6 Rules You MUST Follow To Get Your Ex Back

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Brad Browning

Brad Browning

Күн бұрын

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@emmanuelowolade2698
@emmanuelowolade2698 10 ай бұрын
Hey brad it worked the no contact rule,she came back 😢she said she regretted😉 thank you brad
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
That's great! Be sure to apply the lessons learned when you come back to a relationship. The renewed relationship needs to be a better one without any recurring issues. Take it slow. And congrats!
@Annoyance2227
@Annoyance2227 5 ай бұрын
How long was your no contact?
@enzee27
@enzee27 5 ай бұрын
What is your case bro why she broke up ?
@lucywood4988
@lucywood4988 Ай бұрын
Hi Brad I’m gonna try this and see he cheated on me and he’s moved away I want him back so much
@WATCHMEGOBROKE
@WATCHMEGOBROKE 2 ай бұрын
Your videos helped me get my Wife back 5 years ago and now she left again. Back to square one 😢 Dismissive Avoidants are virtually impossible to communicate with. I dont think they are capable of being happy
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 ай бұрын
Hey, man! Welcome back. I'm glad my videos helped but sorry to hear you're having trouble communicating with her. Has she recognized her own behaviour though? Posted a vid about getting back together with someone who has an avoidant attachment style, here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqDWZI1qnZl7hKc but I'd like to look more into your situation to see what's really going on, so hire me as your coach so I can talk about your situation with you, in-depth, at www.marriageguy.com/coaching Talk soon?
@WATCHMEGOBROKE
@WATCHMEGOBROKE 2 ай бұрын
@BradBrowning thank you for replying that's actually the core issue is she doesn't realize her behavior she refuses to work on herself. She a Covert Narssasist and dismissive Avoidant. I'm 23yrs deep coach we've been together since 19 year sold..im considering hiring you to help
@pa-pyro2804
@pa-pyro2804 10 ай бұрын
Right now i have good days and bad days but i am still struggling to except it it feels like a dream like its not real I feel like literally my life for 10 years is gone and lost and so confused
@linamarie84
@linamarie84 10 ай бұрын
I'm sorry. I am too. I didnt think id be able to feel peace. But I did things to have that relief. Now I do. It's only been 12 days and I know he will come back..13 years is tremendously difficult..that's an understatement..10 years is equally..but we will be ok! We've got this. ❤ok?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Really sorry to hear that. I know it's super tough especially if you've been with that person for majority of your life. But I understand what you're going through. You know moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZmLap3-Jlrhslas And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHTEnIKFiNx8n7s or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com
@WATCHMEGOBROKE
@WATCHMEGOBROKE 2 ай бұрын
​@@linamarie84update?? Did he come back?
@sohaahmed9729
@sohaahmed9729 10 ай бұрын
Everyone follow brads advice. He knows what he's talking about. 💯
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Hey, thanks for the support! It's much appreciated. :-)
@marguskiis7711
@marguskiis7711 5 ай бұрын
I had a lover but she kept two men same time and eventually chose another bc the guy agreed to live together unlike me. I did all the things here but she never came back
@juliadevia95
@juliadevia95 10 ай бұрын
i made a mistake not giving him a space when he needed because he’s griefing . i been so clingy and needy. he been telling me nicely tho but i just never listen. and now he sick of me, he blocked me and he telling me hes not asking for space anymore but he wants leave him alone now. :( im feeling regret. i love him tho. i dont think he gives me a chance
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hau5qqCPo7Z5is0 Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGjdpouhYtiJqas It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is what I recommend you send as soon as possible, it's a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHyWqaicetx4fMk The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
@marvinparuli7755
@marvinparuli7755 10 ай бұрын
Igain more confidence after a year then im grateful brad im your silent fan since 2015👌
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
That's nice, man. Happy to hear that! Thanks for the support. :-)
@marvinparuli7755
@marvinparuli7755 10 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning even ididn't get my ex back the most important thing that came back to me is myself your content is so helpful just keep it up man 👌💥
@marguskiis7711
@marguskiis7711 5 ай бұрын
I had a lover but she kept two men same time and eventually chose another bc the guy agreed to live together unlike me. I did all the things here but she never came back
@meesjemees
@meesjemees 10 ай бұрын
hey Brad, my ex broke up with me in november he did actually offer friendship. he even said we might get back together maybe in the future when there is less stress. we ended up being friends, but after a month i went no contact, and thats where i am now. like you said in another video, my ex has an avoidant attachment. i recognized all the signs. sometimes i wonder how often he thinks about me. i have the suspicion that he is back on dating apps. it's really hard to keep busy though. i dont know if i should take his kindness and words with a grain of salt or not
