BKCHAT LDN S2 - EPISODE 4 - What You Pay For Is What You Get So Pay For The Box

[@ismailmetedad]

Riva is so intelligent and well spoken, she puts things into perspective. Everything she says is clearly well thought of, a whole queen

[@keziafosu6765]

Cmon rivaaaa!!! She said “Sometimes in life it’s not about how you start, it’s about how you END.”

[@maddis2465]

I really liked how understanding the men were in this conversation. Respect.

[@user-dh8oe4gt7g]

Ppl on the cast look so different and its only been a couple years back Life changes so quick appreciate every minute

[@nextbillspencer]

It was accelerated by lockdown actually

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

No matter what these episodes will always be a classic...facts or definite truth?

[@adriennekromah6865]

Facts

[@hit7569]

i see you everywhere

[@cris3184]

“There is alot of that salt on that sentence” 🤣🤣🤣

[@yurinavti9152]

The old episodes will forever top the new ones

[@watchzainab5093]

Likeeeeeee

[@jk4675]

Ofc these are the episodes that blew them up

[@meganjoellee]

Riva and Sia were top tier man!

[@jamesanderson5445]

Riva is god given member like I could listen to her talk for time🤩

[@larjaynus2608]

Esther is always waffling

[@ancientmewtb]

This is one of the best bkchat discussions I've seen. A lot of valid, balanced arguments

[@mamouddaudasawaneh3069]

There is a lot of salt on that sentence 🤣

[@delightujuamara]

We need these guys backkkkk

[@Malibuunfiltered]

…man can be escorts too but no one wants to talk about that.

[@anyamamichelle2261]

Damitttt I love Rivaaaa!!! Tooo knowledgeable

[@YahyaYT_10]

I love the way Riva explains things, it’s simple yet so deep in understanding and the power of perspective. She’s really a great panelist I thoroughly enjoy. 🤍

[@iits_kayy]

She keeps quiet, let's everyone talk, and when she finally opens her mouth, you know this shi Gon be good

[@user-ec9rz7xh7e]

Azryah’s face in the beginning killed me. Esther sounds dumb she doesn’t look at things from a analytical and critical point of view

[@MISS_SHERRY]

Esther everyone is his uncle and aunt she has too many examples lol 😂

[@sanjah7425]

Where’s the new bkchat gone????

[@char6321]

Wow👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽This was a good topic of discussion. They all argued and explained their point well.

[@supervyk]

Feels like esters going through sum, somethings off

[@alonzoball6266]

This Riva girl is quite smart

[@yaboin6474]

So basically they’re talkin bout ‘Rent a girlfriend’ the show but IRL.

[@kaqing2148]

😂😂😂

[@olanipekunoyinkansola2176]

Rivaa.... Speaks Sense

[@SJ1993Q]

I’m confused why are the women always standing and men are sitting. Would be better to have a living room setting with comfortable seating for everyone.

[@C.O-EDITS]

They swap positions through the episodes uno

[@FA9082]

Lol u feminists you just creating sexism out of thin air 🤣

[@elz4356]

@@FA9082😣😣

[@sincityquinn]

Based on that girls logic, my own definition of being a billionaire is having 10 dollars in my pocket. So I’m rich.

[@karinal75]

Yo Esther sends me 😭

[@Sakkiuh]

Chioma is so beautiful

[@attangi]

PERCEPTION IS ERRTHING!!!!

[@greatscott865]

We all know what an escort is if it was just spending time with someone it would just be called friend for a day .

[@Miss.nono23]

Lucas looks like Psquare (personally- psquare)

[@YouITune]

Chioma is so beautiful it’s unreal 😋

[@mangena7570]

She stands out like a beacon

[@the_olamobisi]

This Esther girl constantly pisses me off with her ideas. Very classist and hypocritical

[@ajb215]

chioma spoke facts!

[@romethehybrid928]

Modern women all have a price tag...ALL OF THEM!!! love don't exist anymore!!!!

[@Alliebei]

Stop crying

[@romethehybrid928]

@@Alliebei Prostitute Flange lol

[@awhb5412]

Max, esther, Riva are talking sensible especially well done to Max, yes it is true if women say No & don't open their legs the will be honored , respected treated like queen financially, emotionally...etc

[@Lhoyte1]

Chioma is gorgeos

[@alexisrye1410]

They are sugar coating the meaning. If u go on a few sites escort clearly is a nicer word for prostitutes".....

