Brace yourself. He’s been through a lot. Wants a woman that will not be judgmental of his past.

Brace yourself. He’s been through a lot. Wants a woman that will not be judgmental of his past.

[@lindaaih]

This guy is MENTALLY UNSTABLE. Its not the emotional breakdown, its his energy, lack of actual tears, his aggression toward Kendra, the talknof his case. He needs a lot of help.

[@hey_itsmele]

Yes he most definitely wants a woman to trauma dump on and possibly physically dump on. He is definitely going thru something and is looking for a release. And a woman would not be safe with him.

[@ericanix1847]

He is still very actively gay. Get a lawyer, therapist and a boyfriend. A good woman cannot help in his case

[@alaneofmyown]

😭

[@09tashay]

“Actively gay” lmaoo

[@Molang_plush]

EXACTLY, trying to drag us into his foolishness 😒 We have enough to deal with

[@PreparewithRealEstate]

😀🤣😂

[@debbieshepherdmarshall9999]

😂

[@pl3312]

Why was he so combative and insulted when Kendra asked if he dated men, only for him to ADMIT dating men 5 seconds later??! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@paigenicholespeaks6172]

😂😂 Because he was hoping not to have to disclose that part. Lol. But if you haven't been with a woman in 2 decades, what else is there? Lol

[@KYRAA30]

Right?! 🤣

[@DaishaView]

LITERALLY

[@raquelsmith3725]

That's how gay men tend to be either against women or all for them... It's his feminity peaking out

[@isis3319]

​@@paigenicholespeaks6172 As soon as he said that he was a wardrobe stylist, I immediately concluded that he swung that way. Not sure if there are any straight male wardrobe stylists out there, but I don't think there are any masculine men out there who strive to be one. I hope he doesn't intend to f00l women he meets outside of the show by not disclosing his orientation. But if he does, I hope the woman is smart enough to work it out for herself

[@Seoul473]

Ladies everything about him screams emotional ABUSER. The kind that beats you up then cries for your forgiveness ....runnnnnn🏃‍♀️🏃🏽‍♂️🏃‍♀️

[@STORYOFITIANNA]

And also threatens to commit suicide if you stop talking to him …..

[@darncash2056]

Exactly. He's emotionally damaged, angry and needs help. It's so sad. He's going to take all that out on some women.

[@lionessstrength1214]

Yup!

[@Truu5StarLifeDriver]

...cries because you 'made' him do it.

[@Syrsee]

I agree…run forest run

[@lovelywarri2472]

Sir... leave us black women out of this... you are clearly gay and want to have a black woman nurture you. reach out to your mother, aunts, etc... after you seek professional help! LEAVE BLACK WOMEN ALONE. WE BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH!!!!

[@Ex2Pookie]

Sis this man needs a woman cz he wants an incubator for his baby. Otherwise he is still gay

[@kenrichorton6863]

Leave y’all out this mess 😅

[@carriecrawford2122]

He seems possessed....

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

PLEASE! Leave us alone!!

[@christinew3549]

#facts

[@ChosenByJehovah]

I'm a straight man and this episode pulled the whew Chile up out of me for the 1st time ever😂

[@honeysway]

😂😂

[@deedeecaldwell3786]

Now this was funny! 😂

[@pickmeisha]

😆 you wrong for this one.

[@dmichelle5821]

Lmao!!!!!!!!!!

[@mslovely6518]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@krisfirstofhername.8444]

He need a therapist, not a relationship.

[@theunknownNYgirl1]

Facts

[@christinew3549]

And a good lawyer

[@shannenlucky7900]

Say so Girl!!!!!!

[@lynesec532]

Majority of people need a therapist and not a relationship that’s the gag

[@mariamarahim4242]

Sister you right because he can't protect him self not a relationship he needs to consult the police

[@BleuReign13]

Getting sassy with the hostess of the show YOU CALLED IN FOR is the first 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@sidehustlevikki1066]

Right especially when Kendra was spot on and correct.

[@QUICKNESSN3]

Right. Because if I was the host. Once he came at me in that nasty, disrespectful manner. The interview would've been OVER!

[@inethacherry5692]

OVER so fast. 😊

[@ItsMeYourfavorite7]

LoL

[@MrsCason]

Exactly

[@Sharon-cm5dm]

BLACK WOMEN, DO NOT DARE TO HEAL HIMMMM!!!!😮😮LET HIM GO TO A MUCH NEEDED THERAPIST!!!!😮😮😮😮😮😮

[@User5454-j2k]

This guy is a good actor. He is making a defense for when he stands trial.

[@relaxlove.3678]

Bingo.

[@dawnliddell9086]

This!!!

[@loveandlight_]

🎯🎯🎯

[@Recoverywithtamye]

I agree.

[@Brothapocalypse]

😂😂

[@StrongerThanSorrow]

He is not forreal. If he is, he’s clearly fighting demons. Leave women alone. Heal.

[@officejamz3160]

Why tf did he even come on this show is the question 😒

[@StrongerThanSorrow]

@@officejamz3160 Right and with the audacity looking for a woman. In my heart I don’t believe he is forreal. That crying had me screaming 😂 until I realized he was being serious. 🧐

[@ladyloveishere1838]

He's for sure fighting demons. He is s3xually addicted to men. He do want out but those homos3xual demons have a tight grip on him

[@sheilae.9670]

​@@StrongerThanSorrowChile that crying didn't seem genuine either to me 😒

[@coffeeblack9316]

My heart goes out to him. Ask your spirit guide to bring you to the healing room before you fall asleep. Jesus loves you.

