blink-182 - Adam's Song

[@archiewilson4196]

"I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make others happy, because they know what its like to feel absolutely worthless and don't want anyone else to feel that way."- Robin Williams Edit: never thought this would be upvoted this much or replied to! Thank you for bringing me back to this song each time. My girlfriend and I were in a very difficult relationship and she was mentally unwell, it became too much as my dad has cancer as well and I had to end the relationship because it was very abusive both physically and mentally. She committed suicide today and can't stop listening to this song to get me through

[@krzysztofwojtaszko5269]

A beautiful quote...

[@bxnkroll]

it's insane. it's a sad world overall for nice people

[@mayburnwright3434]

That man died to soon God rest his soul.

[@hughbrien4960]

Oh man so true....

[@kellybaxter2558]

Same.

[@Werecandle]

24 years ago this song saved my life. - A father of three kids watching his oldest son get ready to go to college. Thanks guys.

[@fadustrouble]

20 years.

[@Werecandle]

@@fadustrouble heck yeah

[@benleroy87]

thx for sticking around :)

[@emilyjane5797]

So glad you stuck around ❤

[@dominicdecina8853]

❤

[@brianaccardi331]

The subtle homage to Kurt and Nirvana’s “come as you are with” the line “take your time hurry up the choice is yours” that went over my head as a teenager. This song has layers of thought put into it

[@TheChazTomato]

Well shit. I was today years old and never realized that reference. That's incredible...

[@xaioai-j9i]

omg im 38 and you just learned me something

[@Pluralofvinylisvinyls]

Duh

[@ivanabcdefg9375]

Subtle?

[@stephenjohnson5249]

Thank you so much for pointing that out!! I’m going to be 40 yrs old next year and in my older age all the songs from my youth are hitting different because I’m more “in tune” with the lyrics (still this reference went over my head somehow lol) ….and it’s most likely due to life experience and relating more to the songs etc. All to say I really appreciate information like what you pointed out because it just adds to my music knowledge which cherish deeply…..ROCK ON 🤘AND BE SAFE ✌️

[@rachelburroughs2383]

My brother Adam died by suicide on the 10th of December 2024, we spent 2 weeks looking for him. Hoping he was still alive. The police found his body on the 23rd of December. I love blink 182, I’ve been to three of their concerts the last 3 times they’re been to Australia. This song, as intense as it is, is helping me release the tears and lump in my throat at home before I go to work. Thank you for that.

[@Laura-h1u]

That has to be so, so hard. I do not know you but it sounds like you have a lot of good memories. We lost my daughters father ( I think to suicide) although his mom had covered it up. So for almost 10yrs I thought it was a strange and tragic accident. People really do not know what others are truly feeling and thinking. Love and kindness really does matter but sometimes there is only so much we can do bc we are not the origin of their pain.

[@nattressjohn]

So sorry for your loss I lost my mom last year. It was the hardest year of my life. Me and my mom were best friends. You don’t ever get through it. It just gets easier day by day. Praying for you and your family.

[@liliancarolinavera9334]

Fuerza ❤

[@Quinchysan]

I'm so sorry that all of that happened, I bet that your brother was wonderful. I hope that you and your family will be alright. 🤍

[@viken4391]

Stay strong, man

[@LeglessWonder]

“Please tell mom this is not her fault” That line alone has kept me alive more than any other singular lyric

[@alucardlawliet3860]

See also 'Let It Happen' by Tame Impala: 'But if I never come back, Tell my mother I'm sorry' Listening to that when I was actively suicidal had made that song anchored into me in ways I can't describe.

[@irenesuredamartorell2337]

I'm a mum , this line makes me cry

[@shawnm7648]

We’re glad you’re still around

[@Slidezy]

Same. This song saved my life more then once

[@maevemallory2122]

My mom's eyes after waking up in the hospital after my attempt made me never want to do it again. Now she's gone & I'm a mom.

[@thorinthered8127]

True story, 3 years ago I parked in a Wal-Mart parking lot at midnight with a gun in my hand. I had every intention of ending it. Even put plastic trash bags on the seats in the car so my family wouldn't have to deal with the mess, and could sell it afterwards, Wrote a note, and left it on my kitchen table. At that point I had been been home for about 7 years since my last deployment, and wanted it to just be over. For some reason I checked my Facebook memories right after midnight, maybe I was subconsciously buying some more time, but it saved my life. I saw a memory of me holding my newborn nephew, who was born 2 days before I got back home from Afghanistan. A core memory for me. I loved that kid more than anything. I immediately thought about how my brother would have to tell my nephew that his Uncle Nick Nick wouldn't be there for him anymore, The thought of the hurt and confusion that this 7 year old would face knowing that he wasn't enough for his uncle to stick around for hurt me more than any of the worldly things that had got me to that position. I cried for hours, started the car and drove home. 3 years later, I am a college graduate, have a girlfriend and 2 dogs that I love, and my best friend is a 10 year old boy who might never know that him just being alive saved his uncle's life in a dark parking lot one night.

[@alisonkohne4317]

❤❤

[@Viktor_Rafael]

Thank you for sharing your experience. It gives hope to others who might be feeling hopeless.

[@jacobmoorcroft3893]

Absolutely amazing story my guy. I'm genuinely so happy to hear how things turned our for you :) I hope your future only gets brighter brother

[@Marcus-ru1ht]

❤

[@jeniferwhelan3307]

Oh sweet love..

[@tiberiusnero340]

“Please tell Mom this is not her fault” Hits me every time

[@drumsno]

The most powerful line in this. Some of the songs from these guys are genius.

[@GlennJimenez]

Yeah that hit me too. Because they’re right. It’s not my moms fault. It’s my dads.

[@matthewsummersgill2242]

Damn right it hits hard cos mums think that they are the reason to blame when they aren't no parent should ever have to bury their kids

[@playc.holder6432]

For real; mothers are 50/50 Saviors or Kryptonite....

[@matheuscassimiro5668]

well it's not her fault, it's my own

[@DylanBeresford]

My cousin's husband was called Adam he loved Blink 182, riding his Yamaha YZ 250 and so much more! last week he took his own life Rip my friend I'm really missing you man! I'm putting this message up so every time someone likes it I can come listen to this and think of you and the way you were always thrashing that bike around! Rip Adam

[@LucaSonnleitner]

Im so sorry

[@michaelmascelli586]

Stay up bro

[@jwr2904]

RIP Adam, may God have mercy on all of us who can't find the light

[@Lennon-h1i]

So sorry for your loss depression is such an awful feeling for people and its ecspecially awful when it causes a loss ❤

[@Lennon-h1i]

Rip to Adam

[@DV-zv4ox]

"I used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone." Robin Williams. To anyone feeling lonely, or sitting in their room/house by themselves, you're not alone. There are thousands, if not millions of us out there just like, wondering if anyone cares about us anymore.

[@ThexDodgerx]

Daniel Jesus is there.

[@soulmichaely7316]

absolutely

[@STOTW.SoundTracks0fTheWastes]

jonathan is he really

[@kristinh3790]

Daniel this made me cry. I wish I didn't feel so alone. And depressed. But this too shall pass, right?

[@kristinh3790]

Benjamin Smith thank you. Every day is a struggle but it's a bigger challenge to stay alive and see what waits for me in the future.

[@grantprice4456]

Blink-182 saved lives with this song.

[@JTNugget]

LMFAO

[@thomastintle6850]

whats funny about that?

[@sydneytimmermans]

+Thomas Tintle funny how?

[@thomastintle6850]

The Nameless Maggot JTNugget said LMFAO and so i was asking what he found funny

[@TidesofWarHighlights]

100%

[@JanMadalipay]

"Please tell Mom this is not her fault." That line broke my heart. Someone with suicidal ideations, that line keeps me in check because I love my mom so much and I don't want her to think that she failed. I don't want to pass my pain to her or any other people. To others, please stay strong.

