BRA101 PT6 STORY TIME - FITTING A TRANSGENDER PERSON FOR BRAS | INMYSEAMS

[@msjanetteok]

I know a lot of people will have opinions about what I said but before this encounter, I had zero idea of what transgender even meant. I grew up in a conservative Christian household and raised up in the church. My beliefs have nothing to do with anyone else but my upbringing didn’t give me a chance to meet members apart of the LGBTQ community! I’m still learning and want to learn more and love those who feel marginalized by this society. I didn’t mean to offend a single person or group. It’s just a learning process for me too

[@tommiegallegos5162]

INMYSEAMS You are Great !!! I live near vegas. I would love to shop in your store !!!

[@3Danful]

That blasted word that makes my back shiver with hate of what it does to the world. It's great you're opening up to understanding lgbtq. May it continue and hope one day people like me can live without fear and to enjoy life that biological genders can. :)

[@icemeoutlikeelsa]

girl please, unless you're brain dead, you know what it means. TRANS GENDER. Unless you failed basic 5th grade English

[@alexbenjaminlubbers]

I'm a transgender female who has yet to start my transition. I grew up in the same background you did and my parents are very unsupportive Christians. Just a bit of clarification though, you can't become transgender, it's how God made the person. It took me 10 years to come out of hiding because of how my parents reacted back when I was 13. I'm 24 now and will be 25 in December.

[@3Danful]

@@alexbenjaminlubbers there's no such thing as god, atleast Interms of our earth and everything on it. The Big bang theory is the only question mark. Everything that happens too you that makes you, you from birth is dictated by your mother's bodily health, genes combining mother and father and dictated by hormonal levels may also influence the gender you become or how dominant the genes are. It's no different to disabilities dictated by corrupted genes that may develop you differently from normal babies. Some don't become apparent until later. Eitherway there is evidence to suggest that confusion can happen where you develop a female induced brain while developing a male body. It's no different with inter sexd and female to male individuals too. Alot of people will always be confused about their own bodies corrupted by different feelings that are masculine and feminine. Thats why some don't come out until later but also due to restriction caused by society where religion is rife for transphobia homophobia and discrimination. You can lose your job, your partner even your family and friends for coming out. I know I have been deeply affected by coming out and no longer have a life as a result because of society.

[@Gage_Cendrowski]

I am a trans woman, which means I was born male, and I’m petrified of going anywhere to get fitted for a bra. If I were to walk in and someone treated me like you treated them, I would be so happy and relieved. That’s amazing customer service, and you’re pretty great for doing that for them.

[@dearadrianaadams6214]

Gage Cendrowski exactly same here. I’m not in that stage of my transition, but I’m hoping when I am I have someone like her.

[@JessicaSimonson1976]

Victoria Secret....never had an issue

[@kerrissarebekah3287]

Did u change ur chromosomes change also?

[@JessicaSimonson1976]

@@kerrissarebekah3287 uh no that doesn't happen....all you do during transition is shut down male hormones, and bring up level of female hormones to a level of a female.

[@chris__10]

@@JessicaSimonson1976, ​I think Kerrissa was merely showing disdain towards us trans folk - as if we're unfamiliar with crap like that.

[@a.irizarri124]

For someone who obviously knows very little about transgender people the empathy you showed was beyond reproach and you seriously have excellent customer service skills. Thank you for making Daisy's first bra buying experience a pleasant one.

[@msjanetteok]

A. Irizarri ❤️ thank you so much that comment means so much to me that you would think of me that way!

[@alexispope8328]

As a transgender woman I love VS. I went into a VS in Seattle and the ladies were awesome they had no problems fitting me for my first bra. I was pre hormones at the time and had a full beard. One of the sales lady’s asked if I needed help and I told her I was trans and wanted to get fitted but don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable she said don’t worry about that. The hole experience was nerve racking but when all said and done I had a good time. I don’t wear anything else but VS. love the story

[@asteriasummers4600]

As a trans woman, I really appreciate hearing this! I had a wonderful experience when I went to Victoria’s Secret a few years back to get bras.

[@msjanetteok]

Asteria! Thank you so much! This makes me so happy knowing you had a great experience!

