being self aware is torture

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@rreeii_192 2 ай бұрын

I really liked the video but I think there's an *inaccuracy* in the way you put the concept "self awareness" You see especially at 2:59 by saying adressing it as by "choice" is really wrong. Self awareness is the conscious knowledge of onw's own character, feelings, values and desires. * ı t is the ability to reflect on oneself and recognize PATTERNS IN one's THOUGHTS, BEHAVIORS AND EMOTIONS* (doom scrolling in order to avoid oneself from a certain stress source (wanting to better yourself but constantly failing) -> ending up more doom scrolling and feeling worse) Through self awareness inviduals can understand their *strentgths* , *weaknesses* and *how they are perceived by others* The issue is in this video at 2:59 saying by " *choice* " is wrong because when you doom scroll/procrastination especially constantly this means there's an under lying, much more deep rooted issue that is not adressed yet. Let me give you an example "Ugh I should be doing my math project but I just cant stop scrolling" -> *Not self awareness* "Ugh I should be doing my math project but I keep scrolling because I have subconscious beliefs of being worthless so my brain logically decides to contuine scrolling instead of putting in hard work because it believes its not worth to stick long term goals + its easier to stay in its comfort zone which is the habit of scrolling" -> *Actual self awareness* *So my overall point if you cant bring yourself to do something constantly it probably because theres a more deep rooted issue that prevents one from doing what will actually make them happier in the long run BEING ABLE TO ADRESS THOSE ISSUES AND RECOGNIZE THESE PATTERNS IS ACTUAL SELF AWARENESS* *Being self aware actually makes one happier and is a blessing to have.* sorry if I came out aggresive I just wanna help people understand its not just being lazy and help them be aware there is a bigger problem

@rreeii_192 2 ай бұрын

pls pin this more ppl needs to be aware of the main issiue bcs this vid's main concept is wrong i just wanna help others bcs i suffered from this as well and had been in my lowest so i dont want anyone feeling the same + including u being self aware (knowing your values and deep rooted main issues) is a good thing that helps ppl in therapy understand themselves better

@muthuram9345 2 ай бұрын

Well said,really hit me

@ZeraAxon 2 ай бұрын

1:35 but he does say this Yes we could/should be seeing it as a blessing yet some people have a harder time to identify that as such and see it as a negative instead. While I agree, it is much easier said than done when trying to put everything in a “self awareness” perspective

@skyofglass1243 2 ай бұрын

I agree except on "The ability to address those issues". Being aware of something doesn't mean you can fix those things; you just have the potential to work towards fixing those things. For example, in the case of a cancer diagnosis, the patient becomes aware they have cancer. They can take steps to potentially fix the situations but ultimately the outcome isn't fully in control. Self-Actualization is more-so inline with being able to address the issues one is self-aware of. An legless amputee being self aware knows they will never be able to walk again. The awareness of the situation doesn't make him any closer to being able to walk again. It's a fallacy to think the knowledge of a problem means you are able to address it. For example in my case, I'd like kids at some point. I'm getting older and the chances of that are happening are decreasing as I get older. There's always the possibility that I could never have kids and start a family, I'm self aware of that. There isn't a situation where knowing ones goals or ambitions might never be achieved could be seen as comforting, or a happy thought. This is the true reality of self-awareness. Anyone who is truly self-aware is aware that there's always the possibility that no matter how hard you try, how much you struggle, how much you endure, you might never achieve your goals or aspirations in life. That is why self-awareness is torture.

@rreeii_192 2 ай бұрын

@@skyofglass1243 dang your point is also correct so we can assume self awareness is a way of self-acceptance?

@killuanava9240 3 ай бұрын

" You can't enjoy relaxing, You know you are capable of doing more ". DAMN

@dragondevil69 3 ай бұрын

what's the point of life if it's not relaxing?

@TrickyMfer 3 ай бұрын

@@dragondevil69working, bringing another mfs into this world and dying after working ur whole life

@dragondevil69 3 ай бұрын

@@TrickyMfer that's the purpose of life not the point

@TrickyMfer 3 ай бұрын

@@dragondevil69 regarding the point, it doesn't exist at all

@polo3292 2 ай бұрын

@@TrickyMferif this is the point of life, then call me a pumpticuition badumtssss

@jakebailey9129 5 ай бұрын

Been highly self aware as a child felt like a curse growing up in a family that just wasn’t, I tried so damn hard to get them to see what was obvious to me only to be shot down, ignored. It was like they lacked something essential.

@Burgercat55 5 ай бұрын

I know exactly how you feel 😔

@destroycuh 5 ай бұрын

Exactly, being self aware as a child was horrible because family members automatically assume that because you’re young you lack any sense of awareness and maturity. So when you try to offer advice they feel insecure that a child thinks they know best.

@kingderper928 5 ай бұрын

I know, i still deal with it now. My parents aren’t deep thinkers like me, they can’t relate to the feeling…

@Dolritto 5 ай бұрын

It's like watching people not being capable of using their brains, but I also feel envy towards them. Life makes no sense.

@jofish5678 4 ай бұрын

I always felt very self-aware as a child. I could see what my parents were doing was hurtful and abusive. But there was nothing I could do to talk to them or change them.

@alonsoalcantar7847 5 ай бұрын

I got that self-awareness, childhood abuse, social anxiety, no bitches combo.

@BabyTsunami05 5 ай бұрын

SAME LMFAO

@estrelaplatinada6506 5 ай бұрын

the last one can be either bad (as you say) or good

@ghostlyman4289 5 ай бұрын

Real

@SelfTalk0 5 ай бұрын

we're in the same pack I guess lol

@matty_daddy 5 ай бұрын

Hello? Me?

@josephweeden928 3 ай бұрын

That feeling when you realize you're self aware because you hate yourself.

@LobotomyTC Ай бұрын

That wasn't your first realization?

@Cakecherryyy 2 күн бұрын

😂😂

@mrbrightside5581 5 ай бұрын

Life is a soup and Im a fork

@AliseBrenae 5 ай бұрын

So true

@lucituci97 5 ай бұрын

You are truly a poet.

@ENZERYN 5 ай бұрын

This much self awareness is enough to stay a spoon

@nagadoooo 5 ай бұрын

Namjooooonnn

@TuanNguyen-tq1lx 5 ай бұрын

With time, you will eventually become a spork

@seanerdzlolkinlord2478 4 ай бұрын

The main issue I tend to have isn’t improper self talk or anything along those lines but rather it’s when there’s a problem you have without an immediate and obvious solution. Just cause you know what’s wrong doesn’t mean you know how to fix it. I usually mix my strong introspection skills with therapy and a support group to add to existing perspective. It helps a lot in finding solutions or goals to work towards when it comes to self help.

