Bra Tbose is such a good listener he is an example grootman
@vutivingobeni41585 ай бұрын
Grootman indeed
@boipelomogudi686111 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏 If our television screens would be full of this, those days of congregating in front of TV's would come back with a bang
@rootedtribe76053 ай бұрын
imagine sitting as men watching this full episode..we would advice each other truthfully
@LesediShai-q5h11 ай бұрын
When MaBleh speaks we listen, so well thought through and articulate! Love his views
@Makumz_11 ай бұрын
Listen ! I love uMaBlerh ❤he is a smart man
@zeezor10 ай бұрын
Ay iyabeka lensizwa...
@Jazzaddict2511 ай бұрын
I think Felix and Skhotheni were brought there to just stir...there's no way they believe what they're saying🤣🤣🤣🤣
@PapLondo11 ай бұрын
😀 Skhotheni actually believes in it, u should watch her episode on podcast n chill.. she mentions it, the part ye love potion
@siyabonganhlakaniphomatheb103911 ай бұрын
Haibo haibo haibo
@nomondeperfect5111 ай бұрын
True…Gogo skhotheni said the whole having 2husbands is a lie
@xolanimchunu86648 ай бұрын
But Felix is spot on, on all his replies 👍🏾👌🏾
@siphelelemjwara7 ай бұрын
Felix brought humour but also fact's
@nthokozontini169311 ай бұрын
Bra Tbose’s last comment is very powerful that’s a well groomed man 🙏🏾
@nosindisomyeni11 ай бұрын
This was short we needed more than 23 minutes. A lot of digression from the topic which could be episodes on their own. But great and much needed conversations.
@sibusisodube422111 ай бұрын
U Gogo Skhotheni ushilo. As long as women still demand ama range rover and abo 20k allowance, black love will be transactional
@IngoziDanger11 ай бұрын
😂Felix is funny even when he's serious, eish
@JustSaying0210 ай бұрын
I once had a fling with a wonderful Zulu guy in Midrand, and when I met his uncle, things took an unexpected turn. Upon hearing us speak in English, his uncle asked if I would survive "emakhaya" (in the rural areas), and my guy assured him I would because I enjoyed cleaning and cooking-cue the laughter. The truth was, I spoke English due to a language barrier, being Tswana. After watching a video recently, I was taken aback by how some Zulu men still expect women to give up their careers, submit to their husbands, and rely solely on them as providers. It's 2023, and times have indeed changed. I firmly believe that a woman working doesn't diminish her husband's role as the head of the household. Black love has evolved, and the dynamics within relationships now embrace equality and shared responsibilities. It's about supporting each other's ambitions and aspirations while navigating life together. The notion that a woman should solely focus on homemaking is becoming outdated, as couples today recognise the value of each partner's individual growth and fulfilment.
@jeanpierremzulwini566310 ай бұрын
Nokuthi practically, most black men don't earn enough to meet the demands of city living As second income goes a long way
@thabisokevinmbili915810 ай бұрын
In my experience, the pairing of a Tswana and Zulu couples have the most beautiful of unions I have seen to date.
@leigh432610 ай бұрын
@@thabisokevinmbili9158true this!!!❤
@damarismaloba486011 ай бұрын
Felix is sharing a whole lot of sense via power dynamics in a home. In other aspects, the podcast is rushed and subjects aren't thoroughly covered, if they could fix on that.
@NqobileSolani10 ай бұрын
I am so taken by Felix Hlope's mind bethung GET ME A DATE😂😂😂 with him we neeeeeeed to end this conversation 😂😂
@mary-goldmorajane11 ай бұрын
How does a woman respect and submit to a man who doesn't respect her? Bra Tbose's closing statement is so powerful. I love bab' Hlophe's voice, it just commands attention man. Absolutely enjoyed this episode, please keep them coming.
@bzigomotoring11 ай бұрын
What comes out of his mouth is so backwards. Lol
@mampoikope10 ай бұрын
Backwards or not personally I luv a man who takes care of me but at the same time he shouldn't be afraid to kiss me in public...an affectionate man 😅
@thembimagwaza169311 ай бұрын
A part 2 is needed. We need to unpack this more.
@Lerato78611 ай бұрын
Please never stop posting ❤ I enjoyed this episode, thank you.