[@andrewgregg7180]

So much of this. When she's gone I have no idea what is going to happen. It frightens me, and it's slowly creeping up on me.

[@emilzehentner9347]

@@hermanlombard9814 just get the fuck out of here

[@Anobodylolxo]

Facts brother 💯 keep livin brother do it for me & ill do it for you 😎

[@Anobodylolxo]

We're gonna make momma proud trust me 💯

[@felipecarvalho1233]

Be strong bro! I know it may sound very difficult right now, but it will pass. Talk to your friends and family, they`ll help you. Be strong man, I`ve been there as well.

[@JordYulK]

Blink just takes me back. I'm 37 now and time won't slow down, I can never get those days or feeling back. I have a good life, but I still long for the days of old. It's a beautiful pain.

[@jt3436]

47 here this month and life is just flying away.

[@ChrisDieter-cb4ow]

My 30s were the best time of my life. Traveled the world , made friends, cherished family. As you get older the faster it gets!! We live in a world where you can literally do anything you want. I missed those days for years until I realized it brought me here!!

[@roningarcia5771]

41, I think that I was a lonely 15 year old in Santa Monica CA.

[@joshuarichey3071]

45… this takes me back to college…. First time by myself, military school, the freedom that came with being an adult accompanied with yhe notion that I was still a kid finding my way in the world…. Meeting some of the best friends ever have, meeting my first love, and just the carefree world of being 18-22.

[@marsthebean13]

“Please tell mom this is not her fault” This line has kept me alive. I don’t want to hurt the people I love

[@ZeranZeran]

You and me both, stranger. I have been ready to go. Sometimes for weeks, months at at a time. I'm not afraid to die. I am afraid to disappoint my family even more than I already have, and offing yourself does NOT give anyone relief, it just makes their life a living hell. You are loved, you are needed, and they want you here, happy, and healthy. When I was going through the worst of my depression, I really had myself convinced that my family would be better off without me. Now that I'm a little older and starting to help out more.. I am so glad I held on. Thank you Lil Peep, and Blink182.

[@whatdoiput807]

My father committed suicide in 2001. I've been going through some rough times. My mom's getting old, the relationship I've wanted for a year is starting to fall apart. I had some dark thoughts and went to visit him just to be reminded how painful all that was to go through. I never ever want to do that to someone.

[@jessecase3564]

Exactly buddy. Please. Tell. Mom. This. Is. Not. Her. Fault. That's the line that keeps me going. One, because she has already lost one child. Two, because I couldn't put her through that. Not her, she has loved me with every ounce of her little heart and soul. To break her heart actually breaks mine. Nobody else, just her that can keep me here

[@jeandubois2754]

This song kept us alive and together

[@Headtrons]

my mom is the reason I haven’t done it too.

[@Xenon631]

This is without a doubt the best song by blink-182

[@mrscrewball803]

I know right

[@OfficialArulSmurfz]

And I Miss You

[@alanay2503]

+Xenon631 there all good

[@runo35k]

it's combined with my black dahlia by hollywood undead the best song I know

[@katiekennedy5919]

+Xenon631 & stay together for the kids

[@danielc8506]

Never wanted to burden my mother, no matter how many times i wanted to leave this world as a kid growing up. and i am one of the people who tries to make others happy cuz i know the feeling of being ignored, outcast and bullied. im 40 now and it still hurts but made me a better person at the end i guess.

[@crimsonsphinx2913]

The "tell mom it's not her fault" line hit pretty hard, because it reminded me how my brother wrote "Tell the dogs I love them" in his note. We have 2 dogs and they were the light of his life

[@finleyjames-hammond6303]

I know the feelin'. Stay strong man.

[@siegehammer63]

I get it dude. Hits hard, lost my sister to overdose this new years and almost lost her Christmas day, managed to CPR in time that time. It never does go away but it heals

[@deejayr.8280]

I'm so sorry 🥺

[@andrewcribbs550]

My brother wrote “I’m sorry, it’s nobody’s fault, I love you all”

[@renelara5339]

Yes, what stopped me of jumpìng was thinking about the suffering I was going to cause my mother and my kids... they didn't deserved it... so, in the narrow edge of the window I had to step down for them...

[@kristeb74]

My brother Nate died by suicide in 1997. He was only 21. I listened to this song slot when it came out, and tears keep flowing years later every time I hear it. The part about spilling the cup of apple juice in the hall, imagining how he must have gotten in trouble for something so simple, that gets me every time. I think it's at least helped me be a better mom, to be understanding and not get upset over the small things. Life is hard enough. No reason to get mad at your kids so much. If you are a parent reading this, please, please, let your kids know how much you love them and see them as the best people on this Earth. Miss you, Nate. I'm sorry I never knew what you were going through. You always smiled and laughed....

[@razorback_yeah3729]

Beautiful comment, ty for this. I'm sure Nate would be so proud of you

[@Kathi-rt7vq]

Nate is probably smiling about this comment. May you have a great mothers day!

[@andrewstockwell66]

RIP Nate. As another person who lost his brother too soon, my heart breaks for you. Much love!

[@giacomozappala3100]

Nate's heart continues to beat to the rhythm of this drums, his voice as he talks to you has the sound of the singer, he has guitar riffs in his veins. Remembering him while listening to this song makes him immortal. You close your eyes, you see him smiling at you ... You smile too

[@andresr2447]

a bless to the sky to your brother, just as all our loved ones who left

[@funnyperson7656]

To those who constantly come back to this song, please keep smiling, keep breathing, and keep loving.

[@yuvalomrad7090]

You too

[@thexsauce7364]

❤

[@jamespayne8252]

Thank you I'll try

[@martinleinenweber80]

Thank u ❤🥺

[@cataclysmicgaming101]

And will keep coming back.

[@gregory2611]

Never thought I would overcome depression. It's possible. Don't give up

[@mynameis4718]

My thoughts are that a person never truly overcomes depression. They just learn not to give it the headspace. I also agree, don't ever give up. Like Dori in finding Nemo says, just keep swimming! 😊 For myself, ever since I was a teenager with depression and I was on medication for it, I decided to get off them and control it with my thoughts alone. Having a good headspace helped me a lot. I still have high functioning depression, and some days are worse than others. But, I know I can't give up even when I feel so low. I have too many people who would miss me, and that alone keeps me going when times are tough.

[@Good_Behavior14YT]

Me too

[@devilsoffspring5519]

Not for everyone it isn't.

[@nachomama55]

You’re still here. You’re surviving. Stay strong.

[@Draeber]

i dont know. i think im just living in an echo of who i was.

[@armandoynquillaruiz1496]

Era lo que necesita leer, no sé si será suficiente

[@amircurran8257]

Shut up foo

[@Swift_Lemon]

Thanks❤️

[@divinepurity]

thanks

[@Ad_Astraz]

"Please tell mom this is not her fault." I don't know why, but this is the most saddening line in the song for me.

[@matero4life2019]

Same

[@whatsthatehh]

every time i hear that line i get choked up. i think thats also one of the only times he actually looks at the camera

[@Reir0o]

thats because it is...

[@garou20zx]

YES.

[@jwr2904]

Because some of us don't want to be here anymore but mom is still around and we can contemplate how hard it would it for her. I want to die but I won't do it until my mom is gone.

[@amitsheth6442]

"Another six months I'll be unknown....." That line is so true. Once you've completed the act, the people who treated you like a loser might feel bad for a little while. But pretty soon, they'll move on to other things and you'll be forgotten. The best revenge is to live on and prove yourself.

[@RICHIE_RICH89]

Wouldn't care what anyone thinks but myself.

[@ChrisPoindexter98]

To do such good things that you can't be forgotten, and to only care about those who have your back....

[@murrayandbellasmum]

Ive lost so many to suicide still think of them daily Birthdays and anniversaries of their deaths are hard Knowing i have a family and life and they will forever be under 21

[@dallasbagley]

I think that line is meant for friends of the victim. Reason being, is cause people move on from them. They don't forget, but to say "Another six months and I'll be unknown", is more symbolic and refers to loved ones moving on. Maybe I'm wrong.