[@katielooloo8293]

Victoria’s Secrets do they have large size bras for large size lady’s for men that are large ?

[@heartbroken715]

Damn well ought to be at $100/ea

[@TheStoneWhisperer]

It’s amazing how ONE person’s acceptance of a marginalized individual can have such a profound impact! You probably don’t realize how you validated Daisy’s existence! That’s so critical when a transgender person is in that early stages of transition. I had a similar good experience in Lane Bryant and now ALL the sales staff there are like friends to me! They’ll run around and bring suggested pieces into the change area for me & offer genuine feedback on things I try on. That positive affirmation means the WORLD to us! So thank you! 👍🙏🏻♥️

[@MrMarsala31]

The world needs more people like you

[@MiaRosenbloom]

INMYSEAMS, you handled that situation superbly! You asked his name and pronouns, found out he didn't mind male pronouns due to being in the beginning of his transition, took him in the back of the fitting room where he can be more discrete, all of that was awesome. Thank you for sharing this story! :)

[@msjanetteok]

Mia Honeyrose thank you Mia for your encouragement! When people post anything on the internet, it can sometimes come across incorrectly but I’m so glad to hear you enjoyed the story!

[@ricardogutierrez5718]

You deserve a raise. And a heart of gold for helping someone you didn't know and you went out of your way to help.😊

[@laragwen102]

This was a great story. Thank you for sharing it with us. I'll never forget my first trip into a department store and attempt to try it on in a fitting room something that I liked. I was so ignorant. I knew nothing about women's sizes. I didn't even know the difference between petite and + sizes. I wasn't passing very well and the sales person, an older woman, refused to let me try it on. She was so incensed that I looked masculine and wanted to try on something feminine. I was so embarrassed, I fled. It took me another month to work up the courage to try again. Fortunately the sales person in the second store was much more understanding and helpful. I'll never purchase another product from that first department store. Thank you for your sensitivity.

[@michellec3558]

I'm a transgender girl ( which means I was born a boy and transitioned to a girl) And I appreciate your kindess ❤❤❤❤❤❤ is very scary for us transgenders .... Because people look at us weird.

[@msjanetteok]

Hi! I’m so glad you commented! Actually this was very scary for me to upload because you know, everyone has an opinion but even if one person felt love or encouragement through this video, that’s all that matters to me 💕💕

[@michellec3558]

INMYSEAMS Thank you so much for having the courage and you have a heart of gold. Btw I love your makeup.💕💕

[@reneeyoung2398]

Don't worry honey, I would never do that to you

[@jillreylanpa3838]

Ma Xoxo

[@sumthingangelsvlg]

I'm also transgender and I know what its like as well.

[@mehkayla6685]

As a trans women myself, my fitting at VS went soo awesome!! My sales associate was super kind and, on an another note, she remembered me during my next visit!! It was so cool and very affirming.. great story girl!

[@christinagoodloe96]

You demonstrated an amazing amount of sensitivity and kindness, tolerance, work ethic, and acceptance. Thank you. If there were more women like you the world would be a much better place for many of us. Especially like me who have been in the closet for fifty years. I hope and pray I'll find someone like you that will provide me with the same help that you gave "Daisy". Please continue your good work. God bless you!

[@Payton20ADZ]

I am a transgendered woman and you handled that beautifully !

[@zoeya2955]

I was nervous af when I got my first makeup, when I got my first bras and underwear, when I got my first clothes. As a person who started hormones before being 100% living as me its hella scary knowing you have breast growth starting and need bras but dont 'look right' yet. Had a awesome makeup counter girl help me once, that reminds me of this.

[@sumthingangelsvlg]

I'm transgender and I have been fitted at Victoria secret before. But in my case I'm transitioned enough where I look like any other girl, And I had a pretty well experience my self.

[@wildandfree7802]

You are an ugly boy inside you

[@Official_8935]

Ive bought alott of panties their but hadnt been fitted i felt i needed to learn on my own lol it seemed to me pretty simple

[@keydakillbill2603]

Me too

[@johnnyestrada5096]

LOVED THE STORY, I AM TRANSGENDER .. MALE TO FEMALE..REMINDS ME OF MY FIRST TIME GETTING FITTED FOR A BRA AT VICTORIA SECRET. I WAS NERVOUS BUT THE GIRL MADE ME FEEL COMFORTABLE. I BOUGHT THE BRA THAT SHE RECOMMENDED AND LEFT THE STORE WITH A SMILE.

