I'm 18 years old and in high school, struggling with undiagnosed body dysmorphia. It affects how I see myself every day. I feel pretty one minute and then the ugliest the next. I've always been insecure about my scrawny body but mostly my face. I constantly look in the mirror, feeling like something is wrong with how I look. It's a repeating cycle and it's a living hell. It’s making me very depressed. I don’t even want people to see me anymore, so I stay in my house a lot, I don’t go anywhere else but school 😢💔
@Loophole2374225 күн бұрын
Great video. I'm glad you didn't go the surgery route. You're naturally physically flawless. You can't improve on perfection.
@T.H.U.G22 күн бұрын
definitely not ugly
@helixmoore7636Ай бұрын
In my high-school yeare this lady would have been considered top tier
@Romeoce7 ай бұрын
Great video! This deserves way more views. As a child, I was bullied a lot about my looks and fell into depression. I no longer care what others think. If you think I'm ugly or dislike something about me, that's fine. I have more important things to worry about. You can be a 10, but if your soul is ugly, you go from 10 to 0 real quick. You look good...don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Remember, self love is the best love.
@vidwatch31216 ай бұрын
I struggle with my looks too. Im 22 but look 40, have scarred skin and sloped head, high hairline. What my looks have taught me is that being ugly sucks and even truer most people...even nice people have instinctual subconscious judgment which says ugly people aren't worth it. But we have to enjoy what we have where we can. By the way i know its typical for social media comments but i think your pretty! not to be weird...everyone already slaps that label on me. I also want to say your a strong person stronger than me. 🫡
@Hecalledmedaughter5 ай бұрын
I think the same as you do. Shallow people aren't worth being around. Thank you for sharing!
@WilliamHart-v9jАй бұрын
I know sweety, I'm 43 now and I still going through this, I guess I just haven't come to terms with the I look, I still struggle greatly 😢
@TabooKidАй бұрын
Man I dunno, a reset button would be good right now😭
@TomDavidMcCauley5 ай бұрын
Dude you’re absolutely fucking gorgeous. If I saw you IRL and didn’t know you I’d just assume you were outta my league and not bother you. That probably happens to you a lot tbh. Anyway, regardless of your appearance, don’t forget: you aren’t what you look like. We are not our thoughts or our bodies or our thoughts about our bodies. None of this superficial surface shit matters. There are countless beautiful people in graves It’s nice to hear about your wakeup call to impermanence though. Everything is always changing, always going away, and we get to experience it firsthand, briefly 🎉
@freshappleseed69662 ай бұрын
Raw asf i respect the transparency and I genuinely dont think u look ugly. If u did i wouldnt tell u but I also wouldnt say otherwise 😂
@SanriosanxАй бұрын
@@freshappleseed6966 a lot of men have the audacity LOL.
@D4Gamerz5 ай бұрын
No filter, no makeup, no injections!? You are literally the village chiefs daughter guys fought over for the chance of marriage. Whoever told you you were ugly only wanted to bring you down to their level.
@helixmoore7636Ай бұрын
Exactly. I think we've lost the ability to notice true beauty and not plastic surgery beauty and filter. Also just because a woman doesn't float ones boat doesn't mean she's ugly.
@SanriosanxАй бұрын
@@helixmoore7636thankfully I’ve never lost that ability.
@DigimonOmobasuyi6 ай бұрын
Ugly ?! Which realm of reality is that 🤩
@MisterUrbanWorld20 күн бұрын
Iris, i need you to help me on the language journey
@maryc.86025 ай бұрын
Girl, I'd never consider you ugly, by any stretch! And, you seem like a cool person, too! Anyone who would tell you you're ugly is jealous of your beauty, inside and out. Lots of evil and shallow people in this world, they're not worth it.
@gaelstrarai3 ай бұрын
Who's calling you ugly?? You look just like a regular person. Which is actually really awesome to see on the internet nowadays.
@theyuca-clan42392 ай бұрын
N0t ^^^^?? Br0 h4v3 ¥0u $33n h3r br0 $h3 l00k$ like a 2.1/10 like at best
@kendralhunt429627 күн бұрын
Aint no way youre ugly at all,who called you ugly is a lie you have beuatifl smile,face is symmetrical, fairly healthy skin, eyes not too spaced out,etc the point is youre not ugly at all iris.
@MrAnnihilatior864 ай бұрын
Your actually pretty cute dont let anyone ever tell you otherwise hun.
@TravisB2528 күн бұрын
Nobody thinks you're ugly. Attraction is subjective, but ugliness is kinda universal most people understand what 'ugly' looks like when they see it, you're not even close to being ugly . . My immediate thought is that you're fishing for compliments/ views/ likes. Im pretty sure you're trolling.
