10 Things You Need To Let Go Of To Be Happy

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@gailnichols842
@gailnichols842 3 жыл бұрын
I realized and accepted when I turned 50 that I would never marry and surrounded myself with other happy single and married people. I was very happy as a single person and did the things I liked doing - teaching (first grade), painting, writing, meeting with others to talk. Then when I turned 67 I fell in love with a widower, someone I had known since third grade. We are now happily married. My husband claims one of the main reasons he found me attractive was: I was happy in the life I had made for myself.
@gionagrace6279
@gionagrace6279 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome!! Kudos to you!!! Beautiful story!! God is all about love & timing!! 🥰
@bethcook1166
@bethcook1166 3 жыл бұрын
That is so beautiful....I🙏 just had to say!! MANY, MANY YEARS OF JOY!!😊💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚
@gailnichols842
@gailnichols842 3 жыл бұрын
@@gionagrace6279 Absolutely true. When I became a Christian at 45 years old, I prayed for a Christian spouse. I decided after 10 years, God must have said "No" and I was okay with that. Actually God was saying "Wait"
@sarita3843
@sarita3843 3 жыл бұрын
Ohhh your life Story is sooooo lovely...wishing you many many happy years full of love with your hubby 🙏🙏🙂🥰 P S i have also become a Christian i belive in God and have noticed since than my life is abit Happier and some of my prayers and dreams are answered and fullfilled ...priase to the Almighty God in the mighty name of Jesus Christ bis son and the holy spirit 🙏🙏🙏🙂🙂
@sinbaddmora5119
@sinbaddmora5119 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! And you don't necessarily have to proclaim to be a Christian to find a happy life with someone, BUT, FAITH in HIM gives you the upper hand. I'm 52 years old & divorce 12 yrs. I have dated on & off and not been in a serious relationship, and mostly on my own... ALONE BUT NEVER LONELY. Whoever said you can't teach Old Dogs new tricks not correct. Because I continue to learn and grow daily. Most importantly this past year I've reflected more on my faith. To trust and wait on HIM and if it is well for Him to send me a partner He will. m Meanwhile, I need to stay focused on Him to help me fight any addictions, learn to love myself despite my flaws because I was WONDERFULLY made by HIM. Sometimes His will is not easy to accept. And I personally believe you need to look to him to be your spouse, your husband first & in doing so HE will prepare you To meet your Earthly spouse. Then again those that you genuinely care for around you may be your spouse & that's an even greater blessing. Be content in that & you'll reap your reward up there. PRAYERS AND BLESSINGS TO YOU ALL🙏😌
@Omar31587
@Omar31587 3 жыл бұрын
1. Let go of what's gone 2. be grateful for what remains 3. Look forward to what's to come next.
@mymysticalchannel1967
@mymysticalchannel1967 3 жыл бұрын
Omar S...great job! Mystic RS MY MYSTICAL CHANNEL
@sweetblack1216
@sweetblack1216 3 жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL
@lynneforsyth8231
@lynneforsyth8231 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely..that's the hardest one of all
@lindapablo-liston4604
@lindapablo-liston4604 3 жыл бұрын
M
@emmanuel5876
@emmanuel5876 3 жыл бұрын
🙏Ok 4,😇
@julianblackycaesar7472
@julianblackycaesar7472 3 жыл бұрын
Learn to let go of self criticism, learn to love and forgive yourself. Nobody's perfect and that includes YOU...!
@Tapper98
@Tapper98 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly true 🙏
@learning.growing.1017
@learning.growing.1017 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, amen! 💛🙌🏼
@miriamshelton6755
@miriamshelton6755 3 жыл бұрын
I will
@kikiprimavera9203
@kikiprimavera9203 3 жыл бұрын
So often I need to hear this! My worst punishment is my mind :)
@miriamshelton6755
@miriamshelton6755 3 жыл бұрын
@@kikiprimavera9203 , So dont let it do that. You are not alone💐
@donnajoseph-barford1076
@donnajoseph-barford1076 3 жыл бұрын
I got rid of 2 toxic people at 18. My mom a covert Narcissist and my sister a Malignant Narcissist with Grandiose tendencies. Never looked back. I had my dad. He was great. He passed away in 2003. Now I have my husband and 2 son's.
@calebasiamah6879
@calebasiamah6879 3 жыл бұрын
I had trouble trying to cheer up and live my life to the fullest especially during this last month..I failed one of my final papers and it really caused me to do a lot of self loathing especially when i tried comparing myself to my other colleagues..Your video has really sparked the light in me.I'm ready to move foward and put the past behind me..thanks a lot..I really appreciate this
@beautywinsfails8867
@beautywinsfails8867 3 жыл бұрын
Letting go of a job you don’t feel happy with is a tough one, especially in these times.
