Benny the Butcher on Second Marriage, Interracial Relationships & More | Lip Service

In this episode we sit down with Benny the Butcher to discuss the complexities of second marriages and interracial relationships. Benny opens up about his own experiences with marriage, the challenges he faced, and the lessons he learned along the way. We also touch on the topic of black men dating white women, delving into the societal pressures and stereotypes that can come with such relationships. Join us as we explore these important conversations with honesty and authenticity.
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[@KiingTRell]

I like how personal this interview got, I never seen Benny like this. Greselda forever

[@NobodyImportant-ef3de]

It's females that why

[@rahkemmcnulty7147]

Everybody can’t Go

[@jaelinmckenzie8846]

Yes they can

[@BLUEPRINTMEDIAGROUP]

He ain’t lying he kept it real I stand by him

[@DJbabySTONElove]

"Your first baby mama is usually not the one". Woah

[@aaronbaker8173]

fuck her she wrong and he still looking after her child the stepdaughter

[@DJbabySTONElove]

#heatOfTheMoment

[@user-cn5vq7kw8b]

took a break, only to come back and see Gigi is still constantly speaking about herself..girl chill

[@DJbabySTONElove]

I want a lie detector on GiGi. 😊

[@ms.sevenohfo]

I feel u

[@roxyandy85]

lol she sholl have a experience for the experience. I believe her though l

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

​@@roxyandy85😂😂

[@DeshaLynnelL]

At all times!

[@amadizulu3099]

Strangely enough, this might be his best interview.

[@VibinwithBG_]

One thing GiGi gone do is tell her story 😂

[@Beautynresell]

Great interview!! Very transparent. Ready for the smoke!

[@teenawarren3858]

My friend loves Benny the Butcher he play his music all the time got me listening to his music. Love the interview.

[@elliottwilliams9221]

Next time drop the time slots so we can go straight to the part we want

[@reediiilt]

My Guy Benny The Butcher is a Real One RNS all Truth 🙌🏾💯

[@sonyreviewedit7687]

Some of you women need to just Listen to someone talk and Don’t react or get mad…… Just listen 👂

[@fallinstr2098]

I love the “5-50” song and the “INDIA” song. And I love seeing her in vids…. Because ultimately as a fan I love how raw his music is, from every aspect.

[@ricardoflores126]

Got that from dmx “you could trust them for who they are”

[@openmindchannel1978]

It's crazy to me as a man and a black man, to realize that clearly women don't understand that we view women, side chicks, bust down, situationship very very different from what a wife is and supposed to be a represents. Men will never put or view their wives the same or at the same level they view or look at other women that are dates, side chicks, situationship, bust down. This is no matter how hard they tries.

[@jamesbonsignorejr3101]

Gi gi was real open this show lol on my boy butch

[@iriswood3744]

Gigi is a Nasty B.

[@JPL-md]

Positive energy

[@jamein545]

He is a great guest ❤

[@pahokiperez7835]

Love Angela she stays putting people on so humble 🫶🏼

[@ashmtv]

“guys we’re gonna find a way” LMAOOOOO, they will😂

[@mac5stacks]

26:48 They Ain't Peep The Bars 😂😂🔥🔥🔥

[@LEGEND31JE]

This was a dope personal side of Benny 🫡✅

[@jtdozier5]

I don't know his music but this was good conversation.

[@teronegyangyan4854]

Should defo tap in🔥🔥🔥

[@deanivan3951]

Real Hip Hop in the house, salute!

[@sonyreviewedit7687]

Dam they speaking real facts on this pod

[@bushidozay7527]

What he said about white women dating black men was very true . And it hilarious seeing them be hit with that truth

[@christopherlewis2194]

BW only hold down street dudes. And it's funny that it's always somebody who makes trying to hold down black people the most

[@deannagreen2006]

Benny you is bold to share your story on lip service Sonnnn Buffalo,New York 2/7/24 .

[@NFJIZZY]

Benny 💯💪🏾 Big Bro

[@JoeJoe-gg9uc]

Appreciate this interview Benny the butcher . We rocking wit you over the border here in Toronto .

[@geraldmckinney4670]

Benny on lip service it’s lit lol

[@geraldmckinney4670]

Pause

[@alldogsgoheaven]

One of tha most bizarre and outlandish conversations/interviews ive ever heard no lie

[@MONEYMIKE-lg7vz]

Benny the butcher said "every body cant go" but after listening to the album - Benny didn't.....GO EITHER lol 🔥💸🤣💯😂

[@dken1149]

The butcher 🔥🔥🔥

[@glennsterlinghaynes8149]

Can yall fix the small hole on the wall by Angela that all I see when I look at her lmao 😂

[@NyGiant223]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@rahkemmcnulty7147]

Benny album fire bruh

[@MarkWalkerMedia]

Like this

[@mr6foot687]

Shout out to Benny.. Eastside Buffalo in the building!... And as for Gi-Gi 😮.. sheesh....