@cphysomavuso638610 ай бұрын
Bra Thibos even during Skhumba n Bob, his topics were interesting and lastly Bra Thibos last words POWER💪💪
@samanthandlovu190211 ай бұрын
Mableh spitting facts!!!!!!!!!
@NqubekoKhoza11 ай бұрын
No nation needs softer, gentle men. You might think we are not at war but every nation is always seconds away from war.
@xoliemashaba689011 ай бұрын
that's why men kill woman because they are not gentle and softer on their families. they want to be powerful even on wrong places and end up misusing their physical and emotional strength!
@Live_More_Love_More11 ай бұрын
I don’t know about everyone but as a woman I feel like a man appears weaker when they act tough in some situations. Like cry bro, you’ll get back up after that. Be secure with the fact that you’re a man and you’re great leader otherwise but mostly of all human. There’s no war, what are you doing as a contribution to the potential nation war?
@koketsomk563511 ай бұрын
@@Live_More_Love_More yes you're right some men are strong and tough but inside they are weak.they are rude, arrogant and abusive, thus the problem women have to deal with... weak men trying to act tough
@yanelamtati813111 ай бұрын
We need gentler men… the men need it too, for their mental health
@DJ_SIISH11 ай бұрын
I agree we don’t need softer gentler men, because that breeds weak men, we need competent men who are strong and a capable of violence when necessary because we can’t sit in bubbles and act like the world is sunshine and roses there are some dark people and things out there and as a man the minute you are not strong and capable to endure in various ways you have a weak home and a weak marriage, but I’m 20 I’m just speaking off things I see and experience
@kgopotjomojanaga11 ай бұрын
Softer, gentler men...i agree we need them
@mamolewamodiba915911 ай бұрын
What a wonderful conversation. For me Black love has respect, protection and care for feelings in it. A man who respect a woman will automatically get "submission"from a woman. Ephicians 5 man will get a proverbs 31 woman. Money is essential to acccentuate that love♥♥♥
@miss_phudding211811 ай бұрын
The problems is when people want relationship based on feelings and not logic. Logic being what we both want to build from our relationship and not how we feel at the moment.
@Sylvesdo-2511 ай бұрын
I agree with you but the fight between feelings and logic is not always easy to win, it requires a lot of discipline and self awareness
@wendyledwaba501811 ай бұрын
@@Sylvesdo-25i agree. If we say relationships should be based on logic then for what or when should feelings apply? We are human with feelings so where do we apply those feelings if not with relationships. I was in a session with our CEO lately. Very successful gent who has a company that operates in 59 countries. We were interviewing for an area manager and his last question to us as the panel was "what does your gut feeling tell you about that candidate"
@residentalien31010 ай бұрын
Zulus and Shona men are EXACTLY the same! Very interesting. I agree with the Zulu man
@xolanimchunu86648 ай бұрын
😂😂😂👍🏾
@zamamfeka131711 ай бұрын
We don't need soft man please guys indoda ayibe indoda
@miss_phudding211811 ай бұрын
This conversation is based on personal perceptions than actual facts. I think they should all start their statements with "I think, I see,I believe" because things they are saying are just raising my eyebrows because 👀.
@nosiphokhanyi432311 ай бұрын
Soool funny, Ma bleh took me out with the sishimane era🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jeffreynkomo687211 ай бұрын
I love the way they all banter you can tell they are professional broadcasters
@Mrladeep11 ай бұрын
Where is the 1st episode...love this content
@zamamfeka131711 ай бұрын
I wish Felix could talk more or explain a lil more I 100% agree with him
@sizwezulu360410 ай бұрын
Felix too comical’ ngeziyoyo’’ zabafana””😂 but shout out bra T- Bose very modest and thoughtful he was not given a chance. Very interesting topic and I’m proud of South Africans not shying away from our serious issues.
@thapiem946111 ай бұрын
A much needed topic. This needs to be unpacked further. Enjoyed the episode ❤❤
@leratotoona765811 ай бұрын
Felixxxx.....😍🤩The nation needs to hear that!!!
@yuno786311 ай бұрын
PART B on this one please this panel was the one 👌🏾
@MbalenhleQwabe11 ай бұрын
This conversation needed to be longer🤞🏼, i like Felix's mindset. That guy who says our elders used to have same sex love has had his mindset altered by the woke agenda.