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Always look at the words and see if it matches with his actions. Does it look like you're on your track to get back together? Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYWvm6yYrs6UeLM
@sahilkhan4uu
@sahilkhan4uu 10 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning I maintained no contact for for more than one month.bhut she is still away.what to do next.i m desperate
@legacy9464
@legacy9464 10 ай бұрын
Wait even more or find someone else ​@@sahilkhan4uu
@legacy9464
@legacy9464 10 ай бұрын
​@@sahilkhan4uuI had NC for 5 months in a past relationship and she wrote me first And I had 2 weeks of NС now and she wrote me first They always come around
@dlgacct
@dlgacct 9 ай бұрын
The most difficult part is when your ex reaches out to you after no contact. My ex reached out to me after 6 days of no contact, but then it can easily fall into friendzone stage. Of course, we shouldnt immediately talk about get back together, but then it is very hard to distinguish if your ex is just treating you as a friend, and wants to get over you by keeping you as a friend, so that they feel less guilty; they may just want to talk to you when they feel lonely. However, if you want to get back together, as a dumpee, you must not initiate the idea of getting back together and reconnect as a friend, so that both of you can communicate. I find it extremely hard to distinguish which side i am actually locating at and it is just so confusing.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
Take it one step at a time so you won't overwhelm yourself. As long as your ex is single and is receptive to your contact while you continue to play your cards right, you should be fine... or at least you can say you've tried. You can find a lot of helpful stuff if you take time to watch my other vids too, but if your situation is unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@dlgacct
@dlgacct 9 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning Thanks so much for your reply! 🥰🥰
@midnighttheumbreon8857
@midnighttheumbreon8857 10 ай бұрын
I made the mistake of posting my feelings on social media and he saw it… it was left vague, but it was still obvious it was about a breakup. Will that deeply affect it? I’m following everything else already… no contact is technically almost up
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
It's most likely fine. Just try not to do the same mistake twice and definitely do away with all the posting about sad, dramatic stuff. This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/emKqoYVrgqajh80 or better yet, refer to my other videos and/or consider getting the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide to know what to do next, at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy Good luck!
@RJo-xg6vr
@RJo-xg6vr 8 ай бұрын
It’s important to ask for your parent’s permission to get married from where I come from. I was in a beautiful almost perfect relationship for 3 years we both love eachother so much but since last year his parents have created so much mess they want him to marry somewhere else and he wants them to understand how badly he wants to marry me. All of it has lead to so many arguments between us we have become so distant. Now 2 weeks back he said he can’t do this anymore and left me. I can’t tolerate the pain and I don’t know what to do. I want him back so badly….
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 7 ай бұрын
Is this a cultural thing? If your ex is in the right age to make his own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. This may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
@RJo-xg6vr
@RJo-xg6vr 7 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning no we are adults but yeah it’s a cultural thing. Thank you so much for your response.
@CasualStuff-l2n
@CasualStuff-l2n 10 ай бұрын
I told him i wasnt gunna speak to him any more (going no contact) and when he realised i was serious he blocked me its gunna be really arkward at are cadets 😂
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Yeah, awkward indeed. There's really no need for all that though especially if you see yourself being in amicable terms with your ex in the future.
@sahilkhan4uu
@sahilkhan4uu 10 ай бұрын
I went to no contact rule and she reached out to me multiple times and I ignored multiple time but few days before I responded to her.she told me that I missed you and we ll be togather forever but after few days she did the same.low response and things got worsen again.what to do next!!!!!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Chill and allow her to reach out to you first as well. See, you two are basically starting from scratch with hopefully the two of you being the better version of yourselves, so don't expect for things to get back to normal right away. There's bound to be an adjustment period so try to chill, okay? Sorry but I would need more info to help you deduct what's happening. You can work with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@sahilkhan4uu
@sahilkhan4uu 10 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning she reached to me after one month
@KennyChensey
@KennyChensey 8 ай бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
@danilmaqeel5034
@danilmaqeel5034 8 ай бұрын
stay strong bro, I'm in the same situation too. i really hope you life get better. I really hope you'll get her back.
@carlgaston9693
@carlgaston9693 8 ай бұрын
I'm going through the same thing. I miss her so bad. I can't stop thinking about her. 😢
@1988Allnatural
@1988Allnatural 7 ай бұрын
Keep circulating guys! Get with friends and try to enjoy life.