@MadaraUchiha-ly8wr
@MadaraUchiha-ly8wr 3 жыл бұрын
It's a dilemma, you like plenty other people including myself need a job or at least a source of income BUT!!! Would love to lose the jobs we have.
@MrTruthseeker1980
@MrTruthseeker1980 3 жыл бұрын
Prepare an exit plan. It might take a while, but at least you have something to look forward to when you're ready to leave. An important part of this is don't tell anyone you're leaving. They will likely make your life more difficult at work if you do.
@jazzyjazz9872
@jazzyjazz9872 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrTruthseeker1980 don't tell anyone about your any plans
@jazzyjazz9872
@jazzyjazz9872 3 жыл бұрын
I'm holding on smtg that I'm not crazy about but at the moment there's no escape
@heatherfulmore3412
@heatherfulmore3412 2 жыл бұрын
No comment , things are fine for now.
@nicoleonfeels
@nicoleonfeels 3 жыл бұрын
Through the journey of letting go, don’t forget to be kind & gentle with yourself ❣️
@jessyavila5317
@jessyavila5317 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@stephaniemarr9491
@stephaniemarr9491 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes that’s really difficult to do
@AB-C1
@AB-C1 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed 🙏❤️x
@11davethewave
@11davethewave 3 жыл бұрын
Yep !! Your Awesome Nicole 👍
@emmanuel5876
@emmanuel5876 3 жыл бұрын
💘Yes 👍
@mbonuchinedu2420
@mbonuchinedu2420 3 жыл бұрын
social media creates an illusion of the perfect life. Don't be decieved.
@augustinekola9402
@augustinekola9402 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah absolutely right
@timshanemelton
@timshanemelton 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I should've chosen a career in radio or television broadcasting
@keepsmiling1686
@keepsmiling1686 3 жыл бұрын
Follow KEEP SMILING 🌷😁
@colleen8421
@colleen8421 3 жыл бұрын
So true !!!
@lady_glittersparkles3887
@lady_glittersparkles3887 3 жыл бұрын
For sure! Don't have one or like it.
@darksoul479
@darksoul479 3 жыл бұрын
I hated my last job. They did me the biggest favor in the world when they fired me. It seemed like it was a catastrophe at the time, but it turned out that it was the best thing that ever could have happened. 😁
@quantumpotential7639
@quantumpotential7639 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you got fired. Thanks former boss for making him happy.
@svetlanabarrow6026
@svetlanabarrow6026 3 жыл бұрын
So you will get in another shitty job. Congratulations. Enjoy. There’s no win in this sick game.
@MadaraUchiha-ly8wr
@MadaraUchiha-ly8wr 3 жыл бұрын
I wanna lose my job, but getting fired. I donno, I need the universe to give me a sign.
@stephanieklinger6580
@stephanieklinger6580 3 жыл бұрын
I hear you. I worked with horrible people for six years. Every day I asked my husband if I could quit and he would say it wasn’t a good time financially. Then one day, he said I shouldn’t suffer and that life wouldn’t be that hard without my paycheck. I quit that same day and ran out of that place to my car and sang all the way home
@Janelonghorn2
@Janelonghorn2 3 жыл бұрын
@@stephanieklinger6580 😁😇🙏🏽
@rickybobby5950
@rickybobby5950 3 жыл бұрын
Currently going through a breakup of a relationship and splitting households and I can tell you it’s scary but I finally decided to be true to myself and get out, no matter how hard it would be to do it on my own. My new life may have difficulties but it will mine again. Make a change, you will thank yourself later!
@TheDhammaHub
@TheDhammaHub 3 жыл бұрын
The more we cling to things, people and even ideas, the more unhappy we become usually. It's a bit ironic since most people think that more stuff equals more happiness!
@kimsmith819
@kimsmith819 3 жыл бұрын
I've realized over the years, stuff doesn't bring a bit of happiness. Having what you need and a couple wants is enough
@mymysticalchannel1967
@mymysticalchannel1967 3 жыл бұрын
Timeless Self-Improvement...I agree about the the ideas part as well. Most people may not even realize that ideas that are outdated or that no longer serve us or that aren't fit for our new lifestyle can really bring you down if you keep comparing yourself to them. Having Scorpio in 4 planets makes you really want to hold onto a lot so I definitely know about this! Mystic RS MY MYSTICAL CHANNEL
@PersonalDynamics
@PersonalDynamics 3 жыл бұрын
^_^ Sure doesn't, as I wrote in my book ---> "The Way of the Broken Sword II" "Do you own your stuff, or does your stuff own you"? I live as a minimalist, getting ready to move to the next stage, meaning I want to be able to carry all my stuff, if I can't get into my back pack it's toast!? I use to watch my girl friends have COMPLETE MELTDOWNS and SPIN INTO HYSTERIA when they couldn't find their cell phone. I NEVER wanted to be like that where an object has that much power over me, so I ditched tons of stuff and find I'm happy without it!? Besides when you have stuff of value you always have to be concerned with someone taking it, who needs that head ache?
