Bilal and Shaeeda Discuss DIVORCE | 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After

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[@luna6731]

She’s always been pretty outspoken about how having kids is her top priority so this honestly doesn’t surprise me

[@wtichery]

Right, he was scamming her 😬

[@SB-fh3sv]

didn’t she say in the first 90 day fiancé show that she didn’t want kids?

[@ImTHECarlos98]

@@SB-fh3sv no, she was always clear about wanting kids.

[@noneofthybusinesz]

g8boh0 o .. ub,

[@SB-fh3sv]

@@ImTHECarlos98 other people who watch the show said the first episode Shaeeda said that she didn’t want kids and Bilal did at first.

[@chrystalthornton1502]

Doctor never suggested testing Bilal (who's had a vasectomy for sure) and he's just trying to run the clock out till she's too old and he can say sorry, not sorry, you are no longer fertile. Not my fault.

[@mythots]

YES! your'e so right i hope next time they question HIM..

[@y.g.mwangi1430]

Hahaha. I know it is not good to conjecture but I also believe he's had a vasectomy already and he will watch her agonize without saying a word.

[@marquisfelder3170]

wait is it proven he had one because i honestly been thinking this he is sooo damn dodgey on the baby talk lol he is trying to bide any extra hour as a win for hi,m lol

[@lynnkesh254]

But as a woman u can tell if a guy has a vasectomy..cos he literally shoots blanks...

[@Eqha67]

@@lynnkesh254 no, that's not how it's works. They still shoot, just infertile.

[@elledavis6224]

Her bio clock is ticking if he doesn't want a baby they shouldn't be together. Her saying she wants a divorce is messed up but at the same time he is saying he doesn't want kids which he knew from the beginning was something that she's wanted.

[@mythots]

Yeah it's a biiiiiig mess

[@kaylyshajarrett]

fr like why is nobody talking about the fact he knew all this before hand 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[@Coolcucumber905]

Did everyone forget that they said in the beginning he wanted a kid, she didn't. Then they both agreed to none and now she's changed her mind

[@elledavis6224]

@@Coolcucumber905 I didn't catch that part I was under the impression shes always wanted a baby

[@marierose444]

@@kaylyshajarrett no fr at 37 she HAS THE RIGHT TO MOVE ON LIKE IMAGINE HER SAYING SHE DON'T WANT KIDS BECAUSE OF HIM AND THEN RESENTING THEM BECAUSE THEY FORCE YOU NOT TO HAVE WHAT YOU ALWAYS DREAMED OF...HE GAS KIDS CLEARLY HE HAD THE SAME IDEA .. SHE KEEP SAYING DIVORCE BECAUSE HE CLEARLY KNEW SHE WANTED KIDS why would that change for him what has he changed for her like please

[@Unknown2Yoo]

I'm still team Shaeeda. She made it a point from the beginning of the relationship that she wanted children, and Bilal strung her along, signed the contract (even though he doesn't get punishment for not going through with it) and married her. Once he found out having kids was this important to her, he should've said "Ya know, we shouldn't get married". The only options are either Shaeeda needs to give up her dream of having a child OR Bilal gives up his dream of a third marriage that's child free. Otherwise, there's no reason for them to be together. You can't have a marriage where your life goals are that misaligned. Also, what is up with that driving lesson? Go to a professional school, how the quack does he expect to teach his kids to drive if he can't handle an adult? This man has the patience of a gnat.

[@britneyh8679]

She has gotten a lot of publicity from the show . She should get a divorce and start dating asap . They are not compatible. I feel like if they have kids their kid will suffer from all the negativity . Some people are better off separated

[@Andrea-zo4qy]

I don’t like Bilal either but I’m pretty sure at the start she said she said she didn’t want kids but then changed her mind. I wonder if she wanted them all along and was just hoping to change _his_ mind…

[@Victoria-nu4td]

Third marriage ??

[@donaldrobinson7063]

he need to leave her for a younger Trinidadian

[@spf_500]

​@@mycinnamongirl👀👀👀👀👀 whaaaaaaa

[@MamaOG1111]

I'm so happy for her, knowing what she wants, maintaining her standards and being true to her authentic self. Her time is limited and absolutely shouldn't be wasted if her greater purpose is to be a divine mother. Simple.

[@steele_frankie8693]

i agree... it can take time tp get pregnant, Shes scared it won't happen for her.... he was well aware of her intentions

[@JaseekaRawr]

A divine Mother! 🤰🏼🙏🏻❤ I love that so much!