@Muhammadboogler
@Muhammadboogler 10 ай бұрын
its been 2months since my ex kicked me out, we have a 4month old son together who i miss so much, i did all the classic mistakes of trying to win her back, spent hours on youtube following all the advice possible and failing each time!. its hard to do no contact when all i want do to is see my boy :( , only getting 6 hours a week kills me,. my ex insist the contact i get with my son is in our old family home so i have to see her and i just break each time. this is so hard
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
I understand what you're going through but trust me when I say it's best to give each other space first until you get your bearings together, yeah? It's an uphill battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck
@MichelleShellHolliday
@MichelleShellHolliday 10 ай бұрын
We still live together. My ex ended it 4 months ago. I was controlling, used to push away due to my low self esteem. I have made changes to address all of those things. I have lost weight, been talking to a therapist. My ex works evenings so as I get up in the morning, he is just getting in so sleeps in our bed. At the weekend he chooses to stay with friends. He says he doesn't want to be around me. He feels like he is walking on eggshells. However he will ask me to go shopping, text me to see if I would like a lift..Why if he doesn't want to be around me. I am confused. He did say it's because he has spent the weekend away from me..What are your thoughts?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
He may still enjoy your company but apparently not enough to want to be in a relationship with you. Focus on texting and try not to meet up when one of you or both of you aren't ready yet. The phase you're on (assuming you've done the first phase correctly which is the 30-day no contact rule) is the second phase where you're rebuilding attraction. It's part two of the 3-phase system in my guide but here's a quick overview to help you understand better: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but as you go on this phase, you'll notice one or more signs here: y2u.be/nmRM3dZAzDA and the best you can do is to continue to play your cards right and move to the third phase when you're both ready. Good luck!
@JohnLOPEZ-p6k
@JohnLOPEZ-p6k 10 ай бұрын
Hey Brad, I’m wondering on how to enforce the no contact rule if we might see each other due to us sharing the same classes
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Hi! Try not to neg or renegotiate the breakup. As hard as it seems, take time accept the breakup and don't beg for her attention, all right? As to attending the same classes, I get this question a lot so I wouldn't be surprised if you've found your answer before I even get to it -- if you've checked my other videos, that is. In this type of situation, try to limit your contact with your ex. And by that I mean only interact with him/her "only" when absolutely necessary. Watch one of the latest videos I've posted here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck Your case is actually one of the few cases where the “no contact” rule is an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right? I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHzLf3ueetKMg8k but read my Ex Factor Guide because you still ought to go through the basics as well. I've posted an overview on how to get your ex back on an earlier vid, check it out as it's all there, but with the guide, you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com Okay? Take care!
@JohnLOPEZ-p6k
@JohnLOPEZ-p6k 10 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning Appreciate it!
@HotTubWatchdog
@HotTubWatchdog 5 ай бұрын
Brad dated a girl for about three weeks. Every time we hung out was magical. Incredible connection. I screwed up and acted needy and dumb. I hadn’t made any key mistakes aside from I started a very simple non emotional convo 2 days ago. Do I still have a chance? Does no contact for for short term stuff? I don’t want to give up on this yet
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 ай бұрын
How were you needy? There's a slight possibility she's not that into you just yet. And depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Especially if she got put off by your neediness. Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k
@jeffreyh8712
@jeffreyh8712 10 ай бұрын
Hey Brad so currently I’m at highschool and my girlfriend break up with me because she wanted to work on herself and she said wasn’t thinking of coming back and she wasn’t sure if she was going to be committed to the relationship and what can I do for her to come back
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHTEnIKFiNx8n7s&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you two are in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
@tadasgruzinskas6790
@tadasgruzinskas6790 8 ай бұрын
I wrote her friends about our situation lol. What a huge mistake.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 8 ай бұрын
Uh oh... yeah, bad idea in all sorts of ways.
@alisonmartin7002
@alisonmartin7002 3 ай бұрын
It has been 3 weeks since i last talked to my ex. I guess you could say he broke up with me. Up until a few days the last time we talked we were rebuilding our relationship. I asked a question about our future when he got back from overseas and then it went downhill again. His last words were, i am done talking about this for now, i will talk to you later. Then he hung up and wouldn't answer calls or texts😢
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Give him the space he needs and respect his decision to break up, so I suggest you stop trying to reach out to him, okay? Never wait around for anyone. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXLKhKyNj8uKjJY Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Good luck!
@arianaungureanu3245
@arianaungureanu3245 27 күн бұрын
I can’t find your video on apologising , where you explain what happens in the ex’s mind after apologising and after that we should just wait for 6 weeks or 60 days (can’t remember exactly) until we make the next step. Or something like that ?!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 27 күн бұрын
In many cases, how long you wait depends on the gravity of the mistake made on your end. I think this vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/baWVl6ShfLt8pKs
@arianaungureanu3245
@arianaungureanu3245 24 күн бұрын
Thank you very much Brad
@rickeltonjam7097
@rickeltonjam7097 8 ай бұрын
Hi Brad my partner is bi and i am too… but he is scared to come out and said he wanna break up and act straight for whole life… but i m sure that he really loves me…. Should i accept the breakup or work to regain it
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 8 ай бұрын
Ask yourself this question first: If you two were to get back together, are you okay with the fact that he's not ready to come out of the closet? Otherwise this will only just become a source of issue further down the line so be sure you take time in deciding once and for all. If you decide to move on, then this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bavTaIZ8l8p2iLc but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
@stephaniegordon834
@stephaniegordon834 10 ай бұрын
I wish I would have found these videos a lot sooner, my ex ( we were together for 20 yrs and have a son) told me he was seeing someone else, he referenced that the affair may have been bc he was going through a midlife crisis but he ultimately chose the other woman ( who is 15 yrs younger than him) and after we had only been separated for 9 months I found out on FB that he married that woman and she had a baby in August, but I did everything wrong in the beginning of the separation, yelled and said some harsh words and cried, begged and sent a million txt but did everything that pushes a person away so now I'm trying to focus on myself and rebuilding my life and I've been thinking about sending him an accountability letter just for my peace of mind and a form of closure by taking responsibility for the things I did wrong in the relationship but I don't know if it's a good idea what do you think Coach Brad?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hau5qqCPo7Z5is0 Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGjdpouhYtiJqas It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHyWqaicetx4fMk The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
@BujikBujik
@BujikBujik 10 ай бұрын
Message - 2 I gave it a week, then sent her a voice message from another mobile number, detailing all the mistakes I made and sincerely apologizing. She responded, saying she forgives me, but she can't love me again and wishes for me to leave her alone. Since then, I haven't disturbed her. She deserves better. I'm unsure about what to do next, so I've opted for no contact. It's been one week but no response from her. Is it possible to get her back? Will no contact work? Thank you
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
As I've mentioned over and over again in many of my videos, breaking the no contact rule won't do you any good. Your best bet now is to try it and not make any more mistakes than you already have. Watch and apply the tips from this vid to help you out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYG1qWuOjdKaqLc Good luck!
