Bonko & Lesego Khoza Define Love |

In this week's episode of #DEFININGLOVE , we get to listen to Bonko and Lesego's love story. They share about how they met in varsity and fell into a FIERY "teenage' love affair🔥🔥. You may recognise Bonko from playing Mqhele Zulu on Showmax’s The Wife #RoadTo200K
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@BonkoKhoza
@LesegoKhoza_offical
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CREDITS:
Producer: Dennis Ngango & Nomathamsanqa Plaatjie
Videographer: Bongani Baloyi
Editor: Dennis Ngango
Subtitles: Nomathamsanqa Plaatjie & Cebo Mpanza
Location: Blackbrick
Intro: 'Kwamnandi' performed by AziTheSoulster
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[@DEFINING]

We loved having Bonko and Lesego on the channel 🥺💕. Let's get this video to 10K Likes🥳

[@chiedzalight.9656]

Not it being at 15k🥺🥺🥺.

[@sepopurple4429]

Kindly asking for the song playing at the start of the video

[@matimbamahlaule8669]

Can I please be part of this beautiful show

[@leso7873]

Love love

[@samdhlam]

Not him being Mqhele and kissing her at the rank chile 😂😂😂 so cute.

[@anathimkrola8240]

Right?!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Aargh😍😍❤️

[@Mabhayeni]

My thought exactly. They're so lovely.

[@leratomokwele3078]

😂😂😂😂

[@LifeHaps]

I am sure that episode of taking out everybody only to remain with 1 passanger and go buy ice cream. Was enspired by a taxi rank kiss

[@sibongilembalenhle]

I'm watching you guys for .....I don't know but I just ❤️🔥

[@noxolomsitshana1660]

Isn’t Lesego just the most cutest person ever!!!!! She’s literally always smiling. So beautiful 😻

[@OagengNd]

She is gorgeous 🥺

[@FaithDineo]

She's so sweet

[@lilonkemhlanganyelwa4309]

Dude 😍😍🤌

[@lebogangmoutlane]

She’s amazing! I love her like I know her personally 😂

[@temosho_]

No

[@kim121ful]

Imagine 9 years down the line and you still so in love 🥺 and God being a part of your relationship 💞

[@DEFINING]

🥺❤

[@sthabilegwala7951]

Lesego is sooooooo likeable. I could watch her speak all day. and she's so animated 🤭🤭LOVE LOVE LOVE HER😍

[@DEFINING]

She is so fun to be around too🥺🙌🏾🤞🏾

[@TumiMokone]

Not Bonko sounding like Nqoba when he did the Zulu marshal accent 😂 Anyway, how cute! 😍😍

[@DEFINING]

😂❤❤

[@PreciousDimpho]

Right?!😭😹

[@Miss_Sir2]

Exactly!!!!!

[@sistaoutsider303]

I thought it was just me!😂

[@mponenglehema6155]

I dieeeedd. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@DEFINING]

Bongani snapped with the visuals for this video 😭🙌🏾🔥

[@segosoft6105]

They're high up in their own spaces individually but are deeply rooted in each other...and please the way Bonko looks at Lesego just makes my heart smile. 😩❤

[@DEFINING]

They have such an incredible bond 🥺🙌🏾🔥

[@Noloyiso_M]

2 minutes in and Lesego gives me hope that girls who are considered high energy (me) can indeed love and be loved by "chilled, laid back" gents.

[@charmainephasoana6850]

That's so me 🥺

[@ItsMazingMomo]

Oh absolutely. There’s Love for ALL of us

[@mbalikhwela1260]

🥺 So me....I'm so happy.

[@kaileyleone]

So me.🥺 I'm such a loud and bubbly person 💕

[@nqobilendlangamandla4158]

Yeah my partner is chilled and I am high energy, our love is valid.

[@siphelanga648]

He sounded like Nqoba when was imitating the driver 😂😂

[@DEFINING]

Definitely 🥺🤣

[@mariahlehoko993]

The fact that Bree taxi rank is really a part of Bonko’s love story 😭😭🥺

[@nelisilewriteous6068]

I agree with Bonko. Lesego is so bright, she exudes so much light and love. Her smile is everything! I get why you would fall in love with such person at first sight. Their story is so pure. This was beautiful to watch.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you so much Nelisile! Lesego is truly incredible ❤

[@tandomashiyi9528]

It's the fact that they put Christ first in their marriage that just makes me love them and with how they treat each other, my word. They have such a beautiful connection that I pray they grow old together! Thank you for sharing your love with us.

