~🤔Assumptions Tag - My Responses 🤔~

[@MakeupMaryann]

I hate to open the wound again- but I also went into an extremely deep depression when I lost my Pug, Princess, in 2014. It was just awful. I love my furbabies. I do want children, but I am a total animal person. I love all animals! You’re such a sweet and genuine person- again, so glad you’re back!

[@BlackLabLover9]

MakeupMaryann awww thank you so much! I share in your grief. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever dealt with. My condolences on the loss of your precious Princess. She’s watching over you know. 🙏🏼❤️

[@cybersylv]

I never worry about anything because I have faith in the fact that it all happens the way it's meant to. Even taking a wrong turn on the way to somewhere is a "meant to". I say "thank you Lord" because I figure the wrong turn took me away from an accident or a traffic jam or whatever. I really feel like it's all in His hands and I'm well cared for so why worry.

[@NellySchuh]

Again again again....So glad your back! I cannot wait for your next video! Xoxo

[@BlackLabLover9]

NellySchuh aww thanks so much!

[@RCsMom4]

I’m an animal person, too. It’s just how I’m wired. My daughter and I don’t even eat them. I’ll help any person who needs me, but I’ll tell ya....no animal has ever lied to me, hurt my feelings, or tried to make me feel not good enough. And how you were there with Petie at the end is what we do, too. I read an article a few months back written by a veterinarian where he discussed how awful it is when people leave their pets at the vet’s office to be euthanized. He said the animal looks for his family and often becomes stressed being left there alone. Their last moments are filled with fear. I couldn’t imagine not being there, no matter how painful. Anyways......it’s so nice to know there are people out there who are kinda like me.

[@BlackLabLover9]

RCsMom4 awwww this comment made me cry. I couldn’t even imagine not being there for my Petee. I would have sold my soul to save him but in the end I took his pain onto myself and let him go in peace. What a gift to be able to have been there with him. I never once left his side. I never once went on a vacation without him (minus our honeymoon- my parents watched him as a pup back then) and I wouldn’t change a thing!

[@southernchic15]

Oh Jen..I love when you talked about what your dad always says . That is so, so true ! As someone who suffers from anxiety , I totally get it . My husband always says that I shouldn’t worry about things that haven’t happened yet . It’s such a work in progress, but I’m trying . Even though I’ve watched your videos for many , many years, it’s great to learn more about you! I lost my sweet Maltese last summer and it devastated me . I had her for 8 years and the loss of her made me go into a depression. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of her .

[@BlackLabLover9]

southernchic awww I share in your grief. I’m so very sorry for your loss - she is surely watching over you now. I know how hard it is. I take it Day by day. ((Hugs))

[@tjackson611]

Awww this was awesome we loved it and we love you!your just the sweetest most down to earth person ever!

[@BlackLabLover9]

fraze1 omg you are so sweet!!! Thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed!

[@robinscaramella6091]

I definitely gravitate to dogs more than children myself! My late husband and I never had children but we had 3 dogs and now I have a 4th by myself. I love love love dogs! I don’t think I will ever be without one. Again, I’m so glad your back!

[@BlackLabLover9]

Robin Scaramella awww that is so awesome! What kind of dogs do you have?

[@robinscaramella6091]

Our first pup was a Heinz 57! She was a black lab/shepherd mix and lived for 16 years! Then we got a yellow lab named Lucy. She was one fantastic girl. She loved swimming in our pool and playing with her ball. We rescued a Golden Retriever at a year old named Maggie. She was so kind and gentle. I had to put her down October 2018. And now I have a little Havanese girl named Molly. She’s a little spit fire but I love her a bunch! I’m seriously thinking of getting another lab or Golden this summer so Molly can have a playmate.

[@BlackLabLover9]

Awwwww what a fantastic bunch you’ve had! They all sound so very special!! I tell ya - dogs rule! They just do! Give your pup a kiss from me!!!

[@lavendershampoo]

OMG! I would have swore you were Italian! I am sooo happy you’re back! I can’t wait to see the shore home!

[@BlackLabLover9]

lavendershampoo haha when I had my natural dark hair I really looked Italian! Would be nice if I was!

[@brownroxyfoxy]

I have anxiety to Jen...I totally understand! Sending you good vibes and prayers

[@vintagekastle7145]

Awesome video! I loved hearing all your answers, it's a lot of fun learning about you. My fur babies say "Hi" to your lovely boys!!!!

[@BlackLabLover9]

Vintage Kastle awww my boys are sending slobbery kisses!!