@seanerdzlolkinlord2478 4 ай бұрын

Also keep in minds that there are layers beyond just what you can do. There are still reasons you don’t. For example calling yourself lazy because you know you have the skill yet won’t do it for no obvious / discernible reason. It doesn’t mean the reason doesn’t exist which can be an exiting thought process to figure out why even if it’s something small like a phone addiction. This sort of reasoning can drive you in spiraling circles sometimes (given me a few panic attacks) but I think it’s worth it in the end to really know who you are in the moment and why you do the things you do.

@stephlala094 5 ай бұрын

Being self aware and being emotional is HORRIBLE 😭😭😭

@legacysdreamlife9021 5 ай бұрын

Being self aware and having anxiety and trauma KILLS me

@darkreunion7882 5 ай бұрын

@@legacysdreamlife9021 being self aware, with social anxiety and being super emotinal is tiring

@mitae-e 5 ай бұрын

your not emotional or sensitive, you're just more emotionally intelligent, meaning you can empathize with others more and understand their emotions, but when people do anything to affect your emotions, you respond to it in a more sensitive way because you're overall more sensitive and kinder, knowing you can't just lay off something like that.

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

Matthew 3 2: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand" John 3 16-17:God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. John 14 6: Jesus replied: I am the way the truth and the life,no one comes to the Father except through me. Repent of your sins and put your faith and trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior

@MidnightNad 5 ай бұрын

@@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w go away

@Chris-b4w8t 5 ай бұрын

I hate being self aware especially that hyper awareness of existing and being inside your body, it’s literally so scary and gives me anxiety lol

@Bdavis2475 4 ай бұрын

No It's not scary. Trying to control the future is what causes anxiety. But just inhabiting your body in the present moment is very peaceful

@l0bsterk1ng 5 ай бұрын

I'm not gonna lie, a few months ago I gained the ability to think deeply about myself and I realized I was being a lazy piece of shit and every single problem in my life was because of me. I don't really have those moments where I feel hopeless because I understand that I am the only person who can solve my problems and that is comforting for me.

@frankaxe6700 5 ай бұрын

Same man

@amadeuscrossing7061 5 ай бұрын

I had the opposite realization initially, the thought “I am the only one who can solve my problems” put me in a pit of despair for 3 years

@damson9470 5 ай бұрын

thank u for this perspective. it is kinda comforting, altho a little bit scary too. it means i don't have to fully rely on, and therefore give all my power to, other people. but then again it also means in the end the only one responsible for my life is me. nice little paradox. i never thought of the comforting part tho so ty

@dreambuilder4536 5 ай бұрын

I think this goes hand in hand with interconnections; we are the only ones capable of changing things, and people out there can be willing to assist

@legacysdreamlife9021 5 ай бұрын

THIS. I dont get anxious when i get thrown a curve ball cause i know im gonna work it out but im anxious trying to figure out a plan b4 shit hits the fan😭😭

@EricK-nm2gg 5 ай бұрын

Being kind to yourself too. Before being self-aware, you were just groping in the dark, occasionally improving, maybe even going backwards. But being aware, you decide the direction you take, up and you achieve more than you ever could being unaware. Be proud of yourself for the achievements you get.

@stfu-pi-ddk1ddo891 5 ай бұрын

i can't be proud of myself. I know i can do this, i know i'm capable, but i just don't do it, i just get anxious. And when i do it, i can't be proud because the task itself was easy, and it was the thing i was supposed to do, anyone could have done it. I feel like an ostrich, just looking up my ass, watching all the shit inside, just feeling sorry about myself, feeling angry and disappointed about myself, not thinking about anyone, except me, in my own little fucked world

@EricK-nm2gg 5 ай бұрын

I know what you mean. Remember that the way you think and speak to yourself will create your self image. Of you treat yourself poorly, then you kinda don’t give love to yourself. And when you think yourself as shit, why bother helping someone who is shit? There could be many reasons, but for me, I went inside and realised I suffered from cptsd. Complex trauma. Which resulted in a lot of unhealthy habits like the ones I just mentioned. Maybe your parents didn’t instill good habits and didn’t support you emotionally, I don’t know. But try to work it out one by one. Try looking up this guy, Tim fletcher. He has a lot of videos on KZbin and listening to him finally made me realise that even at 30+ years old, I still wasn’t an adult. School doesn’t teach us these life skills. Actually, a lot of people are thinking like you, and we all go through the same pains of life. Sometimes all we need is someone to believe in us, someone to support us, and you’ll be surprised how much more motivated and full of energy you can be when you get that support. You don’t need to make super big changes dude, it’s just taking one small step at a time. Consistency is more important. But you have to love yourself first before all that can happen. All the best.

@Hivatel 4 ай бұрын

@@stfu-pi-ddk1ddo891 Remember that one thing Gojo from JJK said? "Nah, I'd win." Embody that feeling with all your mind. No matter how much you lose, or how much you feel like you've lost, you are the ultimate winner. That's a true life goal. To ensure that even if you lose literally everything, you will still end up a winner. Someone who can be content with their life in the end. Remember, the rules of the game are entirely decided by you. If you lost, it is because your rules were superceded by the rules of your environment. You can only lose if you allow your fate, your emotions, your will, to be decided by what is around you. Take action for yourself. You alone decide what is truly important to you.

@blade5343 Ай бұрын

@@stfu-pi-ddk1ddo891I always thought I was the only one who was like this, but now seeing these comments I realize that there are actually a lot more people like this than it seems. Maybe if you find someone like you, you can put yourself out there.

@stfu-pi-ddk1ddo891 Ай бұрын

@@blade5343 maybe, but therapy is helping me go throught all that stuff rn, still feeling like shit, but i can sense i'm reaching a turning point. Maybe

@blueberyjuice8242 5 ай бұрын

I love being schizophrenic and having a voice constantly motivating you

@Unklownxkc 5 ай бұрын

This is a wild comment

@FinbarPatrickMcGrath 5 ай бұрын

@@Unklownxkcyea because it’s a lie. Bi schizophrenic loves being schizophrenic.

@SoSo-ci8su 5 ай бұрын

Lol

@King-rudy 5 ай бұрын

Are you Randy Orton?

