British boyfriend went to Malay wedding for the first time | EP.6 | British boyfriend in Malaysia

[@MsColdies]

Hi ben. It is actually normal to wear baju melayu in malay weddings since it is the traditional outfit. Sometimes, ppl usually wear only the baju, not the entire set. But i would always like and appreciate to see ppl with full set of baju melayu coming to the weddings. It just shows that they are full of courtesy and the look amazing too. Btw, i wish ben n jade to have their weddings in Malaysia soon!

[@syigloo]

Yes, back in the 80s, 90s men wore proper attire which is baju melayu to weddings. Then they changed the trend & wore formal batik shirts. But nowadays men are too lazy to wear formal attire. They just wear any non formal polo shirts instead, which i found less respectful to the people who invite them. Please guys, wear formal attire to weddings & appropriately to show our respect to the invitation.

[@deniealnieal1037]

Nowadays only family members or someone related to the groom/bride wore them lol

[@akaiyukihana]

Wearing baju melayu to a wedding is proper. It's quite traditional.

[@zafir7007]

The idea of a Malay wedding is to feed as many people as possible. It gives blessing to the bride and groom as one of the first act as a family is to feed people.

[@baizhuisadeks]

dasol turning into makcik mode was one of the highlights of the video 🤣 soo funny HAHAHAAHA. and the clothes from hijabista hub looked so good on you both 🤩 i love it!

[@AzizOthman]

omg ngl that baju melayu looks so nice 😫😫😫

[@ttasmirah9002]

Sbb tu hairan knp zaman skrg.. kat Malaysia makin pelik2 fashion.. klau pegi majlis kahwin.. klau kat Brunei d panggil cara Melayu.. katalah sbuah majlis kahwin tu ada 5 sesi Adat Istiadat.. mmg kena sedia 5 psg prsalinan baju Melayu lengkap.. 😅 pakai baju lain.. mmg org pndang atas bwah..

[@politikbebas2335]

@@ttasmirah9002kat Malaysia ada jugak..kadang sampai 10 pasang..tp baju cina la..Korea la ..akak ipar aku pelik2..siap pakai kimono..😂😂😂

[@FolderName92]

ben's wearing the baju melayu is quite good actually for the event. it just that nowadays, no one wanna wear the baju melayu completed with samping from the morning for an event that started later, and only for a while, but it still happens, esp during weekend. and love that color on you guys 🎉

[@sawaalbino]

The teasing at weddings for singles are worse if the wedding is for their younger siblings

[@nurulzeety1050]

Dasol outfit look so gorgeous, jade n ben feel like husband and wife 😊

[@walynbahaman1308]

Dasol look like one of typical Malay mak cik- mak cik😂😂😂. Hahahaha

[@Blimeywow]

Hahahahaha😂😂😂

[@xchaix]

makcik Dasol teamed up. ahahahhaha

[@salmaishaq9512]

He never panicked..... but he didn't function well. Hehe... that's epic. 😂😂😂 btw nice couple outfit. Me always appreciate men in traditional clothes when attending the wedding party

[@ericlai3221]

Selamat pengantin baru! Semoga kebahagiaan dan cinta selalu menyertai perjalanan indah kehidupan kalian bersama

[@Qqqis___]

Poor jade...😅😅hahahhaha i think he's going cultural shock, there's a lot more to see if you stay here in Malaysia longer. All the best learning malaysian culture 👍🏼

[@ferfrenz]

Dasol eonnie, since when you hv the makcik mode and become one of them??? 😂 so cuteee thooo my God! 💗

[@kakitiub9361]

So cute both of you. And learnt something at malay wedding

[@yukionna77]

😂😂kesian Ben..dasol being makcik bawang 😂jade always love the foods

[@adamzack9259]

hahahaha..very funny scene when Ben ran over of the bridal stage and how Jade & Dasol planned on it ...😂😂 ...

[@Blimeywow]

That’s my favorite part😂😂

[@khairikhalil980]

2 types of weddings. 1. Buffet Style (you come anytime) 2. Seated (with itinerary - normally in hotels)

[@Blimeywow]

Yeah!! Same in Korea!!😆

[@hawaandroid2786]

Dasol hyping up Ben and Jade is so funny.

[@knowingaida5703]

Don't worry Ben 🤣🤣 It is normal for the male guests to wear Baju Melayu to a wedding, not just the groom and bride's fathers. It just that maybe coincidentally most people don't wear it during the wedding that you guys attend 😂😂😂

[@syigloo]

Yes, Ben is not wrong at all, he wears the right attire actually. But those guys are too lazy to wear formal clothing. Shouldn't be that way.

[@tanaaz7593]

​@@syigloo Yeahh.

