447]

Best wishes also you’re very fortunate to have a great sister on your journey!

[@eleonorex]

Your sister is beautiful, wow! I am happy for her. Good luck for the rest of your journey !

[@_xMx_]

Thanks for putting this out! I've been waiting!

[@bon3999]

hope your recovery continues to go well leah! and yes. good soup 😌

[@GuadalupeT]

Hi again, thanks for letting us be part of this ❤❤

[@fallingfairies33]

Thank you both so much for opening up this conversation to us all. This needs to be talked about more. Questions need to be able to be asked. Thank you for being so open and sharing. I’ve learned a lot and I am thankful. So much love to you both!

[@piperlynne1]

Beautiful before and beautiful after!

[@scottn322]

She is adorable. But those curls! Holy smokes. She looks great with it straight, but those curls are gorgeous!

[@mikecurtis9485]

Elena you and your viewers have worked a miracle and now you have the sis you have always wanted. on a funnier note Leahs red afro curls gave off a Tom Baker Dr. Who vibe.

[@Laura30827]

I am an EMT and have been for 8 years. I tried to watch the live video of Leah’s FFS… I lasted a minute and a half before I had to click off. It is INTENSE!!!!!!

[@hanaowens5988]

You two look soooooo alike wow!!!!

[@winterburden]

Yay, Leah is so cool! 🙆‍♀️

[@furlycee]

Thanks so much for taking us along on the process, it's so important to normalize the process like El was saying.

[@mirp124]

I have so much love in my heart for y'all

[@jrose3886]

Your voice sounds fantastic now! i wouldnt question anything if i met you as a stranger.

[@TheDreamerBelle]

Omg she looks so much more like you after!

[@joannie03]

Leah your hair is glorious whether straight or curly! So happy you're a few steps closer to your goal

[@AB-ws4kt]

Thank you for being so open with your journey Leah, and Ellena for facilitating it. I recently “discovered” that I’m gender fluid. I’m now accepting myself, and I’m excited to start voice training, to eventually get a breast reduction, and to be myself in whatever form I decide. Thank you ❤️

[@lilyrosepunkunicorm9871]

GOOOOO LEAHHHHHHH

[@lathat40]

It really really REALLY makes me so happy seeing shes happy... I cant even describe it with words, even if you girls are strangers for me. Thanks for sharing this, you are beautiful humans. ♥ Love from Spain

[@52Paulis]

Thank you for documenting this and for the chat as well.

[@TeaFreak1805]

Once again, amazing❤️❤️❤️

[@SensationallySilky]

Leah is stunning. And that hair. WHEW! YAAASSSS

[@Loobaloopaloooo]

So proud of u xx

[@chloenicole8236]

love love love this and love u

[@brittneyx3]

i love Leah's voice! 😍💖

[@raeperonneau4941]

I promise that you’ll gain weight as you age, Leah. It’s amazing what happens to our metabolism as we get older… even for those of us who wish it didn’t change. Lol😂

[@esme_6369]

her hair is pretty

[@doreenb3411]

Leah, I think your voice is beautiful. My sis wife has a much deeper or masculine sounding voice so go easy on yourself. Loving these vlogs re your transition. I applaud your courage and willingness to share such an important matter. Elena, new subscriber. Loving every minute.-A happy Hoosier (USA/IN) old, married, lesbian.

[@christineshannon7902]

Thanks so much for sharing.❤ I learned so much from your series.

[@lalacustard]

Will you continue to document the transition process from here? Other surgeries and consultations in the future

[@ElenaBateman]

Potentially! Especially if it can benefit her in the same way.

[@ms.draconian813]

Leah you look so beautiful !!!! So happy for you!!!

[@outoftheklosset]

I'm so happy for you, Leah.🥰💐

[@fahferreira]

you two are amazing, i love how close you are now ❤️

[@jennatoth3903]

The city in which I reside has school for LGBT kids. We have a quite a few transwomen that work in shops around town.

[@gabs5678]

Leah's hair looks good strait too!

[@ANDER01D]

I've never really talked about this (like ever... maybe once to I don't remember who), but maybe it fits here: When I was 3-5 yrs old (2000-2002) I had experiences a few times that my perception of my gender has changed. I'm a boy, I was born as a boy. But In this period of time, sometimes I felt like "I'm a girl now". It was like a switch. In one moment I'm a boy, next moment I'm a girl. It was weird. It was weird to feel myself differently this way, from a moment to another. As I remember, I didn't feel the urge to behave differently,(also, I never wanted to dress like a girl, these switches to girl, only lasted for minutes) but it happened. Maybe I experienced this switch once or twice more later, but I'm not sure about it. So, I was gender-fluid, if i'm right. :D Also good to hear Leah is happy with her transition!😊