@yroc2553 5 ай бұрын

Mine doesn't motivate me

@xianxiaemperor1438 5 ай бұрын

Consciousness was a huge mistake fr bro....

@Lazorkite 5 ай бұрын

Too real

@RebelGangTv-ge4if 4 ай бұрын

Word, im mad af i took that acid

@SoLLenyX 4 ай бұрын

DAMN YOU PRIMITIVE WALKING FISH!!!!

@chipsalancienne3080 3 ай бұрын

😭

@fureversalty 3 ай бұрын

dude wtf were the Devs thinking, gah damn this "Consciousness" feature sucks, im uninstalling

@ZENKETS 5 ай бұрын

One thing that helped me is stoicism. Accept what you can’t control and not only that but be happy knowing you ARE trying despite the intricacies in life. I could say more but unfortunately I’m sleepy man

@GovaGaming 5 ай бұрын

doubt you could

@ranoutofgoodusernames8394 5 ай бұрын

This is the way

@leebennett1821 5 ай бұрын

Have you read the Works of Marcus Aurelius

@King_P1 5 ай бұрын

It's perfect the way it is brother, no need saying more.

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@Kentrell252 2 ай бұрын

The fact that this man just completely described me made me cry…idk why but it did because I’m always asking myself what I’m doing wrong or why I am the way I am.

@damson9470 5 ай бұрын

self aware up to a point where u question everything u do and not be able to accept you for who u really are; yes, that is torture. knowing how to accept all parts of you or at least try to; it doesn't have to be torture, there are ways. self acceptance is key. it's about knowing how to use your gifts man. altho it is hard, i can confirm.

@MidnightNad 5 ай бұрын

Self awareness, what a fucking mystery. I hate being it.

@damson9470 3 ай бұрын

@@MidnightNad it's a gift

@blade5343 Ай бұрын

I dont agree its a gift, a gift shouldn't make you suffer.

@3up3rn0va 4 ай бұрын

Bro wtf KZbin this video is scarily accurate on what I’m feeling rn. I had one lady I worked with at a job for 4 years. She randomly says to me: “ You’re way too nice!” At first. I thought it was a compliment but then I realized. Oh no. I realized right at that moment. I had to leave. I was treating my jerks of a supervisors too nicely for too long, and so I quit. My life improved dramatically. It. Was . Overnight. It was crazy. My life got so much better! Or worse idk. 😭

@LobotomyTC Ай бұрын

The most liberating thing I've ever done with my life was ceasing treating my co-workers like people.

@piern1k336 5 ай бұрын

Self awerness made me feel nothing is real and nothing can't make me happy anymore really

@Bdavis2475 4 ай бұрын

Happiness is just a temporary feeling like hunger or curiosity. It's not a life goal. Learn to build inner peace by accepting yourself for what you are today

@laveasta 3 ай бұрын

Same

@purpleO_Ome 3 ай бұрын

Its so comforting to know that I am not the only one who feels that way 😭

@claudeherac Ай бұрын

I am the same. Its like a material thing now and its mostly a choice to feel it. I just want peace

@Jane-75-80 Ай бұрын

@@Bdavis2475 "happiness is not a life goal" so you don't seek things that make you happy?? the hell

@Ultimate_Gamer_3000 5 ай бұрын

I think self awareness hurts more especially when you can't see that path forward and your self awareness turns to arrogance and instead of reflecting you just start beating yourself up for anything that isn't right.

@tammas1728 5 ай бұрын

You are not your thoughts or body but rather your choices. Act in self love and do good things for you and you will then love yourself. Use your gifts to better the human experience rather than wallow in it.

@Emanuele-ms1kh 5 ай бұрын

Mechanism of psychological adaptation

@denontown 5 ай бұрын

i’ve been trying so hard to love and take care of myself more, but i still do not feel that i deserve it, that i should just stop being a human and sacrifice everything that makes me myself for the the ones i love, to achieve my goals to help others, i just can’t see value in myself, i’m not gonna give up but its almost impossible for me to see why i matter

@honeydesigner98 5 ай бұрын

@@denontown who you think you are to them? Their hero? Bro, stf, live your own life for you. Sometimes you will need choose " you or them". Who is with you everytime? Of course!

@damson9470 5 ай бұрын

wrong

@ganithherath3060 5 ай бұрын

you scyuslly aren’t even your choices. YOU are a figment created by ur ego since you aren’t really existing in the way u think u do

@judgement7279 3 ай бұрын

Being happy is necessary in order to be effective, therefore, doing what you like instead of some important things is rational, the only question is balance and everyone has their own.

@Askorias 5 ай бұрын

I started to understand the world we live in, the evil that there is, how bad some people can be, I started to understand how even leaders that are supossed to help us, hate us. I started realizing how truly difficult and trash life can be and how we are going downhill to self destruction. It’s madness and these thoughts torture me everyday. I simply can’t get rid of them, nor can start thinking positively when it’s clear that we are not going the right direction. At least I am able to fight my lazyness but not enough to get rid of the anguish that self awareness consists of.

@WaveOfDestiny 5 ай бұрын

Oh no i am going through that and it was like a pure nightmare, sometimes i wished to jump into a giant frying pan to just stop thinking for a while. I really wish you to stop that mental state before it gets worse: don't consume content that triggers those emotions, that fuels helplessness (media loves to do that because it is addicting). Focus on what you can do about it, learn things that can help you or others do something, improve yourself so it's easier to make the world better, learn new things and your mind will be drawn away from bad thoughts and will start focusing on things that can make your life and maybe the entire world just a bit better. I started focusing on learning how to use new technologies so i increase the chance of surviving or thriving in the AI world, i started donating some money to the poor and for climate change research, i started debating climate change deniers. I researched on who to vote in the european elections to find who is similar to my opinions. Sometimes i overdid it and fell down again thinking that even if i tried hard nothing would change, but even if you believe it doesn't, the very act of trying will change your mind state and make you stronger.,

@legacysdreamlife9021 5 ай бұрын

This but with these realizations O realized that the only standard of life is the one i design for myself so as long as i am happy and content nothing that anyone else thinks has to matter. That's not say that some cant have valid input but I get to decide for myself whether or not I want to hear what they tell me and choose how I incorporate it into my life

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@WaveOfDestiny 5 ай бұрын

@@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w there is no way to choose to believe in something or not. You either believe it or don't. There is no way to be sure what it's written actually happened, not even when you want it to be true. Your words are only making people feel even more doomed than before, instead of helping them you are causing them to loose even more hope. You should be ashamed of yourself, saying things like these in a community that actually needs all the help it can get.,

@Askorias 5 ай бұрын

@@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w Comforting message from a fellow christian. God bless you!

