BETRAYED her with his indecision and threw out a BLESSING.

[@WithALightHeart]

i’m reading The Women who Run with Wolves, and the chapter i just read is about the duality of women and how a good mate for wild women need to be able to understand that part of them. that every aligned woman will kind of have “two women” within them who both need nurturing in their own way. relevant.

[@pragmaticpoet]

I've heard that compartmentalization is a trauma response

[@WithALightHeart]

@@pragmaticpoet ?

[@forjusticeandtruth]

​@pragmaticpoet it's a defense mechanism which is typically a response to trauma: Compartmentalization is a psychological defense mechanism where people separate conflicting thoughts, emotions, or experiences to avoid discomfort or cognitive dissonance: Definition Compartmentalization is a way to organize life into separate areas, or to create specific times for different tasks.

[@Ashleyraine954]

Amazing book!!

[@deah5790]

Gah 13moontarot mentioned that book on the reading I listened to this morning 😍🔥✨

[@NiN477]

A story on how wrong a man can be

[@immortalhygiene]

there is a very fine line between feeling “ambivalent” and indulging in hypocrisy

[@javalily]

Narcs see all women this way.

[@HestiaFires]

So accurate! He told me no one is that perfect so he went on a mission to find out what is wrong with me. He didn't find anything so he started mistreating in horrible ways. I became very angry so my rage justified his feelings about something being wrong with me. He sabotaged the relationship and now he's sorry and sticks to me like a leech but he has hurt me too deeply for too long. I just want him out of my energy. I want out of this hell!

[@Kunjesvari]

Just say no

[@HestiaFires]

@@Kunjesvari That would be so easy if only it worked!

[@Kunjesvari]

@@HestiaFires lol i feel you. Stay strong. 🙏

[@Sgun-e2u]

I didn’t see it like this. clueless. I really, really grieved this.

[@shellhamilton3887]

I see it clearly now that I’m not in it. This reading made it crystal clear. I too grieved the relationship but I am so grateful to be free of it now

[@blackharvardgroup]

0:10 Jessssss just the screen tells my ENTIRE story!!!!😮

[@majesticunicorn7941]

Mine tooooo😮

[@GoldzenJuLz]

😮

[@bethtomlinson9549]

I feel this reading

[@jennifercutler2516]

He fumbled! Foolish

[@blackharvardgroup]

8:26 💯🎯🙌🏾❤️ he always said he loved my style and my body, how natural and plain I was lol

[@stefanlemke6157]

Ok, I was the masculine here. Definitely a learning experience for me. I felt like she came on rather strong despite not having talked that much before and I usually take a while to get to know people. In the past I ended up in very sticky situations because I felt I trusted too easily and didn't really understand who they were. It's been a while since then and I thought I was more healed but this was a good experience to learn that it's ok to be more casual with sexuality like that, and not everyone is nefarious. So yeah I did screw up a bit and misunderstood her, and probably did see these things in a bit of a binary because of associations I have to past experiences. Thanks for the perspective jess, very helpful.

[@pragmaticpoet]

Its completely a THEM PROBLEM

[@laurabrown3610]

I second this 😂

[@ImaTruther1]

I third this!

[@contentedtiger_]

This is dark, but check: According to Greek myth, the Sphinx challenges those who encounter her to answer a riddle, and kills and eats them when they fail to solve the riddle. 😂😂😂

[@debrachambers1554]

I think this was just an illusion! He's into the Karmic he chose along with all the sleeping with others.

[@blackharvardgroup]

9:05 he really asked me if I made love to somebody else the way that I made love to him. And when I looked confused, he swore I had to have been a pro at this.😢

[@NiN477]

On point, thank you Jess

[@Askrelive]

This is my new”relation” were he blocked me cause of fear but turned back to me. We two are Very alike.. Thank you Jess! Have not met him yet ♥️♥️♥️

[@Angel-rt1sn]

Thank you Jess, this is my story...very accurate reading...I need a man who allows me to be myself I am the full package...😊❤💯🎯⚖️🔥🕊️🔑👑

[@MINDS-MYSTERY]

Hahahaha they must not be knowing what REAL WOMEN REAL LADIES CAN REALLY DO

[@Stacey-Devine]

Hello good afternoon, sounds about right. I claim

[@contentedtiger_]

😂😂😂 I give up, Jess! I appreciate this clarity, so much. Not a chance I'm giving up either of these sides. Maybe I'm just not built for a 1D kinda dood! The worst part of this movie is where me and my energy move on and they realise what was going on, too late. Seen it all before 😂 He had me in a complex for a bit there. God, make me a man please - post haste!

