BEFORE YOU MARRY- 6 Important Conversations To Have Before Marriage!

[@gbemijames7777]

PL forgot Financial discussion. This is very important. All points noted

[@evansosinaike]

Things to talk about 2:12 Expectations 6:07 Conflict Resolution 9:29 Family Planning & Children 13:47 Spiritual Growth 15:58 Extended Family 20:25 Secrets Courtship is the time to love intelligently, and marriage is the time to love blindly

[@adesuwapisibor7804]

Thanks

[@LovelynAdaife3095]

Thanks

[@reallifeissueswithmarge]

Thank you 🙏

[@marvellouscaleb2620]

. Talk about Expectations . Conflict resolution . Family planning and children . Spiritual Goals . Extended family . Health . Secrets . Life Goals 🔥🔥🔥

[@ifeoluwaakinniyi2789]

I think it's also important to talk about residential preferences(plan for the future, preferred locations) and migration plans if any.

[@ifyama]

Courtship is a time to love intelligently while marriage is a time to love blindly.

[@MaureenOkeke-v7g]

The way I skip relationship advice videos thinking I know everything there Is about relationships. Thank God I decided to watch this video. Thank you PL

[@ifyama]

Find yourself before finding a partner. Self discovery and personal development should be non-negotiable. 👌

[@precious5596]

Hello Pastor Laju. Please talk about what to do in a relationship or marriage where the Lady is more spiritually mature than the guy. Thank you ma❤.

[@CounsellorOT]

Right? We need answers to that

[@RighteousBreed]

Yes, please🙏🏻

[@ArtisanbloomArtisanbloom]

You also read your bible and grow and don't be lazy spiritually

[@JaneMariah-ly2cg]

Yes good question

[@joelblessing4994]

Yes please, very good question

[@sonitayufenyuy]

1. Expectations ( what do you expect in a wife/husband, how do you define a goodwife,helpmeet,how do you expect me to support in your ministry 2. How do we handle conflicts (who do we call, what do we approach disagreements. 3. Family planning and children (what method of birth control will we use, )pay attention to his mindset abt trending issues 4. Spiritual goals. Equally yoked 5. Extended family. ( are there going to live with you ) love. How do there do things in your family 6. Life goals. What interests them Thank you mme 🎉❤ my note pad is full😅. GOD BLESS AND INCREASE YOU IN ALL GOOD AREAS ❤

[@baileyope855]

Courtship: love intelligently Marriage: love blindly 📌📌📌📌

[@ademolasamson8760]

Conversations about Money and Finance

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

Pay very close attention to what people DO not just what they SAY.

[@Sluvmusic1001]

I love the way you speak. So so soft , poise, intelligent and with authority

[@Oluwagbenga_Jason]

Thank you PL, maybe Conversations about food and football clubs too ma😎

[@favourndakara]

Commenting before watching because I’m sure it’ll be that good! 🤩

[@priscazigede7325]

Wow I can’t believe my partner and I have discussed all of these from start to finish✅

[@seyramie]

This woman is blessed with intelligence and wisdom! God bless and continue to increase you ma’am!

[@benitaobasuyi4905]

Pls talk about long distance relationship. As a believer, how do we navigate through the troubles that comes with long distance relationships before marriage?

[@oromidayoaiyeyemi289]

Conversation on Finances

[@hassanblessing4783]

I’m just concentrating on the beauty 😊. God finish work on her 😎😩🥺

[@adawiyat3767]

You are a leader, thanks ma❤

[@AnikeAwelewa]

What if the person pretends to tick all your boxes??…I guess that is where the holyspirit comes in(Luke 12 vs 2-3,Mark 4 vs 22)

[@samuelolaniran2034]

Talking about finding your goals and life purpose before getting married is very important but the truth about this is that it does not apply to everyone that way as some goals reveal over time. Time really reveal alot of things , my advise is that partners should be flexible.