[@mohdfaizaltukimon1752]

not me smiling through the whole video. Hopefully, you guys can be a beautiful family one day. shout out to Ben and Jade

[@TheGhostUchiha7]

Omg Dasol look so good. The black kebaya really suits her so well. She looks like a bachelorette 😂 Btw in Malay culture the groom and bride is treated like a King & Queen that day. Thats why you see in traditional weddings we have the Kompang (drums), the silat performance etc. Its like the whole event is to see royalty. And u can even realise the groom is dressed like a King with his Tanjak (Crown) and the keris (Distinct dagger which is a historical weapon of important warriors that is believed to even have spiritual powers in olden days)

[@just_ignore_brainless_hater]

Love Ben & Jade slow2 diperkenalkan dengan adat2 melayu❤

[@asyrafyap110]

semoga Ben & Jade cepat naik ke pelamin 😁

[@NanaLurvRed]

One of the funniest episode😹😹😹

[@laseus]

Ben look so nervouse...kenchanaa Ben....go go Ben...chaiyok²

[@mohdroslanrashid1592]

Ben ... you look alike 'The Ghost In The Sky' actor.😅😅😅

[@supermik]

Actually, it's normal to wear full-fledge baju Melayu to a wedding ceremony. It is more respectful and proper.

[@syigloo]

Yes, even my husband sticks to the tradition to show respect.

[@MDroid-bn6eb]

Alhamdullilah Melayu maju. Kahwin di hotel, bawak kerete mewah, baju mahal2. ❤❤

[@mohdamirhafiz2910]

Kampung wedding will reach 2k easily 😂..

[@Akanor]

Say yes😂😂

[@nuratiqa1217]

😮 that baju melayu look so nice 😍

[@kyuhxuan]

U should join our other Malaysian race wedding too!! 😊

[@cyamerols]

Ben your wedding coming soon with my princess Jade.. dasol now already being a queen with in her husband as a King ❤

[@FromPerakWithLove]

Ben so funny. First time i saw western man look shy.

[@hidayahhehe]

Baju hijau pokok pisang cute... U both cute🎉❤

[@shamsurymohdsalleh3062]

Kesian Ben... hahaha

[@syitaaaa]

usually during wedding, groom & bride side will wearing proper traditional outfit while the guest can wearing proper casual/formal attire. But during eid, we all will wear the traditional outfit. But nowadays generation choose to wear traditional outfit especially woman/girls because it looks good in picture😆

[@tangcheekong9778]

Ben!When!!... ...when will Ben finally accept to being king for a day?,🤔

[@savvy2291k]

Both of you very connected ❤

[@randomnetizen7065]

Ngl jade's bahasa melayu sound so good

[@mumtazahmustajab9870]

You will receive a high respect if you wear Baju Melayu when attending a wedding. Malaysian men should keep this tradition alive. Thank you Ben.

[@YusriTheYus]

I hear the bells ring!! 🔔

[@aidasuzila4402]

Dont worry ben kat kampung kami masih pakai baju kurung baju melayu pergi wedding...like hari raya❤

[@salmh8454]

Ben jangan tunggu lama lama😅..video yg mantap jade,dassol

[@wargaalam]

Jade, all people are waiting for Ben to say Yes for wedding.. aiyoo

[@TWbenIN]

I think it’s the other way around! Jade has to say yes!

[@wargaalam]

@@TWbenIN no it looks like Jade is ready but Ben doesn't wanna has commitment yet. So Ben has to say Yes to himself first as Jade is already waiting for the Ben's proposal

[@AzmanMan-z8n]

Blimeyyy come to melaka and eat ikan masak asam pedas the most popular in melaka and cendol kampung hulu

[@amerjensen]

Dasol turning looks with this outfit, this garment was made for her 😮

[@ryunekoyashiki]

felt like Ben is an introvert person....yeah i totally can relate to that 😅😁

[@TWbenIN]

He for sure is

[@Ong.s_Jukebox]

Cultural appropriation, lol. Only westerners have the time to worry about that. Us here are very proud when we see foreigners appreciating our culture.

[@kapitankapitalis6392]

Ben`s outfit baju melayu fits well... nice cutting

[@mumtazahmustajab9870]

The wedding march is actually common. In the olden days, the march can be in the whole kampung before arriving to the wedding location. It also depends if the wedding is organized by the bride's family or by the groom's family. Traditionally there would be 2 weddings: bride side first, then groom side. However there occasions where the bride's family and groom's family would organize the wedding together (share the cost and saves time too).

[@jaynne313]

Dasol officially becomes a professional makcik2 already...

[@hawaandroid2786]

Ben, actually the correct attire to wear to wedding for men is Baju Melayu.,Sadly many just come wearing normal cloth nowadays

[@NURULJANNAHBINTIAZIZMoe]

I have a challenge for blimey to try to invite tws kpop, I'm a big tws fan🙈

[@memetandmuradwithfamily9256]

The Malay race has many tribes and customs, each state in Malaysia has different customs and cultures

[@shedaamn2259]

Nakal betul si dasol. Cheeky sgt

[@jcameron223]

Wearing Baju Melayu to any wedding ceremony, shows that you’re a distinguished guest. By the way, Ben would look more handsome wearing a ‘songkok’. 😊

[@DagingKicap]

You know, each state wedding ceremony had different kind of foods and events. If you come to Johor, the groom needs to handsout pocket money to the siblings and families that was on wedding throne. Depends on the groom how many Ringgit they want to give.