[@nonbeliever4593]

Benny The Best In The Game

[@KM-ix3ms]

39:17 I know Benny was letting Angela know she could get it

[@nonbeliever4593]

Griselda Saved The Game 🦂⚖️🥁🎻

[@Mr.Jones41]

Let me go sign this child outta school 😂😂😂😂 geesh when you say it that way Angela it just sounds wrong….

[@antoniohoward8529]

Benny was 100% right when he said women get money just to prove how much they don’t need a man….and what do you know, none of these ladies have families 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@BigU512]

They quieted up a little on that point

[@truthtelling1195]

Women get money because men have proven that they will trade you out in instance, especially as a lot of these men are promoting and have admitted they have a preference for younger women. Why would a woman give her absolutely everything for a man who is openly telling her that when she gets older, she has no value. We live in the western world, we live in 2024, where you need money to survive. Most households require two people to contribute financially in order to maintain their lifestyle or to survive period!! Completely delusional that you think a woman getting money is because she can flex on a man I promise you you are not that important . We want to have a full abundant quality of life and walking around in the hood. Living paycheck to paycheck is not the way forward. We also want to go on nice vacations, be able to afford adequate health care if needed. Have a decent car that can take us from A-to-Z. Have a strong stable roof over our head !! And have money on the side for a rainy day or two support those in need such as family members and friends. The BM’s self-esteem is so low, that he is so desperate to be wanted and needed. He cannot fathom standing on his own 2 feet. BW have figured it out. Maybe it’s time for you to do the same. People need money to survive in this world period it has nothing to do with the other gender please do not flatter yourself

[@aquarius-woman5364]

But he's here looking for black women's support. The women who don't understand black. Should be promoting to his white queens

[@CashNYC]

More power to you Benny i wouldn't do it we will revisit his marriage 10 years later to see if its still intact.

[@tristateshawn]

💯

[@DJbabySTONElove]

Who was flipping pancakes in his head? 😂

[@edwinf1187]

The butcher 💪🏽

[@babajidesorungbe5376]

There's something about Jazmine.,.❤

[@GieMuzik40]

Bingo.. they're not looking to be a "Wife". They just want a husband. He talking Truth.

[@mmcgaffie1]

I love his music I mean this man can rap rap but I enjoyed this episode and liked hearing this side of Benny

[@marcedwards2464]

He funny 😂🤣

[@terrance206344]

45:00 black women and white women

[@marcedwards2464]

He cool 😎

[@shara4235]

❤️🖤💘🖤

[@NFJIZZY]

EVERYBODY CANT GO

[@ericanesmith1915]

GiGi, it's not about you. We don't care! Let the guest talk

[@hairforum5380]

Same Gigi!! I want to be in his skinnnn so bad! I’m that obsessed

[@BrickMenyce]

was your ex a Scorpio Latina? Cause I went through the same exact bullshit

[@lovelykiyah7415]

talking about what what u went through ? i can already tell u a lame based off this sentence lol

[@TheElFamilyofstars]

I’m the 1st bm so I guess 🤷‍♀️ Benny got a debut with a major label! I gotta check my pressure Gigi I wonder 💭 Married 2x ok 👌🏽

[@commentboii]

i love me some gigi

[@hakeemprimer]

38:36 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@daryllights]

53:22 Gigi had that thang beat to incontinence 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@lovelykiyah7415]

i knowwww!!! that shit had me 🤡💀stuck lmaooo

[@strawmandoe]

BARZ A MAN MAKE MONEY TO TAKE CARE OF HIS FAMILY A WOMAN MAKE MONEY TO TO SAY SHE DON'T NEED A MAN

[@stlchic262]

Don't forget to like the video. 👍🏾❤

[@ohmyv3gatron]

its not that women like it rough.....it when they sense you want it that bad

[@Tia-mc7wy]

Angela, Angela, hook me up wit Gi Gi! She talkin that shyt this show!!!!!

[@leahjoyce5520]

The cap is crazy.

[@jetcrews97]

Everybody can’t go

[@john-rossevering5370]

Were is stephanie santiago no 1 is askin 😢😢😢😢😢 i miss her so much like my ex baby mama

[@RealKeezB]

49:45

[@olajuwonsally8751]

In my 3sum, they were the flies and I was the 💩 lmaooo too lit fr

[@joeboy6456]

Kendrick Lamar been a real one

[@KarterChanelle]

Sir your ex wife was tired of you.. Jail, broke, cheater..boy bye! you defiantly would spin the block if she let you.