[@OladipupoAdaraloye]

In life there is always going to be supply and demand for everything. It's all about buying and selling, If no one is buying no one can sell. So thinking about this way if your local supermarket close down for good, it's probably because they weren't selling. E.g your local supermarket (Tesco). If there wasn't Tesco in your locality you'd go probally go elsewhere for your needs and want regardless of what it is. It's simple logic in a way in my opinion. So sometime ethic, morals, belief and whatever else are somewhat left behind.

[@khalidturnbull8606]

They keep saying 2016-2017 this video really old but it works in this year

[@cris3184]

Its the £2.50 chicken and chips🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@wilmawilson9738]

why is everything these guys talk about always about sex ? No investment , start-up talks? LISA,Pension schemes? or i'm i getting old?

[@danijatani7711]

Just my thought: I believe it's an uncomfortable topic that people avoid discussing because it induces feelings of shame and embarrassment. Young people often struggle to understand it fully, and most are hesitant to ask their parents, friends, or anyone close to them. It's an awkward and sensitive subject to bring up. Many prefer to hear about it from a stranger, as this can help them feel less isolated/alone in the matter.

[@destocertii1405]

Where’s Nunu 😭🤣🤣🤣

[@mizz_debz]

Esther, you God forbade in the wrong direction 🤣🤣🤣

[@_conqueror_b]

This guy is saying if women just said no, there’d be no prostitution. No one starts a business that has no market or demand for it. So how bout if men stopped seeking out escorts and prostitutes, there wouldn’t be a market for women to enter into in the first place because there’s no money to be made. Stop putting everything on women and take some responsibility for once

[@SJ1993Q]

I couldn’t watch this show when I came across it due to all the Constant screaming/shouting and over talking each other, the discussion lots behind all noise. Much better now that people are respecting each other and allowing people’s opinions to be heard. Adults should be able to have a debate without screaming.

[@samuelfc549]

Reva point was beautiful

[@cooperx2917]

Hey all I can say is money talks... the agreement was 300£ for 2 hours.. wait till he pulls out 4000£ and ask for extra, 100% of women would melt and say YES

[@misspeacock-2506]

100% of women IN THAT LANE

[@mayzaraholanrewaju6024]

Esther is so Nigeriannnn

[@laradara7175]

True max didn’t lie !

[@Daniela-xj4fj]

Esther is extremely classist. She the definition of loud and wrong

[@malachiduncan6104]

Facts came out of her mouth? Like if you think about it, if that's her opinion how can that be wrong?

[@unimkeabana7703]

You definitely do escort men😩

[@Twin.tinyyy]

Factsss

[@PK-yh6lb]

Tbh, some of her points made sense.

[@racksuprunway1979]

bro so cultured hes wearing etnies

[@attangi]

What is wrong is wrong... u can accept to do it but u know deep down it's bad...u can accept it or accept it...cos it pays the bills and takes car of ur kids dont give it a free pass... u can condemn the hustle but not the person...

[@watchzainab5093]

I miss them so much😭😭😭🤍🤍🥰🥰🥰🔥🔥🌟🌟🌟💯💯💯

[@kerimaabu1359]

Strange, this question would never be discussed within the Jewish and many Asian communities who rely heavily on the chastity of their women for good fortune. Energy is contagious, and its not everyone energy a person should experience. Learn to live within your means Escorting is totally unacceptable on any level because any society that can not control their moral standards is doomed to fail. Why is the moral fabric of black people constantly being challenged within the media.

[@master-of-mind5881]

Prostitution has been around since ancient Egypt my friend, it’s nothing new. Clearly it is acceptable within society if it’s one of societies oldest professions. “The moral fabric of black people in the media” you mean the perception of black in the media.... yeah it’s a certain way but everything else is also a certain way too. Women are heavily gratified in the media. Weather their black, white Latina, etc. There’s a stereotype for every type of individual out there. Black people are obviously special otherwise there would not be this much heat on them but the media itself is one big illusion. It’s projecting an image of society but remember perception is not true reality. Mis-direction: what the eyes see and the ears hear the mind believes (T.V.) but it takes a more intuitive mind to read in between the lines and attain the truth behind the circus that is the media. Your views are incredibly dogmatic you need to see the bigger picture. Not everything is black and white. There is always a grey area. And remember just because you are Asian or Jewish does not mean you cannot become an escort. It’s simply a matter of choice. And I’ve been with a Jewish escort and an Asian one. Those two women from those particular cultures did not give a damn about their culture or religion. In fact the Asian one was married with kids and had religious beliefs but she still decided to work as an escort why? Because necessity. People do what’s necessary to them at any given moment. Morals, principles and values go out the window. Especially where money is concerned. Human beings are capable of extraordinary feats once they abandon dignity.

