My life story: Becoming a father | Benedict Cua

[@BenedictCua]

Kakaiyak comments nyo 😭 thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@sheryldelacruz6210]

So happy for you benny boi!

[@AnneMarielTan-rp1jw]

CONGRATS AND WELCOME TO THE PARENTHOOD ERA! YOU MAY NOT BE THE PERFECT DAD BUT I KNOW YOUR BABY WILL SAY TO YOU IN THE FUTURE THAT YOU'RE THE BEST FATHER!

[@brucealfred2547]

🙂‍↕️🤗🙂‍↕️ proud yakaps Bennyboii

[@alessandramaychua]

love u benny!! im so so happy for you!! best daddy for sure.

[@glendabonita7637]

Awww. Congrats!!! Sige lang, mag vlog ka nalang pag may free time ka. Cute naman ni baby mo eh. 😍😍😍 so happy for you.

[@chikielaput6633]

Mayor Alice Guo! ganito mg story ng childhood

[@neiljoemarmangano8328]

Sorry hindi ko po alam your honor 😂😂😂😂

[@springlesspring1296]

thought di ako makakakita ng comment about kay mayor hahahaha

[@markverde11]

😂

[@Kezzy2000]

😂😂😂😂 huyyy bakit npasali tohh

[@iabardelosa6263]

😅😅😅

[@roseannlimoneras7145]

I don't know why i search your name here in KZbin after i watched krytels vlog. After i watch this video of yours i know what is the reason , this past few months i am struggling but fighting this mental sickness that i have. Been diagnosed a severe depression last 2022 and having a lot of thoughts of hurting and kill my self, one day i went to church somewhere in tagaytay and cried and pray all the sorrows and disappointments that i have for my self to him i cried and cried losing my energy to ride our motorcycle to go home and felt why is it feels like no one is listening to me. all i can hear is my sobbing voice but no one is comforting me, am i not that worthy to be value by others? and then i decided to be selfish on that day moving forward. but here now watching your video sharing those experiences and sharing those words of thoughts i realized that i am not alone in this battle. Thank you Ben . Wala mang ka relate relate tong sinasabi ko sa sinabi mo pero ang lakas ng impact mo sa akin. thank you again. sana makayanan ko pa lumaban sana maka kapit pa ako .

[@johnmilesabella2579]

AAAaaaahh Bennn. The fact na you have your own child now feels surreal kasi di ka halos mahagilap sa social media for months. Thanksss for showing him to us Bennyyy. Mahal ka naminnn sobraaa :(

[@fagatr0nica672]

ur parasocial relationship w microcelebrities is interesting

[@celynventures]

" I don't have a perfect life, but I'm trying to be appreciative." Congrats Ben! 🎉🥳

[@mg0901_]

i shed a tear watching this feeling lost at 25. not knowing what to do, not knowing what im passionate about. feeling empty, feeling nothing. thank you Ben

[@JamaicaBadua-jy9jd]

🥹

[@yunotuSYKK]

May tawag dyan nakalimutan ko pero something about brain at 25 hit you different..

[@daehanniesong3448]

just trust God's plan and timing. pray and you'll be fine. 😊 coming from someone healed from major depression for 8yrs. super blessed and grateful ky Lord kaya go ka lng besh. aha hugs and kisses for you 😊❤

[@ceytin2877]

Same. It feels like Kuya Ben is telling my story. I've been feeling lost since 2021 and I still haven't found what I want so far. I'm in the phase where I try everything, doing the elimination method to find what I'm passionate about. Still struggling as of the moment but I'm trying to be optimistic with my improvement. Even how small it is. Baby steps, I'm getting there. In God's perfect time, we'll get there.