[@JDP_93]

😂😂😂 bruh put on a Denzel Washington performance. From Gangsta to victim to gay activist 😂 this is pure entertainment

[@louveniawilliast9178]

Lmfao 😂😂😂

[@Syrsee]

💯

[@w-n-cw-n-c923]

😂😂

[@LexTheTech]

😂😂😂😂😂 mannnn when he got stuck answering her question I was weak as hell he exposed his self lmfao

[@iam3035]

I was in tears rolling

[@TropicalPhenom]

He IS NOT ready for a man...a WOman, or a baby! He needs a THERAPIST!🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Millionaress1]

Ok speak louder for the ones that can’t hear you

[@R.A_Baskets]

And a bad ass lawyer

[@Zan823]

.....and a in patient stay....indefinitely.

[@deborahday1786]

Lord, I would never have a child around him.

[@bridgetteh.1701]

He’s not looking for a woman. He’s looking for advocacy and support with his current situation. He just needed a platform. I pray for his healing 🙏🏽

[@cestchar...7052]

Yes, I agree...I believe he stated that a few times as well...

[@sloppygirlz]

Nailed it

[@cynthiahoggatt6911]

Yeap

[@cynthiahoggatt6911]

He don't need to be dating nobody he needs help❤❤❤❤💯💯

[@blaqpho3nix]

Exactly. He needed a platform!

[@acethesag778]

Dating in 2024 can be spooky bizness 👀

[@carisma8662]

Exactly 😮 Need the protection of your guardian angels 👼 and discernment to navigate 🧭 through this. It’s possible though ❤

[@DreeyaMichelle]

Please don't dump your trauma on the Black woman. We have our own trauma.

[@heavensent9772]

Not just black women ALL women

[@grmo7912]

Black women don't have "black woman" trauma. You live an existence that is better than almost all people to ever walk the earth. Any trauma or drama is the result of your own life choices.

[@Kevin-ns3pw]

Trauma my black ass. Trauma of your own making.

[@kwilliams3161]

⁠​⁠@@grmo7912so getting touched as a little girl was their choice ? Gtfoh with that bs overused crap .

[@timothyfelder437]

Not all black women have trauma.

[@emtjeanette29]

Wowwww! I was not expecting that. Ladies, stay clear away! 🚩 His temperament is extremely worrisome and his emotions are all over the place. He appears to be struggling desperately with his sexuality. The brother is in dire need of professional help not a relationship! I do hope and pray he gets it.

[@poetryinmotion1708]

I hope no woman tries to reach out to him to try to fix or heal him... This man needs some serious therapy.😔😔

[@theunknownNYgirl1]

Same

[@darioussmith3450]

@@poetryinmotion1708the sad thing is some crazy woman will reach out to this man seeing how crazy he is and try to fix him 🤦🏾‍♂️this was a whole audition too. Where do she find these people ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@blackingingerpurrin]

This is scary omg

[@ZeeGrace999]

He wants a black woman to save him. He wants to stand on our head and drive us into the ground. He wants us to be his punching bag. His scapegoat. This is disgusting.

[@strangeblackman3477]

YOU ALL DESERVE A MAN ON THE DOWN LOW!! DISGUSTING! THIS MAN TOLD HIS TRUTH! OPEN & HONEST UNLIKE MANY OF YOU’s DK SUCKIN BABYS DADDYS, AND PROBABLY WAS VIOLATED, AND YOU BALDHEADED BOTTOM OF THE BARREL, LACE FRONT WEARING PRIMATES STILL DRAG HIM! FK YA’LL🤣🥴🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Pure_ora]

Perspective projection

[@ZeeGrace999]

@@Pure_ora that made absolutely no sense whatsoever.

[@dueldab2117]

Wow you really got it .

[@warrior4god28]

He still identifying as LGBT…He said, “we are still being discriminated against.” “ We are some of the most victimized individuals.” He obviously still identify with that group of people, which is his prerogative but don’t put no woman through that mess.

[@MemoryChronicles]

Absolutely cause he said the woman has to be into all lifestyles

[@gailmendez5465]

It's going to be tough for a straight woman to accept his activism in the LGBQT community. He states he won't have sex with the man, but doesn't mean he won't have emotional ties with that man. A relationship isn't all about sex.

[@Chocolate54Queen]

💯

[@Msjayallday1]

He definitely appears to still desire the D

[@ladykhealer8385]

Facts!!! 💯

[@13ikea]

He needs to go to therapy and NOT seek a woman’s companionship for healing. That’s not fair to her and very selfish.

[@soblessedjj]

Please !!!! 🤦🏽‍♀️😩

[@misscali5524]

GURL

[@ladyloveishere1838]

I preach this everyday out here. These people in the dating are the majority damaged & want people to fight their demons w them. All it do is leave that person dragged & wore out.. Women its best to be alone then have any kind of man..

[@IK_4]

Exactly. But men are selfish by nature.

[@tonyataylor8347]

He is very honest and transparent but, he really needs a good therapist. He doesn’t seem to really for a relationship maybe a friend. He needs an outlet to express his feelings and wants to be loved.

[@erinjohnson4954]

He went through at least 3 or 4 personalities in one sitting 😢

[@synora3531]

Facts ‼️‼️‼️

[@wandabyrd4122]

Facts!! My goodness

[@R.A_Baskets]

Babyyy red flag! Red flag! Red flag!