[@minuscaps]

Agree. This clown ain’t for her.

[@fedluth3116]

yes go shaeda

[@jokbok995]

@@minuscaps Oké If she would leave him How would she get pregnant that fast from a rich muslim man who is single? She will need to invest time again to someone else and If we know that it took only 2 years of talking to bilal before meeting I dont think she has any time left

[@chelsea-t]

When they were on the video call with doc, I was like this is a fertility dr, not a marriage counselor which they need desperately!!! And Shaeeda is baby crazy and I literally laughed so much when she said she would train the baby! 🤣🤣🤣

[@mythots]

HAHA exactly. that doc was like "erm,...... hello"

[@chelsea-t]

@@mythots then you literally said what I did in my comment, lol, I can't help I comment while I watch then edit when I have more to say!

[@texasgina]

@@chelsea-t I’m the same Lol

[@fluffystraightjacket733]

One thing my dad taught me about finding a relationship and marriage is that you have to be on the same page about kids 100%. You can't go into a marriage still deciding if you want kids or not

[@redscorpion9325]

He did agree to have a Baby before they got Married and now he’s going back on his word and her time is running out,so Bilal should make up his mind and stop wasting her time because having a Kid when she’s 40 is higher a risk for an unhealthy Baby,Miscarriage or she not be able to have a Baby at all,of course she can have a healthy Baby at the age of 40 but its best to lower the chances of anything going wrong by getting her Pregnant now 👍🏾

[@showtime951]

You've got to be on the same page about kids, education, work, geo. areas you would live, religion, family, philosophy, approx. intelligence levels, daily activities, vacation ideals, problem-solving, types of friends, how "open" your home is, savings, spending, bill-paying, comfort with debt,... TONS OF SHIT! Let me tell you, from someone who has been happily married once, for 25 years and counting, almost all of the list above come up EVERY day. There is nowhere [healthy] to run or hide. Being on the same page doesn't have to mean, or not mean, being exactly alike or in agreement with your spouse on their views and/or how they handle all these critical things. But it does mean knowing how they feel & deal with these things, are they going to be an asset or a liability to you and your life forever, go in with your eyes open understanding their strengths and weaknesses, and yours. Because they are never, ever, ever going to change. If there is something your girlfriend or boyfriend does that you absolutely hate, simply drives you insane, over the top nuts, daily weekly, whatever...It's on you to learn to unsee it, unhear it, forget about it, or completely fall in love with it before taking the next step. Or you are doomed.

[@jokbok995]

@@redscorpion9325 I mean if your wife is saying to you during an argument I Will leave you but at the same time is saying I want to have babies You wont have babies that fast

[@Prim-N-Proper-1987]

She is standing up for herself and what she wants which is important to do with a personality style like his. We should be cheering her on 🙌🏽🎉🎉

[@jokbok995]

Why cheer her on? Both Parents need to be on the same page for having children? He is very smart to wait Because In the worst case she could leave him and he would be forced to pay child support for the next 18 years and you would probably say Its his fault that she left

[@trashbun2]

@@jokbok995 great point but in most cases child support is extended til college is finished.

[@jokbok995]

@@trashbun2 these Women who are pro Shaeeda are crazy

[@DM-uz9pw]

I know I'm late, I binge watched the whole season butI don't remember seeing these episodes (unless I fell asleep). Are these from a new show?

[@CM-id3wo]

@@jokbok995 you are the crazy one tho lol

[@thechanges2327]

Honestly, I feel like this whole thing started with Shaeeda being in love with Bilal and wanting to start a life with him and grow into having kids. But Bilal and his snake of an ex-wife made this whole endeavor very transactional and like a business deal. Took the love and intimacy right out of it for her. Plus since EVERYTHING is ALWAYS her fault that probably made her just become focused on having a baby and that's it. I'm not saying she's not wrong in some ways but it's honestly 1% to their 99%. She's in an abusive relationship, and now only wants a baby to make all this nonsense worth it. If Bilal can't or won't do that at least she's finally leaving. And I have zero sympathy for Bilal because honestly if he was at least halfway decent to her I'd care about his raggedy feelings but he's never cared about hers in the slightest. Besides, he's supposed to be this powerful muslim man who controls everything. Deal with it.