[@sunshinestarskin]

Exactly she got away tf

[@CourtneyJasmine07062]

*definitely

[@truthtelling1195]

A typical BM but has the audacity to talk about BW.!!! I’ve noticed a lot of the man with the most to say about BW are usually felons!! They typically embody the character of the man they do not like in other words, what they’re really trying to say is they don’t like themselves!!

[@staccamill]

716 here. I think what Benny meant about the white woman situation is that white woman will let you get away with more than a blacc woman would

[@BigU512]

I love BW but alot of them don't give you peace of mind

[@april__4914]

Yesss me too! they got defensive right away and still didn’t let him “clean it up” but i didn’t think he was talking sht at all. Love the ladies tho

[@truthtelling1195]

@@BigU512 because Peace is not usually offered or given in return!! To be honest, our entire history has been chaotic. You would think it would bring us closer, but it’s actually driving us further away. However, when a black woman dates out (specifically with white men) they have the most successful marriage. The relationship statistically last the longest out of all the interracial, couples and same race couples!! So there’s more to the issue than just black women

[@BigU512]

​@truthtelling1195 I agree with alot of what you're saying but it's more to it. The same way society is conditioned to think lower of BM so do BW. They sometimes already have a lower expectation of BM which affects how they treat and receive them. On the other hand with WM, they generally give them more latitude to define themselves and be themselves. But to your point on our chaotic history, there's no easy analysis or solution.

[@DrizzleDrizzle585]

Black women put up with ignorant men all the time. Most don’t give peace either.

[@StreetsBSF]

🎻🎻🎻

[@michaelknorr5575]

#Everybodycantgo

[@LALuv213]

If I were his wife I would not like gigis energy in this one yikes

[@FoougieTV]

Idk. This feels inappropriate, considering that this is a married man... Also, don't ask if his wife isn't "in the mood," then proceed to brag about yourself always being "in the mood".

[@user-ld8qj6cc9u]

Get Charleston white on here

[@derrellgray3857]

Since a lot is at stake, you should be careful about fraternizing with non-philosophers in these contexts; remember that if you consort with someone covered in dirt you can hardly avoid getting a little grimy yourself. I mean, what are you going to do if your friend starts nattering about gladiators, horses and sports stars; or, even worse, if he starts gossiping about shared acquaintances: 'He's good, she's bad, it's good this happened, it's too bad about that...'? What if he sneers, ridicules and even plays low-down tricks? Do any of you have the musician's ability to pick up an instrument, immediately identify which strings need attention, and bring the whole instrument into tune? Or Socrates' gift in every setting of winning over the company to his side? Not likely. Inevitably you are going to adopt the common person's mentality instead. So why are they stronger than you? Because they talk such garbage from conviction, whereas your fine talk is no more than lip service. It lacks life and vigour; anyone listening to your speeches might well come to hate that damned 'virture' you keep proclaiming. That's why those fools get the better of you. Conviction is quite a potent and irresistible force. So until those fine principles take root in you so that you can begin to rely on them a little, I advise you to use discretion in associating with such people.- (Epictetus Discourses)

[@ighost5884]

Pillow Talk Slanders

[@mr6foot687]

VAGINAL PRESSURE!! 😃

[@Aggie4life77]

Poor Angela!

[@nadjaervin]

Idk but Gigi was lowkey giving pick me this episode

[@lizmccoy1267]

Always

[@brittanyb5942]

He lost me when he couldn’t give the reason why successful black men chose white women…🙄

[@QUNYC7]

Fit, feminine, friendly, single, childless and cooperative! He was protecting feelings..

[@GlovesOverGuns]

​@@QUNYC7💯💯💯

[@truthtelling1195]

@@QUNYC7 I went to the midwest to visit husbands family Family, I have never seen so many overweight WW in wheelchairs in my life. Some of the most passive aggressive , mean-spirited individuals. But yet you view all WW as friendly, fit and feminine 😂.!! Be honest, and just say the standards are difference when it comes to your preference . Last year a BM married WW single mother and her six all W boys, now if that was a BW he would be ridiculed!!

[@QUNYC7]

@@truthtelling1195 The exception doesn't disprove the rule. Keyword: you mentioned the "Midwest". I wouldn't even dispute it. Im referring to my experiences being born and raised and the network of women I encounter (being a 10% earner) here in NYC.