@ramaraksha01
@ramaraksha01 3 жыл бұрын
If we don't aspire, don't have wants, then what is life? Just mere existence, is it not?
@PersonalDynamics
@PersonalDynamics 3 жыл бұрын
@@ramaraksha01 ^_^ Rama, sure all of these things you mention of course we pursue them as they pursue us, YES. YES, that is a Part of Life, as life in essence is NOT "Stuff", those are simply add ons, bonuses, benefits and perks of life but they are NOT and SHOULD NOT be our SOLE PURSUIT!? I think what he's hinting at here is our attachments to things (car, homes, clothes, our watch and cell phone, etc) that objects DO NOT MAKE THE "MAN", are you familiar with this concept? Also there are "HOARDERS' have you looked at that? To "Me" it's about "QUALITY" over "QUANTITY", case in point ---> A group of friends spent the day at the beach, the high point was the sunset (I'm in So Cal so we can catch some fantastic sunsets)! Most of my friends and I are about the "Moment", though one of our friends is a PERFECTIONIST EXTREME he's one of the people who pursues stuff and quantity OVER forget about stuff and pursue quality. So our group is enjoying the shared experience catching pics and shooting video, having fun as we watched the sun go down. Our other friend, well he fussed with his camera, then decided he wanted a wide angle lens and then a different camera and add a tripod and change this and adjust that and what about lighting? He WASTED ALL of this time on stuff and getting this PERFECT shot that he MISSED the entire moment!! We should strive MORE for these moments, because it is the memories that remain forever. Stuff can be lost, broken, stolen, sold, traded, memories and feelings can NEVER be taken away! That is life and what I aspire for, the outer manifestation or reality is a manifestation of what resides inside each of us. telarasky.earth^_^
@ahnkim5225
@ahnkim5225 3 жыл бұрын
Let go of the things that you cannt have..be greatful for what you have..
@ferdrewflores3612
@ferdrewflores3612 3 жыл бұрын
Epictetus... ☝️💪💯✔️🙏
@lisarobinson1241
@lisarobinson1241 3 жыл бұрын
👍❤️
@lisarobinson1241
@lisarobinson1241 3 жыл бұрын
For some it takes some time, making you stronger and smarter for the next round. ❤️
@blacktiger19143
@blacktiger19143 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for this vid. I was once told by a friend of mine along time ago "Pride will take you for a ride, but the destination can or will be a humiliation"
@wandabrown538
@wandabrown538 3 жыл бұрын
It's the ego that will take you on a rollercoaster ride. When the ride is over ur mind will feel dizzy and shaken. Pride is one of the negative effect from being driven by the ego. In order to overcome pride , u must put the ego in check and maintain it like a janitor and like a person who evaluates and removes things that doesn't belong thru the process of elimination💯%
@lydiabenton6187
@lydiabenton6187 3 жыл бұрын
I need to let go of everything past hurts from relationship. Rejection, self doubt, and loneliness you name it I have been working on this it's not easy but I'm not giving up on myself
@nik5129
@nik5129 3 жыл бұрын
Same, good luck
@Janelonghorn2
@Janelonghorn2 3 жыл бұрын
You’re strong 💪🏿 Keep pressing on. 😇🙏🏽
@fullhd8721
@fullhd8721 3 жыл бұрын
"Whoever among you wakes up in the morning secured in his dwelling, healthy in his body, having his food for the day,then it is as if the world has been gathered for him.'" The prophet Mohamed said this 1400 years ago about happiness Wish you all the best 🌷
@antoinettegorman8833
@antoinettegorman8833 3 жыл бұрын
It’s all about self worth . Love you
@fullhd8721
@fullhd8721 3 жыл бұрын
@@antoinettegorman8833 exactly! Wish you all the best ❤
@philmarsh3859
@philmarsh3859 3 жыл бұрын
Three things that make me happy: 1. financial security, 2. friends, 3. interesting work and sense of purpose.
