Boundaries Babe, BOUNDARIES 🙄 | If They Like You, They Aren’t Your “Friend”

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† SALVATION PRAYER †
Dear God,
I come to you, to confess that I am a sinner. I can't even begin to list all of the things I've done to displease you, and I ask that you forgive me for every sin I've committed, those known and unknown. I believe that your son Jesus Christ died for my sins and rose again, that I may have eternal life. I turn away from my sins and invite you into my heart. I want to trust and follow you as my Lord and Savior. I want to do life by your side.
In Jesus' name, amen.

[@moorelivinwithxbeautyy]

Whew! This is SO on time. Being friends with other men will NOT help my marriage but will hurt it. God used my husband to reveal this and it was a hard lesson to learn just because of how I love others and desired external validation. My flesh told me that this man understood my feelings better than my husband and you are absolutely right; gotta keep that flesh in order. It was the lowest time of my life. The enemy is so crafty and I almost allowed him to have my marriage. My husband sees things in other men that I don't see. Its so important set boundaries. I love witnessing your obedience as unto the Lord. I am praying for you and your God-ordained husband to have a fruitful marriage. ❤️

[@TheProcrastinatorFiles]

The absolute WAY this message smacked me in my mouth this morning was disrespectful, borderline diabolical. But I expect nothing less from my Lord. When I sit in rebellion and petulance, he really embodies "mess around & find out." I love him. I love my Lord so much. Idek why he bothers with me sometimes, but I'm thankful that he does ♡

[@bereniceocasio8967]

Great word “ set boundaries “ always believed exactly what you said . I have no male friends that spot is for my God Ordained Husband.

[@anointed777]

This literally happened to me tonight! Someone wanted to meet up with me for dinner. I told them no. It didn’t feel right.

[@tthuto.m]

Like me, I was supposed to meet up with this guy and he kept on indirectly pressuring me to meet up with him at "his house" and I told him let's up in public first because I don't know him that much and he sounded a bit angry that I wanted that, after a few days he sent me something sexual that's when I knew that nope he was after sex this whole time I was just blind to it and thought maybe it's just my thoughts (my gut feeling) and I am glad I followed it.

[@kateeshaatterberry2009]

Sister, Diyani. It was confirmation when you posted the last video. This test happened last Thursday. Yes, I was restless and attempted to initiate a moment of intimacy with a man who was not my God-ordained spouse. I knew it was inappropriate, and yes, I was being rebellious. God quickly and gracefully shut that down which felt like rejection and catalyzed the necessity to have boundaries around that situation that could easily get out of hand. Now, that this video was posted, and it is even more confirmation if not strong conviction.

[@justme-agon]

The same thing happened to me sister. I was going to go on a date, going back and forth on whether I should. Knowing very well this wasnt the man God has for me. But God shut it down 2 days before the date. Im so grateful for that. God loves us so much ❤️

[@kateeshaatterberry2009]

Yes, the time has since come for us to mature and walk as righteous wives. This prodigal journey has not been easy for me, and I had every intention of “acting bad” with the next man. He is also encouraging me to forgive him because sometimes I use his past mistakes as justification for taking part in activities I know I should not be.

[@deessencecox5452]

This word is DEFINITELY confirmation. I just had a “friend” who I care for so much just reached out to meet this weekend after not hearing from him for months without no explanation. I’ve prayed several times to God about whether he was my purpose partner (spouse) or not. However due to God-given discernment and setting boundaries, I believe I received the answer is NO. I passed the test and I KNOW my God-ordinated spouse is almost here. Thanks so much for sharing, Diyani! May God continue to use and bless you! 💖🙏🏿

[@cheslinscheepers3407]

Its so refreshing to hear this message from a women. So tired of people having the inappropriate best friends. Protect your intermacy keep it for the right person.

[@TheRealestIdealist]

💡🙌🏾I LOVE that you're saying that as a woman of God YHWH!!! I had previous girlfriends who did not respect this boundary and I made the mistake in not respecting myself enough to walk away from those relationships early. Worst decision in my life as it causes soooooo much unnecessary pain later down the line. I questioned myself, am I just being too strict, but NO! Thank you for this confirmation!!!

