Big Family & Big Burdens: Kima Smith v Johnathan Smith - Season 26 Episode 50

[@katrinakatrinakatrina]

This is what you call a “fatherless home” even when there’s a father in the home. Those poor kids.

[@yolosotoph1152]

Yup, an excellent example of a married single mother

[@ruthienelson3682]

You are so correct. Even when you see fathers and mothers in public with their children, you can see which fathers are comfortable assisting and interacting with their children. You can also see which wives are basically married single moms, handling the majority of the load, rearing children. I hope more fathers see this and make an honest effort to help their wives shoulder the rearing of their offspring. They don't remain children always. They do grow up.

[@FalaqX]

Single moms gotta work. She doesn't work.

[@Wonderfullee-x6z]

How can you say that, he pays all bills and she is disrespectful. and destroys property she gets a pass for that.

[@yolosotoph1152]

​@@Wonderfullee-x6zhow can you say a man who only brings home money and doesn't help actually take care of and actively avoids spending time with his kids doesn't make the home "fatherless"? Kids don't care who pays bills. He's childish, selfish, AND a cheater. This lady literally cried for help and he was unphased. Sure, it's not cool to pay the "stupid tax" as Judge Toler calls it. But, if you think his behavior & coldness warrants respect, then your standards for yourself and your peers are in hell. Don't ever have kids with your wife if you not going to take care of them WITH her.

[@elaineinoregon2727]

His eye-rolling told me everything i needed to know

[@dijmiller]

I caught that. He seemed so annoyed with her.

[@nix_myrnie_cello]

Yesss!

[@veevee4461]

Yes it did! SMH

[@blackpowerpuff6155]

​@@dijmiller He is the one that's annoying.

[@ruthienelson3682]

Yes, body language speak loudly and clearly. His body language said he does not respect anything she has to say. He tries to make her out to be insecure, when she is just tired from a lack of help with the children. She is operating on very little sleep. Sleep deprivation will cause you to act out of character. He should try spending a day caring for the children without his wife's help. Then, he will understand.

[@Otto8845]

I love how Corey the bailiff spoke some words of wisdom to the defendant about how important taking care of children are.

[@angelagray736]

I honestly don't believe those polygraphs test, a machine , to say if I'm lying or not..😂

[@poshpearls23]

Exactly. They can be manipulated!!! That's why they can't be admitted into court cases as evidence. I don't buy it.

[@CreativelyKia]

That’s what I’m saying. He gave guilty vibes to me. If somebody is delusional or psychotic enough, they can really lie straight through a liar detector test and it will come out as no deception detected. That’s why they’re not admissible in real criminal courts.

[@altheapayne2240]

I don't even know him and I don't trust him 😂😂😂

[@FalaqX]

He PASSED & yall still don't belive him. It's a no win. Who hurt yall

[@hevinamber]

Girl I took two polygraph tests and FAILED them both because my butt was lying😂 so I believe them to some degree

[@Gemini24631]

He passed the test but he is not treating her right. Don't think he is in love with her

[@6Summerville]

He didn’t pass. That test ain’t shit that’s why it’s not used in a REAL court of law.

[@ruthienelson3682]

I sense he loves his wife, but is not respecting his wife. He need help in learning how to be a better husband and father.

[@FalaqX]

She needs to show him more love 😊

[@ruthienelson3682]

@FalaqX Marriage is sacrifice. Most of us don't realize how much we give up until we are knee deep in marital responsibilities. When we are thoughtful in putting our partner's needs ahead of our own; and they extend the same courtesy to us, we keep the Circle of Love revolving in our relationships. We all want our contributions to our relationships to be acknowledged and appreciated by our partners.

[@rozzjack]

Damn she can’t even take a nap??? Girl that man is wearing you down. You can get peace by yourself.