@Michael-hm6tk
@Michael-hm6tk 3 жыл бұрын
Number 3
@cathycharalambous4309
@cathycharalambous4309 3 жыл бұрын
No mention of Love. Isn't that the most important of All. Maybe I got it wrong? Just sayn.💜🌬
@jazzyjazz9872
@jazzyjazz9872 3 жыл бұрын
@@cathycharalambous4309 self love
@jazzyjazz9872
@jazzyjazz9872 3 жыл бұрын
I choose 3 1 2 Respectively 😃
@paulweaver7074
@paulweaver7074 3 жыл бұрын
It is very, very hard finding good friends. People, generally speaking, cannot be trusted. I'm much better off being isolated. It saves me great agony.
@pyschologygeek
@pyschologygeek 3 жыл бұрын
You're human, you have emotions and it's normal to be upset, angry, or frustrated sometimes. When you're BEING happy you allow yourself to feel those emotions. It doesn't mean that you sit and wallow in them, but you remember that they're normal and you don't beat yourself up for having those emotions
@learning.growing.1017
@learning.growing.1017 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, yes... 💛
@stevehortongothlindreiss3983
@stevehortongothlindreiss3983 3 жыл бұрын
@@learning.growing.1017 Yes! Agree! So very true!
@jacquelinesmith6712
@jacquelinesmith6712 Жыл бұрын
I will have to learn to let go of people who I don't talk to anymore/are not receptive to social conversations and accept the fact that I thrive when I am in solitude.
@rhight
@rhight 3 жыл бұрын
Living well is truly the best revenge!
@geraldanthony7472
@geraldanthony7472 3 жыл бұрын
This is good therapy for nearly everyone in today's mixed up world
@Simon-je7ko
@Simon-je7ko 3 жыл бұрын
Letting go is very hard to digest. It's a very long process. It takes time. A long time. But it's worth it if you want to be happy.
@bertiehobbs1563
@bertiehobbs1563 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you a hundred percent. 👏👏👏👍👍👍
@Funstuff13613
@Funstuff13613 3 жыл бұрын
You got me with number 10, expanding your comfort zone, it's a sore spot. I've cultivated my habits, lifestyle and routines to a certain size and generally don't go outside of that because there have been big opportunities in life where I've done my best to apply myself and they haven't panned out. Growth can come from rejection and there have been other opportunities where I have applied myself and they have paid off - but I have a hard time letting go of the ones that didn't
@svetlanabarrow6026
@svetlanabarrow6026 3 жыл бұрын
It is all crap. It is all an illusion. We don’t have free choice it was taken from us when we were born. Don’t think that it your failures it was designed like that for someone’s sick entertainment.
@badboysthought6773
@badboysthought6773 3 жыл бұрын
Letting go of a person you don't like make you free and happy man
@fionagregory9147
@fionagregory9147 Жыл бұрын
Or woman.
@tedoakley5600
@tedoakley5600 3 жыл бұрын
Just be you and live your life your way. Sounds simple but truly is hard to do
@christinah.8504
@christinah.8504 3 жыл бұрын
be stoic. It will teach you the way to value what's important and let go of meaningless stuff .
@patrickprendergast9589
@patrickprendergast9589 3 жыл бұрын
teach me more
@christinah.8504
@christinah.8504 3 жыл бұрын
@@patrickprendergast9589 , the stoic response would be to teach and seek for yourself.
@thedudeabides3930
@thedudeabides3930 3 жыл бұрын
Stoics are cowards.
@georgesontag2192
@georgesontag2192 5 ай бұрын
Stoics are not cowards. Stoics know how to handle what they can control and ignore what they cannot control. Stoics are wise and know the reality of life.
@christinah.8504
@christinah.8504 5 ай бұрын
@@georgesontag2192 ,yeah, I said that in my post. You're just restating what I said as a me too.
@carlawalker7752
@carlawalker7752 3 жыл бұрын
Be happy and people will follow...a song n ur heart and a smile on ur face 😍
@Hhopiuygv
@Hhopiuygv Жыл бұрын
Caring about what others think about you is the number one
@SummaGirl1347
@SummaGirl1347 3 жыл бұрын
"Your family and friends love you for who you really are."...wouldn't it be wonderful if that were actually true. Not many of us come from those kinds of families and few of us actually find those kinds of friends.
@onlybosslion9267
@onlybosslion9267 3 жыл бұрын
Great perspective! I will add focus on what makes you happy and don’t let others impress on you! Do what makes you happy! The biggie is stop lying to others and yourself!
@steveb4400
@steveb4400 2 жыл бұрын
I say this with all my heart. I am 58 years old and I've never been happier!
@oferafavour7330
@oferafavour7330 3 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that you make this video thanks a lot, I personally think I have been holding back for too long I need to let go of some people in my life
@yogeshraja4009
@yogeshraja4009 3 жыл бұрын
I try to obtain my happiness by doing something joyful, exciting, new and rewarding.