[@lookatthisish]

I pray he gets Therapy. Because your Mental is very important in every aspect of life. You have to be a complete person, before you can be anything to anyone else.

[@Adaywith_Daphne]

Yes he did and that was very scary!

[@madii319]

Ok, so what I have gathered so far is that he used to date men but now that his life was almost taken by another man he wanna be with a woman now?! All while talking about gay rights?! 🤯🏃🏾‍♀️ Get your healing bruh and don’t bring a woman into this mess. Live your life the way you want to at 100% and stand on IT!! Leave black women outta this🥴✌🏾

[@lloydshouseofhorrors4350]

Preach sister

[@babyluvnola504]

Exactly, he's full of $hit.... His ex boo that tried to kill him is probably white so he's pissed because he thought him being gay would outshine his blackness, nahhh nicca, you still black at the end of the day and he's on here to get the word out....a hot ass mess 🤦🏾‍♀️ black women have to deal with their man cheating with another woman now we have to worry about men too, ummm no thank you sir 🤮

[@ashacarter8130]

Thank you!

[@nhollom]

We got enough to deal with already.

[@misslove7698]

He'll do great with a passport

[@tailorforeman7082]

Something about this doesn’t feel right. I felt like he was auditioning for a Tyler Perry movie.

[@backtobeautifulhairsalon6315]

Pluto, Philo, AND Tubi!

[@mr.fantastik4755]

hes trying out for the sequel for the next mea culpa movie

[@janyaoverton7421]

😂 funniest interview I seen all year..

[@1joeben]

Same feeling I had. He would be great in Sistas

[@LaLaGee001]

😂😂😂 girl!!! 🥴

[@CassieBbyLLMM40]

Ladies don’t fall for the crocodile tears. Didn’t seem genuine AT ALL. Question… why do folk think us black women are equipped to always take on broken men? Geesh noooo let somebody else do it. Ijs. Come to us whole and healed or stay away

[@Pure_ora]

You’re underestimation of self isn’t shared universally

[@ajoyner614]

Highly combative and hypervigilant. Absolute no.

[@briannam3769]

!!

[@SISTAGURL]

I am sure he’s an abuser

[@GracefullAesthetics]

This!!!! This is just what I was about to type! He was so combative from the beginning!

[@serious7179]

​@@SISTAGURL1,000 % he is

[@Menagerie_K]

This is ptsd, you don’t need a woman you need a lawyer, a trauma counselor and time to heal. Take care of yourself brother and don’t live a life that isn’t your truth. God is watching out for you because you’re still here.

[@johnjay3308]

Interesting. The Bible says God can't look upon him but ok

[@KapQueen]

Your truth or God's truth?

[@flexjai86]

He’s gay but that assault messed him up so now he wants a woman to hold him down. For all we know this could have been a sexual encounter gone wrong. You will both be fighting his demons if he doesn’t seek help before seeking a relationship.

[@Sasha-ws6gv]

That's what it sounds like! Something went left in that situation now he wants to be with a women! This is some gross mess!

[@joat9278]

He is very argumentative, to be getting offended about her question about dating men🥺ready to use a women for her services but really not really his desire 😏

[@brucebeamon5460]

He’s going to have to dig into those conversations about his past in order to move forward….. Not try to ignore what he is trying to move away from b4 he can start to heal

[@ladyteka2430]

I’m glad Kendra kept digging. 😮

[@lomaxlomax6152]

and the crazy thing is he slept with a man 2 months ago.

[@patrickcalvary8384]

Bingo. Buddy needs to go to a therapist and live in his truth. Be you because it has to be miserable trying to be something you're not. Clearly he's not into women but is trying to force himself because of near death experience.

[@dreadfulrai]

He has the spirit of confusion!! And his crying doesn’t seem genuine to me 🚩 Wants a Godly woman to come in and clean up his mess after being ran through by a bunch of men. Absolutely not, seek HELP sir… beyond just depending on “your” God.

[@candorsspot2775]

Yes! I often call it a feminine spirit, but a spirit of confusion is the better term for it. Nothing he said made any sense. Just a lot of emotional bleating.

[@CookWithStephh]

lol I’m sorry but when you said ran through by a bunch of men I 😂😂😂

[@cuzzitsmee]

I didn’t believe his crying outburst either somehow it didn’t seem genuine

[@chronometa]

​@@candorsspot2775 so emotional is being feminine

[@officejamz3160]

@@cuzzitsmee he just wants attention.

[@chrissmith4539]

He really hit the request button to get on here and fake cry 🤦🏾 😂

[@zebrasafari361]

That was not fake

[@chrissmith4539]

@@zebrasafari361 he tried to cry his way into a Kendra cash app and he failed, even Kendra knew he was fake crying 😂

[@Miss_Patron]

Fraudulent tears 😂😂😂

[@Ki3g-u5y]

He definitely came on here to share his case because he knows "Black Women" will throw their capes on

[@lizamimi]

Alexa play Karen White. “I’m not your superwoman” 💅🏽

[@juli_xox]

We burned the capes for BM

[@missr7449]

Never again! My cape is worn for my children ONLY!

[@enjolique367]

nope

[@chanedacrocker3252]

Factssssss

[@Charmaine302]

He's trying to get a woman to comfort him because he knows a man won't do it. Once he heals, he will be bent ova again

[@douglasanderson5516]

😂😂😂

[@officejamz3160]

Damnnnnn

[@Godson827]

Or he might be the one doing the bending

[@lavettesmith156]

@@Godson827 still g--a--y

[@msc908]

😅

[@Truu5StarLifeDriver]

It's tha breakin down crying/crackin up laughin in tha same breath that threw me off...

