Nona Jones: Guard Your Heart and Learn When to Let Go | FULL EPISODE | Better Together on TBN

This week on Better Together, Nona Jones discusses how to guard your heart and lean on God. Join the conversation as Zai Chandler, Christine Caine, Faith Eury Cho and Irene Rollins join Nona Jones to discuss relationships, forgiveness, and guarding your heart.
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[@mariangoma718]

Lord my heart is aching😢. Help me Jesus

[@dtjisdivine]

May God heal your heart again in Jesus’ name.

[@greaterishe7197]

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[@elizabethc9843]

May God bring healing to you. I’m here seeking healing too and what a beautiful teaching here and place to start. I’m praying with you that you open up to work and walk towards healing, I’m on that journey too, we will get there 💕

[@spicybutterfly104]

May the Most High comfort, heal and restore your soul🙌🏾

[@sheenacampbell9278]

❤I pray that God hugs your heart and that you allow yourself to experience HIS love and his loving presence.

[@nathalieorelien4175]

Good point! We don't have to keep toxic people in our lives but we can forgive them and move on gracefully.

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

I have been hurt, stand at the alter, next to the person, tears streaming, and praying for that person. God had that person come to me later apologizing and being humble.

[@motheowalerato701]

❤

[@dorothywitcher3972]

Praise God!

[@linbandeen8226]

Never forget that peoples actions and words are a reflection of their heart and not our own. We love them because that’s our heart and we forgive them because that’s our heart. We have no control over others, but we can set boundaries so they can understand we don’t accept their behavior.

[@andrettawiggins2837]

Truth all day. Eventually I will forgive

[@leratomokoatle6454]

This right here 💪🏾 I shall keep reminding myself 😊

[@roshellwillemseik7899]

I have been hurt so many times I don't know if I will ever heal or forgive😢😢 But I want to let go and move on but I can't its not easy. I just want to be happy and for God to heal my heart❤❤

[@user-os3gz2br4g]

So true

[@meganshanece]

“The wall that you erect to keep people out becomes the wall that separates you from the opportunity to love” this was sooo good.

[@WellnessForMoms]

Vengeance belongs to God and Vindication comes from the Lord! 🙌🏾 #Release #Wow

[@RealTalk-mq2ug]

God, as I walk through this hell and heartache and grief, I pray you guide and direct and hold me...

[@msladyFaith]

You're gonna be okay, you'll even be better at the end of it

[@LakeishaMonique]

I touch and agree with you. God is going to answer our prayer. Thank you Jesus. Be blessed my sister we are Kings Kids. He got us!!😢

[@doreendamjatbiitir1794]

I wish this for me and anyone else… I want to be whole and experience Gods guidance

[@schaniquariley5924]

🤗🤗

[@janelleflagg7154]

Omg! I am walking through the same hell torment and grief! My husband left a few months ago and I still have to rely on him financially and I just got diagnosed with breast cancer! Thank God it was caught early and taken out but now I have to have another operation to check lymph nodes for any signs! I'm being tortured by the thought of my husband of 18yrs lying in bed with his adulterous I literally don't know how to shift my thoughts! I think about the lies and betrayal more than the cancer! I physically can get healed but betrayal is spiritually mentally debilitating! Only God can deliver me from this anguish! Please pray for me!

[@tashmabailey9291]

Nora Jones hit it on the head with the relationship statement “two sides to a coin”

[@Sweet2kiss1]

Jesus this is not a coincidence please open my heart to this episode please lord do your will in my heart!!!

[@chicabailey2634]

Amen

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[@brandypeay5350]

AMEN❤

[@tamaratrevino7772]

So refreshing to hear these women of God speak so real about real issues we go through especially in the ministry. 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@mamelanjingolo2600]

Thank you for reminding me that Forgiveness is not giving the other person a free pass. I've just written a letter of forgiveness to someone that hurt me, they passed away and I knew it's not spiritually or carnally normal to resent someone even in their death, instead I am imprisoning myself. Wrote the letter, felt so good and light. I cut it up in small pieces and released it to the heavens like a dove. I feel good. Thank you.

[@motheowalerato701]

❤❤

[@willarolen7581]

I don't want vengeance, I just need to be left alone so I can heal through Counseling. My offenders have asked me to forgive them more than several times and I have, but they keep doing the same thing over again. I had to say to them, I forgive you, now you forgive yourselves and have a good life. And Yes, I need to guard my heart from outside chaos (drama).

[@MP-cf8lw]

Well at least the offenders asked for forgiveness, mine havent so i gave it to God and walked.