[@naturallyflawed5472]

No, the children wearing her down. This is why you should only have as many children as you can afford. In case you need to hire a nanny or something. I’d never have that many children for a man who work a 9-5 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@rozzjack]

@ it’s both, but mainly him. She’s completely stressed out and unhappy. I feel bad for her, but she has to realize that she has the power to get out of that hell. She needs to leave that man and focus on her children. That man is a taker and she let him take her spirit.

[@naturallyflawed5472]

@@rozzjack she probably feel stuck and that she’ll never be able to find another man with that many children 🤔

[@softersideofc.c.5655]

​​@@naturallyflawed5472 now you know they can't afford no nanny

[@calvin4959]

It’s good how they let the bailiff talk and contribute to the case as well. Keep contributing my brother!

[@tydunn5385]

I miss the other bailiff hahahaha 😅😢

[@JP-vv2jm]

It's not real. In Rio Court the judge does not ask the Bailiff questions, wow

[@murieltillman9554]

Nooo! We still need Judge Star's style of the day!!!

[@gailsmith836]

I like what Corey said.

[@slosauss]

I agree. I think that’s why everyone loved Robert so much.

[@kimh7978]

He hasn't cheated sexually, but if he doesn't stop making the choices he's making, he may get in a situation where he does cheat. He's playing with fire.

[@jo5755]

This!!!!

[@ruthienelson3682]

I agree. Then he will use as an excuse for stepping outside his marriage, that she nagged constantly, without taking his needs into consideration. She needs his help and encouragement with the children, before she can even think about what he needs from her. A little assistance, please, Husband. Mother is tired.

[@sammhammiam]

What a sorry excuse for a man

[@JamesThomas-pv5en]

Over in Uk we call him a wasteman 😂

[@dijmiller]

Hmmmm. He didn't physically cheat, but those texts would've did it for me.

[@GrenadianAmerican]

It's serious emotional cheating!

[@queenteireigns6212]

Emotional cheating is just as bad

[@danelecarter8660]

Oh snap, Corey speaks 😂

[@Triple_s_shots]

😂😂😂

[@TotallyTas]

I said not Corey talking 🤣

[@neveradullmoment6882]

😂

[@mlm1916]

He had a lot to say‼️🤩

[@jetcrews97]

Yeaaa I was surprised

[@sky_malini]

Cheating is the least of her worries, he’s not an active father nor active husband. He is another child

[@ladyhustla]

Exactly and got the nerve to have 9🙄😩🥴🥴🥴

[@alexisdykes5634]

💯💯💯

[@ruthienelson3682]

Exactly. You just explained many wives frustration. They sometimes feel like the husband is just another child she is caring for. He hear her complaints, but choose not to respond to them. He then accuses her of nagging him. Just like the children.

[@rozzjack]

She’ll be crying again next week.

[@jetcrews97]

She doesn’t wanna start over😭🤣😂😂😂😂🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@rozzjack]

@ I promise her it’ll be more peaceful 🤣🤣

[@Mootpoint24]

Why would anyone have this many kids? Of course life would be awful.

[@davital.washington7416]

I’m Sorry having 9 kids. Girl Bye.

[@o4417]

Lmfaoooo 3 minutes into this episode..... I can't even... He's standing on business in the game but not standing on business with his family/ kids. A DAMN SHAME.... SHAME ON HIS MOTHER AND SHAME ON HIM. Ladies let me remind you NEVER, NEVER have more kids than you can handle... NINE kids and he has the AUDACITY TO SAY " moms are supposed to be strong ".... Tuh.... Then wonder why she's uptight or upset?? She NEEDS help/ relief... A DAMN SHAME.... I would've had 0 kids and been gone in the wind. Gmfu.

[@Rooted_Locs]

Pin this damn comment 🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@elsamyqueen6302]

I would have been gone! Coz The Good Lord know I do not have patience for these kind of guy

[@GentlemensDialogueClips]

The first date was at a strip club and she thought this man was a good dating option, but good men are boring and corny right? The jokes write themselves

[@erinjohnson4273]

That part

[@GrenadianAmerican]

Physical cheating is not sin only, So is emotional cheating. Society has set so much of a low standard it is pittiful.