[@TheAlps36]

Those that really love you will never forget you

[@deejkeithanmusic]

I hope everyone finds some version of happiness.

[@Oziot]

thank you, my friend. I appreciate you. ❤

[@TenThumbsProductions]

It’s like they are talking to every single Blink fan. All these years later and the song is perfect still.

[@TenThumbsProductions]

@@michaelkreibick769 Let me explain what I mean, and we are going to take a deep dive into the song too, I just taught it on Ukulele and I have it learned and ready for a guitar tutorial too, so it is fresh in my mind and I enjoy talking about music. To start, clearly not every fan took thier life, I would have a hard time writing about my opinion about the song if I was dead. That isn't what I meant by every fan relating to it, or feeling like they were singing to each one of us, I simply was referring to being a teenager and feeling sad, lonely, and depressed, and the lyrics of this song just felt like Blink knew were I was coming from, how I felt and like they were singing to me. They sang like they could relate to the way I felt and they sang like they knew how I felt. I know a lot, 10s of thousands of people, listened to this song and felt the exact same way. So now that we have established what I meant by relating to the song, it is time to take a deep dive into the actual song. This is all stuff I learned researching it as I was learning to play it. When I teach a song on my channel, if I have time, I like to research the origin story, I find that by dropping interesting facts about the song through the tutorial it helps resets people's attention span, keeping them engaged in the tutorial longer and making it more likely for them to learn the song. The song isn't about a kid named Adam, in the sense that it isn't just a first person story that a kid name Adam is telling leading up to his suicide. This song is about the loneliness that Mark felt on tour and even more so the feeling that he had as the tour was ending and they were returning home, Tom had a girlfriend, Travis had a girlfriend and Mark was going back to California to pass the time in his room alone as he was the only single person in the badn. He even mentions the tour in the lyrics "The world is wide, the time goes by The tour is over, I've survived" The rough draft of the song even had lyrics saying something like "I couldn't wait to get off the plan to pass the time in my room alone" but they changed it. So, who is Adam? Adam is nobody, the title of song was inspired by a sketch from Mr. Show. My personal interpretation. I always so it as a song of hope. The person in the song talks about suicide but never actually says he killed himself. There is no part where he say this is it, or time to kill myself, and that lack of resolution always made me feel like Adam worked it out, he felt blue, thought about suicide, but gave it time and life got a little easier and he felt a little happier, then it continued to get easier and he continued to get happier. Mark echoed that sentiment after a fan killed himself from Columbine with the song on repeat. A year after the shooting as survivor took his own life. In the tragedy he lost his best friend. When Mark heard the news he said "I was actually out shopping, and management called me up and told me the story of what happened, and I was like, 'But that's an anti-suicide song!' It felt awful. I mean, the things that the kid had had to go through in his life were very saddening, and then to end it that way was really depressing. But 'Adam's Song', the heart of the song is about having hard times in your life, being depressed, and going through a difficult period, but then finding the strength to go on and finding a better place at the other side of that." So, there you have it. My two cents on this amazing song and what I meant by first short comment. I love music, I love talking about it, I love playing it. Like I said we just taught this on Ukulele and we will be playing it on guitar either next week or the week after if you play either and want to learn. Great band, great song, great album. Take care dude and have a great day. I may have misinterpreted what your comment was and what you were saying too, but it is all good because we get to talk about music, something I really love to do. Strum on man!

[@lewismcmanus8848]

Because we lived to hear it and understand a time and place in our hearts of an epic band:)

[@grandmastercorruptor6483]

This song is about masturbation. Its not a card or note to their fans.

[@stephaniegreen59]

@@grandmastercorruptor6483 no it’s not. Mark has said several times it’s about feeling lonely on tour as well as finding out someone in their area committed suicide.

[@stephaniegreen59]

I think it’s perfect for what’s going on right now. We’re all going through one of the toughest times in our lives, things feel hopeless, like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel. A lot of us are pretending to be strong.

[@jazmynkeup9962]

"16 just held such better days".. Hits home so well.

[@darrenjones2687]

Jazmyn Keup ngl 16 was such a shitty age for me lots happened and I can’t redo any of it

[@jasoncolvin7849]

16 was pretty cool, I mean we all dreamed we were going to take the world by storm.... and that didn't happen.... but at 37, at least I've weathered the storms

[@thischarmingman2990]

So well 🙁

[@gypsy-nr9zd]

Exactly. Yet I was also depressed when I was 16. I’m 19 now and I had 3 suicide attempts. These kind of songs help me thru it all

[@UnicornsEverlasting]

Right as i saw this they said that

[@TheFutureofthePlanet]

Sometimes we come back here because we lost an Adam and sometimes we come back because we are fighting to not become an Adam. Either way we are all still here and I love you all for that.

[@cowboyjesus6349]

Such a beautiful comment

[@headfirsst4halos]

this is so beautiful and poetic, it’s making me cry

[@Demothean]

So poetic and beautiful.

[@Jake-hl6ql]

I love you continue your fight

[@nsrlegaltech]

Indeed this song connects with us but as the years carry on we find out the past shouldn’t define our future. 🖤👍

[@pokerfacevinny]

My childhood best friend took his life about a year ago. Blink was his favorite band. Can't hear this song without crying now. To anyone that's struggling, you're not alone, you're not a burden, you are worth it, please reach out, the pain of losing someone knowing you could have done something if you'd known, is worse then the pain of the struggle. Its a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Yes it sucks right now. Be your own advocate, be the change your seek, maybe you don't know where to start, well here's a start, when you wake up, get up, literally open the shades and let the light in instead of sitting in the dark. Eat some food, go to bed early, start exercising, pray and unload your mind. These are little things that go a long way, and most important, if it's to much, reach out and keeping reaching out until you talk to someone.

[@PlurLogic]

❤❤❤❤ Thank uuu!! ❤❤❤

[@boneduzt]

"Please tell mom this is not her fault" I don't know exactly how many times this line kept me from ending it all

[@diegomelendez5441]

I think the same 😢

[@ProfOslo]

I'm glad you're still here

[@AI0LOS]

Same for me😢

[@jesseredwards]

I started to have suicidal thoughts a few years ago, but the pain it would have caused my mother kept me going. She's since passed away, but it's ok. I'm in a much better place now thanks to antidepressants.

[@simone311]

⁠stay afloat buddy. Keep being strong. I'm sending you a virtual hug.

[@punktastic5952]

"16 just held such better days, days when I still felt alive" Right in the feels

[@ArcticWind717]

hits especially hard when youre depressed at 16

[@lonewolf3902]

I tried to commit suicide when I was 16 so that line hit's deep

[@JackSimsen]

Nirvana - Come as you are "Take your time Hurry up The choice is yours, don't be late" Blink-182 - Adam's Song "I took my time I hurried up The choice was mine i didn't think enough"

[@abyzzwalker]

Jack Simsen It blew my mind.

[@talalabdalraheem1345]

Jack Simsen "I came, I saw, I conquered!" Julius Caesar"I never conquered rarely came" Blink-182

[@NegativeScythe]

Just thought about that yesterday

[@xXLOADEDdiaper]

Talal Abdulraheim i noticed that too years after they released this song and the Nirvana reference was a give-me

[@whippybox9271]

Lorenzo Munoz *two

[@metal.and.things7229]

As someone who listened to this as a kid, and who’s stood at the 30th story window thinking about how easy “it” would be, I’m glad I’m here to listen to this again and I’m glad you are too. Whoever you are out there, I love you.

[@sepp3152]

Safe to say …We love you too!

[@stevieb89]

been there... much love my friend

[@PauloAlexoliveira]

Hang in there brother don't ever give up or give in.