[@charinavillaluz2994]

😭😭😭

[@jelly7411]

“my dream job, wasn’t my dream job anymore” just hits me

[@JaneAbregana]

Di pa ako nakakagraduate pero eto biggest fear ko😔

[@ritchmondmarkquinesio8453]

Me too hahahah

[@graceignacio306]

and now di ko na alam ano gusto ko 😂

[@cafp0127]

yes

[@vivi2024i]

what i exactly feel right now

[@puzzledmind]

This is what I mean whenever people ask me kung kelan ako magpapamilya or at least mag anak man lang. Being a parent is something a person should want wholeheartedly, and not because of reasons like “sino na lang mag aalaga sayo pagtanda mo?” Being a parent is a life long responsibility and before you go into that, Dapat ready ka emotionally, physically, financially, mentally. I’m so happy for people like you, Benedict, for being able to embrace parenthood in a sense na talagang ginusto mo, kaya I am sure you will be a great parent kay baby kasi he is truly loved. Thank you for sharing your story, Benedict! 축하해 on being an 아버지 🤭

[@TanyaLee778]

Ask a few couples kung naging ready b sila nung nlaman nila pregnancy nila..wala pong taong ready..ang pgbubuntis ay hindi maprpredict dpende nlng kung aso 😂

[@puzzledmind]

@@TanyaLee778 ay hala tita. Gets ko gusto mong Sabihin pero Mejo malayo siya sa point ko. As in iba po yung point ko sa point mo. Pakibalikan po sinabi ni Ben sa 20:32 “I was already engaged, ready to have a family and have my own children”. Dyan umikot yung comment ko, tita. Pakibalikan po please. ☺️

[@hannahcelicamaranan933]

Yes tama to. Same tayo. Haha nakaka-pressure. PS: Pero Chinese po sya di Korean. 😅

[@puzzledmind]

@@hannahcelicamaranan933 dibaaaaa? Hahaha! Also, kaya ako nag Korean kasi diba nag aaral/ nag aral din siyang mag Korean nung pabalik balik siya sa Korea? 🤭

[@abbytpco]

as a 25 yrs old na undergoing quarter life crisis, grabe super inspiring and motivating ng life mo. been an avid support since 2018 and beyond happy on where are you now kuya ben. congrats po. looking forward to more blessings, growth & success along with your fam

[@yoongii6719]

"Now im happily inlove." Sarap pakinggan nunnnn. So happy for you Ben!!!🥹❤️

[@ohmyohmyg]

with ben’s personality, to mention he was diagnosed with depression, i believe he will be a great father. a father who listens, empathizes, and loves his child dearly. congrats, ben!

[@charrr7136]

That's when I cried for real. As someone clinically diagnosed and still dealing with depression and anxiety disorder, I thought I didn't want to have a child/ren (still not sure though) because I'm a bit afraid that I might pass down generational trauma and I wouldn't want that for my own kid for sure, BUT when Benny said those lines, it made me realize that I just need to heal and I might still be able to be a good enough parent, not sooner or later pa since I'm still young and reaching for my goals and dreams pero napapaisip din nyan from time to time. So Benedict Cua, thank you for your vulnerability. This video has made an impact to a soul like mine. ❤

[@gilbertsolis2591]

Dati seed ka lang na hindi mo alam kung saan ka tutubo, madaming pinagdaanan bago naging halaman, daming pagsubok bago ka yumabong at naging PUNO, ginawa mo ang lahat para mamunga, sa pagtitiyaga naging mabunga ka, at now SIR BEN, mayroon ka ng SEED na aalagaan, na alam mo kung saan itatanim, na iyong gagabayan sa landas na tatahakin, at maging successful na PUNO na gaya mo din, CONGRATS AND GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.

[@yanieolidiana5354]

"I am competent, not just in this aspect." NICE! What a nice takeaway from this vlog

[@wordsofjoan]

Yan din sa akin.

[@mlchragasa6825]

Akala ko noon totoy ka lang naligaw sa social media , panay tawa lang panay pakitang gilas c Nongnong kay baby Ju but now ikaw na Father na , treasure every moment . we are so happy to see your new chapter . Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤❤

[@jamesacob3017]

This is my kind of influencer. So much substance.

[@smudge82_]

This is your BEST CONTENT EVER. Sincere, vulnerable, honest.

[@kingbradleybedruz]

To be able to speak or do a sit down vlog for more than 27 minutes is such a gift and you have that, Ben! Always and will always watch your videos. Good luck sa new page ng buhay mo. Congrats!