[@nadiasesay1754]

Can't luv you less pastor laju ❤️🙌 More grace 🙏

[@oluwamuyiwaoreoluwa757]

😅..It was the element of witchcraft part that got me the most😂😂😂😂😂. God bless you Pastor L

[@chinonsonnamani5234]

Thank you Ma. Hobbies and Personal interest Finances - like debts, saving or financial goals (Probably secrets) Household Responsibilties Intimacy and Sexual expectation - I might assume this one is under Family planning and children Communication Style - I think this one comes under Conflict resolution

[@adeleketobi1]

***Finding Yourself, Before You Find Your Partner - Have idea of what you are going to do/what you want to do/what you desire to do/where you are going in future. 🙏🥳

[@GracefullyKaren]

If you haven’t subscribed to this channel, what are you doing dear? Please it’s free. Go ahead and subscribe. Okay let’s enjoy the video 👏🏾👏🏾🥁❤️. God bless you Pastor Laju 🥁🤗

[@ijeomaharmony1347]

Her laughter is so beautiful😊

[@deboraharubike5500]

Courtship is a time for INTERVIEW not intercouse.

[@anastasiaogomaka3717]

The safest method of family planning is Natural Family planning ❤

[@PullThemOutTheFire]

Amen

[@Christ-Aroma17]

What does that mean

[@YourstrulyMo_]

Thank you my PL❤❤❤ How about finances? Some people think it’s too sensitive a conversation to be had before marriage

[@LajuIren]

It’s an important conversation to have. I cover this in another video coming soon

[@OnBendedKneesTv]

Courtship is the time to love intelligently while marriage is a time to love blindly 🥰

[@ikemehgoodnews]

How disruptive is your past relationship to our marriage? Finance, Support and Budgeting allocation

[@Debsonpresh75]

God bless you, Ma'am It's just remaining finance discussion. Also, in expectations, domestic chores and house helps should be included.

[@BlessingImoh-x9g]

Please talk about how to deal with distance relationships

[@mahongochinyama7869]

Lol it’s the witchcraft part for me .. yooh otherwise very educative , thank you mama😀

[@Iizzyngozi-ov4xd]

I just looked at the subscribe button and realized she is talking to me 😂 I always taught I was subscribed 😅😅

[@busayoawujoola1337]

And your voice Ma. It's so heavenly, so cool and wonderful to listen to Ma 😊 Podcast friendly Ma 🥰

[@janetnowel8286]

I love your laughs in between the conversations. Fun to watch and value filled. Thank you ma.

[@DoxaTony-ll7ur]

I just love PL❤

[@joanaagamah6877]

Very helpful, God bless you maa❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@QueenofBoujeeCuisine]

I love her 😂😂😂😂 look at me, I look at you !

[@nwokejikingsley7867]

Thank you PL! Questions about finances is another one

[@houseofsoliahos7744]

Good day ma, please we need you to do a video about talking about your past relationship to your present partner, is it ideal to tell your present partner who and numbers of whom you have dated. Please kindly educate.

[@favournnadoro6733]

Very Insightful and helpful

[@preciousmomentswithtasha353]

Thank you Ma,on my way to conduct interview 😁

[@SommySparkle]

Awesome 🎉

[@anitabisong2383]

Awesome topic. God bless you.

[@mz_cheekah]

This is a beautiful video PL. This is a great topic and I really enjoyed and learnt from it.

[@mpholetlaka6490]

Talk about these cellphones that destroy so many relationships and marriages

[@rodneyadjei8024]

Great information...

[@Ceelight20]

Thank you for blessing my life Pastor Iren. This is my first time watching 😊

[@Model_e_leona]

Conversations about finances

[@favourubi5788]

"I laugh in itsekiri" 😂😂

[@ohisHelen]

😂😂

[@KeionEdwards-j3y]

Great content, truly relevant, only at the end could you create a list of the topics for display just to reiterate. Thanks

[@anthoniabalogun]

You are looking beautiful Pastor Mrs.

[@gloryyussuf4335]

I love you ma. Thanks God bless you ma.