[@daeveionwilliams4433]

Crazy cause you dropped a video about honey 🍯, and prodigals etc. meanwhile I’m in the navy and I downloaded this videos just to do it all while seeking the lord and reading the word. I went on a fast for the first time and in the midst of consuming God’s word 100% while at sea, I started having dreams and visions and heard audible voices of praise while I prayed once. One day I prayed and ask the lord to reveal my future wife, because I never had a girlfriend before and I’m waiting til marriage. That instant became tired and had four visions and woke up in between to write them down and on the four vision I see a transparent woman and me talking and after the conversation she said the exact words of a girl I’m friends with after talking for a bit used to emphasize to me. That being “I love your smile”. Then I woke up and rejected it because we literally just separated our love, yet we had a spiritual bond and the way we used to talk was like any woman I’ve talked to before. I didn’t accept it until I prayed again and again to give me a sign that that was the enemy, never got the sign. I then started praying that he’ll be patient with me when I say this but can you confirm it if it’s her. I see THIS WOMANS video on sweeter than honey, later my girl post a pic and in the captions put “sweeter than honey 🍯”. I seen a girl that I thought was her and then her face slowly turned to someone else, and currently being perused by a girl who is a lot like my girl yet she’s hella tempting. And I thank you for posting this sis, your amazing and confirmed to me that since she likes me and give signs or wanting to have intercourses with me, I’d must admit that since I have accountability on knowing who my wife is, I don’t want to cheat the promise. Thank you Ms.Neves

[@Thebeautifuldirection]

This was perfect and I loved how you said you would want your husband to set the boundaries just like you are!!!! Yes yes yes

[@TLBee]

🙂 Great Word! I have friends that don't know who their Kingdom spouse will be. But they keep male friendships they know they are not their Kingdom Spouse because they don't want to be lonely and/or bored. 🙁

[@Lynn-vz8yo]

This is great message! Last semester I was having many encounters with guys pursuing me and this one guy I was very flattered by him pursuing me but I knew what God had for me. I found out he would wait for me outside of my class to talk to me before I go to my next class and I didn’t know how to tell him I’m not available. So I believe God gave me the idea to go the opposite way to the other exit to the building. After that I didn’t run into him again. I did feel bad but I was glad I found a way out. Thank you for sharing this!

[@alishabrwn]

My bad! I needed this! I’m used to having male friends and now is definitely the time to completely implement the boundaries because I can see some of them think my kindness is interest and it definitely isn’t.

[@destinyjohnson9063]

You are so on time. Dealing with the same thing. Having the same thoughts.

[@kenyfuller268]

Wow. This is crazy. I literally decided that I would be comfortable talking to other men yesterday. I’ve been reunited with my spouse, but it’s so rocky that I decided maybe entertaining someone else would help split my attention from what’s going on and how painful it is. And it helped alleviate some of the insecurity. But I keeping getting videos like this that tell me it’s a test. And to see all the agreement in the comments really confirms that we’re all connected and in similar seasons. That this is real. We are apart of a movement. God give us strength. ❤

[@Iliana44412]

11:08 I was wondering why GOD lead me to this word because I set boundaries and stand on them, I get it now. Be aware of individuals who may be attracted to me even though I’m not attracted to them and set the necessary boundaries.

[@Errol-j6s]

Thank you for posting this video!!!! I'm going to cook my daughters Spaghetti and have their favorite snacks and put this video on while we eat 😅😂😂😂😂 . Gotta put them on Holy game lol.

[@erinkaye8382]

This was for me. Thank you God 😊

[@hope_mj]

There is this guy, he's a neighbour. He and I can't talk about anything of value or challenging in any way. He just loves my company because I'm friendly and funny naturally, so I get why he wants to be around me. But I want people of faith as companions and he's not one of them. I once told him we need to stop talking and forget about each other, he refused to cut ties and told me it's ridiculous. I can't just ignore him, he's my neighbour. This is also a disadvantage cuz he knows my family and speaks with them. He knows my family drama and toxicity and he seems to want to attach himself more with me so he can be a 'confidant'. So sometimes it feels like I'm compelled to keep communication with him. His heart definitely isn't in the right place but I at least want to lay hands and pray for him. But the more I reveal who God is to him the more he just thinks is another 'good new topic' to keep him around me. He doesn't really see what I'm showing him. I won't force him to but I also don't know how to cut ties with a sociopathic person. I believe he could change but he's not the type of person I want around me either. After seeing this I guess I'll try once again to set up clearer boundaries. Hopefully I don't cause any more bitterness in him

[@jademonique]

This has nothing to do with the message but I loooooooooove your hair ! It’s so cute like that lol , I love your bouncy curly fro too but it’s just something about an up due for me! Have a good day ❤

[@jadegemsss]

Girl… Yes. This and the “close that door video” I hope that sister is careful because I almost ruined everything by being disobedient and stupid. And same here the first thing that happened is I officially cut off this guy that I liked but was treating me like a fling. I also started dressing differently I don’t wear mini skirts and short dresses and crop tops as much because I don’t want to tempt anyone.