[@OnlyCocoMousse]

I like that you said you wanted to be respectful to all you’re customers! Treating everyone with respect. Love it

[@tuckedrightup]

You have my utmost respect. I wish everybody had your thoughtfulness. There is nothing quite like wearing nice, well fitted clothing, whether it is designated female or male. I think you may be an angel amongst us.

[@msjanetteok]

tuckedrightup wow that is so sweet of you to say❤️ thank you so much

[@PumpkinChi]

Thank you for doing your best in moments like that. Not over all just trying your best to help. The world needs more people like you

[@misssrubie]

Wow, it's been a while since I've shopped (or attempted to) at a Victoria's Secret store. When I walked in, the woman on the floor seemed very helpful, but I was far too scared to know what she might've been thinking. I wasn't sure if I was being seen as some pervert or something. This was before I even began my medical transition but I was "out" for the most part. I never got properly fitted because I basically just jolted out of there before I could buy anything. I wish I could go back to that day and tell myself not to be afraid. Or at least convince myself that there are people like you who genuinely just want to help. Thank you for this and I hope this helps anyone who is in this situation. And to "Daisy", I am beyond happy that you have found who you truly are. The most difficult part of the road is accepting yourself.

[@Bluestar-1969]

I know this video has been out a while but I just saw it today. I am a transgender woman and started my journey 5 years ago. So, I have breast but I'm still to nervous to go get a bra fitting. I just go with sizes and brands that seemed to fit o.k but it is difficult to find one that really fits perfect. It can take a lot of courage for trans women who are not 100% passable. I am proud of Daisy to have that courage and for you for being an understanding person and doing what you felt was the right thing to do. I hope to have that kind of experience if I ever get the courage up to finally be fitted for a properly fitting bra. You are amazing and thank you for sharing this story!.

[@mirandaconner477]

Great story, I'm planning in going someday to Victoria Secrets to get fitted. I hope I find someone just like you. Thank you...

[@TheLude1989]

Hello! I'm not trans or gay. I'm a straight male that crossdresses. One of my first experiences shopping was at VS and it was awesome. Not only did the employees help other customers helped and encouraged me as well. Thanks for the video and story! :)

[@samanthajayjones2645]

Whats so surprising when you start to transition is how positive some people are. you just expect bad all the time, its impossible to explain how much it means to be treated with respect . The bad experiences knock you back so much but the good ones lift you back up and dust you off.

[@msjanetteok]

stephen jones 💕💕 I have heard that same reaction or response from others as well and I hope you know you are LOVED!

[@samanthajayjones2645]

Thank you x

[@unlacedmalkavian]

Some may pick on your language and say it isn't correct or it's sometimes misinformed or disrespectful... but it seems like your heart is in the right place. Thank you for being kind and supportive. Your gesture may have gone miles for that person.

[@jenniferhopesafe9742]

You are a very kind woman. I have a question though, what if the person wasn't trans per se, but asked you to help fitt them for bras, how would you feel? Also, what inspired you to be so open to the LGBTQ community?

[@TetraResinstone]

You handled this so well! Go you! I hope your story helps other people in retail especially in undergarments retail. Makes me happy to see how you and your manager made the best decision to ensure all your customers felt comfortable and confident. *hugs*

[@chyvaelry]

You are an absolute treasure! And what your manager said "Do what's best for the customer" gave me a lump in my throat. I'm not there yet, but I hope I'm lucky enough to find someone like you when I go bra shopping.

[@Jennifrer83]

Hopefully you havent recived any hate from this video. As a trans woman I appreciate the delicate situation you were in. Many from both sides of the argument will say you didn't do this or that right but the important thing is the respect you showed to your customer. so from me Thank you.

[@pinkhouses8300]

I am a transgender that has begun my journey to become a girl. I have shopped for skirts, dresses cute shoes, panties and makeup. I still have not had a bra fitting yet. I would totally feel comfortable with how you handled that. I hope to get fitted soon.