[@graceodafe4058]

Thank you 😊

[@ifeoluwaaraoye4565]

God bless you ma.❤

[@lifestyleoflulu8454]

What about someone who doesn’t ask questions and he knows everything about her and has observed

[@abimbolaolumuyiwa]

Nice video as always PL! Finances is another important conversation to have before marriage

[@modestafrimpong3850]

God bless you woman of God ❤

[@ShoupoBrinda]

Thank u 🙏

[@agahiuruth6279]

I just like to hear you laugh PL😂. Thank you for sharing this Ma.

[@YalaMan01]

Momma ❤

[@AzubiLife7282]

Thank You very much for this Videos. Please if you could do a video also about how to handle Toxic parents and if it’s a good idea to set Boundaries with toxic parents and childhood trauma before Marriage… Would really be very helpful Thank U very much

[@LajuIren]

Makes sense. I’ll do it

[@helenfrancis4321]

This is so insightful!

[@EuniceAgada]

Thank you 💕 ma this video is very helpful

[@shidinje]

Welcome PL, my past 2 fridays have been empty without your videos and laughter

[@blessingokafor2709]

Thank you ma Really deep matters to talk about Conversations on finance and how to save is also necessary

[@restoringyourconfidence]

@LajuIren This is just everything. I’m in a position where I am struggling to make my husband understand that I’m now working and I cannot do a lot of house chores and I need help. Even though he was doing them before. I also feel that he is not supportive the way I want him to be in where God is taking me to right now. 😢

[@yetunde.ashiru]

Continue to communicate your feelings to him and back it up with prayers and you will see how God will work wonders on him and he will come around. Good luck 🍀

[@ShoupoBrinda]

Courtship is for interview not for intercourse Thanks 👍

[@missrd395]

Very good and helpful video!!

[@busayoawujoola1337]

My book is full. Thank you Ma. 🙏❤️

[@lilicasablanca1056]

Gems all around. thx for the heads up.

[@babiryeprecious6214]

Thank you for sharing.... God bless you 🤗🤗🤗

[@bankolevictor6597]

All points noted and will definitely be taken into consideration. Thank you Pastor Mrs Laju Iren. More wisdom from above.

[@bisiriyurukayatabiodun3833]

Thank you so much ma. God bless you ma.

[@EstherOkafor-qk3cl]

I really appreciate this...

[@temitopebalogun1531]

Full of insights. Thank you ma

[@folakemioluduro]

Thank you so much for this ma ❤

[@TitilopeEuniceFakunle]

Thank you PL😍, this is really an eye-opening

[@favourojiruen6524]

Wooowww So eye-opening 👏👏 Thank you ma

[@MulweliMulaudzi-jw1sw]

This was too good thank you ❤

[@OyinAlao]

PL, you laugh in Itsekiri?😭😂😂😂

[@olaitanyemisi9469]

Thank you PL for this insights. My note is full. God bless you greatly ma.

[@winifredakoni2124]

WOW Am noting. I'll soon have to use this knowledge. Thank you Mme

[@boluwatifemichael1444]

I so much love this particular episode! Very expository and practical! Thank you PL!

[@adadioramma6232]

Finance is also key.

[@GloriaDarkoInspires]

Thank you Jesus🙏 Thank you Ma❤

[@Justdiddy-d3w]

Thank you for this video pastor Laju🤍🙏🏻

[@VechuiyiehBlandine]

Ma please whst advice can you give couples who attend different churches and have responsibilities in these churches

[@maxwellakhabue2834]

Good one.. thanks alot

[@peteradeleye5713]

Thank you so much PL for this. Such wisdom tips to be applied. All these points noted ma'am.

[@asontachinyere41]

Very profound. Thank you Pst Laju

[@ilesanmiomolayo5050]

Thank you PL it’s so impactful

[@rhodaking6558]

Thanks for this insightful series

[@Joyandfelixfamily-go9wg]

Good One And Thanks ❤️🖐️

[@MiracleImoudu]

Thank you pastor ma