[@Lizabitch]

Radiator fluid

[@thebikedudeful]

I'm glad your here too 🖤💜

[@thewhat8329]

The comment section becoming a huge support group is the most wholesome thing I've seen on YT

[@samuelmcdermott4359]

Amen

[@MGladkeyPhotography]

Hear hear.. Some comments though, they really get you thinking, huh..

[@truckbros35]

Support group for what lol

[@sean492]

@@truckbros35 This is a song about suicide. Take a wild guess.

[@SongsforSpace]

Gheyyy

[@cesar_rojasbravo]

Today I listened to Adam's Song for the first time in 15 years ... I started crying. It's really crazy how different it hits when you're in your 30s.

[@mitchellcampbell9242]

37 years old and going through some heavy shit. This popped in my head. I haven’t listened to it in more than 20 years.

[@gabrielmendoza1551]

Same here. The last time I listened to this song was 3 years ago. This song really hits me hard. I just straight up cried at the start of the song

[@Run_IT_Riddler]

Unbelievably the truth. You don’t only simply relate you feel it. I miss my younger self so much.

[@kristianwoods4198]

This song saved me .. Iam 45yrs young now … one of the deepest songs in my life

[@D0NU75]

this year i get to be 36. i could have not.

[@BasedGarlicMan]

"please tell mom this is not her fault" that shit fucking hurts my soul

[@margarethogan5592]

+MrTurdinater Tell me about it.

[@chriswynne101]

+MrTurdinater always the line that hits the hardest and the only reason a 37 old burly dude like myself loves this song. Has a lot of meaning to me.

[@brandonmaddox4862]

When I was at my lowest and wanted to commit suicide that lyric always played in my head because I knew if I did it my mom would blame herself when in reality it wasn't her fault

[@ra1dernat1on34]

+Brandon Maddox i completely understand. that's some deep shit

[@kristinaheroy5547]

the same part gets me every time

[@Love2Musgrave]

Idk where i'd be without music man

[@andreamuir1959]

Same.....it always gets me through

[@jonkmaster10]

I just noticed something: in Nirvana’s Come as you were, he sings “take your time, hurry up, the choice is yours, don’t be late”, and in this song, blink 182 sings “I took my time, I hurried up, the choice was mine, I didn’t think enough”

[@NickkHD]

Yeah..

[@diylobotomy13]

Yeah....

[@diylobotomy13]

That's not an accident :(

[@90sdude37]

Holy shit 👀❤️

[@damonnlakes]

yep... that's on purpose unfortunately

[@JJheadcharge]

"Remember the time I spilled the cup of apple juice in the hall?" Seems like such a random, throw away line, but it's probably the one that hits the hardest. For anyone that's been through depression and suicidal ideation, those are the trivial things you think about, that eat you alive inside.

[@arabia73]

That is so insightful, I never thought of it like this. It really is the little things for others that completely tears you apart when you suffer from depression. It is so hard to explain to others that you have an illness and that the feelings you have a very real even though they can't comprehend an injury that isn't visible.

[@ashleymacinnon9442]

Did Adam take his own life or not guys never found out the answer to that yet

[@washbrighthouseholdsphil]

yeah....

[@kidrenegade8525]

He’s talking about spilling apple juice when his mother and father found him easedropping about their divorce

[@iamkabukii]

That line it's more of a metaphor

[@RobertIDK]

Blink-182 had absolutely no chill putting this song right before All The Small Things

[@untitled568]

Those songs are night and day

[@Trohawkk]

yup. adam song slowed is fucking heavy

[@creativechau]

it's very blink actually. Just forget about the pain and let's party!

[@roonilwazlib3089]

Life’s shyt.. own it and sing ✌🏻

[@pickingacoustic4460]

True

[@effinsweet4298]

When I came across this song, I couldn't believe my eyes! My sons name is Adam who passed away from sudicide at the age of 16. It took me a minute to listen to it, but when I did, It too me back. No parent should have to bare of losing a child. EVER. Adam's Mom. Rest In Peace Adam Joseph. My heavely Angel.

[@ylacprovido3782]

my condolences

[@swift1y]

Much love.

[@Bobby-Belcher]

Effin Sweet Much love to you and your family my friend. I hope you find peace.

[@effinsweet4298]

@@Bobby-Belcher Thank you kind Sir.

[@effinsweet4298]

@@zorphisbroke4863 Thank you so much.

[@dsg1544]

Reading all these comments is like sitting in a big room full of people who don’t know each other, but understand they’re and problems and feelings

[@pahrulafrizal7046]

Im just going to type this here, and i have 2 little brothers 13 and 8 years old, my father grown weak after my mom passed away 4 years ago, so i kinda short of the breadwinner at my home, after i lost my job recently, im thinking a lot what am i gonna do from now, without a bachelor degree in my country it seems hard to find another job to feed my family, i even wonders sometimes about the times i fucked up my own future, and ashamed of it, im thinking of hanging myself quite sometimes but when i see my little brother i kept thinking awhile, who's gonna take care of them when im gone, so im planning to keep struggling with this life, until my brothers can support themselves,i just cant talk to anyone about this around my friends or my gf, i just kept smiling and pretend it was okay, idk i just feel like writing here, so hope you guys wont get annoyed by this

[@LemperAyam879]

*their

[@aaronmariscal4203]

@@pahrulafrizal7046 This world is pain for most people, and it's not meant to be the place where we finally find peace and happiness. The comforts of the world can make us think we're happy for a while, and distract us from the truth. The truth is Jesus, no lie. He will show you why the world is the way it is, and what the point of your life is. Don't go to a church, don't even start by reading the Bible. No, just ask Jesus to talk to you, and be willing to hear what He has to say to you. Talk with Him regularly, trust what He says, and your existence will be transformed. You will finally have true hope for the future.

[@Dogiestyles]

Yess well.said tou feel us xoxox

[@anonymousperson3023]

Reading these comments just makes me realize how many people are starved for attention

[@saranshshrestha2233]

“At some point in your childhood, you and your friends hung out together for the last time and nobody knew it" is more true now than ever

[@stevenarevalo3132]

True indeed

[@devilsoffspring5519]

I actually saw my best friend Jennifer strangled to death right in front of me by her mother's boyfriend. He did it right on the front lawn of the little house we lived in back in my hometown in Quebec (Canada.) Only a few minutes before we had been talking about the music we loved, she played bass guitar for me. RIP sweetie. I never met anyone like her ever again, just shallow broads that wanted to marry money or cared about nothing but when a guy wears.

[@CornDogAnimations]

@@devilsoffspring5519 what happened to the guy? Did legal action get involved? ( I know that’s a dumb question because it probably did I just wanna know what happened)

[@sebastienroy5857]

@@devilsoffspring5519 Probably heard of that story at the time I guess, i'm 40 and I grew 30 minutes from Montreal. Hope you're doing okay

[@devilsoffspring5519]

@@CornDogAnimations It took ~15 years to put the guy away for it. He was well-connected in the police and did "favors" for them (stalking/assault/torture.) So, he was well-protected.

[@notleykyle]

I am 34, I fell in love with Blink 182 when I was 11. They really meant allot to me!!

[@vauboy]

Now Adam will live forever :'3

[@marcusmatcham]

Amen :D

[@syncopoly]

except that he's already dead inside.

[@JoshWeimerjweimer77]

love this song!!

[@AngelBo3]

I just returned from these folks show and guess what? They were totally remarkable! *watch?v=ywhvj7UaDHo* In some cases it's tricky to find a correct word, maybe remarkable? KZbin the video and experience a fun time!!

[@dorkclock]

Angel Bo If your linked worked maybe...

[@NekoHibaCosplay]

I was 13 when this song came out. Today I'm 33 and I survived. Thank you Blink, I owe you one. EDIT: I want to say that I didn't expected for my comment to draw such attention, thank you all for your kind words, It's 2022, I'm almost 36 and I'm still here, be strong everyone. 2023 update: here we are again, alive and kicking 👍 2024 update: despite everything, on the edge of the 38th, I'm still here and I hope you are doing well too.