@shooff1608
@shooff1608 10 ай бұрын
For me is weird, we were together for 6 months then it ended because she was convinced I was cheating, I was angry Often and just being mean, Now after s while after that we weer togheter again for like 1.5 month and now out of nowhere she cuts it off, with her argument being that to much has happend maybe, and that she still has feelings for me and feels atraccted but she doesnt she us growing old together, This happend overnight… any tips?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Why were you constantly being moody though? Communication would've been key I could be wrong but this looks to be a case of your ex leaving you before you could leave her. Tell her the reasons why you've been moody and try to compromise so she won't feel left out, okay? In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@christiandaniel7678
@christiandaniel7678 8 ай бұрын
Brad, If it took me 2 months before engaging the no contact rule...is it too late? I was a bit pushy wanting her back and I regret it. We dated on and off for 6 months, I truly miss her. She told me she loved me less than 3 months ago.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 7 ай бұрын
Your best bet is to give each other space. An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
@Biojune30
@Biojune30 10 ай бұрын
Hello Brad Browning. my girlfriend after break up me, i contact 1month apologise for her but she ignore me. We had 5years relationship with her. Now no contact late or not late. Please may you reply me.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
What were you apologizing for though? An empty apology will only push your ex further away. But if you haven't cut off contact yet, it's best you do that first for AT LEAST 30 days. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2Grk6ippc-am5Y
@Biojune30
@Biojune30 10 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning Thank you so much.
@noelross2824
@noelross2824 10 ай бұрын
Hi Brad, Obviously No contact is a great concept but how do I limit contact when my ex and I have a child together?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
It's an uphill battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck
@AdelePetrikova
@AdelePetrikova 8 ай бұрын
I can help you
@LunakieCherrie
@LunakieCherrie 10 ай бұрын
Brad I miss him so much, what do I do when we both have bills together and I’m blocked? I have his friend’s number but I haven’t reached out yet, I miss him like crazy and he blocked me over an accusation that a horrid friend made. And he’s speaking to that horrid friend
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
If he trusts this friend over you, who's in a relationship with, then that's a huge red flag... especially if you haven't done anything to warrant such distrust. How long have you two been together? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@LunakieCherrie
@LunakieCherrie 10 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning I promise when I get money Brad, I’ll contact you, im currently trying the no contact method of atleast 30 days
@LunakieCherrie
@LunakieCherrie 10 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning BRAD YOU ARE A LEGEND I GOT HIM BACK FOLLOWING NO CONTACT OMFG! But we’re not together yet just rebuilding that attraction
@Kb11466
@Kb11466 10 ай бұрын
Hey Brad wonder if you can answer this as I think it’s worth discussing. Obviously part of no contact working is disappearing and them starting to wonder about you, do you think posting on social media showing you’re having a good time and working on yourself actually works against this to some degree. Especially in the beginning? I’m just thinking if they can see what you’re up to, does that kind of alleviate some missing you anxiety as they feel at least some kind of digital connection to you still? Just a thought, I’m wondering whether I should be posting atm as I’m 2 weeks into NC
@legacy9464
@legacy9464 10 ай бұрын
Don't post at all. Go private and post what you want. And If you want to check if she's checking if you posted or not, post an empty story just for her to see, and watch the reaction time to it, anything less than 1 hr and more than 5 mins, she's stalking you.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
It will make them wonder about you. But a digital connection is nowhere near an in-person connection. Just make your post as genuine as possible but avoid dramatic stuff of any kind at this point, especially about relationships and/or feelings. Make the no contact phase count and work on yourself. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYWvm6yYrs6UeLM
@Kb11466
@Kb11466 10 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning Thanks Brad, so far my posts are just my fishing adventures (maybe bit lame but that's who I am) and some gym stuff. Not regularly posting as I'm not too into it but thanks just gonna keep doing me. Again I'm fairly certain now she was no good for me so pretty ambivalent here best