[@showtime951]

Bilal gives all handsome, narcissistic, overbearing, Black, Muslim, many-time married, relatively successful Kansas City realtors who are currently starring on dating/mating RealityTV shows featuring a woman from Trinidad and an overly vocal ex-spouse a bad name.

[@creedom5676]

This is exactly what I believe occurred!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@mariannemcgrath6927]

I don’t necessarily believe that she brings up divorce all the time. We’ve heard her talk about not wanting to waste her time if she’s not getting what she needs/wants. Based on what we know about Bilal, she prob said it ONCE and he has blown it up. Just like during the driving lesson & him needing her to calm down when it was actually HE who started the freak out. He seems to do an awful lot of projecting his behaviors & feelings on to her.

[@showtime951]

Bilal is a good catch, like a Cold.

[@easyhair4health]

Shaeeda is calm as hell, Bilal freaks out then says to Shaeeda "calm down", I was almost on this show with my ex and I am so glad I did not get choosen

[@claraf.6833]

Omg spill 👀 You applied to be on 90DF?

[@aduckwithanumbrella]

SPILLLLL

[@hamomo24]

PLEASE SPILL what stopped you from going on???

[@francesfehrman741]

Stop car, Tell him to get out.

[@sweetmoonshinee]

She’s to old to wait for Bilal to get over his feelings. Bilal has been DRAGGING her and not giving a definite answer for the baby. I’m glad She’s finally putting her foot down. She loves him but a man is not worth giving up having a child for. Especially for Bilal. I think she’s realizing he’s just not worth it, especially with his baggage haha Also your editing is amazing !!! I’m so proud of you! Getting an editor will help you tremendously. Either way you’re awesome :)!

[@MADEbySOUL]

Too mature, focused, and damn too good to deal with all of this.

[@mayharvey5403]

As much as Shaeeda is talking about abandoning Bilal if he doesn't give her a baby I can see that she is only bluffing for she wouldn't want to go back to Trinidad and stop living the life that she is living now for Trinidad is not that easy for she has given up her Yoga buisness even before she and Bilal became friends for it was Covid and she wasn't making any money for he said he was supporting her while she was in Trinidad so she only want a child from Bilal so she can have a stronger hold on him and if they were to break up she will be walking away with almost half of his wealth which i dont blame her for she has to be smart as well so Shaeeda girl maybe having that baby is good for you at all cause so Mr Bilal don't get me wrong for i still love you and SHAEEDA as a matter of fact I love the whole family including your Ex wife

[@natalieschnieder9131]

He’s legit so triggering for me for an ex. Cannot handle how negative he is to her about literally everythingggggg. Easier said than done to leave him but if you have to write up a contract to have a baby and he describes children as the plague lol probs not going to work out long term. Also, not sure how she can say that she isn’t going to let “anyone waste her time”- bruh time is wastin, wastin away by the second

[@liinaaax]

I think she initially loved him, but when he started acting up and belittling her and not standing up for her now she just wants a kid and then be done with him

[@showtime951]

Bilal gives all handsome, narcissistic, overbearing, Black, Muslim, many-time married, relatively successful Kansas City realtors who are currently starring on dating/mating RealityTV shows featuring a woman from Trinidad and an overly vocal ex-spouse a bad name.

[@waaaaluigi]

Totally agree with you about where Bilal is coming from. Don't love him but it'd be hard to have a kid with someone who regularly brings up divorcing you and might take your future child with them

[@mythots]

Yes definitely. I don't like the dude but I understand where he's coming from LOL

[@colbilajuan9517]

I think she's told him if they don't conceive a child she'll divorce him, but Bilal knew from the beginning that she wants a child and that family unit. He's the one that brought up reservations after the engagement and after she arrived to America.

[@viancarobinson4847]

She actually told him she didn't want kids and switched up on him after he proposed.

[@SB-fh3sv]

she didn’t want a child until she came to America. So it is actually the opposite

[@michelleallred8521]

You don't teach the baby to sleep. The baby teaches YOU!! My daughter in law has my granddaughter on a sleep schedule since she was born & she's nearly 2 & she pretty much naps at noon, bed by 8. But rule number 1 w a baby is YOU sleep when the baby sleeps

[@mythots]

Hahaha seriously I remember babysitting infants and I was like oh... ok.. so they're the boss.... hahaha

[@michelleallred8521]

@@mythots yep for sure. Tried 5 times to put Evelynn to bed one night. Finally turned her show on tv slept on the couch w her lol. I didn't mind though

[@QueenOfKings0402]

As a mother of two I can confirm they can’t be programmed.