[@Noloyiso_M]

Listen!!!

[@ItsMazingMomo]

Riiight?! I swear, God is so so good. This is breathtakingly beautiful

[@agent_99321]

No one in the world is more inlove than Lesego is with her husband. It's so cute!

[@DEFINING]

😅❤

[@ikhisoloshe7485]

like totally!

[@siphesihlesoyizwapi6128]

i can literally feel her love!

[@DeograciousDube]

She’s so giddy, you can tell she’s still so in love. Beautiful couple 😍😍😍

[@DEFINING]

She really is 🥺💕

[@shortsworld5439]

When bonko said "your happiness is my purpose "😭😭❤❤ come on now!!!

[@DEFINING]

😭🔥

[@beulahshouse9809]

Gooospel🔥🔥🔥

[@kateulechabala5260]

Mqele and Bonko are undeniably different….except for their thing for taxi rank romance 😅

[@kutlokgabuki4226]

He is such a good actor neh? 😭

[@kateulechabala5260]

@@kutlokgabuki4226 He is 😅

[@ditshegom6307]

God is the center of their relationship and that’s beautiful.

[@DEFINING]

It really is 🥺❤

[@tamarynkwane2798]

God makes it possible for love to be what is meant to be in Faith...i Pray that the Lord enter your union all the days of your lives ❤️💌

[@chiedzalight.9656]

Wish y'all knew how healing and soothing these defining episodes are. Lesego is such a beautiful sparkling ball if energy. Bonko is such a calm energy. If there is anything to take from them is that MARRY A KIND PERSON. You can never go wrong with a kind person because you are certain that in the midst of uncertainty kindness will rule even when you love the person less that day. ❤️

[@pulelady]

100%

[@mihlaliakelatyusha8041]

Oh my goodness, your comment is so beautiful 🥺🥺

[@gugumthembu7180]

Kindness! 💯

[@ratidzotakawira6191]

Honestly so refreshing, and just restores my faith in true love

[@samkenqoko4625]

I love Lesego cause she shared her man with SA viewers on the screen. I'm sure it wasn't easy reading people's comments since he's the starring of a love story. But she's always showing him support. I pray God makes the bond stronger

[@Thando_Khumalo]

Lesego is just a fireball of cute energy 😊, they are so cute together 😍😍

[@DEFINING]

They really are 🥺🤞🏾

[@aphiwemdluli4414]

Bonko: “You saved me. You are the embodiment of God’s pure love” HAWEMA!! My heart guys 😩 I can feel the love exuding from them through the screen. So beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

[@DEFINING]

They have a great love story 🥺❤

[@aviwefunda]

When God put two people together, the relationship just exudes so much God man ❤️💯🙌 So much love, kindness, joy, peace 👌🤞 And Defining captures the love story sooooo beautifully 😭😭😭😭

[@philipinetladi3537]

It's these kind of videos that keep me on believing that there's still love out there❤🤌😍I love love and I'm for love.

[@Between2_worlds]

There's a quote that touches on that. "The type of love I deserve exists because I exist." and I think that's beautiful.

[@philipinetladi3537]

@@Between2_worlds very beautiful 😍😍🙏

[@DEFINING]

Thank you 🥺💕

[@nomceboncani2860]

I thought I was the only one that saw how contagious Lesego's aura is...her smile fills up the room

[@thelmakingly5995]

They still look at each other like this even after nine years!!!!? You’d swear they just met🙌🏼🥺🥺🥺♥️so beautiful

[@theodoramokae7144]

The Kiss - Taxi Rank = The Wife ❤️🥺🔥

[@sacelebsandtrendingtopics3502]

In the middle of Bree taxi rank even 🥺🥺

[@thechecklist1516]

Life Imitating Art... 🌸

[@nokwandadlamini3534]

I was looking for this comment cause that's exactly what i thought!