@CFCseventy
@CFCseventy 3 жыл бұрын
Gratitude every day is positive
@marcusevans617
@marcusevans617 3 жыл бұрын
happiness come from within. Thanks you brainy dose
@murtadah6327
@murtadah6327 3 жыл бұрын
These points are truly helpful for leading a purposeful and a healthy life. Thanks very much BD.
@rogersledz6793
@rogersledz6793 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for uploading this video. It is helping me to get through the pandemic!
@sieunpark3436
@sieunpark3436 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with letting go of all the things that I've even experienced before. The most thing that I agree with is lies. The more secret I have, the more conflict rather happens in the long run!
@annabrown9670
@annabrown9670 3 жыл бұрын
HELPING OTHERS MAKES YOU STRONG AND HAPPY 💯
@rachelarmel7547
@rachelarmel7547 3 жыл бұрын
Yes and it's also good karma!
@curtisseely4307
@curtisseely4307 2 жыл бұрын
not when they walk on you after.
@pharxahghxst3654
@pharxahghxst3654 2 жыл бұрын
Been struggling in my trucking career since earlier this year went through wreck in the truck got turned down by many jobs now I think I've found a better company that what I have now. Job is so bad I literally see my check and feel horrible bills late etc. Time for my new driving job Monday I'm excited
@torro6460
@torro6460 3 жыл бұрын
Happiness is a choice.
@janicemurphy7878
@janicemurphy7878 3 жыл бұрын
Let go of pride, but never become a pushover. Awm
@lizzy8670
@lizzy8670 3 жыл бұрын
#10. I can relate so much . 😩 I'm afraid to leave my comfort zone thus I'm not growing and learning 😖
@jazzyjazz9872
@jazzyjazz9872 3 жыл бұрын
Be brave & gd luck 💖
@bigvalley4987
@bigvalley4987 3 жыл бұрын
Nice information, I will borrow some of these key points to pass on to my daughters, and any young person that should be equipped to understand that life if a journey.
@fionagregory9147
@fionagregory9147 Жыл бұрын
I am happy and not worried. I learn from other people's mistakes.
@francesbernard2445
@francesbernard2445 3 жыл бұрын
Such good advice. Excessive pride could lead me to buy so many things I don't need while showing off that it could end up limiting my future. Setting firm boundaries and maintaining them well when spending any time at all around a person who is troubled for sure important too. Refusing to spend any more time at all with someone who was willing to risk my life and limb just so they could get their own way in getting what they believe are all the good things in life is important too. Not always easy to predict who is going to surprise someone with terrible behavior. No reason to hide in my closet or rule out some occupations for me like being a social worker too after finding that out.
@kellynickell3231
@kellynickell3231 3 жыл бұрын
... "Good stuff Maynard." Also... Get rid of UN-FORGIVENESS. That's HUGE. AND... ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL for the GOOD stuff in this life. The rarer the GOOD stuff is, the more grateful for it we should be.
@zantigar
@zantigar 3 жыл бұрын
One of your BEST videos! So many incredible realizations succinctly yet potently expressed. Thumbs WAAAY up!
@talltree4252
@talltree4252 3 жыл бұрын
True definition of happiness good health good people good environment
@ElisabeteFortes
@ElisabeteFortes 3 жыл бұрын
People-pleasing behavior and also to doubt myself.
@howardcoles3537
@howardcoles3537 3 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of us do too much people- pleasing behaviour. And self doubt can be very harmful. I read a quote from the 19th century writer Jane Austen which I think is a good one, " We all have a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be ". I hope you may find it helpful.
@ElisabeteFortes
@ElisabeteFortes 3 жыл бұрын
@@howardcoles3537 Lovely quote Howard. Thanks for sharing that and also your own opinion. Have a blissful weekend!
@howardcoles3537
@howardcoles3537 3 жыл бұрын
@@ElisabeteFortes I'm glad you like the quote Elizabeth. It is one of the best quotes by an author I've ever come across. No wonder Jane Austen is so celebrated as a classic writer ! Thank you for your good wishes and have a wonderful weekend yourself !
@darlawoodman4964
@darlawoodman4964 3 жыл бұрын
Thanku for sharing. It's actually letting go of bad people, things n places. Also bad thoughts. God bless us.😇😁⛪🗽🐴
@Janelonghorn2
@Janelonghorn2 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong!
@Kwood10
@Kwood10 3 жыл бұрын
Letting go of toxic friendships or family
@kimly8196
@kimly8196 3 жыл бұрын
People think that I'm rude because I smile to them and to myself sometimes. So they said I have mental illness. However it is not my fault to be happy. I walk away those toxic and surrounded myself with people who are happy as I am. 😀
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome video, Brainy Dose! Mental health is so crucial to our happiness. Great video!
