To Hell And Back Season 2 Episode 1

[@MelaninofSA]

"struggle love is unnecessary" to all women out there thank you.💯

[@Ngunikaz]

Unfortunately some ladies fear to be alone…sad

[@MelaninofSA]

@@Ngunikaz oh no that’s very sad 😢 at wat cost!

[@yolanda.7033]

I would love a career video detailing how she became an executive. Maybe we need Career Tuesdays segment.

[@joalanenkosi5367]

Hi Dear. catch me on Kaya FM on the 15th of August 2024; from 10:00 to 11:00. All details on my career.

[@yolanda.7033]

@joalanenkosi5367 Thanks. Looking forward to it.

[@katlehosello1192]

@@joalanenkosi5367it was such a lovely interview 🤍.

[@halacele8571]

She is so pretty and has a calm energy ❤

[@PodcastingSA]

I am just so proud of Owamie and the level of respect she has for her craft. I wish I could pay her for the quality we watch coz wow.

[@ashleyzviitei]

She is a well-spoken woman who has found inner peace in her life despite everything she has been through. Love and light to you ma'am as you continue on your healing journey.

[@joalanenkosi5367]

Thank you moratuwa. Joalane

[@ndanatseyichibanda9082]

The quality is qualiting, the studio set is setting, yoh everything is firing on all cylinders. Love, love, love❤

[@boldlyowamie]

❤❤❤

[@abigailtakobana2950]

She talks about her Ntatemogolo with so much love ❤❤, you can see she is really appreciative they took her in ❤. Makes me emotional

[@setsoalirantidi8148]

He was a very good man. Le Nkgono was amazing!

[@Didientle]

"Date a kind man". Thank you Ausi Jwaleng for sharing your lived experiences with us. You look beautiful ladies🥰🥰🥰

[@majolicamashinini3934]

Ausy Jwalane bathong 😊

[@Sompisi-w9v]

​@@majolicamashinini3934😅😅😅

[@joalanenkosi5367]

Thank you Mme. Joalane

[@goodnessmitileni1120]

The fact that shes laughing now, oh God she's healing and a strong woman, i just fell in love with her, thank you for bringing her Owamie, love the both of you, strong woman moving on and finding strength

[@thandekangubane3494]

Wow! I would've never guessed that she's 45 years and has a child in University! You're aging so well

[@goodnessmitileni1120]

I thought she's in her mid 30s, she looks good

[@hildamavuso1620]

Black don't crack

[@khensysmiles]

True

[@moe_ramz]

That’s why we don’t want to struggle with them “jimmy goes to joburg”😂😂😂

[@vfabach2874]

...with a red suitcase!!!

[@TeachersCornerwithMissMilton]

It’s good to have these episodes back ninja ,this was a good interview and the lady is so educated.This just shows even when you are so educated and successful you can be a victim of such treatment .

[@oolalatoyamanasa5130]

Sad truth

[@yolandamjoli7291]

I’ve been watching Owamie for YEARS now to a point where I almost understand the person she is, I can definitely say I always feel good, caring sisterly vibes from here. I think she’s a good person to have around,hence I’ve been following her for these years. I love you so much mo’ girl❤

[@nener5441]

Thank you Owami for having her! I am so fulfilled after listening to her. Thank you Jo for sharing your story and truly empowering us!

[@letushilaalina]

45 looks so good damn❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

[@entertainmentt.2435]

Cheers to Owamie 4 asking all the right questions ❤

[@DayleMathabatha]

The studio looking amazing 🎉❤

[@hlamalanibaloyi6331]

It s soothing to listen to her even though I don't relate to her story. i have never married and I'm taking care of my 2 boys and I don't expect any handouts from any one. I'm broke because I take care of my kids alone .I believe that no one owes me anything.

