Boredom: Is it really a problem? | A talk by Salman Asif Siddiqui

[@AliyaKhan-qk7yz]

Thoroughly enjoyable and thought provoking! For those struggling to make sense of things in these confusing times, ERDC has much to offer. Alhamdulillah.

[@ERDCPK]

Alhamdulillah. It is people like you who encourage and help us to keep making efforts. Thanks for watching Aliya Khan :)

[@faizaadeel6084]

no doubt. its blessing for me. after dream program of ustadh Nouman Ali khan...

[@chamirchamir9421]

اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے آمین

[@Alifalqalam]

jazakAllah hu khayir sir.. I respect u alot because Allah ne apko bht zbrdst ilm dia hai jis se ap hmary zehn ko bHT achy se Roshan kr dety hen.. Allah ne apko ye salahiyat di hai k hm APny ap ko mazeed behtr kr sken or zndgi ko sahi or achy treqy se guzar sken.. ap ki baton se bht c confusions clear hui hen bht zehn khula hai .. Allah apko jazae Khair de or mazed ilm se nwazy or ap aisy hi logo ko sedhi rah ki Trf laty rahen Ameen 🤲🏻❤️

[@falcontech7539]

Another Gem from ERDC, whenever I listen this person I eliminate many problems of my life, mashaa'Allah

[@rabiaali3052]

بہت خوبصورت انداز ہے بات سمجھانے کا۔

[@sanahussain440]

LEARNING POINTS: BOREDOM An amazing, thought provoking and enlightened discussion by Sir Salman Asif... What is Boredom? When we are fed up with the monotony in doing any task. When we don't like anything to do. When we have plenty of time to do anything but we do't have sense to utilize our spare time in a beneficial way. Boredom was found in the lives of kings but there was no sign of boredom in a layman's life. As soon as this world become more luxurious, comfortable, interesting, people tend to feel and experience BOREDOM in their daily life more frequently. When we get bored, we spend more money to buy things which can make us entertain and keep us busy. Kinds of Boredom: 1- Normal and natural: Whenever we feel monotony, our mind needs change in the activities but it doesn't want to pause or you can say our mind needs to switch between the activities by remain continuously active. 2- When we talk about the real Boredom, it is the phenomenon occurs in life of those people which is without meaningfulness and sense of purpose. When meaningfulness and sense of purpose become weak in your life. Boredom is caused when we don't want to meet our real SELF....When we don't want to introspect...When we don't want to reflect...When we feel hesitated or embarrassed to be alone with ourselves. We should take Boredom as the golden opportunity to reflect, to introspect and to know ourselves. Boredom is also caused when pleasure and entertainment reach at the level of Value...Pleasure in any task become the supreme criteria. In 20th century, young people are overly entertained and continuously temp for pleasure, so nowadays people look for pleasure in everything they do, acquire, perform or eat instead of looking its meaningfulness and its real purpose in their lives. Dimensions of Boredom: When we distanced ourselves from meaningfulness and sense of purpose. When pleasure reach at the level of VALUE. When loneliness become painful. When you avoid to meet your real Self. SANA HUSSAIN GRADUATED PTCC-BATCH 30

[@faizaadeel6084]

Thank you sana

[@sz4653]

I've listened this topic 3 times n every time it gives NEW DIRECTION. JazakaAllah for sharing this video.

[@fatimaameer2386]

sir me n ap k 2 hrs lecture b suny hy and i really achieved but kuch log long vid nhi sunty lekin in vid m ap k bht precious wording hy so i wana say agr ap in k sath bht sari short clips b uplod kijye to in c un logo ko bht faida hoga jo long vid nhi sunty. i know ye un k fault hy hasil krny k liye mehnat to krni prti hy but ap n jo pleasure k bat ki i wish ye msg sb muslmano tk jaye taky hm apny life style ko chnge krny kliye atleast sochna to shru kry. Rab amal k b taufeeq dy dy ga إن شاءالله و جزاك الله خيرا في الدنيا والآخرة

[@ZOHUKUDAI99]

Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatuh Salman Asif Sir & whole ERDC team ...may Allah Paak always guide you to the right path,give afiyat happiness 😊 in this world & the hereafter.. Amin Summa amin

[@farhatshahzad8983]

It is one of the authentic lecture of sir Salman. It is a thought provoking lecture, we never thought in this way. He emphasized that boredom is an experience in which God gave us the chance of doing but did not give us opportunity to implement on it. Boredom is a name of that periode in which people find out entertainment rather than purpose.