[@kerimaabu1359]

@@master-of-mind5881 Thank you for taking the time to write such an extensive response, however, at this point in time you are not yet able to understand the point I am making (I am not insulting you) as far as blacks are concerned. The points you have raised are of little value to blacks in 2021 and most certainly will not help in any resolutions they are faced with. The consequences of deviant behaviour is also well documented and its not pretty.

[@GirlyEnglishGamer]

@@kerimaabu1359 I think the issue is that deviant behaviour is glorified and magnified within the black community for other communities to see. When such behaviour occurs within other communities, it's shamed and frown upon. It's not talked about as much or seen as X,y,z ethnicity "culture". I think that's the difference.

[@Gchild2k6]

Can we all just clap for Riva...dropping the knowledge. Madam, I salute you, oh. Ps. Modern dating and marriage is prostitution, implicit or not. Whether you cloud it with love or any other excuses at the base of it, its just an exchange of wealth for your pleasure/sexual favours.

[@yusrxn]

Are you mad? When your married of course the men have to provide for you and your children. If you get married just for the pleasure and dip then your messed up honestly

[@Gchild2k6]

@@yusrxn the fact you think you deserve to be provided for and think its your children is concerning. Only a fool would wife you

[@yusrxn]

@@Gchild2k6 wow… in Islam that’s the bare minimum especially to provide for the children you decided to have, I’ll be praying for whoever marries your Ignorant ass

[@Gchild2k6]

@@yusrxn in Islam, the children belong to the man not you/ yours the woman. Before you can merit marriage you have to be submissive and offer a lot more feminine features that you dont demonstrate including not arguing or talking back to a man..lol

[@yusrxn]

@@Gchild2k6 you’re telling me the child I’ve been carrying for 9 months, 270 days, 6,480 hrs.. don’t belong to me? Please you sound awfully stupid. The fact that you believe these things are actually concerning … not talking back to a man is considered a “feminine feature?” How insecure are you to invent such things ? Did someone hurt your manhood or ??? Just say you can’t handle strong women and wanna prey on the weakest ones who can be easily controlled and manipulated. Because Sorry to say babes this will never work on this generation of empowered females.

[@alphalijahsworld9010]

When they went into Dangerous hustles i thought---- Alaye wire the BOA... lol

[@jynx1992]

The way the KEEP uploading these old episodes 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@princessingrid6209]

Esther looks good

[@ezradlionel711]

Karma? Did you learn that in Business school? Morals are bullshit. It's kinda cute they're like, "as long as they don't sleep with them". Just straight up salt.

[@mokamara98]

omar looks like ice cube

[@bawseeeee602]

Esther needs to close her mouth and open her ears.

[@kuziva2100]

Wyclef Jean sang about this

[@auds7872]

Lani Good not in this ep or Gudeh some ppl can give other perspectives those two would make the ep funny as usual.

[@theOdogwu1]

What's the difference between Fillet mignon and Steak??

[@rahelye6925]

37:46 -37:54 max face😂😂😂😂😂

[@AR-ml9pe]

Neither do MUA pay tax lol

[@misspeacock-2506]

Any man who believes escorts or sugar babies dont have sex with their johns or marks is utterly ludicrous and naive

[@whyask8155]

Sia❣

[@justinbecks9226]

Yes lucas

[@troytesoro7491]

Just cause steak 🥩 and potatoes 🥔 not touching each other doesn’t mean they ain’t on the same plate. Escorting and prostitution is in the same wheel house. To play like they’re different is ignorant. I will agree that men and women play by different rules, well it’s different people. A white man asking for a 10k loan is different from a black man asking for the same thing to a bank. My take away from this is that your actions have consequences, opportunity cost. Escorting is fast money, but that consequence is the toll it takes on your body and for many their mental state. The opportunity cost, having a successful relationship/marriage with out the man or woman second guessing laying down with you. We’re done now.

[@Toni-qh6bt]

Imagine the men encouraging women to sell their bodies. The guys on this panel are finished - i hope it's their sisters, girlfriends and daughters doing it. Imagine this is the black man of today. The man even said he would take money off his daughter who is a prozzie, if he needs to pay the rent LOOOOOOOOOL WOW! Big up Esther!