[@PatchiPatchu]

That guy from Aggretsuko I don’t know you but I’m proud of you

[@gamma21285]

I was 14 and agree with you 100%

[@patriciaoliveira3439]

31, still surviving

[@somebodysomeone3964]

I'm 33, too. It helped back then. I survived, though, sometimes I wonder why.

[@JV-um3ns]

Me too 💪🏻

[@TidesofWarHighlights]

rip Justin. Me and my younger friend played this song in elementary school, I was on guitar and he was on drums back when we were skater punks. He got into drugs and gangs, and we started to drift apart, and after 1 silly argument over nothing, we stopped talking for 12 years after being best friends for 3 years. I just found out from a mutual friend he was found murdered in a targeted gang killing. It was confirmed on the local news. Never hold grudges over silly things with the people you love. Life is too short and memories are all we really have at the end of the day. He was my best friend and the nicest happiest most giving guy I've ever met, especially for a young age. Rip bro I love you. Thanks for the memories..

[@AD-yi3qz]

Sorry for your loss. And such great advice.

[@yeagm6586]

your coment are insane+Insane

[@jonathanlakey6764]

I had a best friend named Jestin. We were friends for 18 years. He had a similar story, not gangs, but drugs and partying. He was killed in a car accident driving home drunk to see his newborn daughter 8 months ago.

[@oldmandomi712]

this made me feel harder than the fucking song

[@DDG2023]

Almost exactly the same story with me... ten years went by... RIP Kuvesh - Sorry I wasn't there to listen when you needed - I'm listening now.

[@juninho0233]

This really saved my life in 2023. I've lost my grandpa and my grandma 4 months after that, also had an argue with mom and wasn't talking with her, at college I was going through a real struggle with my grades. This was my 2023 theme song LOL, tnks Blink

[@lucianaaguilar341]

my older brother who died in a car crash at 17 played me this song when he would take me to school, i think of this song everyday.

[@mr.albro14yearsago11]

RIP

[@snowydcg3601]

R.i.p 🙏

[@fl0wergutz]

💔

[@miguelasensio9705]

rip bro

[@Casedilla73]

Im sorry

[@corndogmaster9858]

this is one of the saddest songs i know of, and also the one that makes me feel the better when i'm sad

[@Fraktallity]

Some say by Sum 41 is a brilliant song quite similar to this one.

[@corndogmaster9858]

i should look it up

[@apheniti]

Fraktallity - Fifa 15 Content try Crash - Sum41

[@duckedoff9336]

marie torres Yes totally right

[@KLEEVAGE]

marie torres try fade to black by metallica or tout le monde by megadeth

[@racermigs1]

I too miss the days when I still felt alive.

[@marcusxsamano288]

J.M. Mencias hey man you’re not alone

[@himynameisrenz_8206]

J.M. Mencias relatable

[@paul_8597]

Somebody has got you man you're not alone

[@thiagothief4314]

Same, bro, same.

[@misfitfhg2411]

:(

[@kailadellapenna1594]

33 now and the line "16 just held such better days" hits hard....everyone I loved from back then is basically gone...I miss them all badly, but when I hear Blink I feel like they are all here sitting with me again. bored kids, miserable at the world with nothing and everything to do...if we only knew...

[@beezybeez4207]

Chyaaaa! This is so good but you have to hear “Cage” or “City” by SLT 🔥🤘🌇🤘🔥

[@adamszenay3708]

As someone named Adam who battles depression every day, this song talks to me deeply. I want to get "Tomorrow Holds Such Better Days" tattooed on my arm so I can look at it during the dark days. Thank you for releasing this song. It helps so many people from unaliving themselves

[@jeffreya8329]

Why so much depression brother? I’m here to talk if you want to, I’m all ears buddy 😃

[@brianashepard8829]

❤️ hope you’re doing well.

[@martin8401]

Get it. I’ll send you a Venmo to help cover it if you need

[@susankarls3241]

❣️

[@Vozkal]

i feel you man, when i was 18 i got " Life goes on " Tattooed on my under right arm for those reasons. Hope the best for you going forward.

[@finniemac3334]

Man I miss being a kid and not knowing the meaning of these songs but just jamming out instead

[@lilunknown1163]

Finnie Mac was thinking exactly the same good old days 😢

[@tadiwright8749]

Yeah, I’m fourteen and I’ve been listening to this song my entire life, and I never understood it until a couple years ago.

[@hesnapple1809]

Wait till ur 17-18

[@xianbc]

Kinda miss the days when I didn't know the meaning.

[@farmsalot1233]

Hesn Apple na wait till your 36 thinking damn my teen years was awesome.

[@Vaalka]

When I listened to this song, I didn't think I'd make it past 17. I'm 27 now, sober, & getting my Bachelors Degree. It took a long time to get here. 🖤

[@iokiewall5201]

I feel that I’m 28 I’m a badass wildland firefighter sober for a minute now but it’s a fight everyday stay strong. You ain’t never alone.💪💯

[@ratflail215]

Keep rocking on at your own pace. It's your life. Don't let anyone judge you.

[@ArmchairAuthorities]

Same buddy ❤ I was 16 when I started listening and didn’t plan on making it to 17. Now Im, 28 and going to graduate with honors. It’s been a long road

[@sleepyproduction7166]

I thought the same, now I’ve got some kids to raise right. It melts my mind how many bad parents there are. Like most of us didn’t have dads, came from broken homes, mental health being ignored, and drug addiction. Why aren’t they breaking the cycles and being loving parents? My kids will not feel what I felt, and my addiction and depression will be an example that no matter what, things can always get better. And it makes me happy to see there’s more people who also rose above.

[@Vaalka]

@@sleepyproduction7166 It's crazy how we've all seemed to come to the same conclusions about our situations growing up. Now I highly advocate for parents to learn how to identify anxiety, depression, and other mental disorders regardless of how young their children are. I think, If my mom understood I was exhibiting anxiety (at 12yrsold) & depression (at 13 yrsold), & understood the lasting impact it could have on me if it went untreated, maybe she could have gotten me help early. Maybe she wouldn't have been as cruel. Then the severity of my depression and anxiety (I finally got diagnosed and prescribed medication at 21yrsold) wouldn't have been so bad and took me down a very, very, dark road.

[@ptenerelli1987]

Crazy how much different a song hits from when you heard it as a child compared to as an adult. Kind of eerie. I remember loving this song because of the sound, now I'm sitting here reflecting on my life listening to it. Crazy.

[@labamfl8994]

I'm crying listening to it

[@Allanjoel018]

It got played on the radio a lot when I was younger. I absolutely loved it. It sounded really catchy. I only got to understand it when it came on my cue by chance. It was during a period of sorrow and depression. In that instant I suddenly understood what the song meant. I could really process how I felt because the lyrics gave my emotions meaning. The ending of the song is also so reassuring. It always brought a sense of calm.

[@ozzy5160]

When I got diagnosed with anxiety I started listening to this song from a different point of view. It became one of my favorite songs ever.

[@MrJaymac87]

totally! this is my first time listening to this song in honestly 18 years lol. im 35 and i never really listened to lyrics as a young teen listening to this on my discman haha . but ya as an adult who has struggled with depression this song hits different now

[@hectore.zarraga7605]

makes me appreciate even more the time I have now. Live in the moment.

[@vermilliongecko]

I discovered this song at the age of 51. It's a song with a universal, timeless relevance. No matter what era you were born in, you often feel like your best days are long behind you and that there's little point in carrying on, to the point of feeling suicidal. If you're feeling like this as you're reading this, just know that there are thousands, if not millions of people who have felt the same way that you do now. Life can get better, but if you end it now, you wipe out that possibility. The worst case scenario is not the only possible outcome.

[@cristobalrivas3399]

This song is like take a coffee and read a page of a ramdon day in your life.

[@roastbeef4918]

Thanks for your advice, man. I wish the young ones knew what it took for guys like you to make it this far.