@vuyelwajeanettdikane37211 ай бұрын
I actually agree with the guy Mableh, even in the Bible before the Flood same sex has been happening 🤷♀️🤷♀️
@MbalenhleQwabe11 ай бұрын
@@vuyelwajeanettdikane372 I hear you, but I disagree with making it seem as if it was a norm that used to happen back then, that defined "black love" for black people back then
@vuyelwajeanettdikane37211 ай бұрын
@@MbalenhleQwabe it definitely wasn't a norm. Many died with that secret but it was happening this days it's forced down our throats that we have to accept it as normal out "in public"," binaries " & all... A lot is going on
@thabisokevinmbili915810 ай бұрын
It's Taboo!!! if you study history deep enough before Rome & Greece. it's these taboos that led these civilizations to ruin.
@ggsutelzi423611 ай бұрын
Ooh i love how they all give each other a chance to talk and listen. . Newbeie here but i love it
@SizweMajola11 ай бұрын
Its edited in such an funny way . . . conversations are all over!
@soulistdeblac11 ай бұрын
All I can say is the more we gain knowledge on modern culture and systematic beliefs, the more we rinse ourselves off our culture. Ekugcineni, information about your people and ancient practice seems foreign to you, Qaphelani bantu ba Mdali. Knowledge is power, used wrong it become weakness.
@Sarah.kgoale11 ай бұрын
Black love is purely love, however it will always be coupled with money/ financial issues because as a community, especially in Africa we are operating from scarcity, whereas our white counterparts are operating from generational wealth.
@Maweh_Mysteries11 ай бұрын
"black love is love, and love is complicated" 😭😭😍😍
@phumimabanga96210 ай бұрын
Love is not complicated, people are
@OratileResego11 ай бұрын
Great conversation! Food for thought indeed.
@sifisomagagula547611 ай бұрын
I’m surprised ngesiZulu sika T-bose and his wife. This was a much better session than the others I’ve seen. Participants listened to each other, everyone could bring their point across and be heard. Good to see
@Coachjoycem11 ай бұрын
They are seasoned broadcasters ey, they inspire me with how well they speak and understand other languages other than their own.
@princessndlovu486911 ай бұрын
Felix I absolutely adore you
@mbalenhlendaba49711 ай бұрын
Indoda uFelix, siyema lapho.
@meikilehlehla163211 ай бұрын
I’ve been looking for this episode thank you 😊
@NqobileMtshali-em1fi11 ай бұрын
Thank you Castle Milk Stout!🖤
@Amanda-dg6uf11 ай бұрын
I really found this episode interesting and everyone’s views
@siyamvuyelamhlana11 ай бұрын
eish this MaBll=eh guy came hard kula point yezi shumane🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@robibabe11 ай бұрын
We need more!!!😢😢 I loved this
@sammysiphoBoo11 ай бұрын
Yoh Felix!! I've never laughed so much 😂.. I loved uncle T's closing comment. Ushaye eskhonkosini.
@vinoliahtumie5711 ай бұрын
I thought Gogo said she only has one husband and never cheated on her husband. Aowa hle o mpha di trust issue
@linahmofokeng315511 ай бұрын
I thought so too..... this one is confusing us 🤞🤣🤣
@MsBeautySpots11 ай бұрын
I literally rewinded ka 10seconds to make sure if I heard her correctly 🤔 Kanti, what in the confusion is this?🙆♀️
@Skhonza11 ай бұрын
I came to type this... waze wakhuluma izinto zaningi uGal. AkaPicke 1, unaye uNumber 2 or not? Uzothi it was for content 😂😂😂
@amandamahlangu637411 ай бұрын
Didn't she mentioned on the Mac's podcast that the 2 husband's thingy was scripted and all acting?😂😂 Aii logogo
@juliamasilela557911 ай бұрын
Struggling to take Gogo skhotheni sirious after watching the podcast eish nevertheless great conversations
@lulelwanxayeka508011 ай бұрын
Yes totally agree didn't she say the second husband things was jus for the reality show?
@sinethembacindi508011 ай бұрын
That's where I got confused ay
@oneyy616511 ай бұрын
All these public figures are playing characters nje
@alilalimasiagwala837411 ай бұрын
😂😂😂Me too
@Lungi-sw9lg11 ай бұрын
She lies a lot
@yanelamtati813111 ай бұрын
This episode had me on the edge of my seat 💺
@nokuthulasindilen327411 ай бұрын
I am Felix n Felix is me..I totally agree with him
@phillipmoagi88311 ай бұрын
Put material things aside and look for genuine companionship. Then both people can motive each other to persue careers n financial freedom n build a healthy family. There will always be women with bigger bums than urz and there will always be men with bigger pockets than ur man. Respect each other as partners, pray together n the love will always be fired up🔥
@palesamtau539211 ай бұрын
My favorite couple Mapaseka and Thabo always make sense to me..