[@khyletomco6249]

I literally cried to your wise words. Thank you Ben, you take care always, together with your beautiful family!!

[@NormidahMacaradi]

You’re so well-spoken, Ben. Thanks for sharing your journey.

[@hijkaelmnop]

Parenthood looks so nice when people genuinely wants to start a family. Yung sure na aalagaan anak nila at bubusugin ng pagmamahal. Sobrang nakakataba ng puso!

[@joannecasalla227]

I don't usually watch lengthy narrative vlogs like this, but you just told your story with such wisdom that I never thought of changing videos. I only watched you because of Baby Ju. Glad that you're so happy to have your own son. God bless you, Ben.

[@aleeyasmile]

I love how he never forgot to mention and thank Baninay. Still the humble Ben we know. ☺️

[@lalainedejesus7116]

Yes i love Benedict always saying that he owes his being a u tuber to Baninay. .. miss them together na. Ga Sayang get Baninay to be your Godmothers baby .

[@dizydidi]

Sino po si Baninay?

[@biancabruel249]

CAN I JUST SAY THAT IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU 🥺 from seeing you appear in Baninay’s vlogs to seeing your nongnong era in tiktok to now finally having a child of your own. I’m pretty sure your child will be raised in such a loving home. Happy for you, Ben. 🥺

[@amivam3815]

This video is like a warm hug 🥺. Really happy for you , Ben❤

[@marjorieagustin7963]

It’s a different kind of happiness when influencers like you share the joy of parenthood. When younger friends ask me how it is to have a kid, I always answer them that there are no words that can explain what’s in my heart. It is more than joy. It is more than all the happiness I felt in this lifetime. It is more than life itself. But I can see that in your eyes. I can feel it from your words. Enjoy parenthood, Ben! There is more to see and feel as you go along. I am excited for you. 🎉

[@josiahdelacruz2997]

Congratsss Kuya Ben🎉❤. Who's crying right now?🥲🥲 .

[@harumercadejas5402]

You deserve all the happiness that the world can offer. Congrats, Ben!!!

[@Sajeeeya]

Ahhhh feels like listening to a tropa talaga 😭 Thanks for sharing this momentous journey in your life, Ben. 🥹

[@raisingfutureleader]

ben mas na appreciate kita sa vlog na to, dami ko din natutunan from your experiences, we know na magiging mabuti kang father

[@deeconandeeconan7334]

Naiyak ako. I am a single father too. Naka relate ako situation mo. Welcome to very challenging but very worthwhile journey of Fatherhood, Ben!

[@kimberlynandasan8001]

I'M TOO SOFT FOR THIS VIDEO, LITERALLY TEARY EYED SA LAST PART. 🥹🥹 CONGRATULATIONS, DADDY BEN! SUPER HAPPY FOR YOU! ROOTING FOR YOUR WONDERFUL JOURNEY SA FATHERHOOD AND YOUR LIFE! 🫶🏻 LOVE YOU SO MUCH! 😭🩷

[@jocellafuente5750]

People with good hearts are the ultimate winners! Really appreciate this vlog. Congratulations on being a father! Fighting!

[@donabelcastillo1613]

Seeing you starting to make your dreams come true warms my heart. You've come far enough and have done enough to deserve 'that happiness' 💞

[@jamdacles]

Nakaktuwa! I remember how you used to play with BabyJu. Now you have your own baby na. I am a mother of three, been through a lot as well when I had my first child. But I thank God everyday for all the challenges we've been through dahil yun tlga ang mag mold sa atin to become who we are and might become in the future. More blessings to come and protection to you and your family. ❤❤❤

[@MicoBernales]

You on Baninay’s vlogs is still vivid memory. 6 years just flew by like that. Happy of where and what you have become now Benny! Congratulations and will surely here for you, always. 💙

[@armandbritzromero1325]

“Ang saya to try to be ambitious and contented at the same time” … hits me.. ❤️ Maybe I’m just too hard for myself in the past months.. Thanks Ben. Your best content ever..