[@mphomashego6252]

I recently saw a video where this person asked women the question "What if that person who hurt you the most was sent to break a pattern"

[@BeeYamela]

I relate so much to her story. I got partly lobola'd shortly after my Honours graduation and boy did I see flames 😂 From being asked to produce bank statements every month, paying 90% of expenses, being isolated from friends & family, started performing badly at work. Getting zero assistance with the kids. I was told how useless I was for seeking therapy after I was diagnosed with moderate depression & anxiety. I almost lost my life twice in the hands of that man. At my first job I would net about R19k monthly and within 5 days I'd be flat broke because the guy would fold his hands while he was earning 10k more than me. I'd pay the car, insurance, nanny, all kids expenses, groceries, electricity. I left with 2 kids and R0.00 in my account, I had to borrow transport money. Today I am single parent, still paying for a car that was written off after he crashed it. All this at only 27yrs old. I'm planning to seek legal advice on the lobola thing cause I don't want this man coming to claim my assets later on once he sees that I'm flourishing.

[@SimplyKeamo]

Yoh Love & Light to you sis ❤

[@privateaccount5263]

Yoooooh that’s hectic, someone mentioned on Twitter that there’s something manipulative about men who ask for engagement at graduations or shortly after that, your story confirms it.

[@akhozilnkangana4772]

I might be wrong, but since he has not finished, it should still be null and void. You have to have proof though.

[@isobelndoro]

But he is the one that owes you - crashes the car, doesn't pay maintainance for the kids. In SA is lobola legally binding and is it not about tying the relationship between the 2 families for having children with you

[@lu_DaughterOfAKing]

a 32 year old looking 45 year old. She is absolutely beautiful. I pray that God gives you the love that you deserve and heals you and your children.

[@vuyokazindungane4270]

Exactly my thoughts. She is very beautiful

[@charmainesayi]

Those 3 points of advice she gave at the end… pure WISDOM 💯

[@tsholo977]

'You can never buy yourself into somebody's heart'. Well done ousi for coming to that realisation

[@Ladydee510]

Yah I can relate when she is talking about people who are emotionally unavailable, it cuts deep and very complicated. Anyway 20 years ago there was decent proposals because we even celebrated valentines

[@moe_ramz]

For women who make money to leave men alone, ngeke! 😢🕯️

[@letushilaalina]

🤣🤣🤣

[@moe_ramz]

@@letushilaalina serious chomi. We can’t make money and still be suffering. Yoh🥹🫢

[@letushilaalina]

@@moe_ramz you are right mngane🤣

[@Kayb193]

😂😂😂

[@winkizaromafilika2296]

Okay 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@emmakowane1854]

My baby u r soo powerful.thanks to ua ancestors who protected u from the hands of a monster.continue and be uaself.never allow anyone to drive u to a path u dont like.a path full of pain. I also devorced at 39yrs nd lived a hapi life until now.i am now 74yrs old.ĺive ua hapi life to the fullest.THOKOZA GOGO!!!

[@joalanenkosi5367]

Wow. I would like to have coffee sometime. Thank you for the kinds words Mme. More over; this is not not the end of thread. Thank you so much. Keep well, Joalane

[@vuyokazindungane4270]

I think narcissim needs to be studied further as to why it's more prevalent in men. I was in a relationship with a narcissistic person. Being with such a person can mess up your mind coz you constantly question yourself and start believing the lies they speak to you about you.

[@kgabomolele3346]

It’s because they’ve been socialised through a superiority complex and they are also deeply insecure and jealous of women

[@nomusamthembu1284]

Last 3 advises super👌🏽… brave Jo and proud of you owning you and healing ❤

[@leloknock]

And just this morning I was singing the song "I've been through he'll and back" ....❤

[@LifewithMsKellz]

I just looove Joali - started following her on Tiktok sometime last year when she was traveling to Europe. She inspires so much

[@Noceepour]

What’s her @ on TikTok?