@Nelwhatyousay11 ай бұрын
One minute Skhotheni has one husband next it’s two… she’s so confused
@baya4711 ай бұрын
Part 2 please!
@nandiphanandiiey336011 ай бұрын
😭😩yabona mangaphika noGogo Skhotheni just after watching her episode with Macg then this 'a wife to two husbands' or this is still for Mojalove content Ngaze ngazixaka ngendaba zabantu ke nam😩
@Pablo-we6yr11 ай бұрын
@CastleMilkStout thank you so much for this. You just gained yourself a new subscriber ❤
@Allthingsfoodwith_ntsiki11 ай бұрын
Now skhotheni is a wife to 2 husbands aii, but on macg she said it's false
@softcore571811 ай бұрын
Skotheni is lost!
@tshidimohlala76211 ай бұрын
I watched MacG show she explained it was for the show on Moja love, but here shes mentioning the 2nd husband. I think we need to get clarity from her on her "venting podcast". I still love her though but I find it difficult to understand her here as well.
@thembisamakhoba160611 ай бұрын
Mablair, Mapeseka, Tbos 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@TheMadsonblfanatic9 ай бұрын
These conversations should be had until we are tired and start looking for middle grounds because wow we don't talk guys.... Please more episodes on black love.
@wyswys660711 ай бұрын
I love this episode. Very informative 😊
@Youropinionsdontmatter11 ай бұрын
I abolutely love the last point that man made ❤
@nobuhleb210211 ай бұрын
Yes Felix woman were meant to take care of the house ngale nje kwemali kodwa sinezinto eziningi esizenzayo indoda ayiphume iyosebenza mina ngisebenze ama business asekhaya ngilime and love my man kuze ngibe active nase bedroom ngizokujabulisa kanjani ngikhathele nes stress sasemsebenzini
@ntombiyodwadaile945011 ай бұрын
But Skhotheni is giving mixed signals with regards to having two husbands. She denied it mos and said MojaLove pushed the narative and that it was for clout. What is what vele?😮😮😮
@vuyelwaradebe931211 ай бұрын
yaz nami im so confused...she was on Mac G said it was for the show ....not real
@Tshegomlp11 ай бұрын
I believe this was shot before her interview on Podcast & Chill.
@glamforte694411 ай бұрын
Ngathi uphila amanga ai
@sithembilepearlhoza809111 ай бұрын
Ungayi ngoTumi.Shes true to "herself"
@mojalefamofokeng144811 ай бұрын
I'm so confused
@optical.797311 ай бұрын
I wish it took an hour, please consider that, I enjoyed the conversations.
@mapulakhakhathiba1749 ай бұрын
"We need softer and gentler men" I thank you ❤
@thandimthethwa177211 ай бұрын
Thabo's closing statement 👏🏾
@leratomorune410510 ай бұрын
It was the best💪💪💪
@InaSekelLifestyle11 ай бұрын
Felix uyahlekisa yaz.😅
@robibabe11 ай бұрын
Wow, this sure is interesting hey. It just takes me back to a relationship I had a year ago, where the guy had mentioned that he grew up in a polygamous family, but his not a polygamist yet, haai shem, that was a red flag and I was glad he mentioned that because I didnt see myself part and parcel of that situation.
@phumimabanga96210 ай бұрын
I have just left a guy I dated for 5 months because he just revealed to me that he wants me in a polygamous marriage. If that was communicated early on, we would not have wasted each other's time.
@tommchunu234511 ай бұрын
What an interesting episode😆
@busisiwemore913511 ай бұрын
Felix "👓"😅 Generation Z😂,Mapaseka wasn't getting enough chance i❤her
@moongaba436011 ай бұрын
He is spot on uHlophe on the different paint analogy
@ibhudacreations764111 ай бұрын
Post all the past episodes admin please.
@lutha172011 ай бұрын
Imagine believing your grandparents were in same sex relationships 😂, this generation is just caught up in the crazy western identity. We need to take a step back and regain our africaness.