[@yemedemure414]

‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@ruthienelson3682]

Thank you for making that plain. Any attention taken away from your spouse and given to another is CHEATING. We only get 24 hours in a day. Much of that 24 hours is spent outside the home working to provide for your family. Or, if you work within the home, that still leave you with very little time for self. You have to make time for your spouse. Your body can be present, but your mind is with Someone else. That's cheating. Your spouse feel that separation from you. Even when you both are in bed together. Your spouse can still feel there is a void between you. They can still feel loneliness with you sitting or sleeping right next to them. It is a good thing he is not physically cheating. Now, he need to work on the emotional part of his marriage. This is where he is CHEATING on his wife.

[@leezanewill-codrington7731]

Look at his attitude. He rolled his eyes up every time she spoke!! This woman is looking after HIS children and home, and he treats her like crap!!

[@ruthienelson3682]

This is probably the first time he heard his wife's complaining and took it to heart.

[@Edward_Strong1982]

bro who are raising these sorry men. Or maybe that's the problem they aren't being raised. In nobody's world is anything he's doing is ok.

[@KevinDessus]

Lady why in the HELL u need a test🤨

[@DiamyndRough1917]

Right, no test can tell me what my own eyes and ears witnessed.

[@GrenadianAmerican]

Some folks can fake a lie detector, too. It's not admissible but for divorce court.

[@tmoneyhoney14]

thissss 🎯🎯🎯

[@IbrahimBabalola-qs5lk]

These guys have learned how to beat the lie detector test lol this makes no sense at all 😄

[@bhornannawindeedeigh5007]

Mr Rolls His Eyes at everything thinks he's all that. 😂... the poor little thang.

[@spookymech6462]

Wow she needs to leave him because she’s not happy even if he’s not cheating

[@kekesupreme]

The man in the back with the bald head & grey suit be in all these videos 😂 😂just looking like 👀😐👀

[@tonyamcmillan4257]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kittybusiness]

the men who left the mamas and don’t pay child support are to blame

[@indigochild2453]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@candazec.7049]

All that eye-rolling and scoffing-- this is a boy, a disrespectful boy in a man's suit. Girl, take your kids, leave him with his and co-parent. Let him feel how it is to clean poop off walls.

[@ladyhustla]

Agree.. but he’s not going to take care of 9 kids.. couldn’t help in the home while he there. IF she leaves he is going to be ghost

[@candazec.7049]

@ladyhustla they have 5 kids together. He has 3 kids by himself, she got 1 daughter by herself otherwise. They can co-parent those 5. To me her mental peace is gone. She needs to get away from him to get it back.

[@ladyhustla]

@ oh I heard it wrong. Thought all her kids were by him. Thanks she def need to get away

[@candazec.7049]

@@ladyhustla yep.

[@raybleu8868]

Yes Corey!! Yes!! 👏🏿👏🏿❤️ Speak Those True Fact's To The Defendant.

[@jetcrews97]

Corey was speakin facts

[@littlemissy8356]

If he isn't a cheater, he sure tried to be. I don't understand why there is no respect for birth control with these people. 9 kids is just ridiculous.

[@ChevyLike2Ride]

I feel so bad for her. I just want to hug her. 😢

[@elsamyqueen6302]

This guy does not even like this woman. This is a not a man it’s a boy, just check his body language and how he rolls his eyes.

[@AlenaReed-by5sd]

Exactly!!!! Sad👑🥺💔😢

[@annitricewheatley6496]

I definitely agree.

[@rozzjack]

Just because he didn’t cheat doesn’t mean they should still be together. His behavior causes her to suspect cheating. She’s allowing him to treat her like she doesn’t matter. He made her his maid, mattress, and mule.

[@leeleegrace9015]

Period! I completely agree with you!

