Leaving. Divorce Q&A

[@mossyoakmom8880]

I have watched you for quite a while. Your divorce was one of the most shocking divorces I’ve ever seen. Obviously I only know you on YT but your marriage seemed so full of love and devotion. I hope all goes well for you both. I’m sure what your going through is very hard. Take care and I will continue to watch your videos. From a YT friend in California.

[@maryroseilog1784]

Can’t imagine how hard it was the day you left. I’ve always thought your life was the most perfect in the world, married to your dream prince followed by two lovely angelic children. We don’t know what a person is going through just by a window of time in their lives. Brittany I hope you continue to heal and continue to stay strong and live as independently and brave. We all know you can do it. You have so many talents. We love you and support you all the way.

[@mandiejonsen]

The fact he is all ready remarried speaks volumes.

[@SMJSadie82]

Yea that's crazy to me. Like huh?

[@longislandwife]

When did she say that?

[@valeriesmith6173]

He's remarried??

[@denisethrondsen3399]

He is already married? Wow! How did you find out, did she mention it on IG?

[@amay4203]

That's insane

[@Na-dt2zx]

A fellow “divorce”. It gets better and I found the love of my life . Divorce was the best thing that happened to me but I didn’t see it till way later. When your in it, it’s hard. You got this!! And here to you being happy 🥂

[@suzannevc9037]

You have inspired me to leave a toxic unhappy marriage. You are so strong and you look absolutely amazing.

[@Crew4Life]

I have followed you for years; through laughter and tears of trying to have a baby, then adoption and then your little guy. We love you so much and please take all the time you need, say only what you want to say/share. Also if you want to share some Amazon links of different decor products that you use, it would be a joy to support you in that way. Warm hugs from Texas 💐

[@mnto37]

As someone going through a divorce after a long marriage I really appreciate you sharing this journey.

[@lshelinb]

How did the Church respond to your Divorce, I know it was a big part of y’all’s life. Bless you and your Family 🥰

[@TheLifeofaHomemaker]

Praying for you all for strength to carry on in whatever way the Lord has you. ❤️

[@mamajoe1239]

Gee , if things were not great I don’t think I would of nearly thought about building a home together. Just doing that is stressful and so much money. Bless your heart . Material things are nothing. Happiness is everything. Put God first focus on him .

[@ShayleeOfficial]

Good for you for taking the time you needed. You are so strong! We love you!

[@marianneeckertjensen4723]

Wonderful! In the years after my own divorce I grieved a lot. Then on some program I saw a young woman consulting a pastor on her divorce. She was grieving, too. Tha pastor asked her: 'What would it take to make that marriage work?' And the young woman answered 'I should have been someone else'. Then there was nothing that could have been changed. That was so true of my own situation. :)

[@valerielesh854]

Let me just say, it won’t hurt forever. There will be a day when you can talk about this without getting upset about it, without crying. I know this because I have the same story as you. I was married for 17 years. My life, my marriage….it all seemed perfect to my family and friends. I didn’t share the bad with anyone. So when it came out that I was getting divorced, everyone who knew me and my ex were completely shocked! And it hurt for a long time…..but 4 years later I am happier than I’ve ever been! So to say I’m happy for you, might sound crazy, but I’m so happy for you! You are strong! You are so strong! Because leaving a marriage is one of the hardest things to do, and you did it. Stay strong Brittney! Xoxo

[@lesliemolyneux9727]

Marriage and divorce is hard . I ended my first after 13 years and 3 children. 9 years later we are both remarried and it’s still hard co parenting is not easy . My thoughts and prayers are with you .

[@stef6986]

I got divorced myself, it is very painful, now I am very happy and I know that you will be too. you're a beautiful woman

[@whitleygail25]

Blink twice if he cheated!!! ❤ Keep moving forward Mama and kids are so stinking resilient! And trust me... at first sharing the kids will be heartbreaking but giirrll 🤪 Soon enough you will be counting down the days until its Daddy day 😜🙌🏾❤

[@Bearsie413]

If I am correct she said on Instagram that he didn't cheat. Many (many) people jumped to that conclusion because he is ALREADY remarried.