[@maryjoyhorlador6917]

I've been your silent viewer/fan since you started your vlog kuya Ben, I have already seen your different sides through your vlogs and now seeing the other side of you as a father makes me so happy and proud of you kuya. I know that you will be a good father to your child. Congrats kuya and I hope more vlogs to come.

[@mariasharmineventura9960]

Seeing you holding your son with too much love and adoration in your eyes melts my poor fragile heart 😭 congratulations daddy Ben! You very much deserve this!

[@serendipretty]

As soon as the baby appeared my tears came out unexpectedly. Congratulations Ben. First time ko manuod ng YT Video mo.. Good luck sa fatherhood and God bless sa family mo ❤

[@shannelavenido4686]

OMGeeeeee. That “I was me, I was free.” moment 💖

[@yenamndz]

feels like I’m talking to a friend I haven’t seen for a long time :( I just know you’re gonna be such a great great father. Thank you for sharing this to us, Daddy Ben! 🥺🤍

[@niks4179]

Found myself crying, surprisingly. I'm a silent fan and so happy for you Ben! Continue to be an inspiration ❤

[@rachelolarte2494]

Ganito magkwento ng childhood memories madam mayor. Congraaats daddy ben!! 🥰

[@christianh.mercado6249]

Kuya Ben!!! Cingratulations! you are now a father. I'm literally crying while watching you smile looking kay baby. Nakakahappy na malaman na tatay ka na. Naguumapaw happiness ko for you. So proud of you kuya ben. Can't wait to see baby pag pede na 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@solfo-gb2vt]

nasa IG nya

[@MaeVargas-h1y]

Totoo talaga? Tatay na siya?😅

[@rysvieplo]

Di ko napansin na tumulo pala luha ko while watching Kuya Ben looking at his baby 🥺 Time flies so fast and college na ako parang kailan lang pinapanood lang kita during pandemic and kasama mo ibang vlogger but now, you have your own baby na pagkakabusyhan mo na. I felt so much joy on this vlog. Congratulations, Kuya Ben!

[@bubbles.2003]

THIS IS SO SINCERE AND INSPIRING 😭 Thank you for this content.

[@nikkidayapan1226]

omg, congrats ben!! 🤍 I feel old na talaga, I was an shs student when I first watched you sa vlog ni Baninay. Now, working na ako, and to know about na you have a son na... omg, HAPPY FOR YOU, BEN!!

[@celest3224]

why is this vlog so therapeutic??? i've played this vlog the second time now to start my day at work. it feels so calming. you sharing your story feels like a therapy for me, especially the one about friendship and career. hoping all the best for your family ❤

[@patesguerra8576]

I know that one day your child will watch this, And i'm 100% sure that he's so proud of you. So happy for you daddy ben! Dumagdag nanama ang inaanak ko 👉👈

[@arcisy7098]

I finished the whole video and I must say he’s very inspiring and I do found myself the same way he does with all what he’d been through, you’ll be a good father Ben salute!

[@dendenalone9982]

Hi kuyaBen…. Tagal ko na nanonood sa Vlog mo until now hanggang TikTok. Thank you for realizing me now. At the age of 30 now ko long na reliaze na corporate work or office is not for me…. Yes it gives income to sustain my daily needs but at the end of the day iniisip ko parin kung anu ba mag papa saya , is it working sa corporate world or maybe sa other fields. Nakaka depress isipin na nawawalan ako ng purpose or Hindi ko alam anu ba talaga purpose ko in life, but somehow need ko magpatuloy sa buhay…. Siguro for now I’ll try to explore and Mahanap kung saan ba ako magiging genuinely happy. Again, thank you kuya Benedict for those words of wisdom, ingat ka palagi, I will always be your fan no matter what. Goodbless kuya Ben. Love u po.

[@paolatatad]

I don't know what to say Benny, this is very timely. As a working student na magtatake na ng practicum. I can't really sleep last night. This is just very timely. That's all what I can say.