[@Neonrena]

Thanks man. I’m feeling this way currently what you wrote made me cry happy tears.

[@ST19859]

Im 47 and this song has been on my list of favorite tracks almost 25 years now, you are so spot on, it hits just as hard now as it did then a real timeless piece, stoked you were able to find it and find meaning in it

[@mckennacornelius6751]

Thank you…sincerely…I’ll try to hang in there…for my kids. But it’s a thin, easily broken thread, so…i wish myself the best of luck then…

[@brandonmaddox4862]

I can't count how many times this song got me through some of the hardest times in my life

[@wastedlife3486]

Same here

[@dkdakty]

Igual aquí. Just Keep it up Brandon

[@filibertovera4923]

What are you..9?

[@kyleighfos-v3x]

+Brandon Maddox Getting me through some hard times right now man, I always come back to the classics. I love being a 90's kid!!!

[@kferrari81]

+Brandon Maddox same here :) its still helping right now

[@DMB-tg5hg]

Hearing all of your guys' stories lets me know that i am not alone. Ive struggled with these bad thoughts for years and ive always felt much shame. I don't want to disappoint my friends and family who see me in a better light than i do. There's a few lines in this song that strikes many emotional cords for me but the last chorus I feel offers a little hope to the hopeless. Please make sure you love yourself. Its very important to do. Its hard to live with love if you cannot love yourself. And if you need someone, luke is here for you.

[@migukaje]

Owe you guys a lot. This song changed everything. How you understood us back then is a mystery

[@sl4ppy59]

"how you understood us back then is a mystery" bro noone could have said that better!love you all,live your life to the maximum!

[@mattzambrowicz5420]

They understood us because they were there before us. Until this era, this kinda stuff wasn’t often talked about at all. Let alone in music. They definitely saved me a couple times. Go for a drive and jam the fuck out

[@migukaje]

Thank you to the comments. These lyrics spoke to a lot of us back then

[@VincentBalmont]

because they were us

[@TonyStark-nw1ll]

😒

[@YouNeedToHearThis]

This song was so controversial when it came out. It was blamed for suicides because people played it when ending their life. It was all over media for a while, much like how Marilyn Manson was used a scapegoat for Columbine. In reality, it was probably the last comfort people felt before the eternal darkness enveloped them. To blame someone's suicide on a song is to ignore everything that led them up to that decision.

[@ILoveCanada0]

Important comment

[@eldarkness]

Well said

[@jacobrose837]

Couldn’t have said it better myself.

[@fslayer1290]

Well said.

[@russelllapua4904]

People like to blame something else to cover their own failures, push their agendas or for control. We saw it with gaming too.

[@vashisl33t]

Now at 35 this lyric hits me the hardest. "Sixteen just held such better days Days when I still felt alive"

[@rmac3217]

We couldn’t wait to go outside is very relatable.

[@roguespearsf]

Quit feeling sorry for yourself, I'm 36. You got to enjoy the good times and people like you made this world shit

[@anfeariontach]

Hang on buddy

[@mitchellcampbell9242]

Just came back to this song at 37 and thought the same thing while listening

[@-Dwight-Schrute]

35 too... keep your chin up

[@eliteteamkiller319]

This is such a masterpiece.

[@thedeans9506]

Man ...I’m 33 now ...and Blink still lives on with me. 🤟🏽 I survived

[@alexeypavo1519]

32 here and I still feel like I'm 16 inside when listening to this.

[@diogogarciaalmeida7602]

i´m 34 and i was on youtube making a new playlist from 90´s songs that i liked... this showed up in the list on the right. Been here for almost an hour!

[@louc3268]

33 years old now and still listen to Blink. 🤘

[@joethewelderman]

Hell ya! Same here!

[@GTiR23]

I got 4 years on you buddy, still going strong

[@Kat-cd6dv]

Take your time, hurry up Choice is yours -Nirvana (1991) I took my time, I hurried up The choice was mine I didn't think enough - Blink-182 (1999)

[@zee6786]

Woah

[@dormanthegr88]

I'm sure they were devastated by Kurt Cobain's suicide in 1994. These lyrics, in a song about depression and suicide, pay respect to him.

[@noneoftheeabove8514]

@@dormanthegr88 Kurt did not kill himself, he was obviously murdered.

[@s.bakyhnh1756]

@@noneoftheeabove8514 No.

[@eltoasted]

i think nirvana listened to killing joke, specifically the song called eighties :D

[@ohdannyboy6801]

These guys were the big brothers I never had growing up

[@djordjemarinkovic]

same here

[@lundbeatz]

I never thought I’d die alone

[@666blahblahblah]

My mom is the only reason I'm still alive. "please tell mom this is not her fault" kills me

[@alexandre588]

+Julia It doesn't actually kill you. On the contrary, it keeps you alive.

[@barfkat05]

+koopinator true, dats deep. It's taken as motivation for julia instead of a penalty. As for julia, it gets better. And every time you think about ending it, think about your mother... And keep that for motivation to keep you alive and with us.

[@runo35k]

based on your comment I can tell that you're very jong and still have a long life ahead of you. I can promise you one thing, it'll get better and trust me there are more people on this world that love you then just your mother

[@carfaceus]

+runo35k what a perfect thing to have said

[@666blahblahblah]

thanks everyone. I still think about it from time to time, but I can't do that to her or my dad. so living it is

[@Madisonville888]

25 ..this song will always be special to me comin up as a teen when it came out a teen who had a hard time fittin in and battled severe depression thank u father for bringin me this far

[@a_forest_lullaby7356]

My dads name was Adam and he took his life back in may . this song fits him. He thought he was a failure . He loved going outside and me spent alot of time in his room alone. As with everyone who takes there own life i never thought he would and he really did laugh the loudest.He was a loveable guy. This is Adams song.

[@sarahhaskins7390]

Rip to your pop ❤

[@drakewaffles2952]

So sorry for your loss buddy!!

[@theyreoutthere.huntinggear]

Rip to Our Adam's. Lost my cousin Adam last year.

[@a_forest_lullaby7356]

@@theyreoutthere.huntinggear Im sorry for your loss.

[@theyreoutthere.huntinggear]

@@a_forest_lullaby7356 thank you for the condolences, same about your pops.

[@ralpherl5657]

I had an endless supply of haters and shit-talkers when I was younger, most were my "friends" and even my own parents. I listened to this song so much, it really spoke to me. I stayed focused and stayed in school. I'm now a doctor and have a good life. This song takes me back to those days but I think of victory and triumph instead of isolation and sadness.

[@heatherg1296]

Ralphie Leonard That's such an inspirational story. Thank you so much for sharing. ❤❤

[@kostas919]

Those haters made you stronger,a badass my friend!!!So be happy they existed

[@aaronmyers2382]

Being a doctor is ok, but i'd be bored shitless doing that shit. and the 8 years of study, lol, no thanks.

[@soulreaper3568]

Ralphie Leonard Thanks for inspiring us :)

[@dankerbullet]

thx for opening my eyes that's some inspirational stuff right there I hole you do well in life

[@seanwan420]

“Please tell mom this is not her fault” Such a cutting, tough line for me but so relatable. I never had a mom growing up. She got hit by drunk driver. So it was my dad who raised me my whole life and there were times where I didn’t want to live in this world. These guys, Green Day, and Lincoln park all helped me get through it. I remember that one line specifically hitting me because I could never do that to my dad and make him feel like he was a failure or like it was his fault because he’s greatest pops ever. Now I’m 31, came to terms with my moms death and have my own 8 year old son. Life is good. Peace and love to everyone out there and thank you Blink-182! ☮️

[@beezybeez4207]

Chyaaaa! This is so good but you have to hear “Cage” or “City” by SLT 🔥🤘🌇🤘🔥

[@dx345s7]

Mark Hoppus just announced that he has cancer. He’s saved so many lives with this song let’s all keep his life in our thoughts😞❤️

[@gabrieladdison]

🙁

[@duncanlovesscifi360]

I’m hoping for a speedy recovery. We all owe it to him for making amazing music!!