[@truthtelling1195]

@@QUNYC7 how much you earn has absolutely nothing to do with the topic of conversation lol, it’s a huge indication of low self-esteem. If you have to tell me about where you rank in society in a conversation that has nothing to do with finances but I digress…. I could also apply the same rule. Your experience in New York does not account for the majority. What I find very interesting is that none of you have taken the time to read the stats. BM are second from the bottom with regards to being overweight, America has a obesity problem in general, and this is not relegated to just black women. All races and all genders have an issue!! It’s interesting that you can associate femininity, soft, fit to a specific race of woman and not the individuals themselves. I think it’s completely delusional to put all groups of people into a box. It’s literally what (W) people have been doing to us for 400 years, so it’s very interesting to see BM perpetuate the same behaviours!! Especially from a group of women that have a history of violent and vitriolic behaviour being that they owned 40% of slaves in America. I’m not one for using history in a conversation about modern day or present day society, However, my point is to address the fact that you associate more positive stereotypes with other races of women and very negative stereotypes with black women when where is good and bad in every race. I am not dismissing your experience however, people that have this way of navigating life often have a perceived bias before an actual encounter!! Very often they already have their back against the wall when it comes to anything regarding BW. A lot of men that think like this are often consumed by red pill content and the same goes for the extreme divestors who carry the same, harsh and negative stereotypes about BM!!

[@kingdomcitizenship5613]

That's a lil lame to expect someone to hit your hand because you made an introduction. I wouldn't do that, I would be happy to connect people if it's valuable for both of them to meet, not because I'm hoping I get something out it.

[@tylerrichardsonll4622]

🎼🎼😊🎼

[@ShawnyGang]

Majority of pusxy is the same I hate that he didn’t say that the only time u gonna feel a difference is when it’s dry or too loose💯

[@bmxking0]

He said it right 48:50 -50:00

[@lovelykiyah7415]

why do we even BIRTH YOU ! 🤡🙄

[@lovelykiyah7415]

we must be the clowns

[@antoniohoward8529]

It’s always so funny to me that black women don’t understand how much of a pain they are to be with. The writing is literally on the wall and they’re like “nah that’s not it” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@tiajay4693]

Nobody cares just go date another race and stop complaining nobody is changing for you lol

[@truthtelling1195]

I think a lot of us understand my question to you is why do you keep entertaining yourself I’m bothering yourself with women you don’t want why don’t you leave us alone and stick to your preference? It’s a real obsession that you have. Some of you will travel to Thailand be in the middle of paradise and go out of your way to find Wi-Fi to log onto KZbin just to talk to, bully and harass BW. Just admit that you have a deep, dark psychotic obsession with BW. If you don’t want us, or you don’t like us, please leave us alone

[@ARCHANGEL215MICHAEL]

🎲🐍🎲

[@openmindchannel1978]

You only will know the real nature of black women once you leave them, especially if they are in the wrong and they know they F Up . Then they will try to make it looks and sounds like you were the problems , you assaulted them , you were abusive even if you did none of that at all.. The victimhood and toxicity in black women is off the chain.. But we black men we are used to be used, abused and judge even by our won peoples.

[@ktdouglass8992]

Something ain’t right between Conway and Benny.. I can feel it, I can sense it.. and I don’t like it.. DONT BREAK IP THE A-TEAM YALL, come on bruh DAMN…

[@Alexis_M777]

Gigi makes everything about her! She is so annoying

[@tyreesparrow4779]

But women won’t help young men. While older men help younger boys and girls. And with men in charge of most things that makes it difficult for men to sex up into positions or out of bad things. We gotta be brute or smarter or lucky

[@JohnParks-jd5ke]

When he said trust a person to be who they are he is copying a qoute from DMX when he said that exact same thing years ago on drink champs. Dmx said teust someone to be who they are. Thats from dmx mouth. Now this dude benny is biting his line.

[@TheCulture7]

what being from buffalo mean dealing with white women

[@SystemChannel]

I’m guessing because buffalo is closer to Canada? I dunno maybe.

[@greyes8668]

Na Canada got nothin to do wit it lol most of us not even allowed in Canada..buffalo real segregated. east side black,west side Puerto Rican and south side white

[@SystemChannel]

@@greyes8668 so what did she mean with the white women comment? I’m more confused

[@DrizzleDrizzle585]

@@SystemChannelNah, being close to Canada has nothing to do with it. Buffalo is a majority black city. So are a lot of the other cities up there like Rochester.

[@SystemChannel]

@@DrizzleDrizzle585 so was she just making an uninformed joke? Or was it some fidelity in what she said?

[@corderotheDJ]

716

[@nayknowss]

I need to go listen to his project I like him.. Jasmine please stop messing with your hair it’s so distracting

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

It's too much weave it's probably hot