I was married for two years.,It was awful and I was unhappy. I've been single for 30 years. I have had many failed relationships. I've just given up. Hopefully things will change. I'm so tired of being alone. 😢😞 Im 52 gee enough is enough 😢
@BensbergFilms7 ай бұрын
I don't like being alone either:( but what I pray for myself and hopefully this can help you as well is I pray Lord keep all counterfeits away I don't even want to meet them. I definitely don't have the gift of singleness, some do but I don't. So I say Lord help me wait patiently in your time. I hope you have the best day:)
@justinludwig39957 ай бұрын
Brother, I'm gonna comment on this video before i even watch it. I'm definitely going to watch, but before i do i just wanted to say i was married for 15 years until last year my wife left me out of nowhere. Hardest thing I've ever been through. She actually helped me find Jesus. Still cant believe it but its my reality. God has a plan for us and although its very painful and at times unbearable we just have to plow forward. I am proud of what you've accomplished in your personal life. I've watched you for many, many years from the trash to treasure days. I hated it for you and now i unfortunately have the same experience. I, too, by His grace, was able to buy a nice home on 3 acres and am learning a lot from your DIY videos. You dont realize how big of a blessing you are. God bless you in Jesus name and now on to the video.
@BensbergFilms7 ай бұрын
Thank you my friend:) I'm emotional just hearing your story thank you for sharing. I am really sorry that you had to walk through that and I pray for the Lords blessing and wisdom over you. I pray you will be filled with so much joy that you can't take it all in. May the Lord lead you and bless you may his face shine upon you.
@lynnjones7577 ай бұрын
I have been subscribed to you for a long time. Thank you for this vlog. I wish you well in your endeavors. I appreciate your honesty.
@BensbergFilms7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching the videos over the years:) I am thankful for you and I hope you have a great week:)
@theresataylor66757 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you.
@BensbergFilms7 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching:) have the best day:)
@tonyrussell64017 ай бұрын
Chris, thank you for being vulnerable. It helps to see what other believers are going through. I hope I can handle things as gracefully as you. I know God will continue to bless you.
@BensbergFilms7 ай бұрын
Thank you Tony:) I pray the Lords wisdom and blessing over you and your family:)
@amac35027 ай бұрын
I know yourr hurt...I pray God heals your broken heart and the right one will come into your life soon.
@BensbergFilms7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much:) have an amazing day:)
@CathAlexandra5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry about your marriage. I know you did what you could to save it. I've been following your channel for many years, and I liked when she joined you, especially the Brazil visit. God is good, though...He's brought you through.
@BensbergFilms5 ай бұрын
Amen, he sure has thank you for your support over the many years:) I pray the Lord blesses you and your family and stay tuned more adventures to come:)
@CathAlexandra5 ай бұрын
@@BensbergFilms Thank you!
@justinludwig39957 ай бұрын
Watched the whole video. Definitely blessed me and your testimony uplifted me greatly. Was just what i needed. I could go on an on about similarities but the main thing i want to say is youve really helped me tonight brother. I waited a year with many sleepless nights praying. I actually lost all interest in pretty much everything, including reading my Bible. I still did, but not as much. Now i am fired up to study more and seek what He has next for me. Sow in tears and reap in joy brother. I'll be praying for you, and thank you again for this.
@BensbergFilms7 ай бұрын
So glad the Lord could use the video brother:) stay strong and I'm pumped for the blessings from the Lord as he pours them out on you and his love on you:)
@AuntyM667 ай бұрын
God bless you Chris. Funny enough I was looking for your second channel 2 weeks ago. Also I have been following Deborah as well and I have noticed that a lot of KZbinrs are talking about God. I am Christian for many years. Like you I was engaged to a guy who took me to church. It took years to heal because it was lust. I have been awaiting your testimony. Years down the line I am a now with NSPPD church. This has increased my faith and healing. Amen. I will be pray for you for a marriage settlement in the name of Jesus 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@BensbergFilms7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story:) I pray the Lords blessing and anointing over your life and wisdom as he leads you:) Have the best day
@AuntyM667 ай бұрын
@@BensbergFilms 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@donnawebb60577 ай бұрын
Thank you far sharing and God bless you.
@BensbergFilms7 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching:) have a great day and God bless you as well:)
@CathAlexandra5 ай бұрын
Do share living below your means. We do it, too, but I am always looking for new tips!
@BensbergFilms5 ай бұрын
The biggest tips that has helped me was increasing my income which was the Lord's blessing nothing I was doing different with KZbin. But as my income increased praise the Lord I started to pay off credit card debt and living the exact same way I was but even better because I wasn't spending money I didn't have. My car stayed the same which was paid off after I tackled all the credit card debt. Becoming debt free was so fruitful the feeling is beautiful. Then I started to save up an emergency fund my goal was 3 months, then 6 but I'd like to get to 2 years cash in a high interest savings account God forbid really to go. I started to invest also during this time but typically what I see happen in California and even here now in Colorado is when the income goes up so does the lifestyle which puts you in the same boat you were just in. Living below my means is key for me because God forbid an income stream dry's up or goes away I can still pay my bills because I'm not pressed:) Hope the tips help have the best day:)
@CathAlexandra5 ай бұрын
@@BensbergFilms Awesome!
@AntonioSurot3 ай бұрын
Body God will give you a real wife.because i believe the good wife is from God.