@KelleeTaylor-j1l
@KelleeTaylor-j1l 10 ай бұрын
Your the best ❤❤
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Hey, thanks for the support! :-)
@sreeragh4604
@sreeragh4604 9 ай бұрын
Brad to be honest its a motivation 💪. Thank you brother
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzbin.info”
@imshinagals
@imshinagals 10 ай бұрын
We broke up multiple times, and i partake my part that I mistreated him as well. Past break ups, we never did the No contact rules, we talk through, we begged, we play cats and mouse. This is my first time i’m going to do No Contact rules. He seems fines. He deleted my pic of his IG. I know the love is there & there is still a chance we can make it work. We both need inner work. I still have a chance right?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
@madamemedusa1751
@madamemedusa1751 9 ай бұрын
Well what to do when my ex completely disappears from the earth . His phones off , no posts on any of social media . Messages not getting delivered on whatsapp since days . Checked with his friends and even they say no one is able to contact him but still adds up saying that my ex should be fine . How to proceed here ?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
Your ex could be taking a break from social media and it's his right to do so. Sometimes unplugging for a few weeks can really help! :-) I suggest you focus on you because that's what your ex is likely doing. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYWvm6yYrs6UeLM
@camii147
@camii147 2 ай бұрын
ima just kms atp because me and him are friends now and I just doomed myself and all my chances
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 ай бұрын
Reconnecting with an ex after some time apart and giving each other space for at least 30 days from the breakup is one thing. But it's a different thing if you go to being friends right away. If that's the case, then apply the tips here as soon as possible: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYiog6mVrpiWa9k Good luck!
@Garry34
@Garry34 10 ай бұрын
Hey man we broke up before 2 months ago and I followed no contact for abt 40 days and we spoke on my birthday, she wanted to speak on call. She enjoys speaking to me and told me yesterday that she will submit to me once she is confident about us but just today she said she may have said that coz she was sleepy ? I lashed out on her but she forgives and still wants to be speak with me. I have told her that we aren’t friends and that I still love her. But she doesn’t love me anymore and doesn’t want to meet in person.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
I could be wrong but it seems like you're rushing things? Focus on texting and try not to meet up when one of you or both of you aren't ready yet. Also try to be calm as lashing out won't do you any good right now. Remember, you two aren't in a relationship anymore. Anyway the phase you're on (assuming you've done the first phase correctly which is the 30-day no contact rule) is the second phase where you're rebuilding attraction. It's part two of the 3-phase system in my guide but here's a quick overview to help you understand better: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but as you go on this phase, you'll notice one or more signs here: y2u.be/nmRM3dZAzDA and the best you can do is to continue to play your cards right and move to the third phase when you're both ready. Good luck!
@marguskiis7711
@marguskiis7711 5 ай бұрын
I had a lover but she kept two men same time and eventually chose another bc the guy agreed to live together unlike me. I did all the things here but she never came back.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear, man. Next time, don't compete and/or become a backup plan. If you see her with other men, open your options and date other females right away.
@jackcarriger7200
@jackcarriger7200 5 ай бұрын
Hey brad how can I get my answer to your quiz? It says I can’t because I’ve already have a email on file? I don’t thanks
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын
Hi! That's right. It's designed to accept one email per quiz. This is to prevent folks from re-taking the tests in short amount of time in hopes of getting a different more positive result when the situation is dire and vice versa.
@jackcarriger7200
@jackcarriger7200 4 ай бұрын
But I haven’t ever taken that quiz before that’s why I was confused
@luwiz4168
@luwiz4168 10 ай бұрын
After a year of being broken up and second breakup, my ex messaged me saying "she wanted to get a weight off her shoulders and be cordial with me but didn't want to be friends but on talking terms and didn't think it was a good idea to meetup" she wants to call instead. We still work together, she was still curious about my life, even seemed jealous when i said i been dating around even tho "she said she don't care" and she's still single.What should I do??