[@alicesombers4015]

I think she said in an Instagram story that he did not cheat. Whatever it was, she said that it’s something that was present early in their relationship. I’m thinking maybe a porn addiction or something…

[@SMJSadie82]

@@Bearsie413 I wish them both the best but my goodness. I feel like good on her for making the move cause it seems like He wasn't that invested.

[@denisethrondsen3399]

@@alicesombers4015 that’s exactly what I thought. Porn addiction is rampant in the LDS church.

[@TheSilverLining80]

@@alicesombers4015 that would be my guess

[@MysticMoonz]

I'm just saying, from the end of your relationship (looking back) to now, your absolutely glowing and you seem so much happier! Just an observation!

[@Bella-hf2ng]

Totally agree!

[@meggadegs1978]

If it’s not too rude to ask. I was wondering how in your faith divorce works in terms of being sealed in the temple etc? Totally curious about this so I hope it doesn’t come across intrusive or insensitive.

[@ParisRodriguez10281987]

Hey girl! I'm so sorry that you guys are having to go through this. You're right. No matter whose idea it is, divorce is hard. It's really hard. But hang in there. It will get easier. 15 years is a long time and that life was your home. So definitely cut yourself major slack because you deserve all the time and space necessary to rebuild your new home. And remember.. we are far more capable and stronger than we think! You got this! ❤️

[@Johnathonsmum]

No matter what happened……..you look amazing

[@misskatzlife5892]

Gods got you and so do we. The best is yet to come for you and your babies 🙏🏾

[@waterbabe4936]

Thank you for that, I’m sure it wasn’t easy. You’re so strong and doing a fab job. Watching you on Instagram this past summer and you’ve blossomed! You’re a new woman, for the better. Looking forward to more videos from you and seeing your new journey and adventure.

[@veronicarobinson914]

I am in the midst of a divorce as well, praying for you,stay encouraged be Blessed, Thanks for sharing

[@chaank1069]

Wish you the best. Things do get better. Hang in there.

[@kristivella7969]

I think this was a shock to us, is because we didn't see the issues but the good stuff. My heart goes out to you. However....You seem so much happier and healthier now.

[@imdee9024]

Best of luck to you. You look like the type of woman who is going to shock the world. Chin up.

[@lunagabriella213]

I appreciate your honesty. I've never been in a good relationship. My current one has been going somewhat okay, but it's definitely one sided and as you said around 4:30/other video: the problems you left over were there since day one. I had no choice last year but to move in with my bf and his dad, and it's been awful. I've got health problems that have been exacerbated, so I've felt stuck unless I COMPLETELY change my life. Wishing you the best ❤️❤️

[@cristinasperandio503]

Through something like this give yourself that grace period You look amazing

[@heatherpercival4401]

Lots of love darling you are so strong ❤️ I have friends going through simelar divorce processes in the UK. It hurts but in the long run it's so much better for all involved. Good luck with your new life I know you will make it as wonderful as you are. We will be here to share it with you as long as you are willing

[@spoly8139]

I'm not divorced but widowed. They are both similar...a death of a relationship and the pain can be overwhelming. You are lucky to have a wonderful support system of friends who will help you during the most difficult times. The main thing is you are lovingly co-parenting your children so they won't be scarred. You have never looked more beautiful...stay strong you will find happiness at the end of the rainbow.

[@mjessicawilliams]

I know it doesn't make anything better, but things happen for a reason always. You touched so many lives over the years in so many ways. For me, you were one of the first people I watched about adoption and your process and it helped me SOOOOO much during my adoption journey with my husband. If you weren't married, or adopting, or documenting, who knows who may have missed your messages. I loved your journey for years and will continue to watch and support!

[@Makingofabetterlife]

I am so sorry for your loss. Trying for as long as you did, well, that is crazy, that is amazing, that is love and no one can blame you for doing what is best for your children. You got this Mama. Also, i have been divorced recently but separated five years and i find i enjoy my own company so much. Single life for the win.