[@megansstallion818]

not the parental deep breaths 😭😭 I hate that I KNOW I pissed them off when they do that

[@mythots]

MM HMM it literally gives me ptsd

[@shaycat13]

Straight flashbacks! That and saying "I'm disappointed in you" it makes me want to go in a corner

[@Ashley-bm9gc]

Loool at least deep breaths are better than yelling and spanking. Think parents truly do this to calm themselves so they don't react in the wrong way.

[@hb2862]

I'm so glad I'm not the only one thinking like you. I'm in my 40s and other single women I know who are in their late 30s early 40s are sometimes pressed to find a man to have their kids with before its too late even if they aren't totally in love as long as the man is of good moral standing has a job and insurance. It's the truth. I think she wants kids with a financial stable man more than she wants Bilal.

[@catsrus-es9eu]

Yep. Sheeda gets a baby and if it doesn't work out she gets a child support check

[@hb2862]

@@catsrus-es9eu I honestly don't think she is in love with Bilal

[@catsrus-es9eu]

@@hb2862 of course she isn't. How could anyone be in love with him. She's gaming him

[@oiimi5948]

HIM PUTTING HIS HAND ON THE STEERING WHILE everytime she does something "wrong" is literally WAY more dangerous imo. That and constantly stressing her out will lead to an accident happening. ughhhh I can't with him

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

We all were laughing when she took off her boots 🥾 because she has a heavy foot !😂😂😂

[@messynessy_mua7550]

I said that exact thing to my husband when we watched this episode!!! I literally told him I’m getting the vibe she just wants a baby and will leave with the baby as soon as bilail starts acting up. Us women know.. she just wants a baby she doesn’t care about the marriage.. she wants that baby and child support lol

[@diamcole]

Honestly, I'm fully supportive of that too lol but not with narcissists like Bilal. A man like that would go above and beyond to make her life a living hell if she tried to leave to go back home with the child.

[@mythots]

YES! I totally agree. I mean I don't blame her. I think she really loved him and ideally wants to be a big family. But if he keeps up with the manipulative gaslighting crap.. she's OUT

[@tez228]

@@diamcole right!! 🎯 she’s playing with fire

[@RoarofdalioN]

Yeah no if you want to leave leave when there isn’t a child involved

[@wtichery]

@@RoarofdalioN she has to do what is best for her child

[@vikikat4935]

If you have to have a contract to have a child. That should tell you the person really doesn't want to and don't marry the person.

[@leslietiwari8625]

I was surprised also to hear that Shaeeda has threatened Bilal with divorce, but I'm glad to see her standing up for herself and not a complete doormat to Bilal. I think talking to her friend and family is making her realize she is being played by Bilal and she better stand up for her rights because that prenup is not going to do anything for her.

[@QueenOfKings0402]

But at that point she shouldn’t married him at all. She is wasting her time.

[@showtime951]

Bilal gives all handsome, narcissistic, overbearing, Black, Muslim, many-time married, relatively successful Kansas City realtors who are currently starring on dating/mating RealityTV shows featuring a woman from Trinidad and an overly vocal ex-spouse a bad name.

[@kylietaylor396]

The “I’m not going to live my life without a baby, so, whether or not Bilal and I stay together or not, I’m not going to allow anyone to waste my time” was SOOOO terribly chopped and edited

[@kayla123ism]

I couldn’t imagine giving up my whole life for someone to treat me the way bilal treats her. He keeps trying to test her when she first came and now he treats her like one of his children.

[@MamaOG1111]

You know whats super funny about this... being from T&T myself and having so many friends from the US visit...we usually drive differently, because our roads aren't as wide, so we take our corners closer... bruh😂😂😂

[@mythots]

ohhhhh damnnn that would make sense.

[@shakeeranoel4320]

And the lanes are reversed 🇹🇹

[@astronautviolet153]

both of them are toxic and I feel so sad for the children and the future baby.

[@sandlotkrew8778]

Mmm... I think you're partially correct... She doesn't wanna start over looking for someone new... Her age is a determining factor on the time she has left to get pregnant... But I mainly believe she's prolly had enough of Bilal's personality... Everything is always peachy in the honeymoon phase... But I think after the move to America, the marriage, & getting 100% of Bilal I think the only thing keeping her around at this point is the possibility of getting pregnant. I believe that wasn't her main objective in the beginning, but after living with him I'm assuming things changed mentally for her. I could be wrong.