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Get my guide and/or apply as many tips from my videos here on KZbin that's applicable to your situation, particularly the part where you're trying to rebuild attraction. In addition, an on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
@enzee27
@enzee27 5 ай бұрын
Hi brad i keep on watching these videos , not only you but some other coaches including lee and some of them suggest to do no contact until you ex reach out and what if my ex will not reach out ?? Soooo I'm confused because you teach to reconnect on some point and this is what i want to . Sooo what can you say i still have 8 days left to end my no contact and i think im ready to reach out after that , give me best thing to do please. Pleeeaaaseeeeeee
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 ай бұрын
I respect other gurus opinions, but if you're asking me, my approach is more of an active one rather than passive. You can actually reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYHGl3qbf9aIj9E including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmesZp5ratWheac but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
@enzee27
@enzee27 5 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning hey brad i finished my 30 day NC and reach out to her on june 4 about congratulating her on her coming graduation through her fb stories and good news she replied . The other day i also chatted to her some light stuff but suddenly she thought me about when should i get my parcel that i left to her . I left it before i do no contact 30 days so i have some reason to reach her incase. I don't know what to say and i told her to set a meet up which i dont want to say because i want to run atleast a week before meeting up and it seems she's some how aggressive i think i do a mistake. Our last convo is yesterday that we should meet up this Saturday but she didn't reply yet and i didn't give a text again to look not desperate and needy . Sooo what should i do next ??? Please i keep watching you and i think almost of your vids help me brad please
@couldstrife1
@couldstrife1 10 ай бұрын
My ex wanted to be friends, tried it but knew it wasn’t what I wanted. I never started the conversation she’d always message first, but it was more about her rebound ex and how she missed him, I finally had enough and told her I didn’t want to hear about him. She said we have nothing to talk about then. Now back in NC it’s been five months since she left, and I don’t know if NC is going to work
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
You've done the right thing in setting boundaries on what to talk about though... but the lack of progress is a bit concerning. What steps have you tried? Never wait around for anyone. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXLKhKyNj8uKjJY Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk
@couldstrife1
@couldstrife1 10 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning I know I’ve done the right thing and should’ve done it sooner, I still really miss her as we was together for 10 years. This weekend is going to be tough as it’s her birthday, what would’ve been our 11th year anniversary and when I was planning on proposing. I’m not looking at her socials or anything, and trying to work on me to move forward but even after five months some days are harder than others. When we was in contact and met up it felt normal even though I knew it wasn’t but also thought progress was being made but I guess not. I’ve taken your quiz and the result was still a chance but it’s fading, I’ve just watched the two video’s but I still don’t really know what to do, I wish I could enrol in your program but I can’t afford it. Trying to move forward as best I can but she has left all her stuff at mine still with no sign of coming to get it. I will try NC for 30 days but want to see if she’ll reach out
@userdead2001
@userdead2001 9 ай бұрын
Hi brad, I've a one sided love. It seems like he sees me as a friend. So I didn't confess it. We meet or speak rarely. But he told me that I'm the most understanding comfort person of his. He's single, ready to date. How can I tell him about my love for him? Or how can i find he's into me or not?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
One sided love rarely works, if at all. If he's into you, trust me, you'll know it. The best you can do at this point is try to hint and/or confess your feelings for him but be prepared for his answer. But it's best the truth is out so nobody would feel slighted.
@sohaahmed9729
@sohaahmed9729 10 ай бұрын
Happy New year brad 🎊
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Hey, happy new year!
@factualopinions5256
@factualopinions5256 10 ай бұрын
My ex dumped me a week ago. We have 3 kids together but we both also have a son with another person. She dumped me because she said we were toxic. She said nothing I say or do matters and I won’t change (I do blame myself a lot because I’ve self reflected) I begged for her back when she dropped off our 3 children to me and she basically told me to never do it again and it makes her mad and she doesn’t care what I have to say. She said she only wants to talk if it’s about our kids. I do love her and I do want to be the man and father I know I can be. What should I do? This has hit me extremely hard. Especially since I was the one who was kicked out living back at home with my grandma. (I’m 31, my ex is 27) I do have anger issues but never got physical, it was always my mouth that did the damage. She definitely doesn’t need me at all since she was the one who kept everything going. I was a man child and was always just a Debby downer. I really want to change my life and ways to get her back but after what she said, I honestly don’t know what to do now.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
It's good something positive has come out of this. The breakup served as a catalyst for you to change. As a reminder, if you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Also, pain (that's why your ex dumped you) is a very good teacher and motivator not to mention a huge catalyst, so making these changes within yourself in order for the possibility to come back together stronger and better is what you can expect and you will be able to use this progress if not for your ex, then with someone new. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mIuUfJiqdrGNqMU
@alex-q2h5j
@alex-q2h5j 8 ай бұрын
do i block my ex?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 8 ай бұрын
I noticed a bunch of people having some problems reaching out later on because they've either deleted their ex, blocked (especially everywhere) or unfriended them, which creates an unnecessary dilemma really, if you ask me. The only reason why I suggest NOT to unfollow/block or delete an ex (that you want to get back with) is because you can, in fact, leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: kzbin.info/www/bejne/emKqoYVrgqajh80
@jehzkae623
@jehzkae623 9 ай бұрын
My ex and I havent been in contact for 6 or so months and we're LDR. I broke the no contanct and I asked if I can re-enter his life as an online friend and he agrees. I wanna maintain this relationship and he has avoidant attachment, will this work out??
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that. A long distance relationship is not easy to maintain, especially if you two had a weak foundation where you don't get to spend time with each other much in person. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM and/or kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@ManjarikaBiswal-l8i
@ManjarikaBiswal-l8i 3 ай бұрын
Mr brad , I can I talk to you.. my story is complicated n i want to get him back.. I miss him very badly... I am regretting very much...
