Being A Man - Just Saying Episode 76

[@marcuslee7840]

OG crew is back!!

[@SeanDaDucky]

If you’re at 30% at the end of a tiring day and you give 30% to your partner, that’s you giving your 100%.

[@lalalalaland84]

Ive been wondering about the shoes. Whats the story?

[@grys9245]

Fml this combi damn gold sibeh funny 😂 really love how diverse all your opinions are. But really appreciate munah sharing the story about the couple who made the situation of having the husband stay home to take care of the family and the wife providing financially work. Jade was explaining why it’s fine to be a stay-home mom and i agree, but that’s if both parties want that. It should be totally fine if the roles were reversed, like in munah’s story. A wife who refuses to consider her husband wanting to stay home with the kids / a husband who refuses to consider being the one to stay home - both problems. Both shit. Both misogynistic in a way as well. Because gender shouldn’t play a part when you try to come up with the most advantageous and fair proposition. - from my humble pov of someone whose dad did a great stay-home-dad stint but mum resented a lot - it was unfortunate how they could not make it work. Edit: shoutout to jackie - the constant subtle humour but also very reasonable viewpoints - speaks less than the rest but every time he speaks i know it’s gonna be great!

[@charlesYoungbae]

money = power, that's society. As men in general seeks gaining more power or even regards it as a competition, naturally they'll feel unbalanced inside, insecure, etc. but it doesn't has to be this way in YOUR relationship although it's easier said than done. I feel it's particularly sensitive to those who are being brought up in a traditional/hierarchy family and ESPECIALLY to those fkers who uses power to control or oppress others, they ain't want anyone else to gain the upper hand on them

[@apulputra3772]

I think its not about the money, but about our expectation from our partner. like say you discuss your financial situation before getting married and both decide that it's enough for just the man to provide then there's no reason to abuse the power. most of the time things like this happened because they dont discuss this thing before marrying each other, they just expect things.

[@squishypillow3162]

Bro it’s bcos you’re insecure so you think men in general seek more power, not the other way around…

[@baby00yyjustint]

I swear this podcast is truly amazing especially when you have two beautiful ladies providing real honest inputs about the topic on hand. Esp jade.. she's god damn finneeeeeee

[@connormcchicken5915]

This is my go to watch for when I do cardio. A perfect 30mins

[@AziDNanA]

Cut the crap with the misogyny things. Just respect what your partner want. Stay at home or working. If u dont agree, dont marry. Make things clear before marriage. What so hard about it? Why need to brand people misogyny for their preferense?

[@rahat3181]

Exactly! It isn't misogyny, they use the term so liberally 😂

[@TalEdds]

Preference is one thing, mysogyny is another, that is more extreme. They use their power to control others. What you said is an idealistic view that we should strive towards, but mysogynists don't view it like that and abuse their powers. They should still be called out.

[@crazychewie96]

one of the best episodes lately!

[@libraries144]

As a man, i feel like you need to get your life together (daddy vibes) you can choose and filter away all the toxic women and focus on career and yourself. The good quality woman will come by and notice that quality. A strong capable man attracts strong feminine women

[@Jaekngan]

I think even the term "provider" is sensitive. I don't believe in having a provider in a relationship, as if the other is not capable of providing for their own needs if the relationship was nonexistent in the first place.. I'd use "giver", which means the same gestures but whoever can be the giver in different contexts depending on each partner's strengths and weaknesses, regardless of gender. It implies no roles and no absolute expectations (the provider always expected to provide even if they become tired).