[@keys.production5465]

icl chioma looking kinda leng

[@mosetaaj8206]

Esther was speaking bare facts in these old episodes. Don't know what happened now😂

[@shelteromata8765]

Esther 😭😭😭

[@Amalachuu]

Esther is such a pick me ew

[@justinbecks9226]

Esther thinks she’s too important talks way too much! Makes no sense I can’t watch the rest her attitude, shouting is too much

[@Kkayy020]

Aint this like 2 years old or sum

[@Gchild2k6]

The fact you are in a situation without any qualifications etc is your fault. Also, when these escort get to a stage when they want to get married, how many guys would want to wife an escort and trust that she never crossed the line? Save your body and any sexual related time for your man and work in alternative ways to make your money. No guy just pays for your time only, max is correct.

[@talkswithsinead6130]

Omar😌

[@Dddherdjo]

UK people are good people, but the accent is too corny, but big up from America

[@SuperSouthchick]

🤣🤣🤣

[@elz4356]

“Yall”

[@tyronelorenzovalentio3414]

Ur American mate🤣🤣

[@AmiiraKayy]

Poooliiiiece

[@justinbecks9226]

Nah fire Esther squeeky voice no sense and she has the audacity to shout

[@mzaidi256]

Is it just me or chioma and arzyah look similar

[@muniram.5344]

Ester a HATER !!!!

[@petrusedwardjr.2598]

Shoutout Esther, its a shame most of the room got onto her when she's right

[@jahanghir528]

annoys me so much how these London good man can't pronounce basic words correctly.

[@Sheriff_tips]

Why do they sound very angry? It's her opinion though

[@Gchild2k6]

Men and women are not the same. How can people not understand this?? A woman is born with value and it diminishes over time with use. A man has to work hard and create his value. There are female in piss poor countries who might have a valid argument for escorting but still show dignity and don't do it and use legitimate means to do it.

[@Jojo-pv3uf]

People’s value doesn’t diminish over time socially. That can’t be proven in any society. For an example: If you harm someone, whether she’s 18 or 68, the punishment will be the same. There’s no lesser sentence for example: for raping a young woman, or a virgin than an older woman, or a separate sentence for assault or murder. So that premise doesn’t exist anywhere outside the “dating market.” And the dating market doesn’t determine the value of people overall in society.

[@Gchild2k6]

@@Jojo-pv3uf incorrect. Women need to understand that their value diminishes with time and use. A woman is not more value in her 40 older, less fit, unable to give children, higher body count, more emotional baggage etc than in their 20s. How many old females are bagging young guys in 20s for marriage?. Men's value increase with time, age/wisdom etc. Fellas need to stop conflating men and women, we are different and females need to understand a man will not look at you and value you the same way women value men.

[@Jojo-pv3uf]

@@Gchild2k6 valuable in what aspect? Like I said, unless you’re talking about in the “dating” arena, that doesn’t exist. In fact, older women have more valuable positions in society, same to men. Tell me the last time people elected a young man or woman in leadership? The overwhelming amount of women who are heads of state, heads of organizations, leaders are much older- older than 40 same with men. Like I said “value” is abstract. It’s context dependent.

[@Gchild2k6]

@@Jojo-pv3uf again stop arguing for the sake of arguing and read what I wrote in both message as regarding to intrinsic value for dating and marriage. Women can either ignore the feminist foolade and appreciate they are different to/not the same as men hence their value/what they offer is different and assessed differently based on what relationship and men need or stay stubborn, decrease in value offering shizz men dont want or need and buy a dog and be alone. HOWEVER YOU MEASURE IT, outside of the workforce, women value decrease and men's increase with time. Good bye

[@Jojo-pv3uf]

@@Gchild2k6 your arguing for the sake of argument. I made my stance quite clear. Human value doesn’t diminish over time. Now if you’re talking about in the dating market, then yes. It does. The same way it will also diminish over time in the Academic market- which values young minds. In the leadership market- age actually benefits both men and women. Which is why I said, life is not all dating. You speak like a young person who hasn’t experienced life, and only listens to the manosphere. Open up your mind or a book.

[@KarenJackson-g5t]

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[@161x10]

Sex work is real work. Prostitution is providing a legitimate service for a fair price. Gold digging is a completely different thing.

[@afrophoenixpics]

Why they muted the pastor max like that? We’ll never know… where that respect that he deserves