[@drbakshaharuddin7293]

The highlight of this episode is watching Dasol acts as the typical Makcik Bawang!

[@sitihatika]

i like when you sympathy with 'single be asking when to married' hahaha its already like bonus question in our culture

[@nurilraimi6307]

This is modern wedding… i hope you guys will have the chance to experience more traditional wedding

[@phyzL]

The thought of marriage really freaks Ben out

[@sitiafiqah6598]

this is so funny sia 🤣 dasol makcik bawang 😂

[@Tyoung902]

Why they speak malay very nice 😭❤️ im appreciate that much

[@shuib]

This is truly an interesting and funny video. Jade is hilarious and witty. Impressed by your Bahasa Melayu, Dasol is naughty and Ben is cool. These days, Malay weddings are not the same, I wouldn't call it 100 percent traditional. A lot of modern elements have been infused. Then again, times are changing too.

[@rabiatuladawiyah0008]

“How u know that?” - Ben “Well, I’m almost Malaysian 😂😂” - Jade This made me laugh non stop tho 😂

[@fastremix9806]

Ben betul2 nmpk gementar 😂😂

[@RunsingBagaiNakGila]

Ben 10 had a mission, thats why he ran away swiftly~~

[@Toy5290]

ini belum pergi kenduri kawin kat area felda...silap2 diorg yang lagi femes dari pengantin.

[@haslinamy4659]

Totally can relate I brought my american bf to malay wedding. He was very shy but foods bring everyone togather and wonder why people like to take pict with him. 😂😂

[@narakaii2725]

I just hope peoples will stop asking when will jade and ben get married , ofcourse its okay to ask once or twice but not more than that , ben look uncomfortable . Let wish them happy till the end . (Sorry for bad english 😊)

[@RunsingBagaiNakGila]

Steady Jade & Ben 10....

[@X_101]

🥰🥰cantik kacak dan menawan berseri2 wajah,,,memakai ber baju kurung melayu,,

[@amerjensen]

Jade technically Malaysian💯

[@soundthatblindingguy5469]

Say yes say yes!!

[@AmyDuan]

BEN!! WHEN????!!!!! LOL

[@saraeff6845]

Jade’s malay is pretty good 😍

[@MinahBelohz]

I love makcik dasol😂

[@haffuan]

u guys ar sooo cuteeee

[@kopxpert]

0:20 "Morning Dumpling".... omg Jade, u like cringey stuff? 🤣😂

[@Blimeywow]

No cause my face round like dumpling 🥹🥲

[@kopxpert]

@@Blimeywow 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ExploreMalaysia89]

First 🎉🎉

[@Sam-yj6br]

Ben : "How do you know all of this Jade? " Jade : " Haa saya orang Malaysia " XD

[@GPResidence]

hi cg ismadiah,

[@ed-rr1vi]

Cmon ben 😂

[@jnamarketing8481]

But if you have 2-3 weddings to attend in one day. You should plan your eating..dont eat to much in one event. People will get offended if you attend their wedding but don't eat.

[@Blimeywow]

Ohhh that’s a really good tip🥰

[@kehey]

kalo berani interview kim pan gon laaa🤣💪🫰

[@syaa_selek]

Blimey tried to watch mat kilau, a Malay movie 🔥👍🏻

[@mell7702]

usually weddings in Malaysia isat time range so people can come simultaneously. that is why we can invite 1000 people

[@mell7702]

my kampung wedding invitees was 2000 people. hahaha but in KL side was only 650 people

[@TWbenIN]

Thanks❤

[@malasfikirable]

👍👍👍👍👍

[@cikcidda9101]

Skrg kenapa xda video lagi😢

[@frenzyhoodxfhx3963]

Jade is so Malaysian 😂

[@lunarosalindalexious255]

Be prepared to become celebrity ben

[@UNKHOWN-mn9ro]

BLIMEY AND BEN When the NASI MINYAK WILL COMING? dont be long ok.

[@Blimeywow]

Hahahahaha team makcik💪💪 Don’t worry I’ll push them more😏

[@roxcemat8658]

Ben and Jade ..here we don't kawan Lama² nnti jadi telur busuk.

[@carlmeil4021]

Ok la

[@miorandmior]

The korean lady in the blue baju kurung looks an awful lot like ahn hye kyung 😊

[@maria17171]

No No No That's called Nasi Briani.

[@tokdalang4623]

Spe thu ni hijau apa….dusty green kah?