[@willarolen7581]

@@MP-cf8lw and I say Amen!

[@willarolen7581]

@@MP-cf8lw you are right, when the people who have hurt you don't ask for forgiveness we have to give it and YAHWEH God and He will heal us and work it out every time.

[@t.l.c.6197]

1000% Agreed!

[@beblessed5442]

Thank God, I didn't bypass this video. Lord continue HEALING my heart and teach me how to set boundaries. Forgiveness for them and one's self is imperative to our Spiritual Growth. Thank you Ladies for your transparency it surely opened my eyes and heart to alot of things.

[@junkanoobaby1]

Same here only 10 minutes in and I’m saying the same thing. I truly have placed a wall around my heart to survive 😢

[@beblessed5442]

@@junkanoobaby1 Hold on to GOD'S unchanging hand and keep trusting and believing in him. Your VICTORY IS HERE in JESUS name 🙏🏾 AMEN

[@dtjisdivine]

This helped me so much. Thank you all for your transparency, realness and willingness to help others through pain.

[@MaryellenS.13]

Thank you for pouring your hearts out on this subject. I absolutely have retreated in self isolation from so much pain and injustice. I set boundaries, boundaries of keeping the world out of my daily peace. Then when I get so lonely, I realize I’ve done this to myself. I am alone, I am lonely for good reason….but I see it’s not at all healthy to sustain.

[@kala7347]

i agree with you 100%

[@dtjisdivine]

This has become my story but I pray we can know we have God and he will restore us in areas and in relationships that are right for us again.

[@briennaclifford9699]

you're definitely not alone. this message is speaking to me. I'm at a point where I can begin to check my own heart and just to get back on track with God, Oh it's been heavy

[@liglisachae7238]

The thing I loved most about this real conversation is that it always came back to Jesus and the Word because when it comes down to it, as one of the Ladies' said, the super natural working of the Holy Spirit can only help us work through these very difficult situations and issues. If, at the end of the day, Jesus is not the answer, then why are we in this!? May not take everyone down the same route, but we can end with the same result. Jesus has to become bigger and more real than what we went through.

[@nnedwards3260]

❤

[@Portia1416]

“Jesus has to become bigger and more real than what we went through” Wow! Eye opening statement! Thank you! And God bless!

[@prettyuniquell2011]

Yet the church constantly preaches about “stay married”, God forgave you, you can forgive your spouse. So I stayed and “forgave “ but my now ex husband was constantly cheating! Nona hit it on the 🎯, you don’t have to be in a relationship with an unrepentant person!

[@steflondon88]

I’m sorry but your church wasn’t biblical if they said that Because yes one can forgive, but infidelity is a biblical ground to leave. Especially if more than once. I pray you heal and know the church is messy - But God. He isn’t man.. and sometimes we stay and sometimes we find a church that has better teaching / more godly people who understand Grace + the full gospel

[@janefferwangui4511]

Someone like my comment I will come watch after work

[@GlendaGray-xi9uz]

Work for justice; but leave the vengeance to God; Vengeance, belongs to the Lord!! Thank you Sister Caine for that profound statement!! It freed me from chains of hurt that I really thought I forgave. Hallelujah!!! Thank you for the obedience! Amen. 👏

[@continagibson8735]

there are so many of us that have lived with the burden or scar of sexual abuse. I think the healing is in the hearing. we have , I have had to heal and allow the lord to be my Father that will never hurt me. the father that will love me and the little girl with in me to . I have to help heal those who don't have a voice.

[@acildamasonzander9917]

Like many listeners, I needed to hear that others understand. We love and appreciate you all.

[@blackgurlonfire5332]

I am in tears. The truth is here and GOD is speaking to me. I have been hurt by leaders of the church. I recently experienced friends turn away. The problem was they didn’t realize my hurt and my cry out. It’s sad someone has to be suicidal or so far gone before people realize their words became a sword upon a person who was already DONE. I started 4 months ago praying that GOD give me new life. Not the life I have thought of for myself. But the life GOD had for me from the beginning of my life. I have learned to stop going to people “FRIENDS” about my personal problems. I can’t idolize my friends! I have a friend in GOD. I’m on a new Plath now.