[@enchantressdch1207]

the ramblings of a mad man

[@blaqpho3nix]

This was a masterclass in manipulation. He came on here to use Kendra platform not to look for no damn woman. No woman in her right mind signing up for this shit show. He couldn’t even describe the “godly woman” he desires. Kendra bless ya heart, I pray to have the level of grace and patience you had in this interview in life.

[@sugasweet5704]

Yeap he used this show to get his story out 🤦🏾‍♀️ and he’s still actively fckn men

[@Christina-rz7zw]

I thought it was just me, I think that 🥷 was acting like ain’t no way

[@TheSaintb23]

Wow I'm sorry but no woman in her right mind should accept this!

[@Roccofan]

He is being vulnerable. Isn't that what women say they want?

[@Bx10473]

He will get enough to choose from!

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

Right he is giving Redrum vibes if things don’t go his way. Ladies please don’t let him the house.

[@ameredithj]

​@@Roccofanhe isn't being vulnerable...he is wounded and needs to facilitate HIS OWN healing.

[@PeggySu3]

A woman that’s secure and not judgmental like you……:🤡

[@taigilyard7075]

He is still struggling with homosexuality, he doesn’t need a woman he needs deliverance . God bless him, I pray he gets the healing, therapy and deliverance he needs.

[@ImpudentDemiGOD]

You sound just a crazy as him with that *deliverance* mess. You need therapy too if you believe that BS! 😆

[@abigailruth8049]

​@@ImpudentDemiGODLet's see in the End who is Right. Jesus loves you ❤️

[@nurianimates]

I’m only 10 min in and This seems so performative… and he definitely came on to push his political agenda as an activist to gain fans.

[@orchidsandchampagne]

6 minutes in and I'm getting that performative energy too

[@koffaTV]

Yeah, I got the same vibes from it too. It was very performative. I did not see any tear roll down. He’s very angry, and he needs to focus on whatever he needs to focus on and not a relationship period.

[@Brothapocalypse]

Correct 💯

[@sailor10022]

Bingo!!!!

[@CassieBbyLLMM40]

Yup

[@dayciajtalk88]

Y’all please do not reach out to this man even if y’all been single for years he could been the last man on earth and I would not look his way he need GOD!!!

[@tanbutterfly8282]

Amen

[@isis3319]

Agreed

[@california_grown]

The Black Woman is always ask to fix everything. It’s so unfair. Our men abandon us and come back when it’s convenient. This man is still very much gay. He hasn’t come to this point because of Christ- he came to this point because he’s in trouble. He had me going at first though🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@proudblackwoman4824]

And black women will continue to SUFFER because of this mindset. It's on Black women to STOP saving the world and focus on saving themselves.

[@SunnyKayy]

EXACTLY!!! We always have to be the fixer AFTER they Fu** up their lives. SMH

[@Peace3132_]

But they don’t really want us!!

[@fernandovriese6409]

Yeah true! Black women have it bad! Almost as bad as y’all’s attitude.

[@SimplyMilli]

I agree!! But they do it because some blk women will fall for it every time!

[@racistsbegone7215]

😩I hope he gets help but he does not need a woman or children now, he needs to heal, he needs a lawyer and momma.

[@lobengone477]

Yooo. He’s weird. The way she switched up and all that mouth moving he was trying hard to get them tears to flow. He came on here to spread his gay rights message to everybody and use a women for emotional support lol

[@TheDarbyJ]

he's defenitely high on something.

[@sonyax6344]

You too much to spread the gay rights 😂

[@Quinten4M]

Omg! He start crying 😮😮! Is he on drugs? This so unattractive? (If he would said he was straight no one would have questioned it)....

[@greenytaddict]

@@TheDarbyJ bussy...he still high from the last time he blew other Tyrone's back out.

[@christinew3549]

That part!!!!

[@synora3531]

Why I feel like he put on a whole show to make Kendra feel sorry for him and say what’s your Cash app. LOL 😂 The tears were fake asl 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@GoofyFlan]

I've read enough comments to not torture myself watching this one. ~~Thank You all~~

[@thezealousapproachwzola8521]

Right. This man needs a therapist to say the least

[@Msjayallday1]

Wish I would've read the comments first. Noted!

[@belinmered]

🥹 He really needs to seek therapy… His reasoning for wanting to be with a woman seems to be predicated on his current legal situation. I pray to God that he gets the help that he needs both mentally and emotionally 🫶🏾

[@DeepBreathingMeditation]

Naw go ahead and watch. Based on your usual comments about women you might enjoy this one🙈

[@fyoriegadson8519]

😂😂😂😂

[@ThreehoodooSisters]

He literally represents how allot of men come to women, but they hide the toxicity better. Women end up being exhausted and tired in the relationship.

[@eboniemm1]

Girlll stop compare this dude with other men. Lol he is all over place, I don't see how he can leave his home without breaking down

[@ThreehoodooSisters]

@@eboniemm1 some people come with big problems! I didn’t say his type of problems, but still toxic and crazy

[@eboniemm1]

@@ThreehoodooSisters that's everyone men and women

[@missr7449]

As soon as he said all lifestyles I knew and then he got sassy with Kendra immediately!! 🚩🚩🚩

[@daniella_bella]

He is only wanting to be with a women because he had a traumatic experience with a man. He is saying women are judgmental but he is dealing with an abusive man, a court case, and only wants a woman to escape his situation and be right with God. He hasn’t been with a woman in 20 years like come on

[@missr7449]

Right! The only thing he wants is to NOT go to jail!