[@patrickmiller1834]

A man takes care of the outside and the inside. Come on Sir your family is first second and final.

[@carolyncoleman4827]

Why would she have so many children,they are precious and need a lot of attention,I blame her too😢

[@tianacameron9456]

OK Corey!!!!

[@nflglo]

See now y'all gotta love Corey...😂 He's standing on business 🎉😂❤

[@kanedralee4986]

Corey should speak more often!

[@thisisugh]

She owes him 0 apologies. You lie and lie and lie and step up to the door of cheaterville you don't get apologies for being accused whether you walk through or not.

[@Serenity64456]

No room for violence. Take care of one another. I am 64 yrs old; married to my best friend for decades.

[@drteephd3935]

She owes him an apology? Come on Judge Star

[@DiamyndRough1917]

I mean hey, she lives with him and knows him regardless of a lie detector test. If she wants to believe his lies so be it, that's her hell to pay.

[@foramoreperfectamerica8490]

Judge Star always makes the person who falsely accuses the other person of cheating apologize, regardless of other issues in the relationship.

[@DiamyndRough1917]

@@foramoreperfectamerica8490 in this case I don't think it was false. He lies to breathe so he beat the test unfortunately.

[@indigochild2453]

Exactly why she’s a terrible judge

[@ashleym.2981]

I was comin to say the same. He gave her multiple reasons to think he was cheating. Technically, he is emotionally cheating and that is a dangerous game to play!

[@GentlemensDialogue]

He showed her who he was from day one and most women won't admit it but they love guys like this, if I was wrong this show wouldn't even exist

[@leezanewill-codrington7731]

It's his behaviour towards her that makes her feel insecure and distrustful!!

[@Berlin_Devereux]

"I get belittled by my friends about being a good husband" well SIR GET NEW FRIENDS

[@Pretti_Tingz]

The lie detector on this show is a joke…

[@CaMaCDeM]

I would still divorce him.. he doesn’t help and she is hurting 😢

[@leezanewill-codrington7731]

If you get belittled and disrespected by her, it's because you treated her poorly throughout!!

[@leelee185]

These men don’t fail to disappoint. Lord have mercy

[@janicescott-pair97]

Good point, baliff.😊

[@alsherrod1]

He said when he play the game he stand on business. This is what mostly happens when fathers don't raise their boys

[@user-oc9vh1sf5g]

This lie detector is a lie. That man is definitely cheating man

[@carolwright9336]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@naturalbeauty0311]

Its alot of single moms that married smh she too worried about the cheating when hes not being a father

[@Shogunn_Vee]

This dude wildin, Bro I am a gamer as well with no kids, but even I know when to put down the sticks when life comes into play🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@d820m]

Yep, me too....or she could pick up a 🎮 and learn to play....or get that new Nex Playground and EVERYBODY can play🤣🤣🤣

[@Shogunn_Vee]

@@d820m Exactly, he gotta be trolling😭🤦🏾‍♂️

[@michaelbriggs7879]

This is a MESS IF THATS WHAT SHE WANTS... Have at it..

[@charleshall9488]

Leave him

[@vaughn7130]

The judge dropped the ball on this one

[@bonitathompson1640]

She so tired but she KEEP having kids SMH. A good liar can pass a lie detector test. Exactly why results are not admissible in court. Go ahead and have another baby. Where was SHE when the baby took the diaper off!

[@desmondmeansjr.1339]

She deserves better and she can find someone better and she don't need him at all and honestly even though he passed the lie detector test she needs to serve them papers and seen a beautiful woman rip up them papers and still being with him makes me sick

[@DiamyndRough1917]

Yeah I agree, but until she does too she'll accept what he gives unfortunately.