[@ines-simpson]

Definitely needed to watch this. I'm on the edge of the cliff but for some reason the holyspirit just keeps on pulling me back in every time even right now, as I was thinking about wanting to give up the Lord knows exactly how to comfort me. The conversations amongst these strong women of God spoke to my heart, I was literally crying during the prayer at the end. Thank you holyspirit for coming to my aid. What a powerful God we serve🕊

[@RealLadi228]

Ive struggled with giving way too much of myself away that when it should be reciprocated it wasn't and it would trigger me so much I would lose my balance and lash out at those individuals that should be there for me too...I couldn't connect the fact that what I so easily and lovingly give to others isnt always something they were or able to give to me in return Healing is for a lifetime and God knows how to warn us of the correct positions to stay in when it comes to people but our childhood trauma can keep us locked in a unhealthy pattern My prayer is to stay conscious of the ways of God and how would he want me to handle or address all things. #boundaries #selflove #selfcare Keeping my eyes on CHRIST always🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@briansmidt8839]

We do it our hearts broken in so many ways. It cuts to the core of our being. The pain gets unbearable. BUT GOD, being in mercy.

[@donotwastetime]

One of the first things I HAVE to do when I become angry, sad, when a thing or person is done to me is WHAT IS THE ROOT of the emotion. Why did what you said get me? Once I figure out the why, I can approach the who.

[@sharondavis4308]

Wow, am I placing this person above God

[@Mondays_With_Coach_Rice]

This is so convicting but freeing. Thank you Lord!

[@lindagitau7886]

Love that Nona, "the ones is on me not on them..."

[@user-rf7gu1wn2k]

This is the best one yet. I love seeing the diversity represented because it represents what society looks like today along with the different points of view. I would love to see a Latina on this show as well. Good job!

[@motheowalerato701]

Right ❤

[@blackbeauty2819]

NONA!!!!! THAT WAS SO GOOD!!!

[@crystalnelson1775]

I'm never heart broken, I'm blessed that God protect me and covered me from harms way .... I'm bless ed.

[@Flower_hoarder]

🙌🏾JESUS 🙌🏾JESUS 🙌🏾JESUS ‼️🙌🏾

[@joannagomez6740]

Just what i needed i almost stopped going to church because i was hurt by leaders who input a wrong impression of me to others. I see the need to also check through myself i might have control to it. Thank you all

[@Friedataleni]

Lord I am lost without you please help

[@SheilaAdeti-pt6ge]

Lord heal my wounded heart😢 it's heavy on me my God 😭😭

[@Pottersclay03]

Omg this Blessed me and helped me so much today. I needed this. Lord, please teach me how to set boundaries and show Grace when I've hurt others and they not ready to forgive. Lord help me with forgiveness forgiveness

[@RemeberME24]

This was so good and necessary for me to hear! Thank you sisters for being so transparent and just simply being vulnerable with your hurts and trials. Thank you Jesus for allowing me to come across this video. 🙏🏾 💜💜🙏🏾

[@86Kera]

I just want to say I loved hearing form each one of these ladies. It was especially touching just seeing black women be transparent and vulnerable with one another . God bless.

[@delorescampbell2899]

I' do that too. Get the vision of the Cross. It helps me too

[@paulahenderson9878]

I really love the diversity around this setting.

[@fatumailunga8483]

True. I struggle in my marriage due to my pass. This message it's healing and restoring. Thank u❤

[@lovefelix1566]

Vengeance vs. Justice Very good explanation Christine Caine

[@CrystalFoster-vm5gn]

Oh Lord, Help me in this area of hurt and forgiveness!

[@tboykin13tb]

LET GO & LET YAHWEH!!!! ❤ Pastor Nona's Mother saying that 😳😱!! 🤯

[@yolisajijana5348]

There's so much packed in these few minutes that has changed my perspective about a lot of stuff in me

[@yvettewilliams7243]

Lord touch my heart and restore my strength. Lord forgive all of my sins. Help me Lord to walk in your footsteps and develop boundaries to what or who I allow into my life.

[@ravengoudeau4386]

This made me realize how much I withhold my affection 😅 I’m the unknown enemy sometimes- my walls immediately came down watching this. Thank you, ladies. 🩷

[@JustTramayne]

Jesus deliver us from the spirit of offense!! The world is so hyper sensitive!

[@monicarichardson5432]

This is definitely conformation for me. I was just speaking to my sister about the same topic. Offenses can be catastrophic but my prayer is that the Lord will teach me to deal with it as it comes.

[@laurac5021]

Thank you for this talk. I needed this so much. I'm huge on forgiving and loving like Jesus. I do it well because the people around me aren't my safety and acceptance, but YHWH is. I am stepping away from my children a bit to allow God to be Lord and for healing in their lives. This helped a lot. Thank you.