[@ERDCPK]

Nice. Thanks for watching :)

[@almasr1088]

@@ERDCPKAslamoalekum I have a question if we don't provide our kids positive activities and some time entertainments our kids can find some negative and harm full activities to get out of this bordem

[@Sharja-lg4zo]

aoa sir mein ne apni zindagi mein kabhi bhi ye topic iis tarah nahi suna aur samjha aur aj meri zindagi mein yehi dour chal raha hai ab mujhe iis mein se nikalne mein aasani ho gi inshallal also thank you

[@sanahussain440]

REFLECTION: Very beautiful, deep and meaningful lecture by Sir Salman. Never thought about causes, factors and dimensions of boredom in such a way....We are addicted to our current life style ,,,where we spend a lot ...just to make ourselves please,entertain and superficially satisfied...but the truth is that we are not satisfied internally...because we don't have time to know ourselves,to reflect and to introspect.....We don't want to meet ourselves that is why we just avail a lot of options in our home and out of it which keep us busy all the time.... If we want to know our true self...we should spend some lone time with ourselves... SANA HUSSAIN GRADUATED PTCC-BATCH 30

[@syeditrathasan3244]

salman Allah tum ko shad o abad rakhe aameen

[@rehanaziz6632]

Life changing lectures. Much appreciated.

[@tasleemsabir4823]

Very nice

[@joycollector6923]

Best topic nowadays

[@saddiquefaraz4165]

Great words

[@أبومريموليدأنصاري]

Jazakallahu khairan. I like the videos by brother Salman. Bas ek cheez kehna chahta hoon. Pehle ke zamanon mein itni farawani nahi thi. Logon ko mehnat mazdoori karni padti thi aur unki fikrein survival par lagi hui thi. Aaj jab ek aam aadmi woh life jee raha hai jo ki us waqt ke baadshah jeete the. Toh woh problem jo us waqt ke basdshah ki thi woh aam ho gayi hai.

[@ERDCPK]

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[@urduclassnasirairfan2403]

غار حرا آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم خلوت کی مثال ہے۔

[@flfl-qg8mn]

very intellectual person mr salman asif sissique

[@theishfaqkhan4410]

Quite wonderful....

[@syedhammadhussaini3000]

I had attended this session .

[@asmashahbaz3672]

Asslam o alikum buhat hi zaberdsat topic!! aaaj boriyat ka asal matlab samjh aya ....... jo amal humko hamare maqsad e hayat se hata dai ya khudse milne ka moqa na milay to yahi boriyat hai zindagi k mailey main khuwahishoon k railay main hum kabhi ye jaaan hi nai paaaty k hum ko ALLAH nai kis maqsad k liye k humko is jahan main bheja?? hum koun hai ?? hamein karna kia hum kabhi ye sab jaaan nay ki koshsih hi nai kartay khudko ik esi rail main betha rakha hai jo suabh se sham ik hi dager mai chalti hai ati hai jati hai kabhi rail badlnaey ki, dosrey rastey pai chalne ki koshih hi nai kartay hum os rail main bethay bethay thak to saktay hai mager oter nai saktay isi kaifiyat ko hum boriyat main shumar kar tay hain jis din rsata badal k khud k sath bhi safer karein , khudko pahchaaanein to na sirf zindagi haqiqatan khobsurat lagay

[@zairazafar3756]

Marshall app ki speach son Ker bahut Kuch sinkhne ko milta Allah tala heme Amal kene ki taufiq de

[@urduclassnasirairfan2403]

بہترین بات دماغ کھول دینےو الی

[@zobia2985]

Subhan Allah. Masha Allah

[@valasr63]

Very thought provoking!

[@zainabsalman7041]

Very thought-provoking.

[@Faiza_Aamir16]

Asalamo alaikom Key learning points The true definition of boredom was learnt today Alhamdolilah yani muhalat e amal tu ho magar amal define na hon.. Boredom time is the quality time to meet ourself.....for self realisation... For reflection ghor o fikar and tadubbur.....ye waqai un natural lifestyle ka outcome hai...if we have some purpose in our life we will never feel bore... Whenevr Pleasure and entertainment become part of our life it will result in a extreme boredom.. We are here in this world for a purpose and anyone who deviates from that purpose eventually get depressed and bore And will spend hours of meaningless life..khud se milnay ka bahtareen waqt jis ko hum boredom kahtay hain.... Faiza Aamir ptcc batch 32

[@ERDCPK]

Thanks for watching :)

[@bilalhashmi9054]

Don’t turn pleasure maximization into value Don’t use time for any thing else which divert you from destiny Change your thought about pleasuring yourself We take every thing for please ourself like sport and food etc. What a good Idea present if we understand the meaning of our life means if know the objectives we do what we want. And its an experience like if you are tired and your donkey-pump is not working you leave every thing to fix the pump here you set the objective and understand the problem and consequences of no water. I understand that we should set our goals and work on them, if we want to achieve them on time. Otherwise we loose what we have. And i.e. our precious time. Bilal Hashmi (Batch 29)

[@naturerelaxation44]

MashaAllah. Sir. 👌💯

[@zeeshannaseer1613]

Sir kia Yeh chemical imbalance ni ho skta permanent boriat ??