@chrisrobin409
@chrisrobin409 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos are always so helpful.. Many Thanks 🙌
@acgillespie
@acgillespie 3 жыл бұрын
*I'm addicted to being angry at myself for ever being addicted to my addictions in the first place. I'm smarter then this. Trust me I am*
@PersonalDynamics
@PersonalDynamics 3 жыл бұрын
^_^ Rehab is good and will be waiting. It's FREE, you can save cash as you recover and when you come out the other side it will be gone, you'll be happy and life will look and feel AMAZING!! TRUST ---> Former alcoholic with 11 years now I have been FREE and I never look back as what I have done (building my life) only gets better!!
@nyat5413
@nyat5413 3 жыл бұрын
You deserve to forgive yourself and are worthy of forgiveness, gentleness with yourself on this path, you are your best friend beautiful being!
@PersonalDynamics
@PersonalDynamics 3 жыл бұрын
@@nyat5413 ^_^Beautiful.
@tempesnyder6243
@tempesnyder6243 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely wonderful, as always!
@pattywilson7305
@pattywilson7305 3 жыл бұрын
LOVELY AND UPBEAT TIPS. THANK YOU!!!
@shardidunn4080
@shardidunn4080 3 жыл бұрын
So true toxic relationship is real get rid of them
@hareshdaryanani5726
@hareshdaryanani5726 3 жыл бұрын
Good advice on letting go- Second part is below *do some work and exercise even if it's a short walk daily *get on line and become a consultant or get busy with some online work *mentally be strong switch on switch off the low moments *do something with your spare time anything however small meet people you do not know may surprise you how much you learn and grow - happy days to All
@tamcat5822
@tamcat5822 3 жыл бұрын
I love your advice
@hareshdaryanani5726
@hareshdaryanani5726 3 жыл бұрын
@@tamcat5822 merry Christmas
@Ben-do5vf
@Ben-do5vf Жыл бұрын
I had a 7yr relationship that ended in lies. My ex has been spreading malicious rumors about me, which too many people believed, for 15yrs now. It caused my entire family & all my long term friends to disown me. I can't seem to find a way to move on from it. Still looking for advice, I'll keep looking.
@138865F1
@138865F1 3 жыл бұрын
Humor & Happiness go together !!!
@fionagregory9147
@fionagregory9147 Жыл бұрын
Humour with a U I it.
@akarr9433
@akarr9433 3 жыл бұрын
Good share...
@sabinazeynalova3030
@sabinazeynalova3030 3 жыл бұрын
I just found your chaneel, and it really helps me to improve my language skills and also my worldview. thanks
@doreenkrenkel7721
@doreenkrenkel7721 3 жыл бұрын
Vbj
@marytheodorou8202
@marytheodorou8202 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent commentary and how right you are! Also not caring what other people think of you is just as important, and very difficult to get rid. When you do it’s extremely liberating and blissful all wrapped up in one! Share this information with everyone you know it’s important.
@anitawilliams1720
@anitawilliams1720 2 жыл бұрын
ll
@supremelyeducated3273
@supremelyeducated3273 3 жыл бұрын
"Be Who You Are." ❤️ 🎉
@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631
@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631 3 жыл бұрын
I am in a toxic relationship and I am starting over after 16 years and 2 divorces.
@scottclippinger4076
@scottclippinger4076 3 жыл бұрын
As long as you hang on to the past You will have no future. Let go and the beauty happens
@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631
@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631 3 жыл бұрын
No matter how young are old you are love can find your heart . Life is full of options regardless of your age, sex, marital status, sexual orientation, religion, etc.
@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631
@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631 3 жыл бұрын
@@scottclippinger4076 thanks for sharing your beautiful heart through your comment.
@donnajoseph-barford1076
@donnajoseph-barford1076 3 жыл бұрын
I was married to the kids dad He was a Malignant Narcissist. We had a nasty divorce. My 2nd marriage was for money. He was a control freak. After that divorce I decided to raise my son's and never marry. Well when my youngest graduated high school the next month my true love found me. We are married and very happy. I was single for 12 years before my true love found me.
@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631
@debbielightmillercurtisaut9631 3 жыл бұрын
@@donnajoseph-barford1076 powerful testimony, I appreciate you sharing this ❤️
@johnlewandowski8624
@johnlewandowski8624 3 жыл бұрын
Don't let yourself and others hold your past over your head! We ALL make mistakes and what's done is DONE! Learn your lesson well and move on!