[@ethementor]

I think that this really helped me and encourage me. I will definitely take these things to God especially about the blocking because that is honestly the hardest part especially when it is with someone you’ve been talking to for a while someone you have been intimate with or even someone you just met you’ve had a great connection with. I don’t know who my God ordained husband is so that is a little harder for me to except making those permanent boundaries as far as blocking these other people, but I definitely took into consideration what you were saying about not going on dates or anything like that Just thing to yourself because having a relationship with God is a very intimate thing and it does feel great talking to someone else about it, but it feels amazing talking to someone who understands and who has the same low, forgot as you or more.

[@stevie-nicolepeters7761]

Literally confirmation! I had an old friend reach out to me today randomly who I haven’t talked with in a while. Thank you! I knew it was a little suspicious.

[@walkingministries5803]

Jesus!!!!!!!! This is for me!!! OMGGGGG WOWWWWW! This applies so much to my situation as I’m trusting God to reconnect me and my kingdom spouse! Wow!! It’s definitely not easy! The lord knows what we need and when we need it. This message was so on time

[@badgirlgonegood19]

Sis when I tell you both videos was confirmation I blocked someone today Thankyou lord for confirmation I was feeling bad but we have been down this road a few times it’s time to set those boundaries and close that door

[@marcusjohnson7258]

It make’s perfect sense everything you’re saying

[@mayamariiano]

The sound is good on my end and Thank u dyani! 💕

[@abbasholylovergirl]

I completely agree! Thank you for this word ❤

[@nivanisadhai2476]

You mean a liking for everyone, but when you truly love someone, it’s indeed different.

[@miracleylonfoun1022]

This is crazy!! I saw this one couple days ago and didn't take it too seriously but in a 4 day gap, two guys I thought were friends asked to be more than friends. The first one was a little easier to reject but 3 days later, out of nowhere the other guy also asked to be my boyfriend. I was totally not prepared but once I came back to this video I realized I was warned. I just thank God for your obedience!

[@theRisingWombman]

WOWWW! A friend of mine from middle school, like a “brother” has been trying to catch up with me and God has been delaying that so much. And now I feel as though my union is coming together! I also just watched your Last Test Video and I feel like me not meeting up with him was my last test 🙌🏽 Thank you 🙏🏾❤

[@queenj.8i895]

Wow wow wow. Thank you! Timing & word here - impeccable. Thank you, thank you, Dyani! 🌹 Shalom & prosperity to all His children! 🦋

[@racilleashley9506]

Sister Diyani, I understand, what GOD wants, I see what you're saying, Thank you, for a DEEPER insight, we have to be VERY careful, extremely mindful. This is the way, it is.. Women Awareness.. careful...... . Thanks

[@BrendaSolis_]

It’s is the season 😭 this is exactly what I have been going through for the past couple months!! And man, did God check me real good 😔

[@elizabethomonowa]

This is the third confirmation I'm getting that God is talking to me

[@nwhehdhrhrhr82]

All. Praises to the. Most. High.....

[@toshawebster6523]

I enjoy this so much it is a confirmation 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️ thank God for showing me the love of my life 😇I have done my work long ago 👍🏽I'm happy for you 💞

[@AuraEsteem]

I’m learning this now. I’ve been tested on this lately , setting boundaries and breaking out of people pleasing

[@Coveredinthe_blood444]

AMEN SIS 🙏🏾💙

[@victoriousneish429]

10:44 yes! Prayer and Bible study between people in general creates a tighter and more intimate bond 🙏🏾 definitely opens the door 🚪to something else with the opposite sex, intentional or not. This entire message is hitting the nail on the head! I've never had an easy time making genuine male friends. At this point I just want God's will. We have to desire His will over pleasing man , who's in their flesh! 💯

[@marlinec1640]

the last part 😂… but wow so much confirmation and clarity and understanding from this video and a previous one a watched… wow thank you so much… when I say thank you is a big bold THANK YOU… you covered so much for me …Love you too God bless you

[@teesbyangel]

I LOVE HIM SO!