[@kccutiegirl1]

I wish there were more people like you in this world that are willing to help a trans person when they do not know what to do or where to look. You are definitely an Ally to the trans community. Keep up the great work and great videos too.

[@msjanetteok]

K.C. Kubik aww thank you so much❤️

[@timothypena9598]

Thank you! I was also very fortunate to find an amazing bra manager at VS to help me navigate me through my first bra shopping experience.

[@tiffanyw3064]

Thanks for you kindness, I'm a trans woman and to me you did very well. I've been treated well at Victoria Secrets, though there must be something in the stores that make you want to buy something

[@johntowers5767]

How would I get fitted

[@stephenweddle1390]

Lovely story and well done you for your positive approach. I've had great bra fitting service at Anne Summer here in the UK, where they were only too happy to invite me through to the fitting room. Everybody is so much more relaxed now. Just a shame that more shops don't go beyond size 38 and go up to 40 or 42.

[@heyitsjosh1056]

Hi Janette. I would just like to say (even though I'm seeing this a year later) that this video gave me so much hope. I am a (now) young man (13 years old) and am have been questioning my sex. I've told my friend and she has helped me find a bra on Pink. I didn't know what size I should get and I am too scared to go inside a Victoria Secret. To "Daisy" thank you for giving me the courage to do what I want to do.

[@emily38c34]

I love to wear bras 😑

[@jamesturner9]

As a trans female myself I want to say that I wish we had more sales personnel like you. I have not started back on hormones yet but all experience I have had at VS has always been positive. I have a trans female friend who used to work at one of the stores and even she said they are very supportive and helpful. My hat off to you and keep up the good work.

[@jamescoler866]

as a transwoman who has not transitioned yet it would be absolutely wonderful to have a resource like this young lady to help me out when I get to that point. Just super!!! Renews my faith in humanity!

[@SalettaRocks]

A wonderful story! I am a transitioning transgender woman. Transition usually takes 3 forms, medical, social and legal. Each one of these can take literally years to complete. So, you can have someone who is just starting out, who may have taken decades to build up the courage to try dressing as other gender. This person may look very masculine but is actually female inside...female soul. I'll focus on male to female. They are female, but it often depends how someone is presenting...so a trans person who comes in to your store presenting male, use male pronouns...if presenting as female use female pronouns. . .if unsure, ask. Someone this early in dressing, could be cross dressing or transitioning... You don't know unless they tell you and they may not even know for sure what the future holds. So, be very empathetic, kind and respectful because they feel very vulnerable. You can literally improve their feeling of self worth by a 1000x. I wish Victoria secret had more ranges in size for very small breasted women, but there is Pink...which serves younger lesser developed customers. It's nice because the two store are conected. My transition is a few years in and I blend very well. I was very pleased with the fitting and the knowledge and checking sizes. Thank you,... I also, returned on a later date to fit my daughter for her first real bra. I was treated as her mother as I should be and Iit felt wonderful sharing the positive fitting experience with her. ...the point is we are people, parents, families and if you recognize the humanity in us you will discover we are pretty much like you and everyone else. Thank you for support and sharing. I encourage you and others to learn more and to talk with people in the trans community how to better serve them. .

[@msjanetteok]

Great comment! Thank you to add an important point to this conversation!

[@JeannieLove]

I'm trans and 2 years ago started transitioning and actually got fitted for my first bra at Victoria's Secret. You guys are amazing, really suprised me, coming from a very conservative state. Maybe you got this already, but it's not "becoming transgender". For next time, the phrase would be "starting to transition".

[@caradu9973]

❤️ ️ ❤️ ❤️ I'm almost in tears I'm at the start of my transition and I know how daisy must have felt and I am so happy that there are people in the world like you!!!! thank you as a trans girl myself this is amazing thank you for treating her like a human being ❤️

[@msjanetteok]

Thank you for your comment💕

[@PinValentine]

I knits that you don't know much, but knowing that there are people like you around make me happy.

[@kitten34234]

I wish I could find a bra that fits me I'm very wide shouldered an my measurements are off I'm a transgender woman but I have yet to find any bra to fit

[@Official_8935]

Plus my torso seems to be a 32-34 i wear C cups alott. With my bikini i wear a small B cup top some of the time but thats neither here or their lol

[@NathalieIvonne]

I LOOOOOVED THIS VIDEO JANNETTE 💕 thank you so much for sharing!