[@akarimonet]

She’s not getting any younger and she wants kids….that’s not a terrible thing and her wanting a divorce because he don’t want kids is also not a terrible thing either.

[@rafaela4238]

I think Bilal is using the pull out method and that's why she talked about the the "accidents". TLC is messy so I can see them having a serious argument about her thinking she's pregnant

[@halostarr8312]

There's nothing wrong with wanting to be a mother.

[@Poison_tears]

Nobody said that

[@floradabella]

That part.

[@thenoseygenealogist2750]

Nahhhh, she’s simply being vocal about what she wants and what’s important to her. She’s being honest with him. If there’s no child, she can’t stay. Plain and simple. She definitely loves Bilal. She could have a baby back in her own country easily. She chose to be with him and she sees a life with him and their child. However, she has no intention of sticking around for a life of just him. She didn’t sign on for that.

[@hamid6790]

"She could have a baby back in her own country easily" I think that's laughable , the woman is 37 years old, engaged twice ! They didn't work out … there's two things I don't understand about her, why wait till 37 years to have a child forcing a man who doesn't want to have a child with you, B) its just so obvious to us and her that bilal doesn't want a child, he has never said yes, he keeps saying I don't know or wait. However bilal needs to actually say I don't want to have child, the moment he says that, his wife is filing for a divorce and she'll try to get as much as possible from him, talk about coming into the Marriage broke leaving with a few millions, she's be doing well for her self with a green card

[@Tefahh.c]

@@hamid6790 didn’t she sign a prenup? I doubt Bilal would have anything in there where she could do that..and millions lol that’s laughable I could a agree with everything else but you lost me there

[@hamid6790]

@@Tefahh.c yeah, she signed up a prenup, she didn't have a choice, no men or women should get into marriage without a prenup if the the other person is coming in with nothing… she has a claws in the prenup saying if she doesn't get pregnant by 40 she can bring him to court … when you said that's laughable about the millions, are you saying that he doesn't have millions or are you saying she Cant get millions if she brings him to court …btw just type in goggle how much is bilal worth, it will show his business is in the range of 10 million

[@creaturehands]

Literally watching this from in the hospital. Obsessed with your channel, personality, and this series!! 💕

[@creaturehands]

I really hope these two get divorced. Their relationship is so toxic and they're both kinda crazy. Shaheeda shouldn't have kids if she really thinks she can program them and that motherhood is easy. Bilal is a manipulative narcissist that needs to focus on fixing himself, taking care of his kids, and leave women alone.

[@naimaelmo7894]

Get well soon! ❤

[@mythots]

Oh hey! Are you working there or are you a patient? Hope you're ok!

[@Boobalopbop]

Get well soon! Gute Besserung aus Deutschland! 🤗

[@creaturehands]

@@mythots patient, unfortunately. But this video made my visit less miserable so thank you!💕

[@neoho6096]

Problem is that Bilal thinks that he is THE (not a) catch. He doesn't realise how lucky he is to have Shaeeda.

[@essiggurklerl]

Nonono don't stop talking about your personal life, it makes this channel so genuine and relatable. Sorry if that sounded creepy I just really like your commentary :)

[@jalajones22]

Hey, I’m new here and loving it so far. I just wanna make sure you’re good and feeling a little better. I hate depression and know exactly what you were saying in the other video about not wanting to get out of bed. I’ve been going through the same thing but you’ve been helping me get through my depression so I wanna thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤ we love you and eff the haters

[@Lee___H]

You sorely underestimate how much we enjoy hearing you insert your personal experiences into the videos you do 😊👌

[@ani989]

I love that she’ll actually stand her ground on something against him

[@easyhair4health]

If someone was treating me the way Bilal treats Shaeeda and I had left my entire life to come be with him, I WOULD LEAVE I completely disagree with you because with men like Bilal you have to tell them like get it together or Im out. You must draw that line. OR you will be verbally, emotionally and financially abused. So when I was in Puerto Rico with my ex (we had applied to the show but aparently did not have enough DRAMA) but I would tell him when he lost his damn mind, I can go home and get treated like shit if you are going to act like that I am leaving, because seriously it is a huge commitment and often the person thinks since you are alone you are forced to put up with them. NOPE

[@everythingshareable]