[@TheSmookumz]

Loved this video. Nice to get to know you a little better. I thought you were in your 30's as well. You are so down to earth and would love to be your friend. Blessings Raindown!!

[@BlackLabLover9]

TheSmookumz awww what a lovely comment! Thank you so very much! Means a lot!!

[@ahubbard7]

Don’t ever feel bad about not having kids... girl, you do you and what makes you happy 😀😀😀

[@BlackLabLover9]

Aballer03 thank you so much!

[@TheRealBeautyJunkie2]

I’m so glad your back on here. I relate to you so much. I’m older than you and I have no children and I’m also an animal lover. I agree with the losing an animal one of my babie passed a couple years ago, and I still miss her so much. And a pet is a family member not just a pet. They aren’t replaceable. Anyway live youvideos!

[@BlackLabLover9]

Lyfstylover40 amen! I completely agree. I’m so very sorry for your loss! ❤️

[@ryzardt]

Brilliant video Jen! I never like to assume, some of my questions were answered! I bet Simon when I was 21 too. Your definitely my sister from another Mother. Give those boys a big hug and kiss from me! Love Rich xoxo

[@BlackLabLover9]

ryzardt we are twins for sure Rich!! 😁

[@kelly810403]

I became a mom at 37 years but love my animals all to bits. And also I go first to dogs then to children ❤️ but that said I love my son to bits. I was pregnant when I lost my luka of 12,5 years. My frenchie was my world. I also got in a depression and still miss her. I cry also time to time. It has been a year 6th august. ❤️❤️. I also have my other frenchie divah, who is going to be 8 years. My son of 10 moths and divah cant be without eachother!

[@KellyS74]

Ahh that was the best video, thank you, I definitely feel I know you a little better 👏🏻 🤗... And thank you for answering my assumption 🤗... Loved hearing your Dad's take on worrying.. Its so so true 🤗... My heart was breaking when you spoke about Petey... I know how it feels, I grew up with a Lab, she lived until she was 17! And even though we were expecting her to pass away towards the end, it broke our hearts so so very much, but we feel so blessed to have had her in our lives 💕 and now I have a 12 year old Lab as an adult (44 🤪😂) and she is like another child to me, my life feels so complete with a dog 🤗... Thank you again Jen, so very happy to see you back on here 👏🏻.. Oh n v sorry for looooong message lol xx

[@BlackLabLover9]

Kelly24 thank you so very much for your sweet message! Omg 17!!! That is incredible!!!! My boys are my world - I would sell my soul for them. They bring me so much joy and happiness. Please give your sweet girl a kiss from me!!! ❤️😘

[@KellyS74]

@@BlackLabLover9 ahh thank you Jen 🤗 I know, I would too, Honey means so much to our family 💕 she's quite a sickly doggy too, so we're clinging on to her for as long as possible 🤗... Sending big squishes to your lovely woofies too 🤗 xx

[@mysonruns]

This was so fun! love learning more about you! Really hope to see a video about how you met your husband. PS: I can't believe youre 41! You don't look older than 25. No lie!

[@BlackLabLover9]

mysonruns omg! You made my night! Thank you so much!!

[@melodie973]

Thank you Jen for being so open...sooooo happy your back on here..i 'm in NJ too💗💖

[@BlackLabLover9]

Melodie LV Thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed! Hi neighbor! 👋🏼

[@cstone7597]

Great way to get to know you! I definitely like you😊 I had always had boxer dogs and lost my little fur man Lenny last July. We weren’t ready for a new dog till 3 weeks ago and decided on getting a rescue without thinking of breed at the shelter. so we met a bunch of different dogs and decided on a sweet little pitty Lucy that we just fell in love with. I can honestly say breed really doesn’t matter, they are all wonderful🐶❤️

[@BlackLabLover9]

C Stone omg!!!! How awesome!! THANK YOU FOR RESCUING!!!! So many wonderful dogs who need loving homes!!! And a Pittie!!!! Awesome!!!! My condolences on the loss of your precious Lenny. I’m sure he is looking down very proud of what you’ve done. Give Lucy a big kiss from me! ❤️

[@magsgemini]

Hello and welcome to the 41 club 🎂🎂 I never was maternal at all and when I lost my dog I was devastated and it was the first time I thought about having a baby. I now have a 4 year old who is bonkers about dogs (his nana is a lover of black labs) and he is obsessed with “his dog”

[@BlackLabLover9]

Actionmags L awww That is so sweet! Best buds for life!! 😊

[@AimlessAllee]

“Don’t worry about something until you have something to worry about” 👍❤️

[@BlackLabLover9]