@manimations7007 5 ай бұрын

Yup definitely feels like a blessing and a curse to be too self aware

@coolmanking9001 14 күн бұрын

trying to accept myself and forgiving myself for past mistake has helped me live more peacefully

@lennytheface9601 5 ай бұрын

Imagine being self aware about being self aware about being self aware about being self aware about being self aware But fr this video is kinda real

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@plastictouch6796 5 ай бұрын

Only fixating on yourself leads to these problems, you need to stop seeing yourself as an isolated atomized individual. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Everything that influences you is influenced by you as well. Your problems are not just your problems but a reflection of the worlds problems. Just as the world's problems cannot be solved by you acting alone as an individual so too can your own problems not be solved only by you as an individual. That is the trap that we have all been placed in by our culture to keep us in chains. We are all told to only look at things from an individual perspective and are never taught to see how the world effects us. We are falsely taught that the world can never be changed and so to fixate solely on ourselves, but the reality as that we can't change ourselves either without also changing the world and that cannot be done alone. For ourselves to change the world also needs to change and vice versa. This requires collective action, not isolated self reflection. If you are stuck in isolated self reflection then nothing will ever change.

@sspidersociety 3 ай бұрын

@@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w This is the reason I have purpose, an assignment, and a will to keep going ^^^

@powiey436 2 ай бұрын

realest comment evwr

@ellgitongaming2038 2 ай бұрын

@@plastictouch6796 You single paragraphically displayed my thinking pattern just with your perspective on things which is for sure, magnificent !! I believe that a better way to describe it is; For he is a narcissist who thinks of himself highly, whether in obsession or in hatred. (just composed). Though I believe it would be better to meditate on others problems more than ours and slowly connect them to ours. as they say "for a genius, one sign is enough".

@Kingdoperks 19 күн бұрын

Being Self-Aware is what you make it. Ive learned, that you can dig yourself a deep dark hole by just thinking. Think positive, think and know that you have a blessing instead of a curse. I still lack this and probably will for a few years.

@abrahamlincoln1681 5 ай бұрын

"Abe Approved"- Abraham Lincoln

@SoyoThinkImStupid 5 ай бұрын

THE LEGEND IS HERE 🫡

@abrahamlincoln1681 5 ай бұрын

@@SoyoThinkImStupid “The Legend is you”- Abraham Lincoln

@larcybadon7117 5 ай бұрын

Sheeeesh the legend gave his honour to another legend its fire🔥🔥

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@Cdxu22121 3 ай бұрын

@@abrahamlincoln1681the glazing is CRAZY

@purpleO_Ome 3 ай бұрын

Self aware + sensitive = the deadliest combo ever. Self awareness make me realise that i can never be content with the present and being sensitive make me depressed about that :_)

@xinhan7 5 ай бұрын

this made me feel so seen. it's comforting, yet freeing to just accept the way i am rather than always trying to fight it or shame myself for the way my brain works. love the vids!

@Hivatel 4 ай бұрын

That's one of your questions answered. You have a lot more to go, but this is just the beginning. I hope you'll reach a place where you can be content in the end. Where you can decide your purpose and what you wish to be. Remember, as long as you are able to keep striving for it, there is no waste. If you can be who you want to be, do the things you want to do, then there will be no regrets left for you by the end of your life. Live this life the way you truly want to, and it will have been worth living, I assure you. If you ever get stuck in hard times where things truly feel hopeless, and your efforts feel wasted, I want you to remember this quote. "Nah, I'd win." If you want an explanation for that, it's the confidence behind that quote that matters. The assuredness that no matter what happens, you will win. No matter how any situation ends, your life will always have been worth living. No matter how much you lose, you have already won.

@blacklight683 Ай бұрын

Its so interesting that i knwo exsactly what's wrong with me and others, yet its like my a cannon event where i cant stop something i know is coming

@mr.sheeppeehs4204 5 ай бұрын

I do consider myself to be more self-aware than the average person, but I can’t really use this trait to understand others because I am just different from most people when it comes to many things. Luckily I don’t experience the downsides too much either. Yeah I sometimes tell myself that I should do this thing instead of being too scared/lazy to do it, but I combat this voice by simply telling it to do the thing if it’s so easy. Great video

@blue-the-realist 5 ай бұрын

Im not completely convinced that its hard,but us in general( aware ppl) we’re more likely to suffer from tiny,fragile or in the very least(annoying or seems not normal)because we highly think of ourselves but we’re good

@damson9470 5 ай бұрын

you're not different man. some people just hide the parts they don't want to show better than others. every single one of us is more alike than we think.

@legacysdreamlife9021 5 ай бұрын

Took me a WHILE to realize this but it's cause i have trauma and adhd

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@damson9470 5 ай бұрын

@@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w amazing.

@thepunisherxxx6804 2 ай бұрын

Being self-aware is an incredible gift humans have to rationally analyze their behaviors and drives and make changes to improve our situation. Yes its hard, emotional, difficult, but its the one thing that lets us be capable of change. You are not locked into the same person and being. If things in your life are bothering you, don't ruminate on them or sit on them because your brain isn't going to let that happen, it will remind you daily. TAKE ACTION. Anxiety and stress comes from procrastination at its core, for both practical things that need to get done, and self-improvement or trauma that needs to be addressed.

@nicodelgado8728 5 ай бұрын

Such is the human condition, you said it. Being conscious is torture, but its also something that cam build tremendous character

@BigWrangler 5 ай бұрын

It honestly blows my mind that most people arent self aware but probaly think that they are. They never grow as people. I dont like that im self aware and it does mess with my mind alot but at least im growing

@marcuswaterman3233 5 ай бұрын

I can definitely relate to that example at 2:22, I tend to take my weekends off work to do nothing but have fun just watching videos or playing games, but at the end of it I feel kinda hollow, like sure I enjoyed the time I had to do those things but that feeling of enjoyment is fleeting and I think I could have done so much more, I feel like I'm wasting my time yet I go back to do it all again, and I say I can always change, but when I do I never commit, and just regress. there's other aspects of my life that my "self awareness" just decides to pick apart so needlessly, it seems like it's just me being too critical of my every action, and I do sometimes wish that I wasn't like this, but I can't be. I don't really know if I had a point to this when I started typing but, I think the best you can do is be kind to yourself but still hold yourself accountable, and try to do better when you can. something I read that I should think of more often is, try to imagine the things you are saying are being said to another person, you wouldn't be so cruel to someone else in the same boat would you, so why should you subject yourself to it. You don't deserve it. Much love to anyone who reads this

@notzay5573 3 ай бұрын

"discipline is choosing what you want in the future over what you want now "- said some smart guy one time.