[@atrinibeauty]

We love you beautiful lady and we’re praying for you! Looking forward to seeing your next chapter @bits of paradis

[@KNw4413]

Can we get a townhome tour? Are you decorating there?? I’d love to see you decorate on a smaller scale since that’s where I’m at in life! Can’t wait to see what life has in store for you and the kiddos!

[@lynfairbairn]

I know you love your decor pieces, did you get to keep most of them? I am interested in how the division of household items happens. I know men probably aren’t interested in that cute stuff. You are so strong and look fabulous and I know you will go on to have a wonderful life. Thanks for sharing💕

[@andrealobos1871]

Girl, you are not required to share anything. What you are required to do is to take care of you and your beautiful family. Please take all the time, leave each day, moment by moment, and don’t rush into anything.

[@pinkpeonies2024]

Divorce is extremely difficult even when deep down in your heart and your soul you know it is the right decision. Couples get divorced for a variety of reasons and due to a wide host of circumstances. I got divorced after almost 20 years of marriage which was crazy to me at the time, but now almost 12 years later, I am in a really good place and my ex-husband and I are still on friendly terms which is so much better than the alternative. We are both remarried and so much happier. Sometimes divorce is just for the best and every day gets easier than the one before it and pieces slowly make their way back together and clarity comes out of a blur. There is not a timeline and I am positive that it is different for everyone depending on how long you were married, what the reasons were for getting a divorce, if there are kids involved, etc. Give yourself grace and surround yourself with people who love, support, and encourage you every day because you deserve that. It is great to see you looking so good and so healthy. Remember that you are strong ~ you are brave ~ you are loved ~ and you deserve all the good things that life has to offer.

[@mariebible3794]

Sending a big hug to you and the kiddos. I’m glad you are able to move on in life and with the children. I got stuck in the pain through my divorce. You are a strong wise woman. Congrats on your new life and happiness

[@kelceyf6457]

Thank you for sharing. Also I appreciate how genuine you are ( I have been though all this too) divorce is hard, being a single mom is hard. You got this girl! 💞 Give yourself grace :)

[@autumnkaiser9267]

Girl, same. I am you in 6 years. I can tell you that it may be hard now but all of you will be so happy this happened one day. My kids just talked to me the other day about the divorce. If you ever want to chat let me know.

[@ladyglittersparkle6451]

I completely understand. I'm in this season. When you were talking about regrets, I got every word and agreed with it. Compatibility was something I also agree with. I didn't see it until finally we were separated. We are 2 very different ppl. God bless you.

[@donnabrown4349]

Stay strong Brittany. Thank you for the update. Vlog when you are able and ready. Take your time. I care about you.

[@jennadovex1481]

I am so very proud of you for all of your strength and bravery you are going through. You are amazing and now you can focus on making YOU happy! ❤️

[@whatsthestorymorningglory96]

I‘ve always thought you have the most perfect life with the most perfect husband so seeing this really shocked me. I hope that you are doing good and settling in well with your new life!

[@BirdsongFieldhouse]

It’s okay to leave a situation that you know isn’t right for you. We as humans can know all the bad but still focus on the good and try to make excuses in our heads as our reason to stay when we know that’s not what best. I’m proud of you for making that decision and putting yourself first.

[@MrsMLewis01]

Praying for you and your family…..this is my second most shocking divorce on a channel I follow; there was one other channel that went through this….you got this…..🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@heymichelleb]

Keep going strong lady! You got this and your babies need you exactly as you are! ❤️

[@staroliva6502]

What a hard thing to go through.... But you look great... You are a strong young woman.. I’am not in social media but I do watch you in this platform.

[@jodeming5088]

I have not seen the divorce video . This video caught me by surprise. You sure handled this with dignity & grace. I wish you well. I know you have got this. You look gorgeous as always. Wishing you well. Spread your wings & fly. I have been here a very long time & enjoy all of your videos. Stay strong, be you & be happy.

[@jojoply]

You are stunning. I was always here for you. Now though and your beautiful family.