@-ShootTheGlass-
@-ShootTheGlass- 2 жыл бұрын
sometimes it’s so bad it’s impossible to move on completely
@johnlewandowski8624
@johnlewandowski8624 2 жыл бұрын
@@-ShootTheGlass- I'm not sure about that! Pray about it and keep on keeping on! If it's really traumatic or heart-breaking, it may take longer; but time is the best healer!
@boadicea5856
@boadicea5856 3 жыл бұрын
Number three is very important: Toxic People. It may take awhile to figure it out, but once you do run, run as fast as you can away from that person.
@libelulal6258
@libelulal6258 3 жыл бұрын
Queen Boudica, you’re so right. Toxic people are often wounded souls with broken ego and full of insecurities looking for some one to step on to feel better about themselves. Running away from them is the best option. Best wishes.
@ancoisnaude4087
@ancoisnaude4087 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, keep in mind💛🙏
@karenaltman6854
@karenaltman6854 3 жыл бұрын
Born free we are years pass and lots of negativity comes about that we must overcome in order to be a happy person thank you for the information
@brendawilliams8715
@brendawilliams8715 3 жыл бұрын
Always flush toxic people out of your life. Sometimes it can be a sibling, if they have been bringing you down for years, you have to let go.
@440SPN
@440SPN 3 жыл бұрын
Leaving an abusive sibling was just as bad as a pain filled divorce. 😭😭😭
@jazzyjazz9872
@jazzyjazz9872 3 жыл бұрын
My mum's 2nd family
@louieray1027
@louieray1027 3 жыл бұрын
Music 🎶 makes me happy 😃
@britthopgood
@britthopgood 3 жыл бұрын
Man I have let go of everything ...Now time to get back what God has to give me ... XOX 😇❤️🙏 XOX
@fionagregory9147
@fionagregory9147 Жыл бұрын
Do what you want as long as it is legal, decent, honest and truthful.
@toniraeatchley525
@toniraeatchley525 3 жыл бұрын
Put myself first in the way of boundaries self worth values beliefs. I am in control of my happiness it is what I tolerate
@honeydate
@honeydate Жыл бұрын
I prioritise relationships above material gain.
@marlak4253
@marlak4253 3 жыл бұрын
What do I need to let go of to be happier? Good question. Going to give this some thought. Thank u. 😊
@leemarierodriguez
@leemarierodriguez 3 жыл бұрын
The most important thing is believe in yourself, love yourself and be kind and love your friends and your enemies. Just be you and never compare yourself neither competence with others. ☺️😊👍🇵🇷
@SigmaAlpha3295
@SigmaAlpha3295 3 жыл бұрын
Lifting weights makes me happy everyday 🏋🏻💪🏻
@richiesaesthetics2984
@richiesaesthetics2984 3 жыл бұрын
You are enough just as you are
@someonesomeone25
@someonesomeone25 3 жыл бұрын
Yet I am not happy. I want things I dont have.
@richiesaesthetics2984
@richiesaesthetics2984 3 жыл бұрын
@@someonesomeone25 key to self enlightenment is meditation be grateful for the things u have work hard for the things u want communicate with god thru Jesus dramatically ya life will change.
@someonesomeone25
@someonesomeone25 3 жыл бұрын
@@richiesaesthetics2984 Im.sorry, but none of those things have helped me.
@richiesaesthetics2984
@richiesaesthetics2984 3 жыл бұрын
@@someonesomeone25 snort some coke, smoke a blunt, shoot some heroin get lit
@richiesaesthetics2984
@richiesaesthetics2984 3 жыл бұрын
@@someonesomeone25 hope that help u a little
@MrSa458
@MrSa458 3 жыл бұрын
You know I use to think I wasn't good enough because of my past,but I let that go now I'm a lot happier since I did that.
@svetlanabarrow6026
@svetlanabarrow6026 3 жыл бұрын
And what happened to you in the past that made you such awful person to think like this about yourself?
@MrSa458
@MrSa458 3 жыл бұрын
I'd rather not say
@svetlanabarrow6026
@svetlanabarrow6026 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrSa458 почему ты не хочешь говорить об этом?
@MrSa458
@MrSa458 3 жыл бұрын
@@svetlanabarrow6026 ????
@svetlanabarrow6026
@svetlanabarrow6026 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrSa458 ??? Эти восклицательные знаки были написаны английском вариантом 🤣🤣
@rafybj1981
@rafybj1981 3 жыл бұрын
I love this videos, thank you for the eye opening information
@meha1233
@meha1233 3 жыл бұрын
I have to change my job that’s the only obstacle making me being unhappy
@nia6849
@nia6849 3 жыл бұрын
Same here. When I change my career I will be happy.
@someonesomeone25
@someonesomeone25 3 жыл бұрын
I hate all jobs.