@uc22_swo1p 5 ай бұрын

This video literally describes me… I’m actually scared how accurate this is.. not even off by a bit. And i’m not even exaggerating… Thank’s i guess..l hopefully with this new information.. i can actually start to fix myself

@noname-ed2un 5 ай бұрын

Bro same. Every single detail was me and to a scary extent.

@Venexe 5 ай бұрын

same lol

@logic7124 5 ай бұрын

Who are you trying to prove that this video completely describes you. Does that make you feel better about yourself

@noname-ed2un 5 ай бұрын

@@logic7124 why would he need to prove it to anyone? Why would he want to prove this to anyone? This assumption could be telling, more about you, than the person you seem to be in question of

@Taofizzle 5 ай бұрын

@@logic7124Lool you have problems… if that’s how you take that comment

@nikmok436 5 ай бұрын

the fact that I clicked on this video at this specific moment in time is astounding. i am stoned in my bed eating a tub of yogurt putting things off basically mimicking exactly how i spent my teenage years and i had been thinking of this lately and even today. I did this all the time, avoiding social situations and so on. This pretty much described it to a T. I needed to see this

@conejitorosada2326 5 ай бұрын

A curse of being too self aware is that the person you're giving advice to doesn't take it because they think it doesn't apply to them when it absolutely does

@legacysdreamlife9021 5 ай бұрын

Sometimes they dont understand the allegory and it can be irritating but you cant make someone be self aware

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@Scallywag_Gilbert68 4 ай бұрын

honestly this is very relatable, sometimes my thoughts alone make me go crazy but in actually im silent and not even moving, it is because i either judge myself harshly based on one thing or experience or if in a situation in uncomfortable in but chose to be in

@Troller971 5 ай бұрын

The way you are describing "self-awareness" fit better for the definition of "over-sensitive" : In my mind self awareness is just being a wise person, so I can't understand how that can be a bad thing in any way. But i also agree that over-sensitiveness can be overwhelming because of an overflow of information, yet it can really be a great blessing if you are able to tame this sensitivity.

@nicorobin7762 4 ай бұрын

it’s actually called being introspective

@TommyReaperProductions 5 ай бұрын

I go a step above that…. The world competes to be strong and recognized… I compete to be weak and I could literally care less about being recognized…. The world cares so much about their reputation, image, ego, comfort, and pride… I care more about my responsibilities and bettering myself and others… The world cares so much about being better at being good enough than everybody else is… I don’t place my self worth on what people say, do, think, feel, or believe…. Instead my self worth is based on how weak, vulnerable, and careless I can get and responsible I can be…. The world wants society to contribute to them and to make them feel better in every way possible… I contribute to society with no promise of return and I try to let things roll off my shoulders as much as possible…. The world tries to deny what isn’t conducive enough for their reputation, image, ego, comfort, and pride…. They hold grudges… try to escape or disown what ever isn’t good enough… I spend my time doing my best to accept it until it no longer matters anymore…. The world fears the past repeating its self…. I understand that the past can’t repeat its self if your prepared to handle everything in the moment and you forget about the past and you forget about the future and you live in the moment…. I don’t self modify… And I don’t try to impress myself or anybody else…. And then I look at the world around me and it’s like…. Yep… People are crazy at different levels…. Still trying to be good enough to be constantly reminded that they are ok….. In a world that’s constantly trying to remind them that they’re not good enough and they need to do better….. I try not to self punish, self shame, self blame, or self attack… I try to be self compassionate, self forgiving, self understanding, Weak and vulnerable and humble… In a world that tries to do the opposite…. How’s that for unplugged from the matrix???

@hypatch8014 5 ай бұрын

I read this before clicking on this video, and I think it explains why it's torture pretty well: "Our will is mobilized and we decide, “I just won’t be that way any more!” Then comes the final shattering shock, when we discover that, in part at least, this is impossible no matter how we try. For the subconscious represents energically charged autonomous patterns of feeling and behavior. Their energy cannot simply be stopped by an act of will. What is needed is rechanneling or transformation."

@Hivatel 4 ай бұрын

An act of will is what fuels rechanneling or transformation. But the person needs to know how to do so. It should never be a shattering shock. You should look at the pieces and go "run it back". And keep going. While you live your life.

@GreySeashell-j3m Ай бұрын

Being self-aware made me both confident and doubtful of my thoughts and beliefs. Truly a schrodinger existence.

@MMWMWMMWWMWMWMWMW 5 ай бұрын

Your videos has been great help to me. I always seem to compare myself to others like “why can they do that easily but i can’t?” “why do they not struggle like i do?” and it’s honestly been consuming me, i’ve stopped comparing myself to others and started accepting myself and that this is the way i am. Thank u for making this video btw your content is goated

@HibuddyluddyD Ай бұрын

I've never had a bicep that describes me this well because I used to always think I was the only person who would think like this but I finally found my people:D

@mainShreya 5 ай бұрын

What a masterpiece of a video!!! Discussing all the deeper issues while addressing and invoking the perfect set of emotions on the perfect moment and still managing to keep the mood lighter with those quirkey little animations and characters. Now that's what I call a real skill.

@BryceMcFarland-ys1sc 2 ай бұрын

Life’s pretty heavy right now and found out today that my ex is no more on this world and that made me cry and emotional

@foxboi6482 5 ай бұрын

21 Pilots was so real for saying "wish we could turn back time, to the good old days"

@syvvk 5 ай бұрын

@MarioMarioBW 5 ай бұрын

We’ll have to be real and settle for the day now and those going forward, accept those days behind us are done and gone, make the best of what we’ve got left to fulfill what we still can instead of dwelling too much on what we’ve lost just getting here.

@debbiewilder4738 5 ай бұрын

When our mama sang us to sleep But now we're stressed out (oh) ♡

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@logosdev 5 ай бұрын

@@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w6 DOLLAR SHRIMP SPECIAL

@keane4464 5 ай бұрын

I'd say I'm self aware, I understand my advantages and disadvantages, my full potential and my bottom line. That's what makes it so painful, because I know that due to my drawbacks, I'll never be able to reach my full potential.