[@msjanetteok]

Nathalie Ivonne awww thank you so much!!!

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[@shepd3]

You did very well. I'm transgender (Male to X) and currently on hormones. I expect to need to be fitted soon. I am fortunate to have a supportive wife that's helped me be confident buying the clothes and makeup I desire. Many don't have that confidence or support and your customer was definitely one of them. It's understandable. After all, toxic masculinity says it's "wrong" for men to wear things or do things that are meant for women (even if those things were once for men or there's no good reason that all genders can't wear/do them).

[@diamondsmith8131]

I appreciate the fact you helped her fit for a bra. I so wish I had someone to help me. But over n over you misgendered her. Which hurts the person emotionally. Kept calling her a man n saying he. Otherwise kudos for helping!!!!

[@Otaku_Nerds]

Love the video! Wish we had more people like you at VS 💜 I swear every time I ever been in the stores I always feel extremely uncomfortable...

[@robertbodek4473]

Thank you for treating them with so much respect! Their journey is so much to deal with. A kind and helpful person will always make a lasting impression. I’m one too!

[@cloudycat3610]

You are such a wonderful person. Glad to have people like you in this world! ❤️❤️

[@kittinmittins]

I recently started transitioning, and this makes me feel way less nervous about getting fitted for a braw. so thoughtful of u and nice customer service💖!

[@BERUBEL]

I'm a shy personne, but i feel i have to wear a bra. Do you think i need to buy one?

[@HeavyMetalTrunks]

who downvotes this?! your an incredible human being and a model sales clerk! kudos

[@jeanporta85]

Glad you were able to help someone without judging. Stores needs more people like you.

[@himesama_k407]

Loved this video! I wonder if all the Victoria stores would be so nice. Earlier in my transitions I went to Victoria Secret in Vancouver BC and Burnaby BC Canada and just really got nervous!! Then my voice changed and it squealched and left! That poor girl got clocked! So sad. In Canada we make the genetic changes to help prevent these challenges in our ID's to show we are female or vice versa. Hopefully more Victoria Secrets can be as accommodating. :) Glad you did this video. Really hoping Victoria Secret can do more, cause I love the styles!

[@himesama_k407]

Thumbs up!!

[@msjanetteok]

Thank you so much for the love and support and sharing a little bit of your story!!

[@nicolemellott1983]

you are a great person with a huge heart glad to hear of your kindness thank you for your kindness ( i need to get fitted got some growth ) you are a good person hugs

[@donaldwagaman8195]

This gives me hope. I''m a man that is getting ready to come out as a cross dresser. I've been looking to get fitted but always get terrible attitudes when I ask. It takes enough courage to be ready to come out in public let alone a man asking for help with a bra fitting. I will give Victoria's Secret a try based on this video and hope someone treats me like you treated that customer. I've set a date and will be sticking to it to come out. Boy am I nervous I won't pass. I'm ready to let my other personality blossom. Thank you for posting this and proving there are great sales people as you.

[@jimmielittle877]

Hope you have a lot of fun and stay safe 🌹

[@chrismalone5027]

I'm a transgender female myself and the first person I told was a Victoria Secrets employee as well. She did the whole welcome to VS also and how can I help you? For what ever reason I told her I was shopping for myself, and she was like cool, how can I help? That has been 7 months ago now and to this day, I still go back to see her and a couple others for all my bra and lingeria needs because she was so cool about everything. Thank you.

[@Dreamer5211]

Hi , Thank you for your support of the transgender customer , real customer support , I thought it was a thing of the past , you have proven otherwise. You offered kindness / understanding / support / and friendship , for that I thank you on behalf of the transgender community. Personally I shall tell you ... , but in public I will say I am a supporter of the LGBT community and they need to know there are people like you willing to go the extra mile to help. Dysphoria is deadly , you may very well have saved a life , a person feeling so alone with the wrong body to go that far , tells me she was very close , and you with your kindness literally pulled her from the brink. Please continue your work in supporting the trans community , they need kind and caring people like you. Thanks for making history and possibly saving a life. Gary

[@Dreamer5211]

Thank you for appreciating my words , and please keep up the GR8 work you are doing , Gary

[@juligrlee556]

Nice work. You set a beautiful example. Your acceptance and honoring of this individual is a very honorable thing. I wish there were awards for people like you. Love you. I wish you were my friend. You are so amazing being yourself. I hope you honor yourself like this always. Help people like this with mastectomy bras where they can use prosthetics. Oh ya, you are beautiful in so many ways. I love your personality. You are a caring person.