[@hazelalcos8964]

Walang tapon sa video na to..andaming mapupulot.as expected sa isa sa mga piling content creator na finofollow ko CONGRATULATIONS KUYA BEN🎉🎉

[@xijaay]

Grabe napaka authentic ng vlog mo na 'to. Kitang-kita ang vulnerability and sincere heart mo. While watching dami ko rin na realized. Thank you for sharing with us your life journey! Praying for your family 🥹🤍

[@chabilita88]

One of the greatest gifts you can also give to your child is to love his mom. Congratulations Ben! God bless you and your fam!

[@BrianArthur00]

Who’s the mom? Do you happen to know?

[@AkoSiFrenny]

Kaya pala kahit Chinese ka the way ka mag salita may pagka konyo yung pwd ka dalhin kahit sa mahirap na lugar kasi pala dumaan ka rin sa lowest part ng life nyo at gang naging maganda na buhay nyo ang Galing mas lalo ako napahanga at nasa pamilya nyo na talaga ang pagiging masikap God bless

[@mikaelal.laborera2432]

MATURITY OF THIS KUYA BEN IS SOOOO 🔥🔥🔥 First nood ko ng vlog niya, 2019 and stop watching vlogs when F2F class started again after pandemic. Then literal na nagulat when I saw a post that he is now a father😭. At ngayon lang nagkaroon ng time to watch this vlog, tapos nagulat when he has older brother😭. TAPOS, AS A NAWAWALAN NG TIWALA SA SARILI IF ACCOUNTANCY IS MY RIGHT PATH, MY HEART IS SO SOFT (ANG AGANG SOFT HOUR 'TO). SO HAPPY FOR YOU KUYA BENEDICT

[@claireantonette5523]

Hala naalala ko pa nung first time kong nadiscover channel mo tas pinanood ko yung 25 random facts about you, ang tagal na pala noon. Hindi man ako religiously nanonood ng videos mo dito pero every time na nakakapanood ako ng videos mo, ang therapeutic and soothing. Congrats sa new chapter ng life mo!!! Nakakainspire itong video mo ❤

[@AnneMarielTan-rp1jw]

Naiiyak ako daddy ben 😭 i know na magiging mabuti kang father sa anak mo. Welcome to the parenthood era!

[@patriciabeatriz6374]

the way this video resonated with me so so much... you have so much love, ben. we're strangers but i am SO happy for you. loved this so much.

[@mariastephaniedolosa4468]

Be proud and enjoy being a father. Treasure every moment with it ❤

[@theacruz4749]

Being one of the benpires, I'm genuinely happy to see you doing so well in life now. We may only know your struggles based on what you share on social media, but we know for sure that you've been strong enough to get through and surpass all of that. My happy crush since day one of your contents here up until this day, you've been an inspiration to me ♥

[@dangfajardo3839]

Lagi lang ako napapadaan sa mga vlogs mo, and I said to myself magiging mabuting ama 'to when the time comes. And that time has come. And the lattrr part of the video, tumulo nalang luha ko. Grabe, I can feel the love talaga. So happy for you Daddy Ben! ❤❤❤❤

[@RheaJaneGomez-bh9oj]

I felt your love for your son. It made me a cry ❤

[@reginedelacruz627]

Lagi kong napapanood ung pag aalaga mo kay baby ju so doon palang mukhang magiging isa kang mabuting ama, kuya ben. Kakaiyak, isa ka nang ganap na AMA🥺

[@Aydanda04]

Thanks Ben, parang habang pinapanood ko to iniicp ko yung naging journey ng buhay ko.. madaming ups and downs but the very best thing that ever happened din into my life is nung naging mother na ako.. I'm in my 30s too 😊 34 to be exact. Life isnt meant to be easy, its meant to live. Welcome to the world of parenthood! Wishing you a lifetime of love, happiness, and beautiful memories with your child 😊

[@faye8544]

You’re a good story teller. congratulations on being a parent! Welcome to our crazy but sooo wonderful era called parenting ❤️❤️❤️

[@andriyahh3269]

Everyone was waiting for this moment especially you kuya ben, because you've been dreaming about this for years and I'm really happy for you because finally.. finally you have your own child, you're not just every kids nong nong but you're now officially a father to your baby bao bao 😫 I've been supporting you for many years na kuya ben and this video really made me happy i don't know what to say anymore i know that you will be the best father to your child and a best partner to the mother of your child Congratulations kuya benn I'm so happy for you really i will keep supporting you and I'll wait for your next vlog kuya benn stay healthy god bless you and your family especially your baby bao bao!!