Your editing game is on point 😂 plus you are super funny. Babies are amazing ❤️

[@ladygoodmen7399]

Yea, the driving lesson would have gone left for real with me. The oops is his pull out game is trash.🤣🤣. Probably makes her run up and down the street after. He is wasting her time. How he treats her. I don't blame her for talking divorce. She just wants a baby. She would leave, he would be resentful with a child. He doesn't want ANY

[@mythots]

i do NOT miss my driving lesson w/ my parents days FOR REAL

[@ladygoodmen7399]

@@mythots I would steal my moms at night. Taught myself😁

[@Tonyaemm]

As someone with a failed marriage with kids I totally feel Bilal on this one. It’s scary to have more kids and not even sure if the marriage will work out.

[@freepixi29]

My opinion is: she’s absolutely clueless when it comes to kids 🚩 she wants to entrap him with the kid, get the green card, and then will have access to his money hence the prenup, because she has his kid now she can get child support. I’m no fan of him, but in this case I hope he never gets her pregnant.

[@breecoward2289]

Can you imagine how infuriating it would be to have the law as your driving teacher?!?!

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

Also when she gets her license he will not let her use his car for sure! 😢

[@myyt3824]

Yes kids are stressful, but she’s right. Coming home and seeing my 2 yo daughter run up to me saying MOMMYYYYYY is the best ❤ she does the same thing to my husband when she hear him open the garage door 🥰 I never wanted kids until I met my husband.

[@Macaroonsonaplate]

A lot of people don’t understand, women have biological clocks, considering her age she won’t be able to have kids soon. He’s doing this on purpose, didn’t he promise they’d have kids????

[@blackVoid845]

Let’s be clear, in a relationship we all have goals, more specifically passed the 35, and your end goals are getting very real. I think if she is constantly talking about divorce, it's because she realises that she is in a toxic relationship and that’s basically the only thing that can actually keep her there. Because let’s face it, Bilal BS , can only go on for so long …. I think soon enough we will hear they either had a baby or got divorced …

[@joybaptiste973]

Bilal is being completely indecisive. He knew she wanted kids before he even married her but now he’s shocked? Get the fork outta here!!! I think he doesn’t want to have kids but is scared to tell her so he is stringing her along. I’m with her…She wants to be married and have kids and if he doesn’t want the same things then she needs to bounce. I would be with him if he said let’s wait a year and then try, but he wants to wait til she’s 40!! Man just say I raised my kids and I don’t want any more!! But you should have told her the truth before she picked up her life and came to the US!!! Jerk!

[@xxDeeMmmVeexx]

But if his biggest fear is having another divorce you think he’d be a more emotionally available partner and marry someone whose wants and needs match up to his… Shaeda hasn’t been unclear about wanting kids from the beginning so make it make sense, Bilal. 🙃

[@leeeyannn]

Does anybody else sing the title with her!!! lmao REEEECAAAPP 🎶🎶🎤🎤

[@ninjastorm540]

I can't completely blame her for being so insistent about kids. She really doesn't have time to waste cause of her age and what the doctor said about her chances. Plus I'm sure he knew since the beginning that was a major thing she wanted and choose to keep pursuing her despite that. He selfish mind probably thought he could change her mind despite how much he knew she wants kids

[@km4336]

I'm happy she's putting her foot down. About damn time too!!

[@MsTaebogirl]

Girl, I straight up love you (and your singing) lol! Keep doing the great work that you do, boo! 😘

[@mrs.jessicarocha1241]

I'll seriously watch anything you upload!! 🙌 Can't wait to see what else pops up on your channel! Lovin this 90 day content though 👀🤣

[@ChantalIRL]

Girl I FEEL you. #TRIGGERED AF LET THE HATE TRAIN 🚂💨💨💨💨

[@millyrockedyourmom]

i actually enjoy ur personal stories, i think it makes u more relatable

[@mistyblue2917]

Only based on seeing a few recaps n not the show, i still got the impression that Shaeeda isnt naive/a victim, shes got high emotional intelligence n superhuman patience, and knows how to play the role required while still achieving her objectives. Actually i thought that Thots had picked up on this too abt Shaeeda, in a previous recap, or at least.. i just vaguely remember Thots being surprised n cheering for Shaeeda standing up for herself.