[@andreaj4266]

A mess!! 🤯

[@RedKillswitch]

He never been with a woman in his life

[@Ms.AnnDrist]

He wants a uterus to incubate his "seed".. he'll be back with a man after duping some poor (dumb) BW into birthing a child for him.

[@Mythoughtsin2024]

Kendra is such a star. Her ability to redirect, de-escalate, and connect is so wonderful. I hope she considers teaching journalism courses one day

[@1TheV]

Maybe having sex with men gives him power

[@Christina-rz7zw]

You must haven’t watched many of these this was definitely just an improvement she usually will cuss you out and put you in your place but she does way better with men then women

[@Mythoughtsin2024]

@@Christina-rz7zw I’ve probably watched each highlight she’s posted. She’s grown for sure but she’s always been pretty good. Some situations aren’t worth dealing with escalating

[@Itisaboutangeltoday]

@ My thoughts That is such a wonderful compliment to Kendra.

[@isis3319]

Glad to see that all these comments are on the same page for once

[@keyonabrown9272]

The man referred to himself as gay the whole time & then turned around & said he wasn’t gay🙄 this was a hard one

[@cammycamz]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kanecierra8940]

That he did! He tryna play!

[@kanamekiyru]

Thus must be him coming out cause he got real mad when kendra asked if he was interested in men

[@ThatgirlWes]

Exactly lol

[@Christina-rz7zw]

Jus as confused as can be

[@paigenicholespeaks6172]

The man he's talking about is probably his ex.

[@Sunshine_80]

That's exactly what it sounds like to me too.

[@sonyadrake7843]

🎯💯

[@lomaxlomax6152]

yep he probably threatened to expose the ex and that's when he tried to kill him.

[@hannahh.4417]

Yep

[@yournamemustbejealousy2062]

Did the man smash first then attacked him, calling him ghey? People are crazy in these streets.

[@Datpmf112]

His reason for calling this show was not to get a woman, he had ulterior motives…

[@synora3531]

Facts 😂Lol he needed a cash app from Kendra ‼️💯

[@Iheartvon]

Nobody else noticed how he went from a super emotional breakdown then immediately back to laughing/talking normal to Kendra ? Also that entire switch right before the tears came ?!….something isn’t right about this guy at all. I don’t think any MAN or WOMAN needs to be with him. He needs a deeper help one that a relationship will never fix. He went from being super aggressive….to emotional 😭….to laughing 😂 and being cheerful….i caught that immediately too many sudden behavior switches too close together. He’s delivered YET fighting for gay rights ? The spirit of confusion is what this is giving…This was very cringe to watch. I hope he gets the help he needs 🙏🏿

[@LifeforceZee]

Spot on

[@R.A_Baskets]

Baby, you hit the nail on the head!

[@ronettashaw6175]

💯

[@ommiohmy]

Yes!! Pure confusion. Exactly! It made me so uncomfortable to watch. It seemed too theatrical.

[@TheHereticCrazyStairs]

Why would a woman be lucky to be with him? She wouldn’t be. It’s a lot of drama, trauma and red flags 🚩

[@rororidley5829]

Way too many emotions from 1 person is 15 minutes. I cannot imagine this on a daily basis.

[@LilMissJ2468]

Exhausting! I'm tired watching him... imagine being with him all day!

[@reikojones6789]

Sir it's 2024 just move to Atlanta and find yo man and live happily ever after. Sorry 4 his abuse tho hope he finds peace.

[@JL-mv6bj]

Please don't send him to Atlanta, Atlanta's full. Too much traffic, no more room. Suggest Arkansas or Kentucky instead!😂

[@quanyin1556]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@RipplesnWaves]

The gays will welcome him with open arms in atlanta

[@danamonet77]

No! Please! Take it somewhere else

[@CaramelCali]

Frisco

[@jamipty]

👉🏽 Every time he says the word gay, he would say "us/we"... which means he still considers himself gay, but now he wants a woman? 🤨 If he's delivered, perhaps he could start by not referring to himself as a gay man 🤔 but then again, he was just with a man a few months ago. I dunno... This is a lot 😏

[@ameredithj]

He is likely on his way to prison...considering his pending charges. We don't know what happened, for whatever reason he was not deemed the victim and he will be bent or doing the bending, he clearly wants a woman to use her for his moral support while locked down

[@danamonet77]

👂🏽👂🏽👂🏽

[@chrisroc754]

right

[@speekonit]

I would be scared to be left alone in the room wit dude.

[@nem2480]

A woman has the right to not want to date a man who has been with a man and not be considered judgmental. That’s a woman’s preference and has every right to have that preference. That does not make a woman any less Christian.

[@poetryinmotion1708]

Righttt...it's not judgemental to protect your heart and sexual health because a man may decide 2 yrs in he's really just into men. It's called self protection

[@SISTAGURL]

Men think that women need to accept whatever they are putting down. It’s really sick and gross.

[@Shawndasjustvisiting]

ESPECIALLY, if he still IDENTIFIES himself as a gay man. No, Thank you!