[@stella74539]

Amen Thks Beautiful ❤️😍

[@monicasoyombo3360]

This is a powerful word! Thank you sis.

[@cliffwilson4057]

I have to admit it, very very impressive. Did you go to prophet Elias Lovi conference in Houston. You have a lot of wisdom for your age

[@areinamartina2354]

God is clear these days. I was about to watch a movie and thought about you saw the video about last test and then thought I would go back and comment about this particular thing. And you just came back and elaborate on this because I was talking to God about your last post. I just need the strength to take the necessary steps

[@smileyperlishia]

I literally just told a guy this yesterday 😮😮😮Wow!!! Conformation 🙏🏾🙏🏾A move of God

[@michaelcannon128]

Good Info.It's Also Being Wise.😃

[@princessdanieblue]

I needed to hear this. ❤❤❤

[@neptaliamc4859]

Thank you WOG 🙏🏽 A rhema word for me❤

[@Jazzlovesjesus]

Sis literally last night my guy friend called me and it was weird. I have been his friend online since 2021 and we’ve never called just texted here and there as friends. Well we talked and actually clicked very well.. God already showed me my spouse though thank you for being obedient and doing this video it was quick lol but I needed

[@maria.1c1313]

Thank you for this word, this is it, definitely learning to set boundaries more clearly and firmly. God bless you!

[@alishabrwn]

Thank you‼️💛

[@EdrickPeterson]

That was a beautiful story

[@KPShifflett]

GIRL!! I cannot. I just today received a word about not going outside His will and all that, then I get on here. Like come on😁

[@upliftinggodspeoplewithnushie]

This is right on time my lord

[@chalondajackson9052]

Wow!!! This was so on point with what I’m going through and setting boundaries. You have no idea! I appreciate you so much & the way God is using you to confirm things is incredible. God bless you sis ❤

[@lovemariehobbs7222]

I thank God for this video. This is a blessing.

[@StephanieDhlamini]

This is such a timely prophetic word,and setting boundaries is what am doing now..especially with male friends,who I know has a crush on me.Amen!!to being obedient.

[@Moooonlight-t1f]

Girl wooow. God is with you truly. Thanks 🙏🏽

[@lifecoachmsstarr]

Thank you sister. It is so important I agree 100% boundaries are super important. This resonates with me too because I'm On Assignment to make sure that I keep my boundaries especially with men God bless you

[@born2worship944]

Sound 🔊is good but the video was shaking like crazy 🤣I literally tried to watch it but my head almost became dizzy I had to turn my phone down n just listen... Thanks for the word sis Obedience is better than sacrifice it's not comfortable but it's worth it at the end of it

[@aliciamarie6754]

😂

[@marcusjohnson7258]

That’s facts it’s not about your heart or your feelings. It’s god that will tell you if that is your soulmate

[@edwardcabalsi2546]

thank you.

[@gallowaykevin8756]

Yes 🥰 and Amen My sister in the LOrd ! You are so beautiful , smart and sincere young lady Dyani having many things to say indeed ! Peace to you and this house in Jesus name ! I LOve it !

[@gabbymm3301]

All the glory to the father 🙌god bless my lil sis🤗♥️🙏♥️

[@ilsevillegas9126]

Thank you so much Dyani, And thank you God for using your Daughter 🥹🤍

[@justme-agon]

Wow sister. I believe I needed to hear this message. Your message of testing happened to me. A week ago. And God has definitely been working with me with setting boundaries. Grateful for this word.

[@The_Opa_Way]

SISTERRRRR!!! MY GUY BESTFRIEND GOT CUT FROM ME TOO. But we both didn’t like eachother or nun we were just super close so he made us more distant. Plus a guy gave me his number randomly yesterday too😭 This def for me…

[@taquasiawilliams3642]

My current stuggle is how to set boundaries while co parenting. We have a 3yr old and 15 yr old together.

[@goddessk4610]

Same here girl same here

[@monicasoyombo3360]

Use email and text. There are apps to manage appointments, pta meetings and so forth. There is no need to even see them honestly - at least until you are healed from the situation and you are able to say NO.. You don't have to worry about their feelings, that relationship is over. Make the boundary and ask for God's help. It IS possible. Keep your eyes☝🏿.

[@karenfonseca255]

I just wanted to say that this is happening to me right now, and is also with a brother in christ, so things have been really confusing for me, like I don't know if God just suddendly change his mind or something about the promise he gave me. Last time I spent time with him, God put in my heart this scripture "Matthew 26:41" and I knew that this was temptation.