[@1mghd2]

Rest in Peace Mark 😢

[@rilo7167]

@@1mghd2 He’s not dead

[@NoudlePipW]

He'll be fine. I won't hear otherwise.

[@yoavgro3]

To everybody listening to this and hurting - life can change for the better for each of us. I was once on the edge too, and survived somehow. We are never alone and we can all find someone to love and be loved. And that's worth living.

[@WarthogDemon]

I've been having on and off depression for the past few weeks and just came to this song. I don't even remember what caused me to remember it but I just felt like going to this video and watch/listen. I feel much better now, probably better than I've felt all month. I'm sure I can beat this.

[@yoavgro3]

Happy to hear that. I'm sure too. Be strong, friend.

[@WarthogDemon]

You too.

[@notleykyle]

Hey man i love Blink 182, when I was 16 I had a motorbike accident in a coma for 12 days came out of the coma just before Christmas. Life changed allot for me and my family!

[@MrBeck126]

I lost my younger brother Adam to suicide last year. This song is terribly sad, but also reminds me of what a great brother he was. It’s now one of my favorite songs.

[@brandonmaddox4862]

All the love to you brother

[@SalveASMR]

I hope you get through the all the sorrowful moments...

[@joseochoa4152]

Send you a hug and the best vibes brother

[@yarlettealvarez6003]

Hugs from tijuana mexico my friend

[@brelv23]

so sorry for your loss

[@DDS_2007]

I didnt want this song to be relatable once again, but Life Is life

[@philkleinman7002]

A childhood friend of mine took his life many, many years ago when we were in our 20's. To this day I still wonder if there was something more I could have done for him, today I'm 61.

[@ohnozelly6709]

I’m sorry for your loss Phil

[@christianalexander4010]

Your a good man phil

[@dopeybear420]

Sorry bro but probably not

[@SAPPERJASON1]

probably not when i was 14 my best friend took his own life after his girlfriend was accidently shot in the head and died at a party. my brother found him hanging from a tree at a spot we all hung out at all the time. we stayed with him everyday for two weeks to stop this from happining but we faild or he would be here today. then i think now he had his mind made up and nothing we did was going to strop it from happining. i think about him and his girlfriend every day and that was 30 plus years ago.

[@Steven-tt6yp]

Phil and sapperjason... I'm sorry to here about your losses... that's sad af... 😟

[@MelyLuvssU]

My brother tried to commit suicide this past Monday, and the line: “please tell mom, this is not her fault” hit me so hard. My mother also tried to commit suicide back when I was 16. I witnessed her attempt and saved her life. I’m 25 now and this song will always have a great impact on me every time I listen to it. I just wanted to let everyone know, reach out to each other during these hard times. Just having at least one person to talk to can make such a difference. Please know, you are never alone and someone will always care.

[@eccentriceli3541]

Liar.

[@haileyclien6473]

thank you

[@MelyLuvssU]

DIGITALBEATBOX X why would I lie about something so tragic like this. You are a lost soul and I hope you find happiness one day.

[@MelyLuvssU]

hailey clien welcome! :)

[@stephenmier7277]

Thank you.

[@youknowwhat5008]

This whole song is touching, but "Please tell mom this is not her fault" and the little guitar bit that follows it hits me so incredibly hard I can't explain it.

[@srami004]

You and me both.

[@nickacelvn]

Me Too

[@Trickstah369]

That's the only reason stopping me to commit suicide

[@jonatasherpich9108]

cus maybe you felt like that

[@mrs.vhedlund2684]

My reason are my brothers. Specially the middle one who's almost 18. Our parents took as apart for ages (I'm 25) our life story is very hard and awful and for ages haven't talked to them. And after a Suicide attempt knowing that he needs me and is so close to me even we've been ages without speaking... Just makes me stop.

[@wamrainc176]

The amount of nostalgia that I get from listening to this song and watching the video as well as the I Miss You music video it brings ton of memories back oh man, the day when I was truly happy

[@Ryan_Haydon84]

Virtual hugs to all of you going through depression. NEVER give up.

[@trinityadams5417]

Ryan Haydon thanks I need one

[@jasperhaunt5115]

Thanks man :)

[@Belkan2087]

True! I struggled 15 years.. but I won!

[@MichaelLee-fu6yt]

Thanks love

[@michaelrogottie9197]

@@Belkan2087 Named one of my dogs Zeke. One of my best.

[@TheNitepanda2]

My blood cousin died a little bit before this song came out and we all used to skate and listen to blink and his name was Adam "I miss you" and "Adams song" are damn near sacred to us now.

[@Sergio0hf]

nitepanda209 Tipton that sucks man... I hope he didn't take his own life :/

[@TheNitepanda2]

Sergio0hf he drowned

[@duncansmith8687]

nitepanda209 Tipton How and why?

[@neptalisurima3708]

nitepanda209 Tipton cool story bro

[@joshhouston3443]

“I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy. Because they know what it’s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don’t want anybody else to feel like that.”- Robin Williams

[@mariahconklin9345]

My boyfriends friend was like that always seemed happy then on christmas eve he killed himself. I have to go to the funeral when I to am depressed. I dont even know the guy and somehow it just really hurts a lot. I go between why could no one save him to just getting really angry then I have to deal with all my pain. I'm not ready for this shit.

[@J-Bizzle007]

Sorry to hear that. Stay strong. I know it is hard. Thank you for sharing that. It took a lot to share.🎧❤️🎯

[@dubya724]

Agreed. Makes me think of how tragic many comedians lives are. All the while they put on a smile and make us laugh they are crying and hurting on the inside. Jim Carrey, Robin Williams, Richard Pryor, Chris Farley, Dave Chapelle, Martin Lawrence.

[@BOG0690]

I liked Robin Williams

[@joebenson528]

People always ask why I tip so much (35% to waiters cab drivers, barbers etc). Robin Williams pretty much summed it up. Long story short I had my business demolished by Hezbollah (whom American Leftists support over Israel and Sunni Muslims), was evicted from my home and forced to flee to NYC where I was homeless for 5 years.

[@AlfieTubridy]

Thanks blink for everything This was the first ever punk/rock song I heard when I was about 5 years old, to this day it’s my favourite and it has so much meaning behind it, it also reminds me of the poor kid who committed suicide from the shooting and had this song playing on repeat, R.I.P to that poor kid.

[@mills696]

This song reminds of my friend Adam, who took his own life on 4/7/15. It really is Adams song.

[@ilse1126]

R.I.P sorry for your loss

[@Premetheus]

My name is Adam too and unfortunately I'm depressed and suicidal... but I'm working to change it. I've lost people to suicide.. I know the feeling. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@mills696]

+Premetheus hang in there bud, me too.

[@Premetheus]

I'll do my best. I hope we can all survive.

[@karenpriscilaaguilar4480]

+Premetheus Always remember you are an amazing person, i admire you (y)

[@cdr861532]

"I can't wait, til i get home.....to pass the time in my room alone" That hits me really hard. I've battled depression and anxiety since my mom died when i was 14, and I can remember rushing out of school, family gatherings, sporting events, whatever.......just to get away from everything. All the noise......all the people.....all the struggle to put on a show for everyone so they wouldn't ask me if i was "ok". Just so i could get to my room and sit there, staring at the walls. It was weird....I didn't want to be anywhere and yet I didn't want to be in my room either.....it was just the place where I could be me and be left alone.

[@MrTexaszx2]

I don't think it could've been put much better than this. Idk you but you know what, stay up and I hope you're doing OK right now.

[@6londin]

Hope you're doing better

[@cdr861532]

I appreciate you guys. While it doesn't seem like that long ago, that was almost 20 years ago. While the later teenage years were rough, the earlier years of my life was absolutely wonderful, so i choose to recall those memories more. Honestly though, without music, I'm not sure I would have made it.....and i believe that there are thousands of people out there like me. So thanks again to you guys!!! I appreciate ya!