@animeedits3984 5 ай бұрын

Well this hits me like a truck. The pressure to the thought that we're better than this is truly suffocating but the pros of this is that we know that we need to change and no matter how much we might fall, we just need to let go of that burden (either if it is failing a test, losing friends, giving in to any addiction, family problems, financial problems and so much more) relax your mind, and try again. Why? Because Life is an endless battle, the problems will be with you forever and that's okay. It's okay to fail no matter how many times but the choice is yours if you will continue to fight that endless battle or to let your emotions consume you. The choice is ALWAYS ours since at the end of the day it's OUR life.

@Tom-z1p Ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. Being self aware the way i am is really hard sometimes, especially during puberty since i just started to feel odd and different but through this video and the things you said i realized that i am not the only one struggeling with this blessing. I feel like i am on a good path and i hope i can forgive myself more, and maybe this comment was the first step to doing so :)

@mikolvsyou 5 ай бұрын

i really needed this. thank you for making these points, i think us that are self-aware resist because it's the simplest route to take. sure, it's bliss to be unaware of things, but you have to make peace out of what you're given. you make beautiful points in all your videos and i hope you continue to make them :)

@billyrbs9386 5 ай бұрын

Cried about 3 times today. I'm thankful I was able to watch this video, relate to it, reflect, and be especially grateful to end it off on a high note. Your wisdom is much appreciated and helps a majority of the community. Thank you.

@Zufli338 4 ай бұрын

It makes me feel better knowing that there’s lots of other likeminded folks especially those who were self aware from a very young age, nothings new under the sun

@areebatanwir344 5 ай бұрын

This has to be one the realest videos I think I've ever watched in a long time. Heck, the torture of self-awareness is something I rant about a lot in my notes app! I'm sure a lot of us can agree, and though it is hard to take in, I'm just glad none of us are alone in the way we process the information around us. :) Rumination is a huge part of the problem of over-self-analyzing, but as you have mentioned, it really can be helpful sometimes. Maybe with enough time and practice, we can learn to have an on-off switch for it sometime.

@iloverainbowcat 3 ай бұрын

This video changed my perspective on my self awareness. i actually got up and cleaned my room which I haven't done in 7 months.

@russianstreamerguy 5 ай бұрын

5:56 , nah, to know yourself you need to do external work, not internal. Doing internal work is actually a trap for self-aware people, I experienced it myself. We have to do something external in order to our brain to have the information for internal work, thinking about something without experiencing it is completely useless, it is like thinking about making friends instead of actually going somewhere and trying. Firstly we have to gather information with external actions, and only then think about it and do internal work. So yeah, external>internal. Internal work is useless if it is not based on the knowledge that you gathered by doing something. But overall, this is a great video :D , it is nice to be reminded that there are a lot of self aware people, and we're all struggling together)

@BuizelCream 5 ай бұрын

To add nuance to this, there are personality types out there that the biggest bang for their buck is actually doing internal work since they're the types of people who are naturally productive and/or social-oriented, but lack the introspection, contemplation, and self-awareness skills to make real meaning and long-term vision of what they're constantly doing. In their case, primarily doing external work and being busy making experiences while procrastinating on the benefits of honing mindfulness and looking inward is their trap.

@thee_empowerer 5 ай бұрын

@@BuizelCreamboth comments are so true. We as beings tend to theorize these concepts but choose not to take that same understanding, love and appreciation that will help our own negative thought and feeling patterns… when the best way we can dissolve these patterns is to give others those things, when we can’t give it to ourselves and we get out of that karmic loop. And vice versa for the extrovert that doesn’t have the internal relationship set and they should practice more non action, sitting in more silence and stillness to build that relationship..

@JesseEko 5 ай бұрын

This makes so much sense yeah !

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@arischmari8440 4 ай бұрын

This video describes my brain shortly after I turned 25 and my frontal lobe finally fully developed 💀 it’s making me realize I’ve been struggling to handle my self awareness and that’s why I’ve been so discordant 🤕

@scar_yeet 5 ай бұрын

I have never related more to a video honestly, this is so true it's a blessing and a curse but if I were given a choice I probably would choose to be self aware rather than a menace. Tough it is hard to convince yourself that at your lowest moments when you're crying alone in your room at 3 am, I think it is worth it (sometimes).

@Sukuna1-_-7 5 ай бұрын

Don't let self awereness imagine you. Trust me. Your demons will try to eat you alive. If your brain starts imagining you on it's own, prepare to fight the toughest battle of your life, that's the only thing you can do from that point.

@Its_salwas_world 5 ай бұрын

i am so happy i got to discover your channel when it first started, its truly a treasure and it feels good to find someone who things the same and goes through simile things as me.

@mrman6025 Ай бұрын

I’ve been what i think a more philosophical person for my whole life, It really manifested itself when i was about 11, where i had a serious existential crisis period. I just genuinely didn’t see any reason to human existence. Why do we exist. Why should i care, whats after death. why am i, me. But one thing that pulled me out of this slump was absurdism, (not trying to push my philosophical ideas onto you, just sharing a experience). To embrace to absurdity of why we exist, that the universe is completely devoid of the answers we so deeply seek, to know that we’ll probably never find out the answers to our questions, but to live. Just for the sake of living, to live your life to the fullest. To know that you’ll die someday, but still be able to enjoy a simple sweet in its entirety. To make the most of this single play through of this fantastic game we call life. To accept opportunities, to take risks. To love. To care. Meaning is a cake you bake yourself, and you don’t need the answers to the absurd to enjoy it. Thanks for reading stranger, it’s nice to reflect on these things every once in a while. Have a good one.

@Fllixus 5 ай бұрын

This video is really hitting the seriousness of the topic while still being very enjoyable and kind of light? I'm not sure how to explain it but this video was really touching and I loved it. Thanks for the great video and can't wait to watch more!!

@swastikpatel4736 4 ай бұрын

I was always aware of what was going on in life from a very young age and yes it's a torcher for sure. Sometimes ignorance is blizz.

@-sumeya-7074 5 ай бұрын

but ALSO self awareness can be both good and bad (i didnt watch the whole vid lol so idk if u said that) but truly, once you first recognise that u are more self aware than others, it really does take a toll on you. but with time and effort you grow capable of using self awareness as a tool and it really does become an advantage rather than a burden. keep going bro

@robertwilliams570 5 ай бұрын

The term too smart for your own good comes to mind

@EsSpada Ай бұрын

Knowledge without an application is like a field with no livestock to graze. One will find relative contentment with ability if they can embrace the potential itself, being aware to all that smiles back at you.