[@howaikiat3149]

Is victoria secret transgender friendly? Does it differ for different countries?

[@TheRockhound119]

When I got my first bra, I measured myself, and used an online calculator, and then bought a cheap but nice looking bra from Walmart... The cashier was actually someone who had known me for years, and she didn't ask questions.

[@jwenting]

she probably thought it was for your mother or something... Which is why most bras bought by (biological) men get purchased.

[@TheRockhound119]

@@jwenting Nah, by cashier knew me for years, she would have to have been stupid to think it was for either my mother or my sister due to size. I was smaller than both. She also knew I didn't have a girlfriend. Like the cashier was my sister's best friend.

[@jwenting]

@@TheRockhound119 nods. Different scenario, works too :)

[@joe.O7X]

This is really sweet. I’ve been really apprehensive about going to get fitted for a bra... but I think I’m going to go to VS and see if I can fix that 🙈 It’s just really nerve-racking for trans people and crossdressers because most people don’t look at us the same way they look at women in a Victoria’s Secret store. We stick out, and a lot of times we draw more attention to ourselves than we want, and that’ can be really hard to deal with. But hearing about the way you dealt with this customer has been really reassuring... I think you treated this person with so much compassion and consideration of their feelings, if the rest of the VS staff are like you, I’m never gonna shop anywhere else for underwear and lingerie 🥺💕

[@Kerry0101]

What I learned from this...be confident in asking for a bra fitting, non shifting eyes..its just a little journey to womanhood which we all as transgenders crave. I would love to get a bra fitting and know that bras are going to make me feel pretty. Up to this point now that I am on hormones for 2 months..life is changing for me and the breasts are starting to form!! I am looking forward to the pain I will have knowing the pain is were the growth will be and I will have to wear a bra or bras of all kinds to help control them. Thank you for sharing the experience. I am also 6 ft 1 inch. Keep up the good work.

[@msjanetteok]

Thank you for sharing a bit of your journey with us! Good luck to you! ❤️

[@kevinupshaw3404]

I'm hoping you still use this and read this post. Im almost 38 years old. And I just came out as transgender to my parents, and them and my sister are all that know in person so far. And I'm 6'2" and built like a lineman in football. So when I heard you talk about the person in the video I'm thinking that could be me, it's not, but I'm the same size basically. I just want to thank you. For being how you are. I grew up in a Christian household and wasn't around the LGBTQ community. And growing up in the south, people believe gay and bi and different is wrong. But when you go through your life unhappy and never knowing why really, and then when you ask yourself questions and sit and think and realize you're transgender. And you go and ask questions and look for answers else where and when you finally admit it to someone and you feel lighter and freer than you ever have. Sigh. Thank you.

[@brianneglass3141]

I loved this! You are amazing. Thanks for sharing this story!

[@Official_8935]

Just so you know im transgender. and that is an amazing story. i feel i shouldnt ask this, but im going anyhow. lol but did you get that person's age as you said you were. The second person they have told with not telling they're parents.

[@kellilopez3910]

I think you’re awesome! Unfortunately not everyone is as understanding as you are. As a trans woman. This was very difficult going out and getting fitted for my first bra. Due to my biological make up I’ve been producing more estrogen than testosterone. So my breast are all natural. When I started growing into a C cup, I started experiencing a lot of breast pain. My doctor recommended that I change from the Cotton sports bras that I was wearing which had no support to a bra that has support. When I went to get fitted for a bra. I had one of my female friends come with me. The first two boutiques we went to. I was turned away. I respected the staffs. Response to not wanting to assist somebody who is in the middle of their transition. But the third boutique we went to. The staff and the manager were very understanding of my situation. What makes me a little different than other trans women. Is that my transitioning is not a decision of my own. It’s due to medical problem. And when a person has larger breast. It can be quite painful with not wearing the correct bra. Plus after getting fitted with the correct bra. I was astounded because I didn’t think my breast were that large. For quite a while I’ve been wearing bralettes / Cotton sports bras with no support made by Haines,and fruit of the loom. They’re cute, but they don’t offer any support