[@davidmuller6783]

pls learn/ read spiritual Books, it helps a lot ;)) Meditation too love youu

[@extracrispy3564]

This sums up how I feel everyday hope your doing well now man

[@OMeuCanaldeGames]

I never thought listening to this song almost 20 years later...

[@geovanesouza3517]

BR?

[@wolly2652]

+SkateRat182 Vim pq pesquisei sobre columbine e um sobrevivente do massacre se matou ouvindo essa musica 😃

[@alexandrealexandre5996]

+Wolly intoxic me lembro da noticia desse cara que se matou ouvindo adams song

[@hessu8684]

Why not? Usually people listen the songs which has been so nice since about youngster and young, first relationships and that all joy and fun.

[@sophie-ho2br]

+Hentai Dad uhh anime i love but hentai is rude

[@Jordanhutchens1]

This song has added another 21 years to life so far, Blink-182 and a few others spoke exactly what I was feeling and for a tortured little girl it was nice to know someone understood.

[@carljeranek5190]

Glad you are still here!

[@Jordanhutchens1]

@carljeranek5190 I appreciate that more than you know!

[@carljeranek5190]

@@Jordanhutchens1 keep fighting and keep looking for positive influences in your life!

[@Jordanhutchens1]

@carljeranek5190 oh absolutely, my 2 kiddos are my main reasons but honestly life did get better for me. I left my toxic childhood home at 16,got sober at 28 and things have been great ever since

[@carljeranek5190]

@Jordanhutchens1 congrats! Proud of you! On multiple levels. Keep telling your life because you are helping and saving others by talking about it!

[@jondellapenna9789]

Medic here, well former medic now. I have had 2 suicide calls where this song was left playing on repeat. I find it hard to listen to this song when I’m feeling on top of the world, but when times are hard and sometimes when you feel like you’re not worth shit I will still listen to it.

[@emanuelev11]

Damn

[@evanlightner]

Jeez. Thats so deep.

[@teresawadman2600]

I am so sorry

[@MarkITR]

I start tearing up dude this song evokes emotion

[@maddyrodriguez7016]

😢

[@markrichards930]

"Please tell mom this is not her fault" is probably the saddest line from any song I've heard.

[@elenalewis6538]

this was the one line that hits the hardest of any song imo. thank you for this comment

[@thepropagatingfalcon5764]

Yeah it's pretty f'd up. Bury me in analog by mischeif brew is like that too.

[@JesseltonGaming]

Yeah man :')

[@nemonull5935]

@mojo master I think you need to look at the whole verse to get the idea of what that line is about. Up until the apple juice mention the implication is that the person is starting to isolating and possibly will resort to suicide. The apple juice is not of great importance, is rather just another minor mistake him/her did. So, when he say that Mom wasn't at fault for that, it's more like he/she is referring to the outcome of his life. The song was made after Blink 182 received a letter from the parents of a boy who killed himself because he suffered bullying in school and thought his life was of no importance to anyone. I hope that was of help.

[@rodneypurslow5993]

I couldn't even if I wanted to.. she got to the act suicide before I could. Haha.

[@shanetaylor500]

Dude I love how in the last act of this song, the music climbs out of darkness and into hope. The build up and then the slight lyrical change. People say "it's a song about suicide" which I don't think is all the way there. It may be what it's referencing according to Mark who wrote it but I think the song itself, the music specifically, does something quite different. It's a song about _overcoming_ depression, which is a whole different tone. It's not trying to glamorize being depressed or suicidal (like a lot of late 90s/early 00s music culture did) rather, the song concludes in hope and victory over it. It's actually quite beautiful and wonderfully composed.

[@ryanelson3824]

The director for this video is a genius. I love the "old" photo caption aspect. Beautiful video.

[@shenay3323]

Nirvana: Take your time, hurry up, choice is yours don't be late Blink-182 - I took my time, i hurried up, the choice was mine i didn't think enough

[@amariahvalenzuela4710]

wow i never saw the resemblance. thanks!

[@shenay3323]

+amariah Valenzuela no problem :)

[@chloeadams7502]

I was actually just thinking about this a few weeks ago

[@dice1331]

How old are you? lol

[@druggeddragon420]

i thought about this when someone posted about it on instagram a while ago. and i didnt fully understand it till i listened to both songs again (i haven't listened to blink or nirvana in a long time) and then it hit in the most deeply philosophical way ever. To he point where I'm surprised this wasn't named "Kurt's Song"

[@davidandresrojas8733]

“Tomorrow holds such better days, days when I can still feel alive” this line is what gets me going.

[@purumethodmann9]

😢

[@vespervidyaretrogaming]

The subtle shift in tense in the final chorus is the best part of the song, going from past tense to present is very symbolic of overcoming our personal struggles, and learning to live again.

[@sophieh.4097]

yes 😭 it’s so simple but so effective

[@randomguy4781]

that part always makes me sad happy because that part of the song signifies theres still hope

[@selinaogorman8380]

I love that so much ! Happy sad song still love it.

[@nellymendoza5628]

That part is the saddest for me, because it makes me think that the person passed away.😢

[@julianbenabides5974]

I never noticed that! The last verse is in present tense, whereas the rest of the song is in past tense. What a beautiful moment to capture in such a tiny detail.

[@MM3Soapgoblin]

I was battling severe depression when this song came out and used to listen to it all the time. Hit me hard then but it hits me even harder now 20+ yrs later remembering how I felt at the time, thinking it was normal, and seeing the pain I put my family through when I attempted suicide.

[@roo.c3406]

22 years ago this song and this video saved my life. I am still here… Thanks, Blink 182 ❤️

[@ktc3733]

Lmao everyone literally copies someone else's comments

[@denislaf1076]

Good for you my dear friend, happy that you still here with us ! :)

[@TheSuepez]

love you dude

[@viniciusalmeidaalves9905]

@@ktc3733 it's 2023 you're awesome! i

[@777Jerry]

"You'll be sorry when I'm gone." Oh shit, that line hurts. My brother did exactly that. RIP Simon.

[@joelawrence5766]

777Jerry I’m so sorry man

[@brocktilton5214]

You’re not alone buddy. I feel that pain everyday. It’s music like this that was created for us To try just to feel a slight bit better.

[@777Jerry]

@@joelawrence5766 Thank you!

[@777Jerry]

@@brocktilton5214 Well said! Hope things are going well for you now.

[@ivandemesa7437]

I sometime think about suicide but when I hear the line ‘please tell mom this is not her fault’ I sometimes think I kill myself the pain will pass to my mom

[@Dan-up6do]

Looking back, you saved my life with this song. Thank you

[@Canihelpyouz]

Hey I hope you are doing ok, How are you?

[@pantsnjacket381]

I don't know what you're going through or your current situation, believe me, you just need to pull up and hold on tight. You got this. Be here today.

[@ashh8019]

This type of art saves lives. Thank you

[@beezybeez4207]

Chyaaaa! This is so good but you have to hear “Cage” or “City” by SLT 🔥🤘🎶🤘🔥

[@travist6345]

The line “Please tell mom this is not her fault” really hits home. My cousin committed suicide a year ago and in his note he made sure to let his mom know none of it was her fault or anything to do with her. I love this song and it keeps me going through my own depression battles❤️

[@elias7525]

hope you get through it bro.

[@oscarespinozajr4546]

That’s tough

[@beezybeez4207]

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[@danicabrown2113]

Sending healing thoughts 💙

[@woodendoor100]

suicide is cowardice that punishes your family

[@adamthers1881]

I've been battling depression since I was 14. 22 years later this song still stops me from doing it

[@magicalcube589]

​@@iongrl802 Don't say that!! Adam, please don't do It!!

[@magicalcube589]

Adam, don't listen do this guy!!

[@fatsammy5270]

big love man

[@psilva7684]

Give it to the LRD JESUS

[@aldilanovrizal9432]

This song is for u, thats why is called adams song