[@mbalimokoena]

"I was born with a missing piece in a shape of your smile" heeeeewuu😭😍🙌🙌

[@DEFINING]

😭🥺

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

They literally met at 21 according to Lesego. My hubby and I also met at this age even though he spotted me in highschool. I feel like sometimes you don't realise that your life partner is right in front of you until you spend more time with them. You grow together and its the best journey ever...13 years later, 1 son later I wouldn't change him for anything. Wish these two the very best!

[@lihle.masekela1180]

🥺🥺❤️

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

@@lihle.masekela1180 We literally have the same surname babes lol

[@wshelby83]

You have truly been blessed!! I pray to experience true love someday

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

@@wshelby83 You will! Just be intentional about the type of person you want as a partner...put it into the universe...but make sure you are ready when that person arrives as well

[@wshelby83]

@@keepitfrankwithfentse thank you for responding!!

[@ditshegom6307]

They’re so in love man...you can just tell.🥰

[@DEFINING]

They really are 🥺💕

[@RiriMabilo]

This is so beautiful, a man rooted in Christ is a man that truly knows how to love and how to lead, you can clearly see how much they love each other because they love God

[@DEFINING]

So true 🥺❤

[@esethuralo7870]

The connection between them is intoxicating, so refreshing to see such warmth & love. I wept this is beautiful, 😭😍😍

[@DEFINING]

🥺🥺❤

[@nthatengmakhele2784]

I don't know if she will remember but while we were sitting and working at the Market Theatre's production office some years ago Im reminded of how Lesego's eyes would always light up whenever she spoke about Bonko😍...She just didn't notice it but I did🥰...And it was so beautiful to watch🤗. I'm loving this big time🤗❤❤❤.

[@khanyisagura4377]

I'm smiling like an idiot through this whole video. These two just warm my heart. God bless them so much ❤

[@thandiwe4971]

I pray that these two just keep making each other this happy for the next coming decades and more. Thank you defining for this. Let's keep spreading love❤

[@DEFINING]

You're most welcome 💕

[@nokukhanyamnisi1607]

I most definitely second this. Their love is so beautiful 😭😭❤️🙌

[@zinathimate7133]

I love how Bonko put so much thought into his love letter😭❤

[@AneleNdoda]

"I was born with a missing piece on my life that is in the shape of your smile" 🥺🥺♥️♥️

[@DEFINING]

🥺🥺🥺

[@mangozomaseko1967]

“Can you please buy me a cigarette?”😭🥺🥺🥺

[@lightworker9517]

When he said ‘our worst argument was a revelation in my life’. It cements how your partner becomes your mirror, there to show you what you need to work on. I’m realising this more and more when bae and I have a tiff

[@lesegomocumi2815]

May what God has put together never be separated in Jesus' Name.

[@DEFINING]

Amen 🥺🙌🏾

[@mponenglehema6155]

Amen

[@aphiwesomi3640]

"Beside you I feel like I can do anything yet all I want to do is give you everything" 😍😍😍😍 KHUPHUKA lapho🥺🥺🥰🥰

[@DEFINING]

😭😭😭🙌🏾

[@asavelamavika1591]

It's definitely Bonko using Nqoba's accent when imitating the taxi drivers 😂😂😂😂

[@DEFINING]

😂😂😂

[@taniamgutshini3625]

😂😂😂😂

[@mphomashane3602]

This man loves his woman....Power to Love ❤

[@DEFINING]

🥺❤❤

[@karabo8847]

Obviously drawn to this interview because of, The wife. Pleasantly surprised by how 'chivalrous ' Bonku is in real life. Such a beautiful love story♥️😍😊

[@khumoleepile8473]

"Your wants are my wants Your needs are my needs Your dreams are my dreams Your pains are my pains You enemies are my enemies And your happiness is my purpose" Agh my heart 🔥😭😭

[@DEFINING]

Bars 😭😭😭

[@noluthandomagudulela4024]

I love this segment of defining. Seeing love being celebrated and acknowledged is always so hard warming.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Noluthando 🥺💕

[@RatoMamaLehumo]

He looks very much in love with her and he's not even arrogant, just humble and grateful. This is beautiful

[@ThatoKhumaloTK]

"You are the brightest color" 😭😭😭 😍😍😍♥️♥️♥️

[@DEFINING]