[@crystaljohnston9928]

My mom and dad divorced when I was 12 my sister was 6 or 7 at the time and my mom had my youngest sister just an infant at the time and it was very hard on my mom and for me as being the child I was good bc my mom and dad fought so much and he had alot if infidelity going on so once they separated I seen a change in my mom's happiness and it made me happy there was know more arguing and late nights of where is my dad let's go find him like all that was gone. Everyone's story is different I know but for all of us we finally found some peace within the home. I think it's good you did what was right for you and your family know matter what or how things unfolded for you two and now you both are co-parenting which is a good thing it's hard to do that for some. Anyways I just want to send hugs n love your way and I hope things get better for you all and blessings upon blessings in your home.

[@mhssn]

Sending you lots of love!! 💕 I’ve always loved to watch your videos and I will always love to watch them. You have a beautiful light that is shining more now.

[@daddsyprincess07]

Do you and Joe’s wife get along? As long as everyone gets along then Harper and castle will thrive in this new normal.

[@justamom863]

I just find it so typical of an LDS man to remarry so quickly. It seems like there is always a woman waiting in the wings when an LDS man divorces

[@RedeemedbyGraceforever]

Did he remarried already?

[@adrianadeleon6356]

Joe remarried already?

[@Weswife1998]

Crazy only 9 months and he is remarried.. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Stanislav21_Official]

He has a wife already?

[@babynursegreen3193]

Thank you for sharing this with us. Going through a divorce is so difficult, but the peace that you feel after going through something so difficult is amazing. You look beautiful and you are so strong. Thinking of you.💗

[@donnasheehan8252]

You are strong! Keeping the children FIRST is so important!! You both are AWESOME PARENTS!!!! Thank you for taking us along on your journey!! Miss you so much!!!! Hope to see more of you!!!

[@TheLoveystanton]

I'm sure this is not easy for you. I'll be waiting patiently. I'm just happy to see that you're doing what was needed for you and your family. You're a strong woman and look very pretty. I'm the same way, I keep things to myself. People want to hear and see the good in our lives. You are still a family. A beautiful, happy family.

[@Warkadang3]

I am so shocked but in other hand I can understand the most because I am also trying to give chances to my 15 years relationship but nothing works I am still madly in love with him but I can not help it. I just wish you a good and healthy life. And you look so amazingly beautiful with your weight lost

[@seasonalsecretsASMR]

Thank you for sharing. My first marriage was without children and ended in divorce. I try everything so I have no regrets. I hope for all the healing for you!

[@claudiavasquez-smith2914]

You got this, I'm so happy for your new chapter in your life. In the end your happiness comes first.

[@tanya32757]

Thank you for sharing yourself to us; no marriage is without struggles and no divorce is without pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family…💕

[@artabellahome]

I’ve been watching your channel for years and just wanted to say Im wishing you all the best and so much love! I always enjoy the little life snippets you share over on Instagram as well ❤️

[@ahhabyaBen]

I’ve watched your channel for years and to say I’m shocked is an understatement. But like you said we only see a snippet of your life. My parents divorced when I was young. I’m 46 and it still hurts. I think because I was 12. I think your children are so young they won’t remember. Things will get better for you. You said something I try to teach my own daughters when looking for a husband. If you see issues please don’t marry that person. It will save a whole lot of pain.

[@samandscott07]

❤❤ while this road has been bumpy you can definitely see the change in you. You look so much happier and sure of yourself. All the best ❤

[@donnashaw9373]

So very glad to see you back with us. I understand all too well what your going through. Stay strong and happy, just know that you always have your KZbin family who loves you and your family dearly.

[@tamdickerson1613]

Wishing you Strength and Peace and much happiness in this new chapter of your life. Divorce is never easy and it is always hard! Your doing it one day at a time! Remember to give yourself Grace. Many Blessings to you and the children as you navigate this new chapter. ❤

[@darettablack3794]

It’s so nice to see a video from you and hear how you’re doing and it’s good to know that you’re doing well. God bless you and your family and that you find peace and happiness in your journey ahead……..🌸😊🌸

[@meggadegs1978]

What a brave video. You are showing so much strength and growth. God Bless you. Looking forward to seeing more content over the months ahead. When one chapter ends, new possibly unwritten ones can start. The future will be bright.