[@HazelGumede-yb9sv]

Hi May you kindly day share a handle please

[@joalanenkosi5367]

Thank you 🙏ngwaneso

[@joalanenkosi5367]

I'm at Joally_mn Thank you 🙏

[@Nona_Naki]

Jo is so beautiful bathong 🥰 wouldn't mind watching her again. Ninja beautiful as always 🥰❤️

[@funganimaligana4305]

The love she has for her son is a trauma bond. He’s the favourite because she wanted to give then husband what he’s always wanted. It’s sad . I hope she loves her daughters just as much, and I hope she addresses this in therapy. Great interview. So entertaining

[@BusisiwePhumeleleJobe]

I know the feeling, I had my son 3 years back he came when my "Last born" was 10 years. I love my girls nee but Bathong kuna le Bhutiii hle 😍 fortunately my girls feel the same way about him 😊❤

[@joalanenkosi5367]

Hi Dear. Fortunately it is not a trauma bond as I had him after the divorce; it is just that he is the youngest. In fact; each sister calls him their favourite. I absolutely love my children; all of them. I guess for me the biggest part is not to resent my son; as he looks exactly like his dad. Otherwise; we are a happy family of 4.

[@kwetsephetla3597]

Emotional and financial abuse leave major scars. People don’t take these forms of abuse serious enough

[@leloknock]

I always say we are well healed when we reach back to that 10 year old little girl called you ....great advice.....this was indeed a great episode, was shocked, sad and laughed

[@Siiviwe]

Thank you for this story. First time coming across this lady! I’m literally a few minutes in and this is the encouragement I need. NdiFind Outile ke last weekend.

[@kwetsephetla3597]

Strength to you chomie ❤

[@lulufierce01]

May God give you strength sis❤

[@mmathapelokhoza4662]

Okay... I thoroughly enjoyed this! Kunini ngithi "yoh" 😮... Otherwise, keep up the great work Queen Ninja!

[@jessey141]

Thank you Owamie...apart from you both being beautiful people, the intelligence and most of all caring toward your own..geez these men, scammers doing that!! No man...I'm congolese and I tell you, even the so called pastors in my community are worse than the standard man. Great job as usual 👌🏿😊❤️

[@ThelifeofTuupsi]

The bright side of this story is that JO has the means to move on and take care of her children . This story is not soo sad after all… I’m happy she went to therapy and now she is speaking to empower other women from where I’m standing this is a success story . All is not lost…

[@sinazobogicevic3442]

One thing I enjoyed about this interview was that it was structured which made it easy to follow.

[@LearnItalianPhrases]

This is life-changing. I am definitely working on securing that bag. Marriage is definitely my worsrt fear, but also a huge blessing😢

[@gorataonepatiencemotlase9393]

Great interview 👍 theee quality 👌 👏

[@nosiphobongiwe2473]

I absolutely loved this, one of my favorite episodes ❤️ She has healed and it is so refreshing to see

[@esmert1622]

Yoh what a powerful interview. I learnt a lot here. All the best sister

[@ANTONETHXITSHEMBISONDLOVU]

Wow what a story. Thank you sesi for sharing your story. Learned a lot❤

[@ndivhuwotshivhase792]

Red flags are always there hey God loves us too much to not let us walk blindly, I respect the fact that she acknowledges that she knew before she married him, as women please let us not be desperate to marry just anybody, seek God's intervention before entering marriage with anyone.

[@bryanoaitse1547]

The introduction song is lit ❤️❤️👌👌💯💯 Bereka mosadi 😍

[@DumsileMavuso]

I am happy for this lady. You can tell she really is over the hurt and happy now

[@neomalete5832]

You guys are bonding soo much,it felt like I was watching a catch up session with friends……Sad story really wish her love and light ❤️

[@bellatalkssa405]

Bathong mara re batho ba bantsho, nna go bua nnete le today ke feel gore ai maan go sharp, mpotse fela gore a batho ba ko gae tla be ba le teng ka weekend ya holiday, ke re yaa, a ba re ok ke nagana go romela bagolo. I'm being honest, tse tsa di champagne ke tsa makgoa lona, buang nnete

[@ladyb5843]

I still believe that there are happy marriages, but i dont see the importance of marriage anymore.I am sorry for everything you went through Gogo ❤

[@Sibongile0208]

Why refer to the lady as "Gogo" or am I missing something?