😭😭😭❤

[@philelonesamvuni7439]

Bonka is an amazing actor cause after watching "The Wife" I didn't think his English could be this great 😂 This video is beautiful man their love for God is nice to watch 🥺

[@DEFINING]

Thank you for tuning in 🥺💕

[@ditshegom6307]

Not even 2 minutes in and I’m enjoying this.❤️🥺

[@DEFINING]

Thank you 🥺💕

[@nondumisopumane2927]

Anyone who liked it before it was even done.🙋‍♀️ Love Lesego's energy, they are so cute man❤️ and they love Jesus✅☑️

[@DEFINING]

We love to see it 🥺❤

[@thulisilesibanyoni5717]

even commented before 🥺

[@kamonapo4223]

When he called her nana🥺😩😍😍😍😍they’re so cute I can’t 😭😍😍😍

[@banelemkhwanazii]

"your happiness is my purpose"🥺❤️🥰please bonko has my heart with these words

[@DEFINING]

🥺❤

[@ThorisoMoalusi]

1 minute in and I can't believe Bonko speaks like this. Wow! The accent.. I can't get over it

[@EverHopeful555]

I’ve never believed in soul mates…until these 2 💕

[@azinaye7228]

Decided to come watch this today since Bonko is not on The Wife Season 3😭pls realised how i miss seeing him as Mqhele when he said "Sukani la, Sukani la, nihleli nizo cabuzana la" 😭weeee that statement screams Mqhele

[@tintswalochabalala4672]

I love the fact that Jesus is the foundation of your love. Thoroughly enjoyed this segment. May the Lord bless you. 💐💌

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Tintswalo 🥺💕

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

Lesego is so cute lol!!!! Her energy reminds me of a friend of mine....always bringing the energy

[@thandiwescheffers1087]

Building your love/relationship on the strong foundation that is God, that's what makes you guys so special. You'll never go wrong if God is the center of everything you do. I was always wondering why an old lady like me can be so drawn to you? Now I understand after watching this beautiful life/journey of yours. Believe me I can relate, when you have God in your life, he'll give you the life partner he created ONLY for you. 12 years this year since my husband passed on, I know they'll never be anyone else. You guys keep on keeping on, as for me I'll always pray for you🙏nginithanda oko oko❤❤❤

[@zilungilemahlaba]

Lesego is so cute. The laugh..top tier Oh and the way they look at each other. My wed

[@DEFINING]

🥺🙌🏾

[@JayTesla]

This is adorable, it has sparked hope of true love and companionship that to be honest, seems bleak in these times. I wish them the best together.

[@stephnepuseletso126]

It actually warm my heart to see love and that love still exists 9 years who have thought bathong keep pushing

[@DEFINING]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@mks1786]

I love me a couple that believes in themselves 🥺❤️

[@DEFINING]

Agreed 🤞🏾

[@peninamokonyane4752]

I thought I loved Bonko, but Lesego takes number spot, you are so much fun, I love you guys, stay blessed ❤️❤️❤️

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@oratiletsimatsima9643]

Yes 💕💕💕

[@ntandomanana06]

Lesego has a beautiful smile yall😩

[@DEFINING]

She really does 🥺❤

[@PreciousDimpho]

The waterworks started when she said, “Dear Nana, My Lulubear…” 😭😭🥺❤️Love is beautiful thixo 🌈😭❤️

[@DEFINING]

🥺❤❤

[@Nombuso_.]

I love how she’s so giddy even 9 years lately 🥺❤️

[@buhlempungose552]

JESUS Bonko that note you wrote for her. Don't know why I'm crying.

[@khauhelolebakeng4785]

9 years together but it feels new and fresh... Love to see this 😍

[@marthapkgalema3506]

Lesedi has a beautiful energy. Love her♥️♥️

[@DEFINING]

She really does 🥺🙌🏾🔥

[@ntandomanana06]

Oh man,they are so cute and look good together😩🥺

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@nqinqi7505]

This is beautiful! Bonko’s wife is full of life maarn!😻❤️ i enjoyed this episode!

[@phamasaute7488]

They are perfect for each other 😍 I love how contrasting their personalities are yet match so perfectly.