[@d820m]

Pepto bismol or Imodium AD will help clear that right up🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@yoloxoxo4042]

That was the saddest story I’ve seen here so far. That mama is a true Queen, beautiful and radiant in spite of everything she was going through. If they have 9 kids I can only imagine all the emotional trauma from dealing with things alone and hormones etc. I’m glad that brother turned out to be the truth. I cursed him out all the way to the poly he had me so mad. But they are both beautiful and I wish all of the good the world can give him, his wife and his children ❤❤❤ truly love this family!

[@mlm1916]

He owes her a bigger apologise‼️

[@centrestage1978]

He owe her an apology too!!

[@rozzjack]

Ugh he is so damn selfish.

[@patrickmiller1834]

Corey taking. I like the growth between he, judge Star and the show.

[@sybilwhite1259]

Oh well they both decide to have all those Children so handle it. Since she thinks he is a big Cheater then stop going through his phone and agree or learn to Co-parent!

[@Rooted_Locs]

He’s the most triffling 🥷in the entire history of this show. But I’m also mad at her for having all them kids with him!!!

[@littlemissy8356]

Firstly if he hasn't cheated, what is his intention? It's not good. If he hasn't, he will.

[@jjrasool73]

Thank you bailiff

[@tanyadavis2874]

Wait a minute. I thought Corey was a robot. He speaks😂

[@kaysportz]

I’m sorry but she knew kids were exhausting way before the 10 th kid

[@desmondlester1790]

He seems like a good guy, he just needs to help his wife with all those kids she needs a break sometimes

[@aratang2948]

I had to stop at 4 min after he said he was playing a game and she needs to cook & deal with poop on the walls. People put up with nonsense out there just to have a man.

[@kevinblackmon5007]

When they were walking out, he kissed her hand, the look she gave 🎉 YUM

[@sharikamcneal6996]

Corey been waiting to get that ish off his chest

[@sinailemor467]

Now THAT’S a genuine apology. From both sides. I hope they make it!

[@nh6959]

He wouldn't be my man. I'll give him his kids divorce and child support and be gone

[@Zuri78]

Idk.....he is to sneaky I think he messing around. He needs to be a better husband and father.

[@G18-gm]

Did yall hear Cory fine ahh! And he a REALLL ONE OMGG. His wife is very blessed ❤

[@jasonleman1396]

how is it this show has been on 25 plus seasons and yet this season ends up with 90 percent "needs" a lie detector test? (i dont recall Judy Lynn ever having one, or the other judges)

[@ShanetteLewis]

oh, so he wants to be recognized and complimented for working and paying bills for his wife and NINE children!df!!!

[@BleuReign13]

Who raised him??!!he has how many children? She talks to u like a child😂😂😂i wonder why

[@howardsimpson1787]

So the man works 16 and still has to come home and do things while she there all day I think not

[@blackdiamond9455]

That polygraph test machine must have not been turned on🤣🤣

[@ginab.4605]

Why keep having kids by a man like that married or not?? Her pain is self inflicted. I’m assuming that she believes having kids will keep him in the house and she is wrong.

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Don't stop gaming. Gamer dad myself. Just make time first w wife kids after work, then game time goes smoother. For her. IDC how you feel as Judge Toler says destroying and tearing up the house takes away from the family. She needs to control her attitude and response.

[@coryclanton2432]

1st, he met her working at a cookie stand in the mall=she's broke, next 9 freaking kids, he'll be a broke azz dude or a dead baby daddy out hear and she'll basically only be a jump off baby momma, they better off staying together and raising that tribe that they have together, SMDH 😢

[@truthmatters7298]

He not a cheater but he’s lazy. I couldn’t be with a lazy man or woman.

[@robinowens2851]

I just love Corey. Great man!!!!!

[@shenquejames7598]

Sir, why are you not making money on the game as much as you are on there? Why are you breaking your own stuff, lady? This is nuts!!

[@thesweetlifeofgbaee]

I’m sorry they can’t find there balance cause to be fair they are both playing a role - he’s the provider & she’s the caregiver & that’s dope but they not being nice & honoring each other in that role.