@vanessadraper4152
@vanessadraper4152 3 жыл бұрын
Change it ASAP And blessings will flow🙏🏽
@MadaraUchiha-ly8wr
@MadaraUchiha-ly8wr 3 жыл бұрын
I hate my job, but I still got it because I'm good at it. I need help😵😖
@adrianasilitonga7335
@adrianasilitonga7335 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you.. Been stuck in this 'thing' much much too long
@satishg5538
@satishg5538 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊, I needed this
@richiesaesthetics2984
@richiesaesthetics2984 3 жыл бұрын
Pride is the name of the demon that makes u feel that way
@mariaknoll1117
@mariaknoll1117 3 жыл бұрын
I have a boyfriend that let pride ruined our relationship. I have told him his pride was much greater than his love for me. I left him a year go.
@charlescoryn9614
@charlescoryn9614 3 жыл бұрын
Cling to life..... cling to each day, expand each moment until there is no past nor future there is only now. Then summon up all that is within you, all your powers of knowing and understanding, and Be Here Now!
@emiliavarga1866
@emiliavarga1866 3 жыл бұрын
The problem is that I cannot let go of the toxic person around me, however I'd like to
@Thailova
@Thailova 3 жыл бұрын
Just do it!
@Janelonghorn2
@Janelonghorn2 3 жыл бұрын
@@Thailova not when you have to depend on them😩🥺
@libelulal6258
@libelulal6258 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you feel trapped. Think out of the box and find 3 options of how to liberate yourself. Then pick one and do it without looking back. Best wishes.
@toonkip740
@toonkip740 3 жыл бұрын
Of course you can don't wait for them to break you before I thought I cannot let them go and now I have so much peace with myself I don't hear anymore nonsense gossip lies jealous I feel good to be alone no stress
@mcdonnell-douglasdc-1087
@mcdonnell-douglasdc-1087 3 жыл бұрын
Your emotions are in your brain. Not in your heart. Remember this, to be happy.
@preciousmahogany516
@preciousmahogany516 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@quantumpotential7639
@quantumpotential7639 3 жыл бұрын
Delighted to see you thankful. That's good. 👍
@maureenlee9118
@maureenlee9118 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice.👍
@jonathanbaker7854
@jonathanbaker7854 3 жыл бұрын
Your right. Very true and correct.ℹ️💯✅❤️✝️🙏🏿📖🗡👊🏿👌🏿👍🏿🥷☯️😎
@Honestandtruth007
@Honestandtruth007 3 жыл бұрын
This is Great Video 👍👍👍 Pride Insecurity Toxic people Kill our desire to the Best or Rich Overcome Greed And Focus on Family and Love 👍👍❤️
@Libradad
@Libradad 3 жыл бұрын
Stop running from fear/pain Stop chasing Success. 2 sides of the same coin. Life happens. Walk through both moments and learn. I stayed open to the lesson and stumbled onto SERENITY
@garrettzwar4369
@garrettzwar4369 2 жыл бұрын
This is a really great list
@Rebmetpes4
@Rebmetpes4 3 жыл бұрын
Your best days are the fact you made it to and through the day and giving thanksgiving for everything that happened no matter what! 1 Thessalonians 5:18!
@pharxahghxst3654
@pharxahghxst3654 2 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this
@Deronstillgrinding
@Deronstillgrinding 3 ай бұрын
Life is short be happy
@melsymeliany323
@melsymeliany323 3 жыл бұрын
Yupp thanks!
@lizdoherty4720
@lizdoherty4720 3 жыл бұрын
So much refers to me r thanks I wish I had a copy to keep it
@augustinekola9402
@augustinekola9402 3 жыл бұрын
This message resonate completely
@svetlanabarrow6026
@svetlanabarrow6026 3 жыл бұрын
Not to be abused will bring me happiness. And everything else is a bonus.
@howardcoles3537
@howardcoles3537 3 жыл бұрын
Svetlana Barrow. I think it is best not to put up with anyone else if they are no good for you. I know it's easier said than done. Very few people like being alone but I think that is preferable to a bad relationship. As George Washington is supposed to have said " It's better to be alone than in bad company ". I think that's true.
@svetlanabarrow6026
@svetlanabarrow6026 3 жыл бұрын
@@howardcoles3537 так я и не с тобой. Никогда не была и никогда не буду. Это ты ко мне привязался . Ты достал меня уже, отвали. Я не хочу постоянно страдать. И когда ты меня развращал и насиловал при поддержке всех других актёров у меня не было выбора потому что я не знала о твоём существовании и меня никто не поддерживал и оберегал.
@FlameLegend100
@FlameLegend100 Жыл бұрын
It's important to be happy. Leads to good health.😁👍.
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