[@DEFINING]

Right 😭!?

[@pmambongwe8640]

Right? I never would have seen them together and I still don't but they're perfect ❣❣

[@mogomotsimothusi8773]

Opposites attracts 😍

[@johannafrieda7229]

First and foremost it's their voices man I looooove them. Thanks definining for this another amazing episode.

[@DEFINING]

You're welcome 💕

[@nhlanhlak5234]

I've been blushing throughout this episode 😍😍 It's like they wake up and choose to love each other more and more each day, that's amazing if you ask me. Love truly lives here👉❤👈. I wish I could also just find someone who I will fall in love with all over again every time I'm next to them despite the years I have been with them🥺

[@thembintlahla7190]

Lesego is just a fireball of contagious energy...I smiled through the entire video

[@mimimkhize4531]

Wow, beautiful love story with Jesus as the foundation , you can never go wrong

[@DEFINING]

🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾

[@oratiletsimatsima9643]

Her smile reminds me of my late friend's. She was also a ball of energy. This couple is so cute

[@lebogangmothobi245]

What a beautiful union, with Christ at the center. Her smile, the way he looks at her.... Oh love is beautiful. 😍❤️💕💖💗

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@kelebogilemodise2542]

Lols 🤣 did I not see Mqhele for a second when Bonko explained how the taxi drivers 😅 chased them when they kissed 🤣 😂 😆

[@Nalediii_]

not him enforcing Mqhele characteristics, first kiss ko bree😂❤️ sweet 🥺🥺

[@Liskhanyisele]

Love is so so beautiful 😭😭❤️❤️❤️😍😍 especially when someone wants the relationship to work as much as you.

[@DEFINING]

So true!

[@introvertgodly_02ayanda80]

Their relationship is so amazing 💖 I just lv a relationship with God in it cause he be there every step of the way.. 🤭

[@DEFINING]

Amen!

[@bafanazikalala214]

Why am I only seeing this now, Beautiful love story. Angithi you know we love you Lesego. Like I always call you "January"😂😂

[@silindilemadlala2583]

Not him calling her "Nana" 🥺making me miss my man, cz he calls me exactly like that🤩🥰

[@ropa_rue8298]

These 2 are so cute together. Wow🔥❤️❤️

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@moyahabolanga1455]

One thing about this channel is that they will make you cry Yoh ha.a at first I was trying so hard not to cry but when they read the letters I couldn’t hold it no more ❤️🥺🌹

[@DEFINING]

🥺🥺🥺💕

[@luthohlazo7431]

I love how you guys synced their stories of how they met.. it's poetry❤️❤️❤️

[@nasiphimadziba6283]

Bonko : When are you most inlove with me? Lesego: All the time🥺🥺😂😂❤️..

[@ThokozaniHappinessNgcobo]

Seeing them gash over each other is so beautiful 🥺❤️ Definitely makes you want to believe and fall in love again Loved this episode ❤️

[@charitymashele4434]

I can't get over the fact that he sounds like this.. It was beautiful so watch

[@0729833043]

Love is sooooooooooo beautiful 🥰😍

[@anelisakhathazile1586]

He said," your hapiness is my." purpose😭😊😍

[@DEFINING]

❤❤❤

[@oratilemokoka6695]

Lesego is such a beautiful energy, she kept me smiling the whole time ❤️ Yoh Bonko is so funny though, especially when he imitated the taxi marshal😂😂😂

[@wandyk8317]

This is honestly my favorite channel 🥺😭

[@DEFINING]

🥺❤❤❤

[@zimimayongo]

" it's not you nana " - bonko 😭😭😍 haibo. 😭😭

[@olwethudumane743]

Wow... BONKO'S letter ❤️🥺🥺

[@DEFINING]

🥺🥺🥺💕

[@I_AM_TT29]

I also love Lesego's laugh😂❤

[@DEFINING]

😂❤

[@nomimekgoe6521]

Love is such a beautiful thing 🥺🤍 what a beautiful couple

[@DEFINING]

Very beautiful 🥺❤

[@dimphomokgadi6428]

I love them already. They are so beautiful 😭🤩

[@petraelamisi4456]

You can see they involve Jesus Christ in their relationship and if even makes their relationship stronger🥺