[@saimashapi3819]

I wish her soo much happiness she deserves much better🙏🏼🛐

[@KSS2444]

I have lunch at 1pm and I’m gonna wait to watch this but ITS SO SHORT !! I wish this was 1hr (my break) 😂

[@mythots]

I'll try and do a longer recap for next week's episode! :D

[@Boobalopbop]

And on what planet are children “de-stressing”? Perhaps, if you have a team of nannies?

[@jeffingalls7603]

Singing your opening greeting is a warm welcome and makes me happy. Please keep it in your videos.

[@ItsYaBoi888]

I feel like defending Bilal is The biggest plot twist i didn't see coming.

[@elisaa1620]

You’re doing a great job and your funny and on point!! Keep up the good work 🎉

[@blueberryxdmermaidea4245]

I liked the slower zoom but it’s 2 much zooming and memes I love u

[@courtneyfranco4707]

Stumbling on your page was the best thing I did all week, new fan here. (and I'm a journalist who doesn't like anything) you crack me up.

[@mythots]

whoa i'm so flattered 😭 welcome to the sh*t show !

[@Annnamolly]

If they had a baby girl he’d probably end up treating her just as badly as Shaeeda 😢

[@viancarobinson4847]

Everybody keeps forgetting that Shaeeda told Bilal while they were dating that she didn't want kids. She switched up on him after he proposed to her which is why they're in the predicament they're in. She's very sneaky.

[@Coolcucumber905]

So glad to see others remember this too! She switched up on him and now has him looking like the villain

[@terejosh13]

okay so changing your mind is sneaky naw. we are allowed to change our minds. He sure has know for awhile he could have been like nope peace out.

[@leslietiwari8625]

I dont remember her saying she didnt want kids.Did I miss it?

[@Ephesians5-14]

@@leslietiwari8625 I don't remember that either!

[@kinley.-.]

Some would say that her bringing up divorce and always threatening to leave is manipulative, i certainly think so. That’s not to say that she doesn’t actually feel that way though

[@lammcmahon4917]

Hi PO. NEWS. Yes please keep it going. I can’t comment on the news clip. Loved it! The one i watched was about the woman who was arrested for hitting a “handyman”

[@IAmEmber]

The thing is Bilal already has two kids so super-easy for him to be dismissive about her desire to have a kid

[@haleymist09]

Heeeey you're really pushing out the content now that you have an editor! I'm enjoying it!

[@goosebus4664]

Lunch video for the win!!

[@muhreeeee8458]

I love Shaeeda, she’s always been open and I see why she’s worried, she’s aging it won’t be easy. I love how she keeps her standards Shaeeda is such a queen

[@WZ-tp3jm]

I literally can’t stand this man baby omg. He’s someone who deserves to be alone forever because he obviously doesn’t understand how to be a caring partner to anyone but himself.

[@showtime951]

Bilal gives all handsome, narcissistic, overbearing, Black, Muslim, many-time married, relatively successful Kansas City realtors who are currently starring on dating/mating RealityTV shows featuring a woman from Trinidad and an overly vocal ex-spouse a bad name.

[@julesd304]

Shaeeda's earrings remind me of that triangle instrument... And i really cannot unsee it... Plinggg 🎶

[@rachelj9773]

this woman displays so many red flags I don't know how anyone is feeling sorry for her. she never wanted kids when they were dating and now it's her top priority. 😑😑😑 also who wants to have a child with someone who clearly doesn't want anymore kids

[@jhopecreationz]

I really like the editor of this video btw! Idk if you are still trying out different editors still but I like this

[@elizabethb.4617]

I mean she’s allowed to have wants and needs and be outspoken about them. Everyone’s has an agenda, that’s not a bad thing. I’m always on her team and good for her for really finding her voice

[@tiajones8939]

Congrats on reaching 100k!!!!!

[@michelleallred8521]

You can't use the D word as a way to control your spouse & get what you want. I don't like Bilal, but I also think that she has a pretty snobby, stuck up attitude. If she was so dead set on having kids, maybe she shouldn't have waited till she was nearly 40?!!??!

[@mythots]

Your comments are always spot onnnn. yes, it seems like she's using the D word to hold over him and i don't agree with that at all

[@michelleallred8521]

@@mythots thank you!! I really enjoy your channel a lot. One of my favorites for real. Keep up the good work 🥰🥰

[@breezyjr]

I absolutely love your take on this show...

