Beyond the Pisces Lunar Eclipse - Ego Death ☠️

[@megankwisdom]

completely agree with you about the zeitgeist surrounding narcissism lately. it has me second guessing myself all the time! i have morality OCD so it takes different forms depending on what is considered bad or evil and right now that's narcissists so I'm constantly questioning myself about whether i'm being a narcissist (ie a bad person) and it does hold me back from being authentic because my ego is terrified of other people judging me as the worst thing on earth, but i KNOW i'm not, my soul knows that I'm a good person and i don't have to constantly be trying to prove that to other people and get that external validation. so I'm working on that now, trusting, surrendering, all of that. it's so refreshing to hear someone talk about this, i thought I was the only one questioning how healthy it is to be bashing on narcissists so much as a society, it's like the new witch hunt!

[@Stella_Sage_]

YES! I relate to this so much! I know this topic is largely felt in the neurodivergent community because we tend to have a higher moral compass yet also have more experiences of being misperceived my others, which is why I think it exacerbates our self consciousness and desire to be perceived in the best light. But shame is just a form of control and has only proven to exacerbate the problems our egos can cause for ourselves and others. As a collective we need to do better at offering compassion, forgiveness, and focus more on self responsibility than trying to force others to be more accountable. It’s a long term solution, not so distracted by the fleeting moments of emotion. Earth is about learning through experience and that can only be achieved through the freedom of trial and error.

[@cynthiamontgomery9420]

I also am an INFJ was an ENFJ when I was younger before I had my disability of Multiple Chemical Sensitivity. I too have been going through it. I recognize my narcissistic behavior as well but I am an empath mostly. My Capricorn is my ascendant, my Moon and my South Node. I have been going through a life of dark nights of the soul and my problems when piling upon each other like they do bring out the narcissist but then I need that quality to survive the current problem.

[@Stella_Sage_]

Thanks for sharing 🫶 Awareness and honesty is the key to healing. Pluto through Capricorn has been a rough journey and being the sign on your Ascendant impacts all areas of your life. Plus moon and south node goes much deeper than this life alone, so give yourself the credit you deserve for being strong enough to handle that! As individuals we need to realize that we are the only ones responsible to advocate for ourselves, and as empaths, we need to be less harsh on ourselves for managing that responsibility. It's NOT something we should feel ashamed about or feel guilty for. Just because we know what it feels like for them, doesn't mean it's our responsibility to manage how they feel for them (even if we think we're more capable to because we're used to it). Depleting our strength by being strong for others is ultimately limiting our ability to make a greater impact that's more sustainable and helpful longterm. It's a perspective I come to realize and have to keep reminding myself of. How much/who does it really help if you cast yourself aside and diminish your power? It's ok to be strong for yourself, hell it's more than OK, it's your responsibility! As Capricorns, we definitely know not to f*ck with Karma, so something tells me you're just being overly critical on yourself (another Capricorn trait)! 🫢 Sorry for my language, clearly this is a topic I'm passionate about... 😏😂

[@christianlewislyon]

Acknowledging your uniqueness should enable you to realize that you’re not alone in your uniqueness.

[@Stella_Sage_]

This is so true and I think stems back to the benefits of "to know thyself" because in the process of understanding your true unique self, in the same breath, you also realize how similar we all are. In the end, we are all cut from the same cloth and astrology does such a great job of showcasing this deeper truth. We all hold the entire zodiac in our makeup; the differences come from what archetypes have more prominence in our current personal expression, but technically we have access to all of them all of the time.

[@Stella_Sage_]

I think this is conditioning more than anything because deep down we all want to be "special" and we are, but it seems more often than not, we'd rather go along with the crowd because the process of individuation is really uncomfortable and in history, people have been ostracized for it. So we suppress our true nature to fall in line, not stand out, and remain comfortable yet stagnant.

[@christianlewislyon]

@@Stella_Sage_ this is where your ability to see and encourage the uniqueness in others helps them

[@christianlewislyon]

@@Stella_Sage_ similar only that we are completely unique

[@Stella_Sage_]

@@christianlewislyon So true. I do feel this is a large part of my purpose. Since I've first handedly experienced (what I believe to be) a more exaggerated form trauma from trying to deny my uniqueness and conform to who I felt others wanted me to believe and the damage it had on my psyche, confidence, and inner child, I want to inspire others to not make the same mistake, and instead own their unique truth despite how it might make others feel. So far my channel has been focused on the collective themes, since so much of it is systemic, and using myself as an example for others to learn from. But the latest spiritual revelation I had (only like a week ago) was around a calling to create more content about individual placements and personality types, which will focus more on the individual so people can understand themselves better through archetypal energies and formulate their own sense of self. It's been so helpful in my own healing journey and it would be such a blessing to offer that to others. I believe learning about generalities provides one with a useful outsiders perspective, yet leaves space where one doesn't feel like someone else is defining who they are for them (like personal readings do).

[@starflower1]

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[@megankwisdom]

good content but you need a mic, audio is difficult to hear :)

[@Stella_Sage_]

Thanks for that feedback. I do have a microphone but I think I dropped it one too many times and noticed too in this video that I don’t think it’s working so well! 😬 I’ll need to invest in a new one and probably sit closer to it too (I don’t like seeing it in the frame) 😂

[@Shadinray96]

of course everyone agrees congratulations for repeating what everyone can read and fantasize about😂

[@Stella_Sage_]

Glad to make this topic more accessible and relatable 😅