[@JESUSA333]

I really needed a God perspective, instead of my perspective. Thank you for this message, I really enjoyed this time with you all. Praise God for his grace and mercy upon us.

[@kurtpadams4239]

I am always reminded of the goodness of God everytime I look at better together. Thanks much ladies. Please note that as a loving fellow man,we men have been hurt to or have done hurt to others, its not the woman alone that look on.❤

[@ruachnaim0305]

This is soooooo good! Amen. Thank you Lord for your grace, strength and power that helps us overcome!🙌🏽🧎🏽‍♀️❤🙏🏽

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

Yes, we are to be the example. Feel the hurt, process it, but ask God to heal that person and your heart as well.

[@shakiramcgee2023]

Wow I needed that conversation about Nona’s mom. That’s what led me here. I have forgiven this family member but I don’t have to be in a relationship with someone who is not healed and repented🙌🏽 Lord I thank you ❤️‍🔥

[@mirembesarah9840]

While i do agree with that, i still think we should be open to what God can do beyond what we are able to do, exactly what Nona said, we are still indebted to love them & give grace. We are human and we can only see very little but God looks at us & sees the possibilities we can get to, if we only let him in for we can only live, move & have our being in Him. God is able to help us say, "God forgive them for they know not what they do", and then reach out with only what He can give us, His strength, His love & then help them buy groceries, help them clean their houses, mow their lawns, babysit their kids...where we actually love them before they are worthy of that love; for that's Romans 5:8 'While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us'. While they are still "hurting" us, we can still give of ourselves and serve those who have hurt us. I think that's true forgiveness. Just my thoughts...

[@cassieroberts63]

I'm seeing this at the right time! It is helping me open my heart, on a particular matter, to hear what God has to say to me about it and see him show me where some of the "why's" on where my emotions are stemming from. I now have a better mindset on how to approach this situation matter when it's time. ❤

[@sandiesmith6742]

Love these ladies truthfulness in sharing. God Bless them all for sharing. ❤❤❤❤

[@mzfee7521]

OK, someone correct me if I'm wrong. Forgiving someone doesn't mean your hurt goes away. In fact it can actually be something that may have to be done daily especially with DEEP wounds. There are things that forgiveness is not. It doesn't mean reconciliation. Second marriage failing due to his lusting for other women, porn, the lies and deception, My first ended for abandonment and infidelity. There's a much more intense pain when someone knows your pain and then they hurt you the same way, if not worse.

[@lovefelix1566]

Praying for you. Sending hugs ❤😢❤

[@motheowalerato701]

❤

[@jessicarodriguez8657]

I can honestly say . I was praying to God and just saying I need to hear the right words but I don't even know what they are ..n I come and see the Chanel and I can say THANK YOU LORD 🙌 HEAR THEY ARE ..THE RIGHT WORDS. thank you ladies for taking the time to do this cux me and many others needed to hear this . How amazing is to be part of the body of Christ .

[@jilllingenfelter4682]

I absolutely thank God for permanent divorce/no reconciliation ever. And I absolutely have put solid hard boundaries in place when it comes to my ex husband/his family/godparents and I thank God for protecting/keeping my Godly family. And I safe from harm:)@better together on TBN

[@lidiac.1410]

God be praised! How good it is to see women in the church speak openly about abuse that we should not tolerate, such as domestic violence. unfortunately, for many years the church remained silent and advised women to tolerate violent husbands 💔 but now I'm happy to see things changing.

[@deborahkyomugisha4871]

Because of what Jesus Christ did for us on the cross, Jesus doesn’t want us to hold on grudges. We have no excuse to hold on to the grudges, no matter what the offense, and pain we have gone or been put through. For our own good, Jesus gives us the grace not to hold on grudges.

[@ChangedbyGrace2]

In CoDa one of the principles is Trust those who are trustworthy - its so true and helps to guard your heart 💜

[@lamantharichardson8778]

Nina thanks for sharing your story.

[@shirleyharrell6093]

I was just thinking that you must heal, so let the healing begin. Kisses and be blessed.