[@CrackedScreenJoy]

Correct. It's not called being "judgemental", it's called "VETTING" Women have the right to have standards and boundaries. Everybody judges others, how are you as a woman supposed to vet men if you don't judge their character? His sassiness and quick to going back & forth with a woman he's only met for 45 seconds is a huge red flag. The whole churchy bible talk is a tool to use against women who are devoted to church and desperate to find a husband He should just keep it a buck and say he's looking for a clean up woman who whose not gonna reject him for sleeping with men for decades.

[@ursulatroxler7428]

He is upfront about his sexuality and drama. He is disrespectful and clearly he doesn’t like women.

[@msc908]

I didn't like how he got sarcastic w Kendra in the beginning. Sign of a man that doesn't like women.

[@jbadams56]

Or he could be hypersensitive because of his trauma

[@boobear9488]

He definitely hates women!

[@ursulatroxler7428]

@@msc908 I completely agree . He doesn’t like women at all .

[@ursulatroxler7428]

@@jbadams56 he desperately needs some mental health healing.

[@Bantubrotha]

This is why I fwy Kendra you handled this very well.

[@LovelyM404]

Honestly, I think he was waiting for Kendra to send him a cash app at the end of his performance.😂

[@IK_4]

My thoughts also.

[@sonyadrake7843]

I agree 🎯💯🤜🏾🤛🏾

[@backtobeautifulhairsalon6315]

💰💰💰💰💵💵💵🙄

[@backtobeautifulhairsalon6315]

He needed bail AND commisary.

[@aprilstreeter9853]

bc that was a performance hunny !!

[@precioustoolive1234]

I knew it was something about being gay when i read the title . And i cant get over how hes moving his mouth. Spent 20 years being gay & now wants a women to sign up for that . Good luck

[@invadingminds]

Too much gagging 🤣

[@jamaciag09]

Lol yeah that mouth is distracting AF. I'm only a few minutes in.

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

😮😮😮I’m imagining the places his mouth has been🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢.

[@Quilt4Joy]

The mouth thing is meth, coke, or both.

[@Powerdriver777]

You know that pookie you used to date been to jail and been getting bent over.

[@yasminogbu8929]

I appreciate he’s honesty. He needs healing & community & Jesus is key ❤️

[@nahni3391]

Don't you love when people are honest. It's so much easier to make a sound decision. So many women will be dodging a bullet from this psycho

[@InsertAliasHere1154]

I hate how he attempted to gaslight KG about his sexuality when questioned, as though he didn’t understand what his verbiage implied. This man is having an identity crisis and his effort should be focused on finding a compatible therapist and effective legal representation rather than making a mule out of a woman for his emotional needs when he’s ultimately incarcerated.

[@shekinahgloryharrell]

💯💯💯

[@niax782]

IKR… he got very sassy when KG clocked it 😮‍💨

[@AndiCandie]

​@@niax782Very sassy!

[@deborahday1786]

Well said.

[@shesit318]

Therapy! Therapy! Therapy! PERIOD!!!!!! And he switched off those tears so fast. There are too many weirdos joining the show. He seem to have multiple personalities. Wheeeeew chile! I cant🤯🥴🫣

[@Reddbonzz]

I immediately notice them demons....

[@tanbutterfly8282]

Exactly

[@monetalisha]

Agreed a lot personalities

[@Steve_Minaj]

Wow!!I was not expecting this turn of events.Kendra handled this with grace.

[@sidehustlevikki1066]

When Kendra said brace yourself she really meant it with this one. This went left so fast 😵‍💫

[@dugohaslanded.1434]

So quick !

[@Fairy-fz7be]

Man what I’m yelling kendaaaaa what is thissssssss

[@leahwilliams6077]

Now why is he looking for a woman with his troubled ass

[@arlenedennis9446]

Go from crying to laughing in a matter of seconds whew chile he very aggressive to .

[@danatheetherapist5779]

Whew this was a lot! I needed a drink a smoke and a hug after this. Sounds like childhood trauma got the best of him. If he knows God no sin is greater. Live in your truth because you will never be truly happy because you don’t desire a woman. God knows us all individually. Please take care of you my brother!☮️💜☀️🙏🏾

[@carisma8662]

😂😂😂❤😊

[@huniaskitchen5420]

Just because it's a non profit doesn't mean you don't get paid ...🙄🥰

[@MizzSweetTe]

I work for an organization that’s nonprofit and get paid FAITHFULLY every 2weeks

[@TheSugarGold]

He just didn’t want the focus to be on his principal job (wardrobe stylist) so no one would guess he is gay… Actually he might be a Gay activist..

[@koladejobi]

Women, stay away from him as well! He is a LIABILITY

[@FL3XW3]

Oh man! Physically, he is my type. Tall,dark,nicely built, deep voice, facial hair. I like his transparency about his lifestyle and his solid conviction about his decision to change his lifestyle and personal journey

[@quanyin1556]

Every woman coming on here requesting only dark skin 6 foot black men, careful u might run into this 😂

[@Idontlikenoneofyall]

😂😂😂😂

[@francesjavier3113]

Omg, 💯💯💯💯‼️

[@catcraig728]

Why is this funny to ppl. this world is full of inconsiderate heartless ppl. If you can’t pray for someone why laugh. This man clearly needs help and you’re laughing really smh

[@leahwilliams6077]

He needs 6 figures and him styling TJMaxx mannequins ain't it

[@Blueballs517]

@@leahwilliams6077LMFAOOOOO

[@Msjayallday1]

LADIESSSSSS🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 THIS is why its important to ASK questions! Like, have yiu ever dated, slept with, been iterested in, have any desires for another man!!!???