[@sanahussain440]

LEARNING POINTS: To please our taste buds, one of the biggest industry is established....and now we are at that stage where we spend a lot of money in buying things which make us entertain in our free time....increase rate of spending money and consuming goods are the biggest factors in making us more unsatisfied thus letting BOREDOM to dwell more in our lives. Today's man is deprived from those lens by which he can look inside himself. He is unsatisfied therefore nothingness in his life become the major problem for him. We are unable to make our loneliness meaningful and with some worthwhile purpose. 150 years ago, in layman's life entertainment and pleasure maximization did not reach at level of Value but in today's age , we look for pleasure even in offering Salah , and not for internal satisfaction. Parents become responsible only to make their kids spare time entertaining ,not for their tarbiyah.....

[@ERDCPK]

Very good reflection. Thanks for watching :)

[@ambalastores]

ما شاء اللہ ایک شاندار گفتگو پر بہترین تبصرہ جو خود قابل تعریف تحریر ہے

[@amnabatoolsabri1530]

we can define boredom like daily basic same work to do like we become boredom and need to change the routine and life style to be change in different variety.

[@AbdurRehman-lw1xd]

RIGHT

[@urduclassnasirairfan2403]

جہاں تربیت کا فقدان ہو وہاں اچھی اقدار پروان نہیں چڑھتیں بلکہ ارمان یعنی خواہشات پروان چڑھتی ہیں

[@zobia2985]

Kal say nmaz start kron ge. Yeh buht sunty hen sentence.

[@Mohammad-Awais]

اللہ جزا دے

[@shariqaskari7523]

Mash Allah

[@SajjadAhmad-jw3ol]

Pleasure seeking in Ancient civilizations should not be considered that much important. The thing is that pleasure seeking is not good for human beings.

[@neelofar74]

👍

[@akbadr82]

What can be purpose of life for a mother and house wife

[@neelofar74]

ERDC kya hy

[@aminataummassya5404]

السلام عليكم Please please please translate this in English!!! May Allaah help you in this work!

[@rifamahmood8980]

Boredom.....the tasks we don't want to meet n and r forced to indulge in....that's the point we meet boredom

[@ERDCPK]

Interesting takeaway. Thanks for watching :)

[@faisalazad1127]

SubhanAllah

[@flfl-qg8mn]

ایک دوسرے کا حال احوال خیرخبر لینے سے بوریت کا مرض ختم ہوجاتا ہے۔ جی غیبت اور چغلی پہ ایک گفتگو ہونی چاہیے۔

[@shadowbacon2284]

I think we forgot our real purpose of life that’s why we are bored

[@ERDCPK]

Nice thought. Thanks for watching :)

[@sadafmaqsood2817]

I am in nothingness state of mind. mein kuch nai kar rahi for last 6 months aur bilkul relaxe b hun. I don't know how to get rid of this state. mein is state se bahir nikalna he nai chah rahi. ye cheez Mjy pareshan kar rahi hy k why I am so relaxed. plz anyone help

[@waqarhussain6635]

I think. You are in a state of role confusion. What is your profession?

[@sadafmaqsood2817]

Waqar Hussain role confusion means?

[@waqarhussain6635]

@@sadafmaqsood2817 it means when someone does not know what he/she wants to be. actually if you don't know your identity.

[@sadafmaqsood2817]

can u give me your contact number ? I want some help

[@waqarhussain6635]

@@sadafmaqsood2817 sure. Np. [phone]

[@rajawaqar8208]

آواز تو بند ہے

[@farhatmanzoor5441]

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[@zobia2985]

Salman sahb. Me mutala karna chati hon. Khan say start kron.

[@javedanver6259]

Logo ke chehre Ka mutala shuroo ker dein

[@healthawareness388]

Please use very easy urdu words, i don't know Nafaq meaning for example. urdu dictionary where you can easily find word is merely a chance. our problem is neither we understand urdu fully, nor english.

[@Qaisersharif-lv1bb]

Placestacewuarnandislamicknowledge

[@shafaqmahmood1983]

Boring talk