[@barbiebarbie8849]

she raising all kids on her own how many u got it’s look like 5-6 kids 🚩🚩🚩☠️ smh she a retired city girl… married she to young for all thems kids she leave him she not gone have a man

[@jm2297]

Man some of these polygraph tests got me wondering if even the 'passed' tests are real 😂

[@tomorasmall296]

I hope she gets rid of him for good.

[@shelz4346]

So not cheating alone makes him good enough to stay with? He ignores you and disrespect you and you are staying. Pick up your self esteem off the floor.

[@serenalampkin8241]

Maybe he didn’t cheat but there is neglect on both sides!!😵‍💫

[@lillianwilliams5510]

Give respect. He doesn't respect his wife.

[@briannax4140]

Mrs. Smith stood there and told her whole truth! She really opened up calmly and spoke her needs, it seemed like he got it at the end, but here's hoping to a better future for them and all their kids!

[@AndreasHofmann46]

Great Video, Love failed me, my ex left me 2 months ago, I've pleaded for her to come back but she don't want to, i'm having sleepless night, i think of her all the time, i've met with other girls, gone to the bar, therapist to see if it will help me move on, but nothing is working. I feel so empty, it feels like my world has ended, i don't think i will ever find happiness. I don’t know why I’m saying this here. i really miss her and i want her back.

[@JanMuench467]

i Have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual prophetess who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

[@chyennekimble3820]

Time is what you need to heal although you may always miss her as time goes on you will start to feel whole again. If it’s meant to be she will come back if not it shall open another door that you don’t even know you needed open. Find love and peace within yourself that’s where the journey to healing begins. Best wishes .

[@IMBROKENLEG]

Do you guys mind sharing why you ended up breaking up in the first place?

[@angielyons980]

Show her that you have changed. Some people reconnect with each other after some time apart. Work on you and the things that she shared that was part of the problem. Once you have done your work on your self growth, and you are still missing her, send her a nice invite to join you in an activity that she enjoys doing. If she does not come, it may be time to move on and let go for good. At that point, you should be stronger and healthy enough to love again. Leave the bar scene alone. Random chicks are not going to help you.

[@RRR-RetiredandRoadReady]

Believe it or not, you are grieving. There are five steps to grieving, and you must go through them all in order to heal. time heals all wounds. believe me, trust me, this will pass. Ask me how I know. ❤❤

[@ladytt9331]

"Stupid Tax" !!!

[@tareva_]

I miss Judge Lynn so much😢

[@Yeshuadaughter727]

He is not feeling like a man even in court he is not being heard

[@jessicatobias9371]

His actions are not of a man though !

[@d820m]

Don't care, he still deserves to be heard

[@slosauss]

Look at this guy rolling his eyes like he’s a child. I feel so bad for her! Could you imagine being stuck inside with 9 kids all day with no help? It drives me crazy men think just because they have a job they are all that and they don’t have to do anything else around the house. It’s ridiculous and unfair to the significant other and the children.

[@serenalampkin8241]

Breaking things is paying the stupid tax! Judge Lynn Tolar 😂

[@MercedesBenz-yy9oo]

Imagine catching your husband doing all of that then talking bout a lie detector test,talk about a joke

[@Barbara-h5q]

She is emotionally drained.He is disrespectful and cold. She needs to have a get away to have time to think about what she needs for self and it might be its time to live life without him.

[@sybilwhite1259]

Maybe they need to seek therapy 🤔

[@gailsmith836]

They do but do you think he will change? He has a selfish mindset.

[@BMCLegacy]

He looks just as surprised as everyone. He found a way to beat that test. She still needs to leave him. He is trifling

[@awesome.andrea]

This is a married single woman that is tired with 9 kids and 1 adult child. This man wants to be praised for doing the bare minimum and he is not doing it, so he seeks validation from strangers because they are not a reflection of destruction. Its just a matter of time until the relationship ends.