[@melissazapanta2944]

This is so relatable. Thank you for sharing your story, Ben!

[@chamderamos]

Congratulations!🎉 Nakakaiyak huhu. Parang warm hug itong vlog na ito. 😢

[@tiffanygerado1922]

HALA!😢YUNG IDOL KO DADDY NA!!😭😭 pero,masaya akong makita kang masaya kasama si baby🥲God bless you and your family Ben..basta mag-upload kalng ng videos okks nko!!😅

[@simplyyenn]

I am in 4th year high school, yet I feel so lost. This video has always been my pat in my back when I know that you have been lost and now look at you. Thank you so much po for this kind of video.

[@jehviccc]

Congratulations kuya ben! I've been your subscriber from the very start. Nakakatuwa sobra yung growth and passion mo throughout the years. Nakakaproud po. 🥹💖

[@imsy-tb9rg]

I've been a silent fan since Beninay days and I'm happy to witness your life story until now. CONGRATS, BENNNNN! We know that you'll be a good father. Thanks for sharing it with us.🎉💗

[@cirjtvvlogs2179]

Your journey can inspire a lot of individuals. Congrats Ben! Be a good Father to your baby. 🎉❤️

[@kent_be_yours]

sorry for the long-ass paragraphs ahead WHAHAHAHAHHAHAH whenever someone asks me who's my all-time favourite KZbin vlogger is, it'll be and always be u, kuya Benedict. for 5 years that I've watched ur vlogs, waited for ur uploads, witnessed ur journey from a hundred thousand to a million subscribers, u just continue to inspire, give joy and amaze not just me, but almost everyone who watches ur videos (minus the bashers WHAHAHAHHAHA). I'm beyond proud when u actually showed us ur vulnerable sides, from getting burn-outs and most importantly overcoming depression. I feel like we're on the same boat (for the most part) and seeing how u manage to conquer all of those problems, even tho depression may forever taint our minds, but despite that u still got back up, it gives me hope that I can (from I Kent, pun intended WAHHAHAHAHHAHAHA) do it too. also, can we just talk about how u embody what a real influencer should be?? most people who calls themselves an 'influencer' just base from the fact that they gained a lot of followers, when in reality, that entitlement of being an 'influencer' bears a heavy responsibility to act and do things that would positively influence ur viewers/target audiences. as the saying by Uncle Ben (pun intended or coincidence??) "With great power, comes great responsibility." I really have so much to say WAHHAHAHAHHAHAHA (nahiya na siya LMAO) pero I just wanna tell u, thank u for existing, thank u for always inspiring me to be hopefully, to become a better version of myself, so so proud of u and good luck to this new journey of urs, fatherhood yipee (pwede ako maging ninong ni baby xialongbao, wala pa naman ako inaanak para 1st inaanak ko siya yieee WHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA)

[@jeffmiaral]

Congrats Ben. You’re an inspiration. Stay happy. 🤍

[@corinalising-pascua9740]

Thank you for sharing this stage/phase of your life, Ben! You will be a great father! Your child is soooo lucky to have you! All the best❤

[@ptrjhn0120]

I’m one of your silent followers and subscribers. I’m sooo happy with all your triumphs in life! Congrats, Ben! God bless you and your new bundle of joy! 🤗💙👶🏻

[@raisadelostrico4362]

Why I am crying watching your vlog Ben? Been your low key follower since pandemic. Geniunely, Im happy for you and proud of what you have experienced and what you have become now.❤

[@sunshineleemacatangay6174]

yes i do believe that “other ppl’s pain in some way can also hurt you” 🥺

[@MengZky]

Congratulations Ben!!! Happy for you and your precious family!