Aimless Allee amen and hallelujah!!! 🙏🏼

[@carol-catzmom6149]

Im so glad you're back! I am like you, I like animals better than kids. I am surprised you haven't gone cruelty-free in your make-up and skincare choices. Would love to see that happen (with everyone, not just you). It takes some research, but is pretty easy to do. One channel I follow is MrKongsMom (Melanie), she is cruelty-free and she loves pugs. You might want to check her out if you have a chance! So glad you decided to adopt another dog. As much as it hurts to lose one, there are always thousands out there who need love and a good home. -Carol

[@LittleT287]

Jen I am so like you I'm not a chatty, outgoing person either and also I have anxiety also, and I'll turn 40 June 1st and I'm 5ft.. we seem so similar about the questions. Our dog Lady will be 13 yrs old this coming Wednesday:) and the more older she gets I think about when she passes( I don't want to talk about it or think) I start crying so much!!! She's our first baby:) along with my two human boy's 12 yrs and almost 6 yr old:) This was so much fun and you look fabulous as always..Love you all So much!!!!

[@BlackLabLover9]

ItsNoah Allen awwww happy happy Barkday to Lady!!! 🎂What a blessing!!! Thank you so much for being here! Glad you enjoyed the video!!! Xoxo

[@SueHawkins6816]

I understand how you feel about losing your Petey. Furbabies are members of the family and their passing is just as painful as the passing of a human family member. I also understand what you mean about being changed by the loss of a pet. I have lost two cats who were very special to me and I am forever changed by their loss. I am grateful for our time together but I will always miss them.

[@BlackLabLover9]

Sue Hawkins so very true. My Petee was my world, my everything. Losing him I lost a piece of me too. But he was just that special. My two boys now make me smile and bring me so much joy and happiness.

[@slm32402]

Jen this was such a great video! I’ve definitely learned that you and I are so much alike!! It’s 100% ok to love animals more than kids haha cause I am the same, God made us this way so no need to apologize!! 😊 I know your Petee is your heart dog, just like Alex is mine, they are our animal soulmates ❤️ I too suffer from anxiety and depression after losing Alex as you know!! Pits are great dogs, my brother has one and he has the biggest heart!! It’s so great seeing you back Jen, can’t wait to see more videos from you!! 😊❤️❤️❤️

[@BlackLabLover9]

steph412017 hiya Steph! Aww thanks so much for being here with me! Means a lot! And I know how much your Alex means to you!!! He’s your special little guardian angel now!! Xoxo

[@luv_in_nov2458]

I truly enjoyed watching this video! Thank you for letting us get to know you better. ❤️ Ana

[@BlackLabLover9]

Thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed!

[@burntchickennuggetp7746]

It’s so funny because I’m the polar opposite in almost every way lol! I’m quite a Chatty Cathy I’m a big eater(something im working on overcoming) my house is never in a clean state but I have 7 children lol. We clean every single day too but it is what it is. I do have anxiety and OCD as well. I like your dads advice. There’s a novena prayer that helps with fear and anxiety and it’s changed my life. It’s called the surrender novena. I have a large family 7 children and I just found out im pregnant with number 8! I found out about a week ago. I’m very happy and I’ve never felt more at peace and joyous about it. I am a kid person. I love children. I wasn’t always this way. This was my vocation in life and God has molded me. That’s ok if you’re not a kid person. I’m not a big animal person only because I’m so busy with all my children. I’m blessed to be an at home mom I homeschool them all except my one son who is special needs. I love to cook. I hate to clean..lol it was really funny to hear how opposite you and I really are! Lol you really are such a joy to watch and you don’t have to be anything like me for me to like you. I think you are down right adorable!!! You always make me smile when I see your vids! I’m so glad you’re back!!! You really light up my day! Have a blessed day! 😊💖

[@BlackLabLover9]

Lorina Wells oh gosh this made me smile! You sound like an amazing woman! Congrats on #8!! It’s funny I tend to be friends with people who are completely different than me! Haha

[@AdrienneStarr]

Happy belated birthday!

[@BlackLabLover9]

AdrienneStarr thank you so much!!! 😘

[@Lolaglowskincare]

Loved this video! Can't wait to watch the hubby video! I have 3 humans and 2 danes! ❤️ Would love to watch some tricks on how to train dogs!

[@BlackLabLover9]

LolaGlow Thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed! You have a wonderful full house! ❤️

[@01fancynancy]

Most interesting thing I learned about you - your age! I never would have guessed you were in your 40s already!

[@BlackLabLover9]

01fancynancy omg thank you!!! You made my night!