[@mzmendy]

I agree, I've always done this, but it can be scary, you have to have tact. You see how he was ready to bug up with the WAY she asked him at first, but didn't have an issue with telling the truth. That initial reaction can be getting knocked on your @ss with certain men.

[@joyceevans1860]

AMEN, Kendra G. Gods most special blessings for you for allowing the almighty to use you in this way because I know that you did not imagine your show to include listening to such trauma, yet through your own journey God prepared you for such a time as this! People are so hurting and in so much pain, and think that bringing another human being into their trauma and difficulty is the answer but its not. A band-aid if that under the band-aid the sore is flled of pus. Sad but true😢. Psychiatric treatment in any form is quite recent in the black community. Many people both old and young in the AA communities are afraid to seek medical doctors because most are wht, let alone therapists. Some of these people are seeking you out because of your beautiful spirit! They don't care about the thousands of people that are listening into the show. Kendra G. thank you for using your gift of wisdom and exhortation in so many lives! We need to all pray for you Kendra that God continues to not only use you in a mighty way, but may God strengthen you and encourage your heart and keep you from all harm in the powerful name of Jesus! Much love and peace to you Kendra G.🙏🏾❤️

[@ToBHonest...]

Date WW...us BW deserve peace

[@TheDarbyJ]

omg say it again

[@officejamz3160]

Preach

[@jmadisings]

Amen.

[@tashamunn9951]

Yo 😂

[@louveniawilliast9178]

Lmfao 😂😂😂Frl tho

[@JeanetteLand]

I've changed---but I slept with a man a few months ago....smh

[@christinew3549]

That part

[@meababy5409]

And then has the nerve to say I just needed love boy if you don’t …

[@deborahday1786]

It was probably more recent than that.

[@reddtrem]

Whew!! This is scary 😳

[@jericaloving1288]

This def should've been ' I don't think this is the right platform for you' fade to black

[@OpinionatedMe_]

😳Who TF is signing up for this?

[@backtobeautifulhairsalon6315]

Reesa Teesa! 🤣

[@Zan823]

Oh you'd be suprised!

[@dawnc.3711]

​@@backtobeautifulhairsalon6315MERCY I looked her up🤦🏻‍♀️

[@flirt1diva]

On god

[@mspattie1008]

He said God took the desire for a man away from him years ago, but when Kendra asked him when was his last relationship it was a few months ago and with a man. He needs love and support but he doesn't need to bring a woman into his situation. Get therapy and maybe find a support group that can give him the support he needs. Right now it sounds like manipulation.

[@douglasanderson5516]

CAUGHT HIM IN A LIE!!

[@ladyloveishere1838]

At the end said he want men to contact him to & then quickly changed & said not s3xually. Sir stop, we will just pray for you

[@christopherbarge414]

I haven't watched the entire video yet, but if he hasn't stopped the BEHAVIOR then the DESIRE is not gone.

[@micki6022]

He said he hasn't been in a relationship with a man since 2016. The last time he was intimate was a couple of months ago with a man.

[@huneyduluvit]

Eff all that BS!!! BLACK PPL NEED AN ANTI-HATE CRIME BILL! Everything else falls under that category!!! It's self-serving to think anything else.

[@yahmadoss6860]

I caught some Acting Vibes. No tears but a couple sniffs and the Whole Story just seems Bogus. He'll never Win an Oscar 😮

[@backtobeautifulhairsalon6315]

I actually agree. I’m usually very empathetic and easily moved but I just wasn’t feeling this as authentic.

[@backtobeautifulhairsalon6315]

Also, he strikes me as very manipulative.

[@greenytaddict]

💀

[@tanbutterfly8282]

His facial ques didn't line up with what he was saying....eye contact was off...I feel like so many lies were told by him. He disrespected Kendra then said he respects women....sounds like a liar... very confused 😢😢

[@ReneeR877]

I think he's sincere

[@officejamz3160]

Coming from a guy, this guy is a red flag x100000000

[@backtobeautifulhairsalon6315]

He raised that mug at Iwo Jima!🤣🤣🤣

[@traceface5682]

m】m♧♣︎ 8

[@FL3XW3]

6:43 OMG 😳🫂as a straight black woman I am sending him a big ole hug. God still loves you! You are still his child!!!

[@michelletwill6941]

Very sorry for his situation but a lady would be crazy to reach out to a gay man facing 99 years in prison for murder

[@RainbowKidd]

Women reach out to inmates all the time. Kendra just had one on the other night lol

[@michelletwill6941]

@@RainbowKidd and a lady would still be crazy to reach out to this obviously gay mine who says he is being stalked

[@blackingingerpurrin]

You think he killed the man?

[@candacewilliams3285]

No one has time for Neils mess. He started off messy. No one has to accept that lol. Oh he started crying. He need help and he want somebody to accept that lol. I know it's very real to him. That's why he need help, because I was laughing and he don't need to be doing this right now. I didn't know what was going on. That's not fair to anyone. He has to heal from that trauma because it has cut him deep. I wouldn't do that to anyone, dump trauma pain and drama on them and expect them to accept it. That's why I can say that. I hope he gets better.

[@nmmboy]

Facts, No woman or man should have to deal with Neil’s mess. He trauma dumps like nobody’s business, and whines while making someone feel guilty about it. He needs therapy, Dating should be the last thing on his mind.

[@candacewilliams3285]

All that crying shows he really need to get some help. He couldn't even control it.

[@candacewilliams3285]

If he's crying like that, what might happen if those tears turn into anger he can't control. That will not be good. No woman needs to risk that. It's enough as it is.