@mididuck 5 ай бұрын

very thought provoking and insightful video! please keep the good work. i think what have helped me the most is noticing the judgement i subtly cast on myself whenever i am "self-aware". nowaday i think it is ok to be sad or lazy a little, because I have learnt to trust myself that i am capable of be better, that it is ok to make mistakes. the problem for me was that whenever i made a mistake, and became "self-aware", i came up with these not entirely true description of myself. i think those judgements are a bit unfair, noticing that it is a motivation i need not a description of myself helps. wish u the best and keep up the good work!

@redcrystal7x 3 ай бұрын

The way that I've coped with my self-awareness is telling myself that everything that I do, regardless of how productive or useful I think it is, is leading me toward another conclusion. My thoughts are always going, always concocting a new answer to a question in the background.

@StyxIris 5 ай бұрын

Overthinking + a sprinkle of ADHD does that sometimes.

@sasaha8389 5 ай бұрын

does what?

@moistmellow1198 4 ай бұрын

Try overthinking with a max dose of ADHD, it can be life-crippling at times.

@Hashisamba9 4 ай бұрын

You got only a sprinkle?😭

@MrMoon-te5xw 4 ай бұрын

@@moistmellow1198 fr you see your entire existence and future crumble right before your eyes

@moistmellow1198 4 ай бұрын

@@MrMoon-te5xw I’ve learned recently the best way to cope w this is to surround yourself w people that make you feel like life is a game of ups and downs, but a game we play together.

@pretzelschannel6595 5 ай бұрын

I like being aware of who I am, and I love this gift of self-awareness too. Yes, it can be sad when you dig deeper and realize that things have a bigger perspective than what others usually think. Self awareness can make you feel horrible because you realize your flaws and problems you can't control, is that how it works? But I've learned how to look- a least, a little farther than what I can see. Self awareness was the tool that made me realize not to go against my natural personality given to me, no matter what, or else things will not turn out great. It was the tool that helped me see holes in my character that I needed to fix, and that is the reward of having to go through more sadness than ignorant people. Ignorance is bliss, but only for a short while. Those unfixed problems will come back to bite you in the rear when the future comes and it is too late. Self-awareness is just a tool that is used to spot those errors in (my) personality, but it is not the one that fixes them.

@DHisNotHere 5 ай бұрын

I miss when I was ignorant and oblivious to everything, ignorance really is bliss fr

@zagrosqazy3798 5 ай бұрын

Did you watch the video. I guess you aren't self aware

@DHisNotHere 5 ай бұрын

@@zagrosqazy3798I'm Aware

@tunisian_stats 4 ай бұрын

Remember when you were a child? You didn’t care about being productive. You just did whatever came in your mind and you were happy about that.

@BunnyBeard7178 5 ай бұрын

Torture is only torture for a while. Once you get used to it, it's little more than a fly buzzing around you. Granted, that fly is also a chainsaw with an obsessive interest with your innards, but that's life. No point worsening the torture with your perspective. Take some steps, make some mistakes, live some life.

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@saturationstation1446 5 ай бұрын

sounds like something a person who's never had to feel physical pain for extended amounts of time against their will and for the pleasure of some sick bastard would say...

@slaydog5102 5 ай бұрын

@@saturationstation1446right…

@slaydog5102 5 ай бұрын

@@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1wGo to church.

@faaaduma6876 5 ай бұрын

If you don't know anything about suffering. It's better for you if you don't say anything at all.

@Uncommony 5 ай бұрын

Self awareness is great when you are aware that you are great. When you feel good about yourself, that's when it's a beautiful thing. Stay Uncommon!

@ajackxe4891 5 ай бұрын

I had a friend that self-proclaimed to be the therapist friend of the group, he thought of himself to be incredibly self-aware and good at analyzing people or breaking them down. To an extent he was, but he wasn't. He didn't realize how awkward, rude or creepy he acted especially towards women, he never realized that the 'best friend' he was yearning for was actually a girlfriend and he'd act incredibly offended if someone were to point that out. He acted like a know-it-all and again to an extent, he was right occasionally but he jumped the gun more frequently than not and assumed a lot of things which came back to bite him in the arse, some of the things he said felt very invalidating for other people and that's why we aren't friends anymore. Don't forget that people are good at hiding their emotions, character, what's happening in their lives and etc. Most if not all of us are probably incredibly self-aware and reflect a lot. Some just know what to do with their reflection and how to control their feelings and thoughts about it, or people don't talk about it.

@ranoutofgoodusernames8394 5 ай бұрын

Many people who self-proclaim themselves as something often stay at a surface level of what they claim to be. While praising themselves, they tend to overlook certain aspects of themselves, which can disprove the accuracy of their self-proclamation. However, not everyone who self-proclaims behaves this way, but it's something to be aware of.

@damson9470 5 ай бұрын

@@ranoutofgoodusernames8394 factual. i used to be like that too. thinking i had the answers to the universe while only scraping at the top of the barrel. i used to think thinking positively was the way to go and that it'd be able to fix any issue, couple years later and i came to harshly find out; FUCK no, that ain't it lmfao. it only removes u from ur actual self more n more, until all u are is the mask u created as a coping mechanism to spare yourself from actual hurt. life is way deeper than just the light. life is way deeper than just the dark too. it's all grey areas. and both must co exist in balance within anything u see for it to be able to evolve and grow; including people.

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@yasininn76 5 ай бұрын

I'm sorry have we fucking met? You've perfectly captured my whole existence in that small segemt right there.

@lucalex4271 5 ай бұрын

Being self aware is only a curse until you finally find someone who is that far off the deep end as you are, and are able to guide them through it and love them for it. It's therapeutic, almost healing and cathartic to see in someone else what you identify in yourself as a burden, and realise it was a gift all along. So much potential to be harnessed, so much good to be done, so much more meaning behind every action and so much need for someone to notice it all. To every single one of the people who feel lost in their own head, I wish for you to look out for everyone you know and care, truly care, because you'll find the odd one out eventually, the one who needs you the most, the one who will put into perspective everything you've been through like it was bound to happen for this. Just don't stop. Don't you dare stop. Go all out, every day, with everything you have, be genuine and caring. Good luck.