[@lilmamastewart814]

Great video learning more about you! ❤️

[@BlackLabLover9]

lilmamastewart814 Thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed!

[@dustinfults7393]

That was good saving my question about camping until the end of the the video. I like what your doing and I think it's a good idea. Keep doing what your doing!

[@BlackLabLover9]

Thank you so much!

[@dustinfults7393]

I know you dont have kids but I have a video we just put up maybe you might know some people that have kids maybe you might like to I dont know. Were looking for subscribers maybe we can help each other! Just saying! Thanks

[@bellaanditsy]

Loved the video very interested in the grieving process. I lost my Bella of 16 years and I am not the same

[@Latte528]

Really enjoyed watching your video and hearing more about your life. Thanks for sharing.

[@BlackLabLover9]

Dala Thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed!

[@sadiejosiemom]

That was fun! I'm looking forward to the video about how you met your husband.

[@BlackLabLover9]

Thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed!

[@ericaluna01]

Now that I got older I have extreme anxiety. I worry about everything but getting better. ❤️

[@Ericaskye89]

I am of a dog mom as well to three sweet babies here and a few in Heaven. Our Sookie angel lets us know she watches over us all the time. No question in my mind they are waiting for us in Heaven. And there are no human children in our foreseeable future. Never say never but... not in our minds or desires and we are getting up there in age. Pawrents fur life 🐾

[@BlackLabLover9]

Skye Guy awww I hear ya! Our fur babies are our life! I would sell my soul for them! Give your sweeties a kiss from me! Xo

[@brownroxyfoxy]

Your an amazing woman Jen!!

[@BlackLabLover9]

Stacy Brown this means so much to me! I really appreciate your kindness ❤️

[@stuffstuffstuffyay]

yay! my q was first :) :)

[@BlackLabLover9]

stuffstuffstuffyay 😊

[@Sweet1981ie]

We are so much alike!

[@BlackLabLover9]

Kat woohoo! High five! ✋🏼

[@badgrl89]

You started crying, I started crying.. 🥺

[@BlackLabLover9]

Sara Warren awwwww you are so sweet ((Hugs))

[@IntoBlackHouse]

.....you’re alive?! Wowowow

[@BlackLabLover9]

Abc xyz hahah! I’m still here!

[@burntchickennuggetp7746]

By the way!!! I can’t believe how young you look! I’m younger and I look way older then you!!! Lol I’m so jealous!😆😍

[@BlackLabLover9]

Lorina Wells omg you made my night! 😁

[@kelly810403]

I know the day you lost Peetey, I was also heartbroken 💔💔

[@MsRedsunrise]

I have 3 kids and 2 big dogs. I love my kids to death but i agree with u on the kids 😅 . theres times i wish i just have 5 dogs 😂😂

[@sweetiethepig5599]

👍

[@BlackLabLover9]

Sweetie the pig 😊

[@MsJgreen77]

Did you losing Mr. Handsome Face have anything to do anything to do with you changing jobs? I know when I lost my brother unexpectedly, I lost it. I changed jobs, homes, friends, everything. It didn't work, I had to go through it and ask that goes with it. Hugs Jen...P.S. what is that thing behind your head?

[@BlackLabLover9]

MsJgreen77 honestly me changing my jobs had to do more with my OCD. Losing Petee put me in a tailspin. Oh gosh.. what was behind my head?!?

[@MsJgreen77]

@@BlackLabLover9 it's directly behind your head. Some kind of decoration.

[@BlackLabLover9]

Ohh haha I thought you meant a ghost! Hahaha That’s just my little tree - I have some doggie and girly ornaments on it

[@Ericaskye89]

Okay we're basicslly the same person. Im not friends with most of my coworkers either. Nor lots of women period.

[@BlackLabLover9]

Skye Guy hahaha! I’m not a drama person.... I don’t want to get involved... so I lay low!

[@TENNBLP]

Waving hi

[@BlackLabLover9]

TENNBLP waving back! 👋🏼

[@magz292]

Do you speak any other languages besides English?

[@BlackLabLover9]

magz292 no but I wish I did!

[@elemental_gaming538]

I said I assume you dont go out alot but then I changed it

[@BlackLabLover9]

Jacksonandfriends yea I like being home and cozy!

[@TheRealBeautyJunkie2]

Do you have Instagram?

[@BlackLabLover9]

Lyfstylover40 yes it’s K9momm

[@yepijow4215]

You look a lot.... younger! Not 41😲😲😲

[@BlackLabLover9]

Rhaine Solis thank you sooooo much!!!!