[@cherrydinigo2479]

girl, confirmation and encouraged me. God bless you

[@cherrydinigo2479]

and I was tempted to go the movie theater by myself. lol.

[@juelj1002]

Girl you are Beautiful Sis

[@feliciarosario8460]

Thank you for this word

[@shaemkley]

Thank you sis!!!!! XxOOxX and thank you Lord!!!! 💋💋💋🍷🥀🕊🍞

[@butterflyygirl]

This is what I needed to hear

[@kgodsgirl]

Thank you ❤

[@sashamichelle3522]

Amen - Good Word! God is using you 🙏🏽

[@Nana-ck1nw]

Thank you so much I needed to hear this.

[@cegecej]

Can you give the people some beauty tips? Nail care? Skin care? Hair care?

[@MrSa458]

You know that I already know my wife I only know her name or mom's name or grandma's name So anyways God bless you sister Dyain and keep up the great work that you're doing for the kingdom of God with your encouraging words that you're giving 🔥✝️🙌🏿🕊

[@lighthouseforGod]

Thank you for your obedience 🙏🏽

[@terijordan6354]

Thank you

[@williamjackson7143]

Always remember never leave your first Love and that's Jesus Christ #1 always

[@royaltyknowledge5963]

This word was definitely for me

[@lovealwaychar]

so right on time for me right now. thank you

[@verocimil]

Thank you so much for this propelling clarity!

[@rachelgreco6995]

Man, ive had to block SO many guy "friends" in the past because they posed as friends while having ulterior motives to make moves on me. It always hurt because i could really care for em but they got real hostile when i told them it wasnt like that. Their true colors revealed made me see WHY Abba did not make any of them my spouse! Unfortunately, im a person who has the habit of giving the benefit of the doubt to people and being oblivious to social situations sometimes. Other people may notice something there before i do. Problem is, i have no close female friends nowadays. Would be nice if me and my spouse are each others best friends. Im really a one person kinda gal.

[@jesusready668]

Thank You for the correction

[@elijah8018]

STOP I was just about to FaceTime the person who was doing this to me and not respecting my boundaries

[@MalykkaTheOne]

😂😂😂 sis you killing me… I pictured us falling in love 😂😂😂 okay but tell me why this is confirmation for me right after I got a call 🤣 and I was sitting here thinking that sound nice but nah…. And then I see your vid ❤ GOD IS GOOD

[@MoNation23]

I’ve been so lost !! I met this guy at church he’s the sweetest and I’ve been asking God to reveal what my purpose is in his life…this guy likes me and i and fond of him but i am just unsure and i don’t wanna step out of Gods will should i still be communicating and being friends with him? 😢 pls help lol

[@christ4lif333]

Diyani, what helps you keep lust at bay when God has already revealed who your future spouse will be? Probably tmi, but i have a hard time not lusting after my Kingdom Partner in my thoughts sometimes. We are not reunited yet though, so I am trying to keep my thoughts and mental associations pure as I wait on God to fulfill that promise. How do you set those boundaries with your own brain? ❤

[@realnettieb]

Lol Gworl I’m coming out of my Flirting ways……

[@Serenity_escapes]

I have a male coworker who I've shared too much and I considered them a very good friend but I do think they are interested and recently I blocked them from viewing my social media but I haven't had a conversation about cutting off the Xtra talk and now I'll tell him I've over shared and I need to stop

[@abideintruevine]

this was so needed !! Thank you

[@IamOsunkemi]

Ok I got a call from a male friend while listening to this and I know he likes me but God hasn’t shown me my spouse yet 😭

[@Jazzlovesjesus]

Omg me too!!!

[@IamOsunkemi]

So this has me questioning let go of my male friend should I even though I haven’t gotten confirmation abt my spouse maybe he is the spouse 🤔 I’ll definitely pray on it

[@lizzysaliz]

Mannn!! Confirmation I’ve been cutting people off and blocking people and so uninterested in everyone. My ex just tried to slide back and nope gotta go😭 the Lord revealed him in my dream like 2 days before. And now I had to break down and tell this one dude that was asking me why I curved him that I know my husband so there’s no point

[@royaltyknowledge5963]

Wow that happened to me , a old friend guy that came back in my life, and the first when we talked, the lord stated to me that's that I needed to let him go because my future husband is coming. So I let him go, so he came back months later, and he said something that allowed me to block him, and then I sent him a letter saying I kindly decline