[@joalanenkosi5367]

Lesedi mme. I still believe in love. 🥰

[@nomahentertainment]

Love how Owamie keeps up with how things were and are down. She's so realistic

[@preciouslebotsa7278]

Liked before watching, i missed this channel. Looking forward to see what you have for us this season

[@nonzwakaziprecious9507]

Can't wait for episode 2 and I wish no one will volunteer to give their side of the story, Women always go through a lot. You're a strong woman Mom and continue spoiling yourself. Sending you love and let's continue with our counseling sizoba sharp one day ❤❤❤

[@Bucietlhokwe]

I really enjoyed this through out. Nice interview Owami❤

[@ThandiweSibuyana]

Nothing can ever break this woman AGAIN…she went through the most 💔💔💔and look at her now FLOURISHING 🔥

[@rachelandrews5746]

Jolane o so cool sweet and strong. Continue to work hard. God will see you through. Just glad you got one in one piece o sa bolawa

[@affectionatewhati4526]

The studio 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 girl it’s stunning

[@LethoHali]

My goodness I could not hold tears when she said where Maru’s name comes from 😭😭😭.

[@nadiavutlhari1411]

Woooooow your studio caught my attention ❤❤❤its giving ❤

[@tedtlyhlatswayo403]

I thoroughly enjoyed listening to this mature lady 🥰 & thank you for saying this "seek for a 'kind' hardworking man 🙌🏻 that's what I always say, coz I value my peace always 💯

[@transcripttranscript3039]

So sorry Jwalene you couldn't have known n. Thank God you did not die live your best life keep raising the kids with love

[@Mamabear497]

Then they say marry and carry, guys carry if you want too,man are cruel,if they can be cruel to their kids who are you wena wena

[@nthaby.ericam]

Wow, this episode is really touching and I am glad that she is still strong and standing.

[@Tshifaro_WarriorPrincess]

Officially back to be a subby again.. ❤ loving the new content. Thank you Owamie for sharing these stories with us..

[@lindaabraham5365]

He was jealous of your success, you made him feel inferior.

[@MihlotiMashele]

All things work together for good for those that He loves. You are fine girl. God is with you

[@MsP-0407]

This sounds like my story of marrying someone who is emotionally unavailable. I had to foece that man to gi e me a hug, you'll cry alone as if he's not there. You'll never get a compliment even when you've just done your hair and your kids are complimenting you.

[@Sanatha_V]

Talk about the most dangerous creatures 😢

[@phindisikhakhane3742]

We are back🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤To and Back. I love this podcast❤

[@kwakha6103]

She is so wise and beautiful ❤

[@nadiavutlhari1411]

The views ❤❤we've been waiting for this🎉🎉🎉

[@Lee_rock]

good episode Owami, one critic, please try not interject a lot coz it disturb the rain of thought of the guest. if this lady wasn't well articulative we would have missed a lot of information. shout out to her she's brave to choose herself and love herself again. a lot of women in that position are just waiting for their partners to die, they don't believe they can survive and have peace outside toxic relationship.

[@ntombie_xo]

This was such a good episode. Your interviewing skills have improved ❤

[@Mamabear497]

My mom built her house while my father did nothing why is it that 70% of men go these kinds of woman and mistreat them,my mom pretends like she's happy but am old enough to understand that she's not

[@sonixboy5481]

why vele ninja does it always like that

[@jaystan233]

Society teaches african women that they are nothing without a man,sad for your mom.

[@beejjjj4106]

Fathers are hiding behind our mothers. My mom is also a single yet married woman. Our mothers would have flourished even more on their own.