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 3 ай бұрын
Hi there! Yes, I offer one-on-one email coaching. I also suggest you start with this to give you an overview on how to go about this: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but you're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@johnnyblake5193
@johnnyblake5193 8 ай бұрын
Need you to help me Brad, im deeply in love with Lisa and she knows that been divorced 4 years now, but was married 18 years. Im deeply in love with her more now than I ever have any advice???😢💔
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 8 ай бұрын
It's been four years... so chances are is she seeing someone else now. Can you confirm that? But why have you waited too long to try and save your marriage? Try to gauge your chances here first: www.marriageguy.com/quiz These may help, hopefully: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oqerYYaKjbukmqs AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/fGLRd4isqdSZbbs but if you still need my help in trying to fix your marriage, sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can take a look at what's really going on and help you out, at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
@purrfectmeow
@purrfectmeow 10 ай бұрын
Brad, can you do a video on what it means if you saw your ex typing to you a lot in the text or messenger window, but then they either sent nothing or only a very short text? My ex was typing for like 5 minutes and I only got a very short one sentence text.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Social media is funny sometimes. It's important not to overanalyze this stuff. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaS5g2qvi5mLbs0
@purrfectmeow
@purrfectmeow 9 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning ty
@LuckyBoy-tp9me
@LuckyBoy-tp9me 7 ай бұрын
After few days of break up... I beg to him and i cried for him.... Was that much wrong? ...But after that incident i never talk to him anymore..continuing no contact for 3 month.. Is there anything wrong? Plz tell me.... Was that wrong.. I cried for him?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 7 ай бұрын
All breakups hurt and your ex likely shed a tear as well. However, relationships don't always work out as we all hope it to be and people often lose track. If you still wanna test the waters, since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
@trevorfriedl9832
@trevorfriedl9832 10 ай бұрын
What if you told a friend something that an ex told you after the break up and they were confronted, is this fixable or no
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
It's generally not a good idea to be talking about stuff to friends with regards to your relationship as that will only tend to create a myriad of problems you can do without. Just try to make sure you avoid any of the following I've discussed here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJrOiGePjqhsr9E
@kevinkruger9584
@kevinkruger9584 10 ай бұрын
Hey brad i need your help man Me and my girlfriend of 2.5years broke up 3 days ago, i did your quiz and it said i need to act swiftly. It is open eneded with her saying that she can see us maybe back together but no yes or no just she needs time, how long do i wait how can i win back the love of my life
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Fading fast and therefore the need to act fast means to play your cards right from the get-go and not mess things up further, basically. Here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rpi1YWaImLpro9k It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex and definitely not in social media), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
@rheaagarwal9347
@rheaagarwal9347 10 ай бұрын
Hi Brad, me and partner just broke up it was a 2 year relationship, I had something to do with my ex which I didn’t intend to do and it happened but I apologised and accepted my mistake and did everything I could but stubborn enough to not give me a second chance and I don’t want to date anyone else except him and I want to be with him back again, what I’m I suppose to do, I truly and deeply love him
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
What happened between you and another ex and was there cheating involved? Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@omerabdullah2703
@omerabdullah2703 9 ай бұрын
Brad , we patched up again directly after 2 months and i approached her with heavy feelings crying and sorry presentations we talk 9 days and again she left me alone What to do now ?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
Drama will get you nowhere real fast, man. So that was totally the wrong approach and I've talked about that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKbLkqCMetymrrc You ought to review this first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gmHLqYyKeK9lnrc and in fact, apply the tips here too instead of taking the shortcut: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@omerabdullah2703
@omerabdullah2703 9 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning she was regularly watching my stories thats’s why i again approached her When we again patched up she asked me to commit and I committed directly, and ask for attention and giving extra love and extra care and after few days she again did break up, so i break the law of attraction what to do next , should i again ignore her back for month or more or should i text her again and talk to her or leave her for month ?
@RoxyButi
@RoxyButi 4 ай бұрын
Hey Brad going to 1 Month without no contact now with my ex bf . He broke up with me last May 29,2024 . And he Said during the break up he doesnt have feelings for me anymore , and he doesnt to be with me anymore . But he Said also he still cares for me . And its like he blame everything to me . I am very confused , i don’t understand him. We are in Long distance relastionship its like 4 hours to each other . Before the break up we had rights but for me it Can be resolve but for him he just choose to break up. What should i do? I still love him. Should i message him?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Some people do that as a defense mechanism. But how often did you two meet when you were still in a relationship? As you've noticed, the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@jjjjew
@jjjjew 10 ай бұрын
Hello brad, it's been 60 days or more of no contact, and she blocks me even though I didn't do anything wrong. She said that she couldn't focus on her studies. that's why she left, but after the breakup, she reached out for a few days, and I just played it cool, I'm not excited like my chat is cold and we played a few games. After a few days, she did not text me anymore. After that, I texted her how she was doing she just saw the text. And she did not respond almost for 60 days or more. Do I still have a chance even though we dont have a label?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHTEnIKFiNx8n7s&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you two are in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
@jjjjew
@jjjjew 9 ай бұрын
So I'll just wait for her? @BradBrowning
@jjjjew
@jjjjew 9 ай бұрын
​@BradBrowning So is it possible to get her back in the future?