@GUNDAMURX73 5 ай бұрын

That inescapable existential torment of knowing that society was built by and for people far less aware than you, and yet you yourself are alienated by your own awareness... and while you struggle and try to figure out how to get ahead in life despite knowing you possess a quality others lack, you see people who are quite frankly idiots meeting all of your metrics for personal success without so much as breaking a sweat. Are there others who understand this frustration?

@williamcompitello2302 5 ай бұрын

Your metrics of success are better than those you envy.

@thedarpside9480 4 ай бұрын

@@williamcompitello2302 are they simply taking it step by step? if his metrics are higher yet the "idiots" meet them without effort, then how could their goals be considered so low?

@williamcompitello2302 4 ай бұрын

He’s talking about people who don’t deserve it. True success comes from benefiting others as well as yourself for, not just now, but for the future. Maybe those who he’s referring to are lacking those values.

@SusanForeman1963 5 ай бұрын

I read a Tumblr post that changed my life that went like: There's no such thing as laziness. Relaxation is important for healing. What you need to do to be less "lazy" is figure out the root cause of why you require so much time to heal. Capitalist society pressures us to constantly be grinding, to always be productive, especially in a way that can be monetized. Lots of things in modern society can make us stressed:The economy and politics, family issues, body image issue, etc. With all this constant pressure on us, so constant that we may not even realize it's there, no wonder all you want to do is lie in bed and scroll on your phone or play video games. It's an avoidance tactic, but ignoring the problem won't make it go away. If you want to be more productive you need to figure out what you need to fix in order to alleviate the stress, and if you can't fix it, you could try finding a different way to relax than just rotting in bed. But first you've got to learn to shut down the voice in your mind calling you a lazy piece of shit. You're not lazy, you're probably just stressed.

@1-__ISA__-1 5 ай бұрын

1:10 nope, but I was told that they prefer talking about their problems to me because I'm open-minded... Although, knowing about their problems feels like a burden, I sometimes wonder if I'm allowed to know about these stuff...

@Thecandyisfree 17 күн бұрын

Why have you done this, now I’m self aware of myself

@biac_torrid 5 ай бұрын

Erold is that you???

@Sh.Tamura 5 ай бұрын

sadly and not sadly no it isnt Erold

@Jesuslovesyou-316-p1w 5 ай бұрын

@ad_astra468 3 ай бұрын

I have nobody I can be this open with so I’ll just write it down in a anonymous comment to get it off my chest. I have been “dulling” my brain for years trough constant distractions to avoid thinking about my flaws, the mountains I have to scale to make them at least acceptable and all the life experiences I missed out on for not having done that years ago. The latter is especially soul crushing despite being “only” in my early 20s and will only get worse with time so the only real option not to be miserable in the future is to embrace my awareness and work on myself until I find some peace even if it’s the harder path. Wish all the people in a similar position luck and remember nobody reached happiness by hating themselves.

@sircartier7 5 ай бұрын

It always hits different when the background music of videos has classic runescape tracks😂😂

@theuniversalbean9352 5 ай бұрын

self awareness is a choice at the highest level

@And-lj5gb 3 ай бұрын

I found the video title very relatable. The video itself much less relatable than I had expected from the title. My experience with self awareness is much darker. I'm way past getting anxious about being unproductive. I just don't see a point in being productive. I think having my needs met in this world is just physically impossible, even if I were a successful person. The structure of today's society makes life unlivable for someone like me. I know I'm going to be downbeat and frustrated forever. There's no realistic change to my life I could make to stop hating my life, even if I had infinite resilence. Things I long for are basically unattainable.

@kabilanbaskaran6813 5 ай бұрын

You have a great sense of humor. I chuckled at the well timed placement of “2 girls” 😂

@ummtulip Ай бұрын

im hyper self aware if i could describe it its like hearing every single heartbeat ur heart makes or feelign every nerve on ur skin

@ynk-ike 5 ай бұрын

2:52 this guy just exposed me bro 😭

@SpudRusset 2 ай бұрын

Self awareness happened too early. I have zero dreams and aspirations since I became aware the meaninglessness of one job vs any other one, putting way more effort into personal connections I have at each place than the job itself. I try not to ever let myself think too much because then I drive myself to a place of inconsequentiality, where what I do, no matter “productive” or not, has no purpose. Im terrified to be alone with my thoughts because it leaves me with a horrid worldview when all I have ever wanted to be was a funny man making the people around me smile.

@lavielavielavie 5 ай бұрын

im veryy self aware and i notice that some ppl, especially people that i care about, has little to self awareness 😭 tho, sometimes, they are aware of it, they chose to not be better and overcome certain issues... internal work is so important

@jesselee4453 5 ай бұрын

"The mind is a powerful tool but a dangerous master." Perspective is key, for one person the acknowledgement of their fault may be defeat, for another person that same acknowledgement and fault become a path to improvement. Learning to dictate the way we react to our thoughts is how we safe guard against letting our thoughts dictate our emotions.

@vivy2028 5 ай бұрын

bro the phone part was too accurate

@Msra1234 3 ай бұрын

To be honest y'all just don't know how to use it instead of making excuses for your behavior or hating your self because of it i just started to understand my behavior and start working on it like i have the ability to understand my emotions more than others why not use it to better myself

@DeenPrinters 4 ай бұрын

Am i the only person who thought of everything in this video?🙃

@PhillipArmstrong-g3g 22 күн бұрын

i was literally just existing sometime last year when something in the back of my head said "you know youre supposed to FEEL your feelings, right? like, physically? its not a euphemism." its been downhill since then. lotta feelings, some of them very old, that i didnt even know were there, influencing my every decision. i miss who i was when i was stupid.

@holleighgram 5 ай бұрын

Wait. What do we do if we are highly self aware to the point where we are aware that we don't have any meaning in life and yet are still desperately trying to find it cause we know it's the only thing that will keep us from going over the edge??? You left that part out???

@lexy3834 5 ай бұрын

That’s easy! My purpose in life is to eat a burger. Now I done that, I’ll have 3 more :) then I go for a run so I don’t lose shape. I also tell the voice that says I’m lazy to stfu lol

@POOH_LY Ай бұрын

3:50 At least, it's nice to see that a lot of people do feel this.

@Bubbilyshart 5 ай бұрын

ignorance is bliss🤷

@Camoback.Ape7 5 ай бұрын

It’s it 🤔 people suffering not knowing of a way out will just keep suffering but if the person figures out that there is a way out but try everything to get out but can’t get what they want may lead to suffering. But what if you aren’t doing it right? 🤷🏽‍♂️

@samuelforce7883 5 ай бұрын

. Usually its bliss.