[@delorescampbell2899]

I stumbled up on this show. I Really needed to hear this. I've been dealing with a few people offened by me. I examined myself and I found those 3 people are easily offended. I repented to them and they still rejected me and it was pity. I'm not gonna worry about it anymore. God will fix it. Thanks for this show. I'm a forgiving person. I don't hold grudges. It's painful when those u love cut u off for a small misunderstanding . 😢

[@motheowalerato701]

❤

[@latasharussell3553]

Smart Trust = Discerning Trust❤

[@shesonfire_]

Amen. You won’t even always be in relationship with a person who does repent. Ppl have to be given a deadline and a window to be able to show you respect. Even God has an expiration date for the grace period. We shld be led by The Holy Spirit to find out if ppl deserve to be apart of our lives again even if they do change. ❤

[@pinknotebook]

Everyone was amazing. I love Christine's heart for justice. I am the same way

[@Pottersclay03]

Oh my my. I'm petty toooo. THANKS FOR THIS TODAY

[@adriennedyke]

the blood of Jesus doesn't give us amnesia - Chris Caine...🤣🤣🤣 it got me

[@frankyb4249]

This is so timely! Been facing disappointment and God has been challenging me to “guard my heart” 🙏🏽♥️

[@TenaciousB20]

Thank you God using these ladies to speak to me

[@leeseechildofGod]

😢😢😢😢 my heart is so bruised but the only thing in all my hurt is I've sought Jesus like never before

[@user-ky6jh3ds9f]

Hallelujah anyhow 🙌

[@Conversationswithesther]

Lord help me see me the way you see me 🙏🏾. Bind up our hearts ❤️ with your love

[@user-tf6kk8gz8j]

Thank you I needed tohere that be cause I didn't know what to do but now I know

[@kellysmiles8962]

OMG, I enjoy watching these conversations...you ladies are such a Blessing- sharing your experiences with the world is Awesome!!!

[@JESUSA333]

I thank each one of you for being genuine and real Woman of God and the anointing the Lord has placed on each one of you to minster his truth to give us hope, strength, courage for healing and deliverance to become whole again through Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour. How great is the grace and mercy of Jesus and to send you his disciples to edify and encourage us. Thank you again, and again, and again and I will continue to watch this over and over because there is so much anointing from each of you for healing and deliverance. God bless you all and Praise Jesus.

[@ms.ladyval23]

This discussion was spirit healing.

[@stephanied1028]

This is so helpful! This show has helped my walk with Jesus.

[@dainahaughton5912]

This message came at the point of my life where I needed it most. I was hurt so much by so many people I love that I started to build a wall up. I wanted to he healed so badly but didn't know the first clue on how to start although I am seeing a therapist this really gave me insight and hope to not give up because all is not lost. ❤😢❤

[@sherri3695]

Thank you for the analogy of the coin. Very powerful 🙏❤️

[@abdulphillippeelali61809]

In the bible corthinns and psalms it talks about peoples reactions to things they don't understand or overstand because feeling overwhelmed with fear they believe and think falsehoods will bring forth a better solution or situation infact this is also revealed in revelations

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

Yes, God heals our hearts, we become aware, then ask God.

[@Lovingmylife24]

I love how you said you decide what to let in. I’m gonna use that in my life.❤

[@nthabi_28]

What an informative conversation. Thank you Lord for reminding us that we are not what happened to us. We are what we believe we are!❤

[@nnedwards3260]

❤

[@Blessed_C]

Nona just healed me…I found my peace❤️

[@gabbie921]

Stunning ladies both inside and out 🥰

[@brittanyb9292]

This video kept popping up I learning through y’all to not put other people on pedestal also I have bring the offense to other also I do tend to get hurt isolate myself not wanted to receive any love from other also not give it I also learn not to escalate every offense I tend to do that this what I needed

[@chaquiseedwards]

Thank you so much needed this yes …. Everything was so good I’m a Preacher my self so this really help me thank y’all …. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🧡🧡🧡

[@babyjet17]

So much wisdom and learning in this, thank you for sharing and inspiring me to heal. Praise God!

[@angelamartin2336]

Thank you. I forgive but the challenge to be in relationship with an unrepentant broken person, I’m in the process of grieving and accepting reality of now …I thank God for a way of escape and healing🙏🏽❤😂

[@allisonlilly8946]

Needed this…

[@shantellerenay]

Lord!! I didn’t know I needed to guard my heart from my husband 😢 This heartache is painful. I trust God in my pain.

[@Toneka100]

Heart and soul aching so bad from my poor choices lord i need you

[@abdulphillippeelali61809]

Y'all should own a company of strategy of life's goals

[@jdy4681]

Thank You Women of God. This session have freed so many people. Thank You for this discussion, it has brought much clarity, revelation, peace. May God Continue to bless you all and empower you to continue in your work for the Kingdom. Amen.

[@lakitasneed8293]

I love everything about this conversation. The level of honesty and vulnerability shared here is Godsend.