[@nmmboy]

@@candacewilliams3285 Exactly, those emotions can easily turn aggressive! Just imagine if a woman said what Kendra did in the beginning to him in person. He definitely would’ve been fighting. Big risk for someone to deal with him.

[@candacewilliams3285]

Yep, I forgot about how quick he switched then.

[@JustAGrl007]

Oh lawd Kendra why you got him on here? 😢 We can’t do nothing but cry together 🥺😩 he needs therapy. I don’t even know how you made it through this whole thing.

[@MzMoBetta]

I’m praying for him that he heals from all he’s been through 😢

[@johnjay3308]

What has he been through that he didn't choose?

[@actionsspeaklouder469]

I wonder if Kendra would ever consider having a therapist cohost with her from time to time

[@carriecrawford2122]

Good idea 💡👍🏿

[@QUICKNESSN3]

Then she should start a separate show that handles that.

[@Kevin-ns3pw]

Who going to pay for that? You?

[@kimishamadison4005]

@@Kevin-ns3pw😂😂😂

[@kimishamadison4005]

@@QUICKNESSN3😂😂😂

[@TyroneLangam]

Ngl bro is snappy asf for no reason

[@ED-hi1vo]

He's snappy bc he's trying to cover up his actual sexuality. He's "found Christ" and now wants to be heterosexual. He was embarrassed Kendra sniffed him out that quickly!

[@cathybolden1760]

Snap, Crackle, and Pop!

[@TheDarbyJ]

he's high AF

[@jaejae444]

nah, was kinda rude still.

[@sloppygirlz]

Yep

[@phinebrowngirl5467]

Neal you're not ready. Please don't use a woman just because u feel u need someone to listen and be there for u. In your heart u want a Man and that's ok. God Bless🙏🏽

[@mikosue8694]

That's not ok, please stop lying on Jesus name ma'am, that's very clear in HIS word

[@phinebrowngirl5467]

@@mikosue8694 Is that you Neal❓

[@ladyloveishere1838]

God have nothing to do w this. That's Satan messing w this man & his legions. Yall need to point him to Jesus bc he is really fight for his life due to confusion. Homos3xuality is not a born thing or God made you. Its people like him is proving its a wrong thing & they have to either fight those demons bc they want to escape or hush the demons w drugs, alcohol, or excessive s3xual encounters

[@ItsMeYourfavorite7]

@@mikosue8694 you’re right, it’s not okay honestly let’s stop leading people astray. But God can certainly deliver him, He’s done it with a lot of people I know

[@lomaxlomax6152]

and was just with a man 2 months ago and he says men can still reach out, even though he claiming nothing sexual. mmmmhhhhh, yeah ok

[@jamiefgodwin]

My heart goes out to this young man on his spiritual journey…May Peace and Love, find you in abundance 🙏🏽

[@tajahcortez7465]

He wanted a Kendra Kash app 😢

[@nurianimates]

Lolll

[@sakpase88]

😂 😂 😭 You on to something

[@joycelyntillis4904]

😂😂😂

[@sunflowerlove8243]

She didn’t offer I was wondering too but she offered him her time that’s enough for him 😢😂😂

[@tytylovechild21]

Lol 😂

[@MSPROV0CATEUR]

The tears are manipulative

[@eprophil]

Very manipulative

[@ameredithj]

I'm soooo glad you can see it too. This man is DANGEROUS...between the tears and the pending attempted murder convicted any woman with half a brain would RUN

[@Reddbonzz]

I agree, he's full of it

[@alaneofmyown]

They said he wanted a cash app

[@backtobeautifulhairsalon6315]

That’s exactly what I said. It just didn’t feel authentic.

[@annemariescott4278]

Kendra you were superb wth how you handled this! Prayers going up for this young man - may divine healing take place IJN

[@SISTAGURL]

Imagine what he’s not saying 🚩🚩💯

[@shannan4580]

Glad Kendra caught that early. He really didn't want to say he was gay or "used to be"

[@christopherbarge414]

That's not true, he mentioned it first. At time stamp 1:57 he said he was looking for a woman that was ACCEPTING of ALL lifestyles. He also said at time stamp 2:07-2:11 that he hasn't been with a woman in over two decades. That's PLAIN as day to me. This was ALL said before Kendra asked him if he was looking for a man, which was said at timestamp 2:14

[@shannan4580]

GTFOH. NONE OF THAT means he's gay ​@@christopherbarge414

[@aprilstreeter9853]

nope i think that’s what triggered that acting he put on he wasn’t ready for that to come out

[@kimberlyc54]

I can’t . Kendra the show is no longer for the purpose to find a significant other . It’s therapy

[@RemiBlak-lu1mt]

This was def a lot. But i hope he heals from all his trauma and not dump it on whatever woman that decides to take a chance on him.

[@Ambitiousgirl22]

I really support justice for this man..truly. ladies please do not contact him in hopes of anything solid and romantic. Stop using women please. Be who you are and with whom youd be most happy.

[@jeansullivan3869]

I wouldn't trust a word he says. Sounds like some gay fling gone wrong. I

[@christopherbarge414]

I personally know men and women that once lived as gay and went on to get married to the opposite sex, and it APPEARS to me, that they are living HAPPILY after over 20 years. In ONE case that I know of, they were both gay and started serving the Lord and met and got married. That being said, I have only made it to the four minute mark in this video, so I am not ENDORSING anything he said since I haven't watched the whole video.