[@Kay32776]

Driving home, listening to your phrases-very on point, for certain. But laughed out loud when you said “slab of muscle in your mouth”. Oh my gosh-imma gonna use that phrase. Brilliant. lol 😂

[@Linarock83]

We all contain multitudes, if you are a nice person and cannot be accepted for all your beautiful qualities there is something seriosly wrong with the other person

[@pragmaticpoet]

As you tendcto say frequently in readungs Jess, 'its an intelligence test'

[@LaurenSoniaPrager]

Spot on…😂

[@user-ln4qe1sh8i]

Lol, it took him 5 months to realise that 😂 nevermind, I learned a lesson and dodged a bullet 💯

[@Lisa_MikMak]

Yeah 😅 he can't believe I really adores him

[@ImaTruther1]

Funny, hes the only one that has ever had an issue with it, hes just weird, hes got some kind of ASD or something, cause nobody else I ever dated had these issues.

[@anahatabetamerceti]

Omg. You are in my head I swear. I feel like I've been making things up and here you are reading the situation Wild ones by sia is so crazy because I never really read the lyrics and I work at a jazz club. He's my coworker and I had a big crush on him and slowly realizing that I'm not what he wants. I swear those lyrics are so funny because he's the sound tech guy. Mic check 1, 2. How funny Yeah he did hurt me I was into him the moment I met him a year ago and he decided to be with a different coworker. She got fired and now we have weird chemistry and he avoids me like the plague. Hot n cold. Makes sense with the gossip piece, a lot of the girls at work have big mouths and I have a high position. I'm slowly learning more about why I am the way I am. Especially regarding hysteronic and hyper sexuality. Interesting stuff. You're right on the money. I dont want him to harvest my energy especially when it comes to my position at work. I want to be better about who I let in. But I don't know why I liked him, I just did.

[@Shay-tz3cg]

Definitely resonated. Thank you ❤❤❤

[@heatherstahlnecker9270]

i pity the Fool.

[@TerriWheeler-px8ev]

This I a so on point

[@Mary-790-c6x]

Um I am allowed to be a whole women and maybe he cannot handle a real whole women I’m not trying to tame change compete or make them feel insecure but I also will not tolerate cheating and I did throw down because the chemistry was and is there and if this person would pick a promiscuous lifestyle over a total package so be it I would not want someone who always wants a variety that to me is disrespectful disgusting and I will move on and let someone else that sees and knows when. They have it all

[@RSPY-ko8ki]

Accurate.

[@blackharvardgroup]

6:07 thhhhiiiiisssssss 🎯💯

[@MindsetofAGoddess]

Thoughts of a lustful narcissistic man ❤

[@NiN477]

Too bad

[@S-h7j1s]

I have 7H Venus in cancer on my DC sextile 8H moon/mars/Jupiter in Virgo, with Pluto on MC and Neptune on AC and SWEAR this is the story of my life.

[@EvelynnLenoreAngel]

For giggles pull the preamble to where he found the Madonna....😢😢😢

[@motherofsamson]

❤❤❤ Thank you! You are comfort and light with your no-nonsense insight

[@Perseverance1843]

Also a 3rd energy, or group of people.

[@Susiqempath]

Thank u ❤ na I'm defo both and he knows it now 😇🥰 never mind, I have their latest catfish to keep me amused 😍😘

[@Viviannavalha]

On spot❤

[@blackharvardgroup]

4:44 🙌🏾💯❤️🎯

[@bettymarker6078]

I think just an illusion he’s into the karmic he chose along with all the sleeping with others

[@melissajackson1814]

Jess, you are a gift 🎁 Either that, or you have one. As in, gifted. Lols 😆 anyways, thank you so much 😘

[@Mary-790-c6x]

Um I am allowed to be a whole women and maybe he cannot handle a real whole women I’m not trying to tame change compete or make them feel insecure but I also will not tolerate cheating and I did throw down because the chemistry was and is there and if this person would pick a promiscuous lifestyle over a total package so be it I would not want someone who always wants a variety that to me is disrespectful disgusting and I will move it in and let someone else that sees and knows when. They have it all

[@Lonerhouseplant]

💜💜💜

[@wildspark100]

🙏🏼💗💗💗🏹🔥

[@rozrena3959]

100%

[@deah5790]

💚🩶🙄🫠

[@nika21nika89]

She put him in this position on purpose to see the fallacy of his thinking. A woman can be multidimensional. Men of this age group tend to think in black and white concerning the feminine. For women, this is so limiting and restrictive.

[@destinycapricorn5331]

Wow this makes such perfect sense!! Thank you

[@dawnwalker4019]

❤❤❤❤