@Sanriosanx28 күн бұрын
@@TravisB25Twitter is definitely not as nice as other social platforms such as KZbin lol.
@TravisB2528 күн бұрын
@Sanriosanx thanks for the reply- just don't listen to hate. Listen to constructive criticism, but if someone is just being a troll then don't listen to em.
@Sanriosanx28 күн бұрын
@ the only thing I hear is to get surgery. Everyone says I look like a guy lol. Makeup makes me feel like a joke so I’ve just learned to not care about it. Bigger fish to fry.
@TravisB2528 күн бұрын
@Sanriosanx okay well im not here simping but youre definitely not ugly, i could tell you were a woman from 300 feet away. I think youre good to go. Its just R word people online who are probably actually pedophiles or something. Dont worry about it
@TravisB2528 күн бұрын
@@Sanriosanx ok i think KZbin deleted my comment- just saying im not simping or lying to you. You aint ugly, youre not even 'sort of strange looking'. I could tell you were a chick from hundreds of feet away, dont worry about it. I think that bullies say the stuff they do because people start to believe it- its simple manipulation that goes on. Why do they care so much? Who cares even if you were ugly why are they obsessed about the way you look
@sebastian52712 ай бұрын
Girl hear me out, most men just want a women with a great body, trust me im a man, and sure some times i go for a pretty woman, but sometimes a woman with a good body just calls my mind. And you are not ugly at all, you look normal, average, or what you want too call it, theres always something you can do, even if you dont feel like doing it.
@Sanriosanx2 ай бұрын
@@sebastian5271 that’s very demoralizing to say to someone. Just because you lust for bodies instead of caring about souls doesn’t mean we’re all like you.
@sebastian5271Ай бұрын
@Sanriosanx my comment dont really reflect what i wanted to say, i think It has to do more with the final thing i sayed, sorry for that, i was seeing It for a more sexual market way that time, and well thats it, do the most you can to improve your life in most ways possible, thats what i keep from my comment, gn and take care!
@helixmoore7636Ай бұрын
This chick is above average. Shes classic pretty
@djtrakakadrunkpoet859821 күн бұрын
You are very beautiful. Tell me who did it .
@Zeddex29654 ай бұрын
Those girls could be talking bad about you out of jealousy. You look really attractive to me.
@aiex33356 ай бұрын
normal girl
@helixmoore7636Ай бұрын
I cant see it. Youre very pretty. You look like a pre surgery Lisa Manoban
@theyuca-clan42392 ай бұрын
You look like this toxic mind game playing woman I once knew called Alejandra the similarities are so uncanny that woman was such a red flag and at first I didn’t even know it I’m so glad I’m no longer a part of her life
@SanriosanxАй бұрын
@@theyuca-clan4239 my name isn’t Alejandra and this isn’t mind games. Extremely strange of you to assume that from this video alone. Also rating me a 2/10 is toxic so if anything “Alejandra” must be glad she’s no longer around you…
@theyuca-clan4239Ай бұрын
@ first of all I’m not saying that you are that Alejandra girl I’m just saying yall look like yall could be twins second of all calling a specific looking type of individual a 2/10 isn’t toxic it’s just called being brutally honest there’s a difference
@Sanriosanx27 күн бұрын
@@theyuca-clan4239 normal people don’t go around “rating” people’s looks. If I could rate your personality I’d give it a 1/10 but you can change that. It’s up to you if you want to be miserable like everyone else or actually be different.
@theyuca-clan423927 күн бұрын
@@Sanriosanx so bc I keep it 100 and choose to not sugarcoat things that all of a sudden makes my personality a 1/10 um riiigghhtt I mean I don’t know man I just don’t think the math is mathing on that one but I mean sure if you say so
@Sanriosanx26 күн бұрын
@@theyuca-clan4239 the point still stands. Why should anyone online take people with “anonymous” profiles seriously? If anything, you’re the one who’s afraid to hear people what have to say about you and that’s why you don’’t show yourself through video, much less pictures. Your opinion is yours alone and you’re entitled to delusionally believe you’re a unicorn, but it’s not a fact. You’re just going to have to cope and seethe with that fact. Maybe try picking a hobby like reading, your grammar needs a refresh :) I’d be embarrassed if a 2/10 had better grammatical skills if I was an online troll like you. “Alejandra” definitely wasn’t the toxic snowflake here 😌
@DemonShuvo-wf6cgАй бұрын
I want a girlfriend
@SanriosanxАй бұрын
@@DemonShuvo-wf6cg what does that have to do with me? 💀