[@decimdekimu1413]

I don't know, at first I think she did love him but after everything he did she got fed up and decided that she would be better off without him. Since he lied about his money in the first place I think her having a child and dipping immediately would be her form of punishment for him. Just my opinion I don't know 🤣

[@roseinaaadaze7841]

Your 90 day fiance recaps are thw best but I would love to hear you talk about other topics too.

[@tabris5304]

He's valid for not wanting a baby but she's also valid for wanting one in spite of however he feels. I fully believe if couples cant agree on kids that they absolutely should end it because it is a HUGE thing. He shouldn't have signed a prenup with those terms if he knew he didnt want more kids, when she very much wants to be a mother. This man's patience with her is so small and he gets ticked off over every little thing, I dont blame her at all for asking "should we just get a divorce?" then because she doesnt want to waste her time with a man who doesnt share the same dreams as her.

[@Zombiemommie2000]

It’s because she is 37 and she is running out of time to have a baby. To me being a mom if it’s what you really want is way more important than being a wife. I’d rather be a single mom then be married to a guy who would ever never give me a child knowing that’s what I really wanted.

[@charmaineblake5020]

We don't know Shaeeda personally. Bilal knows her ways. He knows her weaknesses and strengths. He hinted that she may not be emotionally ready for a baby when he said that she gets cranky from a lack of sleep to which she replied putting the baby on a schedule. That reply is one of naivety. Bilal already knows that he may not always be there to assist with a baby because of his real estate grind, and so in the event that they do have a baby, Shaeeda may complain about being tired and him not being there to help. Bilal sees what could be ahead. He is very responsible and mature for thinking it through. I don't necessarily believe that he is adamant on not having a baby with Shaeeda. He may simply want time to pass so that they are prepared financially and emotionally, especially Shaeeda.

[@jackesposito1757]

I love how you edit your videos

[@nasiraaugustine9869]

I can’t get mad at her for saying that she will leave him if she doesn’t get what she wants she came to this country he played a prank on her. he didn’t show her any of his life, so she pretty much had no idea about this man except for what’s on Instagram then as soon as she sits down his ex-wife becomes a vicious viper. And then, throughout the whole conversation when she was in Trinidad, she kept on saying she wanted children. He never stepped up as a man to tell her hey, I’m not ready for kids, or I don’t want any more children that are his fault, so I fully understand why she says he’s not going to waste my time because he practically wasted her time. He could’ve been straightforward from the beginning and said I don’t want any children who already have children.

[@shaycat13]

With all the BS this woman has been through because of Bilal I don't blame her for bringing up wanting a divorce

[@pucklebearry]

6:46 "It, he, her, whatever!" .... lmao.. my dear... THEM? 🤣🤣

[@-Noxias-]

You can actually 'program' your child lol. My daughter as a infant was sleeping long stretches at night. And napping when they nap is actually so important for your health. But I think this couple is doomed regardless.

[@witch_in_a_wheelchair3050]

Tbh I feel like she's been honest about how see feels and what she wants. I understand Bilal being scared of her taking the kids so that makes sense to me. As far as leaving him to go have kids though, I feel like she has every right to want kids more than a marriage.

[@molli_gothitelle]

I was waiting for this like so thirsty for this update. I think Shaeeda is fed up with Bilal and she finally not having it anymore

[@kkutzz]

So apparently shaeeda is wrong bc she wants to be a mom and doesn’t want her time wasted loll sounds pretty reasonable to me idk what she’s talking about

[@MissVanSam]

Thank you so much for posting these. I do not have a lot of friends and you are like my cool best friend 💕

[@SophiaWisdomTarot]

He’s so toxic ⛈

[@xalluneedx]

Side note: I absolutely love your commentary style (personal stories and all) lol It totally reminds me of how my friends and I sometimes gossip lol

[@cristenk7230]

An "oopsie" means they got hot in the moment and didn't use protection. Not poking holes in condoms

[@mistyblue2917]

Man i cant even watch Bilal constantly debasing her over nothing, it's too much. Wish they'd just stop putting abusive ppl on the show

[@wawa5610]

Nah I think youre wrong about this, I don't think she is actually throwing out the word divorce in an immature way. I think shes actually sticking up for herself in a way of "If you do not want to have kids with me, I WILL leave, I WILL get a divorce. Which I do think is FAIR completely. I don't think she needs to sugar coat it. I think he is taking this and twisting it to "oh youre always saying youre going to leave if i dont do what you want" His fears of being abandoned by his wife do not override her own needs (having kids)