[@kathswift28]

Happy for u Daddy Ben✨

[@lalaieyo]

I'll say it again, you're always be my comfort person. Though hindi madalas mag upload but once there, click agad. Swerte ni baby bunbun kasi marami siya matutunan sa'yo. You're always be that personality here in yt na masarap kausap (exactly, though it's one way but the way you made us reflect to ourselves is a form of connection na "oo nga, nuh".) THAT WAY! 'yung feeling na kaibigan na sarap kausap tuwing gathering kasi maraming pulot tsaka nakakarelate. Sobrang raw and pure ng conversation. You're so smart, grabe saksi ako sa paglawak ng wisdom mo. Can't wait how baby bunbun will grow 🥺.

[@liptonredaddict444]

did not skip even a second of this vlog, i just found myself listening until the end. love u, papa ben!

[@avelovinit]

Congrats, Ben! ❤❤❤❤

[@abby_gail1893]

Congrats Ben.. Ramdam ko ung saya ng puso mo now. Ang saya maging parent ❤❤❤

[@styxmapula4456]

I'm so happy for you, Ben! I'm happy you're happy and just wanna say thank you for giving us encouraging words. You may not know this but you help me grow and change my mindset too.

[@icebox694]

your content saved me, and am happy that you seem so happy again. thanks for sharing this with us Ben :) we love you! and may baby Ben be filled with grace and love!

[@jamrvra]

Your story hits hard, masakit, I'm nearing 30's and still lost. But thank you so much for sharing, it makes me hopeful and sana, sana maramdam ko rin yung comfort and peace that you have now. I always want to have my own family, and I want to be the best version of myself before God allow me to have my own child. Congrats Ben! 🎉

[@laureinaa]

proud of you daddy ben. for sure will love this new journey of yours💗

[@JG-Photography9590]

Quarter life crisis was my turning point. Now, I am happily married with 2 wonderful kids. I couldn't believe I am going back to school to get my masters so I can get to upper management position in a huge hospital system with a goal of retiring early so I can enjoy life with my family. I get to have balance between life and work but still, retiring early while having a good amount of investments and passive income is much better to me. It's just so rewarding to look back on the things that happened in the past, your choices, your heartaches and realizing how strong you are that you made it through. Here you are now, better, bolder, wiser and still with a big heart ready to love. Now I know why people say their wife/husband and their kids are their everything because it is true. Congratulations! 👏

[@DeLinaAljonEphesians-qc2pl]

Your fatherhood feels triumph to me also, ang oa ko, pero honestly during the pandemic your videos and you really are my escape from loneliness and anxiety, I even messaged you on IG just to open up kahit alam kong di siya mapapansin (hahaha), and hearing your story gets me into tears, you are my inspiration kuya ben, laki po ng impact niyo on how I think today, I always try to be productive kasi lagi mo siya sinasabi sa vlogs mo until na adopt ko talaga, Junior High school pa 'ko nung mag start to follow your journey and now college na po ako, you are my inspiration kuya.

[@AbigaelDeLuna]

my first reaction really is “HA??” i’m so happy for u kuya bennnnnnn

[@rowenamaebeltran4522]

This is so touching Ben. Nakakaiyak while watching. Welcome to the parent era, probably the hardest but most fulfilling era. 🫶

[@zyrak668]

Waaaah I was here since day 1. Tapos ngayon may anak ka na. 😭😭😭 So proud of you Ben!!! We all know you’re going to be the coolest dad! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Sarang2700]

I was here when you started YT. Wow!!! I can't believe you are a father now. I watched and saw your journey on youtube. The best feeling in the world is to be a parent. Congrats!!! Will always continue to support you. Please continue your journey on youtube

[@dayana_1004]

You made me tear up Ben 🥺 Congratulations on being a father! You'll do great, we know that for sure ♡

[@gladystaladro4547]

Congratulations po sir Ben,I know that you're blessed because you have a pure heart, sobrang say at sarap SA feeling ang pagiging parent,SA kabila Ng pinag daanan mo.sa buhay God gave you a blessing because you deserve it, praying for you and your family na always maging happy

[@labra-eniosanfam]

Congratulations on your new journey as a good and responsible father, I know.. lab ka namin from the start Ben 🫶 Hi Little Bao bao 😘