@luuuuuu770411 ай бұрын
they were in same sex relationships but behind closed door because it was a taboo. western culture only gave them the option to come out with it but it never made them gay
@miss_phudding211811 ай бұрын
They were in same sex relationships long before colonization. This man and woman relationship was created by colonizers just like monogamy. Look at how animals operate.
@amucupcakes409411 ай бұрын
There’s a lot of history about homosexuality in Africa, paintings too.. especially in central Africa.. it’s not a ‘western’ thing
@leratomoletsane11 ай бұрын
I enjoyed watching this pod cast i believe that in black love we've lost what was being done by our parents if the generation of today could do thing that we done madolo I promise we'll love ngokwe qiniso .
@anastaciamenyatsoe877311 ай бұрын
Thank you people🙌🙌🙌 what an interesting and mind opening episode🥰🥰🥰
@zeezor10 ай бұрын
12:04 there is no relationship that is not transactional, you can never be with a person you aren't getting anything from.
@siyabonga_Ominathi11 ай бұрын
Uyindoda Mfoka Hlophe
@zukhanyefunani497311 ай бұрын
😂😂uTumi said she lied about having 2 husbands yet she’s maintaining lento Lana. Hay cha bakithi.
@mbalikambule605311 ай бұрын
Maybe it was recorded a long time ago before macg podcast
@monicajames611410 ай бұрын
I think this is old. She definitely pushed it, she knew it was going to get her clout.
@bzigomotoring11 ай бұрын
Love is not organic anymore❤ we need potions to strengthen what is naturally bound by what is real and true nothing can separate it. Its insecurities at play here.
@leratotoona765811 ай бұрын
No, I have to disagree with you, this nation does not need a softer gentler man, What for? You just need to look around carefully to realize we are at war. We need man who will affirm and guide...
@benitermkhabela828511 ай бұрын
I think we need softer men because many men where raised to be strong. Being told men don't cry. Which has lead to men being angry and not being able to express themselves. Leading to men some men expressing themselves in toxic and violent manner. That's why we have such high rate of GBV.
@LWANDISODLOKWENI11 ай бұрын
Felix was spot on ndesithembu.
@everythingmore340111 ай бұрын
This was too short💔💔💔…. Part 2 please
@Nonplayablecharacter911 ай бұрын
Likening love potions to vitamins is like, I have a headache but you take the panado for me.
@princesszweni76537 ай бұрын
Love it. Thanks Stawoti... thank u talent
@thobiledlamini364811 ай бұрын
Felix "Bayoze bayigibele mhla sebelele nge Ceboletho" hahahahahaha
@siyethembanosipho260711 ай бұрын
Indoda yami ngcele ibe njengoFilix bandla😅
@thembelihlekofi398911 ай бұрын
Iziyoyoyo they are dancing ipiano, while man of other nations are in boardrooms
@SiyabongaMoladlamba11 ай бұрын
Gogo Skotheni is in the confessionals arguing points that were never made lol, either that or the editors did her dirty
@uBhuti11 ай бұрын
HLOPHE MFOWAKITHI 🙌🏾🔥🔥
@mampoikope10 ай бұрын
I wish this conversation could have been longer it's so interesting am also partaking in a way 😅❤
@musicfanworldwide814211 ай бұрын
Felix Hlophe i salute you
@madammomy11 ай бұрын
It’s starting to be transactional
@Kg_52511 ай бұрын
Is korobela ever good, I was today years old that I found out that using love portion is good for marriage. Maybe this women who have cheating husbands should use it😂😂😂
@garby994111 ай бұрын
I love this content
@nobuhlemkhabela642011 ай бұрын
Gogo Skhotheni looking so beautiful 😍
@MaletsatsiMaqapalla11 ай бұрын
A podcast name 🤲🏾where I can follow from podbean
@MentalFacility-u7o11 ай бұрын
Mara guys korobela how when polygamy was or is a thing? Isn't that a contradiction. Ae! these conversations are to be taken with a grin of salt bagaetsho. Mare Thabo ke grootman 💙🤝🏽😍
@happynessmbatha509710 ай бұрын
Idliso signifies insecurity . It's also unfair to the victim bcz idliso is altering free will and mental state. I understood the history behind it , kodwa manje things have changed. Is it relevant lona in this day and age , ngisho lona idliso. In the days of anxiety, depression , bipolar , personality disorder and other mental health issues.