[@jimmielittle877]

Mine have started to grow too and I'm excited to finally have some boobies 🌸

[@kellilopez3910]

jimmie little : Congratulations Jimmie Little. I’m still growing. At the present. I’m a DDD.

[@jimmielittle877]

Mine are natural too 🌷

[@jennah796]

I shop VS online. Have to get the courage to go in the store. Right now I use mainly sports bras and bralettes

[@johnhatfield6963]

You are just an amazing woman to be able to help her get the bra she was comfortable in and made her feel good about herself. I wish more people were like you...

[@ralphs88]

I want to say thank you for doing what you did to help a transgender woman to come out. Baby steps. I also am slowly coming out as transgender. I absolutely love when the salesperson is helpful and understanding.

[@meowchuz]

I wish people are just nice like you. I am also a MtF transgender without doing any transition yet, so I don't dare to visit the store cause I am scared how people judge me and I might make other cis-women feel uncomfortable. Choosing to buy online through Amazon, but sometimes it doesn't fit well because I was not raised as a woman before. However, I think it is just a bra, that's it.

[@aislingweber4240]

I am trans female and it’s uncomfortable for us to buy clothing but a little not call them females and not refer them as male it can trigger a lot of bad memories

[@marcbeckwith1748]

When ever a person going to get a 36 d if she couldn't find the size what would fit a 34 dd or 34 d what other size could fit that cup size

[@frasermitchell2765]

Super cool story and you're a great brand ambassador.

[@lenaritcher2938]

You are totally awesome I’m a mtf I have struggled in shops

[@hughbo52]

Due to size limitations, I'm surprised this guy even tried V.S. About the most he could do, without someone like yourself, would be to get a fitting...in some stores. It's a tough thing for guys to work up the nerve to go into the lingerie section, but it's even tougher to find receptive places. Good for you.

[@Dunbars123]

I just watched this. Thank you for sharing your experience with a transgender person, I'm a transgender woman as well, born as a male, not fully transitioned yet. But. This made me so happy. Thank you for sharing it once again

[@Ellenslife851]

It was a lovely story if I lived closer to you I’d request you for fitting me I still haven’t worn a real bra yet mostly just slip on spandex bras

[@chantaalxoxo]

love that you shared this story with us! 💛💛 xo

[@msjanetteok]

OVO chantal your comment means so much to me! Thank you for your love!

[@Ellenslife851]

I’m proud of you for what good deed you did

[@marcynelson9177]

I'm a Transwoman, and have never been fitted for a bra. Except to do it myself. My measurements say in some places that i am a 40 A Cup to a AA Cup, while others say i am a 38 A cup.I have found that a true 40 A and AA cup just fits to loose the band moves up and down, and their is a little extra fabric in the cup of the A and not enough in the AA, The problem here is that a 40 AA cup i spill out of a little, Thats on a formed bra, spillage is about the thickness of the cup. on a 38A cup they seem to fit good on the cup, but the band sometimes feels tight, depending on the bra. Now to be honest i have never shopped in a store for bras, i have always gotten mine online, from like Amazon and Ebay. on average bras ordered from Asia are usually a size smaller then the label. So i usually order a size bigger but keep the CUP size the same.So a 38A cup becomes a 40A cup. On amazon i can order a 38A and it fits, just a little tight but not uncomfortable or digging in to much. I follow the rule of 2 fingers between the skin and wing of the bra and making sure the center gore of the bra lays flat, and i fill the upper cup and under cup. Most all the bras i buy are wired lightly lined to unlined bras. I avoid pushup bras, simply because i dont feel i have enough to push up, even on an A cup. THE HARDEST PART FOR ME WAS WHEN I FIRST MEASURED MYSELF FOR A BRA, WAS WHEN I FIRST STARTED TRANSITION AND HAD NO BRAS. all the sites say wear a soft unlined bra and take your measurements, Impossible to do when you just start and have no bra to work from, and the bra should fit snug but not dig in. So here is how i came to my measurements for a bra. 3 MEASUREMENTS ; first around the chest just under the breast 36 in ; keeping it at the same level as the band measurement wrap around to the top of the breast just below the arm pit 37 1/3 ; fullest part of the breast 40 1/4.So i used the number between the first number and the last number for the band, 38 In. Cup measured as an A cup Now i know these are most likely wrong all the way around, but its all i have to work with to measure myself.