[@milyd436]

No worries in taking your time. It will be a beautiful journey to see , you growing and thriving

[@mikky851]

I just really want to say thank you for sharing your experience and your journey so far with your separation. I myself am going through a very recent separation and it has been so helpful being able to listen to other people’s experiences and resonate with that x

[@michellebridges2604]

I have been in your shoes! You got this ❤️🙏

[@susan5301]

I'm so sorry you are going threw this....... You just have to do what is right for you! By the way your looking quite stunning!!

[@melodiethornock1406]

You are such a strong person. Love your family. Excited to watch your journey moving forward.

[@brandyoctober5923]

Girl i can’t wait to see how high you fly. I saw a comment that he’s married already? Oh hell no, you are going to shine without him.

[@lorihunter351]

Hang in there . You will get through this. You are strong. New journey begins. 💕🙏🏻

[@amay4203]

The path you're on will lead to so much fulfilment and joy

[@lauragreene5180]

Our stories and timeline are so similar. Praying for you to continue healing and thank you for sharing. You have helped me tremendously as I go through this process too.

[@DesMowadeng]

Maybe I'm the only one but I am not surprised things ended. I saw it. To me it showed more then you may think it did.

[@afeenzainab2263]

How?

[@yasminxo9955]

You are so strong sending you lots of love 💕 thank you for sharing your journey with us we support you!!! good for you for choosing happiness and peace instead of staying in a relationship that wasn’t working out.

[@newenglandcoast-b4p]

You are doing great!! It took you only 9 months to get where I am after several years!! God bless you as you continue your journey!💖

[@24AVR]

You are looking amazing.

[@stacifirman4097]

You look amazing! Keeping you in my prayers. Stay strong beautiful!

[@danadowdell6461]

Good to know, you're doing well. GOD BLESS. 🙏🏾

[@theandersonfamily8620]

You're looking so good!! You look so beautiful in your Instagram pictures 😍praying for you !

[@chaank1069]

Wishing you the best. And you look absolutely gorgeous ♥️ With time, the hurt will lessen, I promise.

[@gcat4399]

I feel so heartbroken for you BUT I also feel excited for you. A new beautiful life is beginning 🥰

[@mariacasella979]

Hi!!glad to see you!!💖Beautiful as always!!it's ok you need to go at your own pace,give yourself some grace

[@autumnpatterson2872]

So sorry for this new chapter but praying for the best! You are gorgeous!!

[@tammiecollins9791]

Praying for you and your family ❤ 🙏🏽 as you move forward.

[@mariasandera9151]

Supporting you and your journey. Here for it all ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@laineybugger]

What kind of new career are you starting. Good luck to you!

[@irenepapadimatosgeorgatou4876]

Thank you for sharing and things we’ll get better stay safe and be happy

[@Weswife1998]

Happiness over material items i the way of life!! Congratulations.. I wish you nothing but the best…

[@19mimi63]

I have been there myself. I just feel so bad for the kiddos. Best wishes.

[@hannahlane3094]

It seems like you had to sign an nda or something

[@Dizzylizzyscreations]

Loooking forward to seeing what your future holds!

[@angelaleavitt8386]

Thank you for sharing!! You are strong ❤️

[@janewhite1491]

Thank you for sharing this, I know it must have been hard. You look gorgeous by the way! Xoxoxo

[@mommabonilla5990]

Stay strong beautiful!!! Sending love and prayers 🙏

[@kathy9771]

You look beautiful! Sending you many prayers and blessing! Your friend Kathy from Montgomery NY

[@Deliahszepinzky]

Oh myyy this was a hurtfull and beautiful video...You are right you tried your best and a dream house is nothing i really wish you the best with coparenting and wish you the best happiness in the world

[@laurajones8742]

Sending lots of love. You are so strong x