@jackyjacky9128
@jackyjacky9128 6 ай бұрын
What you mean by push too hard???
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 6 ай бұрын
Stop trying too hard or push for things to go your way. Choose your battles wisely and learn when to back off when needed, yeah? Never wait around for anyone. Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk
@Mr_SLiker
@Mr_SLiker 9 ай бұрын
I hope this helps i hope she takes me back
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Best of luck!
@archanakn6904
@archanakn6904 10 ай бұрын
Our relation is about 6yrs and now he brkup with me and committed with another girl...I need him back ...plz give any advice
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear you're going through this but it may be to your best interest to move on from this. I know I can't say anything right now to make you feel better. Healing is a process and everybody has their own journey. They key is to regain confidence and in due time, you WILL feel better. It's important to experience some sense of progress in your life to make things somewhat bearable after a life-altering and excruciatingly painful event such as a breakup. So try as much to set personal life goals and start small to make sure it's attainable, such as going to the gym, planning a healthier diet, etc. You can also get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup at www.beatmybreakup.com to help guide you on what more to do during this grieving process. Take care!
@nadishathamalee3638
@nadishathamalee3638 9 ай бұрын
He blocked me from everything. Anyway so both of us dont see what each others are doing. So how it gonna work for me
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
That can work, especially if you focus on yourself during this time and not let emotions overrule you. Anyway here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do at this time: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still have questions on what to do, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
@thomasrobertson6175
@thomasrobertson6175 9 ай бұрын
I was ass hole got argument punch a wall and i regret ever doing that she gone i been trying for a week to get her begging and telling her i been trying to change told me she love me and miss me but is unsure about getting back together and we might have a baby on the way
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Also, pain (that's why your ex dumped you) is a very good teacher and motivator not to mention a huge catalyst, so making these changes within yourself in order for the possibility to come back together stronger and better is what you can expect and you will be able to use this progress if not for your ex, then with someone new. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mIuUfJiqdrGNqMU
@1Deric29
@1Deric29 10 ай бұрын
What if y’all work together
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Do limited contact instead and keep any conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck
@hyperion752
@hyperion752 8 ай бұрын
Should i get back with my ex girlfriend? I still love her its been almost 2 months since no contact 🤧
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 8 ай бұрын
Here are reasons to do so to help you decide: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hnurl2CplLuqgc0 Actually you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYHGl3qbf9aIj9E including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmesZp5ratWheac but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
@tasnimjahan5876
@tasnimjahan5876 9 ай бұрын
But he is my classmate, how do i avoid him?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
I get this question a lot so I wouldn't be surprised if you've found your answer before I even get to it -- if you've checked my other videos, that is. In this type of situation, try to limit your contact with your ex. And by that I mean only interact with him/her "only" when absolutely necessary. Watch one of the latest videos I've posted here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck Your case is actually one of the few cases where the “no contact” rule is an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right? I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHzLf3ueetKMg8k but read my Ex Factor Guide because you still ought to go through the basics as well. I've posted an overview on how to get your ex back on an earlier vid, check it out as it's all there, but with the guide, you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com Okay? Take care!
@jasonperezillusionist7190
@jasonperezillusionist7190 10 ай бұрын
What if you and gf live together but y’all broke up ? 🤔
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
It's another story if you live under the same roof after a relationship ends. I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
@marioandrews7967
@marioandrews7967 10 ай бұрын
Brad it's been 17th months we still been talking and having sex here and there recently she just blocked me I was at her house for 3 days she just blocked me the boy she put out she let him come back now I'm out the pictures
@marioandrews7967
@marioandrews7967 10 ай бұрын
Do I have a chance for 24 or it's over Friday I got drunk and went there and knocked on the window by knocking too hard
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Never wait around for anyone. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXLKhKyNj8uKjJY Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk
@dude-ox2em
@dude-ox2em 10 ай бұрын
Watching your videos from 2014❤
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Oh wow, thanks for the support! Much appreciated.
@oliviaolaivar4432
@oliviaolaivar4432 10 ай бұрын
FIRST 😂❤🎉
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 10 ай бұрын
Correct! Thanks for the support. :-)
@MastiffDisc
@MastiffDisc 8 ай бұрын
Should i let her know that im starting no contact? Weve been staying in touch via snapchat and instagram, but thats about it. Its only been a week, im just trying to figure out how to initiate the no contact?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 8 ай бұрын
That's totally unnecessary. Watch these: kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4usg2eAg8isgsk AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/g6PSfY1tjbBsnbs
@MastiffDisc
@MastiffDisc 8 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning what if I told her that I needed time?
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