[@thiswonderlandlife]

I am a brand ops manager for a store in South Carolina. I wish I could find a bfe who cares as much as you do. Excellent video.

[@msjanetteok]

Alice In Charleston love this comment❤️ in retail, especially vs, we have a really special opportunity to touch peoples lives in a way most people can't. i never took that for granted and i loved every moment in the fits with my customers ❤️

[@kimberlyfarciss4884]

i've had a few experiences at vs, shopping for panties, at 2 differant vs stores. one was a good experience, but i felt like they were rushing me out the door, and the other, the sales associate was kind of rude to me. love the videos, they are helpful

[@NASIRUB1]

Wow! She looks amazing!!! Good video, thanks for sharing.

[@DANCINGWITHTHEFAILS]

I feel in a very same boat as Daisy. Thank you for doing that and respecting her pronouns even though she didn't mind being called male then.

[@jimmielittle877]

As a pre trans mtf thank for treating the customer with such kindness 🥀

[@daryl013]

Such a beautiful person you are!, The world should be filled with more people like you!

[@blaireofhylia1572]

Oh.. this isn't a tutorial

[@davefisher1840]

You did such a wonderful job! :-)

[@trumpyfaustings2025]

So that transgender girl isn’t a guy. So just please know that in the future, please explain this in a way that you’re not calling her a guy or he. As a fellow trans girl, please don’t refer even in past tense. She is and always was a girl, regardless of your discovery as such.

[@msjanetteok]

Hello, thanks for the note! She just asked me to call her “he/him” which is why I used it :) but that makes sense!

[@msjanetteok]

Gabriella Marie thanks love 💕

[@trumpyfaustings2025]

INMYSEAMS Okay well that’s fair then.

[@kerrissarebekah3287]

Are u stupid??? Did your chromosomes change? Can u naturally produce a baby? Did your prostate go away? No matter how much you cut and paste your genetic makeup remains the same.... MALE

[@RACHELTAYLOR7]

It sounds like you gave great customer service.

[@briansesztak86]

What an amazing story . The world needs more people like you .

[@deborahp.2085]

I went to Sephora and it was really scary too. And the sales lady was rlly helpful and in the end I spent over $500. We r paying customers , if u help us respectfully u will make a sale. We're not jus in there randomly, we want to shop although quickly to not be noticed

[@wakypyro3247]

i'm a trans woman, most of us just starting to transition we appreciate the employee taking us to the very back. it brings less attention towards us, when i started to transition i didn't want anyone se me try on clothes. i didn't even want to go in to the mens restroom because it just doesn't feel right. Victoria's secret was the best experience in a woman's clothing store i will never forget my first time in there.

[@littleameliapond]

I think you did an amazing job you have found a new fan and that would be great if they had you in charge then they might not be having such problems cuz even with me passing as I do whenever I go by Victoria's Secret it's still there we don't want you here vibe whereas in Aerie I walk in and they give me the kind of response that you gave him the kind of hey girl lets get you something cute so kudos to you and thank you for trying to be respectful of all the customers great job 10 out of 10

[@msjanetteok]

💖💖💖

[@lollipoppolio1227]

Oof the he/him pronouns at the beginning hurt but it got a lot better later, you're an awesome person thank you for helping a fellow trans girl!

[@gemmalesley9212]

You are amazing & so sensitive of your customers VS should be so proud to have you work there

[@MsAzhriaz]

As someone who is just coming to terms with my transgender nature, being treated respectfully in a situation like that would be so great. 😄 So, thank you for your efforts in treating a fellow transgender woman as a normal customer.