[@Mamabear497]

Right and I will never get the part where they lie about things they did for us and said was done by our fathers to hide shame

[@beejjjj4106]

I extended and renovated our house, the community/family friends, thinks it's his "early pension money", that my mom, nor us his children never saw what he did with it. FATHERS??yooooh.. Few months back, my little got suddenly sick, It was my husband and I that took her to specialists to check what was the issue. When my little sister passed, he was busy saying he tried everything he could, he even took my little sister to expensive doctors heeeeeee at that time, he did FOKOL. Even for my sister's burial arrangements, My husband and I did everything, MoGuy wanted to run the show so that it seemed like it was him. For the first time in my life, I stood up and said to the family, "All expenses are being paid by me, yall are going to listen to me" he was so pissed, I didn't care, buried my sister, after the funeral, I put my dad on blocked list. Till today, 4 month later.

[@nokwandanobangula6592]

Your story is so profound ...and powerfully and thank u for great insight

[@tshwarelomontjane5738]

I found myself clapping 👏🏽 for you💐big up ladies🎉❤

[@zesandenomgca7852]

I can relate to this story. The most important lesson I learnt here is forgive your younger self. It was not your fault.

[@aj-gw1rl]

Wow the studio is giving 😍🤩👏

[@nkosivilekhumalo298]

Queen 👑 Ninja ❤ hi I was listening to your old videos because I missed you so so much

[@kelebogilemfolwe4076]

Wowss..the last words. I buy myself flowers 💐

[@pulanemolotsi6998]

This ladies intro❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤geeeeez come on now

[@malekamamoketepearl9535]

Thank you so much. Never thought u take us serious when we tag u. 😅 ninjas, season 2🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@thabisankayi2392]

Siyabonga whoooo sigqitha ezimeni ezinzima❤❤

[@patienceikombele9161]

I was listening to this lady and asked myself, who gives birth to these kinds of men? We, as parents, we need to do right by our sons wives.

[@betlinachauke6254]

Really enjoyed this episode. Thank you to the guest ❤️

[@sizakelemyeni4819]

When it’s comes to the in-laws…I love myself more and I contribute nothing after I have been financially abused in the past. I can relate to her story. Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@mphohappiness1736]

One thing about God...He will continue blessing this woman. As for the family...karma knows everyone's address

[@nicolletpearlnyathi6556]

⭐️Seek God ⭐️Seek for a kind hardworking man

[@MakoloiGift]

owamie dear on you promised us Gogo Mazini on Friday hle

[@preciouslebotsa7278]

She is so beautiful and so warm❤

[@nomcebomakhos]

I love you my sister you so humble and with a very good heart, may you find strength to raise your babies 😢

[@melbamothiba9804]

Thank you for sharing your story atleast now we shouldn't even try if this wizards starts we should keep it moving

[@nkululekomahlathi3242]

Hey Owamie❤ please ask them at Mopandi studios or your editor To stick to angles within the shot! And not show the light reflectors in the same shot. It is distracting and looks unprofessional.❤❤❤ Welcome to season 2🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

Im in media and I agree. It devalues the quality of the entire production.

[@nkululekomahlathi3242]

@@keepitfrankwithfentseyes that was the word😂😂 “devalues”😂😂😂 thank you

[@Kayb193]

I'm shook😯😯 Yoo fear men

[@gabrielthuu]

Bigger and Better 🎉🥳

[@amymccarthy9731]

Only 14 Minutes in and I Love Love Love this Episode

[@nomsachironda9624]

Madam....madam.....madam the studio it's top notch 👌👌👌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🌋and how the camera moves🌅damn🌞

[@mercypuso3888]

My God. This is very deep. May the grace of God be upon you

[@nandiphasomana8501]

In-laws are the pits, I could write a whole book about how those people can take you through mgowo🙄

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

Lol. My in laws KNOW not to mess with me. Let's just say my family don't play when it comes to me...I married a last born who doesnt speak much...nna I am a talker of note...nobody walks over me. My mother as a married woman herself used to joke when I was young gore 😂 Your husband is gonna have a handful ka wena...but 14 years later...we are still pushing.

[@gabrina]

So well spoken❤ what a role model

[@moe_ramz]

We are back!!!🎉🎉🎉

[@nefefefulu9760]